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Step 1. Be good looking Step 2. Shoot your shot
/r/seduction26/06/19 07:07 AM
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Are you in the wrong subreddit? This is the subreddit where we talk to random girls in real life...
/r/seduction26/06/19 06:51 AM
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This girl likes you bro. Get that into your head. That means she wants to kiss you and she wants to have sex with you. You don’t need the perfect opportunity to make a move. Just make a move. Even if it’s not “smooth” it won’t matter because she likes you. She will be okay with anything you do. You could even ask her “can I kiss you” and I bet she will say yes and everything will be good. Stop over analyzing and remember that she likes you and it’s okay to not be smooth.
/r/seduction26/06/19 06:46 AM
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Whatever your reason may be, it’s simply a rule that you have chosen to impose on yourself.
/r/seduction26/06/19 06:41 AM
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Not if you meet girls everywhere you go like the gym, grocery store, etc
/r/seduction26/06/19 06:16 AM
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Congrats on finally getting laid. Think about this for a second: this girl liked you from the beginning. You didn’t seduce her with your eye contact or kino. Getting girls is all about finding the girls that like you. That’s all.
/r/seduction25/06/19 05:47 AM
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I’m not a mature woman but I have fucked many MIlFs and older women. Most were in their 30s some in their 40s. You approach them the same way you would any other girl. Be direct. Be polite. And make a move.
/r/seduction24/06/19 12:45 AM
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Not bad looking by your standards. What’s important here are her standards.
/r/seduction23/06/19 08:35 PM
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Yea exactly. You can say virtually anything and if they’re down they will come. However, just bc they go home with you does not guarantee that they will actually have sex with you.
/r/seduction23/06/19 08:21 PM
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This video validates the claim that your looks are the most important factor
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:40 PM
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Literally lean in try to kiss her.
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:36 PM
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I usually ask the girl to come to my house to drink some wine but if they don’t want to drink, I’ll say tea. I’ve even asked girls to come over to have dinner with me. I’ve also asked them to just come watch a movie. I’ve also just told girls that it doesn’t matter what we do, I just want to see them. Once they’re over my house, I’ll make a move. Girls know what you want and if they’re DTF, they will come over and have sex with you. How do I know this, I’ve fucked over 100 girls in the last 4 ye…
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:33 PM
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Go out and talk to women everyday. Maximize your looks. Challenge yourself daily with women. For example, talk to girls in different scenarios. Try to kiss girls faster, try have sex with them faster, etc
/r/seduction22/06/19 11:51 PM
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You mentioned that you approached a few girls and they all rejected you. How many did you approach? I’m sure you’re familiar with the term “numbers game”. When it comes to meeting girls IRL, you’re going to have to go through a lot of girls until you find the ones who are willing to go out with you. Why? Well a lot of times they have boyfriends, husbands, are depressed, not into dating, or they just don’t find you attractive. All of those things are out of your control so as long as you look goo…
/r/seduction22/06/19 10:28 PM
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There’s a reason why they’re the center of your world. Until you solve that issue, they will continue to be the center of your world and that’s okay. I spent 4 years of my life chasing girls. I fucked over 100 girls only to realize that this wasn’t what I wanted. But I had to go through it to make these realizations and learn what I had to learn. You will get whatever it is you need in time. Just keep going.
/r/seduction22/06/19 10:21 PM
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What did you do that makes you believe you “lost” her bc of texting?
/r/seduction22/06/19 10:18 PM
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Is this what attracts girls? Some girls like this. Some girls don’t. Just be yourself and you will attract girls that are like you.
/r/seduction22/06/19 10:16 PM
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Ask yourself this: why do I want to create sexual tension? If your goal is to date this girl, then ask her out. If your goal is to have sex with her, ask her out. Basically what I’m trying to say is, stop worrying about things that don’t matter and ask her out, then go from there.
/r/seduction22/06/19 10:15 PM
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My advice to you is to improve your looks as much as possible because it is one of the most important factors regarding picking up girls.
/r/seduction22/06/19 10:04 PM
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She’s into you bro. Don’t overanalyze and be patient
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:03 PM
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People are weird bro. Stop wasting your energy trying to figure her out and go out and meet new girls
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:42 AM
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Yea I’ve fucked girls without ever kissing them. Some girls are weird like that
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:40 AM
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Have you tried putting yourself out there? Did you go up to any girls at the club? Do you take the initiate with women?
