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| 6 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?You good bro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:40 PM |
| – | For men who only listen to themselves, they never want women’s dating advice to work.Meh, get over it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 05:46 PM |
| 1 | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardsLowkey when you’re kinda mean to men and give them shit they eat it up tooth and nail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 05:11 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about surnames in a marriage?I wouldn’t take my husband’s last name unless it was something cool. Since I’m the one going through the entire risk and pain of growing the child and birthing it into this world, its going to have MY last name. I’d also be open to creating a new surname that we both like and change to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 04:28 PM |
| 1 | For men who only listen to themselves, they never want women’s dating advice to work.A smile and laugh is bullying? I must be the nicest bully ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Do young women (under 25) get attracted to old men in good shape?Ew no I need that $$$ to mentally prepare to give you my attention if you’re an old male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 03:36 PM |
| – | For men who only listen to themselves, they never want women’s dating advice to work.Just smile and laugh at them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 03:34 PM |
| – | Why do women tend to be so mean to short men?People are mean online. When people want to say mean things, they want it to hurt. Women know men are sensitive about things like height or dick size, so those are things women will attack. Also I promise you, it is NOT just women making fun of short men. Plenty of taller men are laughing and shitting on short men too. Being short is especially targeted because it is perceived as a very negative ugly and unattractive trait in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 03:29 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveThey liked it better when women had little agency, freedom, and rights. Because then women were easier to get and control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 03:24 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveWomen don’t have to improve because men are so desperately ruled by their dicks they make it too easy Women also don’t need to “improve” in the same way as men because the goals and complaints are completely different between the two groups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:57 AM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveSure, but modern lonely men rage online which only further alienates them and makes people even more likely to not care or extend sympathy. And since we’re living in modern times, we need modern solutions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:26 AM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveWell perhaps they shouldn’t post online how much they hate women for “making” them sexless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:18 AM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveAgreed. Young boys should be told their only value is their looks, money, and status. We should encourage boys to focus on nothing else so that they become emotionally stunted soulless husks worshipping at the alter of Black Pill. I think this would totally improve society tenfold and certainly wouldn’t harm men in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 04:43 AM |
| 11 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.Fr this post is so made up 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.Those men didn’t opt out, you guys were left out by women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.No they aren’t, only the unattractive undesirable men are dropping out. You literally say this in your post, it needs to be the actually attractive men opting out for women to care. And they aren’t and won’t just to make unsuccessful men like you to feel better, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 05:48 PM |
| -3 | Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating?Ate his ass up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 04:28 PM |
| 7 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.You figured out loser men can’t “punish” women by opting out so you hope you can convince attractive men to opt out instead? To me, the funniest thing about your whole premise is the idea of attractive men willingly give up their advantages and access to women…just so online incels can be like “HA now women are mad!!!” Men would never give up their success and access to women just because you and a few other unattractive men can’t get any. Honestly, with how status driven and hierarchical men ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you understand what men mean when men say that the risk is not worth the reward, in reference to women today, and approaching women, and being in relationships with women?Sounds like a skill issue tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Do you understand what men mean when men say that the risk is not worth the reward, in reference to women today, and approaching women, and being in relationships with women?Yeah welcome to the world where you are valued and judged like everyone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:28 AM |
| -1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.Only sane nuanced comment and no surprise its by a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:25 AM |
| 6 | Do you understand what men mean when men say that the risk is not worth the reward, in reference to women today, and approaching women, and being in relationships with women?No, you get right back to my premise which is these men are not opting out, they are being left out by women. You are trying to frame this as if men are choosing this. No man is choosing to be unsuccessful and undesirable to women that he can’t get dates, relationships, sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 08:02 PM |
| 11 | I dont believe maternal instinct is a noble traitYeah I really don’t get how he doesn’t understand why people might treat a literal toddler differently than a grown ass 40 yr old man?? This might be the most brain dead post on this sub and that is seriously saying something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 04:57 PM |
| 12 | Do you understand what men mean when men say that the risk is not worth the reward, in reference to women today, and approaching women, and being in relationships with women?Nice goalpost shift. Successful and desirable men are not the ones proclaiming to be done with women and dating. Men that are desired by women aren’t “walking away”, they’re dating, fucking, and engaging with women. It’s the undesirable and unsuccessful men that are desperately trying to claim they’re “done” when the truth is they were never even in the game to begin with. You can’t walk away from women when women didn’t even want you in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 04:15 PM |
| 6 | Do you understand what men mean when men say that the risk is not worth the reward, in reference to women today, and approaching women, and being in relationships with women?I understand that the men who say this are usually the ones with no options to begin with anyway. Because if you could take a pill and wake up tomorrow an attractive man that was successful with lots of women, you wouldn’t turn it down. What man honestly would? It’s like those annoying girlbosses always needing to spew how independent they are and don’t need no mans. Couldn’t be more transparent what this actually is. A classic reframing of the situation so it hits less on the ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 03:15 PM |
| 7 | I dont believe maternal instinct is a noble traitDude wants to bang his mommy 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Why do toxic guys always seem to have girlfriends, but normal guys struggle?As a man, you do not experience men AT ALL that just want to fuck you Men will happily admit women are just good for “fucking” then get mad when a young woman uses that fucking to her advantage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 05:16 AM |
| 6 | Younger women are just more attractive.Not gay + using men is fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 12:50 PM |
| 0 | Dating is highly monopolistic for men with women only dating the same few menIt is true. So you should probably stay in your little room and rot there until its all over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Younger women are just more attractive.You are absolutely right, it is a treat and privilege just to even receive my attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 12:16 PM |
| 5 | Younger women are just more attractive.younger men are so hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 12:14 PM |
