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Black pill guys don't even try. Blue pill is better than black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 06:25 AM
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I did. I actually think I'm probably one of the sanest people around now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:54 AM
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Yes they are. They're just trying to get noticed by a man. They're not looking to pick up a quasi gimp homo pretending to work on his abs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:52 AM
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And that's pretty intense, for her. I abandoned my children as well if we're being honest. Cause I didn't murder my ex wife. I almost did. I almost did, like break in to her house, more insane than I am normally, and almost just killed her. Just took her life to zero. I didn't, thank God. We get along now. That's what abandoning my children meant for me. Now say you care dragon. Now the wife. Yes I started fucking her. I took her body before I took her mind. She was a beast her whole life and sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:49 AM
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I haven't read through this thread since it was only one comment. I'm sure it's filled with triers though, trying, and learning. Guys who want to succeed, who want to dive in head first, maybe even without a condom. I'm sure it's totally filled with guys in the game, like it once was. It's not filled with black pilled losers weeping pathetic tears before they go rub their own weiner to porn, and cry again, and say, and scream, why does nobody care about me, and go jack off again like beasts. I e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:35 AM
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Is this a threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:30 AM
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So I know understanding women is beyond you. I get it. At least I'm trying to understand why you can't succeed. Women just make demands. But they don't know, they lack the wisdom to do it, until they are old and wise enough to do it. They're trying. Yes it will never work. Yes they'll never succeed. Yes they can never lead. But look at you and the men the unlucky girls have to deal with!! If you were a girl would you not go get tossed like a rag doll around just to close your eyes and wish and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:27 AM
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You might have liked sitting in the massage chair, in a different life. Sorry you so mad girl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:21 AM
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I think that's backwards. If I was pushed into nonsense land again, with only two choices to understand? Give me the blue pill over the black pill any day. The blue pill still tries, the black pill? Why do you even post? Blue pilled guys are guys who are still trying. I see them trying. God damn good for them. Maybe they'll even succeed! High fives all around if they do, I only wish them the best. Black pilled guys? Worthless losers. Never try. Cry tears at night pressing their faces sticky sock…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:18 AM
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Black pilled or blue balls? Is their any difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:07 AM
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I'm not saying they are succeeding, but my God has ppd not just become so incredibly depressing. Men used to try. We used to have the red pill, and the manosphere, filled with men trying and reporting back on our efforts Now it's just weepy boys crying into their sticky socks about how women won't do literally everything. If I didn't have a real life around real men I might cry about the state of men. But hey, this corner of the internet has just, very very unfortunately, become the 90 degree an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:58 AM
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Plenty of women are working on themselves, see FDS. About those opening lines women complain about what do you think they send? "Hey cutie" and only endless repetitions of that. Sometimes with an emoji, 😘 which we all enjoy. In reality men are expected to be men. And the men who are, just totally crush everything and sit around and wonder why other guys don't. Other guys aren't even agreement capable, cause they are too busy trying to turn women into gay men with tits. And succeeding to some hor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:48 AM
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It's fake. It's just the theater of war
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:25 AM
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It's fake. It didn't even happen. Go look at the pics. Why is their a professional camera woman who hands him a bottle of water with her Profesional camera gear in her hands? Why is the lighting so good? Have you ever took a phone video at night? It's fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:24 AM
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Yeah but they are totally and completely shadow gay. They are just telling guys how best to get a gay man. For women personality beats looks, it's just most guys have no idea how to have the right personality. Just like the girl who came in here just to try to tell everyone not to have the personality of her ex. She just gave her very best years to him, bore him children, and then gave him a bunch of money in their divorce. Guys, you don't want to be that guy. I'm sure it was his jaw
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:22 AM
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Give upism is no way to live. If you're bored of plates then pick a wife and level up. Get some kids. Move from plate spinner to patriarch. You know why I think girls like a law breaker for her fwbs? Cause in this time only a law breaker can be a patriarch. But who is going to give me permission? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:07 AM
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Why not just get in on the free girl game?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:48 AM
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I think more people are realizing what they need to be to get what they want though. I didn't even think of a new baby boom. At my work I'm the only person thinking about another baby. I actually heard some weirdo trump supporter who cares about voting say he was worried about man made climate change and point up at the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:47 AM
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What do you define as a 7+?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:43 AM
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Not if you play her and turn the tables to get her to chase you. No this is just totally false. You're trying to put the cart before the horse here. You're just trying to figure out how to pick a girl before you figure out how to play a girl. Girls who put nothing at all into finding a relationship, or getting into one, so hot girls you mean, will indeed chase the hardest. They have the least self esteem. That's why they are hot and desperately trying to find validation. You just have to flip th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:40 AM
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Guys have to be personality attractive. Women just have to be physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:32 AM
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I think the fear of the good old terrible USA collapsing and the completely collapsing economy (which is going to get worse) is going to set off a change in women who will start looking for a more beta bucks guy. But they still want him to be attractive, personality. Not even physically girls find personality far more attractive than physicality. Will men step up? My guess is they will not. My guess is men will be even more enmeshed into their teenage boy fantasies. But the guys who start to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:21 AM
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Help from where and for what problem do you think I can get help for? Do you have a time machine by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:14 AM
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Once you have the baby and she or he is in your arms, baby babbling, and baby just stares at you with that baby stare you can only experience things change. It changes you. IMHO it changes you into a better man or woman for that matter. Theirs nothing else like it. Nothing else even comes close. Maybe one day you'll experience it for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:13 AM
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I actually met the guy in person as he came out to visit during the year we were fwbs. I took them out geocaching with my dogs before they died. I didn't interfere and just played the friend. It was odd spending the day with my fwb and her fiance. She was really into him as well, from what I could see. Like she was looking at him and not at me. I really doubt they stayed together. I hope not. Heck after he went back to his state she told me she gave him a bj while he was out. I think she wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:11 AM
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I don't trust her at all. That's why I keep the controls turned way up. I do, however, trust myself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:06 AM
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You don't know anything about my life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:06 AM
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My wife bought me a massage chair for my birthday. It's so great. Everybody just takes turns sitting in it. I didn't think the kids would like it but eight year old loves it and now toddler sits in it (while it's off) and tries to copy the happy faces everybody else makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 02:54 AM
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A sad tale to end my night. A baby, you wouldn't want. My God, their own mothers say this. And you call me a monster while you couldn't love your own child. My God my lord in heaven help me through these... What even are you? What then, what even, why are you even here? I guess go learn Greek my ex wife has those kids I failed learning Greek. They're going on vacation their soon, retardo virus slowing it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:11 AM
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If I walk down the alley shouting come take my wallet then it did just happen with my consent. If I walk down the straight and narrow with a knife in my hand giving you a side eye while I hold on to my shit did it just happen with my consent? Life is what you make it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 07:14 AM
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You make the real world. You live in the upside down
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 07:13 AM
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The bizarre of it is you live in the upside down and I'm telling you about the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 07:03 AM
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If the worst happens it happens. But not without my full knowledge and consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 07:02 AM
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Are you guiding him or trying to make his whims fulfilled? Happy is a fleeing moment you'll never catch, fulfillment is a job well done. I'm not sure what could be done if you start to wake up when your kids a teen. Tell him, do your best son, and I'll give you the best advice I can. Could you tell him I fucked up? Probably a bad idea. Father's are God's to children. Hmm. I guess tell him if he wants something he has to make it. Then cross your fingers that you started the right fire and he'll f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 06:39 AM
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Oh no these days they are serious porn addicts. But just think of what a "romance" novel turned into porn would look like? That's what they watch, in between they watch other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 06:07 AM
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Life is what we make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:59 AM
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Own your shit and stop drinking the piss. I don't care about you at all but you keep trying to get men with potential to pick up that bottle you drink from to this day and only so you can feel better about what you've done. Or failed to do. How much money did I get taken for? I've got the life I realized I had to make. You know the dream you should wish for as you wander like a ghost in the past? You should dream of who you would have become had your wife not been as good a woman as she was. Dre…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:57 AM
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She still needed you and you weren't their. You weren't. Sucks bro I know I've been that. I was that. Yet you aren't divorced somehow but I am. You fucked up. It's fine. We all do. Now own your shit and stop trying to get other guys to drink the piss so you can feel better. Funny I wonder if people would think you're the monster or I am? You know what you did wrong. You know how you failed. Now as Jesus said, once you know, stop doing it. Ah if only we knew earlier. We didn't. Now let's put down…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:37 AM
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Why in the world would you alienate your own children? Their are lots of us now, especially. We are forming good communities. We're all around you all the time. Loving our children and building a better world. Just come join in with your own will power. It's your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:20 AM
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She desperately needs you to tell her though. She needs you to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:18 AM
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Oh it's so much worse than you think. I've watched it several times now. Your vagina literally turns inside out as a child crowns. As the baby that grew inside of you as a part of you becomes one of us in this world she will tear you up and turn your vagina literally inside out. And the placenta that comes out after? The stuff of life. It's incredible and as bizarre and gross as it is, we all come from their, and it's the most beautiful and true thing their is. Another life. A life. Find a man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:17 AM
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Appreciate it but I was red pill aware before I met her, I'm aware. I want kids and I'm giving it a home run swing. I'll make my luck. The biggest issue is what I thought it would be. Do I really want to keep committing and investing in just her?. I'm not afraid of divorce, I'm not paralyzed by it, I am divorced already. If I somehow don't want to keep her around I won't. I'll make something else. But so far it's as great as it could be. Which is pretty great.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 05:11 AM
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Women want what they are told to want. My woman wants me because I've told her that it's what she wants. Understand hypoagency and have some freaking compassion for women. They didn't ask or choose to be born in this upside down clown world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 04:50 AM
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Dad goes to work, mom grows food in the back yard, and mom and dad make things work. Maybe you don't get nice clothes but you get love and family and theirs nothing worth more
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 04:48 AM
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No. This one is mine, body, soul, and mind. She belongs to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 04:47 AM
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Bad parents. We can choose though. We can choose to be not only good parents but great parents. Sometimes it's hard but life should be hard. An easy life means a weak life. An easy life is the life of the porn addicted squirt boy only loved by his vidya who will never have the soul joy of hearing his own children laugh. He'll never know the sheer joy of coming home after a crushing day of work to a two year old running straight to you arms out screaming dad and knowing no matter how tired you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 04:46 AM
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They stay at home with their mom and dad who teach them. They are raised by people who actually love and care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 04:04 AM
