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2	Men do find women their age physically attractive. It's not about what you think. Sexual attraction isn't some arbitrary thing that exists for no reason. It exists for the purpose of reproduction, even if we don't actually reproduce. Men are physically attracted to women who have strong indicators of fertility. That means that men will naturally find youthful women more physically attractive than older women. It would be counterproductive to our reproductive strategy for men to find older women more physically attractive than younger women. What…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 04:13 AM
2	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women I don't know why people always act like attraction is just skin deep. It's like people don't understand what a bond is. There are people you don't feel compelled to talk to or associate with based on their appearance, but if that same person were a family member or friend you've known for 10+ years, you may feel excited to see them. When a woman is young, physical attraction grabs the attention of men and makes us want to know her. If we succeed and build a positive relationship with her, the bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 07:15 AM
2	If you had a son and had to choose between two futures for him, would you rather he be tall & good-looking, sexually successful, but misogynistic, OR short & unattractive, romantically unsuccessful, but respectful toward women? Doubt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 07:36 AM
1	Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender norms There is nothing outdated about the gender role that makes it so that men must pay. It makes sense and is perfectly reasonable. The problem is that modern men keep failing the shit test that is feminist ideals, and so we lower our standards to make women feel less "oppressed" for doing what we like them to do while they continue to hold us to all the same standards that have existed throughout history that they like and appreciate very much. Your focus is on the wrong thing, and your tit-for-tat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 09:48 AM
1	Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed. If you're calling it an ideology, you don't understand what the redpill is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 10:47 AM
1	Would you date a broke woman? Then no, I don't want that. But that's not because she is broke. The broke part isn't the issue here. It's the mentality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 03:47 PM
1	Would you date a broke woman? That's where self-control comes in. Gotta keep your eyes on the prize.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 11:35 AM
1	Would you date a broke woman? The problem with this question is it heavily depends on what you mean by "broke." If by broke you literally mean what you listed as in "Directionless, uneducated, lacking ambition, jobless, saddled with debt..." then no, I don't want that. This highlights a mentality problem. But, if she lives with her parents and is helping them out (maybe they need assistance), and has a small part time job on the side to make ends meet, but obviously isn't earning much, I'm fine with this. I genuinely don't c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 08:07 AM
1	What screams wife material to you? Quiet, peaceful, easy to laugh, modest, pretty, not fat, family oriented, loves children, respectful, positive reputation (ppl who know her have good things to say about her), thoughtful, a little silly, motivating, not drawn to social media too much, good and trust worthy friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 07:20 AM
2	Q4W: How would you coach a guy? That's fair	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 09:36 PM
0	Q4W: How would you coach a guy? Honestly... Step one: explore and understand what is before you determine what ought to be. That's it. That's how you coach a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 07:22 PM
3	Guys here refuse to believe any behavior can be creepy and/or hinder one’s social life. So you’re ignoring that women in the comments were also calling out how unacceptable his behavior was? I'm not ignoring what women say. I take everything women say into consideration while also being aware that many of their rules aren't absolute and are liable to bend under certain conditions. It's up to men to recognise those conditions and act accordingly. However, the process of learning anything comes with failure and repetition, which naturally may come across as "creepy" to some. But a gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 06:26 PM
7	Guys here refuse to believe any behavior can be creepy and/or hinder one’s social life. That's not how objectivity works. 2+2 doesn't = 4 because 51% of people think it's 4. It's 4 because it actually is 4 regardless of people's opinions. It's testable and able to be proved. "Creepy" doesn't work this way. It's entirely subject to individual opinion and often influenced by the culture you're exposed to. So once again, men have learned that the criteria of "creepy" is mostly relative to whether or not the woman finds him attractive. And so, many men choose not to cold approach women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 05:53 PM
3	Guys here refuse to believe any behavior can be creepy and/or hinder one’s social life. You're not the moral arbiter of "creepy." Listening to you may tell people how to deal with you personally (and even then, you're likely to let a lot of those "rules" slide under certain conditions), but you don't speak for every other woman. Many men have learned firsthand that taking advice from women on how to approach women only goes so far. Since when posting dick pics ever been considered charismatic? So now you're highlighting something extreme and specific that you know I ain't talking a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 05:44 PM
3	Guys here refuse to believe any behavior can be creepy and/or hinder one’s social life. There are a lot of women who think a 30 year old man dating a 19 year old woman is creepy. There are a lot more men (and women) who don't. If "creepy" isn't mostly subjective, who's objectively correct?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 05:27 PM
