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Why are you so negative? What does it accomplish? Posting that probably gave you a dopamine rush but it had no purpose and it isn't helping or contributing to anything.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:34 PM
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Should I feel totally fine about hitting on strangers? Yes just don't be a creep. Don't go in looking for validation or even for sex. It's a paradox where you want to get to know her, you are attracted and want sex, but your reason is to build a possible connection and then sex might or might not happen and you should be okay with it. I got my brothers into pickup simply to get them out of their shell. Works wonders for confidence when they go up to a really hot girl, say hi and ask their name t…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 10:54 PM
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They were just talking. Who knows maybe she was judging the shit out of her friend but only said that to be nice.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:53 PM
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I think the quote fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me applies here. 20 plus times... well just be glad you found TRP before your brain hamstered a way to put a ring on her finger.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:02 PM
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ESTP. I was INTJ a year before I got into TRP. But after getting into TRP I broke my dry spell, experienced a light-harem, and got higher quality friends, my introvertedness has pretty much vanished. Social settings energize me so much now and I no longer have to 'recharge' for some reason. Someone once told me that we typically change who were are every 5-10 years. Something to do with our brain cells and what we are doing to change ourselves. TRP is a huge new shift, so I can see how it could …
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:46 AM
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My mom and dad got divorced for something similar. There was a time my dad was laid off, and my mom started working. Even though my dad was making more through unemployment than my mom was working just a little over minimum wage, my dad was very insecure and it led to lots of fights. He was insecure that my once homeschooling stay-at-home mom was now a little more independent and to keep the home, she needed to work. Instead of him working harder on his own life, he got fat, insecure, and became…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 01:40 AM
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If you look at it like “gotta get my approaches in today...here goes nothing!” It’s going to come off uncalibrated and very weird a high percentage of the time. Relevant: https://youtu.be/3q7oKcFiYig?t=6m39s It's okay to go out to game, to get some approaches in, but you need to be smart, see your mistakes, and learn from them.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:55 AM
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Think of every approach you do as a win. Rate it 100 out of 10 just for doing it. Doesn't matter how it ends. It's a win since you are taking action. With more approaches you will get better at escalating. And don't beat yourself for not approaching. Recognize the mistake and do your best not to repeat it. The fact you came this far and you are getting iois sets you apart like at least 80 percent of all other men. Congrats.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:40 AM
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That's tough, because I made the mistake of telling my brother about TRP and it made things awkward as he shamed me publicly for it. But he was spilling red pill truths and thought it would be cool to bring it up since we were close. But a co-worker told me, back in my chodey days of trying to figure out how to improve, about PUA and a bit of RP. Without him telling me that, I'm not sure I would have found this by myself. It's up to you but know there is risk due to public perception.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:02 PM
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He gave you some pretty good advice. Take it or leave it but you're still here giving homo winky faces thinking you're clever or something.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 10:22 PM
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Everyone gets offended by different things and how we react is different but you should be able to tell apart the value of the message from how you feel about it. If you can't handle someone saying you are acting like a little girl on the internet, you're not going to be able to do TRP and pass hard shit-tests.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:58 PM
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Or the audiobook version. Listening to that guy's voice feels like a meditation by itself.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:06 AM
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Web development for local political campaigns and small businesses. I found it's fairly easy to network with them and they reliably pay. I also have done power washing, landscaping, car subwoofer/amplifier installation, and a few others. You'd be surprised how much you can charge for some gigs under the table.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:51 PM
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Sooner the better. I know too many guys that have been in 5+ year relationships that they were unhappy with but didn't have the balls to end it till she did. Be a man.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 08:48 AM
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I think it's just not knowing any better and lack of logistics. They see a cool guy that has friends and was able to be a bit of a flirt even if by accident. Then they develop oneitis over that guy. Once they have him, they realize he's not really attractive one-on-one then they get out asap. Hence so many 1-3 week relationships in middle/high school.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 04:25 AM
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Does your college have an outdoor club? Those are great to make cool friends who are active, and sometimes chicks. If a girl is really attracted to you, they will follow your lead even if it is to get coffee. You got a good bod. Now learn game.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 06:06 AM
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I want to prove everyone wrong and do big things in life, am I crazy for doing this? You don't need college if you meet these criteria... 1) You have the drive, ambition, etc. to learn on your own. 2) The career/position you want does not require a degree such as many in healthcare or some in STEM and teaching. 3) You are sure you won't regret not having that social experience (overrated at most colleges anyways imo). However, if your parents are willing to pay for it completely, then I would do…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:43 AM
