iddco Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
222	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped	Social Issues	iddco	/r/MensRights	25/07/18 04:45 PM
92	AZ court rules ex can use embryos and 'dad' MAY still be responsible for child support	Marriage/Children	iddco	/r/MensRights	24/03/19 02:35 AM
29	why is the male employee the only one to be called out yet the female patron is praised?		iddco	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 09:31 AM
26	Kevin Federline's Child Support Demands Put Him in the Hot Seat	Marriage/Children	iddco	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 12:19 AM
19	War vet loses children due to a law loophole and asking the Colorado SC to intercede.	Marriage/Children	iddco	/r/MensRights	29/07/19 04:39 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Woman admits false rape, assault claims There not crazy common. Only like 2-5% are blatantly false, of those reported to authorities. Still 4000+ people's lives a year are fucked up over them. That's with the majority of real rapes, going unreported. I do believe in harsher penalties for those who falsely accuse however. Sadly, many, many, more accuse publicly, destroy lives and relationships and never actually report it to the authorities of any kind and there is no to little repercussions. The system does need to be better for all. …	/r/MensRights	04/09/22 07:15 PM
2	Florida Signs new Fatherhood Rights Bill You will never end abortion via adoption. Up to 5% adoption fails. Many in the system are abused. The social service system is underfunded, understaffed, and unable, currently, to deal with what we have. You want to add to it and not add support. You are looking for a disaster. Until we help the people we have and minimize the need for the option for many people the numbers won't go down. In fact they will only go up the more people try to restrict it. Abortion rates on the country fell asleep o…	/r/MensRights	13/04/22 12:53 AM
4	Florida Signs new Fatherhood Rights Bill 100% agree that bringing bio father's to the table should be the focus. Also agree mentors are not a bad thing. Especially if we could get mentors for fathers too. It shouldn't matter if the kids are in single parent homes or not. Some kids have two parents who are just never around. While there is a increase in crime we are still in a historic low and way off of where we were in the 80-90s. It's also not an cause of single mothers directly. As far as boys and school, again not a mother's only i…	/r/MensRights	12/04/22 08:42 PM
1	Florida Signs new Fatherhood Rights Bill Sadly, yes. Mainly due to lack of access to healthcare before and after a pregnancy. No prenatal care. Overall sad. We don't take care of what we have and then complain when we don't have a utopia	/r/MensRights	12/04/22 08:26 PM
6	Florida Signs new Fatherhood Rights Bill There are over 150,000 kids in this country waiting to be adopted. There are plenty to go around. Clinics don't just do abortions, many provide access to birth control and health care. All of which are being shut down too. The social services are grossly underfunded as is education. People claim to want to stop abortions to protect kids but don't want to do shit with them when they are here. Or help prevent the pregnancies, to begin with. Forcing people to have children would marginalize people …	/r/MensRights	12/04/22 07:17 PM
4	Florida Signs new Fatherhood Rights Bill Can't keep them connected to their bio-fathers. We need them to prove we are tough on crime or recruit them into the State Militia. s/ here is another side of this too. By limiting things like birth control and abortion they are putting more men on the hook for children that many did not want and the State will not pay for. While I agree mentor programs are great, support and education for fathers are fantastic. As you point out giving them 50/50 would be better. However, this is really not abou…	/r/MensRights	12/04/22 07:02 PM
1	Amber Heard Has Been Fired From Jason Momoa's "Aquaman 2" They didn't even do it for those reasons. They cite breaking health protocols. Basically used a technicality to get rid of her without having to take a stand, be decent, or admit their own mishandlings. It's weak but happy to see her go.	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/02/21 08:07 PM
1	Falsely accusing your boyfriend of domestic abuse while psychologically abusing him is funny! My brain jumped to Ronda Rosey and it kinda made sense with all her BS	/r/MensRights	19/03/20 06:45 PM
1	War vet loses children due to a law loophole and asking the Colorado SC to intercede. Absolutely. I would guess the journalist wouldn't even return the call for a father. Sadly, there are probably 100's or more cases with even more cause that continue to be ignored. I recently had a student try to argue that because pregnancy and labor are not easy on women that they should be given more allowances in cases like this. Of course this was a student who also did not believe female privilege existed. They were unhappy when I pointed out that the generations of guilt mothers have pass…	/r/MensRights	02/08/19 05:42 PM
1	War vet loses children due to a law loophole and asking the Colorado SC to intercede. Great points	/r/MensRights	30/07/19 12:00 AM