/r/seduction22/06/19 04:51 AM
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The goal should be whatever it is you want it to be. When I used to go out to clubs or bars, my goal was to get laid. So I would talk to girls that goal in mind and guess what, I got laid a lot from night game. Remember, whatever your goal is, thats what you’ll get.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:55 AM
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Of course bro. What are your questions?
/r/seduction05/05/19 04:35 PM
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What do I do? I try harder. The universe doesn’t owe you anything. Trying isn’t good enough. Life doesn’t give us a participation trophy for trying. If your life doesn’t meet your expectations, it’s because you have to try harder. Maybe you have to try a different method. You need a new perspective on life. You might believe that you’re living with your parents out of necessity, but we have free will. You are choosing to live with your parent. You chose this life and you can choose a new one. Al…
/r/seduction03/05/19 07:15 PM
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I have never contemplated suicide, but I have been where you are before. Right now, you are a victim of your own demise. You need to realize that you have created your reality and create a new one. It’s a tragedy that you were abused by your parents, but you shouldn’t let that dictate your life and your future. First thing you need to do accept responsibility for your life. Second thing you have to do is cut all contact with your parents. No phone calls. Nothing. They are negative figures in you…
/r/seduction03/05/19 06:52 PM
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Your photos are consistent. I don’t think people would think you were cat fishing
/r/seduction03/05/19 06:42 PM
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Then you’re focusing on the wrong things. If you focus on not getting rejected, then that’s what you’ll get. If you focus on getting laid, then you will get laid. Would you rather have a reputation of being a player or of being a pussy?
/r/seduction29/03/19 04:49 AM
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You need to TRY to get laid. TRY to take her home and have sex with her.
/r/seduction29/03/19 12:11 AM
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I think the real question is: what do you want the outcome of your dates to be?
/r/seduction28/03/19 10:49 PM
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Not everyone will like you and that’s okay. That’s why it’s called a numbers game because you have to go through a lot of people to find the ones that like you. That includes guys too. Not every guy will be your friend. So if that’s true, then you need to talk to a lot of girls until you find the ones that like you. If you feel like a girl is not interested, then you’re most likely right.
/r/seduction25/03/19 10:24 PM
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Ask her for her phone number
/r/seduction20/03/19 06:02 AM
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Pics or it didn't happen
/r/seduction20/03/19 05:48 AM
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Don't focus on not doing something. Focus on what you want to do. In this case, focus on talking to girls. ​ You can go up to a girl in the "best" way possible, and she will still think you're creepy. ​ Their opinion of you is out of your control so you're wasting mental energy by even thinking about it. ​ Focus on what you can control only. ​ ​
/r/seduction20/03/19 05:44 AM
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This guy is dangerous and needs help
/r/seduction17/03/19 06:09 PM
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Why would you get her number at the club when you can just take her home with you that night?
/r/seduction17/03/19 08:30 AM
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Who tf counts kisses? Lmao
/r/seduction16/03/19 10:25 PM
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Send me a PM
/r/seduction16/03/19 10:23 PM
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Setup a date ASAP
/r/seduction15/03/19 06:24 PM
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Yea send me a pm
/r/seduction15/03/19 05:42 PM
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The mind is a powerful thing and survival is its main concern. It’s so easy to come up with excuses to not step out of our comfort zone. I know firsthand because I dealt with this stuff when I first started. You forget that all of us here want women in our lives and we are all putting ourselves out there to get what we want. Some of us here have actually had great success with women and therefore know what they’re talking about. With my level of experience, and I know it sounds arrogant, I can s…
/r/seduction15/03/19 01:27 AM
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Send me a pm with a photo of yourself and I’ll tell you if you’re ugly or not
/r/seduction14/03/19 09:04 PM
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Yes it’s okay to just want casual sex. As someone who has been having casual sex for the past 3 years, I strongly advise against telling girls you only want casual sex. The same way that you don’t ask for consent before having sex, you don’t tell girls that you only want casual sex. All of this stuff is non verbal. What you can do is set the tone for casual sex. Every time you see the girl you have sex with her. You don’t go out on dates. When I meet the girl for the first time, I ask her to com…
/r/seduction14/03/19 07:24 PM
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How many times has this happened?
