| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 533 | Men, showing up to relationships expecting free emotional labour and support | FDS HUMOR | ichbinkeinmann | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Men, showing up to relationships expectig free emotional labour and support | FDS HUMOR | ichbinkeinmann | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Men, showing up to relationships expecting free emotional labour and support | FDS HUMOR | ichbinkeinmann | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Good as Hell | FDS ANTHEM 🎶 | ichbinkeinmann | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Men, showing up to relationships, expecting free emotional labour and support | FDS HUMOR | ichbinkeinmann | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | I've been listening to men grandstand about women's reproductive rights, and I'm convinced men actually have zero interest in stopping abortion. Here's why… | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | ichbinkeinmann | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:59 PM |
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| 7 | Followup to yesterday's question: When do you first remember being told that a boy is mean to you when he likes you?i was in 5th grade (age 11) and we had a snowball fight during gym hour and a boy from my class threw a read hard, frozen ball at me and it hit me in the face so my upper lip was bleeding a bit, and when i went to complain about it to my teacher and tried to make her tell everyone not to throw the frozen ones she dismissed me, that i’m overreacting and that its nothing and he probably just likes me a lot. thats the most clear memory i have, but i’m sure i heard this said even earlier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 08:06 AM |
| 21 | I don't know who needs to read this, but you don't have to put up with struggle love.this is so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 07:45 AM |
| 17 | More on Why Block and Delete Worksnicely put. you are such a queen. gonna go get my ice tea now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 09:23 PM |
| 16 | “I just had my time completely wasted by a LVM douchebag, but OMG it was awesome!!” 🤦♀️I mean if he truly was a scientist he would be down with scientific methods, he would be organized, he would be prepared in advance for it, he would control his variables. Also if he were a high value person we would not plan a date if he had a super important expiriment going on. Pick a more suitable time. If he is not an experimental scientist he is either coding or reading articles and thinking for a living and can make up his own schedule. What kind of bullshit was that about work calling in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 09:57 PM |
| 20 | Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep it“furry boxers” 😂😂😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:46 AM |
| 58 | Guys who have a problem with sex during your period are LVMyes, all your fault, you didnt cOMmuNiCate well enough. 🤦♀️🤦♀️ just.. WHAT?!? what is up with these creatures? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:40 AM |
| 18 | Guys who have a problem with sex during your period are LVMevery time i hear or read sth about ‘torn hymen’ i get this awful flashback reflex like its happening to me all over again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:34 AM |
| 15 | Weird Red Flags?triple yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 08:28 PM |
| 22 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?Manson familiy 😅😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Society's promotion of young adult novels/ romance movies created a lovesick generationand it all started with tolstoy and ana karenina, also the time when adultery and marriage for love became the big two themes in literature. just about 60years prior to that you have jane austen, who is way more practical and concerned with money and sense; if any of her characters marry unsuitable man for love she judges them quite harshly (lydia bennet, mother of fanny price...) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 01:35 PM |
| 4 | How manipulative men leverage guilt against their partners.this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:29 PM |
| 19 | No always means no and yes sometimes means yesthis is why “only yes means yes” campain is soooo important. tho it would be even better if it was: “only enthusiastic yes means yes” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:19 AM |
| 3 | I really hate LVM's in fictional entertainment, and them ending up getting the girl. See Ron Weasley for example.i hope you go for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:12 AM |
| 5 | TW: Violence against women. I'm just tired of having to be extra careful, just because I'm a womanhey OP. Just my two cents... yes, its overwhelming. yes it is disgussting and horrifying. thats why you need an antidote of kindness and perserverance. i would highly recomend anything by gloria steinem (e.g. As If Women Matter); she discusses a lot of hard topics in her essays, but she writes with such insights and compasion, it calms me down. yeah, the eye-opening stuff pisses me of, but in a good way. i also started volunteering at help-phone center specialised for violence against women and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 15 | How manipulative men leverage guilt against their partners.i’m a big advocate for journaling, i write a bit every day as part of my morning routine and then a bit extra if i’m upset, worried or confused about sth, or i don’t understand what i’m feeling. i very rearly read what i wrote, but i kinda deal with everything thats bothering me when i try to find words to put my feelings on the paper. and it feels like this bizzare little accomplishment, when i see my 9 moleskine notebooks from 2019 and 2020 neatly stacked on a shelf 🤷♀️☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:45 AM |
| 4 | I really hate LVM's in fictional entertainment, and them ending up getting the girl. See Ron Weasley for example.can your fiction be read somewhere?:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:00 AM |
| 10 | "I Wear My Heart on My Sleeve" & What It Meansyou described my nvx to the t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 11:43 PM |
| 18 | How manipulative men leverage guilt against their partners.thanks for sharing, this was very insightfull read. also, you sound pretty effin’ amazing! i’m gonna try the book you recomended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 11:33 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever rejected a man because of his sexual history?I feel ya. Got it from my first serious boyfriend when i was 19. What a scrote he was, yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:29 PM |
| 41 | Scrotes are mad over the new Lola design. They are mad over a CARTOON bunny who is no longer sexualized!!LOL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:07 PM |
