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pay if you can afford it, split if you cant, dont try to act like something you arent
/r/seduction05/01/25 07:35 PM
0

if you dont love yourself first how can someone else love you
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:26 AM
-6

only my parents call me by my name lol, a pet name is usually better imo
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:41 AM
4

yeah use one of those party starter apps, with games like true or false, or would you rather
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:00 AM
1

I believe in polygamy. But at the same time I would remain faithful, because I don't mind making my partner happy. Having multiple partners if agreed on is fine, cheating and lying isn't. Tldr, I wouldnt mind if my gf had other bfs but I had to be faithful
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:17 PM
3

stop talking, take in the silence and then breathe 'heavily". preferably with eye contact.
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:11 AM
0

you arent a loser for paying for sex. you are a loser for seeking the approval of randos on the internet.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:03 AM
14

okay imagine you are in a bar listening to some music, and you like it a lot. so you bob and groove along to it. then comes a girl who says the music sucks, bla bla people who listen to these kind of music are losers etc. a) be a cuck and say yeah this song kinda sucks b) maintain your "frame" and keep on enjoying the music. She will either a) slowly change her mind or b) find someone else who shares her view. either way is a win for you.
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:01 AM
5

it all depends on your own personal boundaries lol. if you think double standards are fine then its fine, if not then obv its not.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:51 AM
59

Only thing worst than a short person is a short person who is insecure about it
/r/seduction10/09/21 10:06 PM
10

Having female friends is a good thing!! Having female friends and hoping you convert that to a relationship otoh is hmm at best
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:06 PM
1

You know that feeling in your chest? Yeah they didn't feel that
/r/seduction05/07/21 06:15 AM
2

cocky is when you think/know you are better than everyone else. confidence is when you think/know you know you are good regardless of the people around you. IE someone else may be better/worse than you but doesnt affect you. for example you have 1 million dollars, but someone else has 2 million or 1 dollar, doesnt change the fact you have 1 million.
/r/seduction22/06/21 07:23 AM
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yeah its like almost anything else. take travel, when young you have the energy time and drive to explore the world, sleep in the most shit conditions, traverse the unknowns. But when u are old and rich, when u travel u stay in nice hotels go to rich ppl places(since u have lack of time, u squeeze quality over qty). you will regret it and ite normal to, but dont let that affect/get you down. just because u have not left he country before in your life, doesnt mean travels at old age is any less m…
/r/seduction07/05/21 06:26 PM
1

theres a million things u can talk about. talk about stories and past experiences. play some quessing games(if you are so analytical as u claim), post a hypothetical and pobder it together etc etc. talking about hobbies when u dont share any is a recipe for disaster
/r/seduction22/03/21 05:38 AM
1

or just spam ;) like its really that easy
/r/seduction18/03/21 11:52 PM
6

just show them who you are, if u have a good product you dont need to sell much. imagine a salesman who is super pushy and sells u like crazy vs one who just says this is my product, is this a good fit for your company? sure the first would sign more, but the second would have better and more sustainable business.
/r/seduction10/03/21 07:04 AM
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ya ppl misunderstand what push pull is. push is not pushing them away via negging or wtv. i like to think of it as push =pushing yourself to them ie salesman. pull= getting them to validate themselves to you, ie asking is she the right fit for me.
/r/seduction10/03/21 06:54 AM
56

its not about not being nice lmao, nice is just the bare minimum. you cant JUST be nice
/r/seduction06/01/21 12:09 PM
2

for every one women being in an abusive relationship i see a man being in one too
/r/seduction12/11/20 10:17 AM
2

change your mindset, change it from how to get the girl to how do i be an attractive person that girls wanna be with
/r/seduction19/10/20 01:50 AM
1

like really... why do you care a rando says no?
/r/seduction19/10/20 12:57 AM
2

Can you change it? if so change it if not, why worry about it
/r/seduction06/09/20 03:38 PM
2

Everyone wants to be liked, thats normal. Problem is wanting it too much. Everything in moderation
/r/seduction17/07/20 03:59 PM
1

Ppl text randos for 1 reason only. And that is because of boredom and wanting an escape. No escape= lost interest
/r/seduction30/05/20 06:29 AM
2

