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Have you read the sidebar? If not, why?... below is the very first thing you should have read. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/acvzgx/steels_guide_to_married_red_pill/ From Steel's notes in there : What are Some Problems with the Books on the Sidebar? NMMNG suggests that you tell your wife about your NMMNG exercises. We see this question on AskMRP all the bloody time. “Should I tell my wife about NMMNG?” You do not talk to your wife about red pill. You do not talk to your wife a…
/r/askMRP19/07/22 12:20 PM
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Hook grip is awesome. I start normal overhand... then switch to hook at the end.. it is only once I get to max load that I use straps - but you are far away from that. Train your grip before going for straps. You should not need straps until you get closer to 4 plates IMO. For hook, get a thumb nub. Like this - https://www.amazon.com/JerkFit-Crossfit-Thumb-Sleeves-Small/dp/B00KRVTZXK/ref=sr_1_2?crid=SP6QWA8Y7PPO&keywords=thumb+nub+hook+grip&qid=1657819505&sprefix=thumb+nub+hook+grip%2Caps%2C284&…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 05:25 PM
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...regardless of how she responds, right? Yes that is the goal. ​ Porn really is poison and blunts your ability to do what you did this week The more I stay away from it, the more I realize how much it was hindering what I want in life. ​ You are on week 2. Be careful of this trap of mission. It'll come.. I hamstered all over early on about mission at your stage but settled on just working on my bs - cc's, IO, self validation, understanding inter gender dynamics. Helped me focus on me and figuri…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/22 01:28 PM
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OYS 2 ​ 39 yrs old. Married 15 yrs. 2 kids under 13. ​ Physical: 204 lbs (-3 since last week), 5’9. BF 24% (per stronger.io) ​ Lifts: Squat 215X5, Bench 175X5 (+5), OHP 120X5, Deadlift 335X5. ​ Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, TWOTSM, bunch of MRP posts and OYS history of few flaired vets. Re-reading NMMNG and working through the BFAs. ​ Physical: Dropped 3 lbs. Met up with brother and had few drinks over the weekend.. gained some water weight/bloat. OMAD Monday and got rid of most of that. As Rpeed…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 11:01 AM
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True that it is all likely just a mental thing. Thanks for the insight. Fast and painful sounds better at this point to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/22 08:16 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/22 01:33 AM
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Curious as to what kind of deficit were you running? Any cardio? What kind of diet was it? PSMF? Did your lifts suffer during this extreme cut? How quickly did they get back to what they were?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/22 07:55 PM
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Mostly just doing what is easy and what I have usually done for so long. So yes fear of rejection is closer to what it is for ME.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 02:49 PM
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You could be right on the reasons behind porn usage. Thanks for the ideas around exploring the emotional aspect more.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 02:21 PM
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I do not have a clear mission right now - this is true. A year back my mission was related to my career and what I wanted to achieve there. I also had goals around weight loss, lifting etc. I remember I was very angry at the time which provided fuel. I do not know why I lost this drive but I think it is because I was not doing it for myself and when I got some sex, I went back to what is comfortable. ​ What exactly are you wanting to fix? I don't respect who I am right now. I want to fix that. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 02:11 PM
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OYS 1 ​ 39 yrs old. Married 15 yrs. 2 kids under 13. ​ Physical: 207 lbs, 5’9. BF 25% (per stronger.io) ​ Lifts: Squat 215X5, Bench 170X5, OHP 120X5, Deadlift 335X5. ​ Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, TWOTSM, bunch of MRP posts and OYS history of few flaired vets. Re-reading NMMNG and working through the BFAs. ​ My story is no different from most everyone who arrive at this place. Unhappy with sex life. Unhappy with the state of my life, my marriage. Googled somehow landed at MRP 12 months back. Beg…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 10:49 AM
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Agreed. Thank you for the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/21 12:01 AM
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No doubt you guys are right. I am hoping this is just a period of readjustment. But we will see.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 08:49 PM
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Thanks. I am hoping that my strength goes back up once my body gets readjusted to the lesser calories and low carb. Right now, the weight is just not coming off the floor. For reference, I was up to 385 lbs on deadlift for 1RM. Now it is around 340 lbs.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 08:48 PM
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OYS 2 ​ 39 years old. Married. 2 kids ages 12, 6. Stats: 5’9, 199lbs (-14), 23% BF (-3). Lifts : Squat 215X5, BP 170X5, OHP 115X5, DL 315X5. ​ Physical 14 lbs down since first OYS 7 weeks ago. 3% BF also down per strongur. Lots more to go. But I feel much better than 7 weeks ago weight of 213 lbs. I am doing keto now along calorie counting/weighing foods and this is helping me stay on track. I slipped a few times during the last 7 weeks but always got back on track. Need to keep going. Lifts esp…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 12:28 PM