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Learn game. 13 tinder dates and no lay is not due to looks unless your pics are absolutely deceiving. I get 1-2 matches a day when I go on Tinder. And been on like 4 tinder dates. 3 lays. All around 5s-7s. I don't try that hard on tinder anyways. I'm bald, mid-20s, ginger beard, not at all in shape. 5' 10". I'm like super average if not below. But I know basic game.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:30 AM
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My biggest fear is becoming complacent and I've focussed over 50% of my effort on getting better with women the past 3 years. There's been lots of progress but my health, career, relationships with family, and other things need to get into place now. That's why I mentioned monk mode. So maybe not only to increase SMV but getting bulkier would help that at least. Yeah, that's a good way to look at it. I'll do that next workout.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:59 PM
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Be glad you are swallowing it now rather than living a BP life of regret. I didn't swallow the RP till I turned 24. I'm 27 now and still to this day I get daydreamy about my BP past, cringy behavior, and outright doing bad with girls that showed a ton of interest in me back then. It's a haunting reminder of what not to be. And although you know your place in the school has been a chode and that's how people see you, you can recover. Keep reading. Lift. Do game. If we could all go back in time an…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:31 PM
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I believe there is a big difference. There are blue pilled narcissists who try to act alpha, but then you see them crash and burn after something like a divorce or being unemployed. An alpha is aware of his narcissism and is able to control it. A true narcissist (NPD) is unaware and allows it to control him.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:41 PM
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Got out of an LTR of 1.5 years 2 weeks ago. The first week I spent grieving but this last week I've been focussing on things I need to improve. Started working out. Already seen some improvements after waking up my muscles. Last time I worked out was 4 years ago. I need to be pickier and remember that emotional investment needs to be a choice, not an occurrence. I also shouldn't even consider a relationship with a girl who lacks many basic adult skills. This LTR was not worth the grief but at le…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 04:02 AM
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Your goal should be start lifting and start your career. You're pissing away all the glory you built in your youth every second you waste. Also you should avoid social media. Go monk mode. Avoid the internet and only focus on lifting, eating right, and making money. Never complain. Never talk about being lost or whatever. Constantly be busy improving.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 07:58 AM
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she wants to walk with you? Probably wants to get social proof. She's chatting with you during class? Probably wants to use you for notes later down the line. Acts happy when they see you? Their attempt to build trust. So you think women have an ulterior motive against men at every turn? That's naive. Females are first and foremost people. The red pill isn't for hating or bashing them. Yes, women do stupid things and do have their own privilege they often use for an ulterior motive. But they do …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:45 AM
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Dude no. It's possible for a woman to be gay and never find a man attractive. One of my best friends I had as a roommate for 7 years never dated or fucked a guy the entire time. She had 0 interest.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:39 AM
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In my experience, 14-year-old sluts come from broken families and are more active on Facebook than with their family. That's a problem that could be fixed with proper parenting. But many parents would rather get high, cheat, fight about stupid shit, etc. after work and they just let their kids do whatever the fuck they want. Sadly, I think the majority of the lower and middle-class families fall into this category. With good parenting, keeping your family active with activities and love, there's…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:27 AM
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The ones that ignored him he didn't approach confidently enough. OP learned that confidence is key to even be slightly considered.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:19 PM
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And that's not the problem of the initial approach. That's just cause his game was off. He's learning game.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 07:45 PM
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Not her fault what? You make zero sense. Would you fight a man that your GF or wife fucked? Or just simply dump her and move on to the next?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/17 07:28 AM
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14 years and 10 months. They should rip out her uterus as well.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/17 07:21 AM
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Don't die from all that edge bro. Might cut an artery.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/17 07:19 AM
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I always thought the point of showing blue pill examples wasn't to necessarily make fun of the blue pill mentality but to reinforce that there is a clear distinction between red and blue school of thought. I don't think this example is the best but nobody is making fun of a specific person. It's just an example. But I'm also biased because the examples posted here are what initially red pilled me years ago.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 11:46 PM
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He's likely also pretty high but at least has the common sense to try to leave.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/17 11:59 PM
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Definitely not something the majority of the subscribers there want to hear. Or a majority of Reddit in general.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/17 12:56 AM
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I like him but hey feminists hate me so that's not saying much.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/17 07:38 PM
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You're such a pussy bruh
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/17 07:36 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's the entire premise of 50 Shades of Grey correct? The average looking female lets the hot rich young dude do whatever the hell he wants to her.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:07 AM
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Check to see if there is an RSD secret circle thing in your city. Search RSD + "your city" in facebook.
