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2

Fuck her right in the pussy.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:53 PM
3

Lol Runescape. I enjoyed the shit out of that when I was 14.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:54 AM
2

I just graduated college too. It was a bit weird for a few months there without Tinder being very useful. But you get used to it. Devote most of your time to your professional life, a bit to your hobbies, and the rest toward downtime/social life. Budgeting money and time is the most important thing for you right now. Once you have your life straightened out, you'd be surprised how many women are interested in you.
/r/seduction20/02/17 06:41 PM
7

People are calling you a loser. But I just want you to know it's totally normal to feel that way. Most of us have in the past, and many of us will again in the future. The times make the man. How you respond to your feelings and your circumstances is what makes who you are. So are you going to be a loser who dwells on past relationships and worries about the future, or are you gonna be a champ who actively improves himself and snag some bitches? The choice is yours.
/r/seduction20/02/17 05:15 PM
23

Why settle if the next one could be better?
/r/seduction20/02/17 02:47 PM
2

Marriage ends after death. There is absolutely nothing wrong or sinful to have a relationship after the death of a spouse. Don't let that hold you back. She wouldn't want you to be lonely for the rest of your life. Chin up, bro. You can get through this.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:18 PM
8

Many people believe that life begins at conception. So to them, abortion isn't any different than murder. If you held that opinion, I'm sure you'd feel the same.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:16 PM
-1

That's not right. Did you ever tell her you don't want her to do that? If not, you can't just do that.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:58 PM
47

Lmfao. He's getting ripped off. Escorts are miles cheaper than a months rent.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 10:25 PM
50

Become the second string linebacker.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 08:24 PM
1

Could be Fordyce spots.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 02:38 PM
6

Fucking a man is the manliest thing you can do.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 09:42 PM
1

I'm going for the first time tomorrow morning. I know literally nothing about exercise and fitness. I'm pretty overweight. I'm a little nervous but I know I should do it.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 07:18 PM
1

It's fine to have women friends. Women friends, however, are best when they do activities with you, not 'chill' partners. I'm friendly with this girl I go play soccer with and stuff like that. But I wouldn't really invite her over to chill, to watch a football game, to play a videogame. That's what bros are for.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 06:49 PM
1

It sounds like you don't actually want to pledge.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 06:44 PM
11

You can instill dread simply by still being attractive to other women. Light flirting with waitresses, going to the gym, etc. Women respond to the possibility of you cheating almost the same way as you actually cheating.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 11:45 PM
1

That sounds fine dude. Good luck.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 06:28 PM
1

College 6s and 7s put out before the end of the second date 90 percent of the time if you're not a total loser. Some of these girls are abstinent due to religious reasons, depending on your region and school. These girls put out after the third date.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:54 PM
1

Wow you're a dick.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:20 PM
3

People would be laughing at her before she even said a word!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 03:42 PM
1

Then find something to do that's fun tomorrow night.
/r/seduction30/08/16 11:08 PM
1

Text her. Tell her you're doing something fun tomorrow night, and tell her she should come with.
/r/seduction30/08/16 11:01 PM
2

Still shouldn't fuck your friends gf.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:02 AM
29

This thread gave me cancer.
/r/seduction19/08/16 05:49 AM
2

I've always thought about doing this. I feel like it would help me focus on the things that matter by giving me an outlet about the fucked up parts of my life. I am a little worried that someone would find it though. I would probably write some of the deepest and darkest feelings as well, things that I don't want other people to know about me. I was thinking about doing the writing, rereading it, and then immediately throw it out/shred it.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 05:35 PM
1

Don't be too aggressive with your tongue. Move your hands an all different parts of her body. Grab her ass. Run your fingers through her hair. Put them on her hips. You get the idea.
/r/seduction17/07/16 05:45 AM
2

Go to trade school. Become a plumber or electrician. They make a lot more money than you'd think.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 05:23 PM
2

I don't have the knowledge to help you, but you're in my prayers, bro. Chin up.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 02:29 AM
2

You don't have to be a party animal to get plates. I just graduated. I went to about 2-3 parties a semester, usually either with a small group of my guy friends or a plate or gf for a night of fun. Most of the times I went without a girl ended up in one night stands, but I prefer plates. College girls are looking for good sex now that they don't live with daddy anymore. All of them. So you don't have to go to parties to meet these girls. All of my plates and gf's I met either in class or at some…
/r/askTRP11/06/16 03:13 PM
14