There are other ways to connect with a girl than what you mentioned. Your thinking is hella superficial. Ive had success where i connected with them emotionally or by vibing with and sharing the same interests as them... idk maybe treat them as humans?
/r/seduction21/05/20 04:00 PM
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There are 3 ways to "seduce" someone in my experience 1)you vibe with them so hard. Here your aim is fun, your aim is laughter. 2) you connect with them on a deeper emotional level. Think long talks at night that bare your soul and you 2 are the only humans left on earth. 3) you have sexual tension that its more what you dont say than what you say. Idk how to do this, the only times i have is when i instantly clicked with said person
/r/seduction20/05/20 07:28 PM
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First its a conversation so its a two way street. Second she needs to interest you as much as vice versa You are allowed to feel annoyed if they dont carry their weight of the convo, you are allowed to leave any time. In fact this willingness to leave makes her more invested. Second you have to listen very hard at what they are saying. Not all convos are interviews and shit. Some ppl just wanna chill, some want to talk about themselves , some just want fun.
/r/seduction14/05/20 02:56 AM
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The bigger issue imo is even assuming op is true so what? Getting hung up about good looking people getting advantages isnt gonna change anything. Since you can only change your looks to a certain extent, its better to focus something that we can change ala personality.
/r/seduction14/05/20 02:50 AM
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Its not just about personality being good but rather one that matches. If it doesnt match it doesnt match no matter how good your personality is
/r/seduction14/05/20 02:45 AM
1

Fix yourself before you find a girl mate
/r/seduction06/05/20 10:42 AM
2

You know how you banter with your bros. That plus add an element of sexual nature to it.
/r/seduction05/05/20 10:19 AM
2

Its all about how you take rejections, some times you have to read the signs too
/r/seduction27/04/20 02:31 PM
2

Call and response, be bold take the first step, but always wait for the response. You can still be super romantic without doing anything sexual
/r/seduction24/04/20 05:27 PM
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jesus christ please forget whatever you read about push pull. its more simple than you imagine push pull is literally just showing her why you are attractive and conversely letting her show you that she is attractive.
/r/seduction17/04/20 02:38 PM
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ye if u hang around them 1 on 1/ half guys half girls versus hanging 1 guy the rest girls its really different. the latter is just flat out no
/r/seduction13/04/20 05:34 PM
2

Yes it is to some people. But in thr same vein those people would not be your type.
/r/seduction12/04/20 02:44 AM
1

as often as she is texting you
/r/seduction29/03/20 06:40 AM
1

Nature abhors a vacumn
/r/seduction12/03/20 11:53 PM
1

just biology idk
/r/seduction10/03/20 02:04 PM
2

in my experience if u bring her back 80% of the time itll end in sex even if u didnt mean to
/r/seduction09/03/20 10:16 AM
1

wtf arrange 1:1 date and escalate
/r/seduction09/03/20 08:22 AM
1

sure but can you be the the best at that. many streamers are just that and even the ugliest have gfs...
/r/seduction05/03/20 05:20 AM
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Listen. Nature abhors a vacumn. Sometimes when you ask just pause, once they answer, pause again, and theyll answer more truthfully and be more committed to the convo
/r/seduction26/02/20 02:02 AM
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I think u hit the nail on the head, although you kinda went off on a tangent Basically push/pull is saying are you right for one another. Pull is basically saying this is me like it? Push is just okay show me why you are the right one. Everything else is just...
/r/seduction12/02/20 08:15 AM
1

Ok take taking a test as an example. Think hard and reflect, itll be important. Youve studied 2 weeks for it. Maybe its enough or its not, doesnt matter. The day you take your exam you can either answer the ones you know confidently or worry about the ones you dont. Which do you think is better? Now weve taken the test. You can either be confident and be happy knowing u gave ur best, or you can worry and fret about passing or not. Ask then since being confident or not wont affect the outcome, wh…
/r/seduction12/02/20 07:57 AM
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Ok, this is very simple. you know the phrase, “Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.” similarly, you can either be confident or not. theres really nothing stopping you.
/r/seduction12/02/20 07:14 AM
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Now. U are always blooming. Always improving. Live one day better than the last. One moment better than the past. Never look back.
/r/seduction12/02/20 02:13 AM
1

No u be authentic because u want them to like u for who you are. And if they dont... they just dont
/r/seduction11/02/20 02:25 PM
1

you literally answered your own question. "no sex outside marriage", "potential suitor. yada yada". Show her you take the relationship seriously with a real potential for marriage. And if not it might be better to just break up lol.
/r/seduction11/02/20 09:14 AM
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ive had rare success when a girl brought a friend i flirted with the friend so hard that the original girl actually got interested
/r/seduction11/02/20 09:13 AM
1

of course its a thing, have you been to singles night in a bar on and around valentines
/r/seduction11/02/20 04:45 AM
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Just want to leave this here. Confidence is not knowing you will suceed but rather knowing you will be fine even if you dont.
/r/seduction17/12/19 12:27 AM
1

