if_i_could_trade Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
473	PSA for young men: You will almost inevitably get stronger over time as long as you don't fuck things up	Fitness	if_i_could_trade	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/19 12:08 PM
100	Case Study: A Reddit user's perception of a male friend who harasses women (with lessons)	Blue Pill Example	if_i_could_trade	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/19 02:19 PM
23	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important!	Comprehensive	if_i_could_trade	/r/seduction	27/09/21 03:33 PM
8	For those in non-monogamous arrangements, how do you disclose it?		if_i_could_trade	/r/askTRP	16/06/20 11:38 AM
3	How are you spending New Year's Eve & New Year's Day?		if_i_could_trade	/r/askTRP	30/12/19 01:58 PM
1	What do you think about the Married Red Pill sub?		if_i_could_trade	/r/askTRP	27/10/19 04:47 PM
1	Looking for a subtle way to signal "open relationship" in Tinder profile, without explicitly saying it		if_i_could_trade	/r/seduction	18/05/21 12:44 PM
0	What do you think about the Married Red Pill sub?		if_i_could_trade	/r/askTRP	27/10/19 04:37 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! Your inability to read is not my problem man, have a good night	/r/seduction	28/09/21 04:46 PM
0	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! Okay dude ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I'll enjoy my fantastic sex life & memory of banging 4 girls a few days ago, and you can enjoy your "HE'S NOT GOOD WITH WOMEN" comments	/r/seduction	28/09/21 04:39 PM
0	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! Again man, whatever makes you happy ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I'm not huge on internet fights	/r/seduction	28/09/21 04:38 PM
-1	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! This is a hilarious cherrypick and you know it man But whatever makes you happy with yourself :)	/r/seduction	28/09/21 04:32 PM
1	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! I would start by getting traits in place that are easy to get right - mostly superficial ones. For example... if you get stronger and/or leaner, you will almost certainly get more attractive to most women. If you buy some nicer fitting clothes that are basic staples (like a black T that just fits you perfectly)... you will almost certainly get more attractive to most women. So work on your fitness, looks, wealth, living arrangements, etc. and anything where it's conceptually SIMPLE to make impro…	/r/seduction	28/09/21 01:25 PM
0	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! You think 1 in 100 dudes is having throuples, group sex, and regular individual FWBs? Man, you must live in a horny part of the world! I also think you've mistaken this post for "I am in the top 1% of athletes", which it is not But you can honestly doubt it if you want man. It doesn't change my life, only the reception to a Reddit post, yknow?	/r/seduction	28/09/21 01:19 PM
0	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! You're persistently acting as though threesomes are mutually exclusive with also having individual dates & one night stands, despite them literally being mentioned in the post as well I don't get what pleasure there is in burning down strawmans but if it makes you happy ¯\_(ツ)_/¯	/r/seduction	28/09/21 01:16 PM
-1	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! And if the post was titled "I have achieved the greatest possible metric in seduction" then that discussion would be relevant lol I think you may be way overanalysing this whole 1% thing ;)	/r/seduction	28/09/21 01:12 PM
-1	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! The reason you feel so empty and so inferior to these other people is because you don’t have game. Given that the post literally starts with an explanation that I'm currently feeling extremely comfortable in my romantic life... .. I'm gonna go ahead and understand that you didn't actually read the post lol Have a good day mate	/r/seduction	28/09/21 01:09 PM
2	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! I've always had a huge emphasis on wanting my dating life to be relatively natural; that's not to say that I'm currently just stumbling around with zero sexual intent and it 'just happens' lol, but I try not to get overly analytical during interactions themselves.	/r/seduction	27/09/21 06:21 PM
5	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! Yeah, there's sometimes a weird dynamic on these forums where men either don't believe it's possible to just be friends with women, or they don't really want to because they're so focused instead on the women they want to date (to the exclusion of everything else). But being good friends with women is BOTH just a nice addition to your life, because who doesn't like friends... AND a great way to improve your dating life indirectly.	/r/seduction	27/09/21 06:20 PM
1	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! You do you babe. I like my anonymity.	/r/seduction	27/09/21 04:59 PM
2	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! 6/10 face, 7/10 or 8/10 overall. Don't really mind if for some reason you don't believe me, I feel like the raw effort and thought shows enough lol. shrug	/r/seduction	27/09/21 04:48 PM
0	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! Lol, alright man. Enjoy your night.	/r/seduction	27/09/21 04:27 PM
1	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! I think we can probably agree that less than 1 in 100 men have enjoyed regular 3/4+somes with attractive women, and I'm content for us to agree on that being the 1% metric. You are welcome to value partner count more than I do, but as long as we're both happy, then I don't see any contention between us lol	/r/seduction	27/09/21 04:15 PM
2	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! I don't rate sexual success as partner count only, though. I have a double digit (but high) partner count, but I think I'm incredibly sexually successful in those other ways mentioned. I don't want to be any of the guys I know with triple digit counts, either, to be honest.	/r/seduction	27/09/21 04:07 PM
5	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! Nah, I don't want students or money from this. The impulse to post this is more like... 1) I really like helping people in general 2) This is a particularly big journey for me and it's particularly meaningful to pass on what you've learned in a process like that 3) It's really hard to talk through this stuff in person without sacrificing your privacy (potentially relevant to careers etc) OR even worse, your partner's privacy (as I'm in an open relationship) 4) Accordingly, let's vent the urge by…	/r/seduction	27/09/21 03:59 PM
2	I think I've finally "made it" to the top 1% — these are the factors I find most important! Hey, also. Getting doxxed sucks. I'd really rather avoid it. So I'm going to delete this post relatively shortly. If you got any value out of it, copy it to a word doc somewhere and strip my username out, please! Love ya.	/r/seduction	27/09/21 03:35 PM
1	How much do diets play a role in relationships? Okay, then neither is your comment because you're literally a random Reddit user lol Salt & pepper are seasoning and you're unlikely to find many people sharing your belief they aren't. I hope this doesn't upset you too much. All the best!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/21 05:04 AM
1	How much do diets play a role in relationships? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seasoning The most common seasonings are salt, pepper, and acids (such as lemon juice) Idk man even if we were to quibble about the semantics of this, I think you'd lose that battle	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/21 01:01 AM
2	How much do diets play a role in relationships? Are you actually sure the post we're responding to literally meant rice & chicken with no seasoning? Every bodybuilder / powerlifter I know still seasons etc., at the very least with salt and pepper. Marinade can be a little more annoying to make work if you want to avoid sugar etc. so it's less common, but I still see it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 06:37 AM
