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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-4	Not really sure what to do, I'm a bartender, a woman falsely accused me of molesting her tonight. Yes, but we live in the real world. Unless OP photocopied their IDs nothing will happen to these people and trying to hunt them down will just cost him time and money. Gotta know how to pick your battles. This isn't one he's going to win.	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 09:12 PM
-6	Not really sure what to do, I'm a bartender, a woman falsely accused me of molesting her tonight. What's the opposite of White Knighting? Because everyone up in this thread is doing that. "You need to financially and legally ruin these people over a brief altercation!" Let's not forget it could be argued that you over-served an obviously drunk couple which is something that can land you in a world of trouble. Talk to your manager, get the tapes, and write a detailed statement of what happened and then go on with your life. Yes, false accusations are bad and white knighting is bad but the cha…	/r/MensRights	11/02/17 08:30 PM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/3/2012 Check out Groupon or LivingSocial for deals in your area. A quick scroll presented deals on skeet shooting, wine tasting, horse riding lessons, Cirque du Soliel shows, comedy shows, hot air balloon rides, Segway tours, booze cruises, indoor kart racing, ice skating, etc. It'd be impossible not to find some sort of unique, fun activity the two of you can do.	/r/seduction	04/12/12 03:34 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/3/2012 You need to give her a perfectly innocent reason to be at your place. This gives her plausible deniability as she can tell herself/friends "I went to check out his stamp collection and it just happened!" instead of thinking/saying "I went back to his place for sex."	/r/seduction	04/12/12 03:30 AM
5	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/3/2012 Assume it means she's attracted until proven otherwise.	/r/seduction	04/12/12 03:25 AM
17	After a couple of dates, she reports back to you "there is no chemistry,": Does that essentially mean 'sorry, you have no game'? Just a quick question, how long did it take before you k-closed or f-closed her? Because, in my personal experience, whenever I heard this line it was because I failed to escalate enough physically/sexually in a timely manner. Edit: And yes, I agree with the other posters that it could probably be a million reasons that don't have anything to do with you, but you should never miss a chance to analyze and improve on your game.	/r/seduction	03/12/12 02:24 AM
5	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/30/2012 Come join us in r/malefashionadvice! We're a bit more responsive than mannequins and offer better advice too. (Disclaimer: MFA tends to lean towards boots, nice jeans, button-ups, blazer kinda style but they are definitely helpful with other styles as well.)	/r/seduction	02/12/12 01:19 AM
10	A little something I use on female friends and ex's. Might work for you. Women talk, and certain opinions about your prowess will open doors for you. Believe me on that one. OP, this man speaks the truth. I've had more than a few women pursue me after I had hooked up with one of their friends. Just gotta be on your game and make sure they'll have nothing but good things to say about you.	/r/seduction	30/11/12 07:38 PM
3	[FR] First Date: Kino Escalation, Question Game, K-Close. My thinking is that a bar offers all the same perks of a good coffee shop and then some. Like grabbing coffee, getting a drink can be a 15 minute or 2-hour event. If you're not feeling it you can eject after you finish your coffee/first round. However, with a bar it is much easier to transition to a second location. Bar hopping is already ingrained into our social interactions (at least where I live) and bars are almost always grouped together within walking distance. Each bar typically offers a…	/r/seduction	29/11/12 09:31 PM
1	[FR] First Date: Kino Escalation, Question Game, K-Close. Uncertainty in a push/pull kind of way can be good I think, but I took it as a "I was afraid you might be too much of a nice guy to kiss me" kind of thing which is definitely no bueno.	/r/seduction	29/11/12 09:22 PM
5	[FR] First Date: Kino Escalation, Question Game, K-Close. I'm thinking that's gonna be the plan.	/r/seduction	29/11/12 09:19 PM
3	[FR] First Date: Kino Escalation, Question Game, K-Close. It didn't feel shit testy so I answered truthfully. I basically just recapped my dating history from beginning to end and briefly mentioned what was good and what was bad about each relationship. So it was kind of like "here's who I was at that time, here's what it was like, here's what I learned."	/r/seduction	29/11/12 06:06 PM
1	So you get a # close then the girl flakes on you, what do you do with the number? Try this text game line and see if you get a response. If not, fuck it, their loss.	/r/seduction	24/11/12 02:29 AM
1	Getting blown off after the first or second date. Don't knock it till you try it. The key really is to build rapport and comfort ahead of time through normal conversation. But let's not beat around the bush here, both men and women think about and enjoy sex. No one wakes up and says "You know what, my perfect man/woman is so sexually repressed he/she can't even talk about it with another person." I bet you that 9/10 people would describe their perfect mate as being spontaneous, sexually adventurous, and confident in what they want. You just hav…	/r/seduction	23/11/12 11:47 PM
