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iaurtgl/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:34 PM
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iaurtgl/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:35 PM
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Questioniaurtgl/r/newTRP23/08/22 09:40 PM
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iaurtgl/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:29 AM
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iaurtgl/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:19 AM
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iaurtgl/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:22 PM
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iaurtgl/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:17 PM
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iaurtgl/r/askTRP15/03/21 08:46 PM
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iaurtgl/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:10 PM
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iaurtgl/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:39 PM
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Thanks man, appreciate it
/r/newTRP30/08/22 08:02 AM
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Yeah I know I’m in a beta situation, just needed some tough love to pull me out of it lol. In your opinion, would you go no contact or put her back as a plate?
/r/newTRP30/08/22 08:01 AM
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I mean according to your definition of frame, you’re never going to accept advice from any girl ever without losing frame, which is complete bullshit. You can accept advice and still hold frame, “Where do I sign up for the full squatting course”, “No wonder my joints have gone on strike”, “So the squatting on my back has potential?”, you can very easily hold frame. Frame isn’t about being the know all priest always giving and never taking, you can still be a human lol
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 10:34 PM
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Problem is you’re coming from this with extreme examples. “Why do you squat like that?” “I tried lying on my back but I wasn’t making progress” You’re opening yourself up to learn but not handing her frame, it’s not about being “shut up I’m alpha bitch” it’s about being in control of the situation. Don’t be autistic and don’t beg for her affirmation, that’s all RP is
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 10:11 PM
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Just sounds like you should learn how to squat tbh
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 10:04 PM
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Mate you shouldn’t type so many paragraphs over one girl, it’s not worth it
/r/newTRP13/02/22 08:01 PM
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1) She could stay at home but chooses not to 2) She could afford a cheaper apartment if she got a roommate but she chooses not to. 3) She could take out student loans to help but chooses not to She has so many options yet takes on no extra responsibility, a roommate ain’t bad at all, I’ve shared places in college with 19 roommates and 8 roommates. She’s forcing you to move out and live with her so she can escape her home life. Sounds like you’re an escape plan. Also trust me, if she goes to coll…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:18 PM
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The -morphs are heavily debunked and mean fuck all, just lift and eat properly
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 09:47 PM
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Let’s assume women’s interests are normally distributed. A women’s expected value (of most desirable man) will be a typical RP guy who’s got his shit together. There’s a distribution, so this won’t be every woman’s ideal, in fact you’ll very really find this exact RP dude to be any specific woman’s ideal man. If we go to the ends of the tail we have women who are attracted to toxic dickhead RP guys (ie far right RP) and BP guys (far left). The reason why we don’t care about these girls is that R…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:01 PM
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Makes a lot of sense, appreciate it
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:48 PM
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Could be anything, if I don’t spend the night with her she’ll ask “Why won’t you sleep with me”, if she gives a “you only want me for sex” shittest, I responded once by saying “Be worried when I stop wanting sex” to which she kept asking why. Worst was definitely her asking my body count, wouldn’t stop asking no matter what I said
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:13 PM
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You’re destined to become whatever you spend your time on
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:03 PM
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Who gives a fuck? Get the body you want, girls will come regardless
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:51 PM
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I think I’d end up in a marriage if I said that. True, I guess from the perspective that we’re all BP naturally so it’s not a lot of work.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:49 PM
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It’s not the giving up gene, it’s abundance. If you phrase it like you’re giving up then she thinks you’re giving up, if you phrase it like you’re moving on then she thinks you’re moving
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:46 PM
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Still pursue. It’s not your job to keep her relationship pure. Just make sure you don’t fall into orbit
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:45 PM
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Does this actually work? What’s the expected timeframe? I need to drop a girl who I live with
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:43 PM
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Don’t just straight up say he’s in a toxic relationship, but you can ask questions. How does he feel about always having to tend to his gf? Does he not regret leaving you guys when you’re hanging out? At the end of the day if he’s happy I’d leave it. Overall it might not be best for him, but what’s not broken mustn’t be fixed. Rather let him be ignorant but happy
