idkman1710 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	3 dates and won’t do anything more than kiss As the great Kevin Samuels said: 3 dates and no sex, i cut them off. On to the next. She asks “why?” Say i dont think we are compatible. This is why you should be dating more than 1 girl at a time. But once you have the exclusivity talk (have her bring it up, never the man), and you decide to be exclusive with her, then you cut off all your other girls.	/r/seduction	18/07/26 09:00 PM
8	A girl invited me to her house for a movie night Glad im not alone on having PTSD on past fumbles	/r/seduction	11/07/26 03:07 AM
3	A Different Perspective on Why to Get a Women’s Number ASAP when on dating apps Im in California, coffee here is like 8$ , so times 2 is around 16$. With tax and tip, 20$ish Usually we also order a pastry. Another 5$ish lol	/r/seduction	09/07/26 06:20 PM
2	A Different Perspective on Why to Get a Women’s Number ASAP when on dating apps Good stuff man but how are you affording 5 dates a week? Even if they are coffee dates, those come out to like 25$ a date. So you dropping 100$ on dates a week?	/r/seduction	09/07/26 04:12 PM
7	How do i initiate w/out coming off as creepy/weird Ok ive been there. What i do is. Suggest to watch some music videos of her favorite artists . You’re sitting or lying watching them. Then say “hey, you have beautiful eyes”. Then kiss her. Go from there	/r/seduction	08/07/26 01:29 AM
34	What is ur most effective opener you've used I lost faith in this subreddit	/r/seduction	01/07/26 04:40 PM
1	Do you have a preference in the type of women you approach? Im 5’7 so i go for girls shorter than me and have that “girl next door” look as well. If they have lots of make up and provocative clothes… i dont go for them. Im most likely to get rejected by them anyway lol	/r/seduction	15/06/26 04:53 PM
1	Not GENUINELY getting butt hurt after a rejection is the most incredible paradigm shift for seduction. AudioRecord your approaches with your phone. Thats what i did. I realized i was talking too fast, sounded nervous, especially in the opening. This goes away after doing it more times. Then once you dont sound nervous in your recording, but you still get rejected, then you are not her type / improve your appearance	/r/seduction	08/05/26 12:48 AM
1	Fumbling when it gets sexual I feel you man. Once was in your shoes. I’ll share what worked for me:) Start by kissing her. “Hey, you know whats makes me go crazy about you. Your eyes”. Then kiss her, kiss her neck, back to lips, start rubbing/ massaging her arm, hand, shoulder. Kiss behind her ear, caress her hair. Say “If you need me to stop, just say so, ok. I dont want to make you uncomfortable”. Continue kissing her and touching her, then touch her leg, thighs, grab / squeeze her boobs. Take off your shirt (you better b…	/r/seduction	14/04/26 04:25 PM
2	Did she want me to take her home? Next time say “im really enjoying spending time with you. Want to go to my apartment / my place ? Id love to continue hanging out”. Present it as no big deal but she know what it really means (sex).	/r/seduction	02/04/26 03:40 PM
1	Would you get into serious relationship if the girl has previous experience of ONS/FWB Damn. Very interesting	/r/seduction	27/03/26 05:45 AM
1	She asked me if I’m a bad texter Dang haha my bad. Well my advice still applies lol Edit: for your date, you can talk/ask her what type of communication she would like. Then maybe suggest coming to a middle ground. I would do daily check-ins like “Hi, hows your day going?😊”.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 06:49 AM
5	She asked me if I’m a bad texter Been there. Dating girls in their early 20’s is a whole new game now that im 28. My response was: yeah, im not a big texter. i rather talk in person or on the phone. Thats how i enjoy getting to know a person”. Boom. If she doesn’t like it, oh well	/r/seduction	02/02/26 06:45 AM
-2	How do I stop caring? Can you afford an escort? Hire an escort or go to a red light district in Mexico / latin america. By doing so, you’ll get rid of the nervousness affiliated with beautiful women. You’ll realize how much men put them on a pedestal.	/r/seduction	29/12/25 05:19 AM
10	How do I stop caring? You should care about the PURSUIT of them. Care about the ART of seducing them. Dont care about THEM. Dont care about what they think of you. They are carried by emotions and feelings. Its up to you to care about how you interact with them. The outcome? Who gives a fuck. We will all be dead one day	/r/seduction	29/12/25 05:14 AM