Most important thing to any date is just to have fun. Make sure both parties are having "the time of their lives" and thats all you need
/r/seduction02/12/19 01:02 PM
3

move to a new location
/r/seduction10/11/19 06:15 PM
1

just say hi lol
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:28 AM
1

A girl will have like 5-10 convos going on at once so its easy for them to move on to a more interesting convo. Also most of the time out of 5 of those convos will be other thirsty guys. Be different from them somehow
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:28 AM
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Counter by saying "why are you so interested in my sex life? Are you a perv or smth ;)/ why, are you applying?" to the classic "for me to know and for you to find out"
/r/seduction08/11/19 01:00 AM
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You own it by swerving and making fun of them for asking you.
/r/seduction07/11/19 04:37 AM
1

No
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:28 AM
1

Nice differs from person to person. One persons nice is another persons footstool. Best be yourself. Like others have said nice is the bare minimum.
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:26 AM
1

Imo a good wingman is just a good bro to hang out with. You two go out together to have fun maybe pickup some chicks but if at the end of the day no action you still had fun with your bro. At least thats what i look for
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:24 AM
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You are doing fine. Although you should be more upfront about where you want to take things. Also idk just talk freud freud and more freud i guess?
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:09 AM
1

The end goal is to always have fun
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:06 AM
2

So ok what youve talked about is basically the bare minimum to getting into most relationships. There are some where 2 ppl get together because of circumstance or wtv but we assume you dont have those. Focus on why girls SHOULD date you and not why they shouldnt not date you. That is focus on your positives
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:05 AM
1

Best and easiest way is just ask wanna dance. If there's chemistry you can just escalate from there
/r/seduction28/10/18 11:55 AM
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Tl;dw?
/r/seduction27/03/18 04:06 AM
1

You can be direct. I asked a few girls that I found this list of qns online, let’s take turns answering, they hardly never open up
/r/seduction05/01/18 12:34 PM
1

if you scored that low you probably have very low self esteem. so just work on that
/r/seduction10/11/17 01:35 AM
8

Being lazy and boring can be attractive. You just cant be lazy and boring all the time. I know someone attractive who dedicates his saturday to being as unproductive as possible. But of course the rest of the week he is off doing interesting things and pursuing his passuon
/r/seduction22/10/17 10:15 AM
1

If everything you have done up to then is fine you are golden. If not then ...
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:49 AM
1

i would say we didnt get the chance to connect rather than i vs you
/r/seduction02/08/17 03:47 AM
5

my point is that girls are hoping that we mutually seduce each other. thinking in terms of you vs the girl is a bad mindset to have, do we agree on this?
/r/seduction02/08/17 03:23 AM
1

how we can love ourselves is to identify our positive traits and negative traits, be proud of the positive ones and love our negative traits! after all it is what makes us human :).
/r/seduction02/08/17 03:02 AM
1

your whole post comes off as really needy bro. we should be grateful for those girls that screen thenselves out for us and save our time. if we scare the girl off then thats that lol.
/r/seduction02/08/17 02:54 AM
1

I feel like asians care more about having your shit together
/r/seduction11/07/17 07:53 AM
2

I used to watch porn in the club to get turned on, and I do agree when you are super horny and have that desire your confidence does skyrocket and you generally succeed more
/r/seduction28/05/17 01:00 AM
1

i like to move fast because i got no chill.
/r/seduction22/05/17 02:23 AM
1

I think the second one is fine lol. But yeah i meant treat it like a guy friend that you barely just met, you are not gonna call an acquitance a dickhead lol
/r/seduction18/05/17 03:45 AM
1

first you have to improve yourself as a person before going into this shit. second, the way you described yourself really reeks of being a nice guy. being tall and handsome doesnt mean shit.
/r/seduction18/05/17 03:02 AM
1

treat it like you do a guy friend.
/r/seduction18/05/17 02:58 AM
2

to have charm you first need to build character, have beliefs and values that you care about. if you, who knows yourself more than anyone in the world, yourself cant find reasons why you are interesting and have charm, how can other people do that
/r/seduction18/05/17 02:53 AM
1

heres a little tip, sometimes for girls a little emotional connection can mean everything
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:19 AM
1

this is a good way to think about. if you are asking a girl who you have a one in 100 chance compared to.one in a 100, you chance drops a lot. you still.have a chance you just have to power and push through
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:17 AM
1