4	Guys here refuse to believe any behavior can be creepy and/or hinder one’s social life. "Creepy" is mostly subjective and doesn't tell men much about what not to do coz those same "do nots" are often overlooked or passed as charismatic when performed by a different host. This is true the other way, too. There are certain things some women will get away with that others will be shut down for. It's just the law of attraction and it shouldn't even be controversial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 05:14 PM
–	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Yes. They do. Hierarchies are a very important part of a man's world. Still not what I'm talking about. There's a difference between submitting to a boss and desiring to be dominated and cared for by somebody superior to yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 07:13 PM
0	Is this red pill, and if not, what is it? When you say "it's" not fact, what is "it" that you're referring to? And do you mind informing me of the rules of the redpill? Or at least give me an example of a redpill "rule/duty."	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 06:56 PM
0	Is this red pill, and if not, what is it? Many people who are redpilled are married. Redpill is a commitment to truth via observation. Not a decree of actions a person must follow. Redpill explores the descriptive. "What is," not "what ought to be." Redpill: "The top 20% of men have access to a large portion of women. Here is the evidence to support this claim" What you think Redpill is: "Men ought to sleep with as many women as possible, and women ought to suck it up! herp-derp Key lock analogy"	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 06:05 PM
1	Is this red pill, and if not, what is it? Redpill isn't an action or set of rules. It's a commitment to reality via observation. It's strictly about "what is," not "what ought to be." You can be redpilled and practice braindead simp characteristics. Being Redpill is about awareness of the truth. There is no redpill manifesto. All you did was highlight an abusive relationship and attach it to a concept you don't understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 05:56 PM
1	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Yh, okay 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 01:42 PM
1	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. They do. The male is the state.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 01:41 PM
1	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Through listening to women, I learned to stop listening to them and instead watch what they do. I was once similar to you. Genuinely believed women just wanted to be equal, and so I went into relationships with an honest desire to treat them equally. I learned that my male friends and acquaintances we're right. I don't expect you to bend to my anecdotes. I also didn't bend to what other men were telling me when I was on the equality train, but there's tons of readily available evidence to suppor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 01:32 PM
1	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. It's not what I think, it's what's observable. Women still overwhelming want to be led by a man who is superior to them. Don't let the cultural norms fool you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 03:14 AM
1	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. You speak like someone who doesn't understand the gravity of war. War is hell. Your lady friends (if they even exist) are quite literally talking out of their ass, and your anecdote is a fart in the wind compared to the vast amount of examples that prove just how combat ready men are when faced with a cause they're willing to fight for. Men not being enthusiastic to go to war is healthy and is far from evidence of cowardice. And if you actually speak to men, you'd find that many aren't willing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 08:25 PM
0	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Not in this current "enlightened" Western climate where women have chronic penis envy. All it takes is a war or critical disaster, and women will once again beg for the role they once occupied under a man they deem competent and trustworthy. Like clockwork. It's ok to admit that	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 07:52 PM
0	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Not that kind of submissive. Maybe "dependent" is a more accurate word. As in, you look to someone else to provide all your needs and protect you from all dangers because you believe you aren't capable enough to do it yourself. Your attraction is based on it, and the idea of a more dominant character gets you excited to live under his wing. Not basic hierarchical structures. Those are different and based on survival and competition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 03:20 AM
-1	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. You're asking men with male brains to choose between being the masculine or the feminine. No shit everyone's gonna choose modern woman. What would you expect? The idea of submitting to a man as a man feels disgusting and emasculting. It's like asking a woman if she'd rather have a borderline autistic interest in engines and mechanics or go shopping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 10:58 PM
1	As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism? I see it as a roleplay. We're role-playing equality to make the women feel equal to men, and then working extra hard to sweep all the inconsistencies and double standards under the rug. Today, that under-rug is full to the brim, and people are noticing which is fueling the gender wars. Some people want to stop role-playing entirely (my position), and others want to replace the old rug with a bigger rug. Redpill vs. bluepill, basically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 03:14 PM
