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lol the myopic views of women so many dudes have in this subreddit is wild. No wonder yall obsess so much about women, you’re somehow both terrible with women and also understand them on such a deep level that you truly believe your nonsense opinions. If you actually understood them, you wouldn’t spend so much time trying to figure out how to get them to be attracted to you and would actually be spending time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:47 PM
1

For a dude to meet a partner from just living their life, they have to be a certain level of attractive. I think a fair decider would be asking a guy when was the last time a stranger of the sex you’re attracted to, gave you a compliment about your looks. It’s true that the majority of men are very compliment deprived. Whenever I see threads or articles about how few men ever receive compliments, I feel kind of bad. It’s rare for me to go through a week in which I’m out and about that I won’t ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:41 PM
2

Yeah…alcoholism doesn’t discriminate and plenty of short and ugly dudes end up happily married. Not being willing to develop a personality and hobbies that are interesting to a partner is nobodies fault but their own. Society doesn’t owe you a relationship, no wonder you’re alone, blame everything but yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:10 PM
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To say most men know if they’ll marry a woman very early is just insane and not based in reality. And I had no desire in finding a Disney princess. I wanted a partner in everything who I was attracted to inside and out. But of course looks matter, that’s a big part of attraction, especially at first
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:50 AM
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Holy shit dude, there’s 4 billion women on earth, you’re acting like they’re a single being who all act the same. Seriously, leave your little manosphere section of the internet. Just as many women have casual sex as those that don’t. Guys are the same. You need to leave the internet and start interacting with humans man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:19 PM
3

Dude I have 2 ugly friends. They’re not good looking. They’re not in shape, in fact they’re quite out of shape. But they are absolutely hilarious and incredibly confident when interacting with women. They have always gotten a fair amount of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:17 PM
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I mean, we don’t know you chief. But it’s likely that you come across as deeply insecure, which is undeniable based on the questions you keep asking. Painting yourself as a victim because women haven’t wanted to sleep with you is so incredibly unattractive. Because women aren’t the issue, you are. Whether that’s your looks, your personality or your views on relationships, we don’t have enough info to know why, but we know that’s how it’s played out. Try taking some responsibility instead of blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:14 PM
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lol whatever you say chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:52 AM
3

Oh I agree completely. They’re not actually rational. They sure believe they are tho
/r/ExRedPill16/10/25 03:46 PM
0

Just because you’re shit at reading social clues doesn’t change that they do indeed let you know. And the anger you expressed about a hippy chick being flirty is wild. People are allowed to be flirty without wanting you dude, chill the fuck out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:08 PM
9

They are very emotional but don’t have the self awareness or skill set to acknowledge those emotions, figure out where and why you’re having them and dealing with them in a healthy manor
/r/ExRedPill12/10/25 12:29 PM
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Dude what world do you live in? I’ve been around for nearly 40 years and cannot say I’ve ever run into women claiming men are gross for wanting sex and I’ve spent some time around some hard core feminists. I’ve lived all over the stat3s and travelled the world and in the real world, this doesn’t exist. Maybe in some hardcore church circles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:09 PM
2

lol doesn’t change anything for the type of women who frequent nightclubs. Which I’m completely good on those types of women. They were fun when I went through that phase tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:38 AM
35

If you can’t handle rejection, no matter how it’s phrased, you shouldn’t be asking people out. You’re not mentally ready
/r/ExRedPill04/10/25 04:34 AM
20

Deal with it dude. It’s not condescending, it’s a safety thing for them.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/25 04:32 AM
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I disagree on diminishing returns after being kinda fit. The diminishing returns are after youre considered fit. Anything beyond fit, the people who notice and care are almost exclusively other men. But up until that point, the results are undeniable. I’ve been fat, kinda fit, insanely fit and then just maintained being in good/great shape. Being in good/great shape is where the most return occurred
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:26 PM
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What does a friend group finding out who you are instantly turn multiple women away? Like what sort of reputation do you have in this community for that to be real? Confused what that has to do with neurodivergent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:55 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:11 AM
2

What the fuck? Mens sexual appetites aren’t “insatiable ever regenerating force that needs lots of self sacrifice” like that’s not the real world chief. If that’s how you feel internally about sex, you need a therapist, not a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:29 PM
1

Dude this sounds like precisely one person said this to you and you’re acting like that’s normal. It’s not. That person just sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:43 PM
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Never understood this, been attracted to older women my entire life. As I’ve gotten older, it’s been wonderful
/r/ExRedPill25/08/25 12:49 PM
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You’re still very clearly red pilled, just based on your word selection alone. Removing yourself from this communities is a good first step but it’s gotta come down to mindset. You’re obsessed with getting a woman to like you and desperation looks good on no one. Working on your self is the solution, just not in the way you’ve been doing it. Listening to toxic advice for extended periods of time means it will take a long time to reprogram your brain. Work on yourself not to get a woman but to be…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/25 02:20 PM
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No need to wonder, you’re witnessing how truly dumb it is
/r/ExRedPill25/04/25 12:12 PM
1

lol nope, still 9/10 times guy approaches first. Just far more receptive to it and successful
/r/seduction20/04/25 02:24 PM
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lol
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 07:01 PM
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“I don’t make out with girls at bars” but want to take them home. Well a good first step is getting past whatever blocker is preventing you from simply kissing in public. It’s not a big deal but whatever insecurity you have is preventing you from your goal. Nobody wants to bang some timid person afraid of kissing in public like a child
/r/seduction14/12/24 11:13 AM
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lol what a dipshit opinion. “Don’t listen to your target audience”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:58 PM
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“Men are almost universally sick of women’s entitlement and delusion” yeah buddy, maybe leave your little manosphere. Men who are actually secure with themselves don’t view women that way. Only you losers who blame your lack of success on women instead of yourself. Maybe do some work on yourself instead of complaining into the void that it’s just not fair they don’t like you. Or just keep thinking women are the problem and keep getting the same results
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:47 AM
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Dude amber heard was dragged over the coals on Reddit, what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:40 AM
2

