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| 40 | Girl Only Texts You If You Text First (Here's Why)That’s okay, but in order to attract the kind of person you’re interested in you’ve got to become the kind of person that someone would want to be interested in. I don’t mean changing yourself for others, what I mean is investing in yourself first and foremost, having a solid foundation is the key to any part of your life, especially when it comes to attraction. Real seduction is less about finding the proper “cheat codes” to attracting partners, it’s about becoming an attractive person as a who… | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 04:29 AM |
| 1 | How to relearn kino and stop overthinking it?Yeah just a nice low huh and a quick peck on the cheek is a very sweet gesture that shows your romantic interest without over extending. It's playful but also direct. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on double texting?I don't see an issue with double texting in this instance so long as you are direct and get right to the point. "Hey so I'm going to a music concert on Thursday, you should come" don't try to create a whole long round about discussion. Just be direct, have a Plan and throw out a straightforward invitation. If that isn't responded to cut your losses. Good luck friend! | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 01:57 PM |
| 4 | It's legitimately amazing how nice girls are!It's almost as if they're...... people too! | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 07:13 PM |
| 2 | I (21F) want to escalate kino. Is playing footsie juvenile?its definitely a good decision, its playful and fun and sexy | /r/seduction | 05/03/17 07:54 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop acting like a friend and instead start flirting?Well said. A big part is reading their own body language and tells they give off. Calibration is key | /r/seduction | 02/11/16 06:49 PM |
| 6 | How to "work the room" at a college party?You don't ALWAYS have to lay down on a compliment. Wth this advice, just like any good advice, always calibrate to your situation. | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 11:30 PM |
| 5 | What I have learned in 10 years of being in the game.Ouch that's rough man. You can take it slow while still making your intentions clear however. Always make your intentions clear. | /r/seduction | 22/09/16 12:25 AM |
| 25 | I am going on a date with a hottest girl on my school and why you should just do it.If that actually happened, 2 things. You grew a set of calls and put yourself out there and got rejected, good! Rejection is how we grow. The more you take and move past the less it affects you. Second, you would owe her an apology cause she just showed you that isn't the type of person you'd want to be with anyway! Talk about a win win my friend. | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you know guys who are REALLY good with women? What makes them so good?the difference of being sexually relevant and sexually irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Where to take a tinder date that is less than 21 years old?Then I think it's obvious...,, | /r/seduction | 30/03/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm Kelley, and I'm here to helpHe's a world class soccer play who's an absolute monster. He's ruthless and cocky and an incredible player. | /r/seduction | 17/03/16 09:44 PM |
| 0 | What's a better way to say "How are you?"How's it going. Whatcha been up to. Do anything crazy recently? | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 05:19 PM |
| 6 | "All guys want is sex" shit testAnd how do you see that conversation panning out? Sounds like a dead end. | /r/seduction | 26/02/15 05:57 AM |
| 11 | A blunt, socially retarded shit test that threw me off.I know a good amount of girls who are into confident guys but are turned off by overly cocky ones. I feel like this wouldnt work with them, thoughts? | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 07:08 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Was I in the wrong?I like this reply. And I also agree confrontations are not a bad thing IDEALLY. But after one, especially with someone who is new to you and you are not totally comfortable with, there can be an awkward and uncomfortable phase after one which can be hard to repair. | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 08:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Was I in the wrong?I agree with acknowledging the incident when it first arose but how would you go about it without coming off as confrontational and have it blow up into something big? | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 07:08 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Was I in the wrong?This is interesting. you talk about setting a precedent after only 2 rounds at a bar, but suggest paying entirely the first date... If you wanted there to be an understanding of equal payment for things, or at least semi-equal, wouldn't paying for the entire first date set a MAJOR precedent for following dates? | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 07:06 PM |
| 2 | She never texts me first but when I text her, she texts back right away. What does this mean?thats not 100% true. Some girls text back for the attention and because they are very bad at cutting people off. Also, there is a large fear of rejection so knowing they have someone on the hook, whether they are into them or not gives them validation. | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 12:12 AM |
| -5 | [FR] Meet HB9 at the beach. Date a few days later with f-close.You guys sound jealous. He was not bragging in anyway, merely citing direct examples of how his night went so we can have more context to see how exactly it worked out for him and all the different areas they connected on allowing for his synopsis at the end to be more thorough. SLOW DOWNNNN. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 10:54 PM |
| 2 | You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do?smooth lines. really like those. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 09:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] f-closed an old crush from high school after dealing with her needy, AFC ex-bf. How I did it without being an asshole.thanks for the explanation, so it was purely based on the context haha good because I'm often the man who you described in your explanation haha and I definitely do not feel it makes me beta whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 01:36 AM |