3	Women are poor communicators The effort part is kinda the crux of my first point. Men are generally happy to meet people where they're at for the sake of information. Women show eachother the same grace but refuse to extend that grace to men. They find social weakness in men and exploit it, or at least push men to their limit in the form of a shit test. Most men don't even realise it's happening and try to communicate with women the same way they would with men in order to solve a dispute. This is why so many men complain a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 02:36 PM
5	Women are poor communicators I think you're right if you focus on the pinnacle of men. Most men in 2024 are extremely socially awkward and can't communicate for shit, especially when around women. I'm talking about the average man. Even the ones who try to fight it by being forcefully direct tend to end up looking cringe instead. It's a big reason why the "rp movement" grew so popular. Men who are socially competent represent a minority and stand out strong in a crowd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 12:27 PM
5	Women are poor communicators I've also met men like this. Although rare, they definitely exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 11:16 AM
6	Women are poor communicators There's some truth to this, but to be honest, I think men are generally just socially-retarded, and women see that weakness and exploit it. You could make the moral argument that they know what we mean when we speak directly but choose to be unnecessarily disingenuous, and I might agree with you to some extent, but I also think men could do more to be better equipped when communicating with women. Speaking to men is easy coz even if something is explained horribly, we're very happy to give the b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 10:06 AM
2	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me Yeah, I've seen it, but it's mostly strategic noise designed to accelerate the speed in which the pendulum swings. There's currently a huge culture war going on. The Western world is insanely polarised, and it's causing mass social chaos. Chaos creates a good opportunity to force social change, so everyone's throwing their hat in the ring in an attempt to gain influence and bend social norms as close to their will as possible. Best way to do that is by exaggerating problems and focusing on extre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 12:19 AM
4	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me I genuinely don't understand why so many women struggle to interpret data on this specific topic. It's almost as if you want to believe the worst possible interpretation. Finding someone the "most attractive" at x time period doesn't mean that they're ugly during any other time period. It's not binary. The key words are "most attractive." Men don't leave their wives as they age coz men are still attracted to their wives, plus the time spent with them allows for deeper connections to develop that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 10:46 PM
6	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me Well, you counter it with more data. Most people get married and have their first kid around 29/30, so clearly, men still find older women attractive. The downside is that birthrates have dropped significantly, and birth difects and complications have increased, but that's besides the point. Men find women attractive well into their late 40s. That much is true. The significance of youth is only relevant to family building.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 07:16 PM
1	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me They down voting the hell outta me, tho. One of the biggest problems with the modern era is that weak minded people interpret descriptive statements as if they were "ought" statements. I could say, "men gravitate to sexual variety," and these people would hear "men ought to fuck as many women as humanly possible." It's embarrassing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 06:19 PM
6	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me Why are women scared of data? It's like a lot of you think that the moment a woman turns 25, she becomes ugly to us. No. Women of all ages can be beautiful. The data only shows that men generally find them the most beautiful during their peak fertile years, which makes sense. Chill out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 06:11 PM
6	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me That's not what that means. Women are still attractive past 24. All it means is that men find them the most attractive between that age bracket, which happens to correlate with peak fertility like clockwork.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 05:51 PM
6	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me This is an "is," not an "ought." Purely descriptive. No need to be mad at information. There's no cap. Here's the female one. *	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 05:45 PM
12	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 04:41 PM
0	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me It's actually very simple. Humans are living organisms, and one of the major functions of a living organism is reproduction. Men are hardwired to find youthful women (18-25) attractive because youth indicates that a woman is within her peak reproductive years. Women seek security in men because they're physically weaker and more vulnerable, especially while with child. Well accomplished men with large frames are more likely to be better suited to provide reliable security for women. This typical…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 04:39 PM
6	What does someone finding you attractive feels like? If I gave you a million dollars and asked you how you felt, and you responded with, "I feel nothing," does that mean you also didn't gain or benefit? what are you trying to do here? Keep you honest	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 09:48 AM
3	What does someone finding you attractive feels like? He didn't say zero benefit. You did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 03:48 AM
4	What does someone finding you attractive feels like? He didn't say there was zero benefit. He said it feels like nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 02:35 AM