| 10 | Younger women are just more attractive.I’m extremely proud whenever I finesse men out of their coin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Men make long term relationships unsustainableThis is how he regains a little power and feels better about his life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Younger women are just more attractive.This conversation dried 1 million pussies everywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 11:55 AM |
| – | Younger women are just more attractive.younger men are so fucking hot i want you to bow and call me mommy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 03:48 AM |
| 44 | Younger women are just more attractive.As a younger woman, all I want is your money and resources because I’m bored Men are barely hot at their (20s) peak, you think we want you at your decomposing age? 😭 Sorry, young women typically want ‘rich’ men. Take care of me and our kids bb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 03:22 AM |
| 4 | Men make long term relationships unsustainableUse them high until they’re dry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like?No, I don’t initiate or pursue, I just make it easier for him to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+I do but that doesn’t prevent me from still wanting your money too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 04:56 PM |
| – | Trying to make your potential spouse too many things can set up your relationship to fail.I agree that you shouldn’t look for everything within one person. You should still have a full blown personal life even when in a relationship or married. I know what it feels like to be with someone that drops everything and revolves around you, wants to only be with you, relies only you, etc. It’s exhausting. What you’re saying makes complete sense to me. The only thing I’d debate here is that limiting your partner and not allowing them to expand their role in your life also comes with its own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+We want your money. Most men look so bad mid aged, not to mention most are boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 04:08 PM |
| – | Why has their been such as rise in Forever Alone Women over the past 5 years?Just found it, its False Consensus Effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 04:01 PM |
| 9 | Why has their been such as rise in Forever Alone Women over the past 5 years?I’m forgetting the name of the effect but essentially a lot of people go online, see their personal algorithmically tailored internet pages, and then assume everyone else is seeing and saying the same things. It results in the person believing a higher number of people share the same experience or opinion as they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseWhat? Can you ask the question again but this time without all the theatrics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 04:21 PM |
| 12 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseWhere are these men that insult easy women? Holy shit this might be the most disingenuous comment I’ve ever seen on this sub. There’s literally a N-count weekly thread just so the men here can talk about how low value, worthless, and used women w/ bodycounts are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.Men employ negging to bring a woman’s confidence down so she is easier to manipulate or have sex with. Women employ “shit tests” to vet a man to see if she should continue seeing him. One is used to manipulate. One is used to test mettle. They seem pretty different to me and make sense in a biological way as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.Yeah negging is very specific whereas shit test is whatever the men come up with on the spot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.Yup thought so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 11:16 PM |
| – | Good women don't exist in the West anymore because women have their cake and eat it tooI wish I was half as evil as you guys make women out to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.The loneliness epidemic is centered around men and their sexlessness / singleness let’s actually be honest. New data from Institute for Family Studies show more young men want to get married compared to young women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.How can men cry about being in a loneliness crisis and complain about lack of dates & relationships, but in another breath taunt its them that are opting out? Seems like a classic case of “You can’t fire me, I quit!!!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Women should have higher standardsI agree women need to have higher standards and take advantage of male sexuality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 03:26 PM |
| 8 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.Isn’t that what is currently happening? The marriage rate is declining with more women abstaining from marriage or getting married much later in life compared to previous generations. In addition, we are also seeing the birth rate decline as some women are opting out of motherhood entirely. I can only speak for myself but as a gen Z woman I have no interest in ever marrying a man. Sounds like the worst liability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 03:17 PM |
| – | People need to blame women moreTbh whenever men hate women it’s usually because they themselves are undesirable and have no access to women. What men hate is their lack of access and success over women. They blame female agency. I’m more than fine to have these types of men hate me. It even puts a little smile on my face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 10:48 PM |
| -2 | Sex drive is a valid dealbreakerFr like just eat less and jog | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 08:52 PM |
| 6 | Feelings-Based Communication Is Bad Communication. Women Love It Anyway.This is very much a “dear diary…” post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 06:52 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: Do you respect for men who work from home or in low-impact jobs?You said you make over 200k? Then I respect whatever it is you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 06:51 PM |
| 4 | Sex drive is a valid dealbreakerOf course it’s a deal breaker. If he has a small penis then I’m sorry baby you gotta go ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Sex drive is a valid dealbreakerDude take a look at any basic suburban family and majority of the men and women are all fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 06:49 PM |
| – | People need to blame women more2-3 guys on reddit?! 🤣 can men EVER be honest or can you guys only lie and gaslight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 06:45 PM |
| – | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenYou misunderstand me. It has nothing to do with gender pronouns lol so no need to get twisted. I’m saying women end up sacrificing so much that they often end up losing themselves. When I see mothers, many times they are only half a person because all of their energy, time, focus, thoughts, are on the family. This means women have little to no time left for themselves. No time for herself, her goals, her dreams…and that absolutely erodes people over time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 12:48 PM |
| – | What if humanity is meant to slowly die out due to incompatibility?Personally I hope humans do go extinct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 09:31 AM |
| – | Women fall for the type of dudes that sayWhat? You want to fuck my boyfriend and suck his dick? Is that what you’re saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 09:20 AM |
| 55 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.Anything a woman does that prevents a man from immediately inserting his penis inside her is an annoying ‘hoop’ they have jump through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 02:13 AM |
| – | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.No way you let me bait you that easily into another response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 01:43 AM |
| – | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.Yet you responded? You love wasting your own time it seems or you have a crush on me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 01:25 AM |
| – | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.I’m sorry but most men are not lonely losers abstaining for dating. If the shoe fits you then it fits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 12:58 AM |
| 27 | Is it wrong for men to learn social skills to become more attractive to women? If so then what should these men do?No, I don’t think there is anything wrong with a man trying to improve himself and his skills so he can obtain his goal of getting laid. I guess I feel this way because I don’t think there’s anything wrong with improving myself and my skills so I can obtain my goal of getting paid. It becomes shitty and obviously disliked by others when these things venture into lying, misleading, deception, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 12:49 AM |
| 4 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantageLet’s continue this honesty then. When men feel offended at a woman, they default into the same insults without checking the validity of them: Whore, slut, misandrist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 10:26 PM |