1	Looking for a subtle way to signal "open relationship" in Tinder profile, without explicitly saying it It's better to have fewer matches than more matches with people who are not going to be interested later anyway. True, but this isn't everybody. :) In fact, multiple times I've brought it up on the date and gotten a positive response because we've been able to build connection & trust first. But always looking to improve and looking for wording ideas on this one!	/r/seduction	18/05/21 01:20 PM
–	Looking for a subtle way to signal "open relationship" in Tinder profile, without explicitly saying it I don't see why it wouldn't be possible to construct a funny sentence that subtly signals you might have an open relationship. Language is very flexible!	/r/seduction	18/05/21 01:20 PM
1	Polyamory and The Real Truth about Desire He's a professional fighter, runs two businesses, and is dating a smoking hot sex therapist... ... while your most frequent Reddit activity appears to be discussing internal drama on a subreddit dedicated to a women's sex advice podcast I dunno man, doesn't seem like you should be throwing stones about how nobody gets it but you	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/20 09:50 AM
1	PSA for young men: You will almost inevitably get stronger over time as long as you don't fuck things up You've essentially just restated the categorisation in different words, and asserted "that's how proper activation works". That's not going to reconcile a claim that it's not a fundamental categorisation. Agree to disagree here since I doubt either of us are qualified to assess rhomboid EMG data to determine exactly what is "effective". As far as variations go — the typical athlete will perform a low bar back squat very similarly to a conventional deadlift. The core cues of hip drive upwards (no…	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/19 06:03 PM
1	PSA for young men: You will almost inevitably get stronger over time as long as you don't fuck things up I agree with benching more often. I don't necessarily agree with adding more tricep exercise unless triceps specifically are your limiting factor (which they shouldn't be on a program like SS where they are getting more work than your chest). My biggest bench gains have always come when I've stopped fucking around with additional exercises — even skipping dips that I'd scheduled for myself — and have literally just benched and pressed. But accessory work seems to be a lot more individual and dow…	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/19 05:22 PM
1	PSA for young men: You will almost inevitably get stronger over time as long as you don't fuck things up The same principles will apply in terms of proficiency and strength at the movements. You are unlikely to naturally get much larger with calisthenics, though. My understanding is that the growth hormone response likely just won't be there to as great a degree. But yes, you can expect your tendons, strength, grip, etc. to improve over the years as long as you are reasonably consistent.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/19 05:09 PM
1	PSA for young men: You will almost inevitably get stronger over time as long as you don't fuck things up The push/pull/vertical/horizontal split is largely arbitrary. This isn't to say that exercises can't be placed into those separate categories, but the separation isn't particularly 'fundamental'. A good pullup or chinup will absolutely work your rhomboids, which get used heavily during scapular retraction. If you aren't getting rhomboid work during pullups, you aren't doing pullups anywhere near correctly. The separation of squats into posterior chain work, and deadlifts into anterior chain work…	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/19 04:32 PM
1	PSA for young men: You will almost inevitably get stronger over time as long as you don't fuck things up Same logic will still apply for a long time yet. Strength athletes generally only start to taper off around 40+.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/19 02:37 PM
1	Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens? Yeah, I already read that page. That's actually where I got the link from for the study I used. Want to know why I didn't reference the LearnVest study? Because not only is the link to the study broken, and not only does their site now redirect to a different organisation so I couldn't go find the study, but LearnVest was not an inherently reputable academic body. Maybe they did solid analysis on their data. Maybe it's just marketing data. I don't know, because the link to the survey and the com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/19 06:54 PM
1	Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens? It is, factually speaking, not such a dominant social norm that 90% of women expect a man to pay. From this study: "Women were split in whether they follow the traditional norms of expecting men to pay or whether they rejected these norms and were bothered when the man insisted on paying, creating ambiguity for men regarding whether or not to insist on paying the check." And some statistical outtakes: The majority of women say they always offer to pay Around 2/5ths of women feel bothered when th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/19 06:12 PM
1	Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens? Has a girl ever dumped you? Nup Have you ever been ghosted? Nup Gone on one or two dates and then she declined going on any more? And in any of these situations did you either not get an explanation for why or the explanation was something really vague? Anything that's not gone further I've been expecting it, from memory - chemistry just wasn't there for whatever reason. Feeling's largely been mutual. Obviously there are 1,001 reasons why someone might not want to continue seeing a person so unl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/19 05:53 PM
1	Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens? Idk man, it sounds like you're doing something wrong in your date setup if 90% are coming in expecting you to pay. Are these fancy restaurant dates or something? One thing that works well for me is having dates where things need to be brought in advance (picnics, hiking, going to a show where it's BYO, etc.) and just establishing a frame that we'll each bring what we need or want. Hasn't really failed yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/19 03:22 PM
1	Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens? Again, it's just not my reality. I've quite literally never — to my recollection — been on a date with a girl where she has expected me to pay. To some extent that's because I'd only go on a date in the first place with a girl that I thought was cool (I'm not just randomly selecting people to date), but even so... I just don't experience it. Where are you guys finding these girls that demand you pay?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/19 02:28 PM
1	Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens? If that's your reality, I feel very sorry for you. My relationships have always been 50/50 even from the first date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/19 01:50 PM
1	How do you handle arguments in an LTR? ... explain to me how it's okay to make people feel bad through gaslighting & putdowns but not dread	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 01:52 PM
1	How do you handle arguments in an LTR? Don't, this is borderline abusive. Implementing dread could work too, so does gaslighting, put-downs, etc. ?????? Not really sure where you're going here bud	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 01:45 PM
1	There is a stereotype that men are funnier than women. New research (n=5,057) found that, on average, men appear to have higher humor production ability than women. Humor may play a role in mating, with an evolutionary basis. It is correlated with intelligence, which may explain why women value it. I didn't fuck up what you said at all. Here's you: specifically, because each individual anecdote is very statistically weak on its own, some people will (rightly) dismiss it when presented in isolation. but what the rabidly anti-TRP bluetards neglect (when they demand 'cItAtiOnS!'), is that every anecdote is a replication study with an n of 1. and when millions of those weak replications compound (with virtually no counter-evidence presented to the contrary) the statistical significance compoun…	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/19 11:07 PM
