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Let me tell you something, kids are mean. You’re a grown man, you’ve grown from that situation and you are probably not seeing that girl in every class anymore. If you just start talking to a girl the way you would talk to one of your guy friends, you’ll feel 100% relieved and less pressure. Las thing you need is pressure. Also, re-wire your brain. Instead of worrying about every potential conflict, embrace the conflict. If someone is going to give you shit for something you did that was harmles…
/r/seduction19/09/18 01:05 AM
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This is an excellent post, I didn’t go as in-depth but I was trying to tell guys a good start to seduction is seeing women as people with a life outside of the bedroom. I see a lot of posts on here about guys worrying about saying the wrong thing over text and it’s because they’ve poured all their time and energy on this path of getting laid, and then get frustrated when shit doesn’t go their way
/r/seduction15/09/18 04:50 PM
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Man up and be honest with your intentions. If you like them, then just tell them. Also, expect the potential of getting rejected, because that is going to happen a shit load.
/r/seduction15/09/18 04:43 PM
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Are you just nervous in general or is it just a thing with girls? Go see a counselor or get yourself out there to as many social events as possible. People on the surface are not that bad.
/r/seduction15/09/18 04:37 PM
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This is such a defeatist attitude. PUA aside and dating a side, you’re just completely avoiding the idea of dealing with rejection. You’re gong to live a miserable life trying to avoid the inevitable. Rejection sucks but it’s a part of life. Elon musk is worth a billion dollars. There’s a video of him crying during the interview when the guy interviewing him showed him clips of some of his idols trashing his ideas and saying they won’t work in the long run. That shit stings. It’s suppose to, but…
/r/seduction14/09/18 02:32 AM
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I think the most defeating thing for your own ego is thinking about losing your virginity with any one of these girls. You’ve lost the war before it even started with your mentality. Science says a girl knows if she’s going to sleep with you in the first 30 seconds, so all that’s left for you is to be yourself until one girl finally lets you go all the way. Tinder isn’t going to make you happy in the long run. It’s a women’s app and the odds are stacked against you, and when you do match with a …
/r/seduction14/09/18 12:01 AM
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ok my Spanish brother first thing you need to do is not call yourself a PUA. Don't even think of this label when you want to meet women because it adds too much pressure, think of yourself as a guy who is shooting his shot with a hot girl. You're inexperienced and this example clearly illustrates it, you just didn't know how to de-escalate the situation. Don't lay your hands on anyone in situations like that, man or woman, regardless of the conflict. if someone is being white trailer trash and s…
/r/seduction23/08/18 02:57 PM
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I’ll tell you right now that reddit is not a reliable source, especially the women subs on here. If you go through old threads on this sub, the men on here don’t take r/women or r/xchromosomes seriously and they shouldn’t. These subs have a very hardline feminist position on relationships and draw very critical conclusions on men as a gender. The women on those subs represent maybe 1% of the total female population out there, their opinions are NOT the norm. Just look at the threads on these sub…
/r/seduction22/08/18 03:24 AM
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I don’t agree with all of this advice. There’s some good ones but youre speaking for all women, as if all women react to compliments and being hit on in the same fashion as you. Honestly, there’s no way of telling if someone likes you. Not every girl is going to smile and make eye contact with you to let you know she’s inviting you to hit on her. Also, I don’t care what you say, but physical attraction is the first thing men and women notice. To tell men not to compliment a woman on her appearan…
/r/seduction21/08/18 08:40 PM
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If she’s snapping you, she thinks you’re an interesting guy. You’re not a mind reader and we’re not mind readers. The only way you can really find out is by asking her out
/r/seduction13/08/18 08:36 PM
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the environment of tinder is simply built against you. it's a women's dating app. by choosing to play in that environment you are surrendering yourself as a chode that is willing to be bent by rules and standards set by women. if you understand this, you can see why it is ridiculous to think that alpha men would spend even a second of time on this app This this this
/r/seduction12/08/18 05:40 PM
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True, in my post I was more so reaching out to the guys who are struggling to get dates and don't have the greatest social skills around people in general. the guy who has a normal dating life and uses it to pass time or w/e is fine, so long as he knows not to develop any dependency on that app
/r/seduction12/08/18 05:36 PM
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Look at some of the threads on this sub and learn. Everyone has the same problems with being nervous, you just have to work on your flaws. Also, being hard of hearing hasn't stopped anyone from getting some, in fact I think it puts you at an advantage because you depend on your body language to express yourself, which is something a lot of guys lack. Plus having strong body language is fucking attractive, you guide the way with your body and women will reciprocate your energy. No one has told yo…
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:51 PM
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For anyone to give you advice on this subject matter would be defeating the whole purpose of what r/seduction is all about. This isn't related to seduction at all. With this being said, I was in your shoes not too long ago and I hope you find the will power within you to give it one more push and talk to a woman. Hell, lower your standards a bit if you need practice. Nobody needs to know about your past sex life. If it comes up, lie. it's no ones business but yours.
