Being open, honest and communicative with your partner creates a fantastic relationship. For the third time, I would never tell a woman to lower her standards. She has obviously got her standards that high because she is able to meet men that consistently meet those standards. So why should she settle? I’m sorry you dated trash men. I’ve dated trash women. We’ve all come to the conclusion we stand on from our own experience. And in my experience, a perfectly good albeit average men struggles to …
Consistency, loyalty, a partnership. You don’t need to be rich to help each other when you’re sick. You don’t need to be dropdead gorgeous to have a great time in the sack. You don’t need six figures in the bank account to go on a nice date once a week or even a month. Everyone has goals, sometimes you gotta start from the bottom. I just don’t see any women willing to be loyal from the bottom. They’re always looking for the next best thing. Everyone has their place in a relationship. You can try…
Fair point. I know a few millionaires that are very modest and just love on investments. But all in all, I’d think that successful men are just at a place that they are in the right area to meet those women
Acknowledging a failure in society is not an excuse. It absolutely is at fault for this considering most boys go to public school. Or the fatherlessness that’s in our society. Or the fact that single parenthood specifically single motherhood is glorified. So yes, lost men and boys are going to the red pill theology because it speaks to them. It tells them that they can improve their situation regardless of their environment. It pulls them out of the victim hood mentality. Ironically, forcing tho…
For me it gave me someone to talk to that could actually help fix my head. Self loathing is a bitch. Coping skill is a big one. I was lucky to have a male therapist and he resonated with me
I agree. It is systemic. No one is willing to really have a talk about the environment society has for boys. All I’m saying is therapy help me tremendously. It also helped that I found a male figure in my life willing to guide me. I think boys and men need that.
Porn does nothing but numb. Like with every drug, best in moderation. Sounds like lack of a father figure and lack of responsibility. Therapy is a thing and all boys and men need it now more than ever.
Men are needed to keep your world running. I’m a laborer for a communications company that you use to connect to Reddit. Women don’t need us so we are not asking for women to need us. We’ll just be needed by our jobs and careers.
Lost me at communist. You can keep the hairy, smelly women. You’re so full of buzzwords, labels for someone who don’t wanna label your self. This don’t happen irl. It’s silly. You don’t get laid cuz you probably suck at talking to women
Women are independent. Men need to step their game up… But fuck that. I make 65k a year. I’d women find that to be too low. Not my problem. I like Japans anime obsession. Dudes don’t even wanna deal with these women. They’d rather just use AI
Common sense. Avoid trash women. In fact avoid any woman who has at any point chose a dude like this. My own experience is that as soon as I stopped saying yes… women I go after wanted me. They loved asshole me. But I’ll admit they weren’t relationship material.
Most men today weren’t taught. I’m 35 and I was never taught about the concept of being a provider. Not till I was in my mid 20’s. I was that guy. Wanting a partner, not a wife.
The only women against it are the modernity type that brag about their money and how Independent they are. The girls that support it are probably more traditional.
It’s called self discipline. Do good things and good things happen. Just cuz you’re single don’t mean you should be a slob of a person. Incentives do work.
I don’t listen to modern feminists. 🤷🏻♂️ I’ve been on the ass end of two long term relationships. I know from experience that women would rather a strong man than a sensitive one. Decade of my life was wasted. I’m good. I’ll go to my male friends for my male issues. Edit: or therapy