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:42 PM
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I don’t think I want my cake and to eat it, I just want to be done with this experiment, I don’t want a cake at all really. I get what you’re saying, RP-wise it’s perfectly logically, isn’t there a way to end it without going full BP? What happens if I just tell her we have to end it?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:48 AM
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She’s a girl who wants the attention, she won’t end things, just move me to an orbiter. I’m also not spending money/time just to end something
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:40 AM
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I know one girl who’s funny, my best friends girlfriend. Only girl who can make me genuinely laugh
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:29 AM
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Out of interest how did you go about giving the talk?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:52 PM
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Yeah you’re right, just don’t really know how to say it. Obviously once I do she’ll be asking me why I’m stopping it, what do I say to that? Just ignore it or what
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:39 AM
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Hasn’t been long, only slept together 2-3 times. One of which she was very drunk so I didn’t want a potential rape accusation
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:10 PM
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Thanks for this, out of interest what would be an example of acting nonchalant about it? Say if you’re in bed and she rejects the escalation, would you laugh and continue lying/cuddling with her or would you create space between? I’m basically wondering how you can nonchalantly brush it off without seeming upset
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:09 PM
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Yeah you’re right, not worth the time/energy
/r/askTRP02/04/21 10:30 AM
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Lol I know what oneitis is and this isn’t it mate, I’m not begging for advice. I’m just knew to TRP and want others perspective of what the right thing to do is
/r/askTRP02/04/21 10:30 AM
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Yeah I’m starting to think it ain’t worth the effort, been getting no sleep and it’s hard to concentrate on work
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:03 AM
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Get off social media man
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:20 AM
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/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:14 PM
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Your bench is fine, it should be about a plate less than your squat
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:05 PM
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Your bench shouldn’t be the same weight as your squat. What’s your 1RM for squats?
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:58 AM
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No I didn’t sleep with her, I had to help people during the night and she ended up leaving
/r/askTRP26/03/21 06:39 PM
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That’s true however we first hooked up at the same location with the same mutual friends present, but I guess her coming back is a much bigger commitment than a hook up
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:39 AM
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Clubbing is a poor term for the plans, right now with COVID all clubs are closed. Instead we normally just drink at someone’s place and maybe dance a bit in the lounge later on in the night. I invited her to my place (a university residence with 20 people) where she also has mutual friends. Clubbing is just the best way I could describe it. I’m still nexting her, can tell over text that she isn’t “fuck yes”
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:24 AM
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Yeah you’re right. Girls are so weird, on the night she was all over me but did a complete 180° from the next day. Definitely not worth my time puzzling over
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:38 PM
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Was also a huge gaming addict, I found that the better my life got, the less I wanted to play. Eventually I got to the point where I wasn’t having fun when playing so I deleted all of them. Nothing against video games on their own, but your life should be more entertaining than gaming.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:11 PM
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She’s done trust me, you’re an orbiter/tampon. It’s time to move on friend, make a move and you’ll be seen as a creep
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:09 PM
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You need to socialise more. It took me a long time to get anywhere, even now I’m not close to where I want to be. But I’ve started having girls approach me, come to me etc. which was my first milestone I wanted to hit. I felt what you felt, I came to a conscious decision to trust the process and that’s what I did every day. Lifted, chatted, read and trusted the process. Also you could probably do with a better job
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:07 PM
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How long did it take until you reached true abundance? Also how were you in terms of physical shape
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:03 PM
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There is none, I deleted all social media and I’m pulling the same amount if not more. Get off SM/your phone, life’s way better that way
/r/askTRP21/03/21 08:39 PM
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Yeah I know it’s an Iron Rule, I was just confirming that that was what you’re referring to. Appreciate the help!
/r/askTRP21/03/21 07:55 PM
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For a beginner, the only important thing is that you go to gym every day
/r/askTRP20/03/21 01:10 PM
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By inferior do you mean putting yourself down? As in jokes at your expense (saying you’re weird, ugly etc.)?