1	There is a stereotype that men are funnier than women. New research (n=5,057) found that, on average, men appear to have higher humor production ability than women. Humor may play a role in mating, with an evolutionary basis. It is correlated with intelligence, which may explain why women value it. You're against people pointing out that you don't get to group a whole lot of personally-perceived anecdotal evidence together and call it statistically significant? Nah mate that's bullshit regardless of who says it, and you know that.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/19 09:50 PM
1	There is a stereotype that men are funnier than women. New research (n=5,057) found that, on average, men appear to have higher humor production ability than women. Humor may play a role in mating, with an evolutionary basis. It is correlated with intelligence, which may explain why women value it. If you hate science so much that's fine, just don't disguise your bullshit as it and claim it's statistically significant, a hallmark of science. We should both be able to agree on that, yeah?	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/19 09:26 PM
1	There is a stereotype that men are funnier than women. New research (n=5,057) found that, on average, men appear to have higher humor production ability than women. Humor may play a role in mating, with an evolutionary basis. It is correlated with intelligence, which may explain why women value it. im talking about a fat tony, real world heuristic. one thats based on behavioral evidence, not on self-reporting Alright, and who says the behavioural evidence backs your model of the world? Let's say somebody comes along and tells you — "I see LOTS of anecdotes about women being glad they finally left their asshole boyfriend and now they're with someone much nicer, and they're happier. All the behavioural evidence suggests that TRP dark triad stuff is wrong, with virtually no counter-evidence."…	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/19 08:19 PM
1	There is a stereotype that men are funnier than women. New research (n=5,057) found that, on average, men appear to have higher humor production ability than women. Humor may play a role in mating, with an evolutionary basis. It is correlated with intelligence, which may explain why women value it. This is a really bad argument and I'm astounded it's getting upvotes. So firstly, we're in a community that self-selects for evidence that agrees with the sub's core tenets. People who agree are more likely to come here, remain here, not get banned, comment, etc. Accordingly, you're not seeing thousands of randomly sampled anecdotes that collectively show a TRP bias. You're seeing thousands of anecdotes that likely made their way here because they contain TRP bias, and then obviously determining…	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/19 06:02 PM
1	There is a stereotype that men are funnier than women. New research (n=5,057) found that, on average, men appear to have higher humor production ability than women. Humor may play a role in mating, with an evolutionary basis. It is correlated with intelligence, which may explain why women value it. Games are scripted that's why scores are always so close to the Vegas odds Scores are close to bookmaker odds because the bookmakers have elite mathematicians giving them extremely precise stats on what the scores are likely to be, given the teams' skill	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/19 05:38 PM
1	There is a stereotype that men are funnier than women. New research (n=5,057) found that, on average, men appear to have higher humor production ability than women. Humor may play a role in mating, with an evolutionary basis. It is correlated with intelligence, which may explain why women value it. I think you just don't get dry humour to be honest, Hitchens was as funny as they come	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/19 05:28 PM
1	What do you think about the Married Red Pill sub? You’re trying to tell me you can’t enjoy having a family but also realize that we live in a feminine centered world? No, I was just pre-empting a possible response and discounting it to channel discussion more productively :)	/r/askTRP	27/10/19 05:20 PM
1	What do you think about the Married Red Pill sub? The problem with your general question is that if 10 people answer you get at least 5 different responses that conflict, so you really have nothing of value. I don't agree at all. I find immense value in seeing various conflicting opinions on a subject — in fact, arguably more value than I get if everybody agrees on a particular issue, because it usually will give me a greater diversity of things to think about and consider.	/r/askTRP	27/10/19 05:14 PM
1	What do you think about the Married Red Pill sub? Are you married? Why do you care? ... because I'm interested in learning more about this community in general and how various subgroups are perceived? Is it no longer acceptable to just be interested in things lol? I don't see how asking what the main TRP sub thinks of the MRP sub is in any way preventing me from reading all the subs I find interesting, making myself happy, etc. so I'm not really sure what you're getting at. I do agree with putting in hard work to make yourself happy.	/r/askTRP	27/10/19 05:02 PM
1	I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay? It impairs your desire, not your judgement. Okay. Sounds extremely relevant to whether it was non-consensual sex or not, if it caused her to desire something she wouldn't if sober.	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 03:23 PM
1	I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay? I also believe that molly doesn't impair your judgment, you just get more touchy-feely, but not at all a justification to cheat on your SO. "You just get more touchy-feely" Lol I'm straight as an arrow and on MDMA I've been at a point where I would have made out with a male cross-dresser if they'd have been down for it. It has 100% impaired my judgement some times I've been on it.	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 02:06 PM
1	I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay? As a side note, if you can actually claim that being on molly is like being intoxicated, similar to alcohol This has pretty much always been the case. Why do you think it isn't the status quo...?	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 01:03 PM
1	I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay? That's not what my last point means, though. If the legal system judges that there is insufficient evidence to either prove that it was consensual or non-consensual, it simply wouldn't return a "Guilty" verdict on either a slander charge or a rape charge were they to be pressed. That wouldn't be siding with either party or taking what either of them say at face value. It would simply be staying out of the situation due to not enough evidence.	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 01:02 PM
1	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. Sorry, not sorry but that is so not true. I do squats and lunges and everything else DAILY You shouldn't be squatting daily. Even strength programs notorious for having people squat excessive amounts have you squat maybe 4x a week. How much do you squat? I have not seen a single woman squat 80kg+ and not have a solid ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 12:39 PM
1	I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay? Virtually impossible. It's super difficult to prove she wasn't on molly (in fact, you could possibly interpret OP to mean she was on molly but the sex was still consensual), and as long as that possibility exists then she'd have a very strong claim that the sex was non-consensual. There's virtually no chance that he can prove the sex was consensual to the degree that lets him get compensation for slander. (That doesn't mean she can prove the sex was non-consensual by default, either — it's possi…	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 11:07 AM
1	I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay? It is, but that wouldn't absolve OP of responsibility in the situation. Breaking into a home is illegal, but using disproportionate force to stop them (e.g. a shotgun blast to the head of a 15 year old unarmed kid) is also illegal, yeah? Same thing. Someone can be illegally on drugs, and yet someone can still illegally rape them.	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 10:55 AM