/r/seduction14/03/19 08:24 AM
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Do what you want. If you want her to be your gf then claim her! You can say something like “so I’ve been thinking and I want you to be my gf”
/r/seduction14/03/19 08:11 AM
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Your apathy stems from fear. You’re not bored, you’re just afraid. You’re so afraid that you shut yourself down to protect yourself. It’s almost as if you become dead inside. Actually try. Put yourself out there. Take risks. And I guarantee motivation will be the last of your worries.
/r/seduction14/03/19 07:03 AM
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If a girl is waiting for her drink at Starbucks, stand next to her and then start talking to her. You can simply say “hey how’s your day going” or ask her “what did you order” and then just take it from there. Don’t forget to ask for her number.
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:06 PM
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Next time you see her with her friends, just wave hi to her. If she waves back, Talk to her the next time you see her.
/r/seduction13/03/19 08:30 PM
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If she saw you with another girl, just tell her she was a friend.
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:49 PM
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Nobody actually cares if you’re a fuckboy. It was actually benefit you bc now the girls who are dtf will have sex with you.
/r/seduction04/03/19 10:48 AM
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Oh yea definitely
/r/seduction03/03/19 09:10 PM
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You're missing the point of the video. The video serves as proof that I actually fucked this random girl that I met at the bar. ​ Why should we trust people who write lay reports with no proof? That's why we have so many "experts" in this community because everyone claims to do a lot but provide zero proof. The blind leading the blind. ​ I don't know about you, but I don't trust in keyboard warriors. And there are a lot of those in this community.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:52 PM
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Anybody can write lay reports. I am providing proof.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:40 PM
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What’s good my G
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:35 PM
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Just comment on one of her snap stories. Regardless, it's up to her to decide if she likes you or not. Doesn't really matter what you do at this point.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:21 PM
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Do it
/r/seduction02/03/19 08:46 PM
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It’s all about looks at bars and clubs bro. If you don’t look attractive enough, you won’t be able to pull. And in this case, you won’t get any girl to dance with you.
/r/seduction02/03/19 08:25 PM
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Does your host family ever leave for work? You could probably have her over while they’re gone
/r/seduction02/03/19 08:20 PM
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Well where do you live? The dorms?
/r/seduction02/03/19 08:14 PM
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Have the next date at your house
/r/seduction02/03/19 08:07 PM
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You mean in general with girls?
/r/seduction02/03/19 07:16 PM
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You have to really want it. Think of how amazing your life could be if you had the balls to hit on girls and then fuck them at your house. Create that vision and use it as fuel. Or, think of how miserable you will be if you don’t have girls in your life. Negative or positive emotions. Whichever one works for you. Use it.
/r/seduction02/03/19 02:20 PM
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Just keep messaging her and ask her to hang out. Btw your title is misleading. You should change it to “connected with this girl on Snapchat”.
/r/seduction02/03/19 02:18 PM
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Yes. I explicitly tell them to come home with me. Why? Because it guarantees that I will get laid. I used to beat around the bush and there were times where the girls would not put out once I had them at my house. It was very frustrating. That doesn’t happen anymore.
/r/seduction02/03/19 02:16 PM
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Idk what you do when you’re drunk but when I go to bars or clubs, i talk to as many girls as possible until I find a girl that’s willing to come home with me.
/r/seduction02/03/19 02:08 PM
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Don’t explicitly tell her but make it obvious with your actions. For example, ask her to come over to your house for wine or to watch a movie. Then make a move. Even if you do decide to take her out for let’s say dinner, make sure to take her back home to fuck. I always have sex with my fuckbuddies every time I see them bc it reinforces the idea that we are in a relationship for sex.
/r/seduction02/03/19 02:04 PM
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So this proves that you are just having a bad streak. You’re coming across girls who are not DTF. What’s the solution? Talk to more girls so you can find the DTF girls faster.
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:59 PM
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What is your process when trying to fuck girls?
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:49 PM
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Could just be coincidence. You’re most likely just meeting girls who are not dtf.
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:42 PM
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For starters, pulling girls from bars is all about looks. If you are attractive enough, now it’s just a matter of finding a girl who is dtf, or willing to have sex with you immediately. So basically you go around the bar looking for a girl who will fuck you. How do you do that? You simply go up to girls and make small talk but at the same time, you’re touching them to find out where they stand. If a girl will make out with you immediately, chances are she will go home with you. Ask her to go hom…
/r/seduction02/03/19 12:49 PM
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If your goal is to get laid I can help.