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Thanks. This is helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/21 11:04 PM
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Right now - meaning over the last few days - this is honest. But as I wrote above this in the OYS, I have issues with discipline and give in way too often and end up going above my calories and this is what I want to stop doing. Lifting and running has been consistent. But your point is valid - I have to be disciplined and stick with it for the long term.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 07:39 PM
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I just read BLS last week. Great book - and I have been on the plan - both diet and lifting - for 1 week now. I will pick up Atomic Habits. Agree on environment. Alcohol is under control - no one else drinks here - I just need to not buy any. Have not had a drink in a while and plan to keep it that way. I need to adopt the same discipline with food. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 04:11 PM
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100% correct. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 04:07 PM
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Porn/validation is one thing - maybe the main thing. I am also busting a nut way too quick also most of the time and I figure this is related to the porn thing as well. The last thing is related to fear of pushing some boundaries for what I want although I am slowly doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 04:05 PM
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I have read it and it is spot on.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 04:03 PM
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OYS 1 39 years old. Married. 2 kids ages 12, 6. Stats: 5’9, 213lbs, 26.2% BF. Lifts : Squat 225X5, BP 170X5, OHP 120X5, DL 340X5. Physical I am fat. No denying that. I lack discipline. I stick to my macros and tracking for a few days and then fall off self sabotaging myself. I do not have any excuses here. I am just weak willed and give in too often. My legs do not have any fat. I have decent arms and shoulders. But the mid section - this is where all my fat resides and it is not a good look. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 12:45 PM
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Your handle and your writeup makes me think you are Indian. Not that that matters so much... But.. Read No more Mr Nice Guy if you have not.. You have to decide what is best for YOU. I just see you being manipulated by everyone. Listen - nursing homes do a good job even in India nowadays. Just go for it. I think you are going to feel guilty about it but fuck it man.. life is too short to set yourself on fire over and over again for others. Live life on your own terms. PM me if you want to talk m…
/r/askMRP28/11/19 12:10 AM
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For one, I am so glad all of your history is out there HOA.. for everyone who wants to dig through and see what is possible. For example, this one of the initial posts - https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/9gyvsx/fr_rp_working_quickly_but_im_in_uncharted/ And this - https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/ae9cxp/do_you_call_her_out_on_manipulation_or_rewriting/ I like the 2nd one better.. Those who feel lost.. who feel things will never turn around.. Read above two links.. See what is poss…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/19 12:15 AM
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I suspect most of the others are completely stumped by your writeup here to even offer up a comment. I will say.. You are so ingrained with oneitis that you cannot see anything else. Your DEERing throughout this post is pathetic. You are unmarried and you are young. Why the fuck are you doing this - I just cannot fathom. Reading through your comment, I cannot even think that you know what is RP let alone follow its principles. In other words, you are a faggot to the nth degree. What are you doin…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/19 12:03 AM
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Reading everything.. including your and her dialogue, My diagnosis is - she is just not attracted to you. But you already knew that. One thing I have to point out here is - you are still listening to the sounds coming out of her mouth. They do not mean anything. There is a reason why we say actions not words.. Take note of what she does.. not what she says... What is she doing? You do not have to answer.. but think about it. Her actions say you are not attractive enough. Why is that though? Attr…
/r/askMRP26/11/19 11:45 PM
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Almost all of your answers are here if you know where to look - ​ How to Lead Your Wife to Get in Shape (Redneck001) ​ From the link: ​ I've always been in good shape. But I did slip to ~20% bodyfat a few years back. Then started taking my fitness and nutrition more seriously. When I was 20%, wife was overweight and would lay around, eat, and generally give me shit. When I hit 15%, wife started running and counting calories. When I hit 12%, wife started lifting (she started with SL, moved on to …
/r/askMRP22/11/19 05:40 PM
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Fasting is your friend. There is a thing called autophagy - excess skin will be taken care of this up to a certain extent over time. Check out the r/fasting sub if you want to find out more. Go for a 24 hour fast, then 48 hours. Do this once a week. You lose weight and your skin problem will also become much better. Check out the reports from above sub for more info/evidence/motivation. Good luck.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 12:33 PM
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You left out some important details. Post stats, lifting nos, BF%. Are you a man worth submitting to?