| 1 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantageAcknowledging women are still oppressed in this world is stolen valor? Should I ignore their plights? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 07:02 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youThe most predatory ‘victims’ you will ever meet are men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:42 PM |
| 7 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantageYes, in today’s modern times, women’s oppression still happens in this world. Millions of women in this world lack rights on the basis of their sex. This oppression comes directly from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:41 PM |
| 2 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantageReread the first two sentences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:39 PM |
| 3 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantageLike clockwork | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:39 PM |
| 5 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantageMen literally dismiss women’s struggle and oppression lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:36 PM |
| 2 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantageDo some women mock men? Absolutely. But good news, plenty of men mock women too. The idea that women everywhere are being cruel and laughing at lonely men just for being lonely is such bullshit. Women aren’t going around making fun of lonely men for no reason. Women pushback against toxic lonely men online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:34 PM |
| 3 | There is a Taboo Against Making Statements Which Are Unflattering to Women as a Group; This Discussion Board is Not Evidence to the ContraryOn what planet are women not openly criticized and demeaned? It’s almost taboo for men NOT to own a mic and podcast to shittalk women at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:31 PM |
| 4 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantage100% but this post will immediately be spun into “muh suffering is worse than your suffering” by the men here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:23 PM |
| 7 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantagewomen make fun of and demean men for being lonely Are you sure? Are women en masse being cruel and laughing at lonely men for fun for no reason every where? …Or are women pushing back against the lonely men that rage online in typically toxic and misogynistic fashions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:22 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youBecause speaking with logic and nuance means he will miss the opportunity to shit on all women though and he can’t have that :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:18 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youNo, surely women are just evil creatures who purposely make men wait for sex for no reasons other than to upset men ofc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:13 PM |
| 0 | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.Ok buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:32 AM |
| -1 | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.News flash most men are not so miserable and undesirable they can’t find partners that make the pros of dating outweigh the cons. For ugly, unattractive, and undesirable men…then yeah I agree with your post and can see why abstaining is better than being rejected and dejected all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:32 AM |
| 0 | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Women should not be taken seriously and there is a reason for itpad see ew >> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 10:53 PM |
| 4 | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.Your title should be corrected to say ‘There are FAR too many cons than pros for dating for unattractive undesirable men’ Your post reads like the reality of a male loser (no shade to you OP). Because any man that’s decently attractive and decently successful with women isn’t dealing with all those cons to the same degree as men who are unattractive and undesirable to women. The guy doesn’t have to be a slayer chad, most normal dudes have several partners/relationships/flings and eventually sett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 10:50 PM |
| 4 | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.Men are so entitled and privilege they genuinely think getting rejected is on par with being harassed and assaulted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 10:42 PM |
| 0 | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.Then why won’t men shut up about being lonely and sexless and just be alone by themselves then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 10:40 PM |
| 8 | Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bedFor men, busting a nut is simply the end goal. Sure, what man wouldn’t like porn star sex? But the reason we don’t see men complaining about women is because men nut from sex overwhelming majority of times and that’s enough for most men. Meanwhile, most men can’t even make women cum. At least yall are nutting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 09:12 PM |
| – | fat women are hypocritesGive us something to actually debate first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 08:35 PM |
| – | fat women are hypocritesI highly encourage you and some of the other men on this sub to consider these subreddits for your brilliant posts: r/rant r/OffMyChest r/kitchencels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 08:32 PM |
| 0 | Giving a woman false signals to get laid is the male version of being friendzonedBut friendzoning men is so fun. I love crushing their spirits and seeing the hope of connection and intimacy drain from their eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 08:21 PM |
| 6 | Giving a woman false signals to get laid is the male version of being friendzonedWhy not? Is probably his next response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 08:18 PM |
| 9 | Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bedWhen a woman is bad in bed, the man is still pretty much guaranteed to get his nut off. That’s all men really care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 08:17 PM |
| – | Women are too underqualified to give dating advice to straight men.You ‘couldn’t’ care less. You could care less means you currently do care 😫 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 08:14 PM |
| – | Women are too underqualified to give dating advice to straight men.No, plenty of dudes will pass up their current girl if a better one comes along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 08:14 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentNot one legitimate conversation within this troll post be so fr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 11:11 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentI’m a lesbian bro 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 11:10 PM |
| 15 | Why isn't there more pushback from women toward women who encourage the male behavior they hateDidn’t you get the memo last week?? The Queen Woman has declared we all like cold approaching again. Get with the hivemind girly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 08:08 PM |
| 4 | Why isn't there more pushback from women toward women who encourage the male behavior they hateThat’s not what is it at all. Most women go through their own pickme phase, just like a lot of men go through their own ‘simp’ phase before learning better and outgrowing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 08:06 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentMods do your job and crack down on these annoying ‘no point, no debate, just rant’ posts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:46 PM |
| 5 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.For many men, the ideal situation is to benefit entirely while the woman happily lets him step on her back. There’s just something really satisfying for men about “taking away” things from women; virginity, innocence, time, agency etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 06:09 PM |
| – | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.They don’t talk about it because it’s not the goal. The red pill is about dating but not really about relationships. They also flip flop their truths when it’s convenient. They don’t care about emotions, bonding, etc. But if a woman makes it known time, effort, and money will need to be spent in order to access her, suddenly these men are like “Hey what happened to romance and love??? Isn’t that good enough??? Men truly are the romantic gender 😔” Meanwhile, he’s praying internally you just shut … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 05:11 PM |
| – | If you found out your great great grandfather owned my great great grandfather would you let me fuck🤔?I would hide your car keys under your work boots | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Whats your reasoning that you actually notice your own privilege?Being taken care of is a good privilege. But you have to approach this privilege with some finesse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:03 AM |