/r/seduction02/03/19 12:42 PM
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I’ll try to answer all of your questions as best as I can. Yes I have seen girls phones. I have seen girls with 80 unread text messages and hundreds of unread DMs on Instagram. You know what’s crazy? They actually responded to me and hung out with me. Why? Because they liked me. When someone likes you, they will respond to you, even in a sea of messages. How do I stand out? I’m better looking and cooler than the rest of them. Not only that, but the girl actually finds me attractive. I have fucke…
/r/seduction02/03/19 12:31 PM
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Well tbh these days I’m more open to dating. The 100 goal was just to prove that I can get laid whenever I want. And I can. I literally pulled a girl from the bar last night. As I’m typing this she is sleeping on my chest. Your goal is to have girls on rotation. That’s fine. I always have fuckbuddies. It comes with the territory. But even you have a numerical goal.
/r/seduction02/03/19 12:20 PM
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Says who? I did the exact same thing at jack in the box and the girl gave me her phone number.
/r/seduction02/03/19 12:15 PM
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Keeping count might seem like validation-seeking to you, but to me it's having goals. ​ My goal 3 years ago was to fuck as many girls as possible. Today I'm close to 100. Without that goal, I would never have fucked so many girls. ​ Without goals, you can't go anywhere.
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:51 AM
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I don't think you understand how this works. Just because there are hundreds of other guys seeking her attention, it doesn't mean that you can't stand out. ​ Girls don't settle. So if you're a "beta", as you say, you have no chance online nor IRL. ​ So if you're an attractive guy and she's open to meeting new guys, then you have a chance.
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:48 AM
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What I usually do is comment on a girl's IG story. If she bites, she will respond and then we will have a conversation. ​ You can always just slide right in with a "hey"
/r/seduction27/02/19 03:58 PM
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haha no I didn't get surgery but I improved areas that were lacking. ​ I gained some muscle mass. I dress better. I have a trendy haircut. I pierced my ears. I pierced my nose. I take good care of my skin. I whitened my teeth. ​ And I'm still working on improving more. I'm getting my teeth straightened. There's so much you can do to maximize your appearance without surgery.
/r/seduction27/02/19 03:54 PM
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If you have autism, having lots of sex college girls should not be your priority. ​ Tbh, this lifestyle is not for everyone and I can say with certainty that it is not for you. ​ If I were you, I would look into finding a nice girlfriend. And I say all this in the nicest way possible.
/r/seduction27/02/19 03:48 PM
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I don't believe "game" exists as a verb. I see it as a noun, as in we are playing this game. ​ I also don't believe that you can make someone like you, at least not in such a short amount of time. ​ I also believe that your looks play the most important role when meeting girls. I attribute it to my success with women because it is the only thing that I improved and my results skyrocketed. ​ How is it that I can use the same line for over 3 years and have better results now? Is it because my body…
/r/seduction27/02/19 03:46 PM
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This is an interesting post. I agree with some of the things mentioned but the rest sound like paranoia. Thinking you are in a constant power struggle with women can be very detrimental to your relationships. ​ OP, how old are you and how many women have you slept with?
/r/seduction27/02/19 03:37 PM
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You did nothing wrong. ​ You trusted your male instincts and she couldn't handle it. That's fine. ​ Go find a new girl that actually wants to get physical with you.
/r/seduction27/02/19 03:26 PM
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What's your goal at bars? ​ If I go to a bar, it's to get laid. So if I go up to a couple of girls, I'm not there to talk, I'm there to see if one of them will sleep with me that same night. ​ When I go up to a group of girls, I only talk to the girl that I'm interested in. If she doesn't respond, then she clearly is not interested. ​ Same goes for when you talk to a group of girls. If the girls aren't responding, or not putting any effort into the conversation, they are not interested. Move on …
/r/seduction27/02/19 03:21 PM
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What’s a “Chad”?
/r/seduction26/02/19 10:20 PM
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Anybody that says they mastered game cannot be trusted.
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:32 AM
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This is all in your head. Go try to get laid and you will see that young girls like older guys. I’m 27 and most of the girls I get are younger than me now, averaging at 21 yrs old.