4	You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating. The joke writes itself. Truth is more attractive when it's performed and least attractive when it's explained. At least to women, anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 06:42 PM
5	You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating. Granted the women on here are special breed out weird and chronically online, but most women in some form will do this when they are together. This is an important point to highlight. I don't know any women irl who use reddit. Most I know use Instagram and tiktok, while a few dabble with X. Women who actually actively use reddit are 100% a unique breed. It would explain some of the responses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 05:40 PM
2	You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating. Second paragraph of op's post, he states that even when specifically asked about it, such a man should deny it. That's the very definition of "bottling up." Read that whole paragraph. That's the part I disagree with the most. I don't advocate for men to complain about their dating issues to women they're trying to pursue. That would be silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 04:05 PM
5	You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating. Yeah, women aren't typically direct about anything. And the rare times they are, it's often used as a weapon against people they don't like rather than a sincere declaration of truth. If this doesn't describe you, great. I'm not talking about you. The purpose of my post was to highlight that I don't think it's a good idea for men to constantly bottle up their feelings or be subject to mass gaslighting. I agree, nobody likes a complainer. I won't challenge you on that. There's a time and place fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 03:54 PM
2	You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating. This is poor reasoning. Where did I mention that women had to or even should fuck men who they don't find attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 02:03 PM
6	You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating. I have the exact same experience, but what I've noticed is that the worst attributes of women is empowered when they're in large groups of other women, and social media is really good at connecting them together so that they can back eachother up and avoid accountability with poor reasoning. When you isolate them, they're very easy to lead and influence. Especially when you remain logical and consistent. Social validation in the form of likes, upvotes, comments, and simping ruins their ability t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 07:46 AM
7	You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating. This is true, but it changes nothing. As a group who claims to be gifted with innate empathy, women should, by their own logic, be able to put themselves in the shoes of those who are less fortunate... Unless it's all bullshit, and they're not as empathetic as we've been sold. Women will happily live in a false reality without any desire to explore truth. The real problem is that men want sexual access so bad that we're willing to lie to women in order to reinforce their false view of the world …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 11:35 PM
5	Is sex a product of a good relationship or is it a pre-requisite to one? I stand by both. A relationship without sex or sexual intent is a friendship at best. A lot of actions can fall under the umbrella term of "intimacy." Some of which are not sexual in nature. Both are necessary. One without the other would be like watering a plant while starving it of sunlight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 04:59 PM
17	You should absolutely never acknowledge any inherent disadvantages you have when it comes to dating. All you said is that men with disadvantages in the dating world should reinforce the matrix in order to look cool and prevent conflict at the expense of his own mental health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 02:38 PM
6	Is sex a product of a good relationship or is it a pre-requisite to one? Honestly, both. It's expected, it keeps relationships healthy, and it's likely to happen more often when the relationship is going well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 02:19 PM
7	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone Yes, absolutely. That's my kid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 06:04 PM
1	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. I'm aware. I was responding to op, who seems to be of the opinion that it should be seen as ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 09:50 AM
7	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. Watching porn is a 1000% the only semi-acceptable form cheating for men. Think of it this way. If you personally knew a girl who would send you nudes to jerk off to, no strings attached, and it was established that you'd never actually sleep together, your wife/girlfriend would never accept that, but apparently, if you don't know the girl personally, it's okay. It's like people know subconsciously that men crave sexual variety, but refuse to put two and two together. (And no, this is not me advo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 12:00 PM
1	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan Your response doesn't address the crux of what I said. All you did was basically say, "You experienced something positive, good for you! But if society wants to self suicide, mind your business and let them." As if such a decision wouldn't affect me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 11:55 AM
1	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan The ultimate safety net is family. We're in this mess because we've collectively decided to replace the family with the state and prize materialism and love of self over the next generation. Brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins, parents, and grandparents. This is your tribe. This is the sorce of your safety. These people care about you. They don't see you as a paycheck like the state does. That's your community. Men who wish to do harm use the method of isolation to ensure free reign to do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 11:37 AM
