iceicebabyvanilla Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Girl told me im "cute, until I open my mouth." Legit, this girl is a green light and a green flag for me. Some of y’all are so nervous to strike out that you miss every fastball over the center of the plate.	/r/seduction	07/10/22 05:18 PM
0	Girl told me im "cute, until I open my mouth." Dude, she teed it up so you could dish it right back. This is how I talk to women, but I also love women like this. You coulda said something like “and you’re not cute until something is in yours.”	/r/seduction	07/10/22 05:17 PM
1	What backlash should I expect because of my relationship? 26-year-old male dating 19-year-old female. It is such an “it depends” answer. I’ve never dated someone under 22 (as an adult), but I’ve met plenty of 20 year old women that have their lives in order, have ambitious goals, check the boxes that I find important, and are mature far beyond the 27+ year olds that have no substance outside of being hot. Could be a solid, healthy relationship with mutual respect and benefit. Up to you to determine that! I’d stay away from the stigma, internet boards, and whatever the hell else, and focus on the…	/r/seduction	28/06/22 01:25 AM
1	how many of you go to bars/clubs alone? you sound like a joy to be around	/r/seduction	26/06/22 09:29 PM
31	how many of you go to bars/clubs alone? Go to the same bar alone and get acquainted with the bartender. Tip heavy on the front end and thank them for helping you out. Get to know some of the regulars. Introduce yourself to their friends. Buy em a round. Once you go 5-7 times (bonus if there are bouncers and they dab you up on the way in), you will have a ton of success with women bc of the aura you produce. Marathon, not a sprint. Go get it.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 07:33 PM
2	Going out in Anaheim Lots of great places around. Check out irvine, costa mesa, and newport as well.	/r/seduction	13/06/22 08:19 PM
0	How to meet new girls. Id say half, either on the first date or subsequent dates to follow. I wasn’t interested in pursuing with the others as they were IG thots and had no life ambition.	/r/seduction	08/07/21 06:10 PM
2	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. Oftentimes, men talk far too much about themselves and don’t genuinely pay attention to the girl, her passions, her expressions, and dive deep into what makes her tick. Be genuinely interested to learn more about them, and it will ultimately guide you to a more successful date because you have the key to what she likes/dislikes from conversation. Edit: I think the “spark not being there” is because men try and sell themselves to the girl, rather than let understand who the girl is and qualify he…	/r/seduction	06/07/21 10:04 PM
11	How to meet new girls. I’ve been on 40+ dates in the last 5 months. Most of these women I’ve met at a bar solo. You know what women say about men? They’re too afraid to approach because dating apps make it easy.. I’ve legit been a normal, chill dude and pulled. It’s crazy how little men approach now. My guy, take care of yourself (workout, hygiene, be ambitious with life goals) and go hit the streets. You have the best opportunity to meet girls right now because competition, in person, is so low.	/r/seduction	06/07/21 10:00 PM
6	I approached 14 girls and got rejected 6 times My goal in game is start the night getting a couple rejections (doesn’t always happen) so mindset is primed to not put value in other person. You have to perceive yourself as value and a girl saying no, regardless of circumstance, is an inch closer to someone who will reciprocate value to you.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 08:57 PM
1	Too many leads lost through bad texting I typically just saw some funny shit for 2/3 texts, semi-self deprecating humor, then say “I’ll be at X place at Y time. Want to join?”	/r/seduction	22/06/21 02:29 PM
1	Too many leads lost through bad texting Text to set up a date, not to have a texting buddy. Be a thrill in person, and she’ll want to text you often.	/r/seduction	21/06/21 09:23 PM
1	I want to create a Seduction 101 list The cute thing, to me, is not your way in. Find a random way to be around her, and make the move like “I know it’s taboo to drink at 2pm, but I’m craving a local beer. You look like you know where that would be, know any good spots?” Or some shit.	/r/seduction	17/06/21 01:09 AM
1	I want to create a Seduction 101 list Vulnerability, at least with women worth pursuing, has been key for me. You don’t have to act perfect. She’s ultimately worried about her flaws while you’re balls deep in your own head worried about “game.” You don’t have to have the facade of being this manly, successful, everything about you is dope, man. Now, I’ll admittedly say I’m extremely extroverted, have a huge social circle, am very fit, make a lot of money in a notoriously lucrative industry, have hobbies/sports I pursue and excel at,…	/r/seduction	17/06/21 01:06 AM