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:29 AM
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If that’s what you want to do then do it bro
/r/seduction26/02/19 01:39 AM
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Don’t try to avoid it. Embrace it. This obsession will drive you to become the best you can be with girls. I know exactly how you feel. When I first started, I felt the same way. I couldn’t even work because it gave me anxiety just thinking about talking to girls. The only thing that got rid of that anxiety was talking to girls. 3 years later, I finally feel okay but that’s because i fucked close to 100 girls and I honestly feel and believe that I can get laid. I know I can get laid. I know I ca…
/r/seduction25/02/19 11:42 AM
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Look around you. We live in a shallow world. It’s naive to believe that only certain environments are superficial. Looks matter in most aspects of life and they especially matter with women, even more so when trying to fuck them.
/r/seduction25/02/19 11:18 AM
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Dude if you like your hair stylist, just ask her for her number. Worst case scenario is she says no. But what if she says yes? Isn't that worth it? ​ I always hit on girls who are working at stores and restaurants and have actually fucked girls who I've met while working. One of my fuckbuddies was a girl I met while working at H&M. ​ Any girl is game for me.
/r/seduction25/02/19 09:05 AM
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come on this guy does not get laid smh
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:34 PM
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Idk what stack and vibe is, but you didn't do anything wrong. You were horny so I'm assuming you wanted to get laid, so you went for the kiss. Nothing wrong with that. ​ From my experience, when a girl you just met doesn't want to kiss you at the bar or club, then she most likely will not fuck you. At that point, it's time to move on to the next girl. ​ Instead of focusing on what you SHOULD do, focus on what you WANT to do. You wanted to kiss that girl and you did it. Nice! ​ Next time, if a gi…
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:27 PM
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I don't think the problem are your feelings rather your reality. You haven't gotten laid in a year and you SHOULD feel shitty about that. ​ I don't know how much effort you have actually put into this, but I think it's time to go back to the drawing board. ​ What I would do is take a few days break, then sit down and asses my situation. Create an actionable plan to get laid and then follow it. ​ I don't know what you look like, but if you don't look good looking enough, you're not going to get v…
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:20 PM
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You might be handsome but your style is probably lacking. At bars and clubs, if you don't look "cool" then you won't get very far. ​ I live in Los Angeles and when I go out, usually in Hollywood, I dress in a way where people think I'm a celebrity. However, this doesn't mean that I don't get rejected. ​ Rejection is part of meeting girls, especially if your goal is to get laid. So if you're only meeting 2 girls at night and you're feeling like a sad little puppy, then maybe this isn't for you.
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:10 PM
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I'm good looking enough. ​ Yea I smashed 7 girls in a month. I think a lot of it was just luck and all of the effort I had put in just snowballed.
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:59 PM
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I live in Los Angeles in the US so I would say that people are still open to talking to strangers but I believe it's an individual thing. Just because you live in a society where most people are open to meeting strangers doesn't necessarily mean that the girl you meet will be open also. It does of course increase your chances. But to answer your question, I have only tried to fuck girls in the US and in Mexico. Back in 2016, it was pretty much my full-time job to get laid. Most of my time was sp…
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:40 AM
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How many girls have you actually asked to come to your house? ​ I don't make girls do anything. I simply find the ones who are willing.
/r/seduction22/02/19 09:38 PM
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TBH it was really hard. This tested every part of me as a person. There were good days and there were bad days. I learned a lot, met a lot of different people, made some really good friends, and fucked a lot of girls. ​ My initial goal was to fuck 1 new girl per month and I ended up surpassing that by almost 4x. In one month, I ended up fucking 7 new girls! In 2016, I fucked a total of 39 new girls, all from daygame and bars, no dating apps. ​ It was a crazy time but one that was worthwhile and …
/r/seduction22/02/19 09:37 PM
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Depends on what your goal was. My goal was to get laid more. I achieved that by becoming better-looking and talking to as many girls as possible every day. When I first started, my goal was to meet at least 10 girls per day. Now I talk to girls everywhere I go. Another thing that helped was pushing my boundaries. That included talking to girls in different scenarios such as girls with friends, girls at the gym, girls at bars, etc. It also included trying to pull girls faster. Making out with the…
/r/seduction22/02/19 08:26 AM
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You need to decide what you want. Are you looking to get laid or are you looking for a relationship? ​ Either way, you need to accept the fact that having sex is normal. Even if you are looking for a relationship, touching is okay. Sex is okay. ​ Also, you need to understand that nothing is guaranteed. Touching a girl or not touching a girl does not guarantee that you will get laid or that you will have her become your girlfriend. ​ If you're gonna decide to try to get laid, then you need an act…
/r/seduction22/02/19 06:45 AM
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I will text them to come over
/r/seduction22/02/19 06:11 AM
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It puts you in front of the queue so the girl you super liked has a higher chance of actually swiping on your profile so I would say it improves your chances.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:43 AM
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You’re right girls aren’t stupid. They know its code for let’s have sex. And the girls who are DTF will respond positively to that. I always ask girls to come to my house. Sometimes I tell them we’re gonna watch a movie and other times i tell them we’re drinking wine. Either way, if they come to my house, they know we’re gonna have sex.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:33 AM
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Just because you have bad success using Tinder doesn’t mean it’s bad. That’s like saying to not meet girls at bars or at the gym bc you haven’t had success. Tinder is a hook up app and if you look good, you will get laid.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:31 AM
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Bro you posted the same shit yesterday except now you added more detail. If you want casual sex, you need to look good and talk to as many girls as possible. Then invite these girls to your house to “watch a movie” and make a move. If you have trouble meeting girls IRL, which sounds like you do, use Tinder.
