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9

Well, her friends seemed very interested in talking to me.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 04:05 AM
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Thanks for defending me. I do need a boost. I've spent my whole life trying to figure out how to live up to women's expectations, when I had it all backwards. I have to live up to my expectations. Do I feel good about insulting people? Heck no.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 04:03 AM
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Np! Seriously, she'd have to pounce on me to put in a minute more of my time. Pretty women are common. I see them all the fucking time, because I'm programmed to think they are pretty.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:59 AM
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I have a friend that's a dark lord. Most of what his says is offensive but insincere. So people either love him or loathe him. Good girls can't get enough of it even though this guy is not attractive.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:58 AM
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And, you know, stop saying things like "exerting my sexuality". You're a man, not a foreign yoga instructor movie trope. Ok. Flirting? I'm just tired of suppressing my sexuality because I'm afraid it inconveniences people.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:56 AM
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Well, as someone who lived with a mother who browbeat 3 men, I now understand why I am the way I am. I walked on eggshells for over 20 years. It turned me into a passive numbskull. This is why this event is so significant to me.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:55 AM
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Well, she stopped as soon as this went down. The other girl appreciated the things that actually do make me higher value.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:52 AM
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Thank you. Her friend seemed to appreciate my experiences and attributes that actually make me attractive. Moreover, she actually seemed interested in proving to me that she was worthwhile. Good vibes. Both are roughly similar in the looks department but I would pick girl two every day of the week; I would pick her even if she wasn't as good looking. Seriously, actually giving a shit about other people is a major plus when I'm dealing with women.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:50 AM
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I think that ties into not pedastalizing women; we don't need to handle them with kiddy gloves.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:45 AM
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What I need to get away with now is exerting my sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 10:37 PM
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It genuinely slipped. I wasn't trying to "be alpha." I've gone my whole life carefully walking on eggshells avoiding even saying something that could be misinterpreted as an insult. I'm usually the dude who gets super defensive when someone insults or gets upset with me, and I'm trying to change it.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 10:36 PM
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I know. But the point is, I said it and felt good about it. I didn't slink away.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 10:33 PM
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Exactly. It's really liberating to be able to look at myself critically and say, "see, you should express yourself more clearly." The same thing is true when approaching. Fortunately, I have a friend who's a learned expert at approaching. Last weekend, we approached some women on the street; there were quite rude. My friend politely said, "it was nice talking to you," and we left. He asked me if that was so bad. It really wasn't. I have to get it out of my head that I can't disturb people or spe…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 10:32 PM
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Watch out guys, it's rhetorical Redditor! You so smart me! Oh wait, ad hominem.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 02:16 AM
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Vancouver is in a similar boat wherein female and male stupidity is making everyone miserable: the men are schlubs, and the women are snobs. Despite this, the amount of objectively attractive people in Vancouver is rather high; British Columbia is one of the least overweight/obese places in North America. There's every kind of acceptance here except fat acceptance. This is a wonderful example of game theory (i.e., Nash not Mystery) in action: instead of cooperating, neither team cooperates and b…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 09:45 PM
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"higher education" is a scam I make $120/hour from my home office because of my higher education, with no debt. I'm the biggest sucker in the world!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 09:41 PM
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I'm short (5'5''). I've gotten shit for it my whole life and don't expect it stop. I cannot increase my height, but I can increase everything else. Besides height, through lifting, I actually discovered that I have a very good physique, muscle insertions, proportions, etc. For the first time in my life, I'm proud of my body. I feel great. I'm getting a few compliments every week. I felt awesome shirtless on the beach playing volleyball. In particular, I impressed my tall friend that I can jump a…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 06:52 AM
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Has anyone ever asked a woman to see her phone and then put it in their pocket?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:10 PM
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Knowing anything at all about TRP, do you really trust studies based on data gathered from asking women what they think?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:08 PM
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Has anyone here actually ever talked to Japanese guys in Japan or the West? Herbivore men is a symptom of economic and social problems, not RP vs. BP or feminism (which is not big in Japan). Herbivore men is a product of learned helplessness. If you realize that no matter what you do or how talented you are, you're doomed to work long hours at a meaningless desk job that comes with extremely rigid rules and hierarchy but not security, there's little point in trying. Japanese will often tell you …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:06 PM
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I'm a big fan of bodyweight/calisthenics, especially for beginners and guys who do not like the gym. I'm currently using this routine. As you can see, unless you are severely disabled, there is no reason why you can't start this. All you need is a pull-up bar and furniture. The drawbacks are that you're not going to get swole doing this, and at some point, lower-body development will stall (only so many one-legged squats you can do without adding weight). In a few months, I've gone from zero pul…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 08:51 PM
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too many chemicals and cosmetics applied to their bodies No kidding. I have excellent clear skin. Women actually ask me my secret a lot. Cetaphil, moisturizer, and not slathering my face with chemicals on a daily basis! I'm shocked at how good the average man's facial skin looks like compared to women without makeup.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 08:32 PM
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You're forgetting other women hate competition. Hot women get constantly bullied and backstabed by their female peers. Men don't do that.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 08:25 PM
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I did fuck the coffee bitch though.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 08:22 PM
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For every time that's happened, I've gotten another woman to pay for me! My favorite line is "you're late [they're always late], how are you going to make it up to me?" with a smile on my face. I care about net results. Even the best men lose most of the time; even lions are unsuccessful most of the time. I pick my battles instead of stressing out over every little shitty thing women do. Constantly worrying about frame and shit tests didn't make me happier or more successful, they made me not wa…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 09:06 AM
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I don't for a second think being nurturing is blue pill in itself. It's only BP if you do it because your henpecking wife decides you should.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 09:51 PM
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I have walked down a public street in broad day light with a friend of mine in a dress and had a man grab her crotch. I have crowd surfed and had men touch my breasts and legs. I'm a man and I have been groped numerous times by women. I wear long pants and sleeves while leaving an airport so as to not call attention to myself, my body and the fact that I travel alone as a woman. I do too. Calling attention to yourself in a foreign country is a recipe for trouble. Also, I get far better treatment…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 09:42 PM
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The number one thing I've learned about angry idiots is that they feed off your response. First, always just leave if you can. Give them a "bitch please" look without saying a word. Too many people stick around and let things escalate when they could easily leave. This is the case 90% of the time. If that isn't possible or desirable (maybe you're on a bus or at a friend's party), and they continue to verbally harass you. Gauge the atmosphere: are you among friends/acquaintances/people who would …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:08 PM
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Rule: if a woman flakes and goes through the whole "sowwwy I'll make it up to you," say "great, you're treating me next time." Watch hamsters spin spin spin! I've actually gotten quite a few free drinks and meals from this. Sure you can flake, but it's going to cost you.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:39 AM
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Haha, similarly, I quietly abandoned a date. She texted me 15 minutes later asking if I was ok. So that's how I get your attention?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:37 AM
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I'm just sad I pay for women to get fatter from 400 calorie beverages. Part of the problem.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:37 AM
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Canuck here. More or less the same here. I actually extracted an ounce of sympathy from a female acquaintance complaining how hard it is dating as a 20something woman. Here's my average week: Go to social events, meet ~10 women within desired age/looks range. Five are with boyfriends/husbands; 3 are are dull as doorknobs and/or have bitchy attitude; 2 proclaim singlehood and give me numbers. Agree to meet. Yay! Send out ~20 short messages on online dating. Get 5 responses woo! 3 of these women c…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:48 PM
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When the last, violent, death throes of whatever is left of our civilization come, I’m going to revel in their suffering, for it will be well-deserved. Let it burn. Or um...I dunno, learn to adapt to changing conditions to maximize outcomes instead of worrying about incentives. Women changed; now it's our turn to change in response. Even feminists acknowledge men need to change (of course in ways to suit them). This is why I don't think there's much of a point to whining about feminism: it's not…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 01:13 AM
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Method 11: dump me and find someone else, because you're a catch. Life is too short to deal with my BS. I'll find some other beta bucks to cater to my needs.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 12:54 AM
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I think your title is a gross oversimplification of the article. The article basically states that "nice guyism" is a feedback loop: nice guys are nice, women don't appreciate niceness, women distrust nice guys, nice guys act nicer, ad infinitum. Now we're at the point where there is so much mistrust of men, that being nice has no positive effect at all. Yet nice guys are going increasingly insane with supplication. Meanwhile, actually fucking women with no investment has never been easier. Men …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 12:50 AM
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But we do tolerate openly sexual dress, talk, demeanor, behavior, etc...
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 11:40 PM
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women are honest with their bodies That's important. I'd rather date an honest slut who expresses her desires clearly than a manipulator who uses sex as leverage. I recently ended a promising fledgling relationship (i.e., she already put out) when the woman made a u turn on her willingness to have sex until I "properly dated" her. If that makes me the jerk who only wants sex, so be it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 11:32 PM
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I often experience this with women "saving" seats or tables. They leave nothing to indicate that it's taken, then angrily demand I leave. Every time I stand (or sit) my ground, a white knight, often a friend of mine, always jumps in to save the day.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:34 PM
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I'm a cut Jew, nonreligious, and I've recently changed my mind about this. I didn't get a say, and I think it's wrong.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:19 PM
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Effing hell, I just noticed how the tips of uncircumcised penises are shiny and smooth whereas mine is dull and rough.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:16 PM
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This is actually extremely good advice, and I'm shocked I hadn't thought of this. The only real relationships I've ever had (i.e., not "dating" for weeks/months before action) were with women who wanted sex within meetings. The only problem is that many of those women might just be looking to hook up. For some guys, that's perfect, but for others, hook-ups are unsatisfactory. Still, sex > no sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:03 PM
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Then a feminist says you're a misogynist for believing you "deserve" a wife. You can't win.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:59 PM
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I feel an overwhelming sadness every time I hear that. Even worse, is when the person who says that to you gets snappy with you for stating that you don't want to be a consolation prize.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:56 PM
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George Carlin once remarked to imagine how smart the average person is and remember that statistically, 50% of people are dumber than that.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:49 PM
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When I made a move on a woman who I thought was way out of my league, and she responded "what took you so long?" I realized I had SMV and that this could be improved. I realized I had missed more opportunities than rejections.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:23 AM
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Well, that's me. I started freelancing while living at home as a stop gap until I found a job (i.e., highly trained lab rat with a STEM degree working for $12/h). Jobs never came; freelancing came through. Many of my friends are making much more than I, but I work half as much and am my own boss. They desperately want to trade. Now, as a natural progression, I've started a company. Hopefully I'll create and command the kind of workplace where things get done and people are happy. I will not hesi…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 01:12 AM
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Yeah, that woman who treated those jocks like playthings? Talk about objectification.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 07:42 AM
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Fifty years ago it would be people in the media accusing Evan Spiegel of experimenting with homosexual sex. You mean communism.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 07:41 AM
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To paraphrase Cardinal Richelieu, give me six words, and I will find some to hang you for.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 07:41 AM
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"Sex: it's no big deal!" -- Virgin. I can't stand this self-flagellating "I and all men don't deserve sex or love, but women deserve everything we've got."
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 07:38 AM
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This will result in a tendency for the original friend to filter your exposure to which of her girlfriends she finds the least threatening. I.e., the fatty.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 10:42 PM
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You're not even trying to be a good troll. Not getting something you want is by definition not fun. I dealt with it like a boss. The point is, she wasn't a good friend. We had gone out 3 times and fucked once. Getting obsessed with a woman you know that little about is idiotic and naive. Female friends are the worst wingmen. In addition to not helping, wingwomen have only ever humiliated me. I've had women yell "go talk to her" then physically pushing me into the target numerous times, once spil…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 10:41 PM
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"Nah. Got enough friends." I recently pulled that line followed by "see ya around" with a smile. She was stunned. Whether or not she re-initiates contact, I feel good about myself for avoiding a shitty situation.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 11:34 PM
