icjonu Archive

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3	Gents, women ARE NOT the root of all happiness. They ARE merely a perk that comes from leading a fulfilling, interesting life. Be interesting & the rest will follow. And by interesting I mean: have a few things that you genuinely like (hobbies, sports, w/e floats your boat) & pursue them. People in general like others who are passionate about a thing or two. Imagine if someone asked you "AidenStillwater, what do you love doing?" and you respond with "Oh I like chilling with my friends" - no shit sherlock, everyone does. Hope you get the picture. Also, talk to everyone! You get to learn so much about the world by convers…	/r/seduction	28/07/12 01:30 AM
5	Opening a girl who is looking at her phone... Someone here once used "Can I join in on the texting party?" I've used it myself and seems to works well.	/r/seduction	20/01/12 01:54 PM
6	Openers for a noisy club? Nothing super ridiculous. You are at a noisy ass club so enjoy yourself & dance (don't forget to smile/smirk). Make eye contact w/whomever you seem fit & go dance near them in a non creepy fashion (don't hover). Gauge interest & dance with em. Leave after a bit (make up an excuse..drink, smoke, friend, etc.) & then catch up again after a bit (this seems to work pretty damn well). Never and I mean never ask for permission...it's like shooting yourself in the foot.	/r/seduction	18/11/11 07:08 AM
0	Seddit...I'm getting the "you're cute" and "you're so sweet" crap from quite a few girls, how do I stop this? butt	/r/seduction	02/09/11 07:13 PM
3	Resources for building conversational skills? Simple question that always helps me: "What kinda things do you do for fun?" From there I just build off what they say...has worked well so far =]	/r/seduction	08/08/11 04:08 AM
6	An Honest Question I think you're asking the wrong kinds of questions here... /r/seduction IMO is all about helping you be a better you by recognizing all the b.s. walls we put up for ourselves when interacting with people & breaking them down. Only when you are comfortable with yourself will other people be comfortable around you (whatever your intentions towards them are). The whole systematic approach that you are afraid of can be easily mitigated by not having a set script that you use...though it's perfectly …	/r/seduction	17/07/11 11:09 PM
1	How do you go from one night stand to first date? Don't sweat it. Wait a few more days & shoot her a text. Don't be needy =]	/r/seduction	05/07/11 05:22 AM
4	How do you go from one night stand to first date? Invite her along to an event you're already doing w/your friends (live band, karaoke, something remotely interesting). From there you can isolate if it feels right. One thing that I've learned is never to schedule things over text...it takes too long & can get frustrating with the incessant back & forth. The best thing to do is to simply suggest a time & place & leave it at that. If she can't make it she will let you know. Also try not to say "let's do something." It comes across as being needy.…	/r/seduction	03/07/11 06:32 PM
2	Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1) ... reflex they get over time because it's a nice and easy first filter for guys who are talking - only - to hit on them. I've never thought about it like that. Great insight!	/r/seduction	01/07/11 02:08 PM
2	Yoga Class Girl. I can visualize something like: You: Hi, I'm scoobertz. Her: Hi I'm HB You: I just moved into town blah blah blah Her: <some reciprocation> You: <go on a slight tangent based on conversation or ask her about stuff you don't know about in new town (bar/club/activities)>	/r/seduction	28/06/11 04:35 PM