| 7 | [FR] f-closed an old crush from high school after dealing with her needy, AFC ex-bf. How I did it without being an asshole.Nice FR, I applaud how smooth you were and love how you worked the other girl Tai. One thing though, the line about him getting you a beer stuck out to me. Do you really believe its that bad/beta to get someone else a beer? Makes you sound kinda arrogant. | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 01:07 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Approached a 2 set at the mall as they were sitting downNice FR, do you think you would have had more success if you had cut it a little short and applied a time constraint some time after establishing you thought they were cute and just went for a "we should hang out sometime" and grab a number? | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 08:00 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "Will you miss me?"probably the best answer here, agree and amplify is always solid. | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 03:55 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to "Will you miss me?"that leaves the inevitable "i asked you first!" then what would you do? | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 03:55 AM |
| 17 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?gotta love reddit and their grammar police | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 11:51 PM |
| 62 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?this has worked for me on numerous occassions. "I've also used, I can't talk anymore, I need to kiss you." | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Good way to respond to compliments?Give a smirk confident and make strong eye contact. less is more. drives girls crazy. | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 05:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Girl in Class; First Rejection!this sounds like some solid advise, it can come off needy as though you're requesting her attention and not so much being the leader that you want to seem. besides that i also wasn't a fan of the "negging" about falling asleep/being tired. that can come off as pretty corny and lame in a classroom environment. regardless, always good to take action and approach. | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Know how to smilethe reason is because they made you smile, go from there! | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 03:26 AM |
| 2 | A Beginner's Primer to Social Proof/Value: Why you should friend zone high level HBs."he's just not that into you" is a movie id think of | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 04:39 AM |
| 1 | "I've met/I'm seeing someone"sounds like it would make the conversation awkward and she'd feel uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 24/09/13 11:15 PM |
| 3 | {FR} Made out with the hottest chick at the weddingyou've gotta calibrate the situation and feel it out. I wouldn't say it's never a good idea to hold hands but you've gotta feel it. sometimes it's a bad idea and too forward and sometimes it's the perfect touch and she'll love it! | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 09:43 PM |
| 23 | {FR} Made out with the hottest chick at the weddingthus is the beauty of isolation. | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 09:40 PM |
| -6 | Some gold from an old PUA forum, advanced kino techniqueI'm not saying it's right or wrong. But if you're going to bring a woman's point of view in on this, don't many women believe in the de-sexualization of women's breasts? If so, wouldn't it be just like touching any other part of her non-sexualized body? | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 05:32 PM |
| 8 | Some gold from an old PUA forum, advanced kino techniquewell isnt that the point of this? It's not assuming, it's discovering. | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 04:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a read"Physically attractive ". you've got to produce attraction in some way shape or form atleast, it just doesn't need to be physical. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 12:23 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/1/13 (please upvote - zero karma)work on changing it? the power is in your hands my friend if you want to change something you can! it's a beautiful thing once you realize the world truely is your oyster and you can do whatever you want! | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Tips for going from the first coffee date to a real first date?hmmm at my university most frat parties are basically open to anyone, you just pay like a $5 cover charge at the door. It's not like that around you? | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Tips for going from the first coffee date to a real first date?you have no chance of finding a house party or anything fun to attend after? | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 07:51 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Thank you Seddit: A Field Report from a beginnerI'm no PUA or anything but a good tip i've read is assume attraction. Just assume they are attracted and if you escalate and it turns out they aren't then just brush it off cause you're a badass and can go after others who will be interested in you. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:43 AM |
| 13 | [FR] Met girl from OkCupid for a casual date, f-closed her roomate. WTFI think I'm a little confused by all the texting. Isn't that awkward? | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Alright Seddit, I need some advice. Mini [FR]if the OP wants to get with the girl then this is definitely would i would suggest as well. don't make her think of him, keep all of her attention on you and how much fun she's having with you. | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Alpha Male Seduction: Have You Got a Girlfriend? Here's How Not to Screw It Upthats kind of how i felt reading it. being alpha? more like acting like an insecure bitch and playing games because you're afraid to be vulnerable. sounds much less manly then growing a set of balls and not playing little highschool mind games. | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 09:51 PM |
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