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This is totally your call, but I could not date someone who behaved that way with me. That's a huge red flag. Depends on what you want to do. Focus on what you want to do and if she does throw a tantrum, ignore her or call her out, but I wouldn't reward her with attention for shitty behavior. That just reinforces her belief that she is in the right.
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:36 PM
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Women don't like assholes. They like the confidence that comes with the assholes. You don't have to be demeaning to women. You can still respect women and show assertiveness with teasing and setting your own boundaries.
/r/seduction13/04/18 11:04 AM
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Text her if you actually want to text her. Don't do it just because she told you to.
/r/seduction08/04/18 01:13 AM
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If she gave you an STD, you should definitely tell her.
/r/seduction10/06/17 11:08 PM
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I know salsa dancing as well as merengue. Girls definitely enjoy a guy who can dance. It shows confidence.
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:10 AM
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You know how hot girls get to say "I'm a model"? You get to say "I'm a rocket scientist" because you earned that shit, so be proud of it and have no shame in saying it. Just remember, as with anything, it's how you say it, not what you say.
/r/seduction14/02/17 02:38 PM
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If the girl tries to flake on the date, saying you have other plans is a good way to go. Especially if you actually do make other plans. It shows your time is valuable and you don't just sit on your ass after a flake. It really is funny how fast most girls respond after that.
/r/seduction12/02/17 06:33 PM
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<sup>This.</sup> Approach and find out.
/r/seduction12/02/17 06:26 PM
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Don't worry about how old you are. I lost my virginity when I was 21 myself, and that was before I even got into this whole seduction thing. "My goal is to lose my V card first but a relationship would also be an interesting dynamic to explore." This is fine, as long as it isn't the only thing that drives you. Focus on having fun for yourself. It seems like you are already approaching girls, which is great, that's one of the hardest parts, just getting started. I don't know you, or the way you b…
/r/seduction12/02/17 05:54 PM
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Physical escalation. Touching her like putting your hand on her back, touching her hand. Little things like that. This was one of my sticking points a few years ago. I used to not touch girls at all, but it makes such a huge difference in building attraction when you do it in a natural way. The trick is to MAKE it natural, and to do that (especially when it's something you never do) is to start making it into a habit so when you're with a girl you're not all "ok, here I go, time to kino, just li…
/r/seduction11/02/17 06:58 PM
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I usually just say "thank you" when I'm in a similar situation. I personally tend to not make a big deal out of it.
/r/seduction11/02/17 04:38 PM
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Seriously, start doing what YOU want to do. The worst thing that can happen is you get rejected with a "no." Even then, that's one step closer to developing yourself and getting more experience in a more confident manner. Best case scenario, you two hit it off. There is no negative to this. Most importantly, do this for you, enjoy your time before college, where you'll have more responsibilities and things to worry about. You're gonna meet so many new people then to talk to, flirt with, pick up,…
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:19 PM
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"Leagues" are for people who put others on a pedestal. Save yourself a lot of hard time talk to that girl like you would any other person, establish a connection and make your intention know (you like her, want to hangout, etc) You're in high school. Have fun. You're not gonna see more than half of those people in a few years
/r/seduction07/02/17 04:57 PM
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Think about it this way. If you don't go, you're just gonna have another average day in your life. You do the usual and life goes on. If you do go, you are taking one step forward to developing yourself as a man. You are taking an exciting chance at a change of pace, that could lead to fun experiences... or it could not and life goes on, but at least you won't ask "what if?"
/r/seduction04/02/17 04:09 AM
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Congrats! Don't forget. Sex alone isn't what's gonna make you happy, but the fact that you've changed the way you think about yourself, the confidence you've developed. It all adds up.
/r/seduction15/10/16 08:24 PM
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Pretty much this. You are the forbidden fruit, my friend.
/r/seduction24/07/16 01:12 AM
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Why not now?
/r/seduction18/04/16 09:26 PM
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Don't worry about that. Trust me, that's all in your head. The worst that can happen is she says no, or she's busy, or whatever excuse, and if that's the case, just leave it at that. She's not gonna call the police on you. I know there's a fear most of us go through of wanting to not be seen like a creep, but honestly, the more you overthink this the more "creepy" or uncomfortable it is likely to come out. So just go for it man, keep it simple, do what feels right in the moment. And don't be afr…
/r/seduction18/04/16 08:14 PM
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Nah, keep it simple: "Hey, this is anon from the gym." "You seem really cool, we should _________." Don't dwell on the "mixed messages", it's just negative, you'll find out how things are going through the interaction. The important thing is to enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction18/04/16 08:04 PM
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Assume attraction. Truth is you don't really know what's going on in her mind at that moment. It seems like your initial exchange with her went well. I say text her, ask her to hang out, just don't make a big deal out of it. It could be that she just thought too much of the interaction afterwards (it's normal, since the whole thing is new to her) and felt pressured, anxious. But hey, if it doesn't pan out, you still made your first approach, I'm sure you had fun doing it, so don't let it stop yo…
/r/seduction18/04/16 07:59 PM
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