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I am open to meeting a great guy one day, but let me tell you: I am not out here looking for him. And I’m not “not” looking for him in hopes that it brings him to me (you know the saying “when you’re not looking that’s when you’ll find him”). No. I’ve met men that way too, and they were just as bad, if not worse. OMG THIS. I literally just had this happen. A guy came out of the woodwork, initiated everything and turned out to be full of red flags and flipped a switch on me after a month. I was p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:00 PM
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I was in a similar boat last week, except he beat me to it - which definitely hurt and made it feel like it was my fault even though I could see the writing on the wall anyway. I feel like my whole perspective of the situation flipped when I became the "dumpee" . The dates were super cute but it felt really love-bomby.... so IDK. It's for the best and I'm also exhausted and need a break - mainly so I can fully internalize FDS and be able to cut people off faster and salvage my dignity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:58 PM
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I am so similar to you and learned this the hard way. I had my first ONS with a guy who I foolishly believed was my close friend and wanted to get closer because he was acting interested and I thought he wanted to escalate things with us. I liked him and was so excited at this thought - and boy oh boy was I wrong. This was over 2 months ago before I found FDS and literally did everything wrong/against FDS. Before him, I had never slept with someone that I wasn't seriously dating or in a relation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:14 PM
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I wish I read this post a month ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:51 PM
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I literally could have written this post myself... except the talking stage for me was EIGHT MONTHS (with some pseudo dates mixed in cringe/eye roll @ myself and a delicious side of breadcrumbs smfh. RED FLAG I KNOW). The sunk cost fallacy strikes again. Luckily I found FDS like two weeks after my long awaited date (two weeks too late imo). Maybe I’ll write a full post about it. Regardless, I’m with you on a long break from dating and recovering back to normal from this slip up into pickmeisha w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:39 PM
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