Tries to maintain eye contact but can't because she feels like she's smiling too much or giggling too much. Bites her lower lip. Grazes her hand against your arm or chest. If you meet here eyes across the bar, and she looks at you for 1-2 seconds and then outs her head down smiling. If you're in a group and someone says something funny and everyone's laughing, she'll use that as an excuse to look over to you to see how you're reacting. If she flips her hair or plays with it when she knows you're…
/r/seduction11/06/16 02:58 PM
2

Lots of fruit and veg, some diet soda once in awhile, roast chicken, steak, lamb chops when I have a little extra cash, nuts, and all sorts of potatoes. My cheat meal is Saturday night after church. My family orders Chinese every Saturday night and we watch a movie together. It's nice, I always enjoy it. Life's not worth living without a cheat meal haha.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 04:18 PM
-3

Only daughters?! Do they just abort all the little boys!? That is incredibly fucked up.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 02:31 PM
1

The best thing is to have have a set bedtime and wake up time.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 12:03 PM
6

This lifestyle is exhausting. Very rewarding, but it can be tough to live like this in perpetuity. This is why God created personal days. Take a couple random Wednesdays off work. I usually do about 5 a year, on top of my normal vacation or sick time. That Tuesday night, stay at home by yourself and down a few beers. Order a pizza. Sleep in Wednesday morning. Jerk off a few times, watch a movie you've been meaning to, play videogames. Don't shower. Basically, pretend to be a lazy teenager for a …
/r/askTRP08/06/16 01:42 AM
3

Drunks make great plates.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:02 PM
2

I agree with the sentiment here. But you can't punish her for this. Gotta lay down the law though. Tell her if she wants a ride, she can call you. And that's it.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:01 PM
4

It's a very different kind of hole.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 06:21 PM
0

Does this shit even qualify as music?
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:24 PM
3

OP is a faggot.
/r/seduction07/06/16 02:04 PM
7

Can confirm. Grew up in a single mother household. I'm 23 now, and pretty much incapable of forming a meaningful relationship with women.
/r/MensRights18/05/16 10:36 PM
-2

Smells like /r/theredpill in here.
/r/seduction17/05/16 03:45 AM
4

Hahaha. "Oh, uhm. Ok. Cool. So uh, let's like, go then, I guess."
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:49 PM
1

I'm 23 and I know exactly what you mean. I found that therapy helped me a little bit, especially the pills. I don't know what most RP guys think about antidepressants, but they defibitely help. You get that feeling that you're overwhelmed with your responsibilities even though it's really not that much, but it still just immobilizes you right? Sometimes you just need a little kick in the ass. The pills can help give you that kick. Soon, you'll be so used to kicking yourself in the ass, you won't…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 07:19 PM
2

Do what gets you off. If she's not liking it, she'll let you know. Don't flop, use your hips. There's a difference. Don't be afraid to grab her and shift her as you please. They love that. Don't forget about the rest of her body once you're in. Use your hands. Kiss her wherever you want if you're in a position you can do that.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 04:11 AM
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Any type of man who is not the second type you mentioned.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 08:19 PM
3

Cut sugar out of your diet. Stop jerking off. Eat more vegetables and meat. Start waking up early. Lifting and running if you need to cut some fat. Get enough sleep. All these physical changes will make you feel more vibrant, more energetic, more full of life, more masculine.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 07:20 PM
4

I had a tough time swallowing this pill. Then it all made sense. I started noticing women's behavior towards alpha guys and beta guys. I never really labeled guys before, but after reading through here its obvious.its pretty easy to spot an alpha, just talk to him for 5 minutes. Then I realized people wouldn't think that I'm an alpha after talking to me for 5 minutes. After seeing that I've always preferred to hang out with or work with guys I perceived as alpha, I realized women think the exact…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:00 PM
2

Lol ok.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:30 PM
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That's how you get a reputation of being unreliable and douchey. Nobody liked unreliable douches.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:26 PM
2

Yes.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:25 PM
3

Whatever your hobbies are! A favorite book series, calligraphy, camping, fishing, playing basketball, gardening, playing an instrument, lifting, woodcarving, auto repair, watching soccer, bird watching, photography, home brewing, barbeque, fashion, martial arts, electronics, baking, history, literature, religion, your local football team, whatever you're into! Reddit is a great platform for sharing and absorbing knowledge. Forget the memes and juvenile jokes you find in the defaults. There's a l…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:03 PM
4

Do you make promises to people and then break them?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:52 PM
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You're a man of your word right? If you promise a girl you're not going to see other women, then you don't see other women. It's simple. I'll be surprised if any of the guys here will directly advocate cheating.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:10 PM
2

A good lay. Good company for after I've nutted.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 06:23 PM
6

Nah, that makes sex and gender a topic. He would want to try to avoid that.
/r/PussyPass01/04/16 08:42 PM
1