Being in a small town, the odds of meeting a childfree single in person is incredibly low, he’ll even in a big one. Because that’s not something you ask someone within the first few minutes of meeting. The internet is by far the easiest way to meet fellow childfree folks. It’s how my wife and I met because it’s so easy to screen for before ever actually meeting. It’s incredibly hard to meet someone organically in a small town, let alone someone who goes against the norm and wants to be child fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:29 PM
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Dude, get a hobby. All of this time spent on this subject just seems pointless. Don’t blame your issues with women on society or women as a whole. Life’s far more nuanced than that and relationships even more so. Maybe get some interests and hobbies that will allow you to meet women you have things in common with instead of treating them like some monolith to study and put on a pedestal. They’re just humans with different parts than you
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 05:25 PM
2

A middle aged man going through a midlife crisis is in a similar headspace as a lost 19 or 20 year old. Logic isn’t exactly at the forefront. Looking in the mirror and realizing he’s closer to death than the fun and carefree days of youth can have very odd effects on some dudes, such as getting into manosphere bullshit
/r/ExRedPill19/04/24 03:27 PM
1

Super easy, leave her alone. The juice is not worth the squeeze
/r/seduction20/02/24 02:40 PM
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I’ve always had no problem expressing my vulnerability to the women I’ve dated. Maybe because outside of those times I’m best described as stoic but I’ve always been told by my partners that they truly appreciate it when I share those things. They’ve held me when I cried, relaxed me when I’m angry, cheered me up when I’m sad and just listened when that’s all I need. Always had a lot of friends who are women as well and nearly all of them truly appreciate the men they date being vulnerable. Those…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:35 PM
2

You’re just not very bright. Using the women who date players is not a group to base your entire view of women on. Water finds it level and all. They date players because they’re also players. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:06 PM
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You’re massively exaggerating how many grown women even know what red pill men on YouTube are. Just making shit up. Women in their 30s and 40s have had unrealistic beauty standards shoved down their throats since the 80s and 90s. It was normal and casual at the time. It’s deeply ingrained and hard to forget when it was completely normal in their formative years. Some dorks on YouTube have nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:29 PM
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I mean, it’s clearly you who hadn’t met any players. Your entire post is about women being players, not men. You can’t even stick to a single idea. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:20 PM
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Not an opinion, just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:01 PM
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You have to be fucking joking dude. Men are the original keeping other women on the back burners. Women just finally started doing it themselves. Quit lying to yourself, both sexes are equally as guilty of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:09 PM
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Lol what a nonsensical response. No shit it takes 2 to tango chief. And it’s very easy to hide any red flags when you start talking to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:13 PM
1

When I’ve been single I sure did, it’s not bragging bud, it’s acknowledging reality. Just because it’s hard for you doesn’t mean it is for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:32 PM
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Lol that’s bullshit, when I was single I used more women for sex than I can count. You’re simply playing semantics. I enjoyed the chase and the flirting and then after sex, immediately lost interest. So I used my interest and flirting abilities to get laid and then bail. Doesn’t matter what sort of mental gymnastics you try, that’s using someone for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:25 PM
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This has nothing to do with women. I’m a dude, I’ve lost complete interest in women for the smallest reasons, for the most superficial and silly of reasons. Like a lot of times over the years. A lot of times once we’d slept together a time or two but not always. Just because some woman stopped talking to you and lost interest out of the blue doesn’t mean it’s something all women do. It’s something all people do. If you struggle to get dates I can see why it would be so upsetting but that’s just …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:54 PM
2

Therapy dude. Fucking therapy. This is so unhinged and unrealistic.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 07:48 PM
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Is your life really so unfulfilled that this bothers you so much? It says you’re 31 but your attitude screams 13
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:56 PM
1

The younger version of myself before I got my act together, 100% would never date. But the version of myself that I am today and have been for 6 or 7 years, id for sure date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:01 PM
2

The subset of men who actually believe all that red pill bullshit about women is at most 1/3 but likely even less. Normal dudes recognize all of their beliefs are made up bullshit that lonely ass dudes repeat over and over because instead of realizing that they’re the reason they have no luck with women, they decide that can’t be true and blame the women. It’s just sad and lonely dudes giving advice to other sad and lonely dudes
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 06:45 PM
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A number of the things you listed are just straight up false and things that dudes with no personality, skills or interesting hobbies believe because it’s easier than accepting that the reason they have trouble dating is because of themselves. I used to be a horrible drug addict and alcoholic, who was always broke, worked shit jobs and a petty criminal. I had no problem attracting very attractive women who by all accounts were slumming it with me. Then I got my shit together, went back to school…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 08:36 PM
1

My god so many people in here are so full of shit and generalizations. Why is it only red pill morons comment on these things with their made up nonsense
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 03:29 PM
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I can’t believe there are people who actually fall for those things.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 05:23 PM
0

Bunch of lame dudes in here who think all women somehow share the same personality. Maybe, just maybe if every woman you talk to has a “cardboard” personality, it means you’re not interesting or attractive enough for them to bother showing you who they are. I know more guys with cardboard personalities than women, who’s entire personality is either video games or sports fandom. If everyone you meet is boring to you, maybe you’re the boring one who brings nothing of interest to talk about.
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 01:17 PM
1

Just because you say it doesn’t make it true. Your anecdotal experience says that’s true, mine says that’s false. Tons of women like casual sex just as there are tons of men who don’t. Funny how you didn’t argue with the statement you don’t have much experience with casual sex while I do. Just some guy who has an opinion not based in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:26 AM
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Lol I do understand, I’ve lived as a man with tons of guy and girl friends for 35 years. I’ve had a whole lot of casual sex. And since I understand it on a fundamental level, I will insult the post because it’s just bullshit and trying to sound like an intellectual. It’s comes off as the musing of a person with limited real world experience in this area and someone who has been made fun of for your wants. Sometimes, wants need to be hidden, especially in the sexual arena. It takes two to tango a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:54 PM
1

I think you saying most men would have completely unattached sex as if it is a fact is so damn silly. There’s no way you can verify that and is a gross oversimplification. The fact you care enough to write up this strange opinion is weird as hell. I’ve known tons of dudes who don’t like casual sex. Just like I’ve met tons of girls who love it. This post is nonsense and I feel dumber having read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:00 AM
1