-1	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan No, I'm saying the mass cultural need of an exit plan is the writing on the wall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 11:01 AM
1	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan Yes. This generation is cooked. Too many people have that experience. I'm fortunate to have grown up surrounded by multiple examples of successful marriages, and I've seen and experienced the positive outcomes from that. Most people have not. The lack of positive examples in this modern era fuels the continuation of failed relationships and the increase in "backup plans." A downwards spiral until society finally collapses and gets replaced by a more barbaric culture simply because they actually …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 10:27 AM
3	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan This generation is cooked. The trust between men and women is completely broken. A society can't survive in this condition. Your response was as sad to read as the op's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 05:30 PM
-10	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan My grandmother and mother had no exit plan. This generation is fucked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 05:25 PM
5	Men of reddit would you have a problem if your girlfriend was a Cuckquean? I couldn't do that to my wife and mother of my children. If she even so much as requested that, I'd conclude that she was mentally unstable, and I wouldn't trust her with the kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 10:56 PM
1	Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday? I'm not sure how you could have a problem with what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 07:13 AM
1	Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday? I don't engage in or promote casual sex. Rp isn't an ideology. There is no rp manifesto of ideas you must follow to wear the badge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 09:04 PM
1	Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday? I'm aware. Doesn't change the fact that I'd be a hypocrite to treat somebody else's daughter in a way I wouldn't want my own to be treated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 09:01 PM
1	Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday? No. Degeneracy is degeneracy is degeneracy. If he's unsuccessful with women, that's tough luck for him. He's either got do what he can to improve his chances or sit this one out. Every escort is some other dude's daughter. If I wouldn't want my own daughter to serve as some random's self esteem fleshlight, I'd be a hypocrite to require that same service from somebody else's daughter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 04:29 PM
1	Do you think women are more bigoted then men? Nah, I disagree. Maybe in dating, but typically, if you want to try something new or promote a new idea, women are by far the easiest group to convince to get on board as long as it's sold under the guise of compassion or equity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 04:16 PM
-1	CMV: Telling women how they're nothing without a man/kids is toxic and creates more problems Telling both men and women that they're self-sufficient and that family is not necessary is where the real toxicity lies. A person without their tribe is prey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 11:26 AM
–	Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts. General observation will show you that women are underrepresented as sexual aggressors. Have you ever seen a group of women around a conventionally attractive man? Shit they get away with is wild. I've seen women smack mens ass, touch men's chest, catcall, push their ass on men's croutches, or sit on their laps etc. On a few occasions in the past, I've personally had women stroke my forearm while complimenting me for looking strong. While I have seen situations when a man will tell such a woman …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 10:15 AM
10	Is every single prominent redpill/manosphere thought leader and influencer a ‘grifter’ who doesn’t represent the ‘real’ redpill? There are no rp leaders. Rp is just about observing the world how it is objectively. There are no oughts, no prescriptions, no manifesto. Some people deliver the information very well and phase into relevancy. People gravitate to them, they get a big head, it finally explodes, and then we're back to square one. The information stays the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 10:41 PM
–	I think women aren't really attracted to guys in their league I should specify. Their own league. They're very comfortable rating men, but not themselves or other women (at least openly)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 09:11 AM
–	I think women aren't really attracted to guys in their league Women don’t think about leagues. They’re more focused on learning to manipulate their appearance to attract what they’re aiming for. This ability is very unique to them, and there’s not much reason why they shouldn’t take advantage of it. With a little makeup, a pretty hairstyle, a slim/curvy figure, and a little black dress, a 5 can easily transform into a strong 7 pushing 8.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 08:36 AM
26	This Platform Coddles Women and Shames Men This is true for most platforms and irl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 10:42 AM
1	Dating would be easier if most men stoped being thirsty. Ah yes, because women have no agency	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 02:07 AM
–	It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test. This is a tricky problem to navigate. It seems that the only way to bypass the obstacle that is Women's feelings is to require the assistance of a middle man in the form of an authority that makes paternity testing mandatory after birth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 10:49 PM
–	It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test. Good old victim blaming	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 10:35 PM
