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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	How much of a deal breaker is being broke Have to completely disagree. It’s a sentiment that you might like to believe but it’s not true. Money is far from everything but imo salary is similar to your lifting numbers. In and of itself it doesn’t really mean much - but it represents how hard you can grind, push and fight for what you want.	/r/askTRP	18/02/20 12:11 AM
1	Finding a woman who has her shit together The age range you shared is one where very few people have their shit together...do you? I wouldn’t overthink it at this point. If she’s 35 and has had a new job every year for a decade that’s a different story. “I’m 20 and not really sure what I want to do” is about the story of everyone.	/r/askTRP	30/08/19 12:48 AM
10	How to deal with LTR's dad? Everything he’s said in his post is essentially being polite when first meeting someone. As he said “normal people shit”. Your reply alludes to the fact you don’t think this is normal people shit?	/r/askTRP	30/08/19 12:43 AM
0	Reading How To Win Friends And Influence People How do you currently establish frame? Frame isn't about power, and you can't force frame, it's about making it as easy for them to operate in yours as possible. I think the book at its core has principles about relationships between people that ultimately would support establishing frame. Maybe it is a bit dated, but imo it still holds very true today in many cases. Hence why you probably picked it up to begin with.	/r/askTRP	08/09/18 06:06 PM
0	What’s the reason for this? I think you're over-thinking it. Set a hard date, time and location. A couple days between texts for people you don't know doesn't seem totally absurd to me. People are busy. Maybe she was traveling for work. Or had friends in town. If it was a week or more I'd say move on, but she still seems pretty interested imo.	/r/askTRP	08/09/18 05:41 PM
1	How can I stop my mind from playing tricks on me? How can I develop a positive mindset? How can I forgive myself? Flip it -- are you over-thinking the actions of other people? Likely not, you're over-thinking your own actions; similarly they're likely not thinking about all the things you did that you're now over-analyzing. It sounds overly therapist-y but I also believe that when you're over-thinking how people perceive you it's because you don't actually view yourself as having value. At the end of the day having confidence is about understanding your value, and it's not "will they like me" but "I'm cool …	/r/askTRP	08/09/18 05:38 PM
0	What’s the reason for this? The long response time is the last exchange? From Thursday to Sunday? Am I reading that timeline correctly?	/r/askTRP	08/09/18 05:31 PM
6	Issues with exercise. Is swimming a good option? Lol seriously. “I’ve tried nothing and I’m giving up.” OP - go talk to a doctor for Christ’s sake. Swimming is a GREAT way to exercise but it’s not normal to be in pain like that with no explanation...	/r/askTRP	21/08/18 11:37 PM
1	Metrosexual tips? Aziz Ansari has this great bit at James Franco’s roast that was calling out all the fat slobs on the deus. “Shit, you all think if you take a shower and read a few books dicks are just going to start flying in your face? Is that why the rest of you are all fat disgusting pieces of shit?”	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 10:09 PM
2	How to handle a friend of a friend you don't get along with. Being polite and socializing as an adult and hating someone are not mutually exclusive. It seems like it’s essentially half of being an adult.	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 10:03 PM
7	Friend broke up with his girl, she calls me trying to vent “I was very sorry to hear the news. But I unfortunately won’t be able to insert myself into this situation right now.”	/r/askTRP	20/05/18 12:27 AM
0	Made a girl cry... /r/thathappened	/r/askTRP	20/