/r/askMRP17/11/19 05:43 PM
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From Steel's guide to MRP: The flair of MRP APPROVED means that the person provides reliable "Red Pill" advice and he understands the principles and applications that we use. Most likely this person has read the Sidebar books and has studied Red Pill for several months. Anything said by a person with this flair should be considered very carefully before you reject it. The flair "HARD CORE RED" usually identifies a man from the main r/TheRedPill Reddit full of piss and vinegar and a take no priso…
/r/askMRP08/11/19 04:35 PM
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You need salt. Normal salt and potassium chloride aka NO SALT. Mix these together and drink it. Also google snake diet - it might help you. I also think you are trying to do too much at once. Take it easy. You cannot undo years of faggotry in few weeks.
/r/askMRP25/10/19 10:17 PM
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Hey retard, you are trying too hard. Listen, I have read all your posts and your OYSs... you are just commenting to get internet points and validation from internet strangers. Think about that for a bit. Let it sink in. Get your shit together faggot because you are just a wannabe right now.
/r/askMRP25/10/19 10:12 PM
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The first part is the inherent nature of women. Maybe more of general statement covering AWALT. The second part is what is actually possible if you do the work. Once you are high value, things do change and even if they do not, you know what you need to do. Either way, you still have to own your shit.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 01:36 AM
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From the Way of the Superior Man - A man's track record means nothing to the feminine. A man could be perfect for ten years, but if he's an asshole for 30 seconds his woman acts like he's always been one. The feminine responds to the moment of energy, forgetting her man's history of past behavior. A man's past behavior is irrelevant to his woman's feeling in the moment. But men base much on another man's history of behavior, so they think their own track record should count for something. But to…
/r/askMRP24/10/19 01:05 AM
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There is nothing unique about you or your story. You need to do the work. Read the books. Lift weights. Go through the sidebar. And STFU while you are doing all this. Your wife owes you nothing. You say you cannot divorce because religion but then talk about your affairs. Where is the congruence in your actions? You do you but be congruent. You sound like a man who gets all his validation from women. A real nice guy. Nice guys tend to do that. If you want your wife to improve, you need to improv…
/r/askMRP23/10/19 01:08 PM
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I agree with this. I was also there at one point of time - so it is easy to see.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 11:02 PM
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You got laid this time most likely because the way you acted was different from what she is used to. Nothing else. It is better than whining about not getting sex but not by much. Frame is everything and you need to STFU more - i.e talk less show more through your actions. No sex? Fine go do something else. Anyhow - your perception of the whole sequence was one thing. Reading it, most of the guys here can see it a different way. Now you know. Talking about sex is never a good thing. Early in the…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 06:37 PM
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You went Rambo. Acted butthurt. She felt sorry for you and/or could not stand your resentful butthurt so agreed to fuck you. I would not get so excited. You have a lot of work to do. And stop arguing with her and negotiating sex. STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 03:48 PM
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Just women being women. Why do you let it affect you? Laugh at it and move on with your day.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 03:05 PM
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Try it. This is just like when an alcoholic tries to rationalize that his drinking is not the cause of all of his problems. Everyone outside can see what the issue is. Just note how many comments in here are telling you to cut out the porn.
