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I think it depends on whether he’s old or new money. In my experience new money men don’t really know much more than looks so they’ll marry beautiful poor women too. I know a man who married and divorced like 4 women, all of them broke but young and beautiful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:07 PM
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I get random sexual urges often but I don’t randomly hook up with men because it would not help me in the long run. Also my ex told me at some point about how he’s always the one to initiate and never realized my way of initiating was by making him want it. I was just inviting him and he always thought it was his idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:40 PM
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Ideally she’s going to spend the whole day cooking, cleaning and being in a good mood, although it’s definitely better for her to at least have a part time job if there are no kids to raise. Being a traditional woman doesn’t mean being an idiot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:21 AM
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Masculinity: 83, Femininity: 122 The idea of the test is interesting but ngl these questions are sort of dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:05 AM
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Strong as in they don’t run away from problems and challenges. I’m not necessarily religious so I don’t go to church lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:33 AM
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90-60-90 looks great naked if you actually have hips and an ass
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:40 PM
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There are probably way more women who want a 666 than men who specifically want a size 0 woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:20 PM
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No because I don’t choose men based on what’s on the profile. Making me pick men from a bunch of pictures and descriptions is going to make me pass on a lot of men I would’ve actually been interested in irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:43 AM
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First guy I dated was a very serious, traditional, christian guy who turned out to be not as serious and hardworking as me and just abandoned me when things got hard. I don’t hate men because of it but it was sort of disappointing that even the men I considered to be the strongest were that weak. As for recovery, I’m just looking for someone else to prove to me that men are indeed strong, but it’s hard to find serious, mature guys around my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:05 AM
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I’ve always loved serious, stoic men but I don’t approach, most I do is I let men approach me, so if he doesn’t actively try to pursue me I’ll lose interest fast
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:33 PM
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oh no, I don’t have any conservative friends if that’s what you’re saying. A lot of them I had very little in common with and most of them were really.. normal, some of them were even feminists, but you’re free to not believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:52 AM
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A lot of women say they don’t like dominant men, and some of them really don’t, but every single female friend I had in the last few years came to me asking for advice on “how do I get my bf to be more dominant?” at some point so I think it’s pretty safe to assume most women prefer dominant men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:31 AM
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It doesn’t necessarily make him a pussy but it does make me feel like he is. Assuming that the guy is not an absolute creep who suddenly gropes random women he’ll give her enough time to say/show a no. Paying attention to her body language is necessary but asking for verbal consent at this point seems like worrying too much. It’s all about being caring while being dominant and assertive imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:06 PM
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Explicit consent seems unnecessary to me and tbh it makes the guy seem like a pussy and kills the mood. Imo body language should be enough but I know too many women who purposefully say no then act like a yes. It’s your own responsibility to take care of your body and it’s your own responsibility to be clear about your no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:21 AM
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I love the way some men can make you feel so safe and protected. How reliable some of them can be and how they can stay rational and do what needs to be done. I wouldn’t have to worry about anything other than how to keep him happy. Even when discussing problems with intelligent women it often turns into a worry fest over trivial things. It’s fun to talk about everything and nothing with a woman but it’s so much different from the way a man just solves things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:29 PM
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I’m 5’7 and he is 5’8 or 5’9 I think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:58 PM
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you could not be any more wrong than that lmao. He took my virginity and I was 100% willing to spend my entire life by his side. Didn’t settle either, I am very picky. It’s just that I loved him so much height really didn’t matter. I like tall men because I can feel feminine next to them but he was confident and masculine enough to not need the height to make me feel small
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:06 PM
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A bit of a controversial opinion maybe but marriage is dying because people can easily divorce nowadays without as much social stigma. As a result they stop putting in as much effort into relationships as they used to. Cannot say whether that’s good or bad though, being able to get out of a bad marriage sounds good but would that marriage still be as bad if both partners didn’t consider getting out of it as an option and actually put in some effort to make things work?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:42 AM
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Height can also be accepted to a certain point. I also used to say I’m only interested in tall men but I ended up with a guy barely taller than me. I wouldn’t have went for a guy shorter than me though, but I’m insecure about the fact that I’m tall-ish and there are women who wouldn’t mind as much. Short men don’t stand out as much as tall men, but if you have something to compensate with you’re fine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:45 AM
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a simp doesn’t offer protection though, he’s just a human shield, which is why they’re not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:23 PM
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In my experience whenever a woman says “I only date guys with x, y, z traits” only a small part of those requirements actually need to be met and she’ll accept a lot of exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:13 PM
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I don’t know who that is but I find that people often purposefully make it so that traditional or similar dynamics sound bad. “Make a man’s life easier for him” it’s about making life easier for both
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:05 PM
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In theory you can meet men anywhere, as long as you’re letting him approach you, you could find a guy in a supermarket too. All the guys I was interested in I met through mutual friends, so I recommend that. It’s easier because as long as you don’t have weird friends, chances of him being dangerous are lower and you can also get an idea of what kind of person he is