I always do that too. What would Don Draper do? Obviously, Don is not someone to entirely base your life off of. He ignores his responsibilities, created a family and then all but destroyed it, and although he has an alpha charisma to him he's not easy to get along with. But damn, he knew what he was doing in the pussy department.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 04:10 PM
-1

Lol this post is Redpill 101.
/r/seduction22/03/16 09:13 PM
5

Breaking up sucks. Even though you knew it was inevitable, and yet you still had feelings for her, it still sucks. Big time. Over the next couple weeks, spend more time with your buddies. Have a few drinks with them. Keep yourself busy with your music and school. Try not to jerk off very often. A year long relationship, while not super serious, is nothing to sneeze at. You'll probably always remember her, but you can't think about her. You need some plates. Go get laid this weekend. Next week is…
/r/askTRP12/03/16 11:14 PM
1

I know someone who is a great guy, and a great friend. But he's pretty beta. He looks good, takes care of himself, and has interesting hobbies. But he doesn't quite get it. He's had relationships where he's gotten his heart broken, and I really feel for him. But he's not realizing what he's doing wrong. The other day I was visiting him at his apartment. He had to leave for a few minutes but he told me stay. His computer was running, and he's a Redditor (he doesn't know my username so I feel safe…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 04:50 PM
2

Used to have a plate. Really liked her, maybe a potential LTR. Then she admitted to having "idk like 20". Phased her out.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:19 PM
1

That seems kind of childish, no?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 02:23 AM
1

I know it sucks to hear this, but you literally have to force yourself to be better at first. In my BP days, I was really bad. Drinking all day, never showing up to class, jerking off every day, overeating, calling hookers, etc. After swallowing the pill, I was incredibly depressed that I was throwing my life away. It got even worse. I slept all day, delved into videogames, stopped grooming myself. I realized my whole life was a lie. You know how I got better? Because I dont. At some point, it j…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:24 PM
5

Haha that's good. I feel like that's really rubbing her nose in it though. I prefer a more subtle approach.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 07:13 PM
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Agreed. For my case of oneitis, I deleted her number and defriended her on Facebook once I realized I was nothing more than her beta bitch. A few weeks later I got a text from an unknown number saying "Did you unfriend me on facebook?" and I said "who's this?" I knew it was her because I recognized the area code. She texted me a few more times similar to OP's situation although not as dramatic or truthful, but I ignored every one. She's friend requested me and left me voicemails a few times over…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 05:23 PM
6

Don't wear shoe lifts.
/r/seduction28/01/16 07:22 PM
1

They love drama. That way they have an interesting story to tell their girlfriends those nights when they're drinking wine and inviting Chads over to fuck their brains out.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:31 PM
5

It's not an excuse yeah, but it's a reason. But I agree with your sentiment. OP has to be proactive in his life instead of passing the buck.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:41 PM
4

He can change though. That's what we all came here for.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:40 PM
6

Ask him to meet at a bar for a drink. His response or lack thereof will let you know his thoughts.
/r/seduction28/11/15 05:22 AM
1

You've made me realize how empty my life had actually been the last couple months. And you just leave on that note? Right as I become more receptive to what you're saying?
/r/askTRP25/11/15 09:06 PM
1

I never said I was alpha. I said I'm finally starting to figure it all out. I understand there is a long road ahead. I just don't appreciate that this thread turned into "iamirishpat is obviously lying, it is literally impossible that some dude who doesn't lift is getting girls hurr durr". I just wanted advice on how to go about getting rid of plates because I've never done anything like this before. I figured I'd give a little background info in case it was helpful. Apparently it was just groun…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 09:02 PM
1

Is it time for monk mode for me?
/r/askTRP25/11/15 07:13 PM
1

Whether you believe me or not is not what I'm worried about. What I'm worried about is that my newfound proclivity for spinning plates is taking over my life. If you don't want to help me answer that, that's fine. Then why are you still hanging around in this thread? Is it so unbelievable that you feel you have to 'bring me down'?
/r/askTRP25/11/15 07:01 PM
1

I have some fat on me yeah. But I'm lucky enough to have a handsome face, a good beard and hairstyle, and girls love my jokes. I'm finally realizing that pussy doesn't belong on a pedestal and it's not as hard as I used to think to just reach out and grab it. What's so hard to believe about this? Do you want a field report or something? Are you having that much trouble thinking that a man with lower SMV than you is having sex too? And yeah, some of them aren't the most attractive girls in the wo…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 06:51 PM
0

What do you want me to say? I don't have anything to prove to you. It's not impossible to have sex while still having a few extra pounds. I'm just kind of looking for advice on how to 'break up' with plates that I don't have time for anymore.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 06:19 PM
0