Seeing as every single person has different physical needs, not as easy to answer. But typically someone who takes care of themselves and puts atleast a bit of thought into how they dress and are hygienic. Nobody wants a lazy fat slob who is greasy and smelly who dressss like they’re in middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:44 PM
1

To feel supported, to feel heard, to feel wanted, to feel safe and comfortable and to be loved. It’s not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:09 PM
1

The only men who are constantly misinformed listen to people like Andrew Tate who fill there heads with bullshit. Everyone else has a pretty clear understanding of what a woman is looking for in a partner. We shouldn’t cater to the lowest denominators.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:59 PM
2

No it’s not,if someone isn’t in the mood to have sex, then they don’t have sex. Nothing wrong about it. What is wrong with you, thinking marriage means ownership. That’s so fucked up.
/r/AllPillDebate19/11/22 04:00 PM
2

Yea no shit, but if one person in a marriage doesn’t want to have sex and says no but the other person has sex with them anyhow, that’s rape. Are you truly this dense
/r/AllPillDebate18/11/22 10:42 PM
2

I love how going on vacation to have sex with foreigners is creepy to you but that going there to get a wife not with love but with money and promises of America isn’t creepy to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:48 PM
1

Lookism? You need to get off the internet. In the real world nobody has an issue with the fact people want to be attracted physically to their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:50 PM
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Your anecdotal observations don’t mean a thing. It’s also strange how much thought you’ve put into this. Let people live their life, personality matters more than looms long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:38 PM
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An incredibly small amount of women are ok with a sugar daddy relationship. Christ this sub has warped opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:37 PM
1

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:49 AM
1

Actually they consent to being a mom when they decide they want to have a child. If they get pregnant and don’t want a child, they have an abortion because it’s their life and they’re the ones who have to raise it. What other people do with their bodies is the business of nobody else.
/r/AllPillDebate16/11/22 06:11 PM
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Actually they aren’t. Spousal rape is a very real thing. Absolutely nobody is entitled to sex. Takes 2 consenting parties.
/r/AllPillDebate16/11/22 06:09 PM
1

And not everyone wants a baby. That’s my nightmare. I have a laundry list of reasons I don’t have or want kids and zero reasons why I would want them. Easy decision for me and my partner. And who the fuck are you to tell me what’s wrong and right in my sex life. Get bent.
/r/AllPillDebate16/11/22 06:08 PM
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I try and they call me a cuck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:55 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:05 PM
2

That’s rich coming from someone with the opinion you’ve expressed here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:00 PM
1

…they’re married. Of course they’re fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:11 PM
-1

Doesn’t change the reality that I personally know multiple fat women that can’t get laid and they put themselves out there. Just because lonely guys say it here doesn’t make it real
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:55 PM
1

Lol ok bud
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:54 PM
2

It’s not a need for anyone. It’s a want. A carnal one for sure but still a want. You die without needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:54 PM
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Disgusting? The fucks the matter with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:12 PM
5

…that’s because it doesn’t exist. Each man who is sexless has to do the necessary emotional and physical work needed to become an attractive partner. That’s if, that’s the solution. You can’t force attraction. So you need to become the best version of yourself to try and attract someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:54 PM
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Sex isn’t needed. True connections with other humans is what’s needed for mental health and sex doesn’t guarantee that by any stretch of the imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:48 PM
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Lonliness and not getting laid aren’t the same thing. People lacking human connection are lonely. People lacking sex are just sexless. There’s been times in my life when things got dark and I still had multiple casual sexual partners during the dark periods. And getting laid didn’t change the soul crushing lonliness I’d been feeling because sex doesn’t equal making a meaningful connection. It’s an hour or two that’s enjoyable and then they leave and you’re alone again because getting laid doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:46 PM
4

Sex is not a need for men either. There’s no compromises needed when it comes to sex an attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:43 PM
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Someone making a person wait when what they’re after is a relationship is entirely normal. Judging how someone acted when they wanted casual sex vs when they want an actual relationship is comparing apples and oranges. When I’ve been single and dating around, there were all sorts of first dates where we both just wanted sex that we slept together on the first date. There’s also been many times where we both wanted a relationship so waited a few weeks to have sex to build more of an emotional con…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:40 PM
3

Generic works just fine you condescending dunce
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:36 PM
3

Psych meds, hormonal issues, depression, weight gain, are all things that can cause a 22 year old to be tired all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:35 PM
0

Wait, you use spit when masturbating? That’s so bizarre. Only time spit touches my penis is during actual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:33 PM
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Being fat is absolutely a deterrent from having sex. It’s much easier for in shape folks to get laid than those who are overweight, which is by definition a deterrent. It doesn’t completely stop anyone from getting laid but it definitely makes the pool of those who would be willing much smaller that fatter someone gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:32 PM
2

They’re not just physically unattractive if they literally can’t get a single woman to sleep with them. It means their personality is also ugly or creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:30 PM
2

Lol women aren’t supposed to solve it. The problem is with those men who make the lack of sex their entire personality. It’s entirely their problem. If they’ve made it to adulthood and haven’t attracted a single woman to sleep with them, it’s because they’re either physically or emotionally unattractive. You can’t force women to sleep with men who don’t have any redeeming attractive qualities. The onus is on the men to do the necessary work to become the most attractive version of themselves. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:29 PM
2

Nope. Just a clump of cells. The fetus isn’t a human until it’s born and breathing on its own. So yea, abortion is 100% effective at not having kids.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 04:14 PM
1

You do know that another fool proof way to not have a kid is to have an abortion right?
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 04:04 PM
1

Not sure it’s a language barrier, more like an intelligence issue.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 03:49 PM
1

Lol “if she doesn’t want a baby but still wants to have sex then we are entitled to rape her” your opinion is so fucking gross.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 03:48 PM
0

You do realize it’s possible to want to have sex without wanting a baby right? Sex is amazing. Having a baby is not. Sex for procreation is not the only reason to do it and your incel arguments are gross.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 03:40 PM
0