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The way our instincts work is you don't really care, until they are right their in your arms. Then you want them. Through our entire evolution we never had pills that would hormonally castrate women like a eunuch with his balls removed. So women would get big with a baby and soon be holding that baby, at which point her brain chemistry is altered forever and she finally reaches her final form. Level 9000. But yeah now we just got a horde of chemically castrated women to coomsume forever with nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:56 AM
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Women are hypoagents. They are reactive beings. They do not have the male drive to will and they do not have any will power. They simply can't create something from nothing and they are always led, if not by a man then by the media, by a teacher, and woe unto a girl with no leader they become desperate and throw themselves at anyone who will lead. It is not only ridiculous but incredibly cruel to expect a woman to be a man, to act like a man, and to try to force her to take your role. If you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:47 AM
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Sexually obsessed brutes trigger a girl's feral sexual nature like no other. That's what I'd be worried about should I have a daughter. Some barely literate sexually obsessed moron ruining her life cause she thinks with the little brain between her thighs. It's a huge risk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:29 AM
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My ex wife made all the money in my first marriage. I used to bug her to pay off my student loans but she wouldn't. But hey in my current marriage I've already paid off current wife's student loans. Things just work better if the man makes more cause that caring kind of love only flows down. Man - women - children - puppies. So guys should just ignore all the uni girls (for marriage of course they are great for fwbs) and go marry a poor girl who looks up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:27 AM
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You mean I can't impress a girl with my karma farming? I got gold once. Made my day I was floating on cloud nine. At least ten girls had threesomes with me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:24 AM
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True. But a good marriage with a lot of awesome kids is a truly good life. And it is within reach for many. Yeah it sucks that the boomers and gen x raised a generation of desperate sluts but that's the women we got. If they can be brainwashed with media their no reason a strong man can't just brainwash them back. Heck my wife was a pink haired retarded lefty slut when I met her. Now she's a trad mom home schooling our boys who cries when she thinks about what she used to be like. Heck she's eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:23 AM
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You don't want babies? They're the best thing ever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:13 AM
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So just go marry some poor girl and tell her to quit her job so she can make a lot of babies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:12 AM
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Why would you ever send your kids to government daycare?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:09 AM
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What if my hobby is posting on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:02 AM
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If you've got the know how of how to and how important it is to use whatever it takes to protect your family then why not go for it? I think most men do want wives and families. Now we know how to get it. So let's go guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:50 AM
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Oh my God will someone who knows how down vote this bot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:48 AM
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What everyone means but are unable to say or even clearly think is that men are having sex with women they aren't married to or going to marry. Just replace what they say with that and it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:47 AM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:46 AM
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That's just what I was thinking. If I have a daughter, and the wife is really hoping the next one will be a girl, theirs no way I'm letting her wander around a public high school off on her own. Hell no I know what guys are out their.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:46 AM
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The story is much worse. She was engaged the whole time in an LDR to a chubby engineering student who lived several states away. He would even call her on the nights she was spending with her guy friend (me) in this sad attempt to mate guard. She didn't really deserve a good partnership. Though yeah I do hope she's gotten her life together. Heck I haven't seen her in six years at this point. I did like her though don't get that wrong. She was kind to me at a time I very much needed it. We both w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:38 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:34 AM
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Oh!! You girls you'll be so sorry!! I'm going mgtow now! It's gonna be nothing but porn and jacking it every day for this guy. You'll be so mad. I'm gonna post everywhere from now until the sun burns out all about how little I care that you just swiped left on me. I'm gonna tell every girl I find everywhere online all about just how sorry and sad you are gonna be!! But not me. No your see now I've got all my money, all my precious money, and so much porn, gross sticky socks everywhere, and I'm j…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:33 AM
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I'm very tall, fit, a smooth operator, a gentleman in the streets and a freak in the sheets, you can show me off to your friends, and I know my way around the back alleys and the fancy pants dinners. I'm like a chameleon who you'll be secretly afraid of but intrigued by. Oh and I've left a lot of tears in my wake. Lots of angry girls who just didn't have what it takes to lock this guy down. Now the important question. Do you got what it takes? Probably not but I'll let you take a swing if you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:16 AM
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Oh yeah she totally thought she wasn't like the other girls. Why most of her friends were guys and she just got along with guys better. Plus extra lol unlike any other girl she wanted to have threesomes and was bi. So stunning and brave! Shockingly she was just like every common pickme. I really did like her though she was sweet. Just not anything worth committing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:12 AM
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Modern women defect on marriage as soon as they possibly can. They defect on marriage at the very first opportunity. They then continue to defect. Men have started to defect back. Women defect by being sluts waiting around for Jeremy Meeks next booty call rather than pairing up with an rmv matched marriage material man. Men see this and defect back by not bothering to become marriage material, which women see at a lack of quality guys. It's the prisoners dilemma. Now we can break it by learning …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:49 AM
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All I ask for is a cute young girl who enjoys sex with an aggressive dominant guy. How is that asking for too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:38 AM
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You can get better women if you make the first move though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:35 AM
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What makes you think she didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:35 AM
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A lot of guys who spin plates are looking for love. In fact they want it very badly and casually dating many women is just a way to learn game, gain confidence, and have affection while searching for a permanent partner. The guys I've known who only want sex and as much as they can get have all spent time in prison at this point for statutory rape. One of them last I heard is homeless cause his mom kicked him out and basically insane, yet I have no doubt he'll find another young girl to try to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:23 AM
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We just call that community property here in the states
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:07 AM
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If only that guy had known what I knew about that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:07 AM
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No we're still married. I married my ex wife because she told my sister to tell me that if I didn't marry her she'd break up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:01 AM
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Also women don't like men who talk like teenage girl fag hags
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:50 PM
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I'm still lost but the doom and gloom is mostly because commitment is broken. Think of it like the prisoners dilemma from economic game theory. Women are defecting as soon as they can and often. Men have no choice but to defect back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:26 PM
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I'm an old guy and I've been around the block. Women think they won't like it but they do. They think they don't want to hear about your exs but they act better and give you better sex if you casually chat about all the shit you did with other girls. Talk about it a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:24 PM
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Some of us can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:23 PM
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What's the trend? Can you say it in fewer words? In not gonna read between the five hundred lines that have now been removed anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:48 PM
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I have no idea what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:47 PM
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Maybe stop hanging out with trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:42 PM
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Deezgusting. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:41 PM
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Besides their is no rule that you have to have a magic ball to see into the future and somehow realize that you are "wasting" someone else's time. You also have no requirement not to waste their time anyway. So many people just want to skip to the end while dating but that's not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:27 PM
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That is a huge amount of lines to try to read between. How about you just say what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:23 PM
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That is just the nice way of saying that they don't want to commit to you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:22 PM
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Go ahead and date a guy your own age then. Why do you care if some guys want to play the field until they are in their thirties and then settle down with a younger girl? What business is it if yours? I mean what a ridiculous shaming screed we have here. Men must behave the way you want them to right now or they are immature!!! Waaaah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:11 PM
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But you'd never know unless you gave me a try
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:19 PM
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I trust that you understand your finances better than I do. I was just pointing out my finances and what my wife told me. I don't think money is that big of a deal so long as you have enough of it. After that other things are more important
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:19 PM
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For sure. The best ever fwb I ever had had some guy buy her tickets to five finger death punch and then she took me. He was so mad it was hilarious. The thing is though she was honestly confused and really upset that he was so angry. Then when he finally told her that all the attention and shared times and stuff they had together as friends was just cause he wanted to get in her pants she was distraught. Like she came over and cried about it and asked me if all men care about is sex. Of course I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 08:10 PM
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I married my wife so I could get the tax break, which is huge, and so she could get all my benefits. Which are huge. She said she didn't think it mattered but a few years later she told me that when I told her we're getting married (just did it at the court house) it really changed her whole mindset. If you buy the house and whatever other stuff now and never intermingle any free assets your boyfriend won't get half if you divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 08:07 PM
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How do you know you wouldn't be interested in a little intimacy with me? I'm pretty attractive and charming. You didn't even give me a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:50 PM
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I dunno do you? Do you write huge screeds online about how you'll never depend on a man and you can't trust men and blah blah blah? Trust fund girls are great for starter marriages. My first wife was one as well. Now sure she still has all that money but I did get half the house she bought us. Community property baby! Plus the kids from that marriage will be set, especially so once grandpa dies, and she's the only one who had any kids!! She doesn't even want child support wtf would she do with i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:49 PM
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Hahaha I love it! But don't tell him one day you'll have sex just say I wonder what sex would be like? You've got to keep him thinking that you're not having sex otherwise he might wise up. "He's just my good friend" is what you say about that guy you spend the night with getting drunk and dancing. Then say stuff like I sure would like to go to this concert but I need two tickets. Then cry about how awful guys are. When he buys the tickets for you of course you just take your good friend who you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:45 PM
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My advice is great. I've tested it extensively
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:18 PM
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Ah yes the old I don't trust my husband and would never depend on him but I'm totally committed argument
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:18 PM
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She's obsessed with having an exit strategy and obsessed with making sure she never depends on or fully trusts her husband. On the bright side since she makes money and already has a foot out the door she sounds like she'd be an excellent starter wife. A lot like my ex wife
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:56 PM
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You just have the adult dependant instead
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:49 PM
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What do you mean indicated? I was explaining relationship dynamics it has nothing to do with any individual
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:49 PM
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A lot of women are porn addicts and want to feel like they can please a woman like a guy can. And you can use one girl to rope in a different girl to have sex with the other girl. It's like another user said it's a cheating loophole though if you're already just a guy who cheats when he wants to the wife will try to arrange threesomes so she feels like she's got more control. Women know they don't deserve monogamy and don't deserve the good husbands they have so they'll arrange ways for him to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:47 PM
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He deered when he should have dared
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:38 PM
1