1	Red Pill for People Managers? I'm confused as to whether you're responding directly to me or not, and to which part?	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 04:43 AM
1	Red Pill for People Managers? Or is it better to treat direct reports like women, and get what I can out of them, recognize they'll never be happy, and run "dread game" on them so I can get ahead? This is a surefire route to making your position super brittle and less effective. My closest staff would pretty much die to keep working under me, because: I am very comfortable making decisions for the group in unclear situations, committing to them, laying out a simple plan for their execution, and building confidence in the gro…	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 04:18 AM
1	How to propose anal Coconut oil will break down the latex in latex condoms (which are the vast majority)	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 04:09 AM
1	How to propose anal Coconut oil is great lube and cheaper than KY jelly A warning, though: Coconut oil can cause latex to break down, making it inappropriate for use with latex condoms. Don't make us dads bro	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 04:09 AM
1	I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay? MDMA isn't interchangeable with roofies, but it certainly fucking alters your ability to consent if you've had an appreciable dose. I've done plenty of shit on MDMA I never would have agreed to sober.	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 03:08 AM
1	I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay? Long story short, slepped with a women who had a boyfriend, we were at a party, she claimed i took advantage of her because she was on molly This is the OP. If he brings this to a court, and the woman says she was on molly (and can provide even decent evidence she may have been), OP might be fucked. Why are you so sure the case goes his way? I can see it leading to countercharges by the state actually trying to send him to jail.	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 03:07 AM
1	I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay? Did you read the post? Long story short, slepped with a women who had a boyfriend, we were at a party, she claimed i took advantage of her because she was on molly If she was on molly or can provide at least decent evidence suggesting she may have been, a judge & jury might very well take her side that it was non-consensual (especially if he wasn't on molly himself or it can be suggested he wasn't under as large an effect). This dude should probably be thankful the law isn't involved lol.	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 03:06 AM
1	Was this girl flirting with me? If she was attractive, I'd say yeah. But you say a 9/10, which is super attractive if you're not just blinded by thirst and calling a 7/10 a 9. At that level of attractiveness, she might just be highly secure in herself and either doing it absent mindedly or to mess with you.	/r/askTRP	21/10/19 11:34 AM
1	Women are very upset about MGTOW It's such a weird comparison in general — "women don't want YOU, fatass with a boring job, they want a friendly guy also with a boring job!". ??? I'm more than happy to concede that the vast majority of the MGTOW crowd probably aren't very attractive to women. The amount of bitterness in many of the posts there is just bound to manifest in their real life conversations. But that doesn't mean there isn't a subconscious part of women that is upset about the slow rise in popularity of MGTOW and gen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/19 03:04 AM
2	Women are very upset about MGTOW She definitely doesn’t mean the friendly guy with a steady day shift at Qwiktrip in her little town. She means YOU, fat assed, assistant to the director of IT in some metro area. I'm a little puzzled as to the implication that the Qwiktrip job is better than the IT one, given the rest of the context...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/19 02:47 AM
1	TRP on a girls bookcase.. She sounds interesting. Too little info to say whether you should date/sleep with/be friends with/etc. but at the very least it sounds like you could get some interesting conversations out of it. I'm a pretty big advocate of pursuing interesting conversation where you can get it (really good conversation is a lot rarer than good sex, in my experience), so why not keep hanging out?	/r/askTRP	12/10/19 03:11 PM
1	"A true RP man would never let you know he's RP" Can I just point out this was your last comment: If the views are bullshit, and they aren't pretending they are something else, the truth will come out. So it seems a little weird, when I ask "why are we assuming they aren't pretending they're something else?", you now say "we aren't". I was just rolling with your hypothetical lol I really don't think it's that hard to avoid disclosing certain beliefs. I have some friends who I'm pretty sure I've never talked politics with, others that I've neve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 04:44 PM
1	"A true RP man would never let you know he's RP" Generally when someone is a compulsive liar I pick up on it quickly. You have no idea if this is true or not because you don't know how many cases there are where you HAVEN'T picked up on it. I don't know how much clearer I can be. The only way for you to properly assess how reliably you "figure out" liars would be to have: A sample of a certain number (X) of people that you've interacted with A certain number (Y) that you identify as liars A certain number (Z) that were actually lying to you An…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 04:38 PM
1	"A true RP man would never let you know he's RP" I have plenty of experience with other people, enough to know that my ability to feel them out is excellent Why are you not responding to the point here, though? You literally can't know the cases where your ability to feel them out was incorrect, because... you never find out that you were incorrect. If someone had successfully hidden a belief from you this entire time, you might very well still think that you had figured them out well. You would be incorrectly counting them as evidence of your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 04:22 PM
1	"A true RP man would never let you know he's RP" Well, if you have a small sample size in the first place... ...and there's an obvious sampling bias potential here (we can't gauge what % of people successfully hide their true persona from us, because they succeed)... Then you really don't have any idea whether you can reliably figure out someone's beliefs if they're trying to hide them from you. You only know that there are at least some cases where you can, but you don't know if there are others where you couldn't, or if there would be many m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 04:13 PM
1	"A true RP man would never let you know he's RP" If the views are bullshit, and they aren't pretending they are something else, the truth will come out. Why are we assuming they aren't pretending they're something else? TRP is pretty fond of quoting Fight Club ("Don't talk about Fight Club") and 48 Laws of Power ("Think as you like but behave like others"), both in the context we're referring to. Hell, their sidebar literally states the TRP is amoral. So why are we assuming they wouldn't hide their beliefs? Seems like they're pretty big advoca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 03:39 PM
1	"A true RP man would never let you know he's RP" No. I’m not stupid. I like to talk. there is no way to hide misogyny and douchebaggery from me long enough to get me to commit to “dating.” The best a douche like this could get is a couple dates before I figured it out. I'm not sure you understood the point. You're forming the belief that you're good at figuring people out based on your previous experiences figuring out who they really are. But this is not a good way of accurately assessing your skill on the matter, because this sample group in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 03:23 PM
