idd9 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	We should provide a deterrent to rape/harassment in the same manner that we do with other issues But when we talk about rape/harassment, instead of tackling the root cause such as how the onus is on guys to make the first move or discrepancies in the sexual market that's heavily stacked against males, we expect them to shut up about their sexual needs and are expected to suppress them. Opposed to other things, our society does not care about sexual needs whatsoever, and it doesn't seem to change anytime soon. Anything more than prostitution would infringe on people's freedom to choose. I fu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/17 04:18 PM
1	QForRPMen: what is supposed to happen if people start to care about or understand the male “problems” in the sexual marketplace? Depends - do they actually care, or just tolerate? We have gone through stages of absolute hatred towards non-normal people as a society, may it be the disabled, gays, etc. but nowadays we accept all of it and partly offer support. The important differentiation is between "tolerate" - which is the case, and "care" - which most people only pretend to. If in x years people start magically caring tolerating incels/robots/the-undesirable there might be further push towards mental health incentives a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/17 05:26 PM
1	Sex or Intimacy or Validation? The issue comes when instead those guys who decide to turn their focus away from chasing women decide to then just turn their focus to blaming women That is true if you imply that they actually represent what they portray themselves as, which is not true. Surely there are a lot of 40+ year olds in the community who say "I dislike women because xyz and thus focus on things more important to me" but I can assure you the majority of them are frustrated low-value males who are searching for companio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/17 05:17 PM
2	Is it dehumanizing to call a woman a "female"? The people mad about the usage should be able to differentiate. there are those who do it on purpose in a dehumanising way those who want to generalise mammals, usually extended into "female specimen" (this rarely applies on reddit though, for obvious reasons) those who want to include all age groups, since "women" usually refers to females >=18 In the end it's just a word, but yes, it's significant how normal it has gotten when "women" would be more fitting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/17 05:30 PM
1	Is the red pill going to loose its bite soon? I think it's important to differentiate here. Most of these things surfacing have little to do with subreddits such as /r/incels and /r/TheRedPill and more with the explosion of imageboard culture, especially through /pol/. The core ideas are the same and yes, they are becoming mainstream, rightfully so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/17 09:13 PM
1	Q4ALL: What will be the effect on intersexual dynamics/trends/markets if the gap between rich and poor continues to widen in America over the coming decades? males who have resources will have literal harems I'd think that it would rather be indirect harems, as in that the desirable ones having multiple FWB's at once. Most women will probably have an issue with being one of many in a direct sense, breaking the idea of a real harem. But I do agree with your first part. Either in the Eliot Rodger way, i.e. certain males going along their life semi-normally until they can't take it anymore and lash out, or as organized crime in a way we already see in s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/17 10:51 AM
1	Q4ALL: What will be the effect on intersexual dynamics/trends/markets if the gap between rich and poor continues to widen in America over the coming decades? I think we'll just see a more extreme version of what already exists right now; only very wealthy/rich people will have stable marriages, most women will likely choose to remain single since many more men simply can't provide any more than for themselves. The "market" for casual sex will be a bit more interesting though; I personally would expect it to get closer to 10/79, where the majority of women will try to get up the social and financial hierarchy, but most will fail and just be used as pu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/17 10:42 AM
1	'Even if Males would like to change, society will not allow them.' Solution: Men, stop doing things! Our drive to set and accomplish goals is kicking us in the butt! If your goal is to trash every other view point than your own, that may a good way to put it. But in our gynocentric society full of female solipsists it is more than evident that this is a common occurrence. Society teaches boys and future men through years of upbringing and education that success will be rewarded. But if the workforce doubles, migrant labour becomes available and automation makes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/17 08:14 PM
4	CMV: Women do likely have a dating market advantage... in typical Redditor demographics. However, overall, it's pretty even. I never quite get the "In the late 20s and early 30s it will get better for you" mentality RP tries to force, because that would be the one thing to balance it out the obvious advantage women have early on. In reality, most women only date men who are slightly older than themselves and the possibly beneficial financial situation one might be in later on in life isn't everything you need to attract a mate. Furthermore, can become just as successful as men career-wise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/17 11:09 AM
