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| 1 | Met a chick, got her number texted her and she sends me a pic of a ufc fighter telling me thats her cousin lolYou've been watching too much incest porn man. Get some help | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Met a chick, got her number texted her and she sends me a pic of a ufc fighter telling me thats her cousin lolLol. Why am I fucked if it's him? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Met a chick, got her number texted her and she sends me a pic of a ufc fighter telling me thats her cousin lola pretty famous one. Doesn't matter who it was. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Met a chick, got her number texted her and she sends me a pic of a ufc fighter telling me thats her cousin loljeez man, you need help | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea for a 37 year old man to marry a 21 year old?lol | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 08:57 PM |
| 2 | What is the impact of disqualifying yourself as a potential partner?This is gold. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Met girl who started playing games (adding me and removing me from whatsapp)Yeah lol. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 09:55 AM |
| 1 | What is the impact of disqualifying yourself as a potential partner?That's what I've done. Points taken on board. She's basically gone abroad now somewhere. And the fucked up thing is she lives abroad too. But she comes very regularly. The 100% was her last msg and I didn't msg her after that. What's the best way to play it going forward ? Just ping her at some point later ? Maybe ask her how her trip to xyz was? That would probably be orbiter tho. What do you suggest? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | What is the impact of disqualifying yourself as a potential partner?She's down for a meet up? I dunno. She's left to go to another city now. She comes and goes from here but yeah not sure what to do as a next step ? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | What is the impact of disqualifying yourself as a potential partner?So heres a bit of a whatsapp between me and chick in question: Me: Hey! I just got back from xyz and passed by (restaurant name of where we met). Haven't seen you in a while. You should swing by. Are you still shuttling between A and B? Her: Hey! I'm in town but leaving to xyz tomorrow! Me: I might swing by (restaurant name where we met) later for a bit. You should come by otherwise we'll hang out next time we're both in town . You, me (restaurant name where we met) and we we can catch up on all… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | What is the impact of disqualifying yourself as a potential partner?So heres the last bit of a whatsapp between me and a chick: Me: Hey! I just got back from xyz and passed by (restaurant name of where we met). Haven't seen you in a while. You should swing by. Are you still shuttling between A and B? Her: Hey! I'm in town but leaving to xyz tomorrow! Me: I might swing by (restaurant name where we met) later for a bit. You should come by otherwise we'll hang out next time we're both in town . You, me (restaurant name where we met) and we we can catch up on all ou… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 03:57 PM |
| 2 | What is the impact of disqualifying yourself as a potential partner?Thanks man. :) | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 01:22 PM |
| 2 | What is the impact of disqualifying yourself as a potential partner?Just added some notes | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Met girl who started playing games (adding me and removing me from whatsapp)So, I pinged her and I told her I just got back in town and just passed by xyz(the restaurant where we met). Swing by if you're around. Are you still swinging between London and New York? She responds like almost immediately saying Hey! I'm in London but I'm travelling to xyz tomorrow. So I responded saying " I'm only here for a few days before I leave for xyz. Have fun in xyz and we'll hang out next time we're both in town catch up on our adventures" Her response: "yes 100%" Left it at that. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Women don't want their partner to be more physically attractive then herTotally. And average guys and too insecure to date a high SMV chick. imagine this - average dude and a Victoria secret model. Ok , I've taken it go the extreme there but even if these two met , could the guy really handle her? Let's take it down a few notches , a regular dude dating a lawyer who makes 6 figures. No chance she will eat him alive. Now take girls who are insecure by nature as it is. If you're high SMV you should be dating a high SMV person of the opposite sex. Otherwise, something … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Women don't want their partner to be more physically attractive then herPlayer, he is gay, etc etc all those are shit tests. If you're the package what girl won't want you. When you're high smv you should be with a high smv chick. Like for like. If you're high smv and you're with a 5 then damn right she's gonna get insecure. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Does not being super invested in a chick increase attraction?In english please, i have no idea what neckbeard basement dweller even means. It's a question and I asked it. You don't like it, you dont have to answer it. Let someone else answer it. Be polite. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | should I stop following this HB9 on insagramI follow 9 people. 50 follow me. That's what you should do. If you do have an insta, make it unique so and offer value so people want to follow you and follow a few people only. That way even if you have under 300 it looks like you're a deal | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Met girl who started playing games (adding me and removing me from whatsapp)I have not messaged her at all! As for attraction there is something that worked against me in this case and that's time and distance. Although she comes here fairly regulary she doesnt live here. Anyway, I came across a restaurant while I was out gaming that had her name. I was thinking of pinging at some point later, was walking by and came across this. Totally reminded me of you! --- something of that sort. What do you think | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 11:47 AM |