Perhaps initially but once he starts failing shit tests the shit tests just increase in frequency and strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:35 PM
0

At some point in every marriage you will reach an impasse. Where one side has veto power. You may not even notice it because your hubs will relent. Because you are in charge. It's not a healthy dynamic as the caring kind of love only flows down. So you can't have that for your husband but he can have it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:34 PM
-1

If we mentally castrate and abuse all the good young men would you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:31 PM
28

In my thirties I tried to date woman my same age. They were rude, entitled, demanding, often already had children, would complain about their ex's, and expected so much from me. They were not fun to date at all. It was a horrible experience. At the same time I discovered that much younger women wanted to date me as well. They were fun, full of life, just wanted to hang and have a great time, didn't have kids, were happy to drink and play and party, weren't all bitter and jaded, plus when I decid…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:29 PM
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She won't feel safe if she successfully 'tames' him by successfully shit testing him. Because she'll know deep down that he's weak. If he successfully passes her shit tests and shows that she can't control him or tame him then she relaxes for awhile because she just trusts that whatever happens he'll handle it. So she may feel safe that she can boss him around and that he won't go step out but she'll feel very unsafe on a primal level because he's weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:10 PM
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we're both unsure whether we want to have any children I know it doesn't feel this way but right now you are in charge of your marriage. It isn't equal, you're in charge. Test it out if you don't believe me. Their is always one person who is ultimately in charge. They have veto power.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:07 PM
1

She'll start to feel invisible and sexless yes. So over time she'll become open to other men and probably cheat. This is a different process than dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:06 PM
-4

What I'm hearing from this is that you don't trust your husband to be in charge. That you already have an exit strategy planned and that, in fact, you would never trust any man enough to depend on him. That you will always have one foot out the door. I suggest men avoid women like this for marriage. In your marriage how many children do you have so far? How many are you planning since you're in charge?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:46 PM
4

