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You don't need 'wifey skills' to be homemaker. You just have to know how to perform practical tasks which are easy nowadays because of modern technology. Cooking is also a very easy skill to learn. Unless you have children homemaking really won't take up much of your time. A man that you are compatible with will accept the way that you want to dress and style yourself. You don't need to do anything in particular. It seems like you are personally at odds with your mother and that her values are c…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 08:29 AM
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What do you consider 'dominant and protective'? Maybe he feels like you are safe without him having to check in with you. I mean nowadays women are relatively safe in much of the west unless they live in a particularly bad part of town. A lot of men nowadays in safer or more progressive parts of the world don't understand the inherent fear that women have instinctively ingrained into them and I think this is something that women really struggle with. I think men who understand and accommodate th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 08:10 AM
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First you need to consider how important monogamy is to you. Can you get around him doing this? Can he reassure you that you will be protected from STDs? Sometimes we don't know how we will feel about something until it actually happens. It might be that you agree initially but when he actually does these things it might cause more emotional upset than you anticipated. Maybe in this case you can make a deal that he does these things but that he always wears a condom and doesn't tell you when he …
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 07:45 AM
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Unless a woman remained in a close knit community where everyone knew that she was a mistress or had family members or friends present in her life who knew and were willing to tattle tell (I would keep such people at a distance, personally, they obviously want to cause trouble) , she could always move on and keep it a secret from future partners. I don't see why anyone would have to find out unless they really had to. In my opinion you don't owe it to your current partner to share something with…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 07:03 AM
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It's easy to say that now but you don't know if you will feel the same when you are 31. Assuming you are still young.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/20 12:12 AM
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I think it's totally your job to move past this and it has nothing to do with him. I would say exactly the same thing if the sexes were reversed. You both had a lot of sexual partners previous to one another. You just have to move past your own insecurities and make peace with yourselves. He's with you at the moment and not with any of those other women. Even if he were to think of them or reflect on a past sexual experience this would be totally beyond your control. My advice is just to complet…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 09:53 PM
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I'm guessing you are very young. Keep in mind you probably won't feel this way forever. A lot of young adults buy into the idea that they don't want children. However as they approach 30 and age out of their youth they start to derive joy from different things and desire a more mundane and monotonous life. Also after a certain age it's harder to fit into certain social circles as youth culture is for younger adults. Being a travelling hippie won't make you seem so cool at 35. Just don't get preg…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 09:45 PM
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Girl he's 44. Has he ever been married before? There is likely a reason why he's not been married at the grand old age of 44. This is why I don't like the advice on this sub about 'going for older men'. People usually know what they want in life by the time they turn 35. If a man (or a woman) has been actively avoiding marriage and starting a family beyond that age then he's probably a commitment phobe. He's probably deliberately dating women much younger than himself and has been doing so for s…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 09:29 PM
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This is probably going to offend a lot of people but maybe try dating outside your race and culture if you are open to it of course. I'm also not the most fortunate looking woman and had way more luck with ethnic than white men. My husband is Asian. I also grew up working class and it reflects in my mannerisms ect and I can't help this. Educated, smart men of other ethnicities seem way more interested in me than white men of the same caliber do. In my experience these men were also less likely t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 08:43 PM
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I would consider those jobs you mentioned careers. They require some ambition. You have to go to college or do some training to attend those jobs. They are also average to above income jobs. Nurses can get quite a reasonable wage depending on what vocation they do ect. So to say a man doesn't care at all about what a woman does for a career isn't true, the requirements are just a bit lower for women vs men.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 08:36 PM
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How many doctors, engineers, accountants, scientists or lawyers do you know married to waitresses and Walmart check out girls? It happens but rarely. Most men who are educated and middle class want a woman who is also educated and middle class. They might not expect the woman to have a career that pays as well or offers as much status as the one that they have, but they generally still expect a woman who has gone to college. This whole idea that educated, middle class men don't care if you work …
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/20 08:54 PM
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Even if a woman manages money well and doesn't take out loans she is going to be living paycheck to paycheck unless she has some sort of career path. Unless of course she has the luxury of living with mom and dad whilst working at Walmart.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/20 12:01 AM
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I'm going to get some backlash posting this here but if you want my honest perspective, I think the first possibility is that a lot of modern relationships start out with non commital sex. The man keeps seeing you and over time sometimes that man grows closer to you and bonds with you and develops stronger feelings. I know a lot of modern marriages that started out this way. Gone are the days of courting the old fashioned way. If you won't have sex with a man there are plenty of women who will. …
