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OP, I just want to say that I applaud you for wanting to be the best partner you can possibly be rather than resort to the "what is he doing for me?" mindset, you are instead asking yourself "what I can do to make us both happier?" That takes an incredible amount of reflection and introspection. You have my respect.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/24 12:30 AM
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A woman's safety is top priority. Allowing them to approach means they can designate time and place while also choosing who they are attracted to. This also alleviates social backlash that men potentially face through false labeling and accusations. As for any guys potentially wasting a woman's time, all a woman would have to do is hold off on sex for a number of months. It is much safer (and ideal) that women approach in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:43 PM
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Eh, yes and no. You have to define what "finding a partner" means. For a man, sex is the achievement. For a woman, a relationship is the achievement. A woman sleeping with random men for sex isn't a win by any metric. They can get sex whenever, but that's not the point. There's no challenge in that; it isn't something to celebrate. Finding someone who wants something long term and is compatible with you isn't automatically easy because you're a woman. On the whole, though, it's probably preferab…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:34 AM
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Look man, I'm not going to argue that men aren't driven by the physical features of a woman. But once you've made love to a woman and have experienced pure, unconditioned chemistry and emotional connection with her, you begin to realize how much the physical aspects of a woman really only serve to compliment who she is, and largely become secondary to her character. When you have had a taste of that, nothing else compares. That's when you realize you're demisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:52 AM
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There is no reason for us to have high self worth. I disagree with this doomer mentality. That doesnt just come from nowhere there has to be a reason for it This I agree with. Self worth comes with self discovery, and understanding your place in the world. Part of that is understanding dependency and shifting to becoming independent. Too many young men feel they need a woman in their life to function. Look at the topic title "how do you deal with constant rejection?". You learn to accept it. Rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:03 PM
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Women are not a prize and that mentality is toxic. This is absolutely crucial to keep in mind, and highly important in maintaining a sense of self worth, which is where many men are struggling today. They are not the angels you think they are. Understand how flawed women are by design, much like men. When you accept this, you'll come to accept that rejection really isn't so bad, and you'll be able to move on from it much faster and much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:56 PM
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When the world was smaller, and social media wasn't around, and culture hadn't become what it is today, it was sensible to chase frivolous things. You socialized more, and it was more socially acceptable to chase women. But in 2024, the world is very different. Future generations of men (and current) are taught fear. Fear the social backlash. Fear being used. Men are adapting to that and are pursuing things that serve a larger purpose in their lives. Things that incur less of a risk financially …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:32 PM
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Spot on. It's no longer the norm, which is why it's so highly valued among many men.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 02:42 PM
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While true, I think it's also important to recognize the type of men they're getting attention from. Men that ogle women in skimpy clothing are doing so because they're giving into their lizard brain desires. While that's fine, it also stays in that surface level attraction because they don't want to get to know her. A man who's with you and enjoys seeing you in whichever clothing is appreciating you because he knows you as a person. He already knows what you look like when the clothes come off.…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/24 05:18 PM
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It's quite unfortunate that this is viewed in a negative light. I can understand the preference for actionable advice, but I don't see the harm in honest and helpful support either. Thanks, I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/24 04:56 PM
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ENFP type T and my husband is INFJ type A Oh, hello there wife.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/24 08:02 AM
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Factually? It's an irrational fear. Not all men are predators. The overwhelming majority of them are not, in truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:59 AM
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Listening only what people of your gender tell you = thinking independently. This is some hilarious stuff. Popcorn worthy. 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:06 PM
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Maybe someone can fill me in on what this has to do with RPW?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/24 06:57 PM
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To add to this, single women having children and raising them on their own isn't exactly a win. Why the hell would anyone willingly raise a child in a broken and incomplete family structure? Talk about being damaging to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:27 AM
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Some time last year, I predicted a rise in younger women ushering in more individualized perspectives versus adopting the hive mind. But this year, I've seen that idea take off more and more among younger women - often those in the 18-22 range. Why that is, I can't say. Maybe because feminism is so normalized now, it's boring as a result? Maybe because they're realizing that as more men trend in one political direction, they choose to also trend in that direction because they realize it's easier…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:44 AM
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There’s already a backlash to feminism and sexual liberation brewing. In what way? By men choosing to be single? I don't know if this will make much change - any man offered sex with a woman will likely give in to a moment of weakness. Most men don't have the self control to not engage in a hookup or meaningless experiences with a woman. But if they choose to forego relationships (since this is what men have power over), I could see that happening over a very long period of time. I haven't known…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:16 AM
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I don't know if I agree with your assessment of any of that, but I do agree that women (mostly of the western variety, anyway) are exhibiting more masculine traits. This might partially explain why men aren't pursuing relationships nearly as often anymore (and engaging in less sex than ever).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:47 PM
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What kind of old goth music? That's intriguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:21 PM
