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| 1 | Things every guy should have done/achieved by age 35?Thank you for your input! I definitely agree on the quality/quantity argument. What else would you add? | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Things every guy should have done/achieved by age 35?Definitely agree. Was going to put a point about having a few LTRs under the belt but I know this community’s views towards that kind of stuff lol Keep it up bro! | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 11:56 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys consider to be the "pillars" of a man's life?I like it. Sharing in the sense of being charitable, or sharing your accomplishments with someone else (like an S/O)? | /r/MGTOW | 11/02/20 08:18 PM |
| 2 | In the workplace...Don’t shit where you eat. Ever. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Importance of Abstinence on Monk Mode?I suppose I didn’t think of it like that! I am a meticulous planner by nature, so I have been preparing this journey for months, to the stage I am in now where I’m trying to refine my plans and get some feedback so I can have a more complete mindset before I officially board the Mayflower. Good on you for being able to practice abstinence! I would definitely appreciate your input either way, be it positive or negative! | /r/MGTOW | 24/01/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Importance of Abstinence on Monk Mode? And an open-ended question as well.Thank you for your insight! To be fair I tend to lurk more in MGTOW than I do here, where they preach the importance of oneself and the non-importance of women, i.e sex. I’m glad things over here are a little more realistic. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Importance of Abstinence on Monk Mode? And an open-ended question as well.I’m not, in fact the opposite. A lot of the posts I’ve seen about monk mode seem to mention NoFap, which I understand is important, but some of them mention like not ejaculating at all and I never understood why. Clearly most things are okay in moderation, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Importance of Abstinence on Monk Mode? And an open-ended question as well.Exactly! If it comes, it comes. If you're making it your modus operandi then obviously that's not healthy, but if you're just doing you and it presents itself to you, then why not? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Importance of Abstinence during Monk Mode?Thank you for pointing that out! I guess this was more of a post made for open discussion than for explicit advice or clarification. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Importance of Abstinence during Monk Mode?I wrote it so people could chime in and express their opinions, but I guess people here didn't perceive it as such. I'll move this post elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Importance of Abstinence during Monk Mode?Sorry about that, I didn't want to make the post as personal and more as a starter for open discussion. My reason for Monk Mode isn't about a sex addiction or a result of oneitis. For me, it's about becoming a completely happy and content person and learning to live with and eventually solve the problems I have and may encounter in the future without having to pretend like they don't exist in order to get past them | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:27 PM |
| 5 | How important is the car you drive in terms of SMV?From my experience as a 25 year old with a nice car (comparative to other people my age), a lot of it depends on just that: how you compare to others in your age range. I bought a new Subaru BRZ in 2017 which is by no means a “luxury” car, but compared to my friends and other people I’ve talked to/hung out with in my age range, I have the nicest car, so that increases my SMV a tad. YMMV but obviously the general idea is Nicer car == More Money == Better opportunity to provide for someone else. J… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How does age (30+) impact game and SMV in Los Angeles?Thank you! And if you don’t have a job out there yet, good luck on your search! | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | How does age (30+) impact game and SMV in Los Angeles?Could you elaborate a little more about the tech industry? By the time I head there I’ll be around a senior/management level engineer, so I’m hoping I won’t have too much trouble finding a job there. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Tried putting together a "guys' poker night", all but one bailed. Any advice for building a network of guys, or even just "dudes to hang out with"?Would you mind linking that video? I’m afraid that’ll be me in a couple years, so I figure it might help me prepare. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 12:31 AM |