| 1 | You need to engage a girls friends when you’re picking her up in a clubI had this experience. EVERYTHING was going well and she was totally into me. The ugly fat friend cockblocked me and started acting like a child and then ultimately when I was getting the number, I heard a firm "no" in the background from her friend. Ended up being a fake number. You MUST engage the friends and also do it for as long as you have them eating out of your hand and then you can do what you want! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Gentleman - how would you deal with a cousin who is being a dickMan I messaged the dude happy birthday a few days ago and he didn't respond. Not even sure if I should bother | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Gentleman - how would you deal with a cousin who is being a dickYeah man. I even wished the dude on his birthday a few days ago and he ignored that. So i think it's probably better to just let it be. He has issues. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Gentleman - how would you deal with a cousin who is being a dickWell when I said let's meet at Starbucks and I get to the place, he's sat in a pub and tells me I have your coffee here. That type of shit | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Gentleman - how would you deal with a cousin who is being a dickYeah, what's funny is that I wished him on his birthday on facebook and he didnt reply. lol. I'll send this message a little later in the week and see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Gentleman - how would you deal with a cousin who is being a dickGood point. If he ignores it, then I'll just leave it until I see him in person at some event. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Gentleman - how would you deal with a cousin who is being a dickMaybe I'll message something like hey man, saw you at the funeral but didnt get to chat. Hope all is good with you. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Gentleman - how would you deal with a cousin who is being a dickSo, you wouldnt text him? Just leave it and approach him when I see him whenever that is? | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Gentleman - how would you deal with a cousin who is being a dickWell, the death happend a couple years ago and apparently he has had the alcohol problem for a long time. I only began to hang with him as to lend a shoulder but he became super clingy and his whole habit of alcohol not aligning with mine wasnt really a good combo. So what am I aiming for? I guess to say yo, theres clearly an issue here between us. Perhaps I have been a little passive aggressive so thats my fault and apologies for that. But thats exactly it i dont want to hang with him, because … | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Gentleman - how would you deal with a cousin who is being a dickYeah, I feel like he's just going to ignore it now. I mean he had the chance to talk to me in person but didnt. Avoided me altogether. Maybe I have been passive aggressive but he kept dragging me and inviting me and he wouldnt leave me alone. I dont want to hang with him to be honest because he still probably has those habits but he's family and he will be present at a family occasion so I dont want the animosity. I feel there is a need to be direct somewhat. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Gentleman - how would you deal with a cousin who is being a dickI did that but then he dragged me back. I even tried to help him to stop drinking but then he'd just do it again and everything revolved around the pub. Anyway, here we are now. Not sure what I should do. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Abundance and the effect on women direct and indirectSo they do notice. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Met girl who started playing games (adding me and removing me from whatsapp)Took her off my whatsapp. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Met girl who started playing games (adding me and removing me from whatsapp)right. Will pinging her ruin it? - It will right. Or should I give it longer | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Met girl who started playing games (adding me and removing me from whatsapp)Yeah exactly. I mean what makes someone save and delete the number. Sounds stupid. I've ignored her for about 3-4 weeks so far and have not messaged her. In this time she has added me back. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Met girl who started playing games (adding me and removing me from whatsapp)harassing??? ok - i have not even gone to the limits of harassing. I was only talking about pinging her. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Met girl who started playing games (adding me and removing me from whatsapp)let her come to me and no contact. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Met girl who started playing games (adding me and removing me from whatsapp)yeah. I mean she did add me back not sure what that was about. ghosting probably did that. but if i ping, might look like im chasing? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Met girl who started playing games (adding me and removing me from whatsapp)nc? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I confront my friend? I suspect envy because of high SMVYeah you're right. This is all because of my value increasing and he sees me as a threat. Doesn't look like there is much I can do anything about it. The fact that he didn't even come into the venue shows that he has the problem and not me. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I confront my friend? I suspect envy because of high SMVYeah man. I saw him outside, he must have seen me inside and didnt come in. I mean the fact that he said weekends are family and all that shit and then bumps into me in a party place would have probably been super awkward for him. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Should I confront my friend? I suspect envy because of high SMVHavent even met his wife! I know it's envy and jealousy behind this. Is super nice to me via text but is avoiding. It's so obvious probably due to insecurity | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Reminder: A woman should not be an end goal in any aspect in lifeSorry for offending. Didnt mean to. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: A woman should not be an end goal in any aspect in lifeI think what he is saying is that women should not be the primary goal. They are a byproduct of all this other stuff. And he's right. If you are of high value they will come. Yes you still need to put the work in but they shouldnt be your primary goal. Outcome independance. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 12:28 PM |
| 1 | What do you do about friends who get envious of you?Funny. I wrote this the other day and speaking about the whole envy thing. I have a friend who I'm pretty sure is envious of me. Follows me on social media etc, no animosity nothing but as my SMV has increased my friend is keeping more of a distance. Tried to connect and he came up with some excuse and then over the weekend I saw him outside the same venue I was at. Not sure if he saw me but i saw him. He didn't come in. I'm gonna be honest when this kind of thing happens it does upset me. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How does it make a guy look when he chases a girl outside a venue going to get her numberYeah, I think when you're chilled about it. It comes across. I mean you're the prize right. Why act as if the girl is the prize. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you do about friends who get envious of you?Yeah I think thats the best move. Ive even had a friend try and match make with me some ugly chick. Like wtf! | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you do about friends who get envious of you?I even had one friend trying to match make me with some ugly trash! Like. why would you fucking do that! | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | What do you do about friends who get envious of you?And what about despite that you have some people trying to avoid you and the only cause is envy. What do you do? | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How does it make a guy look when he chases a girl outside a venue going to get her numberYeah man, from an observers perspective it didn't look good. This dude was running all over the bar hunting. If it looked liked that to me, I wonder what it looked like to girls in general. But yeah, it's a something to think about when I go out. I'm the prize. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How does it make a guy look when he chases a girl outside a venue going to get her numberThanks. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How does it make a guy look when he chases a girl outside a venue going to get her numberThere wasn't enough time so I figured I would ask here | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 05:13 PM |
| 1 | How does it make a guy look when he chases a girl outside a venue going to get her numberThat's it. Like he wasn't the prize. That describes it to a tee. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you network/make friends with someone you have nothing to offer to?One thing i thought of is that you can try and bring the person of value together with someone else. So offer them value through some sort of acquaintance. So basically be a connector. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 12:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you network/make friends with someone you have nothing to offer to?Wow. Thats crazy shit. Man, everyone has ulterior motives. Yeah you do get good people but even then if you come across as valuable then people want to build relationships with you. It's just the way it works. If you can help someone make more money they will for sure want to know you | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How do you network/make friends with someone you have nothing to offer to?Wtf. Seriously?! | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you network/make friends with someone you have nothing to offer to?while this is true, I don't think this is how people of high value see it. You have to offer something of value to them to get their time. I could be wrong but we live in a world where time is scarce and people want to be aound those that can provide value. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | As a single guy is it at all worth hanging with married friends?Yeah man. So many people have insecurities and you put it correctly when you say it affects those people whose lives have stagnated and then they see a friend who is growing. I guess that's not my fault but it kind of hurts when your losing friends just because your growing. Some even avoid you because of that reason. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 09:01 PM |