1	War vet loses children due to a law loophole and asking the Colorado SC to intercede. I agree. I'm grateful she served and protected my ass. I'm sorry she has PTSD and struggling. We definitely don't do enough in this country to help our returning soldiers. That being said, why no phone calls, no (even five minute) visits, anything. I don't know Colorado law but I can't imagine it is easy to strip a mother's rites for a step-parent. I survived plenty and know PTSD, first hand and academically. I also know my kids saved me. The whole story sucks but happens so many times to men an…	/r/MensRights	29/07/19 11:06 PM
4	War vet loses children due to a law loophole and asking the Colorado SC to intercede. This is a sad story but I don't think it is the only time. Just this time it is the mother who lost their kids so now it's news.	/r/MensRights	29/07/19 04:45 AM
39	A Texas mother who admitted to selling her children to settle a drug debt was sentenced Friday to six years in prison. Just think, if she was caught buying the drugs she probably would have had a high sentence.	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/04/19 07:58 PM
1	AZ court rules ex can use embryos and 'dad' MAY still be responsible for child support Or that one only has the right to decide to be a mother	/r/MensRights	24/03/19 02:30 PM
3	Imagine genders reversed, would a man successfully bullying his depressive vulnerable gf into killing herself, through thousands of calls and messages everyday, get just 1 year sentence? Thank you	/r/MensRights	26/02/19 01:42 PM
75	Imagine genders reversed, would a man successfully bullying his depressive vulnerable gf into killing herself, through thousands of calls and messages everyday, get just 1 year sentence? 15 months I believe. Female sentences are often like dog years. A female month is a male year.	/r/MensRights	25/02/19 02:13 AM
2	Sperm donor must pay child support to lesbian couple, court rules (2014) correct	/r/MensRights	16/12/18 10:36 PM
2	Reddit co-founder Alexis Ohanian says men are unhealthy, insecure, and paralyzed by patriarchy I know this might be a lot to ask and while I don't agree with everything he said, please READ the damn interview before jumping to conclusions. His comments were from multiple questions and then mashed together to make a title. He is calling for people to listen to each other and learn how to change the system for the better for ALL involved. Is he a little tp apologetic for having a penis, IMO, yes, but that doesn't mean he is saying we should bow to females.	/r/MensRights	17/11/18 05:49 PM
3	Why the 'Teach men not to rape' Rape is a problem. If it has to be taught then wouldn't that imply that the natural default was to rape? Making rape a natural necessity. If this was the case, rape numbers would be through the roof and/or just a accepted norm. Rapists would also only be male. Although I did have someone recently state she thought female rapists were identifying as male on some level. So some, even see female rapists , when they acknowledge them, as a male issue. Why can't people see this crap does no one any good and doesn't help…	/r/MensRights	21/09/18 04:57 PM
1	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped I'm going to make an assumption here: many pick up the fight after a injustice (perceived/real) by them or someone close. Let's not pretend they don't exist. It's just not as tragic as many try to make it. Once in, they get swept up. Many people in this world, no matter the cause, fail to take the time to think about the other side. It also becomes easier to ignore their perspective the more you are surrounded by 'confirmation' of your beliefs and high emotion. It is why I think more people sayi…	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 01:50 PM
4	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped Thank yo. I know and still fell down the rabbit hole. Silly me thought a civil conversation could be had. Thank you.	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 02:42 AM
2	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped Ah so I see. Someone who doesn't know my field, clearly didn't pay attention to anything in medical school regarding following diagnostic criteria is now going to dismiss the field you are trying to use to defend your position. Please. If you are who you say you are you are clearly the one who thinks all should bow to you because you have the fancy coat. Please you call me insecure. You are the one attacking people left and right. Little one, so cute feel better. BTW I too am a professor, so wha…	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 02:40 AM
4	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped How are you doing? Want to do something fun? In no means am I trying to minimize your situation. While I'm sure a stranger on the internet is not what you meant, it is what I can offer. I suppose I am lucky not to have experienced this yet but it seems you are not alone in this. I will assume this is from the societal belief that you appear to be a healthy male so must be fine. I unfortunately have a physical handicap and deamed broken. I could use a little less checking in on. Either way, fun i…	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 02:20 AM