1	"A true RP man would never let you know he's RP" Have you considered that maybe you think their BS won't be successful because you only ever recognise the ones who are bad as BS? You would never know if you'd dated a guy who BS'd you successfully the whole way, because, well... by definition he BS'd you successfully	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 03:08 PM
1	"A true RP man would never let you know he's RP" Holy shit dude I feel sorry for you I'm a romantically successful bloke and have found honesty one of my most useful tools lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 03:06 PM
1	I survived a car crash, but not my manhood. How do I maintain control of the relationship and be dominant while barely being able to support myself emotionally? You don't need to. Let yourself heal, man. A good chick will stick with you for easily long enough for that to happen, regardless of how 'beta' you are. I've gone through long bouts of fucking catatonic psychosis and extended periods of depression where I've had to literally be coddled lmao, because my mental health is shit - after a while, I got myself back, and my relationship c…	/r/askTRP	04/10/19 03:59 PM
1	Is it too late for me to become a good wife? There are few enough women who exemplify the traits desired on this sub that a man will automatically overlook you even if he dislikes your past. There are also few that will interrogate you on your past before you've had time to demonstrate those traits. You don't need to lie. It will disadvantage you a little, but you can stack so many other advantages in your favor that you don't need to lie... so nor should you.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/19 06:51 AM
1	CMV: Men can be neutral about high N women but it is rarely a postive Let me contrast two comments of yours, including this one. 1. These are all fair points and I'll give you a delta. However I have seen some women argue that having more partners increases their relationship value, and that's the sentiment I disagree with. 2. I was just reading a comment thread where someone was trying to argue guys would prefer promiscuous women who are amazing at sex over low/average N women who are average at sex. Comment 1 seems to imply a very direct relationship is being ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/19 06:14 PM
1	CMV: Men can be neutral about high N women but it is rarely a postive What do you think about men who prefer a middle ground? i.e. the N count being either too high or too low is not ideal? There are certainly women that I'm attracted to, but slightly put off by because I know they're sexually inexperienced. I likely wouldn't be having fantastic sex with her while she learns, might not know if we're really sexually compatible for a long time accordingly, and overall just participate in a less sexually-charged relationship which might not be as much fun. So her too…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/19 05:45 PM
1	When a LTR isn't worth saving / how much should I sacrifice for him? / Are these actually red flags or not? isn't a red flag at such a young age. is a red flag re: never thanking you. It's fine for him not to have owned a car earlier. is not a red flag, he probably feels like you're pressuring him. I wouldn't even say this is a "lack of direction", he just (rightly) feels it's too early to say much constructive on the subject beyond him telling you he wants that life one day (which he HAS). isn't a red flag but it's concerning. It can be addressed, though. Build a fun list of things to do together ins…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/19 06:01 PM
1	Let's be honest: Women are primarily interested taking advantage of and mooching off men Alright, more gals for me bud All the best!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/19 03:12 PM
1	Let's be honest: Women are primarily interested taking advantage of and mooching off men Not my problem, is it? I've got a healthy, fun relationship with a hot girl who contributes value. OP doesn't appear to have that. I share my view of how relationships ought to work, and if he can't make the same viewpoint work in his own life, seems like his loss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/19 03:08 PM
1	Let's be honest: Women are primarily interested taking advantage of and mooching off men Excellent contribution mate Spend much time online just throwing snark for no contributive purpose?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/19 03:05 PM
1	Let's be honest: Women are primarily interested taking advantage of and mooching off men I think a common mistake that TRP makes is thinking about relationships purely as a trade rather than as a possibility for value-creation, in general. By which I mean the mindset that men give resources and security and humour, while women give sex and chores and social proof, and it's all just one big transaction of things that each side possesses. If you view relationships as transactions, then of course you're going to focus on whether the transaction is lopsided or not... and if you think th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 04:00 PM
1	Let's be honest: Women are primarily interested taking advantage of and mooching off men I think in most relationships, either casual or serious, the man gives more than what he receives in return. Men perform more labor, produce more romance, spend more money, and are more dependable, helpful, and in many ways, are more capable, than what most women are. Can I suggest you're just not dating high enough quality women? Within our relationship, my girlfriend: Earns her own finances Does more of the house chores Organises as many social events for us as I do Takes care of our plants Ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 03:18 PM
1	Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bed Jesus Christ dude this is not what AWALT is about AWALT is like... no matter how seemingly kind-hearted your girlfriend is, you can still be cheated on, and no matter what your girl says she likes (nice guys, etc.), she's still very likely attracted to stereotypically attractive bad boy types too AWALT is not some ridiculous "every girl is equally embarassed about mentioning periods" shit rofl	/r/askTRP	15/09/19 02:47 PM
1	Why would people put a high priority on looks when searching for a long term relationship? You're confusing necessary with sufficient conditions. It's necessary to be physically attracted to your partner if you want the relationship to last in a healthy fashion. Otherwise people start looking outside for their physical pleasure, and while open relationships are fine, open relationships out of resentment or loss are not. It is not sufficient to purely be attracted to them. You need more as well. What's the issue?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 02:08 PM
1	What do you eat for breakfast? Overnight oats — fill a large container with oatmeal and milk, add whatever you want, and leave in the fridge overnight so the oats soak the milk up. I add cinnamon sugar, honey, banana, and some mixed berries. Tastes better than regular oats.	/r/askTRP	01/09/19 01:51 PM
1	(Q4MEN) What are some non sexual/non obvious "hoe" traits? The thread said "non obvious" lol - isn't this a screamer of a tell? But, agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 01:22 AM
1	Seeing my Ex in class everyday after a very positive summer of self improvement Mate this is just a girl in the same college class as him "Don't shit where you eat" is fine advice but that applies to like... coworkers and close family friends where it could really fuck your life up. It's completely ok to date a girl who you meet in the same college class and he absolutely shouldn't take away the lesson not to date anyone who he sees on a regular basis. TRP is here to help guys, not make them think they can only fuck girls they meet at bus stops and clubs because they're ter…	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 02:44 PM
1	Conflicted about ending an amazing relationship This is a traditional long distance relationship. What do you think those are?	/r/askTRP	15/08/19 01:34 PM
1	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? Your comment history doesn't read like you're very happy at all. How's your approach to life workin' out for ya?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 08:38 PM