Only if they are shallow. Again this is for dating and not pickup.
/r/seduction08/02/17 02:24 AM
1

not sure about high school, but in my experience, being able to connect with someone emotionally and make them feel loved, generally being compatible triumphs over being out of someone leagues especially when it comes to dating
/r/seduction07/02/17 03:55 PM
1

You demonstrate value.
/r/seduction29/01/17 01:06 AM
1

I prefer the entrance after opening wingwoman style. Like after talking with the girl for 10-15 minutes, you leave to get a drink/toilet/smoke whatever. After you leave for a while, the wingwoman steps in and gives reassurance to the girl. "Oh, you are so lucky, the guy you are talking to is so hot" "He seems so(insert adjective here)" "Omg! i see that you kinda like him" just basically talk you up, to give reassurance to the girl and maybe make her a bit jealous.
/r/seduction29/01/17 01:04 AM
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because women fear rejection the same ways guys do. because they are shy. because they have a boyfriend. because its not their culture to. basically theres a million and one reason to behave this way.
/r/seduction29/01/17 12:59 AM
1

you need to love yourself more bro. stop trying to love other people or expect other people to love you if you cannot even love yourself.
/r/seduction28/01/17 01:28 PM
1

What the hell man. You are giving off seriously needy and desperate vibes, and that's just through your words. Just calm down, honestly I'd advise not caring about girls for now
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:13 AM
1

The fact that you are verbal vomitting so much here means that you have some sort of deep seated issue you have to resolve first
/r/seduction26/01/17 03:11 AM
1

Just continue to work on yourself man. Dont take each girl as a possible relationship, and just get to know them as people first, school is a whole different ball game then whats usually written here. dont care about signals, just legit ask them hey would you like to have dinner sometime. and for dates, dude anything is fine, coffee at starbucks or dinner at macdonalds honestly make for great dates if you are not shy about it
/r/seduction25/01/17 02:41 PM
7

The only thing worse than a short guy is a short guy who is insecure about it
/r/seduction25/01/17 01:29 PM
6

Vulnerable: hey, I'm really busy so I don't have time to date often, so I'm afraid I might make some mistakes. But it's okay, let's just have fun and see how it goes Needy: hey I'm really busy to meet girls, so if you reject me I don't have any other girls to go to. If I screw up, please don't hate me and leave me
/r/seduction25/01/17 12:21 AM
3

Yeah you are right that its basically about sensing iois or negative interest. Personally i just find it more fun that way. Less self doubts, you leading the interaction at your pace
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:46 PM
1

Doesnt matter where or what you do, just that you isolate her. It could be get some fresh air, smoke take a short walk, im always hungry so i like to go convenience store. Plus convenience stores are fun for mini dates
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:43 PM
5

Just ask them out lol,
/r/seduction15/09/16 04:29 PM
5

Great! Because that can work in your favour! Trust me there are many girls in the clubs too that would like nothing more than to get out of the club. Just ask them hey lets go to the convenience store for a moment, and then you have her isolated and you can proceed. And if they would rather party in the club then she's probably not for you
/r/seduction15/09/16 03:53 PM
5

It doesn't matter. Until they straight out tell you no, you will have a chance
/r/seduction15/09/16 03:51 PM
2

Have higher standards. Let them impress you and not the other way around. Same with friends too, make it clear they have to impress you
/r/seduction15/08/16 11:30 PM
2

By raising yourself up, build your own confidence and ego and love yourself so even if they are on a pedestal you are the same level
/r/seduction05/08/16 11:56 PM
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Something that i know that has changed my perspective on the world and just my life in general is backpacking. Although i understand its pretty hard to just uproot your life for 3 months, so its just a possibility. Also the whole introvert/extrovert thing is just bullshit so dont worry too much about it.
/r/seduction30/05/16 01:15 PM
2

This may or may not apply here. But I once read this somewhere and it really resonated with me. The only thing worse than ___ is being insecure about it. Don't worry too much about changing their feelings because you can't. What you can do is just be the best version of yourself
/r/seduction04/05/16 12:58 AM
1

Hi would you like to have drinks at this amazing bar I know?
/r/seduction22/04/16 10:34 AM
1

My favorite thing to do is to do a 180 when I first met her. So before seeing her act a little sad and when you see her give the biggest damnnest shit eating grin you can give:). Then a hug is good. Brush her hair and comment how good her hair/outfit looks.
/r/seduction16/04/16 09:40 AM
3