2	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped Look I am not really sure what all your anger and issues are, nor do I care. People are trying to have a conversation and you are attacking a group of people who all support the same cause. My argument has just as much as evidence as yours does. Why should I do your research for you? If you follow the field, well anything beyond 1962 then maybe you have been able to follow along. Nice attempt with the, I don't agree so you must not understand thing though. Last I checked the medical field is not…	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 01:52 AM
3	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped Thank you. I came across this first. Will check it out.	/r/MensRights	25/07/18 11:59 PM
3	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped While I am not a European, let me be the first to inform you that I could be and still be a native English speaker. Perhaps you may want to check your reference books on how English came to America. Oh, thank you for the lovely genetics run down. I'm sure someone, somewhere has that gold star you are craving. You are forgetting all of the research into mutations and derivatives of what was once believed to be straightforward. You mention XXX how about XO. Then there is also the whole field of ep…	/r/MensRights	25/07/18 11:31 PM
3	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped English is my first native language, not like that should matter. Or are you implying that only native English speakers are worth your time? It is a horrible reply. I was did it one handed, while doing something else and did not read it before I hit save. Sorry about that. How do you define female and male? is what it should say. I find it interesting that you are able to define my position when I have not even laid it out for you. Quick to believe you know what is in my head. Interesting coming…	/r/MensRights	25/07/18 10:33 PM
6	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped And by what do definitely female and male?	/r/MensRights	25/07/18 10:18 PM
6	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped Ah, so the root of your issue is that you don't see him as a him. Because clearly there is only one way to be a man. He never claimed to be the voice for all. He was just stating his story. He is asking for people to check their biases and re-evaluate their beliefs regarding gender issues in our favor yet you are hung up with your belief he is not a he. Personally, if the messages he is stating was spoken by a women I would still support it. As it is one trying to work towards a better understan…	/r/MensRights	25/07/18 10:13 PM
5	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped What is compelling is an individual preference. For you it is not compelling, for me it is. That simple. The "conversation" is the on-going greater debate regarding gender and equality in the world as well as, the discussions that are born out of it. This is also not a women sitting on her porch pondering life as a man. It is a man, living life as a man, who has a unique perspective to offer. He has walked in both sets of shoes and is just sharing his experience and personal growth. You don't ha…	/r/MensRights	25/07/18 08:10 PM
15	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped and I don't see the point in dismissing someone who is trying to have an honest conversation regarding gender issues no matter what their gender is. I don't see why you think his journey is meaningless but to each their own. also don't know why they used that picture on the article. It is not Zander, nor a female.	/r/MensRights	25/07/18 07:22 PM
22	Feminist Who Became a Transgender Man Now Realizes Male-Privilege Is Over-Hyped Well this is the first time I have seen his strory. Yes, there have been other's like the woman who lived as a man to prove it was easier and realized it wasn't. While I wish people on both sides of any argument would take more time to understand the experiences and perseptions of other's, I for one, do find it compelling when people do have their eyes open. Especially if they don't run away but stand up and use whatever platform they have to correct their mistakes. FYI it's not some women talki…	/r/MensRights	25/07/18 06:54 PM
2	Mother seeks to ban boy & mother from public park; liberal folks on twitter make much fun of it. Pretty much, and the poor postman was going, wtf, not again	/r/MensRights	28/04/18 09:37 PM
2	Mother seeks to ban boy & mother from public park; liberal folks on twitter make much fun of it. It certainly can be. Yes, I'd probably be there sitting next to you shaking my head asking if this shit was really happening.	/r/MensRights	27/04/18 11:25 AM
2	Mother seeks to ban boy & mother from public park; liberal folks on twitter make much fun of it. I probably would too if it was not me who was there.	/r/MensRights	27/04/18 10:48 AM
