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Question For Menidk_sideaccount/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:39 AM
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Men want to sleep around, women want to sleep around. But if you're a woman and you've slept around you're for the streets and not girlfriend material. So you gotta keep that bodycount low... And to do that you have to be picky. The average men does, in fact, not get picked. They complain that no woman wants to sleep with them. Infinite loop
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:29 PM
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This is an insane concept to me. I cried multiple times in front of my boyfriend, my boyfriend cried multiple times in front of me. I've never seen him as any lesser, I feel like being vulnerable with each other makes the relationship stronger. Why the hell are you dating someone that will throw you away like trash if she sees you crying? I can assure you this is not a common thing that women do... At least women who aren't complete sociopath. Like what are you doing in a relationship if you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:17 AM
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I'm mostly attracted to guys who are 5'3-5'7. My boyfriend is 5'7 and I love him soooo fucking much he's perfect. I'm 5'3 and I think we fit perfectly together. But most women do prefer taller men, so short men will have a hard time in dating. I feel like it gets harder under the 5'5 mark, as you start being shorter than many women. But still, it's not impossible to find a partner, I found out that most of the height requirements are on dating apps more than irl dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:41 AM
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I don't want to attack you, it's true that people deemed less attractive by the majority are treated like shit. I'm really sorry you're in this position and I hope your life can turn for the better asap, nobody deserves to be treated badly for things they can't control
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:39 AM
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If I read this question a year ago I would've said no of course, that's a stupid reason to lose interest. Now I say, no because that's a stupid reason to lose interest AND after seeing how many men are convinced they HAVE to fuck you in the first date if they pay the bill... No thanks lets just split it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:37 PM
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I believe that analyzing the dating market and trying to come up with dating strategies is completely useless because it's all about having luck at the right time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:30 PM
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Shorter than 5'7 in general
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:57 PM
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I feel like it's true that there are women who are completely assholes to a sociopathic level, and social media exacerbates that pushing their weird beliefs into more and more people. But from my experience and friendships with women, it's not a lot of them who really think things like that. I feel like as usual social media is skewing everything. For guys who feel like women hate them and for young girls who grow up seeing women being absolutely terrible and calling it girlboss behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:00 PM
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I really do see your point, and I'm not one of those people that believes looks are irrelevant etc. Sadly it's true that many men are wildly penalized in dating, I know a lot of dudes over 20 who are virgins and they are completely normal, in personality and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:58 PM
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Why is it unhinged? If you want to explain ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:26 PM
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Lol this is the typical completely useless advice from someone that can't put themselves in your shoes and doesn't have anything useful to suggest but for some reason feels the need to say something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:20 PM
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Ngl I feel like the women you dated were completely unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:17 PM
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I think from my post you assumed that I don't believe that women openly hating on men is hatred. It is from both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:16 PM
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No, obviously not. I'd be a liar if I said that. But some of us do exist, out of the 10~ girls i befriended in my life, at least 3 of them had a genuine preference for shorter guys. One of my best friends from high school has been dating her 5'5 boyfriend for 6 years, and when they first started dating she was super hyped about being around the same height. One of my current uni friends is dating a guy who's 5'3. Then another one of my friends is 5'7 (which many people consider short) and has no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:01 PM
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That's really good then, surely feeling wanted helps you to be more confident as well. It's just that I don't believe it's as easy as "building confidence" when someone has been rejected all their life. I mean surely, it helps. But it's hard to be confident when the world keeps putting you down. At some point it just feels like being delusional...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:56 PM
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That's fair enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:55 PM
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Yes, exactly. I genuinely, 100% love his height now. Not only that, I was actually hyped when we first started chatting and he told me his height.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:53 PM
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I may get hate here for this, but I believe that women having some kind of dislike for me is somewhat justified. Ever since we're very young we get taught to not trust men. Then as soon as you become 12 years old and start developing you get creepy men hitting on you. Then all your friends start sharing stories of molestation and abuse. And you even see it with your two eyes. And I'm not saying that all men are shit obviously, but a lot of women develop dislike/fear through lived experiences... …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:48 PM
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This is the comment I agree the most with. I believe we're all trying to just find decent people to build a life with at the end of the day...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:44 PM
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I guess that's somewhat true but at the same time it seems like a huge cope. So many people hate themselves and still land relationships and friendships, me being one of them. I personally believe it's purely a luck game, but sure not being absolutely insufferable helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:42 PM
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No, obviously not. Your mindset seems fairly normal, this is more aimed at those men that seem to actively dislike women, while still wanting a relationship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:38 PM
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I get that. I wish there was overall more support for men, even from women. It's hard to see how men considered "unworthy" are treated, especially online it's way more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:37 PM
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Yea it's not hard to understand the frustration. Still after the millionth time I see someone calling women cum dumpster I start wondering why they'd even want an actual relationship with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:36 PM
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True. I believe that applies to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:35 PM
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5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:35 PM
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I think I didn't write it properly because English isn't my first language, me liking short guys and the phrase about the dream woman were supposed to be two separate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:28 AM
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I understand being reclutant, but why be outright accusatory? This isn't just online either, I've talked in real life with guys who believe in the redpill that kept telling me it wasn't true that I loved the fact that my boyfriend is short. I would be lying if I said that the majority of women prefer tall guys, but why make yourself even more miserable going against someone who believes the opposite? Shouldn't it give you a tiny bit of hope instead? (these are general questions, not directed at …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:19 AM
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This comment is one of the most rational things I've seen here. Honestly I understand being terminally online, since I was as well until I didn't have time to doomscroll endlessly all day anymore. It's a really sad situation and I hate to see guys who started maybe as just socially awkward or even actually unlucky in the looks department fall deeper and deeper into a rabbit hole which will do the opposite of helping them live a happy fulfilling life. I don't believe in hating incels just because…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:14 AM
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I guess many women would like a muscular guy but at the same time don't want the gym lifestyle that comes with it. But again, I don't see why this makes it impossible for some women to genuinely prefer a different bodytype
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:55 AM
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Neither a green flag or a red flag. If I like him I don't care about stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:28 PM
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Why would it make me a narcissist or delusional? And what does attractiveness have to do with it, I thought the redpill said that even ugly women only want the top 20% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:20 PM
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This is a struggle for me because I love how miniskirts look but I absolutely loathe the thought of people looking at me when I go out. I just really like how they look and the outfits I can do with them and some men believe that because my skirt is short that gives them permission to act like animals. I usually just wear them at home and feel cute in my outfit then wear baggy jeans to go out. But I still get creepy men catcalling me from their trucks. It's so sad and it makes me scared of going…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:48 PM
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Yes there are. Look up how many women were thirsting out after Paul Dano on tiktok last year. Also I personally have a strong preference for guys 5'7 or under. When I was chatting with my boyfriend before we met irl and started dating I casually asked him how tall he was, he was probably shitting himself thinking I'd ghost him for being short but I was pretty much jumping of joy when he said he's 5'6 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:44 PM
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What makes you believe that women who don't like muscles are lying? Is it so hard to believe that's a genuine preference that exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:24 PM
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I just don't like physically how it looks. I do respect the effort it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:48 PM
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100%. Because I've been on only one date in my entire life and now he's been my boyfriend for a year lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:39 PM
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