You’re logic is so ridiculously dumb. They’re entitled to abortions because it’s their fucking body. Just like you’re entitled to have weight loss surgery or hair implants. It’s your body, so you get to do what you want with it as long as it does not affect others. Which news flash, a women having an abortion has no affect on you or anyone else.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 03:38 PM
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That logic doesn’t make any sense. People who have sex are entitled to decide if they want a child or not. People not having sex have no right to claim anything, as nobody wants to have sex with them because you can’t force people to have sex with you. It’s a shit comparison and isn’t logical at all.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 03:23 PM
1

Lol that doesn’t demonstrate a damn thing. Women are entitled to a abortions as they’re the ones who have to incubate a child and then be a mom. It’s not nearly the same thing as saying men are entitled to sex. No one is entitled to tell others what to do with their own body autonomy
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 03:21 PM
2

Actually, you did. Seeing as it’s in your initial statement.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 03:13 PM
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Everyone who has sex deserves consequence free sex. But absolutely no one is entitled to sex with another person. Not when you’re single and also not when you’re married. What a gross statement you just made.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 03:12 PM
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As a different guy, this couldn’t be further from the truth than my experience. 95% of the time in my dating life me being vulnerable and talking about insecurities has been met with support and understanding
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 03:10 PM
1

Your dipshit opinion is the best you could come up with? Pathetic. Just because you can’t get casual sex doesn’t mean it isn’t easy for other guys. Stop being so jealous that some people can get sex easily and you can’t, it’s a bad look.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:54 PM
7

Every single guy with a dog does this. Nothing groundbreaking about using your dog to pickup women.
/r/seduction28/09/22 07:08 PM
0

Yea going to disagree here. Most of those dudes wouldn’t be considered dad bods. They’re simply healthy dudes who aren’t overly muscular, see tons of guys with those bodies happily married or in relationships no matter what part of the world I’ve been in. And it’s almost always guys who hold other guys to these current days superhero body standards. Definitely not women who are leading that movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:01 PM
2

Ass flatter than a 2x4
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/22 01:03 PM
2

Just because they were married when the gift was give doesn’t mean she has the right to take it back. Once the gift was given, she no longer owns it. It’s his to do with as he pleases
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/22 01:02 PM
0

Guys who actually care about a womens body count are either incredibly insecure or haven’t had the chance themselves to sleep with a lot of people. I’m a guy with a very high count and I’ve never given the slightest thought about what my partners is. I simply don’t care and it would be incredibly hypocritical of me if I did. What someone did with their sex life before we dated is their business. I’ve never even asked a woman what their number is because it doesn’t mean anything to me. I’ve alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:20 PM
1

100% no, sounds awful to be with a virgin. No experience, no tricks they’ve learned, sounds awful and taking someone virginity, no thanks. That creates a weird dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:33 AM
1

100% no. I would never marry a virgin, sexual compatibility is important to me. Experience and having some tricks up their sleeve sexually is sexy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:31 AM
1

Did you really just include a 1/4” of height? Are you 4 years old? I’m not 4, I’m 4 and 1/4!!
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:15 AM
-2

I mean, a fucked up set of teeth really looks horrible. Fixing that makes sense. All crooked and discolored is gross
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:12 AM
2

I’m a dude, and I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3.5 years. Neither of us see the point of marriage. Never having kids and seems pointless to get the government involved in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:27 PM
5

It’s not a contest!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:26 PM
6

That’s not a lot at all. I’ve had particularly slutty months where I slept with that many women in a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:13 PM
6

Not at all. When I’ve been single I’m a major slut, I can honestly say I don’t know my count, I just know when I stopped counting. When I meet someone who I want to be in a relationship with, I become completely about them. Never want to stray or anything like that. There’s single me and relationship me and they behave very differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:11 PM
2

To form a lifelong relationship it should be very limiting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:39 PM
2

Settling is accepting something despite it not being what you wanted for whatever reason. Would be a much smaller percentage than the percentage of people who are stuck in relationship they hate but refuse to leave because they’re afraid for whatever reason to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:52 PM
3

Who gives a shit, it’s all meaningless. Leaving a legacy means nothing when we will go extinct one day. What you ancestors did doesn’t mean a damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:50 PM
1

Not really, then it’s just a more complicated process of breaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:39 PM
0

And it’s fine to settle for things in literally any area of life but romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:38 PM
-2

That’s simply not true. Go ahead though, enjoy settling for things in life. I’d rather be single than settle for someone who doesn’t drive me wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:18 PM
1

Not for men who just focus on bogus statistics and blame everyone but themselves for their dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:16 PM
4

Leave a legacy? Our human lives are a barely even a blip on the radar in the big picture. The world was here long before humans evolved and it’ll be here a long time after we go extinct. There is no leaving a legacy, that’s just something people tell themselves because they can’t deal with the futility of life. It’s delusional to think anything we do in our lives will create a lasting impact or add to your legacy. Everyone and everything will eventually be forgotten. That should be liberating, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:13 PM
10

no one in life should settle when it comes to romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:08 PM
1

80%? You’re absolutely delusional. 70% of the adult population of the world is either married or in a relationship. You’re conflating things for be a much bigger deal than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:05 PM
1

Must be annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:58 PM
2

I mean, if they were a Venn diagram, it would essentially be 2 overlapping circles. Red pill is the gateway to alt right. Bunch of insecure dudes with outdated views an inferiority complexes who can’t figure out why women don’t like them when it’s their toxic outlook on the world and shitty personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:27 PM
1

Nice. Do you overanalyze everything in life like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:06 PM
6

They already have, a whole lot of pointless deaths.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 04:04 PM
1

Your statement has absolutely no context and makes zero sense without it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:37 PM
1

Jesus if you can’t understand how that is toxic and wrong then there’s no hope in trying to explain why that is. You’re too far down whatever rabbit hole got you thinking that way. Out of curiosity, do you consider a man a slut if he has sex before marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:53 PM
2

You literally said women who have sex before marriage are sluts. That’s a very toxic statement and mindset. That’s not even going into all the other dumb shit you said in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:10 PM
0

That’s just an ignorant view on relationships. Sexual compatibility is very important to a healthy relationship. Can be connected in literally every other way and if no sexual connection exists, the relationship is more than likely doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:52 PM
2