2	What is everyones opinion on girls with boyfriends? I'm one of those golden rule kinda guys. I wouldn't pursue even my worst enemy's girlfriend. Just the other night I was kino-ing, chatting up, and getting tons of IOIs from a girl only to find out that she was with out with her boyfriend (funny, she spent more time hanging out with me...). So I backed off and flirted with other women for the rest of the night. Abundance mentality gives me no reason to fuck up some dude's situation just cause I'm nearing a close.	/r/seduction	23/11/12 10:28 AM
8	Getting blown off after the first or second date. Stole this from a FR posted a while back about a guy closing on a plane flight: play The Question Game. The link he had was broken (I managed to see a cached copy but it won't come up now) so I'll paraphrase it for you. The rules are simple, you take turns asking each other a question and answering completely and truthfully. However, you cannot ask someone a question that has already been used. For example, if she asks you about your favorite color, you cannot ask her this same question back. Af…	/r/seduction	22/11/12 02:30 AM
5	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012 Yeah that I was my thought but he said he had field tested it countless times and had great success with it. I believe he listed some variations like "I'm a busy man so I like to keep my plans, you aren't a flake are you?" Basically his whole thing was to get them to explicitly say they aren't a flake, so I suppose whatever gets you that result would work equally well. Maybe throw a ;) in there. Dunno, test and report back I guess.	/r/seduction	20/11/12 05:49 AM
10	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012 Yes but the phrase is "How much will $500 get me?" when you're on a shady street corner in the wrong part of town.	/r/seduction	20/11/12 05:44 AM
4	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012 How can I (smoothly) convince this girl to let me get into her home? You don't. She just broke her leg and probably feels extremely unattractive, ungraceful, unsexy, etc. Not to mention her place is probably a mess and littered with things she needs to keep in arms reach to prevent from having to get up and down. It's basically the equivalent of trying to come over when a girl is sick, unless she feels extremely comfortable with you (which is only likely if you've been dating a while or are frie…	/r/seduction	20/11/12 05:43 AM
6	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012 There was a post on here a bit ago about a guy's guaranteed anti-flake line. It went something like this "Not to sound too harsh but when I make plans I keep them, you aren't a flake are you?" The idea behind it is that everyone flakes, but no one wants to BE a flake. Then she will immediately qualify herself as not a flake, which then makes her less likely to flake in the future because of psychology and shit.	/r/seduction	20/11/12 05:35 AM
4	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012 Could be a million reasons, but here's some tips on the parts you can control: Avoid apologizing. It's unclear whether or not you did when you told her how you could have surprised her, but anyways, avoid it. Which brings me to my second tidbit, you are not a chance to be taken. You are a sure bet for an awesome time. Just a bit of inner game to help out in those situations.	/r/seduction	20/11/12 05:29 AM
1	[FR] Going Solo, or: How I Ditched the Crutches and Learned to Walk I've got to run to work right now but I'll edit this comment later with some specifics of the conversations and the openers I used. In the meantime, read up on conversational threading and that should give you some good insight into how to keep a conversation flowing smoothly.	/r/seduction	19/11/12 10:05 PM
2	[FR] Going Solo, or: How I Ditched the Crutches and Learned to Walk Solid advice, my friend, thanks!	/r/seduction	19/11/12 10:03 PM
5	[FR] Going Solo, or: How I Ditched the Crutches and Learned to Walk Yeah that's the only thing I was kicking myself for afterwards. I really expected to have more time, it was about 12:30 when they all left which is fairly early in my opinion. Was thinking there'd be at the very least 10-15 more minutes and at the very best another hour...either of which I'd have been ready to at least #-close. Oh well, live and learn to plan to close on a moment's notice.	/r/seduction	19/11/12 10:39 AM
5	[FR] Going Solo, or: How I Ditched the Crutches and Learned to Walk Thanks, I agree and I'll be sure to post more FR's in the future that are a bit more detail orientated. Like you said though, this was more about proving to myself (and now others) that flying solo doesn't have to be some scary thing. Getting out there is half the battle.	/r/seduction	19/11/12 09:04 AM
3	[FR] Going Solo, or: How I Ditched the Crutches and Learned to Walk That's kind of what I'm debating now. Either I lean into it with something like "So Claire's pretty keen on setting us up. I don't see any harm in getting to know each other better though. Meet me for a drink at [place] [time]." Or just ignore it all together and run standard text game. Ideally I'd just ask what exactly Claire said to her but she's on vacation now.	/r/seduction	19/11/12 08:59 AM
7	[FR] K-Close at a house gathering. For the love of god, unless you specifically talked about memes with her, don't send her a SAP meme!	/r/seduction	19/11/12 07:56 AM
2	Seddit, I've noticed the right state of mind makes a big difference for me, what are your tricks to get psyched before heading out? Music for sure. I rock the fuck out on my way to the bar/friend's house/date/whatever. I like to put on songs that I can sing well cause it makes me feel that more badass to be singing along and nailing it as well. Park, flip down the mirror and tell myself some sweet psych up mantras.	/r/seduction	19/11/12 07:42 AM