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So you're saying that the words of one specific gender should be used to determine the guilt of another - regardless of the law?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:00 PM
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I thought we were having a discussion, but if you want to play games, have at it. I believe in innocent until proven guilty. Seems like you believe in guilty until proven innocent?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:54 PM
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The fact remains: this was never proven. Wanting to believe this is the case does not make it real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:39 PM
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Albert Einstein stole most of the work he is known for from his wife- who was a better mathematician than him for starters. This was never actually proven. The only evidence to suggest otherwise is, unfortunately, inadequate and not substantive enough to support such claims. It is often suggested, but never proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:31 PM
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For the sake of other people, I hope she stops dating. Nobody should be subject to being viewed as disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:32 AM
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Not a woman, but some of the stories I'm reading in here are truly wholesome. I'm so proud of everyone here because they've found their happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 03:37 PM
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I would also venture to say that people recommending others to leave their partners are likely providing that advice because it's what they would do when they run into hurdles in a relationship. You'll get this from a lot of single folks - their need to flee when times get tough is likely why they're single. For some, it might even be chronic.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/24 12:47 AM
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I'm the guy on the other end of this post, and for a moment, I thought my girlfriend might have posted about me. Anyway, for some background, I've always been super slim. Never needed to lose weight, but always had trouble gaining it. Decided to start committing to the gym a while back and I'm very happy with my progress. I began pursuing higher learning, earned a few certs, all that. Even calorie counted too often, barely giving myself cheat meals. I could tell my girlfriend was very happy with…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/23 05:50 PM
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I am so proud of you and your journey. And I don't mean to say that as a form of validation - I think you're on an enlightened path to self discovery, and I could not be happier for you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 04:00 PM
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I look at you and I'm proud that you're recognizing the ways that validation culture burns us. I've never thought of it as validation culture before, but I like that concept. Well put!
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 03:57 PM
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I'm a man, and I just have to say, responsibility (and by extension, a mother caring for her children) is incredibly sexy. Additionally, I think this is solid advice. Surrounding yourself with other parents will come with time as the kids grow older, but I think it will also help to place OP in a healthier mindset when the time comes.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 03:56 PM
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Exactly what I would have said. Respect.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 04:53 PM
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i look at cats and old dark wave music Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:38 PM
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I was thinking about this exact topic today because for most of my life, I fit the "nerd" bill. But earlier this year, I started getting into serious weight lifting because I wanted to see changes in my diet, appearance, and self esteem. I don't know if I'd say I'm "athletic" now, but I'm definitely in shape, and retained that nerdy side. I started contemplating if there are many types of guys like this, and I don't think so. Usually it's one extreme or the other, but not both extremes. It's rea…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 07:51 PM
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Are you lost?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 05:02 PM
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If you Google that subreddit, Google auto-fills the search field with "toxic" as one of its top results. It's kind of perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:28 PM
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Man here. I want to applaud you for making the effort to see things from a man's perspective, but also teaching yourself to not be filled with disdain against a specific gender. Reprogramming your brain not to hate, not to give up, not to resent, that's powerful. Recognizing a character flaw like that and wanting to correct it isn't something most people can do. It's so much harder to love and so much easier to hate, and choosing to opt for the more difficult path (IMO) is profound. Good on you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 05:48 AM
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With more traditionally minded women, yes. They are among the happiest in relationships. I would not recommend this with most western women, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:27 PM
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There isn't anything predatory about two consenting adults getting it on. People will attempt to shame men out of their options by making these kind of claims (usually those who associate with feminists), but the truth is there's nothing predatory about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:20 AM
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I don't listen to redpill podcasts because they often lean into that women-hating aspect of it, which I kind of consider like the angsty teenager phase of redpill. Getting your life together, getting in shape and all that, and accepting truths about men and women like biological differences between the two is something I do appreciate about it, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:13 AM
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Women telling other women who use their own metric of personal success rather than cooperative success to dictate what men are into - classic.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 04:11 PM
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100% on the boss babe. The funny thing is, a lot of women who claim this aren't "bosses" at all - they sit in a cubicle responding to requests from their supervisor or manager. I can't imagine that slaving away at a corporate job and paying the IRS is anything even remotely close to being "in control". It's also just something men don't care about in a woman. Men want feminine energy, good values, morals, and principles.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 04:08 PM
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You've probably already discerned this yourself, but to shed some light on this individual: I've shared a couple subreddits with this particular character. Yes, they do enjoy harassing people (often wanting/seeking the last word). This is especially common among multiple subreddits they frequent wherein another user may disagree with their opinion/assertion, followed up by the individual linking cherry picked data (which is often unsourced) backing up their stance on the subject and attempting t…
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