12	Mother seeks to ban boy & mother from public park; liberal folks on twitter make much fun of it. Yup, not alone, with my daughter but apparently I made them feel unsafe. They stopped crossing the soccer field and called the cops. The first time I didn't even see them until the cops walked up because my back was to them. I had the cops called once because I was changing my daughter's diaper on the backseat of the car. The woman blocked my car, called the cops and wanted me to hand over my daughter to her. The cop was great, she laughed at the woman, apologized to me and wrote her a ticket fo…	/r/MensRights	26/04/18 06:45 PM
7	Mother seeks to ban boy & mother from public park; liberal folks on twitter make much fun of it. As a father who has had the cops called on me TWICE because I had the audacity of being at the park with my child BEFORE they arrived, I can relate to the mother and son. These people are out there.	/r/MensRights	26/04/18 05:57 PM
2	Father says authorities could have saved 'awesome' seven-year-old son murdered by his ex-partner in custody battle but they assumed 'the mother must be good and a father bad' True but I thought woman don't do those things only men abuse. Also makes you wonder why the courts have not adjusted their default if it really is about keeping children safe. Not that a default either way should be used but a individual approach appears to be blasphemous. After all, why would it really be about the children.	/r/MensRights	27/03/18 11:45 PM
8	Father says authorities could have saved 'awesome' seven-year-old son murdered by his ex-partner in custody battle but they assumed 'the mother must be good and a father bad' Yeah, its a powerful number. Unfortunately, I have found that if we don't state the stats exactly how they are listed then people discount everything we say. I don't know how big a difference there is between the amount of kids killed by both parents or strangers vs those killed by one parent is but I have learned to try not to give them anything to discount the information.	/r/MensRights	27/03/18 06:11 PM
18	Father says authorities could have saved 'awesome' seven-year-old son murdered by his ex-partner in custody battle but they assumed 'the mother must be good and a father bad' It is a tricky stat. It's 71% of kids killed by one parent are killed by moms, not all kids killed by pa FYI, 60% are boys.... http://www.breakingthescience.org/SimplifiedDataFromDHHS.php Sorry on a cell	/r/MensRights	27/03/18 05:18 PM
9	Kevin Federline's Child Support Demands Put Him in the Hot Seat 100% agree. I just feel that if the genders were reversed and Brittany was asking him for more after he landed a $15m a year gig people would be cheering her on, complete with'you go girl'. Neither scenarios deserve it but the hypocrisy is palletable.	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 03:17 AM
7	Kevin Federline's Child Support Demands Put Him in the Hot Seat It's also interesting that if it was a woman it would be about the kids and their needs, complete with a list of known expenses etc. This makes it sound like it is for him. Absolutely agree he probably doesn't deserve it, neither would a female. There are familes who get by with less money a year then some people get a month.	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 01:40 AM
16	Kevin Federline's Child Support Demands Put Him in the Hot Seat Honestly, don't know the details or really care. I don't think anyone needs $10000+ a month to raise two children (nor a 20K increase). I also don't know why he claims to need it. I do find the comments are interesting. How angry people get when they feel the female is being taken advantage of by being treated the same way many men have been for years. Can you imagine the pitchfork brigade that would assemble if a women was told to "get a job" instead of requesting more child support.	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 12:29 AM
1	People don't like it when the genders are reversed that is what I did. Took the lazy man's approach	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 12:24 AM
1	People don't like it when the genders are reversed sorry about that.	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 12:20 AM
1	People don't like it when the genders are reversed Honestly, don't know the details or really care. I don't think anyone needs $10000+ a month to raise two children. I also don't know why he claims to need it. I do know that the comments are interesting. How angry people get when they feel the female is being taken advantage of by being treated just how many men have been for years.	/r/MensRights	16/03/18 10:45 PM
2	A Woman's Finally Charged For Rape Looks like, for both, it is not going to be rape but sexual misconduct and sexual abuse.	/r/MensRights	17/12/16 12:16 AM
9	A Woman's Finally Charged For Rape What is truly telling is the difference in how the two cases were reported. In this one they make it clear that it was sexual contact but by all appearances it was 2 consenting (if in different setting) adults. However, in the male's case not so much---read here . Now in his case it reports the victim seems to be under 18 but I believe 17 is the legal consent age in NYand his 2 charges are misdemeanors.... That does not excuse what he did, as it is still illegal. However, and maybe I'm just bein…	/r/MensRights	17/12/16 12:09 AM