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Confidence is gasoline to a car: if you have gas in your tank, you know you are capable of action. However, gasoline, like confidence, is only useful if you actually use it to do things.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 11:30 PM
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But if you're starved for attention, you might be likely to acquiesce to demands.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 11:28 PM
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Thanks. You get just enough acknowledgement to think that you're on the right track, yet never any actual progress with women or any true friends who would actually help you out in a bind. Two years ago I fucked 2 women within 24 hours. I thought this was my crowning achievement and that my wimpy days were over. Two years later, it seems like good luck rather than skill; one of those women was a 4 who jumped my bones, and I had sex with her for the sake of having sex (if I was a feminist, that'd…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 11:28 PM
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You get constant verbal validation (you're smart, funny, handsome, nice, caring, etc.) but zero non-verbal validation (e.g., people going out of their way to help you, random acts of kindness, sex, etc.). This causes massive cognitive dissonance: "If I'm so great, why do women not want me? I'm all the things they say they want, but they don't want me." Sound familiar? No, I don't have rage or superiority issues, but I wasn't able to resolve that discrepancy until recently. You feel like there's …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:09 AM
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the constant requirement to prove oneself to a woman was grueling. I actually explained this once to a woman who assumed all men "love the chase." I told her she has to dress up, make up, and show up. Men do all that to a lesser extent, but also pay to get in, pay for attention, and have next to zero margin for error. Feeling constantly tested can be soul shattered, especially if you don't succeed often. There's a clip of Ned getting rudely shot down by a woman, who sweetens her tone in an insta…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:50 AM
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Did you recently eat a baked sweet potato or yam? That stuff is like candy.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:34 AM
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I find pure OJ incredibly sweet. There's a lot of flavor to be enjoyed in every day things.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:29 AM
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Actually, there's a great book about a dude who went from 6-figure think tank to motorcycle repairman and extolls the virtues of hands-on work. Doubt it helped with the ladies though.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 03:47 AM
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An alpha is a leader. That's a fact. Volunteering gives men leadership opportunities. Any time you put yourself in an unstructured group, you have an opportunity to lead, including the women who might be in that group.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 07:00 AM
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Because I've yet to meet a man who wanted only that and was truly satisfied with his life. Sex is a need, not the primary goal.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 06:57 AM
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Everyone has become a goddamn "foodie." Everything has to be absolutely wonderful, rich, flavorful, and decadent (and full of sugar, fat, and salt), while simple healthy food is eschewed as boring or bland. Some gourmet food makes McDonalds look like a healthy choice. Also, these foods are expensive and difficult to make, further propagating the myth that cooking is haaaaard. Anecdotal evidence here, but as soon as I cut out nearly all excess sugar for several months, healthy foods I used to thi…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 06:53 AM
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I largely agree, but... Second, junk food is cheap and healthy food is generally expensive. ...is flat-out wrong. This is the worst myth used to justify eating crap. Processed junk/convenience foods are so abundant specifically because they are more profitable due to the "value" (i.e., taste, convenience) they add. The more processed, the more expensive. Simultaneously, never have any humans had such access to so much cheap nutritious food. Eating out is incredibly expensive. Cooking bulk meals …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 06:48 AM
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Nope, I'm a man on a mission. If she's not (a) my mother, (b) fucking me, (c) helping me meet women to fuck, (d) providing high-level conversation, (e) food, or (f) actually being a good friend, she is a time suck and is summarily nexted.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 06:36 AM
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Talk about victim blaming! There's zero sympathy for men from women who aren't perfect in every way.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 01:44 AM
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I explained this a few weeks ago to a woman who took the initiative to tell me she wanted to break things off. Actually, I didn't explain it, I just said "that's too bad, I'm not looking for friends."
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 01:41 AM
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Bingo.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 07:07 PM
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There's a difference between reading and understanding the significance of Shakespeare and having to express your feelings in a difficult medium and being marked on it by a person who is almost certainly biased against your gender; the former is useful education, the latter is not. Also, if the boy isn't interested in arts and literature but is passionate about math and science (more likely), then why make him feel bad for underachieving? The way Shakespeare is taught is deplorable; it raises ge…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 07:07 PM
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$15 rule: if you're going out with a woman you're not fucking, you spend $15 or less total. Buying her a $3 coffee has the same end result as buying her a $25 meal.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:50 PM
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While grade school in the West is overwhelmingly boy-unfriendly, parents need to fucking step it up and not rely on schools for their child's education. I cherish the memories of my parents taking me to museums over and over again (I bet they were bored silly) and not making a big fuss when I didn't do so great in a "soft subject" like poetry analysis. While my parents were often overbearing about my education, this was much better than the vast majority of my Caucasian friends, whose parents ba…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:47 PM
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Check my privilege? Check your prejudice! I'm tired of pity party politics. I'm ashamed to say I used to be on board with all those sorts of people years ago, but then I realized I was the enemy in their minds. They're doing far more damage to progressivism and human rights than they can possible understand. It's kind of ironic that these idiots consider European Jews like me somehow more privileged as a result of their own prejudice and racism.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 09:09 PM
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Good job, you've ruined cottage cheese--an excellent food for gainz--for me forever.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 08:51 PM
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That happened to me. I can't stand being called an asshole for bringing up someone's shitty behavior. How to end your relationship with me.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 08:50 PM
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This sounds like a massive troll post. No one could be that dumb.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 08:48 PM
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Yeah rape culture my ass: for every real sexual predator out there, there are 100 white knights willing to throw away their lives to protect a woman they don't know. White knight culture.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 08:44 PM
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ive tried to act all beta with hands clearly visible, engine off, keys on the dashboard, etc. Not a cop, but I wouldn't say this is beta at all. This is just a good idea. Being a cop is dangerous work; dealing with some hot shit alpha asshole is probably not what the average good cop looks forward to. If you're going to be ticketed, arrested, or searched, you probably can't improve your situation by trying to talk your way out of it. Why antagonize the person who carries a deadly weapon and can …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 07:37 PM
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Fortunately, for my new venture, I'm partnering with a fairly conservative Eastern European woman. She doesn't behave like a cat: if she's off topic or has a bad idea, I tell her, and she doesn't get pissy. I don't pussyfoot around the issues. If she does good work (which is why we partnered), I tell her so without pedastalizing her. We've decided on a captain/first mate arrangement in which her input is strongly valued, but ultimately she follows my lead. Hopefully, with TRP, I can build our co…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 07:27 PM
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Good. Accept your weak slave mentality. You are only disposable if you let someone dispose of you.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 06:44 PM
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I tell them I'm a professional grammar Nazi. It's actually half true (editor). They ask me if I'm going to correct their grammar. "Only if you buy me a drink."
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 07:32 AM
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"I'm sorry you're upset" is hands down the most patronizing, uncaring, selfish thing you can say to someone. That's an automatic GTFO in my book.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 09:15 PM
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That kind of just clicked for me: women do in fact pedastalize men, it just manifests as letting a man get away with things rather than doing nice things for him and being a pushover. There's certainly some encouragement in the fact that women are simply waiting for a man who is better than they are in many ways. It's an open invite; will you answer the call?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 02:35 AM
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What do you say if a woman compliments your intelligence? This is happening a lot lately, and I'm really stumped how to respond.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:31 PM
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20% of all the sex is still a lot of sex.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:24 PM
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There was a great bestof'd comment a few days ago on /r/tumblrinaction. To paraphrase, it pointed out the wrongheadedness of progressivists identifying people with labels before identifying them as individuals. This pisses many men and women off. For example, feminists attribute the success of a successful woman to feminism; her achievements belong to the group, not herself; she's dehumanized. Meanwhile, "rape culture" and "patriarchy" labels men rather than treating them as individuals. The who…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:22 PM
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Yup. Even my "white privilege" wasn't very valuable in HK compared to other places in Asia. It's the kind of place where everyone's trying to look rich or go into debt trying. Coming from Western Canada, I just don't do this. On top of everything, average HK women are bumped up a notch or two by non-Asian men in terms of attractiveness due to cultural perceptions of beauty. So, even the women who can't screw elite Asian men can still screw elite foreign men.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:14 PM
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I've been to Singapore for only a few weeks some years ago. It's similar to Asia with respect to hypergamy but not nearly as bad as lets say HK. I should note this is based on my limited experience with Singaporeans, which was mostly elite university students and going out to few bars. However, I saw a lot more happy-looking couples around town, especially average men with average women. Didn't notice much overt hen-pecking like in HK. There appears to relatively less materialism in SG than HK, …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:06 PM
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It is. I love traveling in Asia and I love Asians, but everywhere I go I meet stressed out and frustrated 20 and 30 somethings of both sexes. At least North America is a comparatively less stifling culture where there are no real rules.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 05:52 AM
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Ok, so as a recovering nice guy, I'm still struggling with 4, 5, and 7. This is causing me to just abandon relationships the moment trouble arises, thinking there's nothing I can do and that I'm just going to be blamed for everything. What should I be doing? For example, a woman who I already fucked and actually like literally friendzones me (i.e., the word was actually spoken). I just broke contact. I reasoned there was no way I was going to convince her otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 01:15 AM
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It's because your status is almost assuredly much higher than hers that she doesn't even need to ask.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 01:05 AM
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I saw this first hand in Korea, Japan, and Hong Kong: the local women despise the local men. EDIT: However, the local men are fawned over by other Asian women, especially from less-developed regions like Mainland China and Southeast Asia. I've even read Eastern Russian women are starting to go after Japanese and Korean men. HK has be to hypergamy hell: it's one of the few developed regions where young women significantly outnumber young men. You'd think there would be fierce female competition f…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 01:03 AM
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studies show men are deeply emotional, and have more depth to their emotions than women. Studies? All you need is to read a good book or poem written by a man. Most men are simply not articulate enough to express how they feel about women they love. This is why it is so hurtful to tell a man who scorns the friendzone that he only wanted sex and is not entitled to it. Even sex is very emotional for men. Even for men who are into ONSs, sex is a way of validating their existence.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 10:57 PM
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Outside campuses, everyone is getting real tired of the radfem rape culture BS. The NOW's membership is dropped, because surprise, young women don't want to associate themselves with feminism's BS anymore. Even here in my liberal-ass city, people roll their eyes at "that girl" who brings up feminism/shaming/rape culture at social gatherings. Ironically, feminism's downfall will not be because of men pushing back, but because it will become passe among women.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 10:48 PM
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BC? IMHO, many young immigrants/students come to Canada from traditionally conservative countries; some of them go apeshit when the social shackles come off. I recently hooked up with a Vietnamese girl whose body count went from 0 to 3 (allegedly) in just one year here. The problem goes back to their upbringing: if they were raised in a conservative environment, their experience with inter-gender relationships and sex is often very limited, making them believe they can easily get whatever they w…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 09:36 PM
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I noticed that too. I've been repeated told I'm very short for a white guy (thanks, I never noticed). I know some very unattractive Asian women (even unattractive by Western standards) have (literally) sky-high requirements for men.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 09:33 PM
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The only thing I think sometimes backfires is nexting. Women flake and fuck up and do a whole host of other annoying shit, not always because they're hypergamous or scheming, but because they're human. Many RPers have a "zero tolerance" policy when it comes to BS and just cut women off. I've done this a few times, and I think this has led to missed opportunities. Sometimes talking it out is helpful, even if it is out of self-interest. Think about it, would you next people like that outside datin…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 12:46 AM
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I understand alpha and beta as not giving a fuck and giving a fuck respectively. That's even more off the mark. That's a complete loser mentality along the lines of YOLO. Do you think anyone who earned their success at anything did so by not giving a fuck? Of course not. Do you think all the "alphas" many RPers idolize "don't give a fuck" about their appearance, game, or whether or not they get laid? Of course men give a shit about women, it's how we deal what we care about that's important. I j…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:38 PM
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Excellent post. There is a whole spectrum of masculinity that can be expressed through the lens of TRP, not just "fucking bitches." I vomit a little every time I see the false "alpha/beta" dichotomy on here. This is BS. There are lots of other better descriptors of male behaviors: BP/RP, average/elite, passive/dominant, submissive/assertive, etc. I've seen "alphas" on their knees begging women to take them back and "betas" tell women to GTFO. Also, the vitriol against bluepillers needs to stop. …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 07:02 PM
3