–	It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test. What if, before the start of the relationship, he establishes that he intends to test all his potential children? His reasoning being that he thinks that it should be mandatory, but because it isn't rn, he's taking that matter into his own hands. Would you date him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 10:33 PM
-1	The false idea that your spouse has to be your "best friend" makes many people prioritize finding an "interesting" spouse over other potentially good qualities and this likely leads to many broken marriages This is true, but many aren't ready for this conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 02:51 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? Ideology comes in many forms. Believing all humans are equal is an ideological position, for example. Even if you don't believe in a designer, you could observe a bird and conclude that it's biologically designed to fly, much like you can observe a human female and conclude that it's biologically designed to have and nurture children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 09:17 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? Lmao keep telling yourself that. It's fascinating how easily ideology can break the brain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 08:37 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? No, that's an ideal based on the faulty blank slate philosophy. The truth is that adults rely on each other for provision and protection, and we organise who's better suited for what task based on a series of factors, including (but not exclusive to) biological sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 08:12 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? Men are designed to build and compete. Women are designed to have and/or nurture children. Disclaimer for those who will assume conclusions without asking: This is not the same thing as me saying every woman ought to have or work with children, or every man ought to build and compete. There are many reasons why a person either may not be able to or shouldn't. I'm making a descriptive claim. If you're curious about my oughts, ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 08:04 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? You can be a provider in the same way a fork could be used to drink soup. It's definitely possible, but it's far from optimal. Nature has designed women for a different task, and they used to love it and embrace it. Feminism screwed that up. Viewing relationships from the perspective of it not lasting is a modern problem that exposes the poor health of our declining culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 07:57 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? No. It frames them as women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 07:48 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? Women have a primary function. So do men. Men attend to theirs. Women see their own as oppressive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 07:47 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? You're seeing it as a disadvantage because your worldview is fundamentally based on the state playing the role of your provider and protector instead of the husband, while your business potential and career success plays the role of your children, family, and legacy. Feminism has fooled women into viewing a loving husband as an obstacle, and it's done this by convincing women that the very thing that makes them unique and valuable (aka their primary function) is actually pathetic and weak, and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 03:14 PM
–	In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together? I genuinely don't believe that most people are ready for the answer to this question, and we're running out of time. So it's likely that at this point, it'd take the total breakdown of society as we know it. A reboot. The easier way isn't possible anymore. Birthrates are too low relative to the time that is needed to untangle this mess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 04:48 PM
4	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive Exactly this. My argument was never "self improvement is a waste of time and never works." My argument was what works for x doesn't necessarily work for y, and so revaluating societal ideals in order to analyse your own personal situation is superior to attempting to compete with everyone on the same playing field as if we began as blank slates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 08:19 PM
10	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive No, that would be a strawman. You're asserting that I believe individual effort doesn't matter AT ALL as an absolute, which is a ridiculous concept to live by. As I said to somebody else, there are things some people are able to do and get away with socially that others can't, and self improvement has nothing to do with it. That doesn't mean I think self improvement is utterly useless and has no effect in this world. Stop trying to apply absolutes to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 05:32 PM
12	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive My flair literally says, "redpill man." Why would I not believe self improvement wasn't useful at all? Two things can be true. I can acknowledge that the blank slate idea is faulty while also acknowledging that self-improvement has an effect in some areas. My "cold approach" point was an example used to illustrate the hamster wheel point. You wasn't supposed to latch onto it. You could replace the example with something else if you don't like it, and the point would still stand. There are things…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 05:25 PM
11	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive You asserted that because I don't believe x, I must believe y. "So basically you're selling the lie that effort never pays off and everything is always unfair. It's not "forbidden information", it's just a blatent lie." I never once stated that effort wasn't important. You put that on me based on me acknowledging something else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 05:12 PM