| 6 | 👏🏽more repercussions for creeps👏🏽right? or like a poster or a t-shirt. i’m totally diy this on something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 02:04 PM |
| 17 | 👏🏽more repercussions for creeps👏🏽this. just. ugh. what, just because you decided you want to reproduce now everyone everywhere has to accomodate you in every possible way?!? ugh, i get sooooo mad when they use their kids for an excuse or a way to get even the slightest priviledge, when the whole world is already catering to them and putting them first in every way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 01:43 PM |
| 5 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.a few times i was arguing with my nvm ex it gotten so bad i just kinda left my body. i was there but also not there. i couldnt move, i couldnt speak. it was like i was floating outside my body watching him yell at my empty shell and then later when he noticed i’m not sayin anything he started to cry whats wrong with me. this happened like 2 or 3 times over the course of 3 months i was living with him. i thought i had gone insane, that something is seriously wrong with me, i was considering going… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:49 AM |
| 19 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.same!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:24 AM |
| 20 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.me too! i also thought that was just a ‘me’ problem. i also like myself soooo much better when i’m single, i’m way more fun to be around, my energies are up, i take way better care of myself ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | For real though.i love this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 06:52 PM |
| 19 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.can someone please make a thriller genre movie from this absolute awesome logline? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 11:29 PM |
| 4 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?my ex was the same. ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:41 PM |
| 5 | It’s the last day to use this flair! At the start of the year I NEVER thought I’d have the strength to do it, yet here I am single and thriving thanks to this sub. How many queens were able to KickHimOut2020?!Hahahaha what an awesome sentence: “FDS is the vaccine to the scrote pandemic” Indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:25 AM |
| 8 | It’s the last day to use this flair! At the start of the year I NEVER thought I’d have the strength to do it, yet here I am single and thriving thanks to this sub. How many queens were able to KickHimOut2020?!Dumped LVM discusting scrote in october after almost a year of him leeching onto me, cuz i felt bad he is so alone in the world and has multiple mental problems, because I am way too empathetic and i’ve dealt with my own set of narc parents and depression. He love bombed me and i fell for it and then he basically guilt tripped me to stay with him for way too long with his “my mom died when i was 15” “my dad avused us when we were little” “i dont have any friends” “i dont have any money” “the who… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:16 AM |
| 17 | Went to retrieve my belongings from ex's place. He threw my things at me, did this 🙏, and slammed the door in my face.Thanks for this. I was considering getting my stuff back from ex, which i dumped 2 months ago - like water heater, cake mixer, some other kitchen stuff, a blanket, some photos... basically stuff I didnt manage to take with me when i moved out.. but reading this... i’ll just rather buy a new cake mixer, dealinng with him aint worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:25 PM |
| 91 | Anyone else have this view on having children?Yas, with you 100%. Plus added bonus: if i adopt, i dont have to push a melon sized head through my V which has smaller diameter than empty toilet roll. Not the best comparison, but hey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:23 PM |
| 40 | Untouchablei’d buy it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:32 PM |
| 11 | Pay attention to men with abusive patterns of behaviour, they may just be intentionality trying to to induce a Stockholm Syndrome response in their target.scrote ex of mine told me he got an erection when he saw me cry. three guesses why was i crying? 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:36 PM |
| 25 | Men, showing up to relationships expecting free emotional labour and supportUnfortunately that’s not just guys in their 20s. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:06 AM |
| 12 | I Left Him!The ugly truth is, there is a possibility you would die if you stayed. And what you are describing is no way to live. So its really good you got yourself out and are taking care of YOU. I get the feeling guilty, there is so much victim blaming in society we somethimes cant help to feel this way. But you didnt do this. He is a grown ass man and he is responsible for his actions. Violence is not a circumstance, its not something that just happens. He chose to act violently. He chose to rage about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:16 PM |
| 10 | I Left Him!You go gurl! Your world will get so much more pleasant now, when this violent man wont be in it anymore! I’m really proud of you for calling the police and getting out! That must have took a lot of courage! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 36 | Why does this sub get misinterpreted? The place where I found this comment is dedicated to calling out and bashing misogyny btw. I tried to have genuine discussion with this user but they simply down voted me.But witches are so awesome. i’d take being a witch any day. practical magic sabrina willow & tara (buffy) charmed yes please, more please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:42 AM |
| 15 | No one ever asks men where they get their confidence.Gloria Steinem wrote a great essay on this topic (imo): Romance vs Love She makes a really good point on how society forces us to hide a large part of who we are to conform to the dogma of gender roles and how society then also devaluates all feminine qualities as secundary and less worthy and that makes having self-confidence as a woman just so much less likely and much harder. [edit: typo] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do men have such shit self care routines?also this: I noticed when my house is getting junky, im not taking care of my hygiene, or I'm not eating that's the signs I'm having or getting ready to have a depressive episode. So in order to counter that I spend the day cleansing myself and my environment and then I keep going. By the end of the day I feel SO much better. I feel this sooo much. I can also add bitting nails when I'm not going in the right direction in life, I started doing that way before I would actually realise there is som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:30 AM |
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