My brother and I were visiting our parents yesterday. We had them rolling on the floor laughing explaining tumblr etc. My mother cannot stop saying "check your privilege shitlord" now.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 11:04 PM
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I see what you're saying, but it's still the same. You can approach any topic tactfully and not offend people, although there's always the risk. Again, who cares? Do you think anyone who's good at persuading anyone uses the same tactics all these "failed TRP introduction" stories used? Frame is still an important part of that. You have to be congruent, otherwise, you end up looking like the skinny white kid telling people how he's a gangsta.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 06:51 PM
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I consider the satisfaction reward enough. However, more importantly, I'm reconciling being "nice" with not being a wimp. To me, that's personal progress. It's helping me find my own frame instead of adopting someone else's. That's very important IMHO. Too many average men try to assume whatever caricature of a man they think is alpha and make fools of themselves doing so. You got lucky on this one but if you keep on helping other people no matter what the presentation is youre bound to piss som…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 08:40 AM
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Honestly, it's all about packaging and presentation. I have had good success bringing up these concepts to friends and family including quite a few women. The key is, don't debate: discuss instead. The moment you go on the offensive, people get extremely defensive, the mood sours, and people get angry at your shit. Don't directly attack people's beliefs, not matter how stupid they are. This is why feminists piss you off. Instead of saying, "You got friendzoned because you're beta. You need to li…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 07:02 PM
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Maybe it's just me, but that situation she's describing in which her man is adoring her body and she's all "no I'm ugly!" causes me immense frustration and kills the mood. I'm not the bad guy here. We're getting it on because I find her attractive regardless of her flaws, and there she is invalidating my positive opinion about her while completely ignoring my needs and feelings. Men are not the bad guys here.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 06:38 PM
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That's odd, I still see it logged in, and it vanishes when logged out. I'm on a mobile device now. To err is human. Women are only human and often screw up just like us men. Of course, we've no shortage of pet peeves such as flakiness, lateness, embarrassment, etc. While it's easy to just say "next" to any woman who makes a minor slip up, the reality is that you will miss opportunities for sex and relationships; also remember that you probably hate when women next you for minor infractions yours…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 06:07 PM
1

Thank you. I don't mean to concern troll, but I think there's a lack of content on this sub advocating non-adversarial/cooperative strategies. Ultimately, if we look at male/female interactions through the lens of game theory (i.e. John Nash, not Mystery), both sexes generally do better when they cooperate than when they try to exploit. I don't use my line to get free shit; I use it to restore balance and cooperation. As a man, it's your job to guide others to the best result for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:47 PM
1