I needed someone to tell me that. So should I I just drop my least favorite plates? What do I say to them?
/r/askTRP25/11/15 04:46 PM
1

This is actually a problem. I've gotten caught up in the game of always looking for new plates, and I've gone overboard. Do you really think I'm lying? This is a fairly anonymous message board. I have no reason to exaggerate or lie. I'm just looking for some advice.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 04:02 PM
7

Go to bed earlier. Problem solved. I'm similar to you, I'm a man that desperately needs my 8 hours to be functioning at all the next day, preferably 9-10. I solved this issue by having a bed time. At 830 I shit, shower, shave, read a book for a few minutes, then lights out by 930. Wake up at 515 feeling refreshed and I start my day ready to fuck shit up.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 01:49 PM
0

Just because she's a plate doesn't mean she's not a person lol. It's ok to show a little interest in what she's doing with her life. Don't apologize, just keep frame for now and pass this shit test, but in the future just ask her once in awhile how her day was. It's not hard.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 01:45 PM
1

Oh OK. Here in NJ, it definitely isn't. That's just something no one does. Kissing someone's cheek in public is pretty much reserved for couples
/r/askTRP17/11/15 11:08 PM
1

That cheek kiss at the beginning counts for a lot, though.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 09:39 PM
1

He has a girl of his own coming tonight .
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:47 PM
2

I was thinking about that. But I'm don't think I'm good enough at seduction yet to be able to pull thus off without getting really nervous.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:37 AM
3

I'm 22 so everyone I date is young haha. I'm still deciding, but one of the girls seems to be a bit flakier/not as into me, so I think I'm going to cancel on her.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:56 PM
3

It's like buying yourself out of a friendship. I always say you don't lend your friends money, you give it to them. If they don't pay you back, you just bought yourself out of a shitty friendship.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:17 AM
4

Hire an attorney. We can't help you with this. The relationship is over, just talk to a lawyer to see if there's anything you can do about the money.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 09:33 PM
19

You don't lend your friends money - you give it to them. If they don't pay you back, you just bought yourself out of a shitty friendship.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 10:12 PM
2

She has made out with him though. Yeah, that's not much, but maybe she's just a bit prudish. I say give her one more chance. Then decisions need to be made.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:01 PM
2

If she says something like that, it's pretty much game over. Keep an abundance mentality, and shit like this won't bother you. No one nails 100% of the women they want to right away. Invite some other girl to go do that thing on campus next week. If this girl sees you there with someone else, she's gonna go crazy.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 03:59 PM
2

I have no problem with allowing women into the military. If they want to serve, more power to them, I respect that a lot. But the the standards should not be lowered just to fill quotas. That is literally making the military less effective simply to appease SJWs. Feelz>Realz
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:25 PM
2

So couldn't this happen to me, too?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 06:36 PM
1

It's still a problem. I have some anger issues and if I can't take my shit out in a healthy way, I end up doing incredibly stupid shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:43 AM
2

Question: I understand why I wouldn't be able to break down in front of my girl like this, buts what's a guy supposed to do with all those emotions he's feeling? I can talk to my mother like this, but when she passes on, are you telling me that I'll have no one?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 04:46 PM
1

What do you mean, Yale thing?
/r/seduction12/08/15 10:30 PM
2

Yale thing?
/r/seduction12/08/15 07:08 PM
3

Except for, you know, the whole murdery thing.
/r/seduction12/08/15 06:51 PM
1

I've read somewhere, and I really don't know/think that it's based on some study or something, that men have a larger range of 'normalcy'? What I'm trying to say, is that for every Mozart we have, there is also a Charles Manson. The range of social or antisocial behavior in men is larger than that of women's.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 02:43 PM
3

Sometimes I cry when I poop.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 01:42 PM
5

Jesus.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 04:02 AM
5

I say it so bluntly because that'ds what worked for me. Once I stopped complaining about things that I could at least partially control, I became more motivated to control them. Relationships, job performance, etc. This involves getting off the couch. I'm not going to claim that I'm some alpha big shot. Because I'm not - yet. But I am 100x more happy and active than I was a couple years ago.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 01:40 PM
5

Step One: Stop complaining. Step Two: Get off the couch. The rest will come naturally.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 09:35 AM
1

What if deep down there are parts of me that don't want to do good? I know, it sucks, and it's wrong. But I've done some pretty horrible things. I've stolen a lot of stuff. I've broken people's things. I've hurt people - physically and emotionally. If I don't have the confidence deep down that I'm a good person, how can I make this apply to me? PS: I'm changing. A lot of it had to do with my alcohol problems, which is getting taken care of. But it's still a problem for me.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 05:08 PM
4

