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I'm 6'2", still a virgin. All of my best friends from high school are significantly shorter than me (probably ~5'4"-5'10") and getting laid. Why? They have confidence, while I'm still working on that. Height doesn't mean shit.
/r/seduction04/03/13 03:26 AM
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Sure hope it keeps getting better! It's a fun story. Once the rest of my friends got in, we discussed what our options were. We tried calling a few of our friends in the area to see if they had any extra shoes that we could borrow, but no one was available. At first, we tried sneaking one of us out through the side exit to exchange shoes, but the club security said that if we leave the premises, we won't be allowed back in; they didn't budge at all when we protested that it was just to make a ph…
/r/seduction03/01/13 04:01 AM
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I really surprised myself too! I can hardly believe that it really was me who did all that haha. I completely agree - I'm not a great looking guy, and I tend to show poor body language normally because of my lack of self-esteem and my anxiety. I much prefer to be witty and charming through speech. But when we're in clubs, we have no choice but to use body language. And I think having the mindset of self-confidence and not fearing rejection will make that body language display work for you.
/r/seduction03/01/13 12:06 AM
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No problem dude, glad I could share. One thing that helped me get in state is that I just got out of my head. I stopped analyzing whether or not something felt natural, whether I was doing something correctly or being a total idiot out there. Because, to be honest, I don't think that my understanding of what is "natural" for me is well calibrated. If you think of it logically, the only natural thing for us guys is to go out there and get laid. That's our evolutionary purpose. So deep down, past …
/r/seduction03/01/13 12:04 AM
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Thanks man! I really surprised myself out there, and can't wait to keep practicing and getting better.
/r/seduction02/01/13 11:53 PM
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Thanks dude! I love this community - I learned so much from you guys, and I'm glad I finally have my own stories to share.
/r/seduction02/01/13 11:39 PM
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Thanks! I completely agree, and if it hadn't been a noisy club and if I actually had to talk, I would have probably been to incoherent to pickup anyone. But the main point I took away from this is that AA ultimately is an unfounded fear, and getting rejected is not as painful as I thought it would be. With that new understanding, I'm really looking forward to day-game, since the main thing holding me back was the crippling fear of getting rejected.
/r/seduction02/01/13 11:38 PM
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Thanks for your comment - I'm amazed that you were able to glean the internal dialogue and self-esteem issues from that short text post, because to be honest, I thought that I was able to mask it pretty well. Clearly that's not the case. And if you're able to pick up on that just from my words on a screen, I can't imagine how patently obvious this would be to people I talk to in person (especially with body language cues, etc.) You need to realize that this internal issue will not be fixed by a …
/r/seduction09/12/12 02:10 AM
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Get that out of your brain any way you can, kill the doubts and focus on what makes you awesome. After that, things change. Reading your and the other responses here, I think I'm convinced. I just need to put more time and effort into it, and stop worrying so much. Thanks for the advice dude!
/r/seduction01/12/12 09:04 AM
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I definitely would like to travel more. I've been busy with school the past couple years, but I'm graduating this spring. Perfect timing to go on a trip!
/r/seduction01/12/12 09:03 AM
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Intelligence and sharp wit can really come off the wrong way and make you look like a douche sometimes. This actually might be it! Perhaps I'm crossing the line between playful banter and straight up insulting people. Thanks for point it out, I'm going to pay more attention next time and see what's up. This isn't a job interview, nobody cares about your motivation and your learning abilities Haha, of course. And I definitely don't go up to chicks saying "I'M A CULTURED SMART SUAVE GUY! SLEEP WIT…
/r/seduction01/12/12 09:02 AM
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Damn vagina fairies and vagina storks shirking their duties! I agree dude, and I'm definitely not expecting girls to open me and ask me out. The problem is that when I try to flirt with girls that I think are cute, they either respond in monosyllables, or just ignore me altogether. I admit, I haven't tried the 100 set challenge yet, but it's hard never having received any IOIs from any girl my entire life. Trust me, I've read the side bar and FAQs, and I'm at the point that I probably have read …
/r/seduction30/11/12 11:51 PM
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I submitted an FR a few months ago about a girl I liked over summer. I flirted with her for a while, and eventually asked her out (it turns out that she has a boyfriend). I try to flirt with girls I think are cute. The problem is that I never receive any IOIs at all - at best they're polite to me, at worst I just get ignored. I know the refrain here is "assume attraction and escalate," but if a girl is responding to me in monosyllables, it's hard to think that I would have any chance in getting …
/r/seduction30/11/12 11:48 PM
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I appreciate your comment dude. I used to think that it was true, but lately it just seems like an empty feel-good affirmation that ignores reality. I'm certain it has to either be looks or some other factor that I haven't thought of. Because, not to brag, I think I am rather attractive in other qualities. Maybe I am not trying hard enough, but in 21 years if I haven't had a single girl show interest in me, it's hard not to get disheartened. Again, not trying to brag, but I would say that I'm sm…
/r/seduction30/11/12 11:45 PM
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I've never had any girl show even a bit of interest my entire life. I'll admit, I don't go out and talk to women as much as I should, but I still have been practicing day game, chatting up a few girls in class, etc. It's just hard to fully commit to practicing game when I keep having this nagging feeling that there's something fundamentally wrong with me that just repels chicks. I know I'm not the best looking guy, but I am 6'1", I have been working out the past year, and I do try to dress prett…
/r/seduction30/11/12 10:42 PM
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Thanks man! Your being proud of me made my day, even though I don't know you haha.
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:03 AM
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Thanks dude! I'm definitely going to go out more - I was building up approaching women and going on dates as some terrifyingly impossible ordeal, but it's actually pretty fun and exhilarating. Hopefully my next FR will show some improvement from what I've learned this time.
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:02 AM
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Thanks dude! It comes off as shady to me. Yeah, one of the other posts was talking about how to incorporate kino as a natural part of conversation. I somewhat misunderstood the emphasis on kino placed in seddit, since pretty much every post said "KINO KINO KINO" so I got nervous and thought "if I'm not feeling her up constantly, I'm automatically friendzoned." I'll definitely work on making it more natural and less forced. By being honest with her about what your looking for, and being a cool co…
/r/seduction10/08/12 02:00 AM
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This feeling never goes away... get used to it :) Haha, now that I think of it, it's kind of exhilarating at the same time as terrifying. I think I'll come to enjoy that feeling. Kino is awkward when it's not paired with something. Example, I like to make a sarcastic joke, brush my arm against hers, and flash a quick smile. 3 different things at once makes the touch seem more natural in action. This makes A LOT more sense dude, thanks. I've been thinking of kino somewhat as an isolated thing tha…
/r/seduction08/08/12 06:07 PM
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thanks man. did you notice that once you stopped thinking about game and told yourself "screw it" things improved for you? that's the kind of mindset you want to maintain all the time. haha yeah, I'm pretty surprised at how easy the conversation went once I stopped trying to overanalyze everything. That's been my biggest fear really - maintaining an interesting conversation. Looks like not worrying about it is the way to go. your challenge from here on out is to get rid of your one-itis I'll def…
/r/seduction08/08/12 05:59 PM
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Makes sense, thanks dude. And you're right - even though nothing panned out, this definitely is going to help me in the long run. It's amazing how the prospect of asking a girl out used to seem impossibly daunting, but now that I've done it once, I see that there's not really anything I should have been afraid of. Time to start opening to every cute girl I meet!
/r/seduction08/08/12 02:09 AM
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