| – | Bisexual Men should hold themselves to higher standards and reject homophobic straight womendamn this topic really got to some of yall lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:54 PM |
| 44 | Women approaching men should be the norm.Idk maybe female sexual nature is too passive, but I’ve never desired a man so greatly I felt compelled to approach him. I’ve seen fine ass dudes that made me say ‘Yay wow’ but that was it. There’s no drive for me to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:53 PM |
| 1 | The refusal to date people is more born out of a cycle of normalized false beliefs, and in nothing ‘innate’ to what one is attracted toFor people anal about lose vs loose, this comment is their worst nightmare lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:41 PM |
| 3 | The biggest thing right now we can do to help men is to teach boys as young as possible, to drop as much as possible, any and all need for female validationI mean yeah, law of detachment can help anybody and everybody | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:38 PM |
| 9 | Women should not be taken seriously and there is a reason for itI like Mexican food way more than Italian food | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 05:12 PM |
| -1 | Why do you date at all if its so terrible?I still date men because men are still useful to me. They’re either paying/taking care of things or they’re pleasant eye candy for me to enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 05:09 PM |
| 2 | The best relationships are when the women likes him moreMen infinitely prefer it when you love them less than they love you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 05:05 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men would rather be with a woman who they know is using them than be single.Sounds like men need to pick better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 05:02 PM |
| 1 | If your partner got randomly body-swapped, would you still want to have sex with them?Low chance. The body swap would need to be of similar height, build, stature, or better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 03:39 AM |
| 11 | To the women who think men only want sex. Did you ever think to just let us fuck🤔??I admire your commitment to being disingenuous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why when you are in a relationship do you still wear sexy clothes and makeup etc.? Who are you advertising yourself to if you are already taken?The truth? I always stay ready so I never have to get ready | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | To the women who think men only want sex. Did you ever think to just let us fuck🤔??Men are so funny. And his replies to the comments? This is peak comedy gold! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:16 PM |
| 17 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenAny time I see a woman that’s a mother, I see half a woman. You just end up sacrificing so much more than you think. I admire women that become mothers, but I don’t want it for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:42 PM |
| 1 | There is no benefits to having kids as a women[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a woman exerces different sexual acts depending on the individual?Yes, women do different sexual acts based on the individual. The more I like a man the more nasty stuff I wanna do with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:38 PM |
| – | You told men to not approach you, so we listened.This post is soooo badass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think women are hypergamous?We’re clearly about biology in nature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Nightclubs are never coming backC word that gets you banned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 03:16 AM |
| 4 | Q4women would you date a trans guy?No, I only want to date men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 11:45 PM |
| 2 | What's the most annoying debate tactic you see from the opposite gender on this sub?Idk but this is definitely one of the more annoying posts I’ve seen on this sub if that helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 11:40 PM |
| 3 | If you as a Women have delusional Requirements for a Dating Partner, and you can achieve them, its not your Fault, its the systems Fault. Those Women cant be criticized. The Market decides. Those Women do nothing wrong.I always forget a lot of the men here are genuine basement dwellers that get their “experience” through online forums, podcasts, streams, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 11:36 PM |
| 3 | If you as a Women have delusional Requirements for a Dating Partner, and you can achieve them, its not your Fault, its the systems Fault. Those Women cant be criticized. The Market decides. Those Women do nothing wrong.Women have a hard time securing relationships from the top tier men they want. It’s a very important distinction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 11:35 PM |
| 19 | Why do you think women are hypergamous?I’m surprised others haven’t said this. Just look at nature. If you were a female burdened with all the responsibilities and risks of pregnancy, child birth, and childcare…wouldn’t you want to make sure your child has the best damn genes possible? The consequences of sex couldn’t be more different between the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | It's better to be the mistress than the wifeNo, the best is to be a golddigger and ensure you are always getting something out of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 04:27 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than menWe have the exact same point. Men would do it, they just don’t have the opportunity to. They would toss out a family for young pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Nightclubs are never coming backPeople mingle at bars and clubs. I meet new people nearly every time I go out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 11:06 PM |
| 21 | CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than menThey flip flop their beliefs based on what’s convenient and can be used to shit on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:58 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than menYou said Men don't cheat to upgrade. Yes they do. You’re trying to move the goalposts now and make it about how men don’t use sex to get relationships. That wasn’t the point. Men cheat to upgrade their woman, aka a young 23 yr old is an upgrade compared to his chubby middle aged wife. Men would cheat for this upgrade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:53 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than menWhere will you move the goalposts next? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:30 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than menYes they do. Men will blow up their whole families and abandon their kids and wife if a hot tight young 23 yr old wanted him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Nightclubs are never coming backWhy do the below average men on this sub project their fears and inadequacies onto actually average men? Go to a bar and club and you’ll see plenty of normal average men and women having a good time, chatting, dancing, etc. I promise you guys, the average man isn’t an antisocial loser rotting online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:01 PM |
| 43 | The women who are the loudest about not dating a “man child” are the definition of “woman child.”That isn’t a man child at all. Honestly, most manchilds I’ve met are usually rich and grew up wealthy and coddled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 06:15 PM |
| 11 | No one hates independent women, you are just arrogant and obnoxiousExactly, the only time ‘humbling women’ comes up is when a woman is confident and not seeking male approval. The urge to knock someone down usually stems from insecurity. A secure person doesn’t feel the need to do that. I never once saw a man or woman being confident and felt compelled to bring them down. The behavior is so embarrassing and telling in of itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateIf he doesn’t happily pay for the date then there isn’t going to be a second. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:09 PM |
| 34 | No one hates independent women, you are just arrogant and obnoxiousA lot of men have this weird obsession with ‘humbling’ women. Just move on about your day like a normal person bro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Genuinely, if a good portion of women fear and dislike men as a whole, why should men interact with women?Some you guys got so fucked by ragebait and online slop and it really shows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 08:04 AM |