What's wrong with having a man cave? I understand your other points, but for betas in LTRs, I think it's important for them to have a part of the house where the gf/wife/whatever has no control.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 02:37 PM
0

For any long winded post like this, the answer is always "You were being beta."
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 12:16 PM
6

The "think of the worst possible outcome" thing really is the most important thing to remember. So you want to ask out this girl you see at work sometimes. What's the worst that could happen? She can say no. That's it. That's the whole story. Getting rejected is not the end of the world. Her saying no will not effect her life AT ALL, so it shouldn't effect yours. Yeah it feels bad that someone doesn't want you, but that's life. Not everyone is going to like you. Using this mindset, I asked out a…
/r/seduction02/06/15 01:47 PM
5

They're crazier than usual. Kelly from The Office is not really much of an exaggeration.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 06:34 AM
2

The blues.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 05:58 PM
1

I was in the exact same situation you were a few years ago. This was before I had discovered the manosphere on the Internet so I fucked it all up, and I've regretted it ever since. Next time you see her, as your conversation is dying down, just sack up and ask her out. You need to be direct. Show your interest. She'll respect that. Do not procrastinate with this. That's what cost me. The sooner the better.
/r/seduction27/03/15 10:47 PM
2

Let her leave with her friends?
/r/seduction21/03/15 01:42 PM
2

Do you fuck them on the first date, or at least make out for awhile?
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:41 PM
2

I think it's just that most of the guys here are stuck on the anger phase. I'm not claiming to be an expert or a model RP man, but the anger phase is extremely important. You have to pissed. Everything is not like what we were told. In fact, it's the opposite. In fact, if youre not pissed, id think theres something wrong with you. We all thought that life was like a Disney movie. It's not. And we're pissed. Because life in a Disney movie leads to a comfortable, happy life. I have been stuck in t…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:38 PM
2

Yep. Figured it out after the third date. Then i went radio silent. She called like a month after and we had crazy monkey sex and I didn't pay for anything.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 04:21 PM
1

Depression is a real thing. Don't belittle it.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 04:19 PM
1

Is it a logistics problem or is it something in your head? If it's logistics, I don't know how to help you because I don't know your situation. If it's in your head, get the fuck out of your head. It's a dangerous place to be for extended periods of time. Sure, it's important to have time for self-reflection and deep thoughts about whatever you want, but time spent thinking is time not spent doing. Just keep that on mind. Do, don't think.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 04:36 PM
1

It's ok to have a few drinks. Even RP guys need to relax sometimes. We're still human.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:38 PM
2

If that's true, thats hysterical.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 02:03 AM
1

You might as well fuck her. Try something with her you always wanted to do but never did. And then radio silence. Forever.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:00 AM
1

Some women are hard to handle. If you can't handle it, you cant. Don't sweat it. Usually these women. Put out after 1-2 dates so just pump and dump.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 12:50 AM
8

/r/asktrp is fucking great. I've read the sidebar but I feel like I haven't 100% swallowed the pill yet. And believe me, I want to. When I go that sub, I feel a bit more safe asking questions. It's a great place to ask questions and not get totally bitch slapped if you did something wrong. I think of it like RP High school and then TRP as real life.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 04:58 PM
21

As a college student, I can tell you firsthand that rape hysteria and the insistence of feminists that there is a huge rape culture on college campuses are the main reasons young men like myself have realized that something is seriously fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 04:52 PM
1

I'm not OP, but this is exactly the kind of kick in the ass I needed. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 01:47 AM
7

I'm sorry man, but no one is going to read this whole thing. Edit a lot shit out if you want a reply.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 09:14 AM
1

I understand my diet is a huge part of it. I'm going to try the paleo diet and see if that works for me. But once I'm at the gym, should I focus more on my far or my muscles?
/r/askTRP22/12/14 10:44 PM
1

When you're having serious family or personal problems. And the only person you can ever ever EVER cry around is your mother. She can see you cry. She's seen you cry a hundred times. And it doesn't matter because she'll love you anyway. There's a special bond between mothers and sons. You can only whine to her. Because she's the only person on the planet who won't think less of you for crying and whining.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:38 PM
5

Yes, but it also means that the women have fewer options. Which, if I'm thinking correctly, would make it easier for Joe Schmoe to get a date in a lower populated location. He doesn't have to stick out as much.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:40 PM
3

I can't go buy a pack of smokes, without running into 9 guys you've fucked!
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:38 PM
1

Every 15 minutes.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 03:20 AM
4