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 12:56 AM
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I disagree with the perspective of getting with someone for their potential. You never really know what a person's potential is, only what they have achieved and who they are in the present. Everything else is a maybe. You are gambling, which is fine, but just admit that's what you are doing, instead of all this wishy washy stuff.. OP busts her ass off to be 5'7 and 115lbs (granted that's really skinny, probably even underweight). She has a decent career (contrary to what people here say, most a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 12:49 AM
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How is a woman supposed to have her own savings and be debt free without a decent career? You say you don't care about a woman's career but you don't want a woman who is poor and instantly relies on you financially, right?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 12:34 AM
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I have never met a doctor who married a waitress or a cleaning lady.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 12:32 AM
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Poverty and being on a low income is linked to domestic violence, alcoholism and substance misuse. Whether this is because domestic violence is educated households is more hidden or because men who are less educated and on a low income are more violent and less likely to be sober and to what degree this is a factor is up for debate but statistics are statistics. When a woman enters a relationship with a man, when a woman gets married and has children with a man she is risking her life and her fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:46 PM
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In my younger days I would have been jealous and insecure thinking about what other women my partner may have been with before he was with me but honestly now it feels like such a stupid waste of time and energy. I used to want to only be with a man who had limited sexual experience so he would have nothing to compare me to. Now I realize that what my husband did when he wasn't with me is not my business and I simply have never cared to ask. I am married to who he is now and who he will be in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:39 PM
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Because people often blame outside forces for their problems because taking responsibility is more of a challenge than being a victim purely of circumstance. They never want to look at their own behavior and think about what lead to their situation. Not only do they refuse to take responsibility and make changes to the way that they approach life but they keep repeating the same mistakes. They think that admitting responsibility is branding themselves a failure. They look at life through a negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:28 AM
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Yes because for normal people socializing and forming relationships come naturally to them. They don't feel bitter about it and don't turn to some hyper analytical movement. A lot of observations of the red pill also come from media and fiction rather than people's real life interactions with one another. Autistic people watch a lot of movies and don't have many friends so their perception on reality is often warped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:05 AM
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That's primarily a non western thing. Most women in the west who are poor don't go for the most productive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:03 AM
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Men who are educated won't want to marry an uneducated woman in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:57 AM
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What if the man does have equal responsibility in the situation?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 06:53 AM
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How people react to mildly stressful situations like this one gives you a lot of insight into their emotional management skills and mental stability. Being unemployed is stressful, sure, but he has his parents support and it's not like he's on the street. A lot of people are unemployed right now. It's not the end of the world and it's not like he will never find a job again.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/20 04:40 PM
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That's not true. I know a girl who found a really fit, tall strong Russian man. When they had sex his penis was really tiny and she couldn't feel anything and she had to end the relationship. When I'm talking tiny it was under 3 inches. I also hooked up with a man once who seemed very normal and his penis was under 3 inches, very thin and semi hard and I couldn't feel anything. I'm not trying to be cruel when I say this. I feel really bad for these men and it's a hard card to be dealt, however t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/20 03:58 PM
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A woman may be young and have poor boundaries and may have not grown up with the correct roll models. She might be more open to doing things she doesn't really want to do to gain approval when she is younger and more insecure. She might have tried a sex act and strongly disliked it. Now time has passed and she has had the chance to heal and develop as a person she has increased her boundaries and is sure of who she is and what she wants out of a relationship. It's up to you whether or not you wa…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/20 03:46 PM
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What if you finally took a man's pants off and he had a micro penis? I'm not trying to be cruel but this can be a serious functional problem.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/20 03:24 PM
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I would find an alternative route. Your safety is the most important thing in this situation. Forget about looking brave.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/20 02:56 PM
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A surprising number of men would just see that as an exciting sexual conquest, especially since it's no longer seen as gay and a threat to a man's masculinity, at least not to the extent that it was a decade or two ago. That might even make the situation even more dangerous because men often expect traps to be more sexually open and on the flip side some are still homophobic and might get angry at the thought of being deceived and being attracted to a male.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/20 02:56 PM
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