| 4 | How does age (30+) impact game and SMV in Los Angeles?He’s also outlandishly rich. I attribute some disconnection with age to celebrities, but I realize that they’re also both famous AND rich, so at that point I feel age doesn’t really have much of a factor. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Best boot camps for short Asian guys?Try Pickup Alpha. He’s an Asian guy that gets majority Asian and Indian students. Boot camp is in Las Vegas. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Moving to LA and starting new chapter at 30?Is that the general idea on the coasts? I always figured so since I've noticed most people's lives out there really kick off around the upper 20's/early 30's, but again it's hard undoing 25 years of this mentality. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Moving to LA and starting new chapter at 30?To me it is I guess, being 25, but I realize that I’m delusional. I come from the Midwest where everyone my age is either married or has kids, and if you don’t people kinda start to question as to why you aren’t one of either. I’m guessing that stigma changes based on your location? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Moving to LA and starting new chapter at 30?Yeah dude I can only imagine the girls there are even more picky than anywhere else. I won't be loaded but it seems like owning my own home would be a + considering the cost of places out there, but then again I'd be around 31 years old so I'm not sure if that's expected by that age? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 04:20 AM |
| 7 | Moving to LA and starting new chapter at 30?See you there my friend! | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Moving to LA and starting new chapter at 30?I'm a software engineer so I'm not too concerned about being homeless. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | "college is supposed to be fun"Have fun but don’t make it your peak. You’re there to learn first and foremost. Don’t be a recluse and just study but don’t waste your time and not take it seriously. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 12:34 AM |
| 9 | Where do I find Escorts?Try Eccie.net. Be careful brother. That’s a rabbit hole you don’t want to go down. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Is it worth banging a fatty?Sometimes you just need to bust a nut. It’s natural. You may feel a little shitty about yourself afterwards, but if you feel it will offer some sort of physical or mental benefit to you, then why not? Take what the other comment said. You can’t make an omelet without breaking a few eggs (on yourself, perhaps in this case). | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 02:30 AM |
| 3 | What Should I Be Focused On As A 20 Year Old?Do everything you can to set yourself up for your 30's. So figure out what you want to do for a career, and work on building it into something that you can manifest over the next decade. Make your mistakes now, but don't go over the top. Make mistakes, get heartbroken, try some things, fail at some things, all of it. Just don't do anything that could potentially fuck things up for you for the rest of your life (DUI charges, massive credit card debt, etc.) Your 20's are your time to go out and pu… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How old is too old to be living with your parents?It just depends on your goals. I feel slightly bad about living at home until I’m 30 but by that point I’ll have achieved a lot of goals and can accomplish things that improve my SMV like owning a house instead of renting or not having any debt and can spend all my money after living expenses on whatever. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 05:05 AM |
| 5 | How old is too old to be living with your parents?I’m just like you man. I moved back in to finish school and pay off all my debt. I plan to live with them the next 4 years until I’m 30 then go and buy a house with cash. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Ex was a freak hoe.If you’re not trying to next her, try communicating with her. Just do it very carefully because no girl likes to be told they’re bad at sex. I know exactly what you mean, man. Once you get that true dirty little freak the bar gets set really high. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 04:46 AM |
| 1 | SMV/Life milestones to hit by age 30?In your experience how have girls reacted to your age through the years? I imagine maybe it didn’t come up until later, and since you’re in good shape, it actually worked in your favor? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | SMV/Life milestones to hit by age 30?With the way that my career is going, once I get out of school next year I’ll earn around 80k, and I plan to save like a madman for the next 3 years to save up for a down payment once I pay off all my debt this year. I guess my concern is that I’m worried I’ll be too “old” at 30 to really live the life I want to without looking weird or something, like “that old guy at the club”. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | SMV/Life milestones to hit by age 30?With the way that my career is going, once I get out of school next year I’ll earn around 80k, and I plan to save like a madman for the next 3 years to save up for a down payment once I pay off all my debt this year. I guess my concern is that I’m worried I’ll be too “old” at 30 to really live the life I want to without looking weird or something, like “that old guy at the club”. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | SMV/Life milestones to hit by age 30?I've lived in the Midwest my whole life but I feel my "attitude" is more akin to those places such as New York, or in my case, LA where I plan to buy a house in, but all I've known my whole life is that it's an oddity to not have a kid or a family by even my age, let alone in 5 years when I'm 30. I guess my goal is be able to still spin plates at 30 but I think my idea of that is more pessimistic just because I feel like 30 is too old. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Low SMV Due To Bad CreditBipolar Disorder | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most useful purchase you’ve made that’s improved your game/life?Keeping it out of reach instead of just on my nightstand helps deter me from picking it up. That and if I do, it won’t be charging. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 06:38 AM |