For example talk about recent shit like maybe some recent scandal or like shit like 50 shades of grey
/r/seduction15/04/16 08:30 AM
1

Yeah sometimes I see if the girl is a prude or not by asking about sex. But why do you need to know if she has had sex?
/r/seduction15/04/16 08:00 AM
3

What the fuck haha. You look way better than average. An easy 7. Unless you are living in like a model town and only hit on 9s I don't think looks are your problem. Dude then post an unflattering picture. We are not here to judge
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:09 AM
0

Lol post face but censor eyes or smth. Dude you said you can't change how you look right? Then stop worrying about it lol.
/r/seduction15/04/16 02:25 AM
0

Post pic lol
/r/seduction15/04/16 02:06 AM
1

Alcohol. Haha. But barring that when you mean you think a lot do you mean anxiety or you are thinking of how to be funny how to act cool? If it's anxiety you just gotta stop worrying. Worrying does nobody any good. If you worry about something realise that a if you worry about something but can't change it there's no point in worrying about it since its out of your control, and b if you can change it then change it so you don't worry about it. If it's about trying to be smart to be funny realise…
/r/seduction14/04/16 09:58 AM
2

Ok listen bro the only thing worse than an ugly person is someone who's insecure about it. If you can't change it don't worry about it. And if you can change it change it.
/r/seduction14/04/16 04:43 AM
2

Er wth? That kind of girl really turns me off.
/r/seduction12/04/16 10:54 PM
1

A lot of it is her willingness to bone. Being a real prude is a turn off no matter how pretty you may be.
/r/seduction28/03/16 09:02 AM
1

isolate.
/r/seduction07/03/16 10:16 AM
1

just call her.
/r/seduction07/03/16 10:15 AM
1

What are you talking about bro. Game isnt about picking up girls, game is about becoming someone who is attractive to girls. Don't go out to nightclubs to exclusively pick up girls. Go out have a good time, meet some cool people, if you find a girl that you really like you can then try to connect. And all these reputation thing is pretty bullshit and literally noone cares about anyone other then themselves at a club. If you cant go home, can you go to a hotel? or is that too expensive? you could…
/r/seduction07/03/16 10:13 AM
4

Because they are busy lol
/r/seduction09/01/16 06:38 AM
2

Yes. But that would mean finding a more masculine girl. My ex was this very silent and stoic type, whereas I just chatted away forever and ever so yeah. Easiest way is to find a girl that is older than you.
/r/seduction24/12/15 04:19 PM
1

Ask your dudes to pull their weight and you pull your weight. Hint to them that they should bring 1-2 girls the next time and you do the same. Always assume other girls will be there so girls will feel less pressured to come
/r/seduction17/11/15 04:47 PM
1

But at what point do you stop. You're gonna come off weird if you talk to every single girl in the coffeeshop
/r/seduction11/11/15 02:37 AM
4

just realise everything takes 2-3x longer than usual.
/r/seduction31/10/15 03:07 PM
0

Send 1 more msg 6-7 hours later then move on.
/r/seduction12/10/15 12:09 AM
2

Just say thanks for being honest.
/r/seduction06/10/15 06:15 AM
1

One thing I've stopped is I reduced the let's hang out grab a meal, and just directly ask them, hey would you like to go for a coffee date/ movie date/ drinks(this one I leave out the date) .
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:40 AM
1

Isolate
/r/seduction23/09/15 04:01 AM
1

I'd assume to do what is natural.
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:07 AM
2

He is also not beta in the sense that he is good in what he does and has a passion for doing it. That is to say he isn't your typical nerd staying in moms basement working minimum wage
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:07 AM
1

first month of college and i managed to find myself a girlfriend(my first relationship), now the problem is that all the things out there are for getting the girl, now how do not be boring in the relationship, all the dates so far are just standard movie/dinner/walk in the park. also im an asian dating an asian in an asian country, how long until i try to go for the kiss/sex? should i discuss it in passing with her first?
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:47 AM
1

master the art of the awkward pause. So when you ask a girl something and she replies without asking you anything back. Just pause and look at her with a "what do you want to ask me face".
/r/seduction06/09/15 05:40 AM
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I realised one way is that they know which girl is in to them and which girl isnt, and be ready to move on.
/r/seduction07/07/15 04:57 PM
1

Attraction is a funny thing. There is no reason at all why people are attracted and fall in love with people. Anyone can fall in love with anyone, So you just got to try.
/r/seduction27/05/15 08:48 AM
2

One thing I realized is unless you know that girl is super punctual, it's better to be a bit late
/r/seduction25/05/15 04:07 AM
2