/r/seduction04/10/15 11:13 AM
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I think it's both men+games and women+social media. But I'm biased because one of my roommates is 23 and does nothing but Xbox.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:54 AM
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Ironically, I sort of disagree. It all depends on how you disagree. If you're a dick about it, you'll come off as a dick. But I've gained respect for others when they disagreed while being charismatic. It shows assertiveness and entitlement to their own opinions. Of course this doesn't mean it has to start an argument. Arguing is like neediness. Both people at that point are too needy to have their opinion validated.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 09:34 AM
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Always be present during conversation, if you feel like your mind is fading away, bring yourself back to reality. What are some good techniques to bring yourself back to reality?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:50 AM
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omg I love this
/r/seduction19/09/15 01:10 AM
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I already am bald. I'm amazed I haven't thought of doing this!
/r/seduction18/09/15 07:24 PM
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Meet more women and start being more critical of them. Judge more often without saying it out loud. Or you can use these judgements as negs. It's okay to get 'feelings' for chicks and crushes but nothing that will make you forget their faults. Is she insecure with anything? Is her laugh weird? Does she watch too much Netflix? Does she post stupid shit on facebook? Is she just kind of dumb about a few things? Judge her the way you'd judge your bros.
/r/seduction11/09/15 04:27 AM
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Check out Real Social Dynamics. That's what helped me the very very most transition and I still continue to grow thanks to RSD. It focuses on self improvement using PUA as its vice. So as you self improve you do better with the ladies so you'll see a constant improvement as long as you stick to it and can battle resistance. Books to check out if you haven't already: Linchpin by Seth Godin War of Art by Steven Pressfield Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
/r/becomeaman16/07/15 07:46 AM
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Hit up everyone at clubs/bars and make friends there. Join an RSD Inner Circle group if you have one that is local. At least that's what worked for me. If you go to college, then join clubs focused on grown up activities like working out.
/r/seduction26/06/15 10:36 PM
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I like RSD which teaches PUA from what I feel like is a TRP approach. It teaches TRP via PUA so as you become a better man you also fuck a lot. Really depends on the person. As a guy with a crazy sex drive, I love both PUA and TRP. They supplement each other.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:16 AM
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That comes from demeanor. Be more masculine in your tone, body language, and what you are saying. Be more commanding more often even if it's as simple as saying "Tell me your age." instead of "How old are you?" Fake it till you make it!
/r/becomeaman25/06/15 02:13 AM
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Oh well, like I said, if you're alright with texting then maybe not. I find it a fun read nonetheless. Sometimes I still refer back to it.
/r/seduction25/08/14 02:15 AM
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Ugh that pic made me cringe so hard, because I remember doing the same thing years ago... THIS guide is something people struggling to text should take a look at. It basically says the same things OP here posted, but goes into detail about others. It really helped me and now I'd say texting is one of my strong points. A major problem is getting used to the proper texting mindset. This is touched on page 22 in that PDF. Also a good technique I use for girls I haven't talked to for a while and wan…
/r/seduction24/08/14 10:41 PM
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Ah Silicon Valley. So that's like 900 dollars in assets in most everywhere else.
/r/seduction14/07/14 02:35 AM
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