I still see it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:35 PM
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I hope the good kind.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:09 AM
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This. I hate to say NAWALT, but the utter contempt she showed is really exceptional.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 07:07 AM
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I agree. I call it an RFK in reference to a negotiating tactic that helped resolve the Cuban missile crisis, averting nuclear war and making the USA look like the victor. It's simple: don't get defensive, meet the demands you're willing to, and don't even acknowledge the rest.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 07:02 AM
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Yeah, good points.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 06:23 AM
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Calm down man, I'm not knocking engineers; my brother is one. I was implying that there are usually far more men in engineering and that the women have an overinflated sense of value. So when I visit parties with 20 dudes and 3 women; the women naturally get a lot of attention and can have their pick of men.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 06:22 AM
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Bathroom lines Safety. Women are far easier targets for scams and petty crime, especially when they stick out in a foreign country. It's much easier for a con man to manipulate a woman's feelings or a mugger to overpower a woman. Traveling the world as a man is by and large much safer despite people not giving us as much free shit. A man who adheres to the rules of men is unlikely to be a target (e.g., don't mouth off to a group of large drunk men). Greater freedom of choice, less criticism, and…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:39 PM
13

I'm surprised he didn't talk about his day, the asshole in the office, or his feelings, getting upset when she offered constructive advice.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:21 PM
1

While I wholeheartedly agree, I also believe "teaching people a lesson" and "calling them out" is often harder and has more serious repercussions that just moving on and cutting the offender out of your life. I want to text the idiot back explaining why I am upset and will not be seeing her again because of her rude behavior, because she specifically asked me why I am upset. However, it just seems like more trouble than it's worth. Will she get the message by me simply breaking contact? Maybe, b…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:48 AM
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They do, they'd just rather not give a shit. First, they eviscerate men who share any sort of innocuous opinion on women, even down the color of her nail, even after asking what you think about it! The modern woman takes any commentary on her sisters personally (of course she won't hesitate to throw them under the bus). Second, if she's <30 and within the mean +/- 2 standard deviations of appearance, men will grovel over her, and the big bad media will constantly validate her. Fat acceptance? I …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:33 AM
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The basic bitch trope is terrifyingly true. I couldn't care less about slut shaming; we need bitch shaming. Brb, going to text the basic bitch who tacked on tea and cake to my order on our 3rd meeting after fucking then proceeded to literally friendzone me, by uttering the actual word "friendzone" in reference to me. Who the shit does that? Fuck your shit you basic bitch.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 03:41 AM
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Haha, but wrong thread.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:09 PM
2

This is why I'm into minimalism. When you strip away all the unnecessary excess, you're left with what really matters. This applies to everything in life: you home, your diet, your clothes, your social life, your relationships, your work, etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:02 PM
1

Former academic overachiever here. You're also assuming that you have to pick fun OR success at university. The truth is, you like most students, probably waste lots of time doing unproductive not-so-fun shit (like posting on TRP, sad but true!). The truth is, if you're spending 10 hours per day studying, you're probably not actually studying 10 hours. How do I know? Because I've studied with the people who study 10 hours, and they did less than I did! Maybe I only got a B+ average at a top scho…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:49 PM
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IMHO, the biggest problem underlying all conflicts regarding masculinity is respect. By our inherent nature, men are naturally inclined to provide and protect, regardless of conditions. Also, by our inherent nature, all humans are inclined to seek social acceptance and respect. AFAIK, these concepts are cultural universals. As in the case of most average men, they'll generally give to others regardless, but man will they be bitter if they don't get respect in return. Of course, when times are no…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:20 AM
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As a high schooler, I feel that this sub is a bit lacking in teenager-oriented RP content. Really? There's tons of it. I wouldn't be surprised if at least 33% of this sub is teens. After all, there is no better time than one's teenage years to chase girls, go full-on BP in relationships, be awkward, get broken, and generally make mistakes. Because you already know all about the next 60 years of life. Please, enlighten us. Step 1: never act like you know everything. Assume you know nothing.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:24 AM
3

Well, actually this is a good thing. Any idiot who willingly associates themselves with this project will pretty much be excommunicated from the research community.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:14 AM
1

Just like creation science!
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:13 AM
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Argument over. Wow.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:34 AM
1

I just commented in another thread how the last quality woman I met is in an LTR with a typically beta nice guy. Truth is, as much as I'm jealous, nice men like him deserve nice women like her; while there aren't many, there are some women who really do date nice guys. Then there are the women who decided to cash in and start dating betas; some are malicious, some aren't. Second, when you see average dudes with women, you know next to nothing about them. Maybe he dresses like a schlub but makes …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:33 AM
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One of the few few women that gives me whatever the equivalent of man-tingles are, is Dutch. Further corroborating this article, she's not even ethnic Dutch, just culturally Dutch. She's positive, caring, and affectionate and not selfish, aggressive, impulsive, or overly competitive. She wants a quiet career in academia (science, not women's studies thank god) and a stable married life with her long-term boyfriend, who is surprisingly a typical beta nice guy (yeah, do you think such a good woman…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:24 AM
12

Jeebus, triple digits. That's utterly repulsive. At that level, they have almost certainly come into contact with STIs.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:15 AM
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I failed to use best preselection I ever had to my advantage because I was still BP at the time. I used to have a super hot Chinese friend. I'm talking 9/10, can date literally anyone she wants, offers to model and do pop music. I often went out with her in various places including Vancouver, Beijing, Hong Kong, and Taipei. You would not believe the fucking attention I got from the hottest Asian women who saw me with her; people would always ask if we were dating. Yeah, they probably assumed I w…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:13 AM
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Yep. For all the faults my current rotation of plates has, they do all care. Even if it shows up in quite-odd ways. Like the one who periodically picks up dinner for me and spends too much on it ($35). That's just it. Everyone has faults. Some are terrible faults. What makes a person good is being aware of those faults and trying to make up for them. For example, it seems I get spilled on by some drunk ditz every time I go out; most women can't be bothered to even say sorry, while others immedia…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:29 PM
2

I agree. TRP is specifically about realizing and accepting realities even if they are uncomfortable truths. There's nothing wrong with wanting approval or validation. It's part of being human and living in a society.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:28 AM
2

It's not my fucking purpose in life to make women happy. I'm doing to fart around and go on adventures in my limited time on Earth. If you want to join me...great! We will be happy if you let us.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:23 AM
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Easy: she cares. She cares about other people's feelings. She doesn't act impulsively or without regard for others. She understands and cares about how her actions affect others, particularly you. She's not transactional; she does things for you because she likes you and it makes her feel good. She doesn't set limitations or conditions on her love. She might not cook, but she'll bring you takeout. She sees a problem and cares enough to fix it herself rather than bother you; she doesn't want to b…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:16 AM
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So anything that is about men or masculinity is sexist? Yeah, that's all I need to know about feminism. Funny how they mock "what about teh menz?" but get angry when men want to discuss their own issues. I'm fucking tired how they feel the need to invade every single bastion of masculinity. A bunch of dudes hanging out being men is in no way oppressive or exclusionary to women. I really would like to compare how 12 men, 12 women, and 6 of each survive completely isolated; none of the reality TV …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 01:56 AM
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Jeez, it finally hit me that that the 20-year-old art student I banged last week would have walked all over me when I was 20. Moreover, she probably has lots of nice orbiters who are genuinely interested in her but now she's after me, who doesn't care too much. How sad.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 01:33 AM
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1978 to circa mid 2000s: "Video games are for losers." Recently: "Why won't these losers not only accept me, but bend to my every whim to accommodate me? They must be misogynist losers."
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 07:45 PM
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For lack of a better term, that's "male sexual energy." It's incredibly powerful. The situational and emotional background of sex matters a lot to women to the point where it actually influences their pleasure. There's loads of toys that get women off better than most men, yet we're still getting laid...some of us a lot. That's why she needs to be "in the mood." Guess who creates the mood?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 07:10 AM
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Privilege cannot be seen by those who have it. So a middle/upper-class white girl privileged enough to go to quite possibly the best school in the world can't fucking realize how privileged she is? Less than 1% of the world's population has the privilege of post-secondary education, let alone fukken MIT. Aw, poor you, you had to work hard. I can deal with feminist hate mongers and SJWs, but I want to tear this cunt a new one. FUCK YOU. I hope there's a shitstorm calling her out for the whiny spo…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:59 AM
3

Pardon me ma'am? What did you say? I didn't hear you. Oh, you want to date me now? Maybe I can fit you in next week for coffee.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:39 AM
1

You're completely disregarding the fact that many short guy do in fact have problems with their height, generally imposed by other people. Instead of constructively saying "I don't have a problem with this, but understand that others might," you so eloquently say: What the fuck is with all this short guy bullshit? No need to be an ass about it. You're contributing nothing to the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:10 AM
1

You think making anything illegal ever got rid of it (e.g., prostitution)? lol
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 05:11 AM
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Men need to learn to do it consciously, otherwise, there can be problems. Porn is more of the problem. Hear me out. I'm not some religious crusader. In the years leading up to my nofap experiment, I had been jerking it 2-3 times per day regularly. I gave nofap a go and lasted a whopping 2 weeks, no porn no nothing. It was by far the longest I had gone since I discovered jerking. Call me a bitch if you want, but I became incredibly irritable, nervous, and emotional. Yeah, just like PMSing. Couldn…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 05:06 AM
2