Sure bud, because handsome guys who girls want totally have the toxic views you hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:50 PM
3

You weirdos come up with the strangest labels for people and put far too much faith in the whole alpha/beta nonsense which has been disproved repeatedly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:43 PM
1

Are you gay or do you just worry all the time about every possibility in life? AIDS is incredibly rare in heterosexual people who aren’t IV drug users. I’ve been fortunate enough to have a lot of sexual partners in my life and have never once waited 3 months, let alone six to have sex. Honestly the longest I’ve waited was like 2 weeks. Not going to waste months of my time only to find out we don’t have a physical connection
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:42 PM
3

…because many people want an emotional connection before they have sex with someone. You clearly need to go experience the real world a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:38 PM
3

Lol get that uptight bullshit out of here. You come across as someone who’s never even kissed a girl so decide to call all women sluts because you’re salty they’ve never wanted to touch you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:36 PM
5

Gonna be a hard disagree for me. People in their early 20s look like children usually and that grosses me out. I’ve always preferred older women. Gets me going.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:34 PM
0

?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:32 PM
1

Y’all basement dwellers love to throw out stats that are meaningless to support your immature views on the world and relationships. Correlation does not equal causation bud. Birth rates are declining because having children is incredibly expensive and we live in an increasingly hostile world because of climate change and overpopulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:52 PM
4

I mean apparently takes enough IQ as all you red pillers love to say how most men feel this or that way when in reality it is a very small number who agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:49 PM
1

Have you ever left your little corner of the internet? I cannot believe you use white knight and simp non ironically. Viewing women the same way I view men isn’t some white knight. It called being a human with empathy and compassion. And my fair lady doesn’t need defended, she can do that herself as she’s incredibly successful and world renowned in her field. But I wouldn’t expect someone as insecure as yourself to be able to handle such a relationship that doesn’t conform to your outdated views…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:34 PM
0

oh how will I ever recover, a guy with extremely toxic outlooks on men and women called me a simp. Oh that’s right, I’m secure with who I am and don’t judge women for the exact same promiscuous behavior I’ve exhibited while single. So enjoy your keyboard soapbox of insecurity while I actually get laid and have a meaningful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:22 PM
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Jesus Christ you are full of shit bud. There’s literally no difference between a man with a high count and a woman. Just because you’re insecure doesn’t mean any of the bullshit you posted is valid. Most guys would say the same thing as me, the only place you’ll find people agreeing with that word salad of bullshit is in tiny sections of the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:03 PM
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That’s a personal problem bud. I have a very high count. I’ve gone through multiple slutty phases while single so who am I to judge a woman for doing the same? What hypocritical bullshit that would be. Plus sex is way more enjoyable with a partner who knows what they like and has some tricks up their sleeves to pull out in the bedroom. Just because you’re so insecure you feel a gross reaction doesn’t make it valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:39 PM
10

Whenever I read these dudes opinions in here I’m like oh Jesus Christ, they’re so stuck in their echo chamber that they can’t believe a lot of guys have very different experiences with women than the common bullshit that’s spouted in here regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:36 PM
4

I was like absolutely not can everyone be a 7. Some people are just unfortunately ugly as hell. No amount of confidence or success makes a 3 a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:49 PM
1

A lot of your points are good but everyone cannot be a 7 with effort. No amount of confidence or success changes that some people are just very unattractive physically no matter how awesome their personality is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:48 PM
1

Lol ok bud
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 12:05 PM
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Your flair is “RED AF” there is nothing I can say to you that you will take seriously. You’re so far down the rabbit hole of bullshit that you’re proud about being a small minded man with very outdated views on women and relationships. Leave your online echo chamber and maybe you’ll begin to see how toxic and brainwashed you are.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 11:54 AM
0

It’s so funny how people who use snowflake without any irony are always the biggest snowflakes. They’re shit personal views because they’re ignorant and reductionist. Being actually informed and having compassion doesn’t make them a snowflake, it’s makes them a good human, unlike the selfish and backwards views you and Gina believe in.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 11:37 AM
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It’s not a competition you muppet. Your anecdotal experience is not different, it’s all relative, from the one posted by the woman you responded to. I get complimented regularly by women and have since I was teenager, well over half my life. What was that about invisibility? See it works both ways. Not a competition, woman or man, we all have different lived experiences.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 10:59 AM
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Nah she has a manly face and shit personal views. Great body though.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 10:54 AM
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I’ve always been far more attracted to girls in theirs 30s and 40s than girls on their 20s. While the bodies of the 20 yr olds are incredibly hot, they just look so young I can’t really get turned on by it. Not my cup of tea. Hence why I’ve always dated older women. Experience in life is sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:11 PM
1

So what? People explore sexually to find out what they like. Sometimes you try something really kinky once and realize it’s not for you. Who cares what they’ve done in the past, I’ve certainly done my share of kinky things that ended up not being my cup of tea. I expect the same of my partner. We’re in our 30s when we met, we both have our own pasts and neither of us are insecure about it. Sorry you were to lame to get to experience that yourself. Not a reason to be salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:59 PM
2

You’re clearly too far gone to see the truth. Go ahead, continue complaining about women instead of changing what you can and see how that goes for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:28 PM
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Your generalizations about all women in fact do make you a shitty person. And majority of women aren’t hooking up with drug dealers and thugs. A small subset do that who are just very outspoken. Try going out into the real world instead of your online echo chambers and you would see that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:09 PM
1

My first statement was very clear, not my fault you can’t comprehend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:03 PM
0

Lol there’s no changing it so learn how to use what you have and move on. It’s not the end of the world and focusing on it like he is, is disturbing. Doesn’t make me feel bad for him in the slightest. Thems the breaks, life isn’t fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:45 PM
3

Jesus dude, get out of your head. You have an above average dick that makes your partners happy. You’re dick isn’t going to get bigger. Your obsession and though process is very weird. Also, a girls height has nothing to do with duck size preference lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:41 PM
2

Yea no shit it was your statement that was an admission. The use of the word admission has nothing to do with something being admitted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:55 AM
1

I worked in a nursing home in high school and on breaks from college. Amazed me how much they banged
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:36 AM
0