| 3 | What’s the most useful purchase you’ve made that’s improved your game/life?Just chiming in after seeing this thread blow up. Thank you guys for the amazing feedback! This is exactly what I was going to accomplish with this thread. I absolutely love this community. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 12:49 AM |
| 22 | What’s the most useful purchase you’ve made that’s improved your game/life?There’s no substitute for good, old fashioned hard work, but in reality people like shortcuts. For some people it helps kickstart or motivate people, even if it isn’t the most practical. Like with paying off debt, there’s two approaches people can take: paying off the highest interest things first, or paying off the smallest things first to get that dopamine rush and fulfillment of paying something completely off. Obviously one is smarter than the other, but some people prefer/need a push to get… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | What were the weirdest/craziest/dumbest things you've convinced women to do?A friend and convinced this girl that TV’s were nuclear powered and had a small reactor in them. She was also generally dumb as a rock. And she was also the friend’s girlfriend. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Why some girls just want sex and others an LTR?Same reason us guys do. It just depends on the girl. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 06:22 AM |
| 1 | [M4F] What to do during my free timeSocialize. Assuming you’re in a college town, go out to some karaoke night or a party or some lame movie night in the common hall. College is the biggest collection of like-minded people you’ll find in your life so make some connections or at least use it to practice game/get rid of AA/build better social habits. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 05:22 AM |
| 3 | What’s your Monk Mode essentials?If you’re like me and have a lot of “acquaintances” that you talk to that you don’t consider to be a full blown friend, or maybe just some bad friends in general, after your break, pay attention to the people that you realize you missed or the first people that you get in contact with once your week is up. That says a lot about who you really consider to be important. Also see who tried to get a hold of you without you texting them back. That says a lot about if the person is good to have in you… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 05:08 AM |
| 4 | What’s your Monk Mode essentials?Best of luck to you bro. You can do it. As a tip, try to save the 30 minutes of reading as the last thing you do before bed if you can and don’t check your phone at all. It’ll give your brain 30 minutes to unwind and produce more melatonin and you can passively build a habit of not using screens before bedtime. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 04:59 AM |
| 2 | What’s your Monk Mode essentials?Glad I can be of some motivation to you bro. Life really only matters if you have people to share it with, and that only matters if you have the right people to share it with or else it’s all for nothing. I’m definitely going to add meditation and keep on no fap and yoga once I’m able to balance my mind and my body a bit. I’d do cold showers but I grew up at times without having heating so I psychologically can’t do cold showers but I appreciate the suggestions. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 04:56 AM |
| 2 | The best way to deal with temptation.Of course. I’m exhibit A when it comes to this. I get stuck between trying to taper off and just never tapering down, or going cold turkey and just breaking in a few days. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 01:54 AM |
| 1 | The "oh will I? // is that so?" Shit TestOf course brother. I wish I could help more lol, in my experience I’ve noticed that trying to over-qualify yourself just comes off as desperate and getting annoyed just makes it humorous for them. Keep in mind they could just be saying because they don’t know how to respond. I’m probably overthinking this a bit lmao | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 01:29 AM |
| 3 | What’s your Monk Mode essentials?Sounds amazing. I’m a little too city boy to feel confident that I’d be okay in the wilderness, but I’ve always wanted to take my motorcycle on a little road trip and bring light camping gear or stay in some major cities and just enjoy the open road. Definitely a good suggestion. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 01:22 AM |
| 5 | The "oh will I? // is that so?" Shit TestHate this shit test. Simple yet annoying. Whatever you do don’t say something passive like “I think” or “well...” but I’m sure you already know that. Don’t try to over-qualify yourself. You’ll come off as tryhard. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 01:20 AM |
