idontunderstandlife Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	[FR] My date with Miss Hannah Minx. Hour and a half late? Would she wait that long for you, if she came alone, like you did? Most probably - no. Imho the proper thing to do here is just leave. I don't like people wasting my time, and anyone who thinks time is a very valuable resource, also shouldn't. Besides that, cool read.	/r/seduction	25/03/13 12:10 PM
2	Girls that are flirty with everyone? Avoid.	/r/seduction	24/03/13 03:52 PM
10	From the Other Sde of the AFC-Fence. You know, about that guy, she might have lead him on. You can never be sure, but if you have proper communication and you trust her, then it's no issue. I've had a pretty hot ex gf who was always approached and had loads of orbiters. It turned out, in the end, not without reason. She didn't know where to put the limit in the communication and was dishonest blaming it all 'on the other guys'. Sometimes, you know, it takes two to tango. If one (your gf) is clear in intent, communication and action…	/r/seduction	24/03/13 03:51 PM
1	[FR] "They all have boyfriends" Yes, that is true, I believe a large majority of population cannot really contribute to my own happiness (if we're looking at it through that lens). You keep telling me that it's negative. Ok. But what if the negative is the realistic? And what if I like to view everything as realistic as possible (probably has to do something with my science-oriented personality)? I didn't meet 3 billion women. I don't need to. I have a sample. I'm not saying these people aren't successful if their job isn't in…	/r/seduction	24/03/13 04:12 AM
1	[FR] "They all have boyfriends" Well, not really, there's no equivalent of that pain in this analogy. I am pretty contempt with watching my streams and I find it very arrogant and misleading to request an extroverted lifestyle from anyone, in the sake of "normality" or "picking up chicks". Introverts should be able to do it as well, without a major personality reconstruction, which probably isn't even possible.	/r/seduction	24/03/13 03:50 AM
3	[FR] "They all have boyfriends" Cool post, man, but I feel that you've misunderstood a part of my post, an error which I'll try to address now. I don't feel special because of my inherent traits (although I am proud of them and simultaneously believe that I view them realistically), but mostly because of my achievements and interests and the way I choose to spend my free time. I'm not talking about anxiety, depression, phobias, or whatever from the DSM-IV/5 - I'm not feeling special because I'm an introvert. A lot of people ar…	/r/seduction	20/03/13 03:07 PM
3	Game is Destroyed From Overthinking That is true. But to know why something is happening has nothing to do with solving it. For example, my gf might know that she's jealous of some other girl I've been giving attention because she's afraid some resources will be taken up by that girl, hence not giving the max possible to my gf, which makes sense in the caveman version, but does not in our modern interactions. But, even though she, or anyone else for that matter, knows this, doesn't make her stop feeling jealous. It just gives you …	/r/seduction	20/03/13 10:25 AM
-1	I feel like I hate a large percentage of women, or cannot respect them. It doesn't seem healthy, but here is my reasoning... Is it that their emotions can be manipulated or that their behaviour is easily manipulated by their emotions? ;)	/r/seduction	20/03/13 06:36 AM
-4	Game is Destroyed From Overthinking This is bullshit; feeling fear has a big evolutionary advantage. Imagine humans without fear: "Oh look, a bear just walked into the woods. Guess I'll just sleep in this cave here, he won't return, he's imaginary, in the woods!" [/dead] Feeling fear is normal, while in limits. There are fear related disorders (ICD-10, F 41.1) and I'm not talking about those.	/r/seduction	20/03/13 06:29 AM
0	How can I be more.. mysterious and playful? Why? Is she retarded? Is she a kid? If you talk to a guy, you'd say "software engineer". So anything other BUT that answer is already trying to impress her. Just say software engineer and if that's boring enough for her to change her interaction with you, then why do you even want to talk to her?	/r/seduction	20/03/13 06:22 AM
10	[FR] "They all have boyfriends" What if I don't like to have fun? To be more precise, what if my idea of fun is staying at home and watching starcraft streams, instead of trying to talk to people (of which a large majority is stupid or average)? What if I like to check out coursera materials and post there, having fun while discussing meaningful things? I'm aware this sounds elitist ("you think you're so much better than everyone else"), but try to approach this question from the perspective of understanding, and not judgement…	/r/seduction	20/03/13 05:52 AM