2	Why do so many people still claim that women are ''more emotional'' than men? I have an emotional mother. shudders Same here. She gets mad when she works for slightly longer than average and expects people to do her part of the housework whereas my father works 30h more each week and does the same amount and overloads my younger brother with negativity if he gets slightly below average grades. Happy that I don't have to deal with it anymore. One could say that society is considerably more accepting of overemotional women. As long as they aren't batshit insane they can fin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/17 07:07 PM
8	Are these debates about male/female differences in cognitive skills a diversion from the real gender difference no one wants to talk about? It doesn't matter if that poster is a troll or not, the amount of upvotes does indicate that there are tons of people who non-ironically would go along with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/17 09:05 AM
2	Q4RP: How many of you think that it's hypocritical/ironic if a feminist woman likes rough sex? I was talking about the hypersensitive boundaries usually pushed by hardcore-feminists, especially verbal boundaries. Every person has their own boundaries, and as long as they make them directly known to the person/multiple people in the current social scenario any sane individual will comply. Also, men can always be socially dominant if they want to without infringing on any other boundary. Again, that's not the problem. The problem is the fallacy of setting up social rules, saying that you pu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/17 08:40 PM
4	Q4RP: How many of you think that it's hypocritical/ironic if a feminist woman likes rough sex? It's kind of ironic and understandable at the same time. Women want men to respect their boundaries, and try so by force a culture of verbal veto's without realizing that men being dominant and in control of the situation is one of the things that they actually like. The result is that those abiding their rules are usually turned away, and the rule breakers get punished according to their attractiveness, i.e. if Chad (as the bogeyman for attractive males) does too much he gets casually told to s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/17 05:57 PM
3	CMV - Are You A Good Person? No. No one is. Basically this. It's pretty much a pat on your own shoulder for something that takes no deeper self-determination into account. Any person that wants to go beyond the social stigma they already posses won't get anything out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/17 09:05 AM
3	CMV: BPers are in denial about the amount of women having casual sex ehh, theres little information regarding that so it'll be hard to prove. And even if one where to conduct a study on CC in colleges, how could one do that beyond surveys without interfering with peoples lives? You can however take other statistics into consideration, like median number of sex/sexual partners at age 20, 21, 22 etc. and make assumptions for that. Because in almost all countries' studies women have a far higher median value, which might or might not get close to the 80/20 boogeyman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/17 07:31 PM
1	Q4RP: Do you believe that sexist attitudes towards women exist? Yes, but it's important to differentiate. There's only a small minority of men who disrespect and aggravate females on a institutional level to a extent that you could call it blatant sexism. A much bigger amount are the guys who are desperate, which generally leads to them lashing out verbally. A example of the first would be older men who have grown up with fixed gender roles and still apply them, whereas an obvious example for the later would be r/incels. Women usually only focus on the effec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/17 03:04 PM
1	Men: In person, how do you treat women? There are tons of men I know IRL that treat women completely different than men, and it's usually the ones that have problems getting healthy social interaction with females. Which obviously doesn't get better because pretty much all women notice the passive white-knighting facade. Especially the ones that try to pull other men down just to make a joke out of a certain situation; absolutely disgusting. I always try to treat them like I do with men due to this realization. It's hard sometimes, es…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/17 09:07 PM
8	Men benefit the most from The Riders of the Cock Carousel Couldn't have said it any better. CC usually leads to completely natural hypergamy, i.e. pareto principle/power law. beta-type men out there who are sexually frustrated under the current system but would have had little difficulty finding a wife under the old system. One could argue that the old, completely monogamous system still exists, yet people who have participated in the CC, especially women, usually can't settle for it due to their expectations in SMV that developed throughout the time w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/17 08:53 PM
2	If life was an RPG which sex would you choose to be born as? An RPG that mimics real life, or an actual RPG? Taking in regard that RPG's most certainly do not offer any advantages of being either gender, I'd obviously go with female. It's basically free shit and people will use their time to boost you, which are obviously free advantages. The amount of passive white-knighting I've seen in gaming communities is insane. If it's closer to real life, and a scenario I feel comfortable with (i.e. higher awareness, knowing how stuff works by default) probably ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/17 01:35 PM