53	Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex? Start by kissing her , then kiss her neck. Back to kissing her lips. With your hand rub her arm, shoulder, her back while doing so. Grope her breasts, still be kissing her. Say sensual things like “i love how your lips taste. Your skin is so soft”. Stuff like that. Kiss / lick behind her ear. Then start kissing her leg, inner leg, towards her vagina. Take off your shirt, take off her pants. She should be hot and ready to go. Give her oral, while doing so, touch her breasts, her inner thighs. Fro…	/r/seduction	02/12/25 07:51 PM
4	How much the game changes for short guys, when they gain muscles? Not OP but in my experience, leaner face / less fat leads to sharper jawline , facial features pop more. Girls love a nice jawline / cheekbones. Your smile also looks better with leaner face.	/r/seduction	21/11/25 10:32 PM
5	How to approach women at malls? Wtf	/r/seduction	18/08/25 02:04 AM
2	Second Shift = No Dates. What Would You Do? Happy to hear your side business is thriving. You making good money at an early age. Good shit. Whats your side business If i may ask?:)	/r/seduction	29/07/25 05:02 PM
2	Asked out a woman at the bookstore Cold Approach what if it's a business card? And is offered with a "Hey id love to take you out for boba or a drink. It'd be nice to get to know you more; we should keep in touch" then wait for her answer. If its a yes, offer your card.	/r/seduction	06/12/24 10:05 PM
1	Girls will also approach you Happy for your results bro. Ive also recently gotten very lean + lean muscle / low body fat ... the world treats you different (in a good way lol) . What are you doing before being approached? Are you on your phone? Are you just looking around with your beer in your hand?	/r/seduction	26/07/24 03:54 PM
3	How should I go about escalating in my Situation? Like another commenter mentioned, play some chillwave / dreamy playlist in the car ( Beach house, Mac Demarco, Lana Del Rey, The Weeknd, Drake). Treat her like shes your little sister aka tease her. Examples: "Wait... you like Pistachio ice cream? You know what.. you gotta get outa my car". "Hold up... you dont like Mini Golf ? Do you also hate babies?" Shit like that. Break the touch barrier with kino escalation throughout. Then after building up playful tension... tell her ... "Hey Can i confe…	/r/seduction	16/04/24 10:45 PM
2	Mastering Coffee Dates ☕️ I appreciate this. Thanks for this new perspective	/r/seduction	05/04/24 05:25 PM
-14	Mastering Coffee Dates ☕️ The “vibe isn’t there yet” because you are having boring lame coffee dates. What are you, 55? Take her out to drinks or dinner (I know a lot of men are against dinner dates for first dates but this is where i have had success ).	/r/seduction	04/04/24 04:28 PM
1	One shot, one kill Good stuff man. This inspired me. Question though. After she said thanks and you mentioned your reply was just a smile.. what was the next thing you said? I know what to say to open but I struggle on what to say literally after the opener.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 06:34 PM
173	I slept with her on our first night hanging out. Thankful for this sub. Bro I know that song. That song makes any girl feel like the main character in a love movie. Good shit.	/r/seduction	02/04/24 06:43 PM
8	how do i put myself out there after a rejection? I apologize.	/r/seduction	21/03/24 10:47 PM
6	how do i put myself out there after a rejection? Pussy	/r/seduction	21/03/24 04:44 PM
2	Valentine’s Day just reminds me how lonely I am every year I was a kissless virgin till I turned 25. I upgraded my closet and joined dating apps. Got fit, read books. Now I have at least 2 chicks in my rotation.	/r/seduction	16/02/24 05:52 PM
1	Do I tease too much? I agree.	/r/seduction	11/02/24 01:25 AM
2	Transferring her from location to home? “Hey… want to go back to my place ? I could give you a tour of my home and I can make you a Cocktail 🍹 … ive been working on my drink making skills”. I use this all the time. Also, before popping the question… ask her if she collects anything. Then tell her you collect x things. Personally… i collect antique toys / plushies. So I also say “I can show you my antique collection”. Or “I can show you my record collection”. Edit: and yes… a month ago… I didn’t know shit about making cocktails. Just a…	/r/seduction	29/01/24 11:36 PM
11	If I had to brag about one thing, it would be that all my LTR's were some of the best women on this Earth. That's not an accident, this title shows you how not to do it: You gave no advice though. You could of shared what are the red flags to look out for at least.	/r/seduction	26/01/24 05:04 PM