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 03:04 PM
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username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:40 PM
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4 reasons I can think of: Because empathy makes you sad when you know someone might feel unattractive Because you want to show other people how nice you are Because everyone else is doing it and you don’t want to be left out/you don’t want others to think you’re an asshole Because you want her to stay ugly/ “haha look at her she actually believes she’s pretty” For some it’s one or more of the reasons, for some it’s all of these reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:32 PM
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our tastes don’t really match but I agree that Akiyama is hot af although I think it’s mostly his personality that is very attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:15 PM
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I wouldn’t really care that much in reality, if there’s a guy I like I wouldn’t dump him just because he likes wearing rings but I don’t really like men who are too polished/care too much about their appearance so I consider that the only ring a man needs to wear is a wedding ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:28 PM
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I’m in my early 20s, most women my age that I know don’t actually like super feminine looking men but they do prefer men significantly less stereotypically masculine looking than what men think we like, however there are a few masculine elements that are adored and considered important by the pretty boy loving girls as well (smaller hips, wide shoulders, taller than them etc.) My personal preference is considered to be more in the area of “less pretty more handsome” faces but I prefer skinny men…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:19 PM
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they give up and abandon relationships way too easily
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:41 PM
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Most likely our standards of what’s bulky is different. I find that the majority of women who post photos of themselves from the gym are too bulky for my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:44 PM
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Either he wants a relationship or he doesn’t. If he wants 20 year olds in his 30s, 40s, 50s, assuming he is financially well and decent at human interaction he will always have a variety of girls with daddy issues to pick from, a lot of them willing to hook up, but a very small percentage of them will be able to stay in a relationship without acting crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:25 AM
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I didn’t say most, and spending money on gambling is definitely not a sign of having their shit together but kids with rich parents aren’t rare and to most young women they’re generally much more attractive than a man in his 30s who doesn’t have any experience with relationships. The only women attracted to men 10+ years older than them are women with severe daddy issues. Would a HVM even want that for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:02 AM
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because a big chunk of people on this sub don’t go outside and build frustration towards the other sex based on experiences other people say they had
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:16 AM
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millionaires, not many, but guys who are financially well enough to blow an entire month’s minimum wage salary on gambling and still live comfortably are not exactly a rarity in big cities, in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:16 AM
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I don’t understand why western women are so obsessed with working out lol all these “fit” women look bulky and unfeminine to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:27 AM
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generally women consider that the appeal of dating an older man (besides daddy issues) is financial stability and maturity/experience. If he’s just now growing it’s way more natural for a 21 year old model to just get a rich guy in his 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:00 AM
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If he’s in his 30s and had casual sex but never had a relationship he will have no idea how to connect emotionally with his partner/cooperate and is definitely not LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:24 AM
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Women in their 20s typically go for guys with potential because that’s all most guys have around that age. I am in my early 20s and I was in a relationship with a guy with potential too, he was a broke student but he seemed serious, career oriented and ambitious, like there could be a happy future with him. He seemed like he was willing to learn and grow together, and like he’d be a good father as well. I also put up with way too much, always told myself “I can’t complain now but it’s ok because…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:52 PM
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If I’d be looking for one that actually meets my standards it would be a slow process because it’d probably take me a few months to trust and learn about a guy in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:47 PM
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You say that exactly because you don’t know how much time and money normal women spend to look relatively good
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:42 PM
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Would you even believe it if a random woman on Reddit said she’s a model lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:37 PM
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In 12 seconds I only know if it’s a hard pass or if I would be open to get to know him. In my case if I decide it’s a hard pass there’s no changing that, so that part is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:51 AM
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I wouldn’t date them but I do find them attractive physically, especially MGK. Because I’m only looking at them, not meeting them, their status means nothing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:50 PM
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You’ve spent too much time on the internet. Go outside and experience talking to an actual human being. Men are not ATMs and women are not a bunch of holes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:44 PM
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Figure out what game? You need to take your depressing ass to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:32 PM
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why does op really feel the need to terrorize us with her masochism kink
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:12 PM
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unfortunately for you there are plenty of men who believe in astrology/are superstitious as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:22 PM
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Yeah you know what if we’re going to go off of what I used to swipe right on OLD it’d be a very small percentage of men that didn’t look like total losers in their photos. If we’re gonna go off of real life, I recently met a friend group of about 7 dudes and out of them, 2-3 were taken and 2 I would’ve considered as an option physically. OLD is not in your favor. You guys need to actually go and meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:11 AM
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In my experience career women usually don’t take relationships as seriously as more traditional women so your lifelong relationship is out the window at that point. Not to mention you want high quality kids with both parents working? What are they gonna raise themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:51 PM
