ideaofrhyme Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 11, 2026 When you ask me to do something I am already going to do, I am going to not do it anymore." and of course just STFU-ing. Is the right thing in these situations just to shut up and ignore or do I correct? No. It's definitely not. It's just child throwing tantrum. Just STFU and do what you need to do.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/08/26 06:00 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 11, 2026 psh who are you to tell me how to dress". Shit test I simply STFU as I was not even established within myself if I wanted to set a boundary on the dress or not. It's fine.. stfu is good if you are buthurt. do you really think after you responding to me like that in the bathroom I will buy you stuff. If I get to have a say in how you dress, I get to buy you stuff. If I do not, I do not buy you stuff She poked further and you failed the shit test spectacularly. That's where it just derailed. She s…	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/08/26 05:55 AM
–	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? Nope, the timing is obvious. She was just salty that he has a kid now and no one in his right mind is gonna wife her up. Not to mention her texts to her friends about how she has BPD. It's so obvious, she liked Jonah Hill, not enough to be a wife for him but enough that she didn't like that he moved on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 07:35 PM
–	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? You are missing something here. A woman choose to be wife material. I can treat a woman as an individual, be curious about who she is, what her hopes and desires are, how she sees the world etc etc. i definitely enjoy that. But that doesn't make me stay with her. A wife plays a role in a man's life. If a woman doesn't understand it, she is not a wife material. Women nowadays are so insecure about being good wives because they think that their best won't be good enough. So they think they can cha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 07:32 PM
–	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? He does kinda "control" her. He had a baby with someone else and she freaked out and tried to destroy his life over nothing burger. He probably wasn't even thinking about her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 07:21 PM
–	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? No it's not bonkers. I don't think most men would want their wives to do that His problem was that he fell in love with a woman who is not a wife material. Then he tried to force her to change everything about her. He wised up, left her and is now with a better woman. Has a kid, lost weight, etc. His ex got jealous that he had a baby and tried to create drama. His mistake was trying to change a woman. You don't change a woman, a woman change herself when the time is right for her or when the man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 07:17 PM
–	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? Redpill puts it better She is not yours, it's your turn. Once you internalize it, women will just fall into your frame to keep you and stay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 06:56 PM
–	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? And I am not trying to convince you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 06:38 PM
–	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? A wife material is a very specific kind of woman. When a woman is ready for that role, she changes herself into that kind. It's like she instinctually understands her assignment and fall in line with the vision. She doens't choose to do it, it happens to her. She becomes feminine, nurturing, "domesticated" etc. That's what men don't understand. They fall in love and then want a woman to be wife's material. She will when she is ready, if ever. Instead of finding a woman who is ready, they try to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 06:37 PM
–	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? What do you mean by sexually dominant	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 06:19 PM
–	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? Some men have possessive view on a woman's sexuality. That's why men slut shame. I think it's because men are expected to "invest" in a woman. Support her financially or risk financial ruin in divorce. So they need a degree of control. What they don't get it that you don't actually have to marry a woman or invest in her. When that happens, a woman will herself leave her slutty ways to commit to him. Problem is, men fall in love with a woman and then want to change her. Instead of letting her cha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 06:17 PM
0	Women: would you date men if they could never spend any money on you? Nah you are not a real man if you don't disappoint a few women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/26 08:57 AM
0	Women: would you date men if they could never spend any money on you? Well I am kinda selfish in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/26 08:26 AM
0	Women: would you date men if they could never spend any money on you? Not only that, women are very "giving" when that happens. They are very proactive about giving you pleasure. Can you even blame me for cheating while travelling? They get the king treatment from a woman they barely met. It's addictive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/26 08:14 AM
1	[ Removed by moderator ] U said hypocritical behaviour. I was commenting on that. I disagree that men who are serial cheaters and men who complaint about cheating are not mutually exclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/26 08:04 AM
0	Women: would you date men if they could never spend any money on you? I travel for work too. I get to live in 5 star hotels for free and women can get very freaky when they know you are not from that place. I just don't like my job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/26 08:00 AM
0	Chasing “Strong desires” is overrated. That's incorrect, it's worth it You have to experience both not feeling desired and feeling desired. It's worth blowing up your marriage for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/26 07:57 AM
5	[ Removed by moderator ] That's like woman who say they prefer someone tall but get offended when men have weight preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/26 07:56 AM
-2	Women: would you date men if they could never spend any money on you? 💍 you would be the perfect woman for me. Except for the children part. On another thought, the more i think about it, the more i get bored without a job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/26 07:52 AM