Dont be ashamed of your attraction. You find them attractive and that's good. That is literally why they dress up and put makeup for. For other people to find them attractive.
/r/seduction10/05/15 08:05 AM
0

Call her.
/r/seduction21/04/15 03:41 PM
3

Show dont tell.
/r/seduction15/03/15 03:16 AM
0

yeah instead say. So the day is done. I hope you dont have any plans for later, because theres this thing i wanted to check out, you should come.
/r/seduction09/03/15 08:00 AM
7

So you are a 5/10 pining for a 8/10. Why dont you just improve yourself so that you are a 8/10.
/r/seduction06/03/15 02:09 AM
3

Honestly that point made the least amount of sense. If i were to know your cup size, waist size, that would actually be useful( like buying gifts etc etc). But asking to know the IQ of someone is just plain obnoxious.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 02:43 PM
4

Ive never heard of anyone asking for someone else's IQ, in fact i doubt most people even know their own IQ.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 02:40 PM
0

your analogy doesnt make sense. shouldnt it be the other way around?
/r/seduction18/09/12 09:36 AM
6

Today has been good, Woke up hung, made coffee, smoked, Bacon pieces: Ten.
/r/seduction08/09/12 01:24 AM
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read the 48 laws of power
/r/seduction06/09/12 04:13 PM
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the mods removed it i think :/ i dont even know if its gone
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:51 AM
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Introverts arent really shy by nature! Honestly. no. you come of as a whiny little bitch. your describing social anxiety but blaming it on your "nature". Man up please, THATS the first step. Oh and when were on this topic, i find that introverts tend to have self-improvement as the end goal. Where extroverts tend to have social proof and status as the end goal.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:48 PM
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So i was like you, or maybe not, sitting at home watching Leverage. When Eliot was talking to Parker about passion and that "This is my art. This is my art, parker. Its like letting a stranger in your head just for a second. And you allow them to feel what you are feeling. Look again." And this IS how attraction should be. Its all about creating worlds and sharing existing worlds. My point is. When you converse with a women, Dont do it for the sake of doing it, or for making her attracted to you…
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:04 PM
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Yes i think that is a wonderful view of life! I once pondered upon that. We are really the masters of our fates, and reality. However, i got really confused because If our reality is only our perception, we can change everything. However because only we are real, the only thing we can change is our self. Am i real, or just a figment of your imagination? Kinda like. I agree. Yet we can create shared realities, and identities. This is one of the but few amazing things about humans.
/r/seduction04/09/12 09:09 AM
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A new fantastic point of view!
/r/seduction04/09/12 08:17 AM
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how do you actually not seek her approval when talking to them? I feel like if you talk to a girl out of the blue, like talking for her for the sake of talking you kinda already are seeking her approval.
/r/seduction26/08/12 02:59 PM
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The fear of being great beyond all measure.
/r/seduction17/08/12 06:53 PM
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appeal to yourself first.
/r/seduction14/08/12 11:00 AM
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secret. we all inherently are
/r/seduction13/08/12 06:45 PM
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This isnt really that useful. All these are external qualifiers of self-worth(mostly). If the guy has a ton of shit underlying and lots of issues he has to deal with it wouldnt work. confidence should be inner drawn. not outward drawn
/r/seduction13/08/12 03:44 PM
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Firstly. Seduction and inner game isnt the thing you need. You probably have alot alot of underlying issues that need to be resolved before doing this. If you dont you are just going to pass your neediness to someone else and shit starts brewing. Confidence is inner self. Find something you like to do and devote yourself to doing it. Confidence stems from mastery, from passion. Find your own Goal and work around it
/r/seduction13/08/12 03:10 PM
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True persona is kind of an oxymoron dont you think ;). but it is true. Know that game is yourself. Being true to who you are, being wholly congruent with your actions is something that is truly attractive. Especially in times of know where being fake/materialistic is the norm.
/r/seduction13/08/12 12:34 PM
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Scarcity means to have none, or that one girl. Abundance then means you get this girl, or you get that someone else. Also being scarce is to need stuff. You eat and desire more if you know you are going to starve. Similarly the NEED for things such as girls is causing you to not look at things in perspective. Scarcity means you want to take from it. However what you want to do is to be abundant. You want to GIVE, you want to make the other person enjoy the experience as much as you (as dumb as i…
/r/seduction13/08/12 12:24 PM
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Im from SEA and i have no idea what you are talking about
/r/seduction08/08/12 04:35 PM
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