13	[FR] Going Solo, or: How I Ditched the Crutches and Learned to Walk I feel that it forces me to be much more social because I don't have my safety net of friends to stand around and talk to. I have to constantly approach and strike up conversations with complete strangers. THIS. That is, hands down, the best reason I can think of to convince people to try out some solo game. When we're with friends we tend to fill the role they expect of us or know us to be like. While comfortable, it certainly isn't great for someone who is trying to change. When solo, you can …	/r/seduction	19/11/12 07:12 AM
3	Tips For Tall Guys? This can 100% be played to your advantage. First, I'd open by talking just loud enough so that they can hear that you're saying words to them but not loud enough to make out what is being said. Bank on the fact that you're tall, handsome, and interesting so they totally want to hear what you said. Make the girl say "What?" Now's the perfect time to lean closer to her, touch her on the arm, and say your opener. Then go back to standing up straight and eye contact it up. If she's interested she'll…	/r/seduction	19/11/12 07:07 AM
2	[FR] Worst first night trying PUA turns into an awesome night out. Nice job on getting out there, giving zero fucks, and making it happen. Kudos! I just wanted to toss this in here: HB6 from the # close has been texting me like mad the last two days and asked if she could come over tomorrow after she gets off work. Make sure to run a refresher course/read up on text game. Sounds like it'd be impossible to blow it at this point but it's always good to practice quality text game so you know what to do in situations that aren't as clear cut.	/r/seduction	19/11/12 06:56 AM
12	[FR] Going Solo, or: How I Ditched the Crutches and Learned to Walk Wish I had more advice to give ya but what worked best for me was working on my inner game. To rock the solo scene you've gotta be comfortable in your own skin and be out there for yourself. As I wrote in a comment above "The best thing, I think, was that I had no agenda for the night besides to have a good time and talk to some new people. Because I wasn't result-orientated I had practically zero AA whatsoever. I was just a friendly guy having a good time and bringing those around me into that …	/r/seduction	19/11/12 06:44 AM
8	[FR] Going Solo, or: How I Ditched the Crutches and Learned to Walk Hah everyone loves an ice cream social. Indeed, I got out there and that's what its all about. A few years ago I would never have went out on my own but its amazing what some inner game will do for you. The best thing, I think, was that I had no agenda for the night besides to have a good time and talk to some new people. Because I wasn't result-orientated I had practically zero AA whatsoever. I was just a friendly guy having a good time and bringing those around me into that reality.	/r/seduction	19/11/12 06:36 AM
0	Text Game Thursdays A drink at a bar near your place but leave her headphones at home. While there she'll inevitably ask where her headphones are, to which you playfully reply: "They're somewhere...safe. I had to make sure you'd hold up your end of the deal." Since she's already hung out at your place she should be comfortable going back there with you. Now you have a date plus you give her a plausible-deniability excuse to come back to your place and progress things afterwards.	/r/seduction	18/11/12 11:15 AM
4	How do I stop giving off the boyfriend vibe when I meet girls The key here is that you cannot control how other people will act, you can only control how you act. If you tell them the truth in the beginning and they still decide to date you then you have done nothing wrong. You, like a mature adult, made your intentions clear and how they choose to act on that information is completely up to them.	/r/seduction	18/11/12 12:39 AM
1	Learn to laugh at yourself Pretty much what nsgafc said. There are really only three ways to react in that situation. You could be angry, you can be embarrassed, or you can laugh and make a joke out of it. Now, which of those three creates the most positive attention? Lets face it, anyone who saw is already focused on you so it's up to you to control the situation. And being in control of your emotions and reaction even when thrown a curve ball like that is alpha as fuck.	/r/seduction	17/11/12 09:42 PM
4	Text Game Thursdays Have you been on a date yet? If not, time to go. If you have, time for another. I'm not a fan of building things up over text, I feel it creates a false sense of closeness. You can spend hours texting what would take only minutes to cover in person. Without escalating things physically/sexually you risk the chance of becoming just a guy she likes talking to and thus fall into the friendzone. Hit her up with the standard "Let's [do this activitity] [day] [time]." Confirm the date and then stop te…	/r/seduction	16/11/12 08:35 PM
1	How can I distinguish myself when at a bar or a party? Don't like the advice? Don't take it. And this is for parties where the alcohol is clearly open to all, you aren't claiming anything as your own.	/r/seduction	11/10/12 07:28 PM
1	How can I distinguish myself when at a bar or a party? Depends on how it's said.	/r/seduction	11/10/12 07:10 PM
10	How can I distinguish myself when at a bar or a party? This is what I do at parties where I know few-to-no people there: Immediately upon entering: Post up by the fridge/keg/bar, basically wherever the booze is located is where you want to be. By simply being the person closest to the source of alcohol people will willing give you a degree of authority. Suddenly you have hot girls and cool dudes asking you if it's cool that they grab a beer. Don't just say okay and let them grab it, hand it to them directly and make eye contact, introduce yourself, …	/r/seduction	08/10/12 07:48 AM