11	[ Removed by moderator ] The men doing the cheating are not complaining about it. The men who never got to cheat are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/26 07:51 AM
0	Women, are your sex toys bigger or smaller than your partner's penis? Unfortunately when you have slept with so many women, you get used to seeing women at their best. Their best makeup, their best dress, their best most confident behaviour. Then when LTR happen all the insecurities comes out. Getting shit tested is fun, getting comfort tested is not. Reassuring, validating, listening etc etc. If you don't really really love the woman, it's gonna drive you mad. That's why you need a very good quality woman, it gives you perspective	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 04:21 PM
0	Women, are your sex toys bigger or smaller than your partner's penis? There is a difference between having sex for validation and having sex for genuine desire. When that need for validation is fulfilled, you are faced with the reality that you don't actually desire a woman that is lying naked in front of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 12:47 PM
1	Women, are your sex toys bigger or smaller than your partner's penis? If i went back in time and told myself that sex with lot of young women would cause me ED, I wouldn't have listened. People just have unhealthy way of seeing sex and desire. People won't get it until they see the consequences for themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 12:06 PM
-1	Women, are your sex toys bigger or smaller than your partner's penis? I donno Doesn't change the fact that guys are insecure about their dicks	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 11:58 AM
-6	Women, are your sex toys bigger or smaller than your partner's penis? I wasnt talking about you. Lot of women freak the fuck out about porn, how it gives men unrealistic expectations etc how a wife can't match up to those women. But if you have a good woman at home, then she is worth staying for. Lot of women are gonna be more beautiful and if you somehow found yourself with redpill knowledge, you would know how to get those women. Beautiful women are plenty, a good kind woman is just hard to find.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 10:28 AM
-15	Women, are your sex toys bigger or smaller than your partner's penis? Hmm.. i guess most men don't see their wives as you see your husband. That's why married women feel so insecure about their husbands porn use. I guess that's why a man would feel insecure about an oversized dildo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 10:14 AM
–	Do you feel as if you genuinely know what the majority of women want? It's a broad question. If you are asking what women find attractive, then sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 10:11 AM
-6	Women, are your sex toys bigger or smaller than your partner's penis? That's like a married man watching porn of women same age, same weight, as his wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 10:08 AM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026 I'm young, innocent, and not damaged. What's wrong with me trying to figure you out? Most of the game is written to get 9s and 10s, experienced seductive women. Most women(especially 19-20 year olds, but also some married women with low experience) are like deer in headlights if I tease them too much. They take everything literally. Daddy issues, insecurity, whatever. I took it as bait when she leaned toward me several times, inches from my face. Always assume attraction. If she is being a tease…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/26 01:32 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026 , I initiated some sexual touch to what she responded “I thought you were just trying to have a nice moment with me.” It was not a rejection, it was a minor shit test, she was already horny I said I was just going to go down on you, I wasn’t even horny”…. Wtf. Ngl man, you bombed it pretty hard No real idea yet why that was, but like I said, I have been practicing more intimate moments without the expectation of sex.... Blah blah blah, she was already horny and you blueballed her last time. You …	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/26 01:21 PM
1	What would you have preferred instead of MeToo? Depends on if you can prove that it does cause reputation damage. Then you will pay for defamation (given that you are lying)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 03:04 AM
2	What would you have preferred instead of MeToo? Due process rights was not about speaking up It was feminists Stopping cross examination in college campuses Stopping men from having lawyers present during the hearing Having vague rules about how investigation is conducted and definition of sexual assault or r@pe and having arbitrary rules for it. (Thankfully supreme court refused to take up appeal of the circuit courts decision that colleges have to provide due process to men in college campuses or they will be liable for wrongful action, so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 02:26 AM
1	What would you have preferred instead of MeToo? She can talk, but when she starts to take names or imply guilt to a specific person, then she definitely need evidence. If i say I was r@ped, then it's justified If i say, u/fiftypoundpuppy r@ped me, then you will have reputational damage. So i better have some basis for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 02:22 AM
1	What would you have preferred instead of MeToo? Women speaking out about what happened to them without naming the accused? Yes Women being able to make claims without evidence? No Due process rights being taken away from men? No Stopping cross examination of accuser because "it might tramatize her" ? No Taking away right of man to have a lawyer present in college campus hearings? No Making it almost impossible for man to sue for defamation under false accusations? No Saying you don't need due process in court of public opinion but demonizing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 02:09 AM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026 You push without passing shit tests, you will turn soft no into hard no. You don't have good game or good frame. There are no shortcuts. Don't fall for simplistic advice.	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/08/26 04:17 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026 Inexperienced chicks just don't handle being overgamed well. Their brains can't handle the emotional stimulation so their brain short circuit and they take everything literally. They freak out. Close her or she will ghost you.	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/08/26 04:11 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026 A whole load of nothing What did you do last week, what do you want to do next week. What are your goals?	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/08/26 02:16 AM