Man, you guys know nothing about music.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 09:45 AM
2

I'm no expert, but I view a RP man as someone who gets what they want without resorting to violence. That's the tricky part. That's what I'm still figuring out.
/r/askTRP23/11/14 10:00 PM
2

This hit way too close to home for me.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 06:53 AM
1

No. Never. Th at will never happen That's what bros are for. As long as you don't do it too often, your bros will always listen to you bitch and moan about your problems. Don't expect a woman in your life to treat you the same way your bro would.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 06:47 AM
1

Is this supposed to be irony or a bunch of betas pandering to the feminist agenda?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:25 PM
3

Sometimes they're distractions.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 03:22 PM
4

No, dude. Just no.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 11:21 AM
1

Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ can absolve all your sins and give you eternal happiness with our Father in heaven.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:44 AM
2

I dream of sex cowgirl style with women with large breasts and no face. Also fighting random people in the street. I usually get my ass kicked but I'm happy I did it. I have no idea what either of these mean.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:25 AM
2

I didn't know this existed. This is kinda cool.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:57 PM
2

Except not as many girls watch star Wars as guys. So it might fly right over her head.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 09:21 PM
2

If you're sitting at a table with her, put your leg one inch away from her leg. Eventually she will accidentally bump into it. DONT REACT. Keep your leg there. She may pull her leg back, but soon she will put it back if you're doing good. This is my personal favorite first step for kino.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 09:20 PM
15

I used this one once. It sounds clever on the Internet, but when I tried it out one time, it just. It just didn't work. Maybe I had bad delivery, but I would recommend against this line.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:07 PM
1

You're right. I shouldn't make such sweeping generalizations. Therapy didn't work for my brother. He is usually a very tough, rationally thinking man. He's been hit with a bout of depression, and so he (reluctantly) tried therapy. It didn't work. In fact it made things work. So I may be a bit based in my assessment.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 03:04 AM
14

This is the problem I have with therapy. A close family member of mine was down in the dumps for many months and my mother forced him to go to therapy. 2 months after he started, he tried to kill himself. Therapy doesn't do anything. You're right - it furthers the victim mentality. The best way to get out of depression is to get off your ass and do something with your life. But I feel that if I say that, he will just get even sadder. I don't know how to help him.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 06:32 PM
1

Yeah I was drunk. I'm sort of new to the game so I'm self imposing a rule: no texting while drunk.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 07:23 PM
3

That's exactly what I was thinking. I just wanted to see if other guys picked up on that as well. The ball is in her court now.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 04:37 PM
3

I know right?
/r/askTRP09/09/14 04:22 PM
1

Yeah I figured. When she said that I thought OK this is done. Then she left me that voice mail the next day which I thought was confusing. If she doesnt get back to me about Wednesday night, I'll just forget about her. Thanks for the response man. New rule for me: no texting while drunk.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 04:18 PM
1

Not looking forward to it. But might become a necessity because I want to have kids one day.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:41 PM
2

What if you changed the ages to 25 and 18? Because that is the reality many men today face. This is the reality I was going to face until I swallowed the pill, and the reality I'm afraid my 19 year old brother will.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:15 PM
2

21 year old here. Totally agree. 18 year olds look too much like little girls. I'd much rather fuck a 25 year old.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:23 PM
9

Cool.
/r/seduction21/08/14 03:11 AM
3

Number one is understandable. I would feel kind of weird if I hooked up with my sisters friend, especially if it's one of her close friends. Am I wrong for thinking that?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 01:44 AM
0

Actually, pretty much all I have left to do are electives. I've done nearly all the upper level courses over the last year and a half. This is why i think I'm just going to stick with it and get the degree.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:44 AM
2

Thanks for the explanation. So it really is all in the name. Once you assume life sucks, you no longer try to change yourself or your world to make yourself happy. Do you think this is kind of similar to Stockholm Syndrome? But anyways, you're right, that really does tie into depression, which my brother suffers from, so I see it everyday. Do you think it would help him at all if I showed him learned helplessness?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:58 AM
1

My friend told me about that. But what are my options here? Just having a degree in anything makes me more hireable. And I'm almost done with a degree so why not finish it? If I drop out, I still have to pay all my student debt, but with a lesser chance of getting a decent paying job.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:01 AM
6

3 years into a history degree here. Not the worst degree, but certainly not a good one. I wish I would have known this 3 years ago. At this point, it's stupid to drop out or change majors so I'm just going to finish out the degree and say my prayers.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 10:15 PM
1

I'm having a little trouble grasping it. I think I kind of get it, but could you give a short explanation?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 10:14 PM
1

