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just the ones mentioned: - meditation - reading - listening to music - working out - meeting friends
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:31 PM
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Thanks. I usually check the main sub daily, but decided to let it go for a few days. Appreciate you coming here and posting the link.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:10 PM
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That Britney song thing made my day :-)
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 10:21 AM
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Just to clarify I quit my job at PWC before moving to the other city. Had a regular 9-5 job there.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 11:25 AM
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Now I understand. It's actually true. You decide how far you want to go. For me it's just been thinking a lot / talking to friends. No contact. However I've been way worse in the past. A few years back I went emotional tampon, social media / real-life stalking for over a year. Not going back there. I feel like the very worst you could do is drown yourself in drugs, banging random chicks to fill the hole.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 08:36 AM
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Believe it or not but I was pretty aware of the pit while being in the relationship. Thing is, once things go downhill it's incredibly hard to turn the ship. At least I was not able to. Once her frame became the reality of our relationship there was nothing I could do.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 07:52 AM
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I wouldn't even know how to pull that off her knowing.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 07:51 AM
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What do you mean by digging?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 07:49 AM
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Really needed to read this. Did the exact same thing with my ex (enormous pedestal), she broke things off 2,5 weeks ago. Been bitter, depressed, drowning in self pity, crying to everybody I know, thinking about her ever since. What a shameful state of being.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 07:11 PM
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Thank you for your support.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 09:47 AM
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Thank you for. Really appreciate your comment.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 09:03 AM
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I agree with you 100%. Just to clarify: I don't want to spend anymore time with that girl. I also don't have any feelings / respect for her whatsoever However I feel like I disrespected her fiance, so I am considering apologizing to him. That's my main concern.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 08:07 PM
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7 habits of highly effective people - Steven R. Covey can't believe noone has mentioned this one yet, have read it 4-5x :-) /e: more than 25million books sold worldwide.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 09:49 PM
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just 2 quick thoughts: I simply don't know how to make friends without making myself look like I am in NEED of a friend..which might make it a bit creepy for the other person I want to be friends with, I think a good start to make friends is to become an interesting, fun person that others enjoy spending time with. a huge part is being genuinely interested in other people that really cares about himself and others. (check Dale Carnegie - How to make friends and influence people for the basics) I…
/r/seduction29/01/17 10:37 AM
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a couple of weeks? I would not ask to meet more than 2x. If she is interested she will make time. if she is not, why waste time
/r/seduction25/01/17 01:18 PM
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I second this 100%. Texting should be just a tool to get to meet her. Why? a) it leaves a lot of room for interpretation, which could lead to a wrong picture of the other person / lots of assumptions b) you miss out on getting to know her well since you don't have any reallife "stuff" like gestures, voice etc.
/r/seduction25/01/17 09:56 AM
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could you perhaps spend 1 more minute providing information please
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:51 AM
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Just a few thoughts on your post: my best friend is an awesome guy, happy, confident, outgoing and still was a virgin until 23. so what? instead of worrying so much about the outcome, you could spend some time focussing on yourself. there is endless tips on this subreddit, but it comes down to taking care of yourself and others to build a life you are happy with. the definition of "happy" will be different for every person and is something you need to find out for yourself. maybe the 400.000$ ca…
/r/seduction21/01/17 09:27 AM
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proper nutrition, work out at least 3x per week, limit masturbation, get sufficient sleep (I aim for 8 hours).
/r/seduction16/10/16 03:33 PM
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amazing what kind of BS you can find on this sub. putting human beings in categories just based on their looks and then making overgeneralizing statements like you did is something you should be more than careful with.
/r/seduction01/10/16 03:11 PM
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Although I do not like people who have trouble accepting (or even appreciating) other people´s opinions, I re-read your thread. You are obviously confusing two things. One is making friends, the other is knowing people to go out with. Based on your title, you wanted to write about the first topic, correct? If that is the case, I am still of the opinion that having a great personality is key in all of this. Of course you can be in the best location ever and do all the activities you proposed but …
/r/seduction18/09/16 10:54 PM
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While you said it´s all about location, I think it is all about personality. If you are an interesting person that is kind, humble and is genuinely interested in other people you will make friends anytime, anywhere. If you´re not happy with the type or amount of friendships you have, you might want to consider working on yourself while getting some feedback from people you can trust on what you can improve from their point of view.
/r/seduction18/09/16 03:12 PM
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try to take a neutral stance and read your post. let me know if there is anything that stands out to you. (reading the header is sufficient actually) if you can't find anything, take 15min and just read the first chapter of 7 habits of highly effective people. if you still don't know the issue, come back and I will be glad to explain, but I think it will be better if you try to find out yourself first.
/r/seduction02/06/16 11:22 AM
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you won't regret it. I literally gave it as a present to two of my best friends. ;) let me know what you think after you have started reading the first few pages!
/r/seduction21/04/16 08:41 PM
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I second this. 7 Habits beats most other books without a doubt when it comes to self-improvement. Have read it multiple times and still getting insights.
/r/seduction20/04/16 06:04 PM
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7 Habits of Highly Effective People - Steven Covey probably my most favourite book on the topic ever.
/r/seduction17/12/15 02:45 PM
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if you liked those 2 books, you absolutely have to read '7 habits of highly effective people - Steven Covey'. Probably one of the best books I have read in my entire life.
/r/seduction14/12/15 04:49 PM
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"When a girl dumps you, CUT THEM OFF. No contact, and do it for fucking good. Don't do go back. Don't go back. Don't go back." this x100000
/r/seduction04/12/15 11:52 PM
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I will try to make this is easy an clear as possible my friend (out of my own painful experiences and stories I have heard over the past years): The only way to get her back is stop everything you are doing right now and focusing on your own life for now! Every additional second you spend on chasing / pursuing her will only push her further away and eventually you will lose her completely. It has happened to me and it has happened to others. I know your entire emotions / feeling are screaming to…
/r/seduction01/12/15 08:02 PM
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let her do the chasing. if she is interested in you she will make sure to show you. no need to ask her out again. if it doesn't work out who cares, you can probably just stay friends.
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:38 PM
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First of all: thank you for your kind reply. However I need to point out that I am neither depressive or feel that hole anymore (I used to for 1,5 years though). That said I am actually quite confident and happy. It's just that I end up going out with girls I like but don't have any romantic / being in love / having a crush feelings for and I wonder if it is them or if it is me.
/r/seduction28/10/15 02:59 PM
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cut the small talk as much as possible, instead talk about things you are actually interested in. become genuinely interested in others and learn how to listen, because 9/10 people do not. (this is key!) books I can recommend: 7 habits of highly effective people / steven covey - one of the best books I have ever read, seriously I heard that "the power of now" seems to be very good, still on my reading list tho
/r/seduction28/08/15 11:35 PM
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What I have learned for myself is this: The more you focus on yourself (read broadly, do sports, meditate, become genuinely interested in other people and certain topics etc.), the more other people (including women ofc) will come to you.
/r/seduction27/08/15 07:19 AM
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