2	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship Not paying taxes will land you in jail. Cheating is not a criminal offense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 02:05 AM
2	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship Marriage is a social construct. It only has power if you believe in it. You are not stopping her from moving on. You are fucking other women. She is not relevant	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 02:00 AM
1	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship I don't like this way of thinking. It's wife's centric. You should say, if your wife doesn't wanna fuck you then go to other women. If no good quality woman wanna fuck you, go to the gym. Wife is irrelevant. She is gonna get old and fat. There will always be hotter younger kinder woman than her. Obsession with a wife is not healthy	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 01:56 AM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026 Irrational self confidence and outcome independence. That's how you win the game	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/08/26 04:41 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026 I did a little smack with my dick on her thigh and squeezed her ass with "too bad". Good initiation. Bold, borderline regarded. She laughs and asks: "What's that thing with that ass. You seen some new porn?" (I don't watch porn and she knows that). Duh!!! It's a shit test. Of course she was gonna shit test. You came on too hard on her. She was not gonna open her legs just like that. Pass the shit test and the game begins. I answer yes, go to dress myself up and come back as I planned to read on …	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/08/26 02:09 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026 I don't know what it was but it was a sentiment of I simply prefer my peace over engaging in BS, yet feeling grounded by every step we took as we walked back home. That's called frame. When your internal compass guide your behaviour, not the stimulus from outside. Seems I thought being "selfish" and a "jerk" would do the opposite but slowly I am feeling better about my true real self and sex is coming back. Are you being selfish and jerk? You are not mean to her. You are just holding frame and n…	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/08/26 01:53 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026 I tried to fuck but she gave me the “later if i have time after I get ready”. Shit test, she was horny. That's why she came to your bed in a robe. I said, your naked, make time now. No. I guess you passed in a way. But if you made it more fun, you could have closed her then and there. Didn’t happen, but then she initiated in the evening. Well she was horny and I assume you didn't act buthurt when she said no. I assume you decided to write about this because you wanted to understand what happened…	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/08/26 01:47 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026 If you are not UTTERLY exhausted by the end of the day, you are living hard enough. Talk to a therapist, depression manifests in many ways. Your OYS is so emotionally blunted. Your insomnia is psychological. re-enforced bad behavior this week. Didn't address something when it was a comfort test brought to me with vulnerability and I only moved on it when I got an earful a day later Comfort tests are hardest because it's difficult for us to accept that we are actually worth being comfort tested. …	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/08/26 01:39 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2026 I looked through your past OYS. Just keep what i said in back of your mind. When you are ready, it will make sense to you. Until then, enjoy fucking anything that moves. It's a life well lived.	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/07/26 07:36 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2026 Am I the only one who can tell that you just want a good loving relationship and are just running away and drowning yourself in plates, sex and self improvement to avoid being vulnerable about what you actually want? Gatling to all the chicks whose numbers I got lately, or where the conversation got stalled. But eventually brushed it off; even if I'll have zero plates in rotation, I'll be fine Are you fine? When you lost your distractions, it made you feel shitty didn't it? I have half of the si…	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/07/26 04:43 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2026 Even came up to me with a very serious talk saying she does not know where we are going or what I want or if I want the same things as her. Dread, shitty comfort test. Truthfully, she is in the right for this and I can sense her slowly distancing herself or kind of knowing this could end. I am thinking a lot of what I want out of life. What am I here for. I've learned if this is not set, everything else slowly rots. No? Certainty is boring. Change is the law of the nature. You don't have to be a…	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/07/26 04:33 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2026 off-loaded the more she complained and said she was overwhelmed. Shit test, she was horny. Your wife's bitchiness is most likely sexual frustration because she is not being railed. You are being more socially dominant, and it's tingling her brain. Pass her shit tests, game her and fuck her good, she will mellow out.	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/07/26 04:22 AM
5	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2026 Expected cards from kids, attention from wife, sex. Got none of it initially and reacted by being butthurt and snappy with the kids. Don't make the mistake of seeing covert contracts as something to avoid. Because there is always a genuine desire underneath those contracts. So acting needy or butthurt is wrong, because these are unspoken expectations. But expectations and desires are themselves not automatically wrong. There are men who get all the sex and birthday cards without being jacked or …	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/07/26 04:09 AM