It’s disturbing how obsessed this guy is with dick size. Wreaks if insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:33 AM
1

Are you insecure about your penis size? You are up and down this thread asking about if it’s important or not. It’s not the only thing that makes sex great but size is certainly very important in quality of sex. Too big or too small can make for a bad experience for the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:32 AM
1

…because dick size effects the quality of sex, so it’s one of the reasons why it’s so good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:29 AM
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Because the question literally asked about best sex partner you muppet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:28 AM
2

I mean admitting it’s not a reflection of reality in certain circumstances in invalidates your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:05 AM
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So I was under the impression that this sub was invite only to keep dipshit things like this out of it. People change. She could be born again. She could have had sex young and after getting pregnant and left alone to not have sex until marriage. What a shitty post and not what I expected from this new sub
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 02:29 AM
2

67% of adults in the US are either married or cohabitating with a partner. By simple math that means not even close to a “vast majority”. So the remaining 33% means roughly 16% would be men. If every single one of them struggle with women as you say it isn’t even close to a vast majority as you claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:38 AM
2

Lol yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:31 AM
6

Lol that’s just not even close to true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:26 AM
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This dude arguing with you is so delusional. This dude could be super handsome but his shitty personality and outlook on life would turn most girls dry as the Sahara. So he comes here and spouts bullshit and blames women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:08 AM
2

You’re so fucking delusional bud
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:05 AM
2

Jesus Christ dude, social media is not a reflection of reality. It is so much different than the world. The fact you actually believe that would be funny if it wasn’t so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:03 AM
2

Women do not have lower sex drives lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:54 AM
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The vast majority of men do not have trouble getting women of equal or lesser attractiveness. That’s such an overstatement lol it’s a minority of men and they’re really loud about it in the echo chambers they dwell in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:44 AM
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By having travelled all over the world and seeing tons of short guys with significant others. Online makes it seem as if that’s a super rare thing but really it’s just the excuse a bunch of guys use to say why they have no luck with women.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 09:24 PM
1

The fuss is that poll you posted skews it so heavily compared to the real world.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 07:27 PM
1

Well I’m glad you tell him that. What weird things to have such strong opinions about. Sounds controlling.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 06:22 PM
1

I’m a dude in his 30s and Holy shit the number of men in these replies who support and agree with him is disturbing. He’s so full of shit and has such a fucked up and unhealthy outlook on life and on women. Y’all need to grow up and find better role models. He’s truly a piece of shit.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 06:20 PM
1

What a weird fucking thing for your husband to say.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 06:15 PM
1

Im a guy, I’ve gone through multiple hoe phases when I’ve been single. Have a very high count. Enjoying being single by having lots of casual sex, whether male or female, doesn’t change my opinion on someone. It’s fun to sleep around as a guy and I imagine the same is true for a girl. Not all men or women go through a hoe phase. It appeals to some and not to others and that a-ok.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 06:09 PM
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I mean I’ve read your replies in this thread and your outlook towards dating and women is gross. Going to say that’s the main reason why you have no luck. But sure, keep blaming your height.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 05:26 PM
1

I mean, a lot of red pilled dudes ruin every thread there because they spout bullshit that’s objectively false and overly generalized.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 05:22 PM
1

A random Instagram pole certainly isn’t it. You’re just seeking out data that validates your opinion with shit like that.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 05:18 PM
1

No it’s not. It’s what happens when you have no social skills or emotional intelligence and come off as creepy instead of flirty.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 05:13 PM
1

I’ve always been attracted to older women and know a lot of guys who are the same. My girlfriend is 6 years older than me and turns 40 in a few months. She’s sexy as hell. I would never consider dating someone under the age of 25. They’re so young and immature, no thanks.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 05:08 PM
1

Not really. Social media is far more guilty of that.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 04:49 PM
1

You spout so much bullshit in that wall of text. I’m in your age range and I’m exactly average height, I don’t have a 6 pack but I’m in great shape. I’m considered conventionally attractive by both men and women. I am not rich but make a comfortable living. But for most of my life I lived paycheck to paycheck. None of that ever prevented me from getting dates. I’m fortunate to have had a whole lot of luck with women when I’ve been single. It sounds like you’re just not good at talking to women i…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 04:46 PM
1

I really think this is age dependent. Seems younger guys are more likely to fall for that bullshit. I almost never hear that sort of thing in public and when I do, I call them out on their dumb opinions.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 04:38 PM
1

The issue with that is this isn’t an objective pole. Someone shallow posted it so likely has a bunch of shallow connections. That alone makes me take this with a major grain of salt because it’s simply not accurate or empirical by any stretch of the imagination.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 04:35 PM
1

No, I’m American and I am exactly average height. I’ve been fortunate enough to have a lot of luck with women in my life. I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve been rejected because of my height. I’ve gotten with girls taller than me and same height a number of times. My long term girlfriend is a half inch shorter than me and far more successful than I am. This is very over exaggerated online compared to how the real world actually is.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 04:33 PM
1

Bigoted for sure but there is zero mention of race.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 04:22 PM
3

Two of my oldest friends in the world are model attractive. But they’re awkward in front of girls and can’t flirt for shit. I’ve had far more luck with women than they have over our lives. Just because someone is attractive doesn’t mean they automatically know how to flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:04 AM
1

I wasn’t responding to you but to the OP’s comment on your post. Same, I learned early on the line between cockiness and confidence. The few times I ventured into cocky, the results weren’t great and I felt like a douche lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:21 PM
2

I can assure you confidence alone can get you very far. The issue is, knowing the line between confidence and cocky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:39 PM
0

When I was single, it always came very easy to me and I’ve never had to try very hard. I’m average height, keep myself in good shape and am considered conventionally handsome. More important than any of that, flirting has always come very easy to me and I can be quite charming when I want to. I’ve never subscribed to any of the pickup artist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:38 PM
2

I mean, nearly every hobby has meetups. Take a look at meetup.com || unblnd.com || eventbrite.com, search you local area for any meetup groups and attend ones that interest you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:17 PM
1

Then you happen to have girl friends who are super shallow. I also have a lot of girls in my life and maybe 1 out if 20 has a height rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:01 PM
1