/r/seduction12/08/18 03:43 AM
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hey asshole, this is a perspective I'm sharing it's not a field report or scripted idea. I'm presenting an idea and nobody is forcing you to agree with it, or click on this post and read it all. Fuck your no good, sensitive ass living in candy land that thinks this world is black and white and the universe owes you something. News flash, the universe, the girls and everyone youre gonna meet in life doesn't owe you SHIT. Stop being a negative nancy and complaining, go out there and fix your issue…
/r/seduction07/08/18 10:35 PM
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I hear ‘don’t holla at the gym’ often but this is really a case by case scenario. OP’s approach was respectful, he worked out on the same machine and had great small talk with her, she was receptive to the convo. He used an indirect approach. He asked and she made herself unavailable. OP executed this wonderfully, although i would’ve added something like ‘hey it was a pleasure meeting you, do you want to hang out sometime in the near future?’ Before asking for her number. Then again it’s good th…
/r/seduction07/08/18 03:36 PM
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I’m a little late responding to this but keep this in the back of your mind from now on: you’re not responsible for how someone else reacts. You can’t control that. As long as your intentions are good and you know you have a good heart, that’s all that matters. Practice having conversations with people who aren’t your friends or family. I worked as a cashier and I was obviously forced to interact with strangers, which in turn made me feel comfortable talking to strangers more and more. We all st…
/r/seduction07/08/18 03:20 PM
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Noooo I was saying ghosting is a nice way of telling someone ‘stop talking to me’ without actually using those words
/r/seduction06/08/18 05:03 PM
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Still, don’t give a fuck. If they make fun of you make fun of them back. This is a non issue
/r/seduction06/08/18 04:46 PM
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What use is their to carry on a conversation with someone you have no desire of being friends with or having romantic interests? Ghosting doesn’t mean being an asshole and a shit human being to said person all of a sudden. Kind of a polite way of saying i don’t want contact with you
/r/seduction06/08/18 04:29 PM
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Ask yourself ‘what reputation?’ If it’s not happening on a professional level or within family politics. than you have nothing to worry about. Women will gossip about your sex to their friends it’s normal. Are you gonna see her friends? Are they gonna make fun of you? Are they the only girls in the city you have a chance with. If you answered no then you have nothing to fucking worry about
/r/seduction06/08/18 04:16 PM
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Are you serious bro? It’s gonna be more embarrassing if you didn’t F-close it. Wouldn’t you rather be the guy who did smash in the end? Bad in bed or not, you unlocked the key to her panties that’s all that matters. Say on the scenario this bitch gossips about you to your friends...ok, now what? The deal is done you already had sex with her, women try to hold back from this as much as possible you did something a lot of guys couldn’t do with her. What’s she gonna say to your friends? You didn’t …
/r/seduction06/08/18 04:03 PM
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who the fuck cares? Women ghost men all the time and as men we’re told ‘move on to the next one.’ when it happens. If someone is going to confront you about ‘ghosting’ after a hook up it says more about them than you, id think they’re a fucking sour loser actually. Ghost whoever you want to ghost, you don’t owe anyone shit
/r/seduction06/08/18 03:53 PM
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I know I’m late to the conversation here but the gym is as much mental as it is physical, the increased oxygen to your brain from working out has scientifically been proven to reduce stress/anxiety/depression. Going to the gym doesn’t cost a lot, and as far as maintaining diet goes, eat less and cut out candy/pop. That’s the only answer anyone can give you, no matter what kind of crazy diet plan anyone throws at you. It’s simple but easier said than executed. But that’s all part of a lifestyle s…
/r/seduction05/08/18 08:48 PM
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LOL I should have said increases oxygen
/r/seduction05/08/18 06:41 PM
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Look at some of the most famous pick up artists, we'll say neil strauss and mystery. google them and I promise you nobody in this sub will tell you 'wow i wish i could look like them.' One of Mystery's techniques is actually called peacocking, where he wears stupid shit to make himself stand out in the club, like a top hat and swimming goggles. he also wore black eyeliner. these guys all got laid by models and women in the entertainment industry. Looks do matter, which is why I stressed working …
/r/seduction05/08/18 06:37 PM
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We have 7 billion people in this world, it’s overcrowded and this doesn’t just happen because ‘you were one of the good looking ones’. Humans have always found a way to have sex and being ugly hasn’t stopped anyone from doing the dirty. Hell what we consider ugly like fat people was attractive in the enlightenment period. A fat women was considered attractive because it meant she could have a lot of kids, while a fat guy meant that he was wealthy enough to to afford eating that much. When I say …
/r/seduction05/08/18 05:04 PM
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