"What do you mean? Today? I've sexed 6 times so far today."
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 05:15 PM
5

I listen to old rock. ACDC, Motley Krue, Van Halen, stuff like that. Old school rock stars basically. Some of those guys are RP as fuck. Also, old country artists. Willie Nelson, Merle Haggard. Those guys are wise.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:07 PM
2

I've met plenty of women that can make a funny passing comment. Girls can make me laugh sometimes. Just something simple and sarcastic. But men can be hysterical. Men know how to tell a God damn story. Women - not so much. They fumble around with the words, can't keep a straight face, and mess up all the comedic timing. I've never keeled over from laughter from something a woman has said.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 01:34 AM
2

If he's been on reddit long enough, he probably knows what confirmation bias is. Also, he could have learned it in school. I took a psychology class junior year and I learned about confirmation bias.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 01:21 AM
1

Because if you treat them like dirt, you are perceived as being of higher social value than they are. And women latch onto that shit.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 07:21 PM
1

Parents split when I was 14. Mother means well, but is constantly bitching and screaming at every little thing. She doesn't have the ability to move on, or cope with stress. I'm 21, still living at home for financial/education reasons and I hate every minute of it. Father is ok. I see him about once a week so he is still a big part of my life. He works hard and is really funny. He's from Ireland and so has a bit of a different view of the world than most American males his age. He is pretty RP, …
/r/askTRP15/08/14 07:18 PM
2

Google calendar. Enter in your work schedule and family obligations. Then color code everything else. Red for important shit, blue for secondary stuff, yellow for things you can blow off. For example, I am an assistant scout master and it is very important it to me. Meetings are every Thursday and we go on a camping trip one weekend a month. Red that shit. Gotta get your car to pass state inspection? Red that shit. If you take piano lessons, blue that shit. It's important, but not necessary so i…
/r/askTRP15/08/14 07:09 PM
2

This is why any Christian RPers should look at the Catholic church. We don't deal with that kind of shit. Most of the priests are alpha as fuck and want their parish to be alpha as fuck too.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 05:12 PM
2

Calligraphy is awesome. Nothing 'feminine' or 'beta' about it.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:28 PM
1

Because I can't close. I'm good with seducing girls through my words and behavior, but I always seem to fail at logistics and actually sealing the deal at the end of the night.
/r/seduction26/07/14 04:48 PM
2

I know exactly what you mean. We here at seddit have finally figured out that life isn't what Disney promised us it would be, and so now we think about all aspects of life a bit differently. This is why this sub and /r/TheRedPill are so heavily linked. My approach is to just live life the way you want to. Keep up your relationships with family and long - term friends the same way you always have, but when it comes to new friends and women, take what you've learned here and you'll be a more satis…
/r/seduction21/07/14 12:36 PM
2

I've always thought of it as physical dominance is a conspicuous method of proving social dominance until shown otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:08 PM
3

Yeah. I tried to use something similar on Tinder and it sounded really bad. I can't even imagine real life.
/r/seduction12/07/14 01:53 PM
1

By Quaker bridge I assume you mean Woodbridge? Quaker bridge is like a solid 40 minutes from those other malls you're talking about.
/r/seduction24/06/14 08:11 PM
1

ACDC. Red Pill in the form of music.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 03:35 PM
1

Be like Dave.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 03:32 PM
1

TRP: Where excellence is a habit, not a goal.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 11:20 PM
5

I was under the impression that TRP is a sub reddit dedicated to helping men become men in an increasingly feminine world.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:47 PM
3

Sex isn't everything.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:13 PM
14

6 don't have rolls dude. If you're a 6 that means you're hotter than 60 percent of women, meaning that you're decent looking.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 09:59 PM
4

Fake confidence. Theres no difference between real confidence and perceived confidence.
/r/seduction19/04/14 10:35 PM
2

Basically, the biggest beef I have is the whole sex thing. I am a devout Catholic, and I'm not a virgin, but I try to abstain from having premarital sex. I understand the RP is about being being "alpha" and seeing the world for how it really is, and having sex is a big part of that - or so it seems from my exposure to this theory. I'm actively self-improving (lifting, eating right, getting in the right mindset, etc.) and I've become better at setting frame and passing shit tests when interacting…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 11:45 PM
2

Im Catholic and I guess Im just wondering if there are any other Catholics here. Im not too well versed in RP yet, but it seems that some observations clash with my religious beliefs, and I just want to see how other Catholics (or anyone religious) deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 11:18 PM
-7

I see what youre saying, but nicotine withdrawals are a real thing and they fucking suck. Im not saying that the guy should just excuse her behavior, but we should recognize the situation here.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 09:57 PM
10