/r/askMRP02/10/19 12:02 PM
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Stop watching porn and fapping you fucking idiot. All your problems stem from that. EDIT: Wanted to add this little blurb here from u/helaughsinhidden . Resonated well with me. Hopefully you will get something out of it as well - Personally, when I look at porn, I can't even go to a gas station without starting at every woman's butt, crotch, and cleavage and at the very least ponder if I like them. I'll catch myself looking to see if they are looking back at me and if they do, hoping they smile.…
/r/askMRP01/10/19 05:46 PM
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Looking for approval from the internet? What do you want? Do that. Also I remember you posted a post about your wife cheating on you but looks like you deleted it. But your comment history is still there. https://www.reddit.com/user/gulpinsculpin/ https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/cyw511/what_do_you_guys_make_of_this_situation/ Did you divorce her yet?
/r/askMRP24/09/19 08:43 PM
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Everyone is calling you a faggot and rightfully so. But what are you going to do about it? What is your stance on abortion? Are you ok with it? If you are, then convince her as well. If you are not, then own it and prepare yourself to be with this woman for atleast a few years or until you really are ready to leave. I was a faggot too. I have no issues with my wife but made a mistake on timing things - yes I fucked up. Both of us did not want an additional child at this point in our life so we m…
/r/askMRP20/09/19 03:22 PM
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You sound like a real nice guy. Start at the sidebar. Read No more Mr Nice Guy and When I say No I feel Guilty. As for your last question, a lot of us have been in some variation of your situation. Well maybe not as big a faggot.. but regardless, you are a man - you take responsibility for your actions and you fix yourself not your wife. Figure out what you want and work toward it. Right now though, you are not ready for any drastic decisions. First - Sidebar, STFU and Lift - atleast for the nex…
/r/askMRP03/08/19 02:50 PM
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You are a prime candidate for the Snake diet. Just do it. Weight will come off fast along with gaining some semblance of self respect. Google it or search on youtube. Get to work. No one else is going to do it for you. OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 08:22 PM
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Rand al'Thor.. the dragon reborn ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/19 11:42 PM
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Read this thread and read the first reply in there by SBII and all of the replies by him after as well. I thought it was apt to your situation. Women want men who have ambition and some sort of social standing/value at the minimum. You currently have none and that is the basic problem right there. Read the sidebar. And read below thread a few times. Figure it out - its what men do. Good luck. I was also in a sucky situation when I first came here and things have changed dramatically but a lot mo…
/r/askMRP17/07/19 06:45 PM
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I love your flair man.
/r/askMRP28/05/19 07:18 PM
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I wanted to thank you for writing your history. My story is almost the same - the 1st half anyway. So I appreciate the caution in the second half.
/r/askMRP28/05/19 07:15 PM
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dude, listen to what longroad and countpudyoola said above... they have the best input here for you. ​ Dont think too much. Live your life for you. Lift and read the sidebar. It will take some time before you figure out what you want.. and develop a frame of your own.
/r/askMRP28/05/19 02:57 PM
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You know.. you really should not be giving advice. Talk to the wife? WTF man?