The betafication process occurs due to the man failing shit tests and ceding control over the relationship to the woman. Women can not not shit test as its not a conscious process hence the only solution is for men to pass. Alternatively I've seen many times where a man discovers or realizes he married a slut. At which point he unconsciously checks out of the relationship and also cedes control to the woman. But this occurs not because he is failing shit tests, though he begins to fail them, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:36 PM
4

I wish they wouldn't. Have a little class ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:31 PM
2

Imagine being one of the women who brag that their children have their last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:30 PM
1

Best to just pretend you're very poor so that the sluts don't start getting hoe fantasies. I had this great slut who was very into me but once she got a look at my bank account one day she turned from slut to hoe. Started telling me her plans on how "we" would be spending my money. Had to drop her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:22 PM
7

Women always tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:19 PM
1

False. Though I can see how a woman could think this is what is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:08 PM
4

Can I just make up a false history and then expect people to argue with me about it as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:23 PM
2

Women have decided sex comes first so now you may go on one date, some guys even go on three dates, but sex better start happening right away otherwise you know the girl isn't interested. I prefer sex first then we can date after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:22 PM
4

Sure are a lot of people who are. I think it's time we all start working on a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:20 PM
1

I used to think this way but then had sex with a few girls right away. Now I think that if we wanted a moral society we would look down on all non marital sex. That would require doing away with the idea that somehow a woman's blessing is what brings morality upon sex though. I can't see many even recognizing that they view women that way much less overcoming that moral belief. What does fall in love even mean? Usually it just means having sex and the sex creates bonding hormones we call love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:05 PM
1

It's a real cute date idea. Women like fun cute dates
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:54 PM
1

Women were always able to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:53 PM
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The point of the name change is to signify the woman leaving her father's house and becoming a part of her husband's house. Since women now are all married to the government instead I suggest all women take the last name uncle sam.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:53 PM
0

Good for you but I'm thinking about this from the man's perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:44 AM
-1

All women are "bisexual" which is a nonsense word. But yeah to arrange such a thing would take a lot of work, and the girl would need to feel it just happened, as with everything. Of course you'd need to be rubbing on each other as well and kissing, all the while wishing the other one would grant you the validation of saying I love you. Plus what would the sex mean? Most threesomes are just you using one girl to bang the girl you actually want to bang while she gets to participate in the presele…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:34 AM
2

It didn't when divorce was wisely looked down on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:15 AM
2

I was gonna say this. Just make it with your willpower. But hey, you already know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:13 AM
1

I'm a tad older then the guys here and pretty far down my path. I'm just pointing out to you that when you tell your story, you tell young men the story of the guy who gets what they want. Not all of what they want but many of these guys have nothing. They are not going to feel good having you lecture them to not be like the guy who got so much of what they want. Besides I've come to the conclusion that you are either broken young, or you're not. They aren't going to wish dark triad traits unto …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:41 AM
1

Very good move. I'm torn myself on this now. I did not marry young (though I wanted to) but many of my friends and family did. I only hear the man's side of it and I hear their regrets, but they don't know what it's like actually being in the game for a very very long time. It's uber depressing and you get set back a long way when you finally start building a life. On the plus side I know women very well. I've known a great deal of them. And when I did settle down, as I'm married myself, I was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:31 AM
1

I'm just the idiot in charge. I'm not sure what you're saying to me still. You gave your body to a narc, you gave him children, heck you even gave him a bunch of money. But you think guys shouldn't be narcs? Why in the world should we not be? Your entire story is about how we should. I guess I'm just too dense to understand how guys shouldn't do what gets them all the things they want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:25 AM
1

"I'm dating with the intent of finding a good match for a relationship," "I'm just seeing where things go" Strongly doubt that I dunno what to tell you women opt out of dating for marriage at the very first chance they get and move into the game. Most guys don't like this but we can't control what young women choose to do. All we can do is what we are doing. Play the game women choose, but to win. Don't like it? Don't opt out of dating for marriage and into the game. Why in the world would men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:23 AM
1

Sorry you lost me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:18 AM
2

How do I know what I'm looking for with that woman in particular? Maybe she's a manic pixie girl so all I want is for her to spin in my orbit for a bit. Maybe she's a better quality of girl so I'll want her to be my girlfriend? How am I going to know until I know her well enough to make that decision? And even if I do decide one particular girl is not worth moving up to girlfriend then why, if I like her as a fwb type thing, would I ever ruin that good time? She'll do it eventually or maybe I ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:17 AM
1

Because it would sound autistic if I were to be completely up front about what I want verbally. It would demonstrate a massive lack of social acuity. WHY? Why be potentially misleading if this is the women's whole game as well? That's the game. Playing gets you the intimacy you crave. Perhaps you crave something permanent so you can start building together, but women betray that at the very first chance they get as soon as they can. So we play the game women choose. We just do it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:10 AM
2

You mitigate your approach as well. You don't just walk up to a girl who smiled at you and say "let's have two point five kids" or say "I want my weiner in you". You walk up to her and start a conversation about something unrelated to your goal. Something she's wearing, something in the news, some hobby, anything at all. Then you proceed from that conversation. If it goes well then you can say, you're cute come get some lunch with me. She'll respond and you'll respond like normal neurotypical hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:06 AM
1

I wonder how badly covering your face will damage that non verbal communication?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:02 AM
5

I just want to see where this goes is completely clear and totally a true statement. I like how things are and depending on how things go, things will change. Where things get off the rails is when women lie to themselves and think that "let's see how this goes" means that the guy is going to magically change from a dirt bag into a husband. For the rest of us how is a man supposed to know how things will go? Will she show herself to be a devoted woman deserving of more commitment? Will she be up…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:01 AM
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You're fooling yourself if you think these women don't know exactly what is on offer. You use fun questions to get to know them better not to get the plate spinning, but to keep it spinning longer. The plate is already spinning by that point. As I said don't hate the player hate the game. It wasn't a game I wanted to play initially, I wanted marriage and family. But all the girls were off playing this other game. They all chose to go play this other game. So eventually I just went and started pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:56 AM
2

I was sexless once for almost a year. Like ten months. I was trying for a year so I could spend that time working on myself and my own life but I couldn't handle being alone that long. By the end of it I was going mad, constantly thinking about a desire for touch and closeness, intimacy. I had the option so I took it with one of the girls I knew. If it makes you feel any better I still sometimes think about that girl. I wonder if she's dead by now. I mean if you never had sex before you got marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:24 AM
1

You spent too much time insulting me and not enough time splaining things for my wee man brain. So men shouldn't do what worked on you because...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:13 AM
1

The women trick themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:11 AM
1

This is just the women are wonderful thing. Women do indeed just want someone to lay down the pipe quite often. They don't want commitment, frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:10 AM
1

But everyone starts as a stranger. At what point do you draw the line from sex first to marriage first?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:04 AM
1

What if we just say that women find preselection, confidence, and game (DEER is a decent explanation) attractive? All women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:03 AM
2

How do you even get to know anything about her until long long after sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:01 AM
1

Vet over time to make sure she can handle it. Why would I care? She'll handle it until the plate breaks. have one FWB that you If I've only got one then one that one breaks I have none. Best to have several. Ask questions, and observe closely for any clingy behavior or any doubts Good advice! What caused that clingy behavior? Use that in your hot cold game. If she's getting too many doubts then she's making you feel anxious and worried, so tell her how much you care about her and want her in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:00 AM
0

So you banged, married, and bore at least one child for a narcissistic man... but you think men shouldn't adopt as many dark triad traits as they possibly can? Why shouldn't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:49 AM
1

