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My advice: Get a wingman/friend that can pull you into conversations. Lets say your goal is to speak with 5 new girls that night (ex. in a club). Find someone who is pretty fearless approaching women and ask for their help, get them to pull you into these new conversations. Some tips: - Practice a basic intro where you share your name and some type of ice breaker to get the conversation going - Once you get a few intros in and get warmed up, get your friend to push you into doing one approach th…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/23 07:49 PM
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Thank you for your service, courage and strength It takes a lot to do what you do (most men wouldn't be able to cope). Hang in there and know that you have a community of men on here that have your back!
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 01:36 AM
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Simple, raise good kids who can think on their own. Kids with good morals, critical thinking skills, positive growth mindset, ability to get through tough challenges, well adjusted, happy and have the ability to pass these character lessons onto their kids if they decide to have them. The role of the father hasn't changed imo. Red Pill Dads can do it better by being more real with their kids (real as in authentic)
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 04:10 AM
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The banana part is hilarious!
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 07:40 PM
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Also, being a good dad and a high SMV man are not mutually exclusive. I would ask you why are you changing diapers? Agreed 100%. Changing diapers because I have too (good Dad column and my wife works as well - we share baby duties) I would also add, Good Dad, High SMV and being a great Leader of the family are all separate things. Possible to be a good dad and not the other two or vice versa in the other cases.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 01:54 AM
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Some truth to these theories for sure. I have a simpler take on why women change a few years into marriage after babies. I see this happening in households where both parents work, before we used to have grand parents and other family around/co-habitating - but this is much less common. Both parents are working and the Father ends up picking up the slack in most cases. It's hard to be Alpha when you're changing diapers, vacuuming, and preparing dinner - its actually a battle to not turn into a b…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 04:28 PM
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Great post! I like how showed the dynamic can be positive and inspiring. More guys need to think this way :)
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 05:42 PM
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Couple things you can try: 1) Weight Lifting - there is a theory that pain/trauma can get stored in the body. Lifting is a proven stress reliever. I've tested working out when I'm upset about something and I always feel better afterwards - actually it helps me get some awesome work outs in - use it as fuel 2) Psychedelics - Not for everyone, but tapping into a different consciousness can help you process things in a new light/perspective. If you can use these in a more medicinal way, you might b…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 07:55 PM
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Trust your gut and move on. Painful as it is, not paying attention to the signs you've shared will mess you more up the longer you wait.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:45 PM
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Humble Fearless? Was trying to come up with a word that combines arrogance, confidence and stubborness
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 01:50 AM
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i think this post is gold, thank you bro This can be applied to find any kind of mentor - anyone who's sold a company above a million dollars certainly has some wisdom that they can share. I've never really had a mentor (outside my family that is), but I'm a part of several groups and it's helped me a lot. Getting a good coach/mentor is definitely a bar raiser and a way to hit your goals faster
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 12:33 AM
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Wow, the guy in the story is super brave for pulling all that off with so much thought - most guys would have just freaked out! Good on him
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 06:54 PM
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Don't think it was a mistake to kick her out, but if you still feel bad about the cab money issue, next time if this ever happens again, offer some cash for the cab - it's really not a big deal. Just take it as a learning opp
/r/askTRP16/06/16 02:12 PM
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Learn modern JavaScript - React or Angular. Those two are the hottest right now
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 05:53 PM
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Great post!!! Quality - look forward to reading more of yours
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 01:44 PM
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Thank you for doing this, much appreciated :)
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 01:28 PM
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Well said brother
/r/askTRP04/05/16 06:27 PM
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Awesome summary - thank you!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 02:11 PM
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I'd be real and tell him that you fucked up (even if you don't mean it). He'll likely have a lot of anger, I'd let him vent, then share that you realized that you were messing up a lot and that you started doing stuff on your own - wasn't personal, just how things ended up. The point is to not personalize or make it like you're rejecting him in any way (even though that's the truth)
/r/askTRP25/04/16 08:00 PM
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good post
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 01:15 AM
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All your responses were personal insults and adding no value. It also depends on the smaller company you join, it's often much more possible to be a part of the core team. You don't need to sacrifice financially as well. I'm not saying this as a hypothetical, this is my personal reality and through a lot of hard work and taking a lot of risks, I've done better than most.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 06:36 PM
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Be rational if you want to be average. While you make some very valid points, you're missing something so crucial. Doing great things is tough/challenging/hardwork/etc What's your advice then? Not try? The corporate game is not an end game, been there, done that. It's soul sucking at best. A happy medium is joining a smaller company and be a part of the team where you can have a big impact. Your advice will keep you at average. Being great requires taking risks.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 11:52 PM
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+1 great story, you handled it perfectly
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 08:04 PM
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Good points. In general principles I agree with you, but I also believe its possible for women to have strong frame - whether that's culturally enforced on them and they later adopt it as their own or through a mentor. But then you can argue that they can take on masculine characteristics in this way, when they have a strong frame. I agree with your comments on this reply, so we're on the same page. Men with a weak frame will also adapt to you in a similar manner.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 04:10 PM
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Everyone is partially driven my personal self interest - male or female. You can argue everything is subjective, because things come from our own personal viewpoint. You're not really saying anything. You "dance" with everyone, male and female. Everyone has their own agenda and priorities. That's the way the world works. It's not an evil or good thing - it just is the ways things are. No one mentioned Unicorn, you did. You're a suspicious thinking person, that's cool if that's how you are. Perso…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 03:49 PM