/r/askMRP28/05/19 02:55 PM
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Valid point. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askMRP24/05/19 01:16 PM
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Finally a worthwhile question... ​ A mission is something that is personal and unique to you. Something that you feel passionate about... ​ Read the Unchained Man.. It will help a lot in building out a mission.. at the least give you some ideas on what a mission is.. and how you can go about figuring out what it is.. It will take time.. No rush.. build on it... ​ For example, below is mine which I put together a few weeks after reading the Unchained Man.. I will work on this and fine tune it as …
/r/askMRP24/05/19 12:11 AM
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This is your OYS from few weeks back. WTF man? Weekly Goals: Finish a page of my thesis everyday. () Take kid out everyday () No PC after kid home from school () Join a yoga class () Actually do these goals () ​ https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/blo4qu/own_your_shit_weekly_may_07_2019/emr0i42/?context=3 ​ ​ So did you manage to do any of the above? Low effort faggot... Take your trolling elsewhere. ​ To others, go read a few comments from OP to other posts... just another troll fa…
/r/askMRP23/05/19 02:18 PM
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Are you understanding or internalizing anything here dude? Or is everyone just wasting their time? ​ Sounds like the latter. ​ Almost everyone here advised you to focus on you.. not her. And what do you do? Continue to puke about missing her a few hours after she left on travel. ​ Dude, seriously, focus on yourself. Take this time to work on yourself. Sidebar, Read and then go Lift. And then go do something else for YOU. You have no frame. Build it up. We all start somewhere... But first you hav…
/r/askMRP20/05/19 02:02 AM
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You suck man...You are completely in her frame. You have absolutely no frame or identity of your own as is evident from your last 3 posts. Every single question and thought you have is about her, she, ltr bla bla... who the fuck cares? ​ What are your lifts? What have you read from the sidebar? Have you done any work at all? ​ This old post from Bobbyperu is very relevant here... https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/84tpno/killing_the_ego/ ​ TELL US after reading below - What progres…
/r/askMRP15/05/19 01:31 PM
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Send her to work.
/r/askMRP08/05/19 06:49 PM
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Dude, you are an alcoholic. ​ Fix that first. Before anything else.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/19 01:09 AM
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Why do you care about what she thinks? Fuck what she thinks.. the only thing that matters is your opinion and/or frame.. Fuck everything else. ​ Just tease her... ​ Look at that ass.... look at those tits... compare them to hers.... ​ Later on that night, enjoy the wet wet pussy... create that competition anxiety... you can do it..
/r/askMRP04/05/19 12:24 AM
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Interesting report. ​ I have read a bunch of these over the short time I have been here.. ​ What is going for you - you decided what you want and went for it. Good for you. You are the judge of your own actions. ​ What seems off - you cite financials as to why you are staying... This seems off to me.. Any man can make up whatever it is you might lose by letting her go... this is our power as a man... and an MRP man to boot....This report to me seems more like justification... to yourself... for …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/19 10:50 PM
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Thanks for the input on Mike Matthews. I got his Bigger Leaner Stronger today morning and am quarter way through. He seems to know his stuff and you are right - he definitely looks the part. My combined big 3 lifts are at around 625 now and due to my cut and OMAD, I was struggling to complete sets let alone increase weight. So I am interested also to see how he tackles the nutrition part of things. OMAD while good for losing weight has me disappointed with the lifting progress stalling.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 08:27 PM
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OP, I just read through your post history. You have been here a year. And looks like you have not learnt or internalized anything. ​ Tell us what have you read from the sidebar and books list? ​ Tell us do you lift? If so what are they? What are your stats? BF? ​ If you are doing and saying things like you wrote about in your post after being here for a year, I do not think you are salvageable. ​ But if you really do want to fix yourself, get to the sidebar, start lifting.. and for the love of e…
/r/askMRP30/04/19 02:56 PM
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OYS #5 Last OYS was a month back here : https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/b05b3q/own_your_shit_weekly_march_12_2019/eid6h86/?context=3 ​ ​ I have been at this for around 7 months now. In between shit hit the fan as can be seen from my last OYS above. Set me back a bit but back to the grind again. After reading a lot of posts, comments from flaired posters particularly SBIII, and my own assessment that I was not doing things optimally, falling into fuckarounditis occasionally… I de…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 01:44 PM
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Let me guess. Indian right? You keep saying you maintained frame. But you have no frame at all. You are Completely in her frame that it is pathetic. STFU faggot instead of Deering all the time . And it’s clear you have not read anything on the sidebar. Get to work.