I banged some girl musician whose name I can't even remember. I could go look up one of her songs cause I can remember the lyrics. Nobody cares. I think I might have told the wife at some point but I can't remember if I did or not. She was just a chubby drunk girl at the bar with her friends who wanted a guy for the night and I was their wanting a girl. Then some arguments and nothing. I think girls brag about it because women think that who bangs them is some kind of representation of themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:44 AM
2

If it's that easy why you a fool?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 07:42 AM
1

Oh who banned you getting to do that you want to do? Was it God 🙌🙌🙏?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 07:39 AM
1

I see we've spotted a lobster in the wild
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 07:38 AM
1

she would subconsciously think that she doesn't respect herself if she's with someone that she doesn't respect. How do you think you get her lowly 'respect'? Why would any man even care if a lowly lovely cutie pie is hoisted up on her pedestal and deigns behind her curtain of despair to tell a man, I respect you. They do say it but they only imagine they are up their, while they are two feet between sucking a cock to live and pretending they got their job on merit. In what world would I want a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 06:39 AM
0

It's beautiful. And she'll feel so good. I'll wait until she's just about asleep, and I am too, before I crush her with the truth. After she's given me her body, cause I fucked her mind long before, I'll whisper right before she falls asleep in my arms, "I love you". I'll even mean it. How sad is that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 06:34 AM
1

That's not my name
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 04:43 AM
0

You would laugh and giggle in glee if only you were that girl. You'd smile and close your eyes. But yes you'll metoo any poor boy who tries to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 04:42 AM
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Guys just imagine women have dread though. They really don't cause they are always just waiting to see what happens to them. Guys know it, the girls don't actually know that we know that they will get approached. Even when they are approached. But hell yes. You want equality girls? You want men to say we will. They have it now. I can pull dread just the same. Men can dread fifty times as bad because women sit back and wait for it, while we go make it. Like everything, men do it better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 04:24 AM
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The one girl we commit to for real gets a better split between the bottom and the top. She gets top feels maybe thirty percent of the time. Why should any woman who knows better want to participate in a relationship where she'll be continuously miserable? What choice do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:54 AM
1

Well you have your tells you give yourself away. We all do. Dad still in China? Making your life awesome? I bet. Why do you think your DH would lose his mind? He doesn't know? He didn't just assume? I'll admit we never want to accept it. Men want to own and knowing somebody else was using our shit and our shit didn't stop it, doesn't even make a time machine to go stop it. Do you even want to be here? I can only go by what I know. Oh and even what I've lived. I do think girls do more over time, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:48 AM
1

Game always works. It's fun, it's a happy time where the girl knows or thinks she knows she can relax. I could even run game on you right here and tell you exactly what I'm going to do and then go do it. It's incredible and just such a laugh. But I mean I'm not an asshole alpha guy I'm just some guy with a tiny ween I've been told, plus I'm very insecure. What can I do about it? I feel bad about myself and for some reason I take it out on our lovely girls. Won't someone help me? Must be hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:31 AM
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Now get in the game and move to that line. The line where you give her what she wants or you refuse. That's where the dance takes place. We can set the line in our favor. The line can be do I buy a grand vacation this year or do I go camping in the backyard. The line can be does she go find a stupid young girl to "hang out" or does she just give you surprise 3am BJs while you're all asleep? Women want the line over on their side and men want it over on our side. Things get worse cause women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:06 AM
1

Hmm let me consider. I could date less attractive women who get bitchy and treat me poorly. Or I could take a few steps to alter my mindset and free my masculinity, I can stop holding myself back so women don't feel as badly about themselves, and get much better looking women, younger women, who do all kinds of things just to please me. What a dilemma. Sure she'll feel bad at times. But she'll also feel much better at other times. Ride the roller coaster
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:59 AM
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Over time they all tell. The more you present yourself as a fuck boy the more they tell quicker. The more they brag. I think it's because you are presenting yourself as someone all about sex so they mirror the behavior. Honestly I'm not sure which I would prefer. For the women I did not commit to I wish they would have just kept their mouths closed about their past guys. I don't need to hear it. But for my wife? I'm glad to hear all of it because that is part of how she got to where she was when…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:41 AM
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Game works on all women. It works even when they know all about game. It works when you smile and laugh and tell the girl exactly what you're going to do, and then you do it. It's like a magic trick. You still get the squeels of delight. AWALT. Their are no magical women who are just men only they have t&a. They're all women. At to the rest of it? Would you rather be the guy building up a life alone thinking about his money, all his precious money, all that gold. But whose future ex wife is busy…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:13 AM
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Oh I was just thinking the guy must be really insecure to take steps to make his dating and relationship experiences better in a way that women don't approve of. Real men ask women what is OK for them to do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:37 AM
3

I do wish women had a little more class. Some things are best left unsaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:36 AM
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Compatible? The parts fit together. But you know the thing about dread game? I was considering this from the perspective of a woman and yeah I have to agree. Only a man with a little weiner would use dread game 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:30 AM
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I agree with the first part but this part: we absolute, positively, NEVER discuss our past sex lives with an ex with a new bf. And we super duper never ever disclose penis size Isn't true. I really wish it was. But women do in fact talk about their sex lives, they proudly brag about their sexcapades like they are a guy, and they even talk about the guys dick size. Like seriously. It's super cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:22 AM
2

Did something like that happen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:11 AM
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A man wrote that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:01 AM
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Dread game is not abusive in any conceivable way. It's just a way to stoke a fire in your woman by demonstrating that you've got options. You still go back home with her and she feels both a little insecure and that she's winning at the same time. No need to get all aggressive and beat a girl up though you might want to consider picking her up and tossing her around like a rag doll especially during sex. You should be able to pick her up, throw her over your shoulder, and carry her around. You s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:57 AM
1

It does eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:39 AM
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Should I feel better about myself that a hot girl guys used to pay to jam their weiner inside her dated me for nothing and then tried to get me to commit? You want a hint as to why? Because I'm a masculine and dominant man not a larp who thinks her permission is something I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:35 AM
0

Just make them do it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:26 AM
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I meant dominate her like a man not larp like some repressed guy asking his mommy for permission to pretend he's a dominate man. God you redditfags are as bad as the trad Christians with their pathetic servant leadership. Extra hilarious that you then go on to lecture about the proper way to get permission to pretend you're dominate. Dominate her so that even if you don't give her any money she calls you to ask you if it's OK for her to do whatever skuzzy retard shit she's thinking about doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:25 AM
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I don't got anything against whores I just don't feel a need to sugar coat it. Heck I dated a girl who spent her youth as a hooker. She got paid. And she was pretty fun and a super cutie. It's more respectable than the sluts IMHO and I married a slut. Pretty rare to find any woman that isn't a slut or a whore these days. I mean if you're dating and stuff why not just bang the f out of her, dominate her physically, start playing fun mad mind games to get her brain all twisted, then order her to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 11:47 PM
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Why don't you just marry her? Then you'd get to use her as a tax write off and those memories will be part of your shared life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 11:43 PM
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Ah I forget how much taxes single guys pay. Get married and have a bunch of kids those taxes go waaaaaay down. But what a bit over $2k a month? How often does the whore play girlfriend? I could see this being a good trade off compared to spending five days a week picking up girls to keep the plates spinning. Hmm I wonder if the girls realize in the future they'll be looking at telling their husband they spent their youth as a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 11:29 PM
1