31	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive Generally speaking, hard work pays off. I'm not disputing that. However, when it comes to dating, men are often taught that personality substitutes for looks, which is false in most cases as stated by op. Physical attraction is a fundamental ingredient to that spark we're all looking for. This is true for both sexes, and that's ok. To elaborate a little coz a few people are strawmanning my position, I'm not saying that personality isn't important or that we ought to abandon all forms of hard wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 05:07 PM
13	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive If I said I didn't like ketchup, would you conclude that I must like mustard?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 04:41 PM
64	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive I don't promote any extreme. I only promote the forbidden information. What is done with the information is up to the individual. I'm simply not a fan of gaslighting people (who happen to mostly be men) into living a lifestyle and subscribing to a set of promoted ideals sold as truths for a promised benefit that was never based on the metrics they were competing in. It's a never-ending hamster wheel that benefits everybody except the one running in it. "I've followed societies rules to the best …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 03:49 PM
107	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive The problem is society's fairy tale "blank slate" mentality. It's a comforting idea, but ultimately, equality doesn't exist in nature, so the idea that we all have the same options, opportunities, and potential outcomes that play out based on the choices we make is fundamentally flawed, and many aren't ready to have that conversation coz it leads to acknowledging a lot of dark uncomfortable truths. So instead, we agree to promote comforting lies as truths and condemn observable truths as lies, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 01:18 PM
0	Why do men demonize women over 30 so much? A winner, whether male or female, isn't defined by the individual. It's defined by the game nature bestows upon us. Pretending the tasks and pressures nature bestows upon us isn't relevant or important, and collectively setting our own is quite literally the definition of "the matrix" (an artificial reality where truth is suppressed in favour of ideals). It's the reason why many men are gravitating to the rp and others are just full-on rejecting post modernism, which pretty much convinces us tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 08:25 AM
–	Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea? Porn. It's ruined a whole generation of men, and there's no chance of that changing any time soon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 05:02 PM
14	Why do men demonize women over 30 so much? A woman with little money, no power, no influence, and no workplace experience but has a respectable husband and well-mannered children is not seen as a bum. The same cannot be said the other way. I know what you mean, and there is SOME truth to what you say, but I think we're slightly talking past eachother. Men and women aren't judged by the same metric. Bummy women do exist, but what makes them bummy is hardly related to what they've achieved in the corporate world. It's more related to their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 09:16 PM
2	Why do men demonize women over 30 so much? It's just a descriptive statement. It really isn't that deep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 07:56 PM
2	Why do men demonize women over 30 so much? I never stated that it was	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 07:46 PM
-3	Why do men demonize women over 30 so much? Motleycrew1989 answered it for you. He said: "Because children can be shitty too, its mostly their parents fault, but still." This is the correct answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 07:43 PM
-2	Why do men demonize women over 30 so much? I originally didn't add children, but decided to in the end to see if anyone was gonna latch on to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 07:33 PM
43	Why do men demonize women over 30 so much? When it comes to men, there's a very clear image of what a loser looks like. No skills, no money, no influence, no power, etc. However, it's a lot more ambiguous on the female side. This is because society as a whole works hard to protect the image of women and children. A woman with no skills, no money, no influence, or no power is not necessarily seen as a loser because she's judged by a different metric. The increased culture of shaming women for being 30+ without a committed man, children, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 07:04 PM
–	Average guys are made to feel "dirty" for having a sexual desire Your style of argumentation is the problem. Op is making a very specific argument about how men are seen as creepy/made to feel dirty for wanting the same thing "chad" wants. That's all. Nit picking at his word choices distracts from the point being addressed coz you're smart enough to know what he means, but instead of dealing with the point, you've chosen to tone police his language. It's very common for women to argue in this way, but it's even more common for men to allow themselves to be dr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 01:07 PM
1	Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50? 21 by far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 01:15 AM
0	Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about? Because women (in general (and I say this for the women who might be reading)) struggle with objectivity, and everybody collectively understands this on a subconscious level. So, as a society, we have adapted to lying to women by method of omission. We very openly express and celebrate female positives while pretending the negatives don't exist. We don't do this for men. That's why most women believe they are above average, and the ones who don't are lifted up in the name of "kindness" by other …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 02:03 PM