You're right. All men have exactly the same experiences.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 04:25 AM
1

How's it selfish? We wanted each other, but as a man, I had to be the catalyst and respond to hints (which were pretty obvious). She acted like I was worthy, she acted like she was worthy; it was me who had the problem. I had to overcome that to make things happen. It wasn't selfish: it was win/win.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 01:55 AM
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She'll get all the love she needs from a nice guy...and all the sex she wants from a bad boy.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:50 AM
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Yes, but not in a negative way most guys are reporting. I was renting a short-term apartment in Tokyo, and a rather attractive Japanese housemate began to chat me up. She suggested we go eat something. We had a really fun night out and ended up sitting on a couch in the common room. Then my BP over-thinking kicked in. "Does she like me? I think she likes me. But I barely know her! It would be creepy if I tried to make a move. She'd probably freak out. I have to earn her respect." At least an hou…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:37 AM
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Because why would you ever want to change your mind on the basis of experience and information (multiple times if need be)?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:25 AM
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Too bad lots of dudes can't or willfully ignore the signs.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:20 AM
6

I generally can't deal with female vloggers; they take 5-10 minutes to convey ideas that could have been conveyed with 1-2 minutes of reading.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:51 AM
1

Well of course they make it hard to hide content; Facebook's business is based solely on people disclosing and sharing information.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:39 AM
2

I've been self-employed since graduation. I actually recently launched a business with a female partner. Fortunately I partnered with her specifically because she's good at what she does and is not a whiny entitled Western cunt; she's from Eastern Europe. I can see by adopting RP strategy, she has naturally adopted the captain/first mate attitude even though we are equal partners.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 02:00 AM
2

Is there a study that analyzes the effects of undue praise on children, e.g., do boys/girls who know they performed poorly but received a participation award feel better/worse than if they just received nothing? I speculate most boys resent when they and others receive undue praise. ADD: Also, that article was barely about undue praise; it was a cover for a rant on ubiquitous domestic abuse. What the crap?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:51 AM
1

Some men never will.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:41 AM
1

Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:38 AM
1

Not necessarily. For example, a BP guy uprooting his life for a woman can be blamed on FOMO. "What if she's the one?"
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:37 AM
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I kind of just made FOMO up; I wouldn't be surprised if it already exists though. I wish I was that clever. I think a lot has to do with the rise of social media, wherein you see the best bits of everyone's lives, making you feel like you're missing out.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:36 AM
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I know what you mean. The ONS circlejerk can get tiresome. I think it's mostly reactionary from former BP addicts. I think many RPers are too shy to admit that they like sex inside relationships more.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:33 AM
1

I should add, Facebook contributes significantly to FOMO. All you see is everyone's highlight reel, making their lives look great. Good for you!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:30 AM
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Haha, that describes my last summer; every damn day this awesome friend of mine was organizing awesome activities that I really wanted to do. By the end of summer, I was totally burnt out. You can have FOMO even if you're just really busy with fun shit. Regardless, you need to schedule in one or two rest days; stick to your guns, e.g., "no thanks, I already made plans (to rest) this Thursday." Learn to appreciate nights in just relaxing.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 01:50 AM
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The funny thing is, once you kill the FOMO, you end up being more confident and running into more random opportunities. Yup. Again, extreme FOMO actually results in missed opportunities. This is conducive to plate theory and abundance mentality: who the heck cares if that one hottie blew you off? You will likely encounter another dozen like her this week. She is not special, you are likely not missing out.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 01:46 AM
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I'm not sure any human can completely rid themselves of FOMO as it's probably a primary driver of rational decision making. The drive for sex is usually stronger than the desire to wander around. It's taken me a long time to get to that point too. It's important to ask yourself "am I enjoying this?" and focus on the activity at hand if you are. I think this attitude is important regardless of MGTOW status. A man with little FOMO creates a positive frame for himself that women are often drawn to,…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 11:35 PM
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It's not that they're not turned on by naked dudes, it's that they're usually disgusted by the naked male form. All this talk of body acceptance, and you still can't show a picture of an average naked man to most women or men without them cringing. More evidence women don't really like men, but rather like how men make them feel.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 11:05 PM
5

What specifically is holding you back?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 10:59 PM
2

Trying to force the friend zone rather than feel dumped, very solipsist about "feeling hurt", completely neglects how her actions have hurt you, typical. I noticed that too. "What about me? You fucked me over and broke my heart, and now you're upset?" As soon as a woman's feels are involved, your feelings get zero consideration.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 08:08 PM
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Confidence is the direct translation of a constructed mindset into action. Confidence is approaching a woman without even questioning if and how you should do it. Confidence is picking up the phone and asking for the sale because you know that you know your stuff. Confidence is trying something new because you want to, even if you have no supporters or know no one there.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 07:46 PM
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I noticed that everywhere I traveled in Asia. There are lots (by virtue of sheer population) of fit, successful, handsome, educated, and charming Asian men dying to date Western women that would be considered average at home. Yet most expat women would not even think about dating an Asian man. I mean, why the hell are you living in Asia, which has, you know, billions of Asians if you don't like them at all? Even worse, I also met lots of expat women who were interested in Asian men. Yeah, lots o…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 06:28 PM
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Interesting theory. However, I speculate the vast majority of gay/bi men are still in the closet and blend in seamlessly. Many specifically do not want to be associated with the "flamboyant queen" stereotype. In fact, the more masculine they are, the less likely they are to come out.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 05:06 AM
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This is why I don't dance. Seriously. God forbid a man ever reveals that he's anything less than an expert, he will receive utter contempt from women. Things like this cause me so much anxiety about being perfect all the time. You know how long it takes to teach a dude how to kiss? A few effing minutes. I am so happy the second girl I ever made out with as a teen helped me out instead of being a cunt about it like the first. Oh and let's not forget that this woman couldn't just say "we didn't cl…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 01:29 AM
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She implicitly encouraged it by explicitly stating this was to be an all-female company. Instead of fostering and managing a business culture conducive to productivity (and inclusiveness blah blah blah), she let women run wild. Also, maybe she accidentally hired people because of their gender and not their abilities. Equal opportunity doesn't apply to men apparently.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 06:56 PM
3

My roommate is a registered nurse; no scholarships or quotas for him.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 06:49 PM
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I've been making a conscious effort to agree and amplify for several months now. I cannot believe the overwhelmingly positive reactions I get for saying the dumbest shit. What really gets me is that of all women this works on, it works on my mom best. Why didn't I learn this growing up!? I could have avoided hundreds of arguments.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 01:21 AM
3

Just like doctors and airlines. It's a tried and true practice.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 01:17 AM
1

I think there are two cases of male existence-induced mental breakdowns.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 11:06 PM
0

I get upset just seeing the words "Trigger Warning" wondering what sort of horrors and trauma could lie beyond. It's just so upsetting to think about people being upset.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 11:04 PM
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Not necessarily. Doctors and airlines have figured this out: you can fairly accurately predict that a certain percentage of dates will in fact fall through, so it's not a great risk overbooking yourself. Second, you stagger the dates slightly like doctor's appointments: 6-8 pm, 830-11 pm, etc. You can leave early or late depending on how you feel while still leaving a margin. So if you're enjoying yourself with miss 6-8 pm and miss 830-11 inevitably flakes, you're covered; if it's the opposite, …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 10:56 PM
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IMHO, the best response is to demand some sort of reparation (not an apology, you say "how are you going to make this up to me?"), such as free meals, drinks, tickets, sexual favors, etc. If she doesn't come through with it, she's done. If she comes through with it and is pissed off, she's also done. Men should definitely use women's shitty behavior against them. Seriously, at least half my plans with women fall through. While it's plain rude to flake, I've learned that it's perfectly acceptable…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 10:46 PM
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I wrote a big long rant about how we're likes Miatas. While you can't change being a Miata, you can upgrade the parts (work out), give it a nice paint job (style), and learn to drive like pro (game/social skills). Despite this, some women will still reject you for a stock BMW in a heartbeat, even if you can outrace it. However, the key is you need to "drive" to show how great you really are. Us short guys (5'5'' reporting in) have internalized from a very young age that we are less desirable and…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 01:37 AM
1

I am pulling in 1-2 per week. The problem is, I actually enjoy spending time with some of them. Most are cookie-cutter copies, but there are outliers (unicorn sightings: zero). I actually wrote on comment just about that earlier this week.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 01:15 AM
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Number 1 got me. Holy crap, I can't not care about women. Fuck me right? I actually like some of the women I go out with, and it hurts when they freeze out for no apparent reason after we've established--what I assumed was--a connection. What's the value of a connection these days anyway? It's gotten to the point where I hate "having a connection," because I can never hope for on anything happening past a short fling. I know I'm supposed to just say "next" and delete her from my phone--and I do,…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 07:06 AM
1

Women do approach, they're just ultra selective. Ask a very attractive man how often he gets approached (no homo): it's usually on par with an attractive women. In addition, you'll find lots of very unattractive women will ask. It's kind of like expected value in game theory (the math one, not PUA): if the risk is same when asking out a top man as an average man but the potential reward is greater with the top man, why would you risk your self-esteem on the average man? Also, there's rarely any …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 06:47 AM
2