| 5 | As a single guy is it at all worth hanging with married friends?Some of them, yes. But the issue i have found is that with my growth, fitness wise, work wise, some of those dudes that I would hang with have become insecure. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth keeping in touch with an ex gf because of her network?This is a great fucking answer! Man, her sister is like a super networker and knows ALOT of people. I'm thinking your right and I need to do that but her sister is the key person here but i dont think anything can happen with that. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth keeping in touch with an ex gf because of her network?I meant professional as in she has a good network professionally speaking. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth keeping in touch with an ex gf because of her network?A new job? I didnt meet her at work. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth keeping in touch with an ex gf because of her network?yeah, I have moved on. She hasnt. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth keeping in touch with an ex gf because of her network?I guess they would say there is a net benefit to my life. I have no other reason to stay in touch. I dont want to get with her ever | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth keeping in touch with an ex gf because of her network?yeah, its professional but i think given how attached she is to me, its lke i need to give her some hope of a something between us to get an intro or whatever ortherwise shes so fucking vile. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth keeping in touch with an ex gf because of her network?lol. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth keeping in touch with an ex gf because of her network?Oh she was angry and she probably still is. She rebounded off me and got married and then got divorced. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 09:53 AM |
| 5 | Is it worth keeping in touch with an ex gf because of her network?yeah, the problem is my ex still isnt over me and the times that i have met her shes tried to pull a fast one like try and kiss me or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I expand my social circle/network ?Agreed. What i meant was people who are doing things and have goals. I say this because I've been at the receiving end of passive aggression and envy by close ones and friends all because of my growth. Some have been supportive but in the minority | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 07:04 PM |
| 15 | Girl might be bringing her friend along on our dateask her, has she always needed a chaperone? Whether she says yes or no, tell her you're not looking for someone to babysit. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 04:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I expand my social circle/network ?Entreprenuer club isnt so bad of an idea actually. Not into golf or that other stuff | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I expand my social circle/network ?London | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I expand my social circle/network ?Run businesses, pull chicks, workout, read books, watch movies.. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | How do I expand my social circle/network ?Your ideas dont suck. I'm just not into your interest. In terms of time, it's not as much as I'd like because of my business and rmeeting only rich people - no. Having said that, I'd like to meet people on my level because the kind of envy and jealousy that comes with people that dont have what you have kills any sort of relationship with resentment if anything | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I expand my social circle/network ?I run a multi million dollar business and that takes up alot of my time. I like to workout and i have friends there. But, I'm looking to expand my network into bigger things | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I expand my social circle/network ?such as? | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How to cold approach a group of girls at a bar?This is the mistake I made. I didn't win over her friends and her friends got super jealous. Seduce the friends! You have to win over the friends first and then it'll make it easier to focus on the target. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Friend of target says "oh look, its your best friend" and cockblocksYeah. I didnt call her drunk but I ignored the cockblock and continued. Girl ended up giving me fake number. And when I was getting the number she said "No", I guess the target cares more for her friends opinion than anything else. Cockblock was probably the lead of the group | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Friend of target says "oh look, its your best friend" and cockblocksGood answer man. Thanks. Needed that. But I think I didnt win over her friends enough. I should have done that instead of focusing on the target. Mystery Method. My fault. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Increased SMV, but current associates/friends and women ignore me more.Yes. It's called Envy. Let it roll of your shoulders. Keep improving, your circle will improve. Go and create your circle. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Met this girl and we hit it off but just realised i got a fake numberThanks for this. Good answer | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Met this girl and we hit it off but just realised i got a fake numberI honestly think i fucked up because of the friends. I didn't give her friends enough attention and this chick seemed like she listens to what her friends think obviously. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Met this girl and we hit it off but just realised i got a fake numberwow. gremlin took my phone and replaced the number with a fake huh??! | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Going to ping a girl after about 6 weeks who flaked when she came to townYeah, I'll ping her at some point. No expectations | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 07:38 PM |