1	Is TRP & TBP bad? But if you value people based on looks you don't have as much of an emotional range to express. Alright, but doesn't this make it even more possible for a world to exist in which a) men value women for looks, b) men aren't judged much for showing emotions? My point is that simply arguing that women are valued for looks DOES NOT IMPLY anything about how men are seen for expressing emotions. This is just... obviously possible, right? You can imagine a world in which men are highly valued no matter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 05:40 AM
1	Is TRP & TBP bad? Men having emotions is seen as being bad, unsexy, weak, pathetic socially. ... I'm specifically asking you how women being valued for looks is connected to men being seen as unsexy for having emotions. Simply re-asserting that men are seen as unsexy for having emotions does not at all answer the question. men only want to fuck beautiful women and aren't judged for seeing emotion That doesn't make sense because it excludes entirely sex based on emotion if they are selecting for looks. Which is to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 04:51 AM
1	Is TRP & TBP bad? Men being barred from expressing emotions or getting treated like shit for crying is completely related to beauty standards. Because like I already said men are depicted as animals who must want to fuck anyone who looks good enough for it. Women's value being beauty is therefore connected to males being pressured to be stoic. How? I cannot stress this enough - you aren't connecting your ideas or seemingly even making an attempt. The idea that men are seen as wanting to fuck any woman who looks g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 04:17 AM
1	Is TRP & TBP bad? In a world where superficiality was not the framework for hypergamy, it would still be entirely possible for women to find expressing emotion unsexy Not entirely true. Lookism is connected to male dominance & male superiority completely. That's why women are valued for their looks more than their minds. It's an easy way to oppress & silence them. Clear enough or should we explore that more? Of course it's not clear, because instead of responding to the point (in a nutshell — women could still fi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 03:38 AM
1	Is TRP & TBP bad? I think you should focus more on learning how to connect logical links in arguments, because simply picking out buzzwords that sound cool isn't persuasive. Hate towards women's sexual agency has to do with the fear that women will express their sexual agency superficially which the same way a male would if they were desired as much sexually as females are. You spent a lot of words getting towards a pretty unobjectionable idea - yes, men worry about women not instrinsically loving them. This is s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 03:04 AM
1	The Promiscuity of Modern Women is Overstated I mean, you could say exactly the same thing about the mean. It's always going to be more useful to see the entire data set visualised, but insofar as it's often easier to talk about a single number... both the mean and median can be useful. It's also, for the sake of good discussion, just useful to understand the difference between the two, which is why I'm making sure OP does given that they discussed median in the first post and since switched to mean, when the two aren't interchangeable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 01:47 PM
1	The Promiscuity of Modern Women is Overstated Again - I'm responding to the OP, who talked about the median from the very start of the thread. Maybe you don't care about the median, but OP wrote about it, so I'm talking to them. Additionally... I would think the median is very relevant to PPD / TRP. For example, if you had a population where some men were getting little sex (say 10,000 men with ~5 lifetime partners) and some men were getting a lot (say 100 men with 50+ lifetime partners), you would expect the mean to be higher than the medi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 01:39 PM
1	The Promiscuity of Modern Women is Overstated I just want to check that you know the argument you're giving here applies to the mean, but your OP stated the median. Two very different things. Very possible for men and women to have a different median number of partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 12:50 PM
1	Are there any RPW rules which you don't "follow" or cannot accept for you? Wait, not living together prior to marriage is a rule? I can't fathom entering into marriage without knowing how you're gonna live with someone prior lol	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/19 05:54 AM
1	Female Bartender had me banned from bar for "soliciting prostitution" Almost certainly the exact opposite - very unlikely OP would get a reaction like this from the bartender unless he was coming off vastly more creepy than he's aware of... and his behaviour (going up to her to ask why she doesn't like him? wtf) indicates to me that's somewhat likely.	/r/askTRP	28/07/19 02:14 PM
1	What can I do if my IQ is 75 ? What do you mean by 'prospects'? Because I'm recommending he get a business certification to start a business, not to get a job.	/r/askTRP	23/07/19 10:06 PM
1	CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall. You guys are still living in the 80s where you think every woman is begging for a nice fella to come and marry her and stay committed to her for life. Plenty of women don't want to have kids, get married or even be in a monogamous relationship. Also, increasing rates of women are bisexual now so who's to say that they're taking a break from men and dating women for a while. Notice that you're now trying to shift the very goalposts you set up. You started this conversation by stating that men are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/19 09:08 PM
1	CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall. Dolan relies on a single study - the American Time Use Survey - which primarily tries to figure out what people do with their time. It isn't well geared towards measuring happiness. Additionally, the survey actually shows that married people are happier than other groups, if the person involved was interacting with someone else while taking the survey. (Dolan paraphrases this as "when their spouse is in the room", but the actual terminology is simply "were you interacting with anyone during this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/19 08:57 PM
1	CMV: The entire RP/mgtow concept of "the wall" is a cope and a revenge fantasy, men are actually the ones who have a wall. The idea of a 'wall' is a barrier you can't break. Yes, unattractive guys at the age of 30 without much income, social proof, etc. will find it hard. But they can work their way out of this problem by starting a business, making new friends, working on their social skills, learning to flirt, etc. An unattractive woman at 35 is pretty much fucked no matter what other attributes she has, and there's only so much she can do to improve her looks. I work with almost all women and women in their 30s/4…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/19 08:12 PM
1	What can I do if my IQ is 75 ? First, I want to point out that there are lots of things you can be excellent at with zero logic or original thought whatsoever: If you follow a bodybuilder's diet and a basic strength program plus any cardio, you'll look better than 95% of men If you spend less than you earn and simply have the discipline to save the rest, you'll end up in a solid financial position If you go to a well-reviewed barber, show them a few options, and tell them to pick whatever they think would look good, you'll ge…	/r/askTRP	23/07/19 07:25 PM
1	Are bisexual girls a red flag? I'm in an LTR with a bisexual girl, which obviously has its perks. We've both had issues with depression, and it seems to me reasonably common among girls who are more likely than average to be bi (though this could also be more tightly correlated to liberal attitudes, openness, extroversion, nihilistic/hedonistic attitudes, etc.). You could make an argument there. At the same time - the communication in this relationship is the best I've ever experienced by far, and we almost never have 'fights…	/r/askTRP	22/07/19 07:02 PM
