icif Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	Field report and new MAP		icif	/r/RPChristians	18/10/21 06:39 PM

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2	Probably a basic question Had nearly the same problem as you a few months ago. My wife went raging bitch because I was a drunk captain, so me as an idiot shut down and essentially was an asshole towards her. Fast forward and I get the same speech. I hit the sidebar, OYS, and still making good progress - we’re both happier. Interestingly I got the exact same speech - she can’t heal with us living together. Maybe our wives are listening to the same lesbian podcast or reading the same stuff. I don’t think my wife found anot…	/r/askMRP	27/12/21 11:30 AM
1	60 DoD: Booster Shot '21 In. Every winter it’s too brrr cold for my vagina but not this year!	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/11/21 01:00 AM
1	Blindsided after GNO You’re an insecure dude. You had an opportunity to exhibit rock solid frame when she face timed you at 2am by saying you wished she was at some dudes house getting plowed so you wouldn’t be woken up at such a late hour - but instead you snitched on yourself. Now she’ll tell this to her friend who came out of an abusive relationship and she’ll learn about all these early red flags you’re exhibiting. So that sucks, but take advantage of it. Take time to reflect on why you’re insecure and fix that …	/r/askMRP	16/11/21 01:59 AM
2	Field report and new MAP You nailed it	/r/RPChristians	19/10/21 04:29 PM
2	Field report and new MAP It gets better. Why did I want her to quit her job? 1) she claimed she would start exercising - so for me she would be sexually desirable. She let herself go 2) she could spend more time doing household chores like cooking and cleaning. I’ve been a lazy pos in this area and been 0 help - so it worked well for me. 3) she could spend time managing our budget and by going out to eat less, being smarter with money, we’d probably be net positive on income. So then I could be an even lazier child and …	/r/RPChristians	19/10/21 03:09 PM
3	Field report and new MAP Thank you. As I read and digest MMSLP initially I thought I had too many alpha characteristics and not enough beta. However your point of letting emotions run my life (thank you for calling that out) is beta, so I need to reflect on the legitimacy of my perceived alpha characteristics. As for my mission, marriage and family being my 2nd/3rd priorities.. I’ve been putting myself above family and my marriage. If I am being truthful with myself I need to consider that I’ve been putting myself above…	/r/RPChristians	19/10/21 01:25 PM
2	Field report and new MAP I’m not asking for help. Keep it locked. Edit: I’m an idiot - I need help. I’m updating my post with what you request.	/r/RPChristians	19/10/21 04:18 AM
2	Field report and new MAP Yes, lack of church was part of it. I think the other part is I’m not a very good spiritual leader - I’m not spiritual at all. I look at the Bible more scientifically than spiritually. I need to learn how to be a spiritual leader. Well first, I need to figure out what that means to me, then what it means to my family, then learn how to do it. Edit: wanted to expand, because it’s more complicated. The above is true. However, even if I did that more was needed. I should love my wife in the same wa…	/r/RPChristians	18/10/21 07:23 PM