| 0 | Going to ping a girl after about 6 weeks who flaked when she came to townYeah. She seems to be a game playing type. She deleted me from whatsapp (picture disappeared so I know) and since I ghosted, she added me back. What the hell is that about | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 03:06 PM |
| 1 | If a girl is looking for validation and an orbiter and you dont provide that, what kind of message does that send and how should she react?Right. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Going to ping a girl after about 6 weeks who flaked when she came to townNo? If she bites, might be able to game her? | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Going to ping a girl after about 6 weeks who flaked when she came to townI've pinged girls months later with some situational story that reminded me of them. Obviously, its takes the randomness out of it. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 12:32 PM |
| 1 | girl sends me picture of her newly born baby and tells me shes marriedYeah, i mean judging by the tone of her responses, she probably married some beta dude and is unhappy but ultimately yeah shes entertaining. Why even respond? | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | girl sends me picture of her newly born baby and tells me shes marriedNope. Didn't make it up. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | girl sends me picture of her newly born baby and tells me shes marriedIt's been a while and I randomly pinged her | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | girl sends me picture of her newly born baby and tells me shes marriedim thinking if i should even bother replying with anything | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | girl sends me picture of her newly born baby and tells me shes married? | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 11:05 AM |
| 7 | Fucked my Best friends gf. He found out and cut me out of his life. I need help and direction?You crossed the line. If he wants to forgive you, he will. You've said sorry but think about it, you broke trust and friendship is all about trust. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How was the stoic way benefited you especially in regards to women?So basically - non reactive and outcome independant. Not giving a fuck type of attitude | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 10:17 AM |
| 1 | How was the stoic way benefited you especially in regards to women?Will do. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 10:12 AM |
| 1 | I'm 33 and I recently met a 19 year old girl, is it worth persuing?Well we haven't spoken about it. I do look young but she's seen my premature greys. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Can you be auto-rejected if you take too long to escalate and remain pretty aloof?Maybe if you ping her later or something, it could potentially turn around? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Problems after Massive Increase in SMVYeah man. People can't tolerate change. The guys get massively insecure - but i guess it reveals those that actually are happy for you and those that have insecurities. As for girls, you will find that they likey your change and success unless they are married or something and maybe are insecure too then they will see you as a threat. Success is a double edged sword. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Problems after Massive Increase in SMVI'm not sure if this is somewhat related but my SMV like yours sky rocketed too. I'm about 5'9, in shape, dress well and own a company. Because of how shredded I am, it's given me a really good jawline and turned me into a 5'9 Model if that counts. Face wise at least! Most dont know I own a company. Anyway, i have friends (girls) who previously would meet me but they dont now. Some of these women are married and I guess see me as a threat. But it comes with the territory. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | None of my friends are motivated to meet girls .What do I do?yeah, the other issue is that most of the dudes i know are either married or in relationships. I guess I need to meet other people | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | None of my friends are motivated to meet girls .What do I do?Oh yeah, I know people. I make friends everywhere I go, where I hit the gym, I walk in and lots of people say hello to me. The place where I work from, same deal, the bar that I go to same deal. But, it's not easy to find good wings. Alot of dudes are just not motivated to meet women! | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 09:17 PM |
| 3 | None of my friends are motivated to meet girls .What do I do?Oh yeah, I know people. I make friends everywhere I go, where I hit the gym, I walk in and lots of people say hello to me. The place where I work from, same deal, the bar that I go to same deal. But, it's not easy to find good wings. Alot of dudes are just not motivated to meet women! | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | I'm 33 and I recently met a 19 year old girl, is it worth persuing?I asked because i havent dated someone with that much of a age difference. Would she be a liability? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Day game - Solo or two set?Good Point. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Day game - Solo or two set?Will she give it? I mean a random stranger on the street, how would she look in front of her friend? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Day game - Solo or two set?With day game, I have no problem approaching a girl who is solo. Basically, make the approach, ask for directions to something or whatever and switch it by saying i'm talking crap, i saw you and wanted to talk to you. With a two set, its not quite as easy | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Can you be auto-rejected if you take too long to escalate and remain pretty aloof?Can a freeze out work only to send a ping to reverse something like that? - worth a try? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a chick you open and start speaking to tells you she wants to speak to her friend?yeah. need to find a way. only way seems to be go solo at the moment | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a chick you open and start speaking to tells you she wants to speak to her friend?This makes sense. I acted cool when she said that anyway as if it didn't even matter. I mean there wasnt much I could do anyway. I wasn't going to persist after she said that. Only issue is that most of my friends are not motivated to meet women. Either because they are married or in relationships for the most part or the 1 or 2 that are single, they are just not motivated . I go solo alot. This time I had a buddy with me but I did all the talking | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a chick you open and start speaking to tells you she wants to speak to her friend?Yeah, I mean the only thing of was that I didn't validate and i didn't escalate hard. They say just keep talking and don't eject. I did. And Yeah model tier. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a chick you open and start speaking to tells you she wants to speak to her friend?So, I'm in shape, I'm good looking, I'm probably 8.5 in looks at least. I run a business. In this case, I didn't validate her for shit nor did I escalate. That's my fault. She was engaging but I didn't show a whole lot of interest and continue the conversation. A half hearted attempt. Just trying to learn with every attempt | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a chick you open and start speaking to tells you she wants to speak to her friend?Based on what? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Does this girl like me or not? I’m tired of hearing “I’m too busy to meet up” all the time.I would do this. Send a message saying, hey I know I've been trying to see the potential in us for sometime but with hindsight I realise that we probably wouldn't be compatitable. I think you're a great girl though and I think we should remain friends. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a chick you open and start speaking to tells you she wants to speak to her friend?No. Not speak to her friend and put me on pause. It was more like she wants to talk to her friend and not to me. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a chick you open and start speaking to tells you she wants to speak to her friend?Right. The girl was sitting right next to me, so i opened. Her friend sitting on her left. We chat a bit, I didn't really escalate at all. That was probably my fault. I also didn't validate her whatsoever. Also, my fault. And then I guess I got the expected response. I mean her friend was sitting on her left and I on her right so if she continued to talk to me, her friend would have been sitting idle. Do you think the seating arrangement could have impacted her saying this at all or could it be … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Scared shitless of ONSs, avoiding sex, relieved when a girl flakesI don't personally do ONS's ever. I dont like the fact that a girl will go home with me on the same day. I would rather take a few days and then do it, it makes me feel more comfortable. Call it preference. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 02:52 PM |
| 5 | I have a phobia of catching a STD. How do I overcome this?lol. I think that is a generalisation. The number of men that the average woman has been with cant be as high as we all percieve them to be. or maybe im living in my own world | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 05:44 PM |
| 2 | I have a phobia of catching a STD. How do I overcome this?every decent 6+ is a ho-bag? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 05:38 PM |
| 1 | I have a phobia of catching a STD. How do I overcome this?Yeah, my immune system is real good. I have a phobia because of a bad experience years ago when i hired a hooker and thought i had a std. Got tested, i was all good but it's left me with a really bad hangover | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | I have a phobia of catching a STD. How do I overcome this?? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Best responve to this flakeWhat about: Oh, awesome! I hope things work out between you two. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Scientific Research validates Hypergamic Instincts in Women. The Redpill verified by science.I can vouch for this. My ex married some guy who she divorced after 4 months. Yeah, that happens. It's real! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 09:55 AM |