| 5 | What’s your Monk Mode essentials?I was thinking about starting to go to therapy so I can an unbiased person to talk to about things and help to clear things out of my head, but I like your idea too. If I recorded myself it could serve as a visual form of progress as well. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?Fucked around with a newly 18 year old a few months ago. I’m 25 for reference. She was a freak but I discovered over time that we didn’t have much in common as far as life experiences and knowledge. Couldn’t talk to her about shit like joking about politics, a lot of our conversations generally lacked depth. Unless she’s a special case I’ve found younger girls tend to have less depth to them purely because they’re younger and haven’t experienced as much yet. I’m by no means an old man but I’d li… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Living with parents for the sake of saving money: good idea or bad idea?Damn good advice man. I have to work on separating myself from the typical NEET that I see in people that live with their parents because no way in hell am I like them. I’m stuck in some idea that if I live at home I have to be some sort of hermit in order to work on myself, but I really don’t fucking have to. It changes things a little but it isn’t forever and the world will still be out there when I leave so I’m really not missing out on any time. If anything it’d be worse to be broke and on m… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Living with parents for the sake of saving money: good idea or bad idea?Thank you for your insight man. I’ve been living at home for about two months now, and honestly the amount of money that I’m saving from not having rent really does open up a lot of opportunities for me to do other things to improve myself, such as afford better food for myself and afford other things that help to illuminate all of the small stresses in my life. You mentioned that you moved out for four years and you just moved back, so I assume that you’re probably closer to my age? Do you have… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Living with parents for the sake of saving money: good idea or bad idea?That’s the thing dude. I’m treating it kind of as a mini monk mode, instead of just being a NEET. I’m just worried about the whole “oh he lives with his mom lol what a loser” stigma, but then again who gives a shit? At the end of the day I’ll be out of here anyways, and I’ll be a hell of a lot better off. Like the other guy said, that’s something concrete that’ll last. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Living with parents for the sake of saving money: good idea or bad idea?Some of the best advice I’ve gotten on this topic man. I was thinking about this, but I was wondering how it would look if I were to like get a hotel room for the night. Maybe it says something about my friend circle but all of my friends are doing something similar or living with 2-4 roommates, whereas if I were to move out I would be living alone in a decent apartment, not some shithole. Financial stability really is one of the most important things to have in order to have confidence. It’s a … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 04:48 AM |
| 5 | Living with parents for the sake of saving money: good idea or bad idea?Thank you for the insight man. Being a logic oriented person I realize that one has concrete benefits whereas one doesn’t. Hell, I could be unsuccessful with girls for the whole time I live on my own and still have all my debt to look forward to. I’m subscribed to the fear that I’m getting too old to kind of go out and play the game, and do things that I like to do now like go to raves and bars and music festivals and shit like that. I think that’s the main thing that makes me hesitant. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 02:30 AM |
| 5 | Living with parents for the sake of saving money: good idea or bad idea?I changed majors after a bit so I’m a little older, will be 25 in February. So I’ll be around 26 when I graduate. I definitely don’t want my debt following me, since the cost of living there is literally double where I live (big Midwest city with low CoL). I guess my worry is my social game will decrease as I live at home, since my opportunities will be pretty limited, but then again I plan to move away anyways so I guess it doesn’t matter that much? I have no issues living at home with my Mom a… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl hid her boyfriend for as long as possible, should I stop talking to her?? [Long]She did it once, she’ll do it again. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 07:10 PM |
| 2 | hey boys, sent my buddy some dating advice earlier -- figured it might help some of you out tooI’m the buddy that he’s referencing. He made a post on r/tinder and I PM’d him asking for advice and he sent all this and more. The guy is absolutely killing it and I’m glad he decided to share the wealth with everyone else and pay it forward. Clearly his success in life shows as he’s given probably a hundred people reddit gold lol. | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 02:37 AM |
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