I've been on and off about fitness for a while, although never truly out of shape or near overweight. However, in the past few months I've made a few small changes in addition to lifting that have helped immensely with energy, focus, and anxiety...oh and a few kgs of muscle (disclaimer: I studied biology but not nutrition, not an expert here): Cut out nearly all added sugar and artificial sweeteners as well as most high-calorie beverages. I mostly drink high-quality black coffee, tea/matcha, and…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 06:40 AM
2

Before swallowing, I had a female friend (9/10) whine how Mr. Handsome Hot-shit Exec was going hot and cold. Surprise! You're just a plate to him, but the guy you cheated on really loved you.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 06:19 AM
2

You see this in most species exhibiting sexual dimorphism. Males impress (alternatively force), females select. This is the way things have been for tens if not hundreds of millions of years and isn't going to stop because of civilization or feminism. Isn't it truly remarkable how you just...you know...feel compelled to have sex with them to the point where you base a lot of your self-worth as an organism on it? Coincidence? We're not that special. Female reproductive capacity is limited. A few …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 07:24 AM
4

Jeez, everyone needs to give her a break. The wikia puts her age at 15-16. Most boys and girls that age don't know shit, let alone have been put through that kind of trauma (i.e., seeing your loving dad get the axe). It's a dangerous effing world, and she's utterly powerless to do anything about it. She knows everyone's trying to manipulate her. Out of the entire massive cast, she actually has one of the least defective personalities. She's just a sad traumatized teen. All things considered, she…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 06:45 AM
40

Who are you calling stupid? I believed this until a few years ago because that's the message I kept hearing but eventually rejected as false. BPers aren't stupid; they're misguided.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 06:38 AM
1

You forgot that men generally could not really give a shite about functionless diamonds and really wouldn't buy them if they weren't brainwashed and pussywhipped.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 06:36 AM
1

You are treating her to a date, because she is DESERVING. I just threw up in my mouth a little.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 06:34 AM
17

She needs to sue the fuck out of the school and all the doctors. Holy hell, you can't fucking force someone do take treatment unless they're incapable of making decisions. It's called consent, and I thought every fucking healthcare professional (and feminist) knew that. I had a professor who was a machine of an athlete; she regularly did the Ironman (you know, swim a few miles, cycle a few hundred, and then run a marathon). But, according to her BMI, she was way underweight. Could you imagine th…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 06:22 AM
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I noticed that too. "Just get laid. Guys do it all the time don't they?" "I know guys who get women so easily!" "You don't understand, everyone takes you seriously because you're a man. No one ever does things for me." "Men have it so easy." The struggles of the bottom 95% of men are literally invisible.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 03:25 AM
5

The worst part is that women simply have no idea that that's among the meanest rudest most personally soul-crushing things you can say to a man. They think it's actually a compliment.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 03:12 AM
6

It's foolish to try and neatly categorize men like that. I'm getting really tired of the alpha/beta false dichotomy. Some "alphas" are low-class scumbags who fuck tons of women they meet at sleazy bars; others are high-powered execs who married their college sweethearts and are the beloved heads of stable happy families. A "true" alpha is what we call "a career criminal" or a "sociopath." All I can say is that a "real man" does what he wants. Addendum: don't forget, being "alpha" is no guarantee…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 07:05 AM
3

"Why are all the good ones gay or taken?" Because single heterosexual men are the worst! Amirite? Excuse me while I enjoy my privilege.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:35 AM
3

I've started to notice this even walking around svelte Vancouver (to my knowledge, British Columbia has the lowest obesity rate in Canada and the US): fit stylish well-groomed men with dumpy chubby or skinny-fat women with no sense of style. I look at those guys and realize they think she is still the prize.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:20 AM
3

There wasn't even a slow decline into disrespect. She even had a higher sex drive than I did, which was what kept me around for way too long. But once that seed of doubt got planted, once she implied "you're only here to repair the damage, because the guy I really want isn't around anymore," I had checked out. This absolutely crushed my self-esteem, her being my first LTR. I'm only coming out of it years later.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:37 AM
7

I did too. It hurt more than she'll ever know when she told me how my defining quality was that I was the nicest guy she ever dated (fortunately it was mostly lost time and effort rather than money) and by no means the best looking, biggest, or best performing.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:15 AM
6

I went out with a Vietnamese girl today. She put a lot of effort into her look, not in a trashy way. She was pretty shy and didn't say thanks when I bought her a hot chocolate (give me a break TRP, it was $3 and she's a student, a supple petite student). Get this: a few hours later, she messages me, apologizing profusely for not saying thank you and that she wants to see me again. When is the last effing time a "western" woman apologized in a non-backhanded way? (e.g., I'm sorry you're upset).
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:03 AM
1

I thought promposals were just a joke from Clone High over a decade ago.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 06:57 AM
2

Simple, stop dealing with women who take more energy from you than you give. Your libido is limited but renewable. Your time is not. Your interactions with all people should be a net positive on your life. Any 9 who is a drag to be around for some mediocre sex is simply not worth it. In a sense, you're not doing much better than a beta who'll will put up with almost anything for a shot. I would genuinely rather deal with/fuck a 6 or 7 who makes me feel good and puts effort into our interaction.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 07:14 AM
2

I hope this keeps going and forms a trend where women are no longer immune to being openly mocked just like men. I've started doing that, with good results. The next time a woman whines about being bored, exclaim, "no, you're just boring," and leave. She will immediately apologize or look stupid in front of everyone. Of course, there's still hoards of white knights who eagerly validate all of their inane and childish interests. As much as I hate online dating, I've found increasing success messa…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 11:52 PM
1

Skimpy outfits + makeup + hairstyling = model. According to this formula, at least 50% of women 18-30 who are of normal or underweight BMI can be models. I wrote a post about how aspiring to be a model was the most degrading thing ever. I forgot about this sort of thing: you're not even modeling someone's clothes; you're just standing next to a goddamn car.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 11:44 PM
1

Jeez, I have a female friend who does just that. She asks if I'm busy, I say I'll be finished work in an hour or so, she asks if she can come over and wait; fine; then she whines about me taking forever. Bitch, I told you I was busy. My apartment is filled with books, food, and a fukken 60'' TV with Netflix. Fukken find something to do. Oh, then I'm finally done work, and she's all "what do you want to do now?" YOU CALLED ME!!!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 11:40 PM
2

I was about to write that she collapsed due to fatigue. However, you are right. How come she didn't say "I'm going to meet the men's standard even though I am not required to."?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 11:33 PM
1

As a STEM major with a bachelor's degree, I gotta dissent. My mother still wants nothing more for me than to get a PhD. Interestingly, I work on the periphery of academia: professors and researchers hire me, and I actually make as much or more than most of them. They are stressed out, overworked, and underpaid. Universities are not bastions of freedom. Even in STEM fields, there are strict hierarchies and methods of operation that simply can't be broken. Grad students are the absolute bottom tie…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 10:06 PM
1

Interestingly, I think this is why women think guys value "fun" as a quality in a woman. Ideally, a woman will not sulk and just enjoy being around you; this is so effing rare, it's considered a good quality. I hear women say "this is boring" all the time. When one of them say, "I know, why don't we..." my heart jumps.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 09:31 PM
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I saw that stupid propaganda when I tried to log into OK Cupid from Firefox. Yes, I vehemently support gay rights, but that doesn't fucking factor into my choice of browser. I'm sick of everyone's opinions being everyone's business. SJWs need to get it through their thick fucking heads that someone who believes in something, no matter how contemptible, is entitled to hold that opinion as long as it does not affect their actual work. EDIT: I'd like to add, that my choice in browser is NOT a polit…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:32 PM
11

It's "watch what women do, don't listen to what they say." Most "foodies" just want to go out an eat fancy food but can't or won't cook. Most people who say they like "travel" wouldn't dare stray off the tour. Most "photographers" are more interested in getting likes on Facebook than looking for adventure.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:27 PM
3

First of all, women will still try to take advantage of you even if you're gay. Look at the trope of straight white women who just have to have "a gay friend." Ideally, she wants the emotional support without having to give up anything. Maybe I'm generalizing here, but since gay men obviously don't crave a woman's sexuality, they act more aloof and aren't eager to please her unlike BP straight men. However, many gay men are aware of this and don't take shit from women. I've witnessed these sorts…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 07:07 PM
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She likes photography (i.e., selfies), traveling (i.e., getting shitfaced and railed in Cabo and Vegas), and food (i.e., eating, not cooking). She speaks French (i.e., "voulez vous couchez avec moi, ce soir?"). She is fun (i.e., enjoys being entertained) and outgoing (i.e., gabs incessantly around her besties; rude to everyone else). She is athletic (i.e., she sometimes walks on the treadmill for 10-15 minutes). And all she wants is a nice guy (i.e., tall, rich, handsome, exotic, stylish, sexual…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:54 PM
1