/r/askTRP20/03/21 01:09 PM
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That’s true and definitely something to think about, it did seem genuine at the time and after she said it and I dismissed it she was a lot more keen to stay with me and seemed a lot happier. I think I’m just going to leave it for now, if I see her I see her if not then it’s not a loss. Plenty of girls at university
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:05 PM
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Yeah I’m really struggling with uni atm. I’m the only person I know who’s never smoked weed and the only person who lives with me that doesn’t smoke regularly, not a big deal but I do feel a bit removed. I see owes who are fucking losers with chicks that I think are really cool and it is upsetting, but I know what my goals are and I know what I need to do. This is a long term change and I just have to keep at it
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:40 PM
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Yeah it’s definitely a process and one I’m prepared to do. All good things come to those who wait
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:38 PM
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1) Sort your sleeping pattern out 2) L-carnitine
/r/askTRP16/02/21 09:35 AM
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Unfortunately I’m only at the 800 cock stare
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:13 PM
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If you want a comeback just ask him how he’s succeeding in life
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:55 PM
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She wasn’t a 10
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:53 PM
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I don’t smoke, I never have and am the only person I know in university to have never smoked. It’s a great conversation starter, if a girl ever asks why you can playfully tease her about it. Easy way to form a connection and if you play it right it comes off super well (they’ll think you’re very mature etc.)
/r/askTRP19/01/21 08:43 PM
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How was the boxing class? I’m thinking of starting
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:13 PM
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This is the best answer. The pure RP guys who are successful aren’t making long videos and guides, hell they probably aren’t even writing long posts in TRP. They’re just minding their business and getting laid, maybe occasionally answering on asktrp
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:59 PM
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Nothing wrong with self-improving, it’s the fact you’re 16 and think you’ll never love lol
/r/askTRP11/01/21 12:13 PM
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Context: 16 Haha okay bud
/r/askTRP11/01/21 10:46 AM
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12 rules for life
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:25 AM
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What’s DEER?
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:46 PM
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Yea you’re right, thanks man I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:18 PM
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Depends, I’d make a passing comment about something in the background (is that a maple tree etc.) or something about her caption (some chicks like putting fancy words as their caption so I’d reply something like “Bringing out the big words I see”). It’s just important to a) make it flirty but not sexual and b) fairly short in length
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:12 PM
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Yeah true, I do wonder if it isn’t beta to message her on another social media platform. I think I just need to adopt a “I don’t care, I want to message her so I will” mentality and don’t care how she receives it
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:07 PM
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Yeah as the comment said don’t, but if you did then I think a funny/sarcastic remark is better than a random emoji
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:55 PM
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Hey man I know how you feel, I’ve been in the self-improvement grind for about 18 months now (am now 21) but I’ve only recently found red pill (like around Christmas sort of recently). This happens, especially during lockdown. The key is to not try fight it and pretend it’s not there, I know there’s a huge “must be Alpha 24/7” mentality here, but having a day to yourself just to catch a breather/recharge is needed to do this long term. My only advice is to make sure you do your non-negotiable ta…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:35 PM
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Your goals/dreams that require this job must outweigh the negatives of doing it
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:18 PM
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Well there’s your first issue. Learn to take responsibility. Read Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink. You can’t control your mother, but you can handle how she affects you
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:00 PM
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Self-esteem (or lack thereof) comes from yourself, not your mother
/r/askTRP09/01/21 02:40 PM
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If this keeps happening there’s one common denominator, you. Figure out where you’re going wrong and fix it. In terms of what I’d do, after they come back I’d entertain it for a bit and try set up an IRL meet (bar, coffee etc.). You won’t lose your virginity from girls liking your insta, you gotta get them in person
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:28 PM
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When did you find out about her age?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:56 PM
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You gotta see them in person
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:19 PM
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Nothing you listed about yourself is fulfilling. What do you enjoy? What are your interests? Seems to just be making money and fucking mad chickzzz. You gotta start pursing things that give you meaning
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:04 PM
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There is literally only 2 things you can/must do to improve. Practice, practice, practice. How do you successfully kick a 60 yard field goal? By missing from 20 yards a shitload of times until one day you know how to+ you can make it. Research. Read, read, read. How to Win Friends and Influence People, get that book inside your head. Listen to it while you gym or read it before bed, just absorb the information anyway possible. Helps you learn a) where you’re going wrong and b) how to fix it. Als…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 12:18 AM
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What cardio
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:30 PM
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