Before you bweak my heart.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 06:38 PM
3

He can miss the hole, maybe.
/r/seduction01/03/14 06:08 PM
18

Yeah I already swallowed that pill over a year ago. It has become extremely difficult to have any sort of political or economic discussion with ny buddies anymore, but I know Im right so it's all good :)
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:36 AM
9

The Sopranos is oretty RP too. Granted, most of the characters are psychologically damaged beyond repair, but are RP nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:32 AM
24

Once I realized that, my entire worldview changed.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:28 AM
4

I'm working on getting big. I swallowed the pill about two months ago, probably about 40-50 pounds overweight. I've been lifting a little, but I'm mostly focusing on slimming down for now, before I get some muscle mass. I've lost about 15 pounds so far, and I feel amazing. It's been a tough swallow, but the pill has changed my life.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 07:19 PM
4

Well if hes jacked, dont grab his ass then. Dont touch him at all. Its not worth it man.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 05:07 PM
2

OP pls respond
/r/seduction21/01/14 02:50 PM
0

Im 21 , lower middle class.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 12:12 AM
1

Im sure you can understand. Im having a lot of trouble swallowing tge red pill. Obviously, stuff like this saddens me, but because its true.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 10:35 PM
27

This is true, and it depresses me.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 05:10 PM
3

I'd like to hear that story dude.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 06:42 AM
1

You're generalizing.
/r/seduction29/11/13 06:36 AM
3

Motley Krue, Judas Priest, and ACDC.
/r/seduction18/11/13 05:22 PM
3

Just say hey how's it going, and pretend it never happened.
/r/seduction09/10/13 01:04 AM
2

But..but...but. Aren't relationships a two way street?
/r/MensRights18/09/13 08:11 PM
1

It's shit like this getting upvoted to the top that makes our page look bad. THERE'S NO CONTEXT HERE.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 05:05 PM
1

20 m. This subreddit has helped me so much since I subscribed about 6 months ago. In that time frame, I think I've gotten more dates than I did in my entire life beforehand!
/r/seduction16/03/13 04:15 PM
8

WHAT DID IT SAY
/r/seduction07/03/13 12:50 AM
1

Oldest of two boys, were almost the same age. No close female relatives. Went to an all boys high school. Before college and discovering this subreddit, girls were fucking scary.
/r/seduction17/02/13 11:00 PM
2

I work at the desk at my college's library. Customer service-like. I, too, have noticed that nearly all of my co-workers are female. There are two other guys I work with, but out of all us, I'm the only one that has masculine-ish qualities. You know what I mean. Broad shoulders, deep voice, facial hair. I've been thinking the same thing as you, and my school has similar demographics. I have to admit, I'm not the friendliest person. But when I'm at the desk I put on the right attitude, and I can …
/r/MensRights02/10/12 09:38 PM
1

My first reaction after reading the title: Some guys have all the luck.
/r/seduction15/08/12 06:58 PM
2

Prison rape is still rape. It has the word rape right in it. I'm really not sure why you're getting downvoted because you just offered a different opinion. But you're right, excluding prison rape, men raping women is MUCH more common and that should not be forgotten.
/r/MensRights28/06/12 08:12 PM
1

*Shakespeare and *Machiavelli. sorry if this comes across as rude, it just kills me to see names like those misspelled.
/r/MensRights28/06/12 08:09 PM
-1

...it's science.
/r/MensRights27/06/12 06:33 PM
3

You have me hysterically laughing. My brother told me to shut up, get off Reddit, and go to sleep. Kudos.
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:41 AM
0

My mother seems to on the outside the typical feminist strong, independent woman. But she is by no means a feminist. My mother ingrained in me the most important parts of my life; my religion, my sense of respect, and my level-headedness. She's a little nuts, a little bitchy, and has a slightly skewed sense of reality, but she means well. She believes in equal rights for all, and actually told me about the Men's Rights movement. So no, I have not been damaged by my mother. In fact, my mother is …
/r/MensRights15/05/12 04:30 AM
5

...that doesn't even make sense.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 04:15 AM
1

I'm curious, what was her response to your comment?
/r/MensRights03/05/12 02:49 PM
2

I read that as a beard-axe murderer, and then I chuckled. But now I'm thinking about it, and I'm not sure I know what that would even look like.
/r/MensRights27/04/12 03:40 PM
2

I know what you're saying, but I think it's just in New York. I'm from New Jersey, and whenever I'm in my suburban town, there's a lot of door-holding going on, but when I'm in New York (or any city for that matter), people are in too much of a rush to be worried about door-holding.
/r/MensRights27/04/12 03:39 PM
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