| 0 | Genuinely, if a good portion of women fear and dislike men as a whole, why should men interact with women?There seems to be no good reason for me to interact with them first, which has led me to simply stop doing that. Then just don’t interact with them. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?This is why I always stay quiet when people dog on Leo bc I would absolutely want to be surrounded by prime hot chads too if I had the means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Signs of interestNo, just because someone has a different opinion from you doesn’t mean they are out to gaslight you. I recommend going through life without that chip on your shoulder tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 11:08 PM |
| 11 | Would you be fine with not getting the "full Girlfriend treatment"?I wouldn’t date him in the first place if he wasn’t spoiling me with love and affection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Most men should stay away from pursuing/going after Older women.Why are the posts on this sub so bad lately? So many posts are just people getting on their soapbox. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Signs of interestNo, it’s just my honest opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?Honest answer: hell no. How much money a man makes is important to me, I will not downplay this. If he wants me to financially support him then I’m sorry babe you gotta go 💔 Only scenario I would fully support a man is when I’m older, wealthy, and keeping a fresh young big dicked chad around to entertain me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 07:16 PM |
| -1 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.Um that doesn’t count right now /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 07:12 PM |
| 0 | Women often give horrible dating adviceI’m not texting you all day every day. If we just met I don’t need to have a conversation with you everyday. No one said any of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 06:40 PM |
| 9 | Women often give horrible dating adviceTake your time to text her back, don’t invest a lot early, make her earn your attention, don’t tell her where you stand I would stop seeing this man because I only date men clearly interested in me and not afraid to show it. Likewise, I only give my time to men I’m interested in and I’m not afraid to show my desire for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Signs of interestReally? I think dating social cues are pretty straightforward in general. Again, sounds like something someone who can’t read social cues well would say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Signs of interestThe post specifically asks what are signs of interest outside of telling a person. And I disagree, that just sounds like something someone who can’t read social cues would say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 05:46 AM |
| 2 | The courting process never ends for men.I think most if not all men view enthusiastic sex from a woman as a good indicator (or ‘proof’) she really desires him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:42 AM |
| 1 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”No sorry, that’s not right at all. Also, what does that have to do with this conversation? Did what I say yesterday bother you so bad that it’s been on your mind this whole time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:39 AM |
| 1 | The courting process never ends for men.It’s not that you need to do it to “prove” your love but rather it is seen as proof, particularly in the eyes of men which is my main point. A man putting in the effort and time to plan a thoughtful date is proof that he likes you. He isn’t doing it to specifically ‘prove’ he likes you. That’s the difference. For men, enthusiastic sex from women is seen as proof of her genuine desire and love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:34 AM |
| 7 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”Yeah I imagine for undesirable men that have never felt what it’s like to have a woman genuinely desire them, it’s probably confusing since they have no XP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:10 AM |
| 19 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”It’s a tough pill to swallow, especially for people with little to no experience. My motto is: If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:04 AM |
| 6 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”But we’re not talking about approaching. We’re talking about two people in the early stages of getting to know each other better. And yes, women express interest during this stage if she likes you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 03:56 AM |
| 58 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”Honestly, I feel like it’s really easy to tell when someone is clearly into you and feeling you. I can never relate when women or men talk about how confusing dating can be. If it’s confusing, there’s your answer, they don’t actually like you enough. Because if a woman or man actually likes you and wants you, it will be clear through their actions and words. If those actions and words are mismatched, not always followed through, or feeling hollow…then you’re dumb af for sticking around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 01:14 AM |
| 2 | The courting process never ends for men.Sex absolutely shows those things. Have you never made love? In the eyes of men, a woman being sexually ravenous for him shows that she is genuinely interested in him, in love, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 01:06 AM |
| 0 | The courting process never ends for men.Men and women are different and thus want different things. For men, they want a woman who likes him so much that she is very sexual for him. Men don’t want to feel like a wallet, they want to feel sexually wanted. For women, they want a man who likes her so much that he is very caring and thoughtful for her. Women don’t want to feel like a sex object, they want to feel emotionally wanted. That’s why dates and effort are important to women in the relationship. That’s why enthusiastic and regular… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 07:51 PM |
| 25 | The courting process never ends for men.This has been my xp with men as well. They appreciate gifts and thoughtful gestures of course but what they really want is sexual validation and gratification. Not in a bad way, but touching and ravenous sex is what they prefer over a thoughtful note or cute little gift lol. For women it’s reversed. A man saying “Okay baby tonight you can take this dick” wouldn’t really get women emotionally swooning. But a man taking the time to remember your favorite flower or coffee shop, or a man who makes t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Which blue pill ideas you don't want to be associated with? Question for purple pillYup, totally agree with your thoughts here. I’m pretty much in the same boat as you but the female version. I’m more concerned with money and getting what I want out of life over marriage/relationships being the pinnacle. I don’t think there’s anything wrong or bad with our choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 05:22 PM |
| 23 | Do you get offended if a guy you deem unattractive hits on you/asks you out?Really? Me singlehandedly? I didn’t realize I was so influential 💅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 03:28 AM |
| 18 | Do you get offended if a guy you deem unattractive hits on you/asks you out?I warned you, the truth was gonna be ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 02:32 AM |
| 30 | Do you get offended if a guy you deem unattractive hits on you/asks you out?I don’t get offended nor do I think they’re a creep unless they do something genuinely offensive. But if I’m being disgustingly truthfully ugly honest, whenever an unattractive man hits on me it kinda ruins my day because then I’m thinking “Damn…he really thought I was a possible option?” Thankfully only a couple unattractive guys have approached me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Many women don't seem to know what femininity actually is.Best comment and explanation I’ve ever seen on this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 12:34 AM |
| 39 | Many women don't seem to know what femininity actually is.Okay, can you explain to us what real femininity is instead of just repeating women are stupid and don’t know what it really is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:11 PM |
| 4 | Signs of interestI’m sorry no woman has given you the eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Signs of interestUnfortunately, regular women do gaze nicely at men they find attractive. Having a soft gaze and wanting to look at someone you find attractive is a pretty normal thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Signs of interestTIL eye contact is whorish I’m talking about when you are having a conversation or already in proximity. Usually the guy is talking or explaining something and I’m looking up at him with that look. In terms of eye contact, I have no problems making strong eye contact and I never feel compelled to break it. Even if I’m talking to someone I find attractive. I notice this tends to make people kind of nervous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Signs of interestMhmm I don’t know, I’ve heard plenty of guys say they know when a girl is giving him the eyes and tbh I said 9/10 because that’s how it often it gets picked up for me in my personal xp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Signs of interestOk fair I overshot there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 07:47 PM |