Not a lie. I’m under that height and I can count on one hand how many times that has lead to someone rejecting me. Of course those profiles get posted online as it reinforces not taking responsibility for your dating difficulties because you can just point to that as the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:51 PM
1

Stop focusing on your height so much and viewing media that makes you feel insecure about it. I’m only 2 inches taller than you and it’s never been an issue for me and I’ve been fortunate to have had a lot of luck with women in my life when I’ve been single. I am passionate about a number of hobbies and that’s attractive to people. Work on yourself, become someone who you’d want to date and in my experience that leads to actual dates. No one’s wants to be with someone who just comes up with excu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:48 PM
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Lol they most certainly would dismiss it as that but that’s a recent change and over the course of my life I’ve been fortunate enough to get with a lot of women. Majority of the time I was broke as hell and not an ideal partner for a relationship but one helluva fun fling. Also the thing that stops that argument is that when I met my current girlfriend, she made triple my salary. She still makes like 50% more than me. Also, thanks for the compliments. Dating isn’t easy for anyone, sure getting d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:34 PM
1

See I think there’s a huge bias in relationship studies in that the majority of happy people who are in relationships or don’t mind being single would never even think to answer those questions. That’s why all that data needs to be taken with a serious grain of salt. Only miserable singles who blame everyone but themselves answer those questions that end up in the study. Then use that studies results to justify that it’s not them that’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:28 PM
1

Living in the real world and seeing tons of short dudes who are married with children. Or just out and about with their significant others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:04 PM
2

Precisely. I wasn’t always the most desirable of partners. I was immature, addicted to drugs and alcohol, didn’t have a good job for many years. Hadn’t found the hobbies that made me happy. I did a ton of therapy, got off drugs and booze, became a responsible adult, god training that allowed me to enter a lucrative field. Suddenly, I was far more appealing to the opposite sex. I’m conventionally good looking but being an immature addict who refuses to take responsibility for themselves is an att…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:42 PM
2

Exactly!! I read all these sob stories and angsty posts blaming women, or their height or some other dumb thing and it’s like you’re not blaming the one thing in this equation that makes sense, yourself. Your personality, your outlook, the way you talk are clearly unappealing but they still blame the women in the scenario. So dumb. Making gross generalizations about half the population because they’re shit at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:08 PM
2

I mean it’s just as easy to say woman in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:59 PM
1

Climbing and hiking groups, cooking classes, dance classes. Going to a gym that has workout classes and being a regular presence there. There’s multiple sites that have meetups for nearly any type of interest. Should check some out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:58 PM
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Personally, I don’t have an issue with it. But many, many women do. It’s a clinical/biological term. Checkout r/menandfemales to get a better understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:45 PM
3

Hobbies. Meet ups for activities you enjoy. Those are the two best ways to meet someone you have something in common with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:21 PM
3

How about just calling them women or girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:20 PM
3

Hitting on people in a club is such a low percentage game regardless of height. It’s too loud, there’s too many people. Leave the height off your profile then. The ones who care about it will ask, the normal folks who don’t, won’t. I’m 5’8 and I can count on one hand the number of times I got shut down because of my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:04 PM
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They certainly don’t ask guys out who refer to them as females
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:00 PM
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Oh my gosh what a played out trope. Most women truly don’t care about height. Internet echo chambers make you think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:50 PM
4

Just pulling stats out of your ass. Things have changed because you’ve gotten older and you’re a single dad. That’s what is getting you ignored not some cultural shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:49 PM
3

That’s just simply not true. I’ve rejected as many women in my life as those who’ve rejected me. A relationship is a partnership, both parties choose to be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:48 PM
3

Anime conventions, table top game gatherings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:47 PM
1

Lol speak for yourself. Myself and many guys I know would consider a month or two a serious dry spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:33 PM
2

There has always been a bunch of lonely young people. Only now, they can all congregate in an online echo chamber and that makes them think that this is the experience of everyone! When in reality most people have luck in the dating world but they don’t have the need to find an online group who is in the same boat because they’re happy. Unhappy people attract unhappy people and then it turns into a toxic environment where everyone is to blame but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:29 PM
1

You hate to chase because you’re bad at it or aren’t good looking enough. Or both.
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:35 PM
4

One of the biggest cliches in the world is fake it till you make it. Basically another way of saying practice being confident. Sometimes things are cliche because they’re true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:12 PM
4

Glad there’s some sanity in here. The woman’s unhappy, this had nothing to do with feminism. Clowns acting like this woman should be owned for life because of marriage. Sometimes, relationships just don’t workout for no other reason than the couple falls out of love. Life’s too short to stay miserable.
/r/AntiFeminists25/07/22 12:44 PM
2

Stop being so sensitive and reading into things. You likely caught her off guard, like when a server says thanks for coming and you say you too. Christ you somehow turned this into a thing about feminism? Think your bikers spandex may be cutting of them supply of oxygen to your brain because you come across as dumb and sensitive.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 07:25 PM
1

What she described isn’t catfishing. That’s using someone else’s photos and presenting them as if it is themself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:07 PM
4

Dude it’s your personality, not your looks or body that are the issue. You’ve got a fucked up view on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:32 PM
1

This dude proved your point in his long responses. Especially the last paragraph. Barf.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:00 AM
2

I think that’s a true statement for younger people in general, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:45 PM
3

That’s a bit broad of a statement. In my experiences, age has nothing to do with whether someone is high maintenance or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:29 PM
5

Saying bruh isn’t ghetto slang you racist doofus. And education doesn’t equal class. It’s not the 1950s anymore bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:39 PM
5

And that’s exactly it, you don’t have a lot of choices because women aren’t attracted to a close minded muppet who makes wild generalizations about half the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:16 PM
3

Ah ok, gotcha. I just assume anyone who dates significantly younger women can’t date anyone their own age because those women see through their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:04 PM
1

Ok? That has absolutely nothing to do with my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:33 PM
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I know I’m in the minority but I find older women far more attractive than younger ones. Had a thing for older women when I was younger and it’s continued into my 30s. The idea of putting up with a 20 year old sounds like my nightmare. They’re so immature and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:55 PM
1

