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I understand. All I can say is I hope that you can eventually move past that (difficult, I know), or make changes that make you feel differently. I say this as a conventionally attractive woman, and while I won't say that looks mean nothing, I can confidently say that I (and many other women, too) find myself attracted to people based more on personality, intelligence, and who the person is rather than how they look - to the point where I have been in at least two LTRs with people that I wasn't …
/r/seduction28/03/20 12:32 PM
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No matter how many surface actions you do (firm handshake, eye contact, etc), you said yourself that you are still "absolute void of self esteem." That shows. It always shows. Look, I'm not saying "gain a bit of self esteem and women will fall all over you", but I am saying that until you can confront that void and fill it with self love (NOT dependent on others view of you or the reactions you get from other people - purely self worth and self respect and self LOVE) then it will show itself in …
/r/seduction28/03/20 10:05 AM
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I'm the same way - like, if I keep thinking "make eye contact, stay cool calm and collected," etc, it comes off as weird or forced or unnatural. But this post isn't about focusing on those little things. It's about the mindset behind them. Focus on your value, change your perception of yourself from "ugly person trying to deserve beautiful person" to "average human communicating with another human." The confidence, the eye contact, all those little things fall in line when you're backed by the r…
/r/seduction28/03/20 09:54 AM
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