5	Texting that attracts vs repels Don’t text at all buddy. Make plans for the next weekend with others and say the night before “I’m doing X with Y, you’re welcome to come. We’re there from x - XYZ time.” Females hate FOMO and love the chase. Bc it’s typically the guy going all in too quick.	/r/seduction	02/06/21 02:20 PM
4	This entire subreddit seems to be about seducing women, what about seducing men? How to get a dude. Approach him. You won!	/r/seduction	08/02/21 03:26 PM
3	How to stop fantasizing about a woman? That’s it man! Make it work for you, not try and take what works for me and apply it to you. A lot of us are entrenched into “idealism.” We say things like “if only I was like this dude” or whatever. Nah man, there are millions of girls that have your same value system and idea of a good time, work to be unequivocally YOU (which is not easy by the way!), and you’ll be right with your soul.	/r/seduction	29/12/20 03:06 PM
4	How to stop fantasizing about a woman? That’s an interesting question man, and I think it’s contextualized around who you are. I’m high in openness and extroversion so I have a proclivity towards engaging other people for the sake of letting them talk about themselves and it brings me joy. My sense of happiness and maximizing happiness does partly come from other people. But my intent isn’t nefarious in nature when I engage others - it’s to satisfy my hunger to know who’s in the room and seek out those who are fun/chill/willing to ha…	/r/seduction	29/12/20 02:23 PM
36	How to stop fantasizing about a woman? Fantasizing is brutal man. Let’s change your mindset. A long time ago, when I was a skinny fat dweeb that didn’t have any ability to pull, I would actively go out looking for attention and approval. This was a manifestation of my delusion. That somehow, some way, I would be lucky enough to get some girl without taking care of myself. It’s completely off base. I started to hit the gym, focus harder on my career, picked up old hobbies (like sports), and told myself “I bring the party wherever I go…	/r/seduction	28/12/20 11:14 PM
1	Tips on attracting men for women? How to get a guy. Be relatively attractive/fit. Be the one that approaches. 2b. If he is single, you’re in.	/r/seduction	24/11/20 03:50 PM
6	My red flags Still smashed tho	/r/seduction	18/11/20 03:56 PM
1	where do you draw the line with rudeness? I love sassy women dude. That’s a sign she’s into you	/r/seduction	25/06/20 06:21 PM
2	When entering a place where a special girl is, should i look her in the eyes the moment i enter or should i ignore her and walk slowly in? Walk in and Wink at her my dude. Chicks dig it if you’re attractive. If you’re not, You’re fucked and gave to be the funny guy	/r/seduction	18/06/20 02:03 PM
3	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it I’m not stunning by any means, but have a solid build from working out a long time and always take care of my style/hygiene, but you can and WILL get approached if you’re having a blast and bringing the party to wherever you’re at. Clubs/bars/events always landed me solid women just from having fun and not giving a shit about who or what women are around me. Women want a good time especially when you’re having it and not giving them attention.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 04:32 PM
5	How do you date and hook up with women in a new country? Is this a joke?	/r/seduction	11/10/19 02:34 AM
21	Excellent TED talk on the difference between Masculinity and Femininity- a vital concept to understand for seduction (9 mins) Masculinity and femininity as defined by the sciences aren’t male v female. Women have a higher proclivity to feminine traits and men more masculine. You take the mean, look a few standard deviations outside the norm of fem and masc, and you’ll see primarily women on one extreme and disproportionately men on the other. Just because you enjoy whiskey, beer and cigars doesn’t mean the video isn’t spot on. PS - there are only two genders, I’m no “everyone’s non binary” crowd. Just look at the scien…	/r/seduction	27/09/19 11:41 PM
1	I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no. When you said “let me know when YOU change your mind,” you’ve just put yourself in her hand/control. Plus, the whole don’t date just in case we break up thing is so fucking dumb. I’d move on from this chick.	/r/seduction	13/09/19 02:19 PM
1	How To Make A Girl Like You (a manifesto for beginners) Thanks.	/r/seduction	10/09/19 02:06 PM
3	How To Make A Girl Like You (a manifesto for beginners) Good luck getting laid doing it this way lmao. Sounds more like a transcript from a YouTuber teaching how to pick up the “perfect relationship.” You’re too idealistic and from the opening line, you won’t get anywhere and especially not 9s and 10s.	/r/seduction	10/09/19 12:58 PM