/r/seduction22/02/19 03:58 AM
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What’s your goal when visiting clubs? Are you trying to dance or are you trying to get laid? Just because a hot girl danced with an ugly guy doesn’t mean she slept with him.
/r/seduction22/02/19 01:42 AM
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You’re a real one bro! I don’t know how successful you have been with girls but it’s true that the really successful guys do whatever it takes and act even in the face of fear. I also like that you mentioned that approach anxiety never actually goes away. Stay true bro!
/r/seduction22/02/19 01:37 AM
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Start talking to lots of women. The more options you have, the less you will care.
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:19 AM
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Not only is it a lie, but I think it’s unfair to tell guys that their approach anxiety will disappear after 10 approaches. I have met thousands of random girls with very good success and I can honestly say that I still have approach anxiety to this day. My approach anxiety is not as severe as when I first started but it’s still there. The only thing that I believe has changed is my capacity to disregard it. In other words, I control my approach anxiety. That doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist.
/r/seduction21/02/19 08:14 AM
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I know the feeling. Do you feel depleted from it?
/r/seduction21/02/19 02:12 AM
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Cool story bro
/r/seduction21/02/19 02:10 AM
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The Game IS a numbers game
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:19 AM
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I would have agreed with you on this if I didn’t get laid last week by doing this. Normally, if a girl were to walk away with her friends, I would have let her go and write it off as “not interested”. Twice before, I felt like i had “lost” girls by not following them around. So I decided to prove my idea that sometimes you have to follow these girls around for a bit. So last Saturday, I went to a bar. 1 minute after meeting her, she said she had to help her friend find her purse. So I made out w…
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:07 AM
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If you just wanna get laid, then have sex with her and call it a day
/r/seduction20/02/19 11:02 PM
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If you’re trying to get laid, then you should be direct. However, what’s more important is that you touch her. You can find out if a girl is DTF by touching her as opposed to talking to her.
/r/seduction20/02/19 10:48 PM
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I use Instagram to stay in contact with girls. It works so well that I choose Instagram over their phone number now. I’ve even smashed two girls who DM’d me on Instagram. These are girls I had never met before.
/r/seduction20/02/19 10:45 PM
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Pics or it didn’t happen
/r/seduction20/02/19 10:43 PM
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This is bad advice. Some girls, especially shy ones, will not show any signs of interest. This is why I talk to and ask out any girl I find attractive regardless of the signs. Besides, signs don’t mean anything. A girl can stare at you only to tell you she has a bf when talking to her. Here’s some better advice for your son: ask out any girl regardless of the signs. The worst thing that can happen is she says no. Best case scenario: well you already know what that is lol
/r/seduction19/02/19 09:53 AM
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I used to feel the same way until I realized that everyone is sleeping with each other in the social circle. For my cousin's birthday last year, her and our friends went out to celebrate. There were 5 girls that I had hooked up with all together hanging out and I was still hooking up with 2 of them. ​ I'm pretty sure they all knew but they still acted like best friends. In these types of situations, being discrete goes a long way. ​
/r/seduction13/02/19 07:05 AM
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Why are you doing this challenge exactly?