Tell her, "and now you understand why the hottest guys are gay."
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:44 PM
1

For the next girl I meet, I’m not going to ask her if she needs a man, because I know she doesn’t. Instead I will simply ask her if she wants a man, and if the answer leans yes, I will perform like the good clown I am so that she is entertained enough to have sex with me. Either she or I will eventually get bored and the relationship will end. Then I will simply repeat my performance on a someone new, because I’m a skilled clown, and that’s exactly what women today want. This makes me want to cr…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:41 PM
1

You have discovered the black pill. Please, tell us more.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:28 PM
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Isn't it funny that if you ask the average BP guy what he has to offer to a woman, he can instantly and truthfully list many excellent qualities about himself? Objectively, the average man is pretty good. He's always thinking, "What can I do to attract her?" or "what can I do to save/make this relationship better?" or "how can I make her happy?" Meanwhile, I've ever heard anyone dare question a woman what she can offer a man. Cooking is patriarchy, and love and sex must be fought for and earned.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:27 PM
1

They get theirs... emotionally. They may have those divorce dollars and stuff but their ultimate fate is lonely bitterness. I actually realized that later on and wrote it in another post. RP men at least have a shot at happiness and a fulfilling life. There is no point being bitter.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 12:15 AM
3

Don't forget people not respecting your time. I already have 4 clients who have booked my time well in advance. I'm not going to skip my ski day for $40. A 50-100% rush surcharge usually shuts them up.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:19 PM
2

Will check it out!
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:17 PM
1

ABC: always be closing. Leads are for closers only, and no manager worth their salt would chance $50k so that a newbie can have a "learning experience." Sales gets a bad rep in the outside world, because there's so many bad salespeople. I think your manager should offer team-based incentives though. My father just got an extra week off because the team he manages hit its ridiculously high quota. Of course, the top 2 salespeople (both women actually) pulled way more than the others and reap mad c…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:17 PM
4

Tell them you'll tattoo a veiny dick on her cheek for free, everything else will cost $120/h (very reasonable for a good artist btw--if it's going on your body for life, it's worth shelling out).
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:11 PM
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A man's revenge is that he has greater potential to be happy and fulfilled long after his 20s are over. Yes those wall-hitters will almost certainly snag a meal ticket, but remember, just because they have everything served to them, they're still unhaaaaaaapy. Once the bitterness of TRP wears off, I think we realize that the future still has potential despite all the BS in the world.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:53 AM
8

Well, there's dark triad and then there's reality. She's my roommate's good friend and she's actually a nice person; she just doesn't deserve favors from me. No point in antagonizing her and thus my home life.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:46 AM
7

Well, the difference is you didn't ask some guy you met at a party to sell a car for a loss. You were negotiating; she was mooching.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:45 AM
20

And they say kids aren't gaining valuable experience through internships.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:43 AM
7

What always made me sick to my stomach is the histrionics women displayed when someone in school committed suicide or died. What was sick is that these were the women who ignored or bullied the deceased and were now wailing about how much they'll miss them.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 10:53 PM
1

Don't forget that online, women rate men on a log scale (e.g., a 9 is 100 times hotter than a 7).
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 10:46 PM
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It's lovely to think things always work out in the end, but I'm afraid you're going to be sorely disappointed. Most wall-hitters don't get theirs. Look at the stats: the overwhelming majority of women still get get married, just later and with a high divorce rate (ka-ching!). Most men would still rather give marriage and luuuuuv a shot than be incel, MGTOW, whoremongers, or RP. Even if you personally don't lose the game, young men are overwhelmingly the losers in modern Western society. If you w…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 10:43 PM
1

Even with an abundance mentality, kindness is only a renewable resource, i.e., it has to be renewed from somewhere, i.e., kindness from others. There are too many men who expend precious kindness on the most undeserving of women, leaving little left for men, family, or deserving women.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 06:26 PM
19

Average progression on dating sites: Write long, well-thought out messages playing on her interests. Write shorter playful messages. Write stupid one liners Write whatever dumb shit you want, because the women on these sites don't give a shit anyway and do not deserve 1/100th of the attention or respect they get. Who knows? It might actually work. Sadly, like getting a number, getting a response online means nothing. Of 10 responses, even with a 5-message limit (i.e., I stop messaging if I haven…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 06:21 PM
11

Chivalry isn't dead. I see guys do that sort of groveling BS every day. Women are just bitter because the men they really want realized long ago that chivalry in no way helps them.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 06:13 PM
6

Reading all the hate mail, I got really scared because someone called “Sum Ting Wong Wi Yu” threatened to drown me in wonton soup, so I called Carly, Jenna, Kaitlin, Heather and Holly to come over to my apartment and support me. They were all totally supportive, we all put on our Lulus and Uggs and snuggled up in my bed with a few mimosas. I can't stop laughing. This is too funny. People actually take this seriously and write out long rebuttals. Anne Gus is the troll of the decade.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 12:54 AM
1

Has any female hambeast ever thought how their disparaging remarks against thin women make those women feel? Doesn't seem like it. The sisterhood is a joke. Quite a funny one too.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 12:41 AM
4

The club atmosphere is designed to take your money.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:07 PM
2

How interesting that people you meet in clubs are the sort of people who go clubbing. Of course you meet all kinds of people there. I'm not calling NAWALT, but a tiny fraction of the Western population 21-30 actually goes clubbing on a regular basis. In my city of 2 million, there's probably about 5000-10000 people clubbing on a Friday night.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:06 PM
3

I guess I was/am a mixed bag: as a little kid, on one hand, I loved the outdoors, science, guns, planes, trains, and automobiles; on the other hand, I occasionally played with dolls with my cousin, watched Sailor Moon, and hated sports. Today, I love baking cutesy treats (bitches love cutesy treats, but I make them work for it!) and don't enjoy watching or discussing professional sports, although I do enjoy recreational sports. Oddly enough, I was never teased for anything other than my lack of …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:00 PM
1

I used to be exactly like you, trying to put myself out there and shrinking into myself. I also used to believe that confidence was only thing for which faking was as good as the real thing. WRONG. Analogy time: if you were a warrior, would you enter a duel looking like a bad ass while wielding a fake sword or looking unassuming and wielding a real sword? The former outfit may intimidate an opponent, but you will know you are not equipped to do anything should he call your bluff and make a move.…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 04:48 AM
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Just remember gents, you can't fight the Axis if you have VD.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 04:26 AM
21

...continued. Then I felt terrible and started crying. I ran out of his bungalow and cried all night and the next day. I felt so guilty that things...just happened so quickly. I tried to call you, but it was 3 am where you were, why didn't you pick up!? Fortunately, I met some nice guys at my hostel who consoled me and I went to their dorm. Ok, I shared a bed with one because there wasn't room, but nothing happened. Ok, we cuddled, but that's all! Ok, I had a threesome with them in the dorm, but…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 01:00 AM
37

If you think about it, being a model is in many ways more shameful and degrading than being a prostitute. I cringe every time I hear someone say they're a model (90% aren't, posing for pictures for a friend's art school project does not mean you're a model). You've achieved nothing, do nothing, and certainly have nothing to brag about. Models literally do nothing but look nice and walk around. Oh, let's not ignore the teams of people who actually create that nice look: stylists, makeup artists, …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 12:54 AM
3

First, men lie about their height all the time. I'm 5'8''. Actually, I'm a towering 5'5.55'' barefoot but no one seems to notice. Here's my rant: Despite the fact that I have almost everything else going for me (Semitic good looks, decent job, intelligence, experiences, physiology besides height, hell even my dick length and girth are exactly 50th percentile for white men despite my height being in the 8th percentile), I feel like I'm knocked from a 7 or 8 to a 4 or 5 because I'm 10% shorter tha…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 09:32 PM
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You need to also remember that Jon Stewart is not an idiot and knows his entire audience comprises mostly liberals and feminists aged 18-29. Pissing them off and unleashing the rage of social media SJWs is not good for his career.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:35 PM
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We only made out! That's all I swear! Ok, he whipped it out, but I didn't touch it and left right away. Ok, I tugged him a bit and he fingered me, but that's all! Ok, I blew him for like 10 seconds then felt terrible and left. Ok, he railed me hours, but I still love you babe!
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:31 PM
1

True that. There's nothing wrong with used cars, but they sure as heck don't appreciate in value. Why would I buy used if my buying power has gone up and I can be new?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:59 PM
1

Solid. Gold. Now sit back and watch the wheels spin spin spin.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:57 PM
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The other thing she's completely failed to mention is all the gifts, support, and attention she likely receives from "friends." It is absolutely shocking how much average college women get from men. As a man, you're either giving up your time and money, and not getting anything in return or you're getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:30 AM
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Someone responded to that perfectly. Basically, they said how do we know you're not like that? We don't and we can't. If you had a 75% of chance of losing your love because you decided it was ok to cry, would you cry or hold it in?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:39 PM
6