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I am 100% speaking for myself. We have plenty of gold diggers to export
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:03 PM
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you can doubt all you want I’m just being honest. How much of a loser would you have to be to pay for a professional photoshoot just to get dates on tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:25 AM
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Maybe I’m weird but high quality photos turn me off because it shows that the guy cares about his image a little too much. A man has other responsibilities than to waste time in front of the mirror, so while a certain degree of cleanliness and neatness is expected, actually putting a ton of effort in his appearance is a minus for me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:06 AM
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Definitely can’t speak for all women but as an Eastern European and East Asian woman I do not want western men, much less western men desperate enough to come here for a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:44 AM
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Relatively confident posture, not fat (preferably skinny), not overly muscular, visibly taller than me (I’m 5’7 so maybe 5’9 or over), wide shoulders, decently healthy looking facial structure. Clean and hygienic but not overly neat or extremely preoccupied with fashion, I’m not into long hair or long beards, long stubble is hot but anything past that feels a bit too mature for me right now. Also I’m young so I don’t want them balding just yet, like, keep your hair on your head until marriage at…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:27 PM
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Aways weird to see men limit themselves like this. She may be out of his league but she may not know it, or she may not even care. I always thought that if she chooses a man for a LTR, with pure intentions and not to use him as an ATM, there’s no way she thinks she’s out of his league. Aren’t you, as a man, going to regret it if you let her go?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:45 PM
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Yeah if it’s not mutual worshipping she’ll get worried you’ll abandon her and it’ll make your life harder
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:31 AM
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Women typically complain about things they don’t actually care. They’re just hoping it hurts the man. There are also men complaining about women’s “beef curtains“ but if you get off the internet suddenly it’s not a problem anymore. It doesn’t actually matter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:35 PM
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No such thing as overdressed imo. As long as you don’t look like you’re not used to the outfit it’s fine.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/21 11:27 AM
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For me I’d say both. I love doing my hair, makeup, working out etc. but it also sometimes feels like a chore because I’m expected to do those things. My mother avoided telling me to take care of my appearance when I was younger. I used to be a girly girl as a child but towards my teenage years I started feeling like being girly was considered dumb. Knowing a few beauty tips might’ve saved me the pain of recovering from crippling low self esteem and EDs but it is what it is. I think women are nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 12:32 AM
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Mental illness lol A woman ideally wants a strong “bad” guy who will only treat her well and no one else, or at least a bad guy who will change for the better just for her. Makes her feel important in his life. Some women take that too far
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 12:08 AM
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I honestly feel exhausted. Most of the times I enjoy the process of making myself prettier but I’m supposed to take care of my skin, hair, clothes, body, posture, attitude,nails, makeup, unwanted hair etc. all the time even if I don’t want it and I’m just very tired. My skin can’t handle the constant waxing and shaving and different products I use to keep it from getting too irritated. I’m drained. Sometimes I wish men understood how hard it is to maintain all this without saying things like “oh…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 02:47 AM
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It is natural for women to be picky, however, this is only efficient when they are relatively mentally healthy. We’re not really going to get anywhere if women pick their partners specifically for hook-ups and eventually settle for a weaker man when they get old
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 07:38 PM
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Women typically don’t express clear no’s because of their indirect nature. The ones who lay half drunk next to a guy they rejected though, are most likely severely insecure and want validation. Here’s an advice for guys who find themselves in these kinds of situations though, just leave. Only accept it if she’s clearly into you. Men who act like that show confidence which is definitely more attractive than wasting your time and energy for a woman who keeps inviting you but is not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:54 PM
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Try wearing clothes that are more minimalistic and have less patterns or frills. High heels, a good posture and more mature-looking makeup like red lips or darker eyeshadow might also help
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/21 07:35 PM
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This had the opposite effect on me, so I guess it depends on the person
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/21 07:31 PM
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lmao I don’t stand by fds I’m not american
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 04:44 PM
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would you have to be like, what, 13 for your opinion to be relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 04:25 PM
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It hasn’t quite affected me but I wouldn’t have been dating the man I am dating now if I had a high n-count. It depends on how traditional the guy is though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:35 PM
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What’s the point of being rich if you’re frugal? It’s not about the flexing, it’s about the commodity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:22 PM
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Asking to split the bill as a man is a very unattractive thing to do because it makes him look like a bad provider. It’s a natural reaction for any woman to dry up to that. If she accepts she is usually either desperate or has low self esteem which will cause you problems later if it evolves into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:44 AM
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Sure, they might not be trying all that hard but that doesn’t mean they’re okay with it. I doubt there is a woman who truly enjoys being fat no matter what kinda “body positivity” and “I’m confident!” bullshit she posts everyday. They definitely hate being fat but are too unmotivated to do something about it so they try to change the beauty standards instead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:46 PM
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if she’s only attractive to you because she is younger than you will you dump her when she gets old and get a new one? it’s different from women dating tall men cause those tall men don’t shrink and become short
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:01 PM
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