That's it? You're only out 30k a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 11:19 PM
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I'd be more interested in hearing how it's wrong for a 30 year old to be with an 18 year old, if he marries her and takes care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 11:00 PM
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This is the quality of posts the mods let through their automod filter...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:50 PM
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The way of worshiping a woman's vagina tingles and feelings is the way of the beasts. It's just acting like an animal. It results in mass child abuse and neglect every time. It creates mass poverty. I guess periodically men forget women's true feral nature and start worshiping em. Over and over all through history. I'm not sure if we will move into greater polygamy next. I imagine we will as do many men just check out. I've already got children from multiple women but not at the same time. Not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:49 PM
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The fertility cult always loses because it has no truth in it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:38 PM
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In upside down land everyone is confused because they were taught the exact opposite of the truth. I assumed you'd be more aware of this based on that username.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:37 PM
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You don't understand at all. You still think women going from guy to guy her whole life is monogamy. I think you're stuck thinking women are wonderful and they aren't. They are simple minded and easily controlled by the head between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:19 PM
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Women's instincts result in mass child abuse, neglect, and misery. The delusional fertility cult of feminism is a failed experiment every time it is tried yet our fallen nature keeps putting us right back in thinking women's vagina tingles are holy things that she must obey. It's a nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:17 PM
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Nope it's commiting at all. Commiting at all is low value behavior to a woman's feral instincts. So if you commit just cheat on her and run her emotions through the wringer until she understands it's her fault. Cheat again maybe every five years or three years or so depending on how complacent she's getting where she starts to wonder if she could do better. If you want to cheat at other times hide it but make sure she finds out every so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:08 PM
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No the poly suffix means multiple. Not at the same time. You're just stuck right here: Women’s instincts are good for the gene pool, the species, and children And this is totally false as well. Women's instincts are terrible. Women's instincts think a high value man is just somebody with preselection, confidence, and game. You can be a total trainwreck of a person, homeless in despair, a burgeoning alcoholic, destitute and hopeless but if you have those three things? Women instinctually think yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:05 PM
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It's serial polyandry. Monogamy is one pair. Women want many many many men, but only one at a time. You just don't want to admit that women's natural instinct is terrible for everyone. And no it's her testing out her feminine powers by seeing who she can get to commit. As soon as you commit at all her lizard brain notifies her subconscious that this man isn't the highest value man she can get to commit because he's committed already. And the highest value man won't commit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:50 PM
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No they don't. They just want to get fucked when they are teenagers and that's it. They don't even want commitment. They just want validation. Then they want commitment from the highest value man they can get but they can't figure out who they can get to commit so they do exactly what I said. Which is to go from man to man testing out to see if they can get him to commit. As soon as they get one to commit they start to lose interest. Him committing is a sign of his low value. So then they move o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:47 PM
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Women don't want monogamy though until they are old and busted or until they become a single mom. Before that they want serial polyandry. Monogamy is the compromise that women break right away as soon as they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:17 PM
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My observations and experience is different. When young and at their peak women simply want sex with attractive men with preselection. But only one man at a time. Then they want to continue dating typically only one man at a time as they try out different men to see what kind of man they can get to commit. If you commit then she'll lose interest during this time because now she wants to see if their are other men she can get to commit. This isn't monogamy. Young women clearly don't want monogamy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:16 PM
1