3	Spanish website takes down a documentary about domestic male abuse followed by the complaints of a group of people that referred to it as sexist. what i don't understand is that the site appears to be a crowdfunding site; if you don't like something don't fund it. Perhaps it is my inner american speaking but I feel people should be able to make films/art about any topic or in any manner they want as long as things are legal. It doesn't mean I have to watch it, agree with it, or have to enjoy it. Even if everything they were depicting was a lie, they should have the right to film it and people should have the right to decide if they want t…	/r/MensRights	17/09/16 09:55 PM
2	Last year this story was really disturbing. Two girls assaulted autistic boy - coerced him to have sex with dog among other things. Today I find out that the one 17 year old girl who faced 80 years in prison got off with a comfy 4 year juvi sentence. Not sure of the law in Ohio but here in Massachusetts if you are required to register it does not matter your age at the time of the offense. Making the difference to have to register and not huge. I see the good old plead down was in play, thank you. ho hum, at least the judge didn't tell her she was to pretty/famous/rich to go to jail	/r/MensRights	12/04/15 05:06 AM
2	Last year this story was really disturbing. Two girls assaulted autistic boy - coerced him to have sex with dog among other things. Today I find out that the one 17 year old girl who faced 80 years in prison got off with a comfy 4 year juvi sentence. I did not intend to imply that they are being harshly punished and they all should go home for milk and cookies and a 30 minute time out. I hope all the parties, offenders and victims are provided with the help that they need. I was pointing out the fact that gender appears to play a role in final sentencing and consequences.	/r/MensRights	12/04/15 04:39 AM
13	Last year this story was really disturbing. Two girls assaulted autistic boy - coerced him to have sex with dog among other things. Today I find out that the one 17 year old girl who faced 80 years in prison got off with a comfy 4 year juvi sentence. as it should be, no? repeated incidents, use of a weapon, physical, emotional and sexual abuse. One may even say torture. Find it interesting that there was no mentioning that they have to register ass sex offenders--which the boys from Steubenville do.	/r/MensRights	12/04/15 12:51 AM
8	Female pedophilia is far more prevalent than most people believe. I think it is more of a why do female victims get support and male victims often go unacknowledged. There is also the whole well males can't be raped thing. You know cause every 14 boy dreams of sleeping with a 35 year old. Being that pedophilia and rape can be perpetrated by both genders makes it a human flaw and all...	/r/MensRights	06/09/14 08:51 PM
2	Teen charged with sexting girlfriend will be forced to get an erection via an injection and be photographed by police for evidence someone manged to take a video that consisted of nothing but a penis? No other identifying body parts or background information to identify the place of the video nor any other physical markers and why is there no charges for the girl who it clearly states started the issue by sending him child porn to begin with.	/r/MensRights	10/07/14 12:41 AM
5	Liberals blaming "Mens Rights" as cause of mass murder. Even though there's no evidence this man was involved in Men's Rights top comment on his youtube manifesto echoing the article "This is what the men's rights movement and red pill rhetoric does to somebody. This guy wasn't crazy: violent misogyny is not a mental illness. But it's what drove him to being a psychopath. That's what their fucked up ideology does to somebody. It's horrifying." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zBvaVWdJRQM I personally find the gross over generalization, no evidence and inability to get past one's own bias to be the true horror	/r/MensRights	24/05/14 09:29 PM
1	Feminist blogger announces ban on male commenters wordpress.com's policy (one of) the Content is not pornographic, does not contain threats or incite violence, and does not violate the privacy or publicity rights of any third party; hmmm, fine line	/r/MensRights	01/02/14 01:37 AM
1	Proud to hear one of my favorite local female Hip-Hop singers and activists identify with "Humanism" instead of "Feminism." Note the whiny comments from some of her fans because, you know, "male privilege"... as a cheerioist I feel violated by the cocopuffist. I'll just go and drown myself in milk	/r/MensRights	01/01/14 09:57 PM
2	Being a single dad on a road trip with a young son this was a very welcome sight. GGG Mc'Donalds I agree. Sadly I got used to strange looks and rude comments, especially when my daughter was younger. I get I was in my early 20's, looked younger and had hair half way down my back but still I was a father, involved and properly attached to my child, WTF.	/r/MensRights	05/07/13 07:21 PM
12	Being a single dad on a road trip with a young son this was a very welcome sight. GGG Mc'Donalds When mine were in diapers this used to set me off to no end. But Panera and Whole Foods never let me down. Was once told that if I was a stay at home father then I should stay at home. Have yet to return to any Subway in 12+ years	/r/MensRights	04/07/13 02:28 PM