/r/seduction13/02/19 06:57 AM
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I’m not gonna lie I have fucked a few fatties lol but i busted a nut and I was happy lmao and I was drunk so idgaf lol 200 is a lot of girls. People assume that ugly girls are “easier” to get but that’s not the case. They have to be sexually available and finding sexually available girls is a challenge in itself.
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:21 AM
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Definitely. I have a collection of creep pics and videos.
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:10 AM
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It all depends on the situation. Some girls I had to fuck in my car. Other girls I fucked at a friends or random persons house. Sometimes I would go to their house. And last resort was taking them to my moms house. But if they are dtf, they will follow you anywhere.
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:09 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction12/02/19 02:54 AM
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I do have serious issues. My issue is that I like to get laid a lot with random girls.
/r/seduction12/02/19 02:54 AM
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I disagree. I fucked a lot of girls at my moms house.
/r/seduction12/02/19 01:42 AM
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I would have to count but out of my 93 lays, i would say around 80% have been “first date” lays. A lot of them were girls I pulled from the bar too and I lived 12 miles away from the bar.
/r/seduction12/02/19 01:40 AM
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fuck her in your car
/r/seduction11/02/19 11:05 PM
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I disagree. Having great logistics is great, but being able to pull the trigger(trying to fuck her) is the most important thing.
/r/seduction11/02/19 11:05 PM
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It's worked well for me. It's one of the primary reasons why I fucked so many girls these past 3 years.
/r/seduction11/02/19 10:58 PM
2

She might have seemed disinterested to you because she was sober. She’s most likely not as socially-free sober. If you wanna see her, just ask her out. When in doubt, just ask.
/r/seduction11/02/19 07:51 AM
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Most girls instinctively know that when a guy shows interest, it’s for romantic or sexual reasons. So I always assume that if a girl is receptive, it’s because she likes me or is at least interested. In this case, ask her out again. If she agrees to go out with you again, assume she likes you and make a move again.
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:08 AM
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What do you want? Do you want to potentially have a sexual relationship with her or do you want to avoid rejection? Whatever your answer is, you will know how to act accordingly.
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:15 AM
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I never said I was bad at speaking to girls. I just don’t use lines or techniques like PUAs. I speak like a normal person and try to get into their pants.
/r/seduction10/02/19 09:53 PM
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Don’t worry about saying the right things. Just focus on actually going up to her. First you can say is “hi how are you”, and if she’s interested, a conversation will unfold.
/r/seduction10/02/19 07:07 AM
1

So just because you simply refute his claim, that means you’re correct because he didn’t show proof?
/r/seduction10/02/19 02:30 AM
2

Approaching and escalating are just a tiny piece of the puzzle. The bigger pieces include learning that most things are outside of your control, you can’t win them all, and all limitations are in your head. You have a long way to go OP. Instead of trying to make sense of 37 approaches, do 100 and then see what you learn. If you believe that most things are out of your control, then maybe it’s not you that’s the problem, but the problem is you haven’t found the girls who are willing to give you a…
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:53 PM
1

How many girls did you sleep with during that time?
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:35 PM
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What specifically were you doing before?
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:31 PM
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Each girl taught me something and each teaching fit accordingly to where I was at the time. In hindsight, each girl taught me something valuable that helped me progress. One that really stood out to me recently was how girls are just like us. They too can have sex with someone they don’t want to be in a relationship with and be okay with that. Another one was that a lot of girls cheat. One of my current fuckbuddies told me that she had a boyfriend months after we had been hooking up. There are s…
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:21 PM
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I mainly go direct but my results are the same either way. Doesn’t really matter what you say. If you saw the way I speak to girls, you would probably think I were a sexless loser lol Calculating ratios is futile because there are so many things outside of our control such as girls with boyfriends, husbands, lesbians, girls in bad moods, depressed girls, etc. People are very complex and we can’t treat them like numbers. Simply focus on your goal and do whatever it takes to get there. Sometimes i…
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:03 PM
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I’ve been doing this for over 3 years with 93 notches under my belt and let me tell you, I have talked to literally thousands of girls. I stopped counting my approaches because it’s irrelevant. It doesn’t matter how many girls you approach. What matters is how many you actually fuck. At least that was my goal. So if you really want to get good at picking up girls, stop counting the number of girls you meet and focus on actually fucking girls. When getting laid is your goal, it won’t matter how m…
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:55 PM
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Based on what though?