The dating marketplace is so screwed up, no guys trust any decent girls who aren't ready to offer up sex right away, other than completely beta-ised guys (who no decent girl should marry). I'm glad I'm not the only one who realizes this problem: if she doesn't put out within a few times out, I have to assume she's just playing the stupid game where I get used for emotional support while she's fucking some other dude. I am simply not willing to put in the effort anymore because there's no way to …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:20 PM
3

"When a little girl expresses her sexuality, she's called “empowered.” Yet when a little boy does the same, he risks being branded “a pervert" or "creep.” Ban creepy and pervert!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 05:29 AM
2

Oh thank goodness, I was afraid you were going to strangle me. I won't disclose personal info though. I've done this since graduating BSc Location independent! Woo
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 05:27 AM
2

Please don't hurt me Nerd_Destroyer! I'm in an incredibly nerdy field! Basically I help researchers with academic and lay communications. I prepare all sorts of documents and reports as well as create content-based sites.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 05:41 PM
1

As for the last point, I find almost all men and women would trade places with me in a heartbeat.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 05:38 PM
1

I've been wanting more posts like these! I make a shit ton of money in sales, and I'll tell you it is an exact parallel of the sex game. Do you think your sales game reinforces your sex game or vice versa? Were you "born" a salesman or did you practice and get good at it?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 05:37 PM
12

This is like a dark comedy. Frankly that sounds made up.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 05:36 PM
2

Oh well. At least 95% of literary masterpieces were written by dirty, nasty, patriarchal men.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 07:06 AM
2

Thank you for taking that so well. It's literally my job to make people's writing more succinct. Sometimes, I can't turn it off.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 07:00 AM
3

Oh Christ, you get what you pay for. With prices that low, their modus operandi is get as many sales as possible and worry about the details later. Outsourcing is great for repetitive well-defined tasks, not for specialized, creative, or problem-solving work. It's much easier to find a quality provider and add a margin to their price. Even for stuff like customer service, big companies are discovering that the cost savings of outsourcing are often negated by the increased amount of time required…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 09:22 PM
4

Association? I.e., are entrepreneurs more likely to be alphas through business experience or are alphas more likely to have entrepreneurial tendencies giving them an edge? Is TRP inherently entrepreneurial, which could also help increase status and value?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 09:15 PM
5

I should clarify, I did briefly explain why without getting defensive. I did research the rate, which is quite fair. Basically they asked for a 10% discount for no reason, which strongly suggests they actually had no issue with the rate but just wanted to see what they could get out of me. I've played that game and lost before. I treat my clients well, specifically be providing lightning fast turnaround times compared to industry averages. I've never lost a major client. I'm still with my first …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:11 PM
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Yes, but I'm specifically referring to the connection between TRP and entrepreneurship. Nearly all of the stuff I've picked up from business experience alone is directly applicable to sexual strategy. I guess I should have made that clearer.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 05:13 PM
3

How sad that if we judge women on the basis of how they judge men, >90% are utter losers.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:25 AM
20

tl;dr: "I am surprised that a woman can be so verbose and must express this epiphany verbosely."
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:20 AM
-2

Whoa, bragplain.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:13 AM
3

Oh the irony: risk reduction is actually empowering. The world is not so mean and scawwwwy when you are better prepared for it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:10 AM
1

I was walking yesterday and saw a stunning blonde w/ voluptuous body walk pass me but I didint do shit because I knew I wouldn't be able to nab her with my current status. Confidence should be rooted in reality. ...or you could have made a pass and either (a) gotten shut down quietly and shrugged it off or (b) sealed the deal. Sorry man, what you did was not confident; you talked yourself out of a harmless situations.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:08 AM
5

I think many men actually do have the belief part down, but they just stop there.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 07:30 PM
7

Act high status. Treat those around you as if they were servants. Give them orders. Demand what you want from them. I don't think that's a very good idea unless you already are high status and people will tolerate your BS because they have ulterior motives.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 07:30 PM
-1

winrar. I see this a lot among Asians here in Vancouver. It doesn't matter if she makes $60k, he needs to make $120k AND have a wealthy family.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 06:26 PM
20

Man, at 26, I'm starting to see this hit hard. I lurk on the Facebook profiles of women who add me and am shocked to see how much they've aged from late teens to late 20s. I'm actually looking date (but not marry), not just hookup. The sad part is, the yuppie women in their late 20s who are starting to be very interested in me with my interesting life and budding RP ways, keep pulling the "I'm too busy to date with my wonderful busy exciting career" card; I next 'em, and then they wonder where I…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 05:42 PM
5

On top of everything, Ramsay gives us actual instructions on how to cook. Then, you actually invite a woman over, channel your inner Ramsay, and have her be your sous chef. You would not believe their response.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 09:13 PM
2

If women weren't forced to be the passive recipient in mating rituals Who the fuck is forcing them? Aren't they free? Isn't that the whole fucking point of feminizm? Normal men have been practically begging women to "woman up" and take equal responsibility for dating and mating for decades now. Arrrrrrrrgggh.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 07:35 PM
1

There's a whole George Carlin bit on the evolution of language. English is possibly the robust and adaptive language the world has ever heard. We have perfectly good (and often redundant, i.e., Germanic and Latin) words to succinctly describe the world around us; we come up with thousands of new words every year and adopt words from other languages if necessary (e.g., schadenfreude). Why are women (who are eternally praised for being society's communicators) hellbent on making communication usin…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 09:34 PM
9

The overwhelming majority of people who have shamed me for my body have been women, specifically for the one thing I cannot change: my height. Greek abs? I'm working on it, and they're already started to pop out. I see 300, and I think "I can do that!" If any man has body image issues, it's probably because women tell him he's unattractive. Women need to stop shaming average men before whining about 300.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 06:43 PM
0

That's a good way to put it.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 06:18 PM
5

I look at the current situation and think, things are pretty good: women have no barriers to enter traditionally male-dominated fields and vice versa (my male roommate is a nurse). There's no need to force or incentivize people to do things they don't really want to do. No one has to be unhappy in the West. I thought it was supposed to be about choice! (cough) If women don't want to be engineers, that's fine. They can do anything else, and no one will stop them. They don't need to prove anything…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 07:40 AM
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We're complacent. We're convinced we've solved the big problems and now focus on solving everyone's little gripes. By solving the big problems, we now have the experience and capabilities to solve the huge problems. Maybe then our little problems will seem irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 07:27 AM
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It is really amazing realize to what extent I was indoctrinated to believe about my own gender as a child. None of it really came from my parents either. The irony is that if boys are taught be ashamed of their gender and sexuality, then they end up expressing their sexuality in unhealthy ways; most end up fapping to hardcore porn and are not a threat, but a tiny minority appear to end up become the actual sexual predators--the peepers, molesters, rapists, and even mass murders. Is there any har…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 07:22 AM
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I'm happy today with myself. Adopted the notions of the RP without letting go of what made me, in my own views, a great human being. Good. Which every day makes me happier, now that the rules are clear and I can live with them in peace, acknowledging them for what they are and use it to my own favor, instead of foolishly try to test them wrong. Wait...what? Wasn't blindly accepting shit the problem in the first place? Test ALL the rules. There are just some things that have to be learned from ex…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 07:06 AM
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I think it's important to adopt a "do what works best for you" attitude. Some "alphas" are miserable shells of human beings, while some "betas" are truly happy. Take what works, ditch the rest. RP is just that: not accepting everything you're told and being open to new ideas. The most important thing to ditch is post-BP bitterness; I am still struggling to let go of that after years of waking up.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:57 PM
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But isn't pornography exploiting women? Or wait, the men paying her are exploiting her, but she's really exploiting them...or being exploited...or empowering herself? I turn off brain now.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:40 PM
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Why are you not happy? I'm willing to bet you're holding onto the past, when you (like everyone else) made mistakes. Now you're anxious about the future and afraid you won't live up to your potential. You're comparing yourself to others and projecting onto them. You're obsessing over maximizing your utility in all aspects. I'm not here to pick straws, so don't bother denying it. You're right, most people aren't happy, but the question is why? Maybe it's because they think "good" is not good enou…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:31 PM
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Because sex is a completely different thing for men. For men, sex is just another near-constant biology urge along with eating, shitting, and sleeping. If you're not a man, you will simply never understand this unless you start injecting loads of testosterone. Also, most men simply do not have the ability to get sex on demand. Therefore, actually having sex is empowering for men; it's success, it's victory, it's validation. Why do you think almost all prostitution caters to men? Men put much les…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 07:23 PM
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Jeez, and when I actually met an attractive level-headed 21-year-old Christian woman at a top university who wanted to marry and have kids right after graduating, I thought she was insane. Oopsy. I wonder how she's doing...
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 07:12 PM
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Long-time lurker. I signed up to post this. Cooking is a great excuse to invoke the chef/sous chef dynamic. It's perfect for creating a frame. I always tell her, "we're cooking dinner." I'm the goddamn head chef, and you'll do what I say or you won't eat. Got it? You're a foodie (like 99% of urban women)? Good, let's enjoy real cooking. My go to homemade meal with women is Thai green curry. We make the paste from scratch, which usually surprises most people that you can even do that. It's tediou…
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