You sound like Jim Carrey in the beginning of dumb and dumber. Since it’s happened a handful of times. “So you’re saying there’s a chance”
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:17 PM
3

You don’t have a chance bud.
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:37 AM
5

Guys like you give other guys a bad reputation
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:30 AM
1

Not really sure what’s funny about that. Some people have hobbies that don’t light a fire inside them. I have many and it comes through when talking to others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:43 PM
1

Remote work and don’t know what to tell you, girls are into how passionate I am about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:36 PM
2

Oh my god, a small amount of women view relationships as transactional and y’all conflate it to mean all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:31 PM
1

Known them since childhood. Definitely not my best friends. Rock climbing, back country hiking and camping, white water kayaking, vanlife for a few months each year, carpentry, cooking and baking, read a lot on various topics, regularly go to classes or meet ups of things I’ve always wanted to try. In my younger years really did live like a rockstar and nearly died, cleaned up my act 5 years ago. Travel regularly to interesting places because of climbing, takes you to off the beaten path locatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:30 PM
2

Open to all sorts of perspectives. Just not ones that have such a skewed view of literally half the worlds population. I’ve read through the subreddit in depth and it’s not a healthy outlook and is very clear how those members ended up there. They have an outlook that is not conductive to healthy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:18 PM
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Oh I definitely know that I have better luck online than a lot of guys. Tons of my friends complain about it. But in reality, they’re pretty boring. Don’t have interesting hobbies, literally nothing about them makes them standout. Passion is attractive to women. Being able to have engaging conversations because you do a bunch of different things and have cool experiences goes a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:16 PM
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No blue pill or red pill. I respect women and men equally. I don’t generalize based on the bad experiences I’ve had. I’ve never blamed things not working out how I wanted on an entire gender. I’ve had a very fulfilling and mostly pleasant experience dating in my life. I’ve actually been with as many women as you claim in an earlier message. Somehow didn’t end up jaded like you with a very unhealthy and disrespectful outlook towards half the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:55 PM
1

Don’t know what to tell you, that’s my experience with online dating. I think the guys who provide that data and post about online dating just simply aren’t attractive or interesting enough, can’t hold a convo, to get dates. So they lash out and think it’s because they’re not 6 feet tall or whatever. But really they’re just unattractive and uninteresting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:49 PM
2

We’re both solid 7-8’s. Neither of us has ever had trouble getting dates when we were single
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:41 PM
1

Online dating makes it real easy. Occasionally someone I asked in person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:40 PM
2

No I’m definitely old for this site. You’re the one who sounds young and disillusioned because you got your heart broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:40 PM
2

I mean she did tell OP she thought the guy was cute knowing she would tell him. For some shy people, that’s making move. And some girls do make moves. You make a big generalization based on this one scenario. Who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:17 PM
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You have a toxic outlook on women. I have a completely average job. I’m average height. I drive an old van. I am confident, charming, have interesting hobbies I’m very passionate about. When I was single, I’d go on 2-3 dates a week with different women and could have gone on more. There is absolutely zero status that comes with dating me. My girlfriend makes over double what I do and is world renowned in her field. You’re simply wrong. Sure, some women are like that. But majority of them just wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:12 PM
2

No, the other guy made a move. Her coworker didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:08 PM
2

Work is definitely not fun but it can be intellectually stimulating at times which is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:16 PM
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Might blow your mind here but not all women want to have kids. My partner and I never would have made it to the first date if either of us wanted kids. Neither of us have the slightest desire to be parents. Doesn’t mix with our lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:16 PM
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Has always just wreaked of insecurity to me. My girlfriend makes a lot more money than me, is super successful and career driven. I have a good job but nothing extraordinary and am not career driven in the slightest. We balance each other out. I help her mellow out and learn that relaxing and self care matter. She helps me take work things a little more seriously. When she tells me she got another raise or some award, I’m just super proud and impressed by her. Doesn’t make me feel like less of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:11 PM
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Tall, rich, famous and makes them laugh. Not that hard to understand.
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:03 PM
1

How can you be so condescending yet so wrong? Yes, 3 million is a huge number. But when 3 million is 1% of something, it is small. Like you’re being intentionally obtuse. When you compare 3 million to 329.5 million, 3 million is small. Or let’s break it down a bit so maybe you can understand better. If you had $329.50 in your pocket and something cost $3.30, would you call that a big expense? I don’t even care about the nut thing, I’m just blown away by your lack of understanding of percentages …
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/22 04:25 PM
1

When compared to 329.5 million, 3 million is a small number. How is that hard to understand? What stats class did you take that 1% is a big percentage? If no airlines made accommodations, I’d thinks it’s an issue. But as you’ve pointed out, a whole bunch of airlines do make accommodations. So I don’t really see the issue, plenty of choices for those affected.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/22 04:04 PM
1

I very much understand how percentages work. The US has a population of 329.5 million. So 3 million may seem like a big number as a standalone value, but it seems you’re the one who doesn’t understand percentages, that’s only 1% of the US population. So it is a small amount of the population, that’s how percentages work. 99% unaffected, 1% affected, how is that not clear? So if you are part of that 3 million, sure sounds like you should take responsibility for your own safety and as you pointed …
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/22 03:20 PM
1

Actually it’s not that common. Nut allergies effect 1.1% of the global population.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/22 02:09 PM
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Person you’re arguing with is a troll. If you’re that deadly allergic to something that being on a plane is a serious concern, you should probably just drive to wherever you’re going. It’s not like airplanes are the only form of travel available.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/22 02:06 PM
1

I find a submissive personality very unattractive. I want a woman who has opinions of their own, who isn’t a doormat and stands up for themselves. Never has meek and submissive appealed to me. Only time submissiveness is fun is in the bedroom but not all the time. Just a fun role from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:57 PM
1

It will not come across as creepy. Just a simple would you want to hangout sometime? I think you’re really handsome. Guys rarely get asked out and it feels so good
/r/seduction05/08/21 10:31 AM
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It’s just called being a human. Also, I have been a big flirt my whole life. Old people, people I don’t find attractive, people I do. Doesn’t matter, sometimes a compliment and a nice smile can make someone else’s day and it costs me nothing
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:52 PM
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