1	Best TRP novels? Keep The Aspidistra Flying by George Orwell - This covers the fate of a man who despises the role money has in society. Most of the critique is about our consumerist system in general, but relevant to TRP, he's sure that he'd be more attractive with more money and despises that he can't just "be himself" effectively, working a job he loves more, and still have success. He ends up effectively trapped in a not-great relationship and a slave to money. The Snows of Kilimanjaro by Enrest Hemingway - …	/r/askTRP	22/07/19 12:19 PM
1	Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"? I strongly disagree with your perception of the facts at hand, and your username shows you probably have a severe bias. It is very clear that the vast majority of men prefer younger women. Another example: https://advances.sciencemag.org/content/advances/4/8/eaap9815.full.pdf Look at how many messages women receive by age - the graph starts at 18 and sure enough, 18 year old women receive the highest number of messages. It then declines every single year thereafter in a completely consistent cur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/19 04:31 AM
1	Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"? There is a market for it, but again - the vast majority are young slim perky women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/19 04:02 AM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? Aw no dude you've misunderstood me In the context of this entire statement: What is this thought experiment accomplishing, though? It's not like modern feminism is simply "treat us exactly like men in all cases". It simply argues that men have certain advantages which should be reduced. The last bit means that feminist desire for equality is moreso a matter of reducing certain unfair advantages that men have over women, as opposed to women wanting to be treated exactly like men currently are. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 11:56 AM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? I'm not sure if you're agreeing with me or not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 11:39 AM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? Your question is misguided because there is no "feminist ideal resolution" to a specific situation — feminists disagree on things all the time and there are multiple strains of feminism. There is literally no answer to your question. Re: I'm just pointing out a problem with your argument Right, and I'm calling you out on it. This discussion started about whether women would want to be treated with disrespect like weak guys, which is a particular disadvantage for men. So tell me - how would remov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 09:20 AM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? Because removing a disadvantage from one sex will victimise the other. Explain how strong men treating weak men with respect would victimise women. I'm curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 07:17 AM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? Okay. Not sure how that's on topic, but okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 07:16 AM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? You realise that something doesn't have to be intelligent for people to want/believe/propose it, right? And that my claim is about what feminists want/believe/propose, not about what is correct. I'm simply showing that lots of prominent feminists don't want to disregard male disadvantages. In fact, they're actively writing ARTICLES about male disadvantage. Whether you think they're correct or good writers is completely besides the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 07:16 AM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? They want equality but they only want to diminish male priveleges, and disregard male disadvantages while opposing any eroding of female priveleges Says who? 23 Ways Feminism Has Made The World A Better Place For Men: https://www.mic.com/articles/88277/23-ways-feminism-has-made-the-world-a-better-place-for-men All The Ways Feminism Is Fighting For Men: https://medium.com/thrive-global/all-the-ways-feminism-is-fighting-for-men-5777dde965f What Feminists Can Do For Boys: https://www.nytimes.com/20…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 03:11 PM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? That is what equality is. The good and the bad. A desire for equality is only one component of feminist ideology. Another - HUGE - part is the belief the world can genuinely be improved and a more egaliatarian, kinder place. Feminists want both, and this isn't contradictory. Keep in mind that there are many possible 'equal' societies: You could have a society in which all people (men and women) are constantly beaten half to death, for example. You could also have a society in which all people (m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 02:59 PM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? Done	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 02:54 PM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? So whats your point? Women want more good treatment but not more bad treatment? Men are exactly the same - we want fairer custody and alimony laws, but not less pay. Aside from severe masochists, every single person in the world would take better treatment and turn down worse treatment. What is this thought experiment accomplishing, though? It's not like modern feminism is simply "treat us exactly like men in all cases". It simply argues that men have certain advantages which should be reduced. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 02:43 PM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? Well, firstly, you sound like an asshole. I'm a strong dude that respects the hell out of smaller/weaker guys than myself and don't see why it need be otherwise. Secondly, you're just constructing a bizarre hypothetical for yourself. Would women like a world where they 'got' equality and started being treated like men, with all the downsides of being a man? No, they'd have their problems with it too. But that's a pointless argument to win because modern feminism actively acknowledges that men ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 02:36 PM
1	Would women really like equality? Would women want to be treated like short weak men? I mean, progressive women who argue for gender equality also don't support stronger men beating up weaker men... ... so there's not really a contradiction here, when you seem to be trying to find one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 02:22 PM
1	Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"? What this means is that women are much more similar to one another in every regard than men are - this includes their taste in men. Don't believe me? Take a trip down to your local bookstore, browse the romance section and look at the male leads on the covers. They're all clones of one another. I mean, look at female porn stars, though. The vast majority are young slim perky women with only minor variances in hair colour pretty much. Both sexes heavily prefer certain ideals	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 01:01 PM
1	CMV: TRP Encourages a Mindset which Women Find Unattractive If you don't appreciate people telling you that you may be fundamentally incorrect about the world, don't start threads online asking people to change your view. If you're so certain of your beliefs, then go live life with them. Nobody on here is going to coddle you when you come here asking for people to tell you that you're wrong, they do exactly that, and you get sulky about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 11:07 PM
1	CMV: TRP Encourages a Mindset which Women Find Unattractive possibly. but i'm not attracted to him BECAUSE he's RP. Why should anybody believe this? A pretty core tenet of the RP sub is that women often lack insight into what they're really attracted to, and may think it's something different entirely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 09:53 PM