| 14 | Signs of interestOne of the most obvious things I do without explicitly saying it is simply giving him The Eyes. Men can be bad at reading signs but I’d say 9/10 times, most men can tell when a woman is giving him The Eyes. For those who haven’t experienced it, its basically when a woman looks you directly in the eyes, not breaking contact, her eyes have this relaxed almost low lidded look, and there’s undeniable tension in her gaze at you. She’s looking at you like she wants you because she does. And that’s usu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Invest as little as possible early onKeeping initial dates simple and purposefully showing the least amount of effort and interest are very different things though? I think the first few dates being simple is better, especially if I don’t know the guy, last thing I want to is to be locked into a dinner all night. If the date is simple, makes it much easier for me to cut it short if I’m not feeling him. That said, if a guy is purposefully acting not too interested or into me, then I would not entertain him. Would you want a woman th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.No one said otherwise, the obvious point here is the notion under it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 08:33 AM |
| 0 | Politics absolutely do matter with who you’re dating. Not so much the content of it, but rather, alignment between yourself and your partner(s)Okay. Now what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 05:57 AM |
| 6 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Absolutely, a lot of men aren’t just innocently stating their preference but clearly saying it as a way to jab and hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 01:20 AM |
| – | The manosphere and looksmaxxing are direct outcomes of an open sexual market — and they’re becoming the new normalIn addition to how widespread social media is, it’s also coupled by the fact women have more rights and agency than ever before. Women can choose to abstain from men, they can choose to hookup with men, they can choose to date and marry men if they wish. Women used to virtually and socially have no choice. But now? Oh we get to take our pick. And because of social media, we also have access to a much wider pool of men, increasing the chances of meeting attractive men. So basically, modern woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:51 AM |
| 8 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Women hate on men for wanting young women for the same reason men hate on women for wanting tall men. It feels bad to be in the excluded group. When so much worth is put on something you don’t have, it’s a natural human reaction to pushback in an attempt to soothe one’s ego. That’s why men who desire very young women are called “losers and groomers!” And that’s why women who desire tall men are “shallow stupid bitches!” Because their preferences bring the attention back to the fact people are la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:14 PM |
| 12 | Which blue pill ideas you don't want to be associated with? Question for purple pillI think all the pills have some truth to them. They’re like racist stereotypes, usually overexaggerated and overdone but not necessarily completely untrue. Like stereotypes, the pills didn’t come out of someone’s ass but were born out of observation. That said, black pill >>> all other pills I dislike how much blue pill downplays looks. It’s quite literally one of the most important things in your life and will have a direct correlation with the quality of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:03 PM |
| 17 | Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal womenThe reason men on reddit pick arguing instead of dating conservative women is because they can’t get any woman to date point blank period. How can you be picky when you don’t even have options to PICK FROM? These men aren’t asking “Should I date conservative or liberal?” they’re asking “How the hell do I even make contact with a woman” Advising men with no options to be pickier is certainly…a choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 10:56 PM |
| 19 | Politics absolutely do matter with who you’re dating. Not so much the content of it, but rather, alignment between yourself and your partner(s)Of course politics matter, but they matter less to those who aren’t very political I guess. If politics doesn’t personally matter to them then they won’t find it a big deal in dating. Also most of the men who say “your politics don’t matter” are usually conservative, white, and middle class +…not a group heavily affected by laws like rolling back abortion or ICE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 09:47 PM |
| 8 | Do you think a woman deserves a good forever Men? Epside 2: Return of the SithYes absolutely. Women deserve good men. If a woman is doing the bare minimum she should absolutely be rewarded for it. That is how society works. If she’s mildly overweight but still holds down a job and pays for her apartment, then she deserves a 6’6 tall man that makes 669k a week and buys her lamborghinis every Wednesday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 09:01 PM |
| 6 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault.Sure, species vary in their specifics, but what is nearly universal across the animal kingdom, especially amongst mammals, is that the males have significantly more testosterone, more muscle mass + strength, are bigger and hornier than the females, and compete violently with other males for the right to mate. This is basic biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 08:54 PM |
| 11 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault.The lack of balls heavy with seed and thumping testosterone is why women would not sexually assault men if we were stronger. Not to mention, the complete responsibility of pregnancy would still fall on us. Men commit the overwhelming majority of violent crimes. We see this in the animal kingdom too, the males are stronger and more violent than the females. Testosterone is one hell of a drug. It is directly responsible for sex drive, aggression, strength, etc. Men have 15-35x more of it than wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 07:51 PM |
| 11 | It's okay to want virgin womenYou are absolutely allowed to want a virgin. And other people are absolutely allowed to voice their opinions and thoughts about it. That’s how the world works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:52 PM |
| 4 | There should be female only draft.omg I love this sub so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others?Wipe out over 50% of the male population so men are scarce and considered rare. Having kids, a husband, and a family becomes a luxury women compete for due to how valuable men have become. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 04:50 PM |
| 0 | "Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't youAre you my twin? These are my exact same thoughts too, it boils down to being upset they can’t do it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 02:46 AM |
| – | What is your advice for hypergamous men?Give up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 12:03 AM |
| -2 | "Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't youCorrect, I simplified it so the point is easier for you to understand since you didn’t catch it the first time around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Only Mid Girls give up sex freelyBrutal, insecure mid girls are easy pickings 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 08:48 PM |
| 7 | Dark romance men and dating.Most porn is degrading towards the woman with choking, slapping, hitting, name calling, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 08:42 PM |
| 1 | "Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't youNo, I’m saying it’s odd men act mind boggled when they see attractive men being treated differently compared to less attractive men. It’s odd because men do this same behavior themselves. Men also treat women differently based on how attractive they find her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 08:40 PM |
| 12 | Dark romance men and dating.God gave me two fists for a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 06:38 PM |
| 15 | Dark romance men and dating.Hell yeah me and him can have a freak off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 05:56 PM |
| 11 | Only Mid Girls give up sex freelyTbh a lot of women engage in hookup culture not because they want sex but because they want validation and an ego boost. Less attractive girls are more likely to seek out validation since attractive girls get it freely. I notice that the women who do engage in regular hookup culture are typically mid or low self esteem/insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 05:50 PM |