1	CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider. You mean like how everyone tells men to stop playing video games and masturbating otherwise we'll wake up at 30+ and realise we aren't actually good at anything and no girl is gonna wanna date us? You mean like, basic accountability? There are solutions to both of these problems: don't trade long term fulfilment for short term pleasure. Both sexs have their version of this to look out for but only womem complain and attempt to reshape reality when the thing we're all warned about becomes a reali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/23 12:23 PM
2	Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask? This is a very sad response. I took a while to reply to this coz I had to think it through, and my conclusion is I'm genuinely sorry you think the way you do as I recognise this is the results of a truly dying western society. There's so much to unpack here, but I doubt it's worth going into on an app like reddit. This the kind of conversation that would need to happen IRL or on the phone where a back a forth can happen in real time, and things like tone can be monitored. I'll say this: as human…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 09:47 AM
3	Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask? Fair enough. Although bare in mind, your view of "sensible" is very subjective to you, and that's fine for what you may want, but it's not fair to paint men who care about these things as objectively "not sensible." I would argue it is very sensible for men to be competitive and for women to care about height in men because if all people thought like you did, the human race would likely go extinct. Let's not forget that the desire to build relationships and have sex is directly tied to our survi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 09:55 AM
6	Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask? Good men who would like to take a woman seriously would normally care, so your indifference acts as a filter to those guys. One of the reasons a man would go for a woman who has a high body count is coz he's only thinking about the quality of the sex, not the quality of the woman behind it. Think about it like this, men are very competitive towards each other, and the idea that another man knows what it's like to experience the very best from the woman he loves deeply bothers men. Men would ofte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 09:39 AM
1	Do you think a man wanting his woman to remain physically fit in a relationship is a reasonable thing to want? It's just basic respect. Keeping fit and staying healthy is one of the best things you can do for your significant other. Shows you care about how they experience their journey with you through life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 01:03 PM
-2	Do you think a man wanting his woman to remain physically fit in a relationship is a reasonable thing to want? Of course it is. Especially if she's expecting you to be monogamous to her. Imagine getting married and now for the next 30 - 40 years you're expected to only have eyes for a slob. That's your prize. Everyone around you thinking, "I dunno how he does it, but couldn't be me." Same thing to the man btw. Whatever makes your girl attracted to you, you should do everything you can to maintain it. It's only fair and respectful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 09:57 AM
2	How much pleasure do women feel? Unlike men, women (90% of the time) need to actually like you to some level to be turned on enough to want to have sex with you. Most men are just unattractive to most women, so the desire to start it up just isn't there most of the time. I imagine this is one of the main reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:23 AM
1	Question for Heterosexual Men: If you care about body counts, why? I enjoy these kind of conversations coz it greatly highlights the differences between how men and women think, and it's a beautiful thing. We're wired differently, and so we prioritise different things, but we need eachother for societies to function in a healthy fashion. The male mind wants freedom, while the female mind wants security. This reality is clearly shown in the choices we make everyday. Even when it comes down to voting, women are more left leaning than men while men are more right …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 09:49 PM
1	Question for Heterosexual Men: If you care about body counts, why? First up I appreciate how respectful you've been. The Internet is a wacky place and people tend to lose their shit way too quickly especially on topics like this. There's a lot to cover here, so I apologise in advance for the essay. Saying a woman who’s had past relationships is automatically carrying a lot of baggage is insane. People interact with the world. Humans aren't designed to attach and detach themselves from deep relationships over and over again. It's not about whether or not it "mig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 07:39 PM
3	Question for Heterosexual Men: If you care about body counts, why? This whole idea that women are damaged goods if they’ve “given it up” to other guys is mindboggling. An heirloom diamond is no less valuable just because it’s had several owners. You've chosen your analogy irresponsibly because usually the state of a diamond doesn't change when it's passed from owner to owner. A better analogy would be like going to the store, taking an ice cream out the fridge, breaking the seal and giving it a lick, deciding you don't like the flavour, putting it back in the f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 05:03 PM
4	Question for Heterosexual Men: If you care about body counts, why? Best way to explain it is by asking the question inside out: Ideally, how many men would you want to have slept with your wife and mother of your children prior to you choosing her? Another good question is: Assuming your wife had racked up a lot of bodies before you meeting her, what can she offer you that she hasn't already given to other guys? And assuming you don't care, why should you pay full price for it (via marriage/commitment) when others got it for free? Hope this helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 03:51 PM
14	Women legit believe that there is no such thing as a below average looking woman She definitely believes it, but that's the sad part	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 03:48 AM