1	CMV: TRP Encourages a Mindset which Women Find Unattractive but TRP discourages men from showing emotion, which i'd argue is necessary for intimacy. No, TRP discourages men from showing too much unproductive emotion. I don't think you'll find many people on TRP telling you not to show happiness, passion, motivation, etc. Indeed, TRP recently lamented the site Chateau Heartiste going down, and one of their core "commandments" was to connect with a girl's emotions. Maybe you've seen a sentence saying "don't show emotion", but they don't literally mean any …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 06:49 PM
1	CMV: TRP Encourages a Mindset which Women Find Unattractive Men do have conversations without women around, yknow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 05:13 PM
1	CMV: TRP Encourages a Mindset which Women Find Unattractive Fit, responsible, good income, emotionally reserved often makes for a boring relationship. There are no butterflies; the relationship lacks passion and intimacy, at least from the female point of view. None of those are incompatible with passion and intimacy. People aren't magically more intimate by being unfit, for example. The only way you're close is on "emotionally reserved", but effectively TRP advocates to not blab endlessly about your hardships in life. That's not the same as not expressi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 11:06 AM
1	Why are girls obsessed with tanning when it makes them less attractive? I think a lot of girls look better with a tan. Your taste is subjective, as is their decision	/r/askTRP	28/06/19 10:55 AM
1	Where can I really find a dominant man? High profile careers - lawyers & bankers in particular.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/19 10:50 AM
34	What red pill facts surprised you the most? That everything is about frame and confidence and sexual market value rather than your actual words... which allows you to voice things that you would inherently assume would be unattractive and GAIN from it, as long as the other factors are in play. Are you a jacked dude with good frame and social control? Yeah, you can enrapture a party talking about fucking SPREADSHEETS if that's your jam, and girls will not only tolerate it, but feel more attracted to you, because: You're displaying unusual …	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 02:32 PM
19	What red pill facts surprised you the most? Thanks u/BigJohnnyCockRamPHD, I'll try to keep it in mind	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 02:27 PM
1	CMV: Most men severely underestimate the work women do in terms of working out/diet to just "not be fat". I think you're overstating the case a little, but at the same time I agree with you. On one hand: Woman who are "just not fat" are typically making most of their meals, eating mostly nutritious food, working out 4+ times a week, barely eating out. And side note... try running on the treadmill on a limited number of calories. Running is already hard, now you have to do it while you feel like garbage and you are slightly lightheaded Nah, this just isn't true. To "not be fat" you pretty much only h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/19 04:16 PM
1	Girl from brazil I randomly know wants to fly 14 hours to visit me? Fucking lol Girl with a great rack, fit body, nice legs, apparently nice facial structure is not an 8.5? I'll grant her lips are a bit large for my taste but they're still a fine shape If you think she's not at least an 8 on either a linear or bell curve scale, you're deluding yourself as to your standards	/r/askTRP	18/06/19 02:21 PM
1	had my first taste of pussy tonite. with a tinder hookup. I mean, he's not actually wrong in a sense https://www.everydayhealth.com/hs/sensitive-teeth/brush-teeth-too-hard/ When it comes to brushing your teeth, there is such a thing as proper technique. Brushing too hard — or using the wrong toothbrush — can damage your teeth and gums, leading to problems like enamel wear and receding gums, which can in turn lead to tooth sensitivity, says Gene Romo, DDS, a Chicago-based dentist and consumeradvisor for the American Dental Association (ADA). “People ten…	/r/askTRP	15/06/19 01:01 PM
5	had my first taste of pussy tonite. with a tinder hookup. I'm just playin dude it's all good :)	/r/askTRP	15/06/19 12:22 PM
1	had my first taste of pussy tonite. with a tinder hookup. You shouldn’t brush your teeth before or after strange women. You risk opening up your gums to infections she may have had Did you absorb OP's autism by osmosis or...	/r/askTRP	15/06/19 11:14 AM
0	I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this? Concern trolling is when you pretend to align with an ideology, but express "concerns" about it, when your real motivation is to undermine that ideology. (At least by every definition I've seen.) It does not apply to cases when you genuinely agree with someone, but also have actual concerns — if there's no malice or feigned agreement there, or intent to disrupt conversation, then it's not trolling... just a differing point of view. I can't convince you that my intentions are genuine, so you'll j…	/r/askTRP	27/05/19 11:43 PM
3	I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this? Even though you hasten to mollify the dude with comments about not attacking him, it still boils down to "Don't be so angry, it's yucky." Again — this statement (or an equivalent) is nowhere in the text, I have no ill will towards him, and I agree with his advice. I have only guessed that he is angry from his speech patterns, and recommended against being angry for his own happiness; this is of course not the same as commenting on whether his speech patterns are acceptable or not in public disco…	/r/askTRP	27/05/19 01:09 PM
1	I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this? Hm? Assuming that you're okay with the existence of this thread in the first place, I don't see any kind of principle that would make giving advice to OP acceptable, but giving advice to others in the thread "not our business" and therefore to be avoided. You're welcome to avoid giving unsolicited advice if it makes you uncomfortable, but I struggle to see why you would claim "nor should we care". If I shouldn't be taking any stance on how he interacts online, why are you taking a stance on how …	/r/askTRP	27/05/19 11:39 AM
1	I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this? I pretty much agree completely with his advice. My concern for his anger and unhappiness have nothing to do with whether he's actually correct or not.	/r/askTRP	27/05/19 11:25 AM
1	I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this? ... I explicitly went out of my way to state I wasn't attacking him and had no ill will towards him. I actually agree that he should end the relationship, so I don't even disagree per se. You're interpreting what you want to interpret from my comment, but it's not in the text, and it wasn't anywhere in my mental sphere when I made the comment. If you want to argue with a ghost, more power to you, but there's nothing there.	/r/askTRP	27/05/19 11:24 AM
1	How do women help men succeed? You need better chicks.	/r/askTRP	27/05/19 05:33 AM
1	I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this? Looking at your comment history (and this is just the first page): No need to waste his time trying to explain to clever slut that going on a date with an ex fuck buddy while being in a relationship is breaking the fundamental rule of a COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. Man shut the fuck up. You're giving cuck advice. Please stop. The girl is garbage, Stop trying to change these hoes into who they're not. Learn to dump these disrepectful hoes that u guys are poorly vetting in the first place. You're offer…	/r/askTRP	27/05/19 03:27 AM
1	My boyfriend hates my unatural blonde hair and keeps bringing up how I got it done without consulting him. Done, my apologies	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/19 03:14 PM
1	My boyfriend hates my unatural blonde hair and keeps bringing up how I got it done without consulting him. This just sounds controlling. It's fine for him to dislike unnatural hair colours, but hating it to the extent that he brings it so frequently is irrational, and his problem more than yours. (There's nothing that dyed hair inherently does to hurt him enough to justify the obsession, so he's probably irrationally interpreting it is a signal or symptom of something completely different, like an attention-seeking personality. That sort of psychological link should be his to deal with and his alone.…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/19 01:20 PM