The medium where you get what you want you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:01 PM
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Women don't want monogamy they want serial polyandry. And women frequently do not want any relationship at all with the men they sleep with. They just want sex. They avoid commitment minded men and choose men with preselection who will give them exactly what they want. Sex. Hence women break the monogamy deal right away as soon as they can. So women don't deserve monogamy anymore. It's not very complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:01 PM
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Nope. Women break the deal in their teenage years but then they expect men to still uphold their part of the deal. I don't think so. Women don't want monogamy anyway until they are old and used up having wasted many of their best years. So once the tables turn and women want monogamy men should just tell women OK I'll commit my resources to you but you don't get to expect monogamy from me. You don't deserve it. And women agree because deep down they know they don't deserve it. They know to the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:47 PM
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Yet being an attractive man who offers commitment gets you shitty results with mediocre women who don't give you what you want and often act bitchy. But being an attractive man (and less attractive because I didn't start acting red pill until my thirties) who sleeps around, doesn't offer commitment, leads women on, and only dangles commitment in front of a girl gets you very attractive women who are super attentive and try super hard to please you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:43 PM
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You mean by sleeping around with attractive men when they are young and fertile?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:27 PM
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No women no longer deserve monogamy because they broke the monogamy deal by engaging in serial polyandry. Men are no longer under any obligation to not simply engage in polygamy back. Deep down women know this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:25 PM
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The lizard brain wants more than the ability it wants a man who does it as well. What good are the sexy guys genes if he doesn't spread them around? More guys should cheat just to see the results. They won't, but I think they should. Women don't deserve monogamy anymore anyway and they know it deep down. Also don't confuse your imperative with my own. You may desire some "quality of connection" but I desire attractive fertile and obedient women. Besides my results speak for themselves. Being the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:22 PM
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Glad you learned. Though where you say you didn't deserve it I would argue that you did and do in fact deserve it. People get what they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:02 PM
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No their is something to actually doing the act that women find attractive in their lizard brain. Plus as I said women don't deserve monogamy anymore. Maybe some super incredibly rare women do but most modern women do not. And in fact you can just get them to agree to a one way open relationship cause most of them know that they are trash. The me you call a hvm had a mediocre dating experience. I dated 6s and 7s. The me you call a lvm had an awesome dating experience with many options to choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 06:59 PM
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What red flags did the cheater guy have that you overlooked?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 06:53 PM
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I've had lots and lots of options to cheat that I didn't take. I only started cheating when I decided women didn't deserve monogamy anymore. In fact I think I mostly did it just to hurt the girl and rub in her face that I could. For some reason women are highly attracted to cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 06:50 PM
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Pretty good reason to leave. Why date him in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 06:29 PM
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The mods need to turn the automod off. It's ruining this place. Nobody can submit any posts cause the mods feel the need to pre-screen everything. Just turn it off and let people report posts that are against the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:39 PM
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Depends. I'm an older millennial and my experience has been that younger millennial and gen z girls are pretty desperate for a masculine figure. Probably cause the gen x slackers didn't bother to try to fix any of the hell the boomers unleashed so their are a metric ton of girls growing up with single moms and in broken homes. Their age mates aren't very masculine since they are raised egalitarian. So a lot of them try to date older guys. A lot. I had no shortage of very young girls to date in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:36 PM
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Does it matter? Most threads just get blocked by the automod and never even show up anymore. The mods are way too busy trying to ban people for being "uncivil" or hunting for secret incels to bother allowing posts through.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:14 PM
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We'd just say that you found a guy who passes shit tests. Good for you. I wouldn't feel too bad about cheating on the long distance guy though. Long distance relationships aren't even real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 02:37 PM
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Oh it's that? I'm not gonna watch it then. Now we get exposed to millions of people and if we focus on the worst hell world in comes despair. I already got enough of that. No more. I can't even avoid it online it's everywhere. I say no to your despair and I create a great life with happy little kids instead. Tomorrow I will wake up to a great life with wonderful little kiddos, we will laugh and play, I'll take care of my shit, I'm comfortable with my wife because I know she won't blow my and my …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:26 AM
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Hmm OK I'll check it out after this one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:07 AM
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Wow. What the fuck could have driven him to straight up murder? We got so much better ways of control than murder. My God we made the entire red pill just so guys could have a wife and a family without even hardly using our strengths, so we don't have to go kill each other anymore. I guess he didn't have the ability to contain his muscular strength anymore. My gosh is the future just going to be the most manipulative and emotionless men winning and winning. We just can't stop winning. And when a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:05 AM
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Imagine having that guys kind of mentality, but now you want to make your marriage work. I'm still watching some story but it just doesn't make sense. Let's be honest here finding a girl to bang isn't a hard thing to do. If you want to cheat on your wife this is not something that is difficult to do. No reason to kill over it. Family annihilators... Hmm. You say this while the overwhelming amount of divorce is from the women. Bring in the guns. I don't disagree with you though. I dunno this guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 06:47 AM
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Hold on I'm not sure who Scott Peterson is. I'll go look it up. Brb
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 06:06 AM
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Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:53 AM
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Well I guess it didn't work out so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:32 AM
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While this part: Think about, those who cheat, but chose not to leave their significant other, don't really believe they are good enough to strike out on their own. Is mostly true I can take an issue with it. The male desire for polygamy can mean we cheat or step out even though everything is fine in the monogamous relationship. But that's not really important here. I mean it isn't what I'm interested in chatting about with my reply. How did you realize that you were being selfish? You saw the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:17 AM
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Is kissing really cheating? Maybe straying but I don't think I'd call that cheating. Testing the water
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:53 AM
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Did your ex and that other guys ex end up in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:52 AM
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Trust your gut and play her first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:49 AM
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I felt suspicious but I sorta went through life in a fog just doing what I was told to do. At the time I was at university and we lived together while I also worked full time. So I had almost no time at home. At first I found a receipt she left out on our table where she had bought two orange juices at the mall. I asked her why she bought two and she said she was just really thirsty. Later I forgot to bring my packed lunch with me to school so after school I stopped by home before going to work …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:40 AM
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I think cheaters fall into two categories. The first group wants to be caught on some level because they are just too cowardly or lazy or whatever to just break up. Or they lie to themselves and think the other person might change. The second group are just not capable of monogamy and cheat all the time. They only get into a faux monogamous relationship because they want the benefits of one while they just keep doing what they are doing without a great deal of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:21 AM
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How did you stop being selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:18 AM
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My first ever girlfriend is the first one who cheated on me. She was two years older than me, she was a drunk at 21, her mother was an Irish drunk, she lost a hundred pounds just so I'd date her, and later her best friend told me she had been stalking me for months. Then I moved in with her anyway. The second woman who cheated I knew at twenty eight I should break up with her. She told me all about what a slut she had been. Having sex with many random guys from bars whose names she didn't even k…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:17 AM
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How is a ten year age gap gigantic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 03:14 AM
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No what it means is that the girls in the 18 - 29 age group are dating guys in the 30+ age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 02:48 AM
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Hahaha. Hopefully she got on accutane and stopped being a slut. Good on you for having a positive attitude!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:21 AM
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A whore is a girl who sells her body for money. A slut or a skank is a girl who gives it away for free. So I think you meant they were skanks. And hey is a acne really that bad? I had acne when I was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:11 AM
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We all got choices to make and I respect yours. I like living with a girl though. They really spruce up the place plus I'm really bad at cooking over medium eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:09 AM
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Ouch. Well glad you found the manosphere. Lots of good info their and you can equip yourself better if you ever want to give marriage another go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:04 AM
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How long had your relationship been in a dead bedroom by that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:59 AM
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Yeah it can be a heated subject. Or even bring up emotional pain people may have from being cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:58 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:51 AM
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Did it end up working out? You know it would have been interesting if the OP had asked how many people have been the other man or the other woman as well. Just to see what anecdotes people have about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:50 AM
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Did he mean they were literally whores or did he actually mean they were skanks and sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:49 AM
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Did you end up getting together with the guy cheating on his girlfriend? Or did he keep her around?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:45 AM
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Ouch. I imagine that hurt right in the ego for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:44 AM
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It can be amusing to date and then just casually call a girl out on this behavior. Just laugh and ask how bad dog you treat him? And watch her hamster fall of the wheel. If you don't and you go white knight you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:43 AM
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I'm a man. I've been cheated on by two women I lived with. I've lived with five women so forty percent. I've cheated on two women myself, one I lived with and another whom I had been dating for two years. When I was cheated on I was concerned with figuring out why, what the red flags I overlooked were, how to recognize them and other red flags better, and what actions I can take to prevent getting cheated on again. The first time I cheated on a girl I totally didn't care about her at all anymore…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 11:45 PM
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Your concern trolling is endearing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 11:34 PM
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Sixteen times sixteen will still be true even if no one believes it. Even if everyone is taught from birth that sixteen times sixteen is 257. If everyone is taught two plus two equals whatever you want it to, cause you can do as you wilt, all that happens is everyone makes poor choices, the power stops working, and your water comes out of your faucet dirty while the guy who knows how to fix it dies without any children alone in a six bedroom house he thinks is worth a million dollars. The truth …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:35 AM
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Pattern recognition isn't something that is invented or created by men. It is just the recognition of patterns created or invented by God, or you could say that just exist. You can't create music that pretends a fake pattern, start having babies listen to it in the womb, and now the non pattern man pretended to create is now real because the baby turned man now nods his head because he pretends to hear a pattern. What I'm saying is patterns aren't something we create. They are something we recog…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:01 AM
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Is two plus two useful? Or is it true? Is their any difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 04:57 AM