| 7 | "Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't youI never understood how this is mind boggling to men. They’re mad women treat attractive men differently…but men do the exact same thing? Men treat beautiful women very differently from ugly women. Why is it shocking when women do the same towards beautiful men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Every single man in the world will gladly "spoil” a woman - if she is "that girl" to himIf he doesn’t spoil me I don’t want him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:59 PM |
| – | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.I do. I also want a man’s money and effort on top of it and I get what I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:45 PM |
| -1 | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.I do happily. This is like asking a man why doesn’t he just jack off instead of seeking a partner? There is very clearly a difference between a right hand and a warm vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 06:24 AM |
| -1 | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.Personally, this doesn’t work too well for me because I prioritize a man’s finances/occupation above his looks. So if I had the choice between a man who takes complete care of me or a man who looks and smells exactly like Theo James…its the former man for me. It’s important to note most women aren’t as atrocious as me though so take what I say with a grain of salt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.Nope because that is not the point here. The point is, men are hornier and more desperate for sex, therefore they are willing to settle with women they don’t really care for. This doesn’t make them “good” or “nonshallow”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 06:30 PM |
| 9 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.I think another thing is that men mistake their horniness and desperation as proof of being “less shallow”. Men yell all day long “We’re fine with a mid girl!”, but even that wording there is very telling. Ask men to pick between prime Sofia Vergara or a mid girl, who do you think most men will pick? Obviously prime Sofia. But most men can’t get the women they TRULY desire, so they shrug and think “Well…my dick needs to go somewhere and this less attractive girl would be easier and low maintenan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 05:15 PM |
| 8 | It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first dateYou absolutely don’t have to pay for the first date! Just don’t expect a second one though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Do men go down on you much/at all?I’ve personally never NOT had a guy go down on me that I can think of. A few were top notch freaks that did it frequently for their own enjoyment (😩) and the rest seemed more reciprocal. I haven’t had that many hook ups, but even then they still went down too. It’d be a deal breaker for me because I’ve never experienced not getting it. Any guy that has genuinely been exceptional at it has had me down bad under a spell tbh :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you offer to pay for your own food and drinks in the early stages of dating?If he hasn’t made it obvious that he’s going to pay, then I will ask if he wants to split. If he says yes, I’ll split it 50/50. And then I’ll never see him again lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 05:32 PM |
| 5 | The value of vagina Is beginning to declineGrab somebody sexy tell ‘em HEY ! The value of vagina is beginning to decline ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 12:03 AM |
| 10 | It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship.I think what you’re saying has weight to it. But I think the notion of knowing you will never be good enough to get Chad treatment is why a lot of men are particularly bitter about this. And idk it kinda makes sense? Let’s say I’m dating a great guy with similar interests and goals. But I found out he bought his last gf flowers every week, brought her gifts regularly, planned elaborate dates…but for me he wants to go 50/50, wants me to initiate and spend $ even though he never behaved that way w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 08:59 PM |
| 12 | It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship.And the problem that they wont admit: They have a TYPE. This is not all women's experiences. This is the experience of a party girl. And usually these women are extremely hot. Yes the men here especially. Often when men think and talk about women as a group, they are literally only picturing women they find attractive. They aren’t considering the experiences of less desirable women, fat women, weird women, old women, etc because men do not think about women that aren’t attractive to them. A man’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 08:41 PM |
| 6 | It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship.Def not me if I was an average dude,,,but I can at least see the situation from the men’s side | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 07:56 PM |
| 2 | What do you like about your husband/bf?Bro never allows my wallet to see the light of day ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingBesides the bodycount, what else do women lie about? If men are willing to fake personalities, interest, a future, etc…shouldn’t that answer your comparison question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 07:38 PM |
| 24 | It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship.Men’s real beef is they can’t do it too and they don’t want to be the “loser” in the situation. As a woman, you could be a total slut in your youth, partying, hooking up, trying out a FWB, etc. As you age out of the dating market, women can easily settle down with a nice dude who will provide. Women have the option to have their cake and eat it too. So if you’re a painfully average or below average man, chances are you will always be delegated to the Beta Bux category. Meaning you’ll never be th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 07:31 PM |
| 7 | What's your reasoning that you can actually say something to the dating life of a young men?Am I the only one struggling to understand what OP is trying to say? 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingMen do the same thing. They will lie about their intentions, interests, personalities, etc just to get what they want. People do shitty things. Men and women build relationships on lies all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Who should be taught how to treat their partners? And why?Reread my first comment and try again bud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 07:14 AM |
| -1 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingYeah because men NEVER lie to get what they want out of women Humans lie. Men and women will lie about things if it makes them look better to someone they’re interested in. Not shocking when a person lies tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 07:12 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Who should be taught how to treat their partners? And why?This doesn’t address my question at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 01:17 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: Who should be taught how to treat their partners? And why?Can you elaborate? How would boys and girls be “taught” how to treat a partner. Can you provide examples on what would be taught to boys and what would be taught to girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:48 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: Who should be taught how to treat their partners? And why?Can you be more specific instead of just repeating the same thing over and over? Can you give examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:46 PM |
| 2 | What do you value?Option A hands down I’ll always like a handsome rich man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Asking women for advice does not work.This is hardly a debate sub. More like a male whining sub, nearly every post is just a rant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Know any guys that have stopped paying for dates?The second the man wants me to pay I immediately move on to the next | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 10:27 AM |
| – | "Passport bros is just about money" is a fable Western women tell themselves to sleep better at night.This all sounds great. Why debate if you are clearly not looking to change your opinion but to assert your thoughts? If passport maxxing is what you gotta do, then do it. Is someone stopping you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?Much more efficient to treat it as something to exploit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 09:37 AM |
| – | Feminism is extremely dangerouseeyuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Feminism is extremely dangerousWell he is a man after all, poor thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 09:02 PM |
| 7 | Feminism is extremely dangerousI’m laughing in your face too now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Feminism is extremely dangerousThe shoe doesn’t fit on me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 08:00 PM |