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Good advice and conversation here - I enjoyed reading both your posts. Maristbacon - good on you for manning up and taking control of things
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 02:51 PM
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I read your post. I agree and experienced with most of what you said, but I'd rank your opinions on the stronger side from where I am. In general I agree with you. I just found the title a bit click baitish and not a fan of some absolutes that are to be taken as facts. (More like in general women operate this way) But you're not wrong. Sometimes I feel we get a bit side tracked on here and focus too much on the negative vs. ways of positively dealing with difficult things.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 02:30 PM
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I don't understand your reply. It's fairly easy to pick up on someone's weakness in most cases. (male or female) She can only press your buttons if you let her - granted, she may know which buttons you don't have full control over. But the decision always rests with you in how you want to respond. Not sure what you're suspicious of? Everyone has their own agenda in play, male and female alike
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 09:16 PM
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Nothing is easy, especially relationships. Women in most cases are different than Men. To say they are incapable of change is inaccurate and doesn't even make sense. Lot of anger on here about women - it's better to accept them flaws and all and work on yourself (you can only control your own actions anyways). We chat a lot about being a strong and good Captain in the relationship. It's possible for women to be a strong co-captain as well. Anyways, couldn't tell if you were being sarcastic
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:09 PM
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Calling Bullshit on this. I've been in an LTR for the last 5+ years and as I've grown, my partner has adapted to me. We've had some tough conversations and there are certain things I accept as the way she is, but I've seen her grow a lot. Some of the shit on here is plain victim speak - folks are wired differently (men & women too). Shut up and get over it. It's been hammered over and over again. Move on bro and focus on how to make yourself better.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:34 PM
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I'm with you - this post was a waste of time
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 04:10 PM
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Seems like a lot of folks on here are getting hot and bothered about how she reacted. If he had reacted in a way that saved her face and not as bluntly, it would have saved this guy a lot of trouble. Yes it sucks and yes it's not fair, but this is the world we live in. No point spending a lot of energy wailing about this, get smarter and move on. It's a simple fix, no point bitching, better to act with class and leave em better than when you met them
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:16 PM
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Awesome reply! Enjoyed reading the passionate debate between you both
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 08:54 PM
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+1 Thanks for sharing. I'm not a fan of this extreme posts myself and wouldn't have put this as a sticky for the whole group
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 09:03 PM
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Glad you brought this up - I found that exact post pretty extreme and click bait-ish. I even posted a reply and had a few guys jump on me right away. Even the poster responded directly to my comments lol But overall, I just wanted to thank you for bringing this up - sometimes the main TRP site comes off a bit juvenile, so I'm glad we are not taking the same hard line stance
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 12:40 PM
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Totally agree - I see the sentiment and appreciate the points being made. I prefer a more measured approach (scapel vs a hammer) - But I understand that sometimes a more extreme view makes for better writing and emphasis.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:24 PM
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All I'm saying is 99.99% of single moms are not scum. That's stupid. Are some of them unsavoury and to be avoided - absolutely yes. Some men do bounce like you brought up. There are many reasons why some moms become single - good and bad like I said before. I think the views are on the extreme side - not saying it's not true in some or even most cases. But 99.99% is a joke.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:47 PM
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Not sure why you're so aggressive? Maybe you're projecting some stuff on me. I'm not saying NAWALT, but that quote is just an opinion, I don't care if it's bolded. There are plenty of assholes out there, and I'm sure you've met a few. It's entirely plausible that some women are single to get away from an abusive spouse Yes, you should be obviously cautious around single mothers. Saying they are all scum is a bit harsh and not true. I don't think this number is so high and the poster is venting h…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:01 PM
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Thanks for balancing this out. Not every single mother is scum. In some cases like you said, guys don't have their shit together, are abusive to their partner or decide fatherhood is not for them and they bounce. Good and bad exist in both men and women
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 05:01 PM
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Thanks for your great comment, awesome insight You said it much better - I'm not against anger. It's a tool that can be used to drive positive changes, but can also be destructive. When I was more BP, I used to blame my partner for things and would think, if she would only change, things would get better. It was destructive and got me no where. This post reminded me when I used to blame outside factors vs. just figuring out my own way to be happy. Not going to waste my energy on blaming people.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 07:19 PM
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Nice story - bro time is essential to make us remember who we are and reinforce the great things about being a guy :)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 08:47 PM
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Lot of anger in this post - I for one am a better man when I've moved past this phase. If you view women as the enemy, life becomes a battlefield. Yeah, sure there are some wars and battles to be fought, but it's also a lot of fun getting good at building your skill set attracting women - the huge benefit to all this is, when you invest in yourself, a lot of that can translate into better game with women.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 02:51 PM
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Agreed. If you guys were dating, its not a big deal if she was dating too. Was she dating when you guys got really serious? If not, then that's a good sign. All these guys saying dump her is an easy cop out without thinking the whole thing through. When you first start dating someone, it's a given that there might be some guys lurking here and there. Does she shut that down when you guys committed? Yes, then that's good.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 08:50 PM
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Honestly, what happened is your fault as unstable as she is. I've been through some similar experiences in my blue pill phase. You made a few big mistakes that set her off Asking her to read a book - she feels like you're judging her and that she's broken and not good enough - even if it's true, you can't do that - this approach doesn't work with someone who has a fragile ego. You need to take a much lighter and less direct approach You went out for food and came back empty handed - you know bet…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 09:32 PM
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What about making eye contact with the guys - I sometimes do this and tell them with my eyes to back the f off. I do this in a non obvious way to my girl, but make it obvious for the guys looking
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 01:24 AM
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