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:21 PM
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I haven’t had a real 3some, it was more of an orgy, but the way I did it was I brought 3 girls over I met at the bar. We had drinks, played truth or dare, and naturally it got sexual to the point where i ended up fucking one of the girls and the others were doing lesbian things. I think that if you bring your girls friend over and you all three just have fun and everyone is in a good mood, you could easily just turn everything sexual by asking the girls to make out and then going from there.
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:00 PM
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Most people will be polite to you at the gym. They will entertain you for a bit and then continue with their workout. Some people will just ignore you because they are there to work out and don’t want any distractions. And then there are a few people who are actually open to meeting strangers at gyms but that’s really rare from my experience. In short, there is nothing you could have done to turn things around and i don’t think anyone with “good game” would have been able to get anything from he…
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:51 PM
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What you’re doing “wrong” is you’re not doing what you want to do. You want to talk to girls but then you pussy out. You want to kiss them but then you pussy out. Commit to your actions and make moves. Take risks. Get out of your comfort zone. That’s the only way you will grow.
/r/seduction09/02/19 07:50 PM
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Well it depends on what you mean by weird. You’re obviously normal enough to have a conversation with a stranger on Reddit so I don’t think you’re as weird as you think. If you think your interests are weird, then learn to own up to them and people will respect you for that. People worth having around will respect you for being different. I think that if you go out in life and meet women and men, you will learn to accept yourself fully and live with a sort of grace. Then you will truly be yourse…
/r/seduction09/02/19 07:23 PM
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I like kisses and cuddling too. Whatever it is you want go and get it.
/r/seduction09/02/19 07:17 PM
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I have talked to thousands of girls and I have tried many different techniques and styles. The one that brought me and continues to bring me the best results is being normal and being myself. That means acting like a normal person and saying what is on my mind. The rest is out of your control. You can’t control if a girl is open to meeting strangers. You can’t control if she’s having a bad day. You can’t control if she has a boyfriend or is married. But you can go up to her and find out.
/r/seduction09/02/19 07:16 PM
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You’re misinterpreting my original comment. Obviously there were some steps in between like getting her phone number, but my opening line when meeting girls is usually “hey how are you”. My point was that it doesn’t really matter what you say as long as you don’t say stupid or weird things and she is actually open to meeting strangers.
/r/seduction09/02/19 07:11 PM
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I say go ahead and try to get with your co workers. It’s normal for men to try to have sex with their female co workers.
/r/seduction09/02/19 07:06 PM
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Talk to the one you like the most. I always go for the hottest one first.
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:20 AM
1

Just drop it and move on to the next girl. If this girl hits you up again, try to fuck but for now just go find some new girls that will actually have sex with you.
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:16 AM
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It’s very brave of you to share your vulnerabilities with us. Keep it up and you will go far. Trust yourself and do what you want. You already know what you have to do. Just keep doing what you want and what you believe is best for yourself and you will always be right.
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:14 AM
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My current best friends I met on forums.
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:06 AM
1

I wouldn’t look too much into it. She gave you her number now try to set something up with her.
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:04 AM
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If you feel that bad you can always try a penis enlargement pump. I’m totally serious right now. They actually work.
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:01 AM
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A lot of girls just love the attention bro. If she really was into you, she would have texted you to hang out. This girl was never planning on actually meeting up with you, sadly. On to the next one!
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:59 AM
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Why does this claim seem so radical to you?
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:53 AM
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Even if we assumed that I actually am never confident, I still get laid a lot which proves that confidence does not matter. What matters the most are your good looks and you actually talking to a lot of girls to find the ones who are dtf
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:47 AM
1

What’s a “shad”?
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:44 AM
1

Why is it so hard to believe? You think there’s some special line that you tell girls that will magically make them want to have sex with you?
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:43 AM
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I worked on becoming really physically attractive.
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:42 AM
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You are over analyzing this WAY too much! Talking to girls isn't rocket science. The line that has gotten me laid countless of times is... wait for it... hey how are you?
/r/seduction09/02/19 04:12 AM
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In my experience, confidence does not matter. I have met many girls when I was feeling down and "unconfident", stumbling on my words, and still ended up fucking them. On the other hand, I have also met a lot of girls where I was feeling and acting very confidently and didn't even get a phone number. ​ Aside from your looks, when it comes to getting laid, it's about hitting the numbers and making a move to actually try to fuck her. The rest is pretty much out of your control.
/r/seduction08/02/19 10:48 PM
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