| 12 | As a man, Why am I not allowed to argue with women?Any adult that resorts to yelling or emotional arguing with raised voices is immature as hell. That behavior is so embarrassing no matter if a man or woman does it. The only difference is people will see a woman doing it as less ‘intimidating’ because women are perceived as the weaker sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 07:58 PM |
| 13 | Feminism is extremely dangerousI love feminism because it enabled me to laugh at men like you in the face and be protected for it ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 06:02 PM |
| 4 | How promiscuous do you consider yourself to be?Typically I need to date someone and get to know them for a few weeks before sleeping with them. But I have absolutely broken this rule for a few select men that were hot and enticing enough to skip the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 01:15 AM |
| 2 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.Men see women as tools to boost and soothe their egos tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 09:34 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.Transactional literally just means exchange. If it feels better to call it reciprocal for you then go for it, but I’m not interested in arguing semantics. The obvious point is that there is an exchange between two people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:10 PM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementUnfortunately, stereotypes don’t just come out of thin air. Ugly short men are usually miserable and not people I want to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:43 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.Still wrong too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:14 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.Also very wrong and couldn’t be more false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 09:33 AM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.This couldn’t be more wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 09:04 AM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.All love is literally transactional. Transactional isn’t a bad word or a bad thing, that’s what you’re hung up on. Does love just happen randomly for no reason? Of course not, you love someone for a variety of reasons: they are physically appealing to you, they bring you joy, they align with you, they provide something, they make you smile, etc. Get over the fairytale and get real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 09:00 AM |
| 11 | Can you explain why you want more dates/vacations?You felt called out by “loser”, I wonder why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 08:56 AM |
| 14 | Can you explain why you want more dates/vacations?Having a routine ≠ never exploring, traveling, trying new things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 07:53 AM |
| 17 | Can you explain why you want more dates/vacations?I like staying home and chilling too. But if that’s all a guy wants to do majority of the time then he sounds like an absolute loser tbh. No desire to go outside? Hike? Go to the beach? Explore? Sounds like a boringgg ass dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 07:23 AM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.Every relationship is transactional in one way or another. Meaning there is an exchange. Why would men be with a woman that didn’t give them sex, feelings, comfort, happiness, etc? Likewise why would a woman be with you if you are not also giving something back to her? If you don’t like the deal, walk away. No one is forcing you to take a deal you don’t want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:42 AM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementYupp 100% It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. They’re miserable inside and out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:03 AM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementLike, have you considered a lot of good looking guys are actually really good guys? This has been my experience, guys who are above average usually have better personalities and are actually nice. Ugly guys are usually so foul and bitter, especially if they’re short too. I avoid them like the plague unless they prove otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 03:38 AM |
| 1 | You're a slim, shorter (5'5 and under) 20-something Girl. What Are Your "Asks?"Attractive to me Not balding Fit 5’10+ Makes good money Responsible / has his shit together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Do women have a thing that they want to be the only one a man does it for?Provide / take care of me / do things for me with a smile on his face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:53 PM |
| 7 | Sex is good for men and women to doYes but avoiding promiscuous women as LTR partners is very different from vehemently hating them and wanting them to stop having consensual casual sex with other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Sex is good for men and women to doIt’s a nice revenge fantasy in theory but the reality is slutty women have their fun while young then settle down once they age up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 04:11 AM |
| 87 | Sex is good for men and women to doNo one hates sluts more than the men that can’t get any. Imagine a loose ‘easy’ woman still not wanting to have sex with you even though she has lots of sex with other men. It makes them feel like massive losers for not being picked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:14 AM |
| – | Why do women get annoyed when told it's easy for them to be attractive but it's not for men?Yeah, it is easier for women to become attractive. Especially since men are hornier and have lower thresholds for what they consider attractive. Now what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:10 AM |
| – | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenThey usually have more money and are closer to the grave. Only upsides imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Group Houses Can Dramatically Improve DatingI would kind of think the man is a loser tbh He doesn’t even have his own place? :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.No, majority of men will always be unattractive no matter what they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.Sorry but “selling your soul” won’t suddenly make you 6’4 and hot to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.You either have it or you don’t. The majority of men don’t and never will no matter what they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.It’s just not possible for most men tbh. Can’t change your height and frame or bone structure Majority of men will never be pantie droppers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 06:59 PM |
| 6 | Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you?Men want women more than women want men So you better dance monkey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.Most men are ugly and boring so not worth hooking up with tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 06:38 PM |
| – | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.Some women do prefer that. Kpop is globally popular with millions of female fans across the world. You’re conflating some women condemning “toxic masculinity” with “not liking any masculine traits whatsoever”. Women not liking men who are domineering and misogynistic does not mean they don’t like all masculine traits. Plenty of women are very open about their masculine preferences, for example many women openly share they like tall and muscular men. Women are honest about it so much, there are s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 10:01 PM |
| – | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.How did women gaslight you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 07:03 PM |
| – | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.Women like masculine traits. Men like feminine traits. The most shocking, earth shattering revelations are always found by the intelligent men of this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Women who use dating apps, genuine question - are you actually trying to filter for personality?I absolutely filter for personality. I’m trying to see if he has a giving/providing personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Going younger makes sense if you want to be a fatherGo for it, why bother asking reddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Can women truly love?If the truth stings then I wouldn’t speak it. I’m saying the way you speak is pretty cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 10:13 PM |
| 6 | Can women truly love?Ew don’t ever talk like that again please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Can women truly love?What are you picking these men to do for you? $$$ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Can women truly love?Personally, no. I love myself and pick men that are going to benefit me the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 06:46 AM |
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