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Their are artists that make music with certain discordant chords. Or play them backwards. And the whole album is like this. Take the album closer colder by faultline for example. I can't imagine that anyone could listen to music like that growing up and somehow not see classical music as beautiful. It has harmony. I'm no musician and I'm tone deaf. But I've watched a lot of podcasts from talented musicians and they say that beatiful music is inborn and everyone can hear it. They don't say it's h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 04:47 AM
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Because it's not the stuff or the money it's the person that has the willpower to create the situation where he has the stuff. That willpower can be used to do other things than acquiring money or stuff. So maybe it's the willpower that makes him high value. The ability to impose his will onto the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 04:04 AM
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I'm not going to lose another family. If I thought that I could I never would have moved from plate spinning back into marriage. Commiting to a family is a life long project. People don't start a life long project when one of the pair it requires can end the project at any time for any reason. I'm confident in my ability now, even if it required great growth and change and autistic like systematization of the male female relationship dynamic. My thick skin won't protect or guide my children, nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:45 AM
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It does sound autistic but that's only because I've used a lot of my brain time to systematize these interactions and I'm writing this way on purpose right now. Thankfully I'm not autistic. It's just something that became critical for me to understand after I got divorced and lost my children from my first marriage. I never want to go through that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:22 AM
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I agree with all of this. I'll just add different people can find totally different things to be high value or low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:19 AM
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Yes. Pretty much. Women's natural desire will keep us all from evolving into programmable drones who just do what they are told and repeat what they memorize. I'm thankful for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:17 AM
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I suppose if I didn't have any actual confidence built on actual accomplishments I might have a break down. My frame would break. That's why the best way to have this mindset is to make it actually real. Actually be the superior man. I'm not... clever enough, maybe stupid enough, delusional enough? Anyway I'm not someone who can just act that way. I had to go become that way to internalize it. But becoming a high value and superior man didn't make me believe that I was. I chose to believe it and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:57 AM
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This is just the standard argument where you define high value to mean whatever you want and then you define low value to mean whatever you don't like. I get to define what is high value to me and the women I interact with, and the men for that matter, get to define what is high value to them. I'm sure what I find to be a high value woman for me will be different than how you define it for you. As far as the manipulation argument goes its just a non starter. Everything is manipulation its just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:44 AM
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Women don't actually want horrible men though. They just are attracted to the mindset that a lot of horrible men naturally have in the current society where normal men are taught to memorize and repeat, to obey and be rewarded, and turned into cogs in the machine. Women don't want cogs for which we should be grateful. It may only be female nature that keeps us from a self imposed slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:36 AM
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Um OK good for you. I believe the red pillers call this AMOGing. Since you've blown me out of the water I think I'm going to go hang out somewhere that you're not for awhile. Peace brother
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:34 AM
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OK. You do you if it works for you. I've had considerable success with game as I described it. Believing you are better than the woman allows you to naturally act like you are. Which causes her to look up to you and seek your validation. I believe this is what guys really mean when they try to talk about women's attraction to status. Their desire for the validation of a man they believe is above them in the male - female hierarchy. I didn't need to think about this stuff to get laid, to have man…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:32 AM
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I hope every man who was an ugly duckling will one day have such a well of true confidence that he no longer feels the need to put others down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:26 AM
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It's not the horribleness that attracts them to those men though. It's that they act with an abundance mentality, have preselection, do not freely offer their validation, and they sexualize early and often. It just so happens that a lot of guys who naturally act that way also happen to be very low quality people. We could put a stop to that tomorrow if men woke up and matured. Barring that you can put a stop to it with your own children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:21 AM
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Defining it has helped me understand it much better. Not just what works but why it works and what that helps me understand about society and culture as a whole. Plus by defining it and gaining that understanding a lot of it can be broken down into chunks that you can help other guys to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:13 AM
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I guess I'm not here to hurl insults at people but to debate. Good day to you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:11 AM
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You might consider them regressive but it may be beneficial to just consider them temperance. Their are a lot of options springing up from public school since the covif 19. A lot of folks around here are setting up home schooling cooperatives where everyone chips in. I'll also add that once I became a father it really changed me as a person. I grew up very fast. When it's crunch time you don't really have any other choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 01:42 AM
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I don't see any criticism because I don't see any argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 01:38 AM
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In whatever metric you want to use to determine high value or low value you can be either or at any end of the spectrum and still adopt the mental framework game suggests women enjoy. The determinant will be the woman in question. Now in what way is it manipulative to a adopt such an attitude? We can add in an abundance mentality as well as I think I left that part out of the original description.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 01:25 AM
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Ah you are telling me I might not want to be in the monkey pit flinging poopoo? Maybe thumping my chest after? Fair warning
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 01:23 AM
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Looks more like you were flinging poo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 12:56 AM
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Nothing you said is an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 12:48 AM
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PUA tactics that are designed to create an attractive image of someone rather than express who they are while hiding or obfuscating their flaws and intent. Anyone who talks about "game" does this, because that's primarily what "game" is. That's not what game is. Game is primarily a mental framework designed so you can engage in any interaction and establish that you assume the woman is seeking your validation, that you haven't given it to her but you might, and that you are so far above her that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 12:38 AM
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Yeah. Polygamous. Or at least have one kept woman and then possibly set up a mistress or at least something more casual. If it's more casual with the other girl you can deal with sharing her a little easier but it's still bad for the man's ego. Before I got married I did date a girl who told me she was poly. I was cool with it it just meant she wasn't someone I could be monogamous with. Just someone to casually date and enjoy the time I got to spend with her. Like a fwb basically. That was fine …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 11:52 PM
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Because we don't want to share
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 11:21 PM
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Well if you make enough maybe he can stay home and raise the young'uns? I wouldn't recommend daycare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:05 PM
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Unfortunately as young guys grow up they see their age mates do it all the time. It's pretty disheartening to a young guy and they often leave the young guys age mates pretty messed up after. When guys get older if they end up single they can then take advantage of this in various ways. I don't really like it either but what I do and don't like has very little to do with reality. Unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:03 PM
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Do you get angry when young girls date older guys? Or when older guys talk about the young girls they are dating and have dated? Cause you wrote a lot of paragraphs with weird links that nobody is going to read just to let us all know that you don't want to date an older guy. I mean good for you, just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:34 PM
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Or you know you could just choose to watch shows that have really great families in them. Also being a SAHM is a great way to have tons of time to spend with your children and on homemaking projects. To be able to homeschool your children to give them a leg up. To build wealth to leave the kids for an even bigger leg up. And to have a husband that can focus on his masculine pursuits while you focus on the feminine. It creates a beautiful balance. But if you're too afraid of the risk of divorce a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:29 PM
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In the video the guy who really needs a haircut says that hypergamy means women are sexually attracted to guys with money. And step one in becoming a high quality woman is to admit that you find money to be sexually arousing. I'm not sure what step two is but I think step three is profit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:25 PM
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I think men get upset when they see younger women chase after men who do not buy them anything and treat them in such a way that women claim is bad or abusive but just have them on the hook for the guys validation. Young guys see this happening when girls are at their peak and it creates cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:19 PM
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In the video he says that hypergamy means women find a guy with lots of money sexually attractive and women need to admit this nonsense for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:54 PM
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You have to feed them more calories to keep them working hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:49 PM
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Pretty good tips! I'd add seriously think about what you want in five years and also what you want in ten years. Consider the age you will be in those years. Write it all down. Think about how you can get from where you are now to where you want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:45 PM
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To me it sounded more like don't get mad at me babe when I spend every night masterbating to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:33 PM
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Yes but this advice is how to cope with a low quality man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:31 PM
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How in the world do women need to come clean about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:30 PM
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First thoughts? He baldly needs a haircut. It looks like he's trying to hide a receding hairline. It's a bad look. After that? Hypergamy means women are attracted to wealth? I've never seen this happen. Women certainly don't want to commit to a poor guy but wealth isn't sexy. Why would you want women to admit to this thing that isn't true? I do think women would have better results if they would accept their own part of the choices they make in picking guys. At least they would be able to start …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:29 PM
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I don't get it either. Maybe you guys live somewhere where casual dating is looked down on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 06:18 PM
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They could be seeing each other and casually dating but nothing official. She could just be a private person and doesn't think it is anyone else's business. I could think of more reasons. If you're really curious why not just ask her about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 05:18 PM
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I know a pretty cool guy who is 5' 2". It really is just bizarrely small and he has these weird ears that don't look like they have actually detached from his head. That being said last girl he was dating was a crazy African immigrant party girl who was way taller than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 05:14 PM
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Yeah I do wonder. My children from my first marriage are both in the top 10% of height and my first wife was 5' 10", so quite tall. My children in my second marriage are both in the top 0% of height and are freakishly huge and my second wife is 5' 2". I'm over a foot taller than the second wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 03:07 PM
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Did any of the taller guys ever worry that should you two pair up and have children that the kids would be short?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:34 PM
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Men love by leading, but men can only love in the sense of ownership. Men love the things they own by taking care of them. When a man can't or doesn't own then he can't love. A man loves a woman by telling her what she can or can not do, as he can see where that choice will lead. He loves by protecting his stuff. By guiding his things through time to the place he imagines. It is not the warm love of a woman but a deeper love that is only exposed over the test of tests or the test of time. Men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 05:58 AM
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Women don't choose. They accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 05:47 AM
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