/r/askMRP30/04/19 03:26 AM
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IMO, nothing wrong with saying I love you as a reward esp if she did something you like - as long as you do not overdo it. Basic operant conditioning. ​ The second thing is - it depends on you - If you are a man of high value, then what you say has value esp when it is coming from a place of abundance..because you actually want to say it instead of a covert contract. Saying 'I love you' will be worth something then... A fucking beta slob saying it or 'You look hot' will come across as needy and …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/19 05:56 PM
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This post by BobbyPeru - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/84tpno/killing_the_ego/ Read it and internalize. One of the biggest issues is ego . All too often, we either see a newer guy come on here posting about a situation he needs to fix right now, but in reality, if we provide solutions, they are band-aids, and they generally will not help the new guy's progress. These type posts start with tell-tale signs of the markings of ego. For example, when I see a guy start off with 'I'v…
/r/askMRP14/04/19 02:15 PM
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OYS #4 ​ Last OYS was a month back here : https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/as85ti/own\_your\_shit\_weekly\_february\_19\_2019/eguh6g4/?context=3 ​ Instead of burying it in this post, will bring up the major stuff up first. ​ Shit pretty much hit the fan as is evident from that post. Long story short - unplanned pregnancy. No doubt shitty ownership and leadership as some readers commented. Abortion was the plan in that OYS. For a few days after this, I thought about it and was ok …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 05:30 PM
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While there was a lot of emotional drama around it, she actually WANTS to have the abortion. Lots of doubt around it though. But the fact is that she is 37 - she is concerned about the miscarriages and similar issues her friends have had with late pregnancies. And also she does not want to jeopardize her career at the moment. Yes a fuck up at my end no doubt. But I am certainly not forcing any decision here. This is one situation where I feel a mutual understanding should be reached on the matte…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 08:53 PM
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Thanks for your perspective. ​ I have very mixed feelings about the whole thing. Have not yet had anyone to talk to about it openly either. ​ Can it be worked out? Yes I suppose it can with some sacrifices at both our ends. ​ I am going to think about the whole thing a little bit more today.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 01:12 PM
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OYS #3 Last OYS was 2 months back. Things were going good for the most part before the last 2 weeks hit. More below. ​ Mission Statement: Become a man who does not need affection or validation externally. Live my life for me and do what makes me happy. ​ ​ Stats: 36 yrs old. Married 11 years. Wife 37 yrs old HB6, working full time. 2 kids 9 yrs and 3 yrs old. Height : 5’ 10, 200 lbs. BF 21.5%. Was 240 lbs BF 30% less than a year back. Started lifting on Oct 1st. SL5X5: Today: Squats - 135, BP - …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 01:27 AM
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Your posts have helped me a lot. Your journey beginnings (from older FRs) sounded similar to mine at the moment. So I am grateful for your post history. Good luck in all your future endeavors!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 01:41 PM
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Loved the cat story with reference to frame. Good one.
/r/RPChristians17/01/19 08:36 PM
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OYS #2 Mission Statement: Become a man who does not need affection or validation externally. Live my life for me and do what makes me happy. Breakdown/goals. Physical - Get to 10-12% BF - ultimate goal. First goal - Get to 15% BF by April 2019. Ultimate goal - 10-12% BF by Oct 2019. Mental - Build on your DNGAF attitude. Stop taking yourself so seriously. Build on abundance mentality and achieve proper outcome independence. Reset every single day. Ditch the ego. Internalize this - Nothing should…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 02:59 PM
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Continued... Relationship/Sex/Little more background: Pre RP sex was around once a week unless shark week. Duty, starfish, usually just BJ etc. Being an obese slob, I guess I did not push for more… was satisfied with getting off with BJ, getting off mutually etc. Around a year back, I realized through my alcoholic fog that something was wrong. Decided to quit drinking and did that. Smoking too. A whole list of nasty addictions. Finally fapping as well 6 months back which led me to MRP. Even befo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 03:35 AM
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OYS #1 Mission Statement: Become a man who does not need affection or validation externally. Live my life for me. Do what makes me happy. Live as if I am a single, prosperous and masculine man. Be a man others wants to put effort into. (I took some elements from here and there on MRP so not original at all but fuck it - I like it and this is what best voices what my mission is/should be) Breakdown/goals. ​ Physical - Get to 10-12% BF - ultimate goal. First goal - Get to 15% BF by April 2019. Ult…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 03:35 AM
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