| 7 | Submitting to Alphas around meRobert Greene - "Never outshine the master" So, if you need those people, appearing to be weaker can be a smart move. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Did I show too much value? Has attraction fizzled out because of time and distance? Is she playing games?Yeah. Fucked up | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Did I show too much value? Has attraction fizzled out because of time and distance? Is she playing games?Yeah, this is true man. Thats how it came across. i guess the only thing I can do at this point is ping her again in a few weeks or so and then tell her what we're gonna do like a man would. Definitely fucked up. Need to tighten shit up. Last message was a week ago so can't message her for another 3 weeks at least. Man, you're spot on with what you said. Thanks I needed that. Shit!!!! Need to tighten it up | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Did I show too much value? Has attraction fizzled out because of time and distance? Is she playing games?That's good advice man and you're right, mystery is more attractive. So basically, i arranged a meetand her response was "I'll let you know but I have family coming over from [her country] so I probably wont be able to. " to which I reframed the whole situation and was like "family comes first. let me know otherwise maybe we'll bump into each other again some time.I'm sorry I couldnt meet over the weekend. Things have been really crazy for me. "It was the best i could think of at the time. You'r… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Did I show too much value? Has attraction fizzled out because of time and distance? Is she playing games?Yeah. Kino game is good and game in general is pretty good. I've got other chicks in rotation but trying to work out what went wrong here. This was day game btw, as mentioned it was in a restaurant. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Did I show too much value? Has attraction fizzled out because of time and distance? Is she playing games?What's the best approach? ..... next it? | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl flaked on our date, saying her sister is in the hospitalYou shouldnt have deleted her number. And about the hospital thing, you should have followed up how's your sister doing in the hospital? - at least make her feel bad about it. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Girl flaked on our date, saying her sister is in the hospitalShe left you on read meaning? Give it another day and then ask, hey, how's your sister doing? - from this you'll be able to make the right call. You'll also be able to tell if it's the truth or not. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Girl flaked on our date, saying her sister is in the hospitalShe's probably telling the truth. You should have replied and said, really sorry to hear that, hope it's nothing serious. And then a few days later send a message, that is if she doesnt reply to the above and say, how is your sister feeling ? Is she ok? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | You're not her top optionThis is a solid post. Let's assume for the sake of argument, that you are not her top option; fine. You are partly to blame if your game wasnt on point. Attraction, rapport etc not there. Can you swing it? Perhaps. If you did everything and still its not on, its not on. But at times, I think alot is to do with game not being on point. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How can some men be like this?Maybe he spends his money on gambling, prostitutes and other addictions. Guys have issues like that. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Lifting and RespectThis is really encouraging. I lift and I'm about 10-12% body fat. I'm about 5'9 and my weight is relative to my height. I want to get bigger and your post has encouraged me to keep going. Question for you while I'm writing this, have you ever taken gear and if you have is it as bad as people make it out to be? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 11:02 AM |
| 1 | If someone flakes on you.. DONT forget about them just yet.So a girl i've been in touch with messaged me and said I will let you know but have family coming into town so she probably wont be able to. Theres probably some truth to that . I havent deleted her number yet. Will play the long game. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel weak mentally and physically when they have low body fat?Yeah man. The less body fat and the better shape you are in the more efficient your body is at using food and energy so you actually need more food. get enough of that in and take a good multi vitamin. I am assuming you are working out. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Why is it I lose my drive every so often?do you really want the things you are doing? - is it coming from a genuine place? or are you doing them for the sake of it? Maybe it's the lack of rest that is causing fatigue and laziness but on the other hand if you don't actually want these things, you stop doing them. Only you can answer these questions. I believe you will put the time in if it means something to you, you won't lose motivation even if you need to pause and take a break. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 11:12 AM |
| 1 | I don’t have any guy friends that are on my level. Where can I meet new bros that smash girls.You do you man. You will attract the right people, put yourself out there, connect with people. But you dont need others to get chicks. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Too High SMV?I'm having this problem I think! I met this girl in a restaurant, and she comes and goes into the country. Shes about 22 and i'm 32. I run a company. She has a rich father. I'm having trouble getting her out. I feel she is playing games because she deletes me and adds me and I know this because her picture on whatsapp comes and goes. But about the submissive behaviour - as far as my interaction has gone with her thus far when i have met her, and her responses to me via text are submissive - yes.… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Made plans earlier this week for tomorrow. Haven’t heard back in a couple days. Advice?Reframe it. Tell her, a friend of yours just got into town and she's only here for 24 hours and then she leaves. Shes a really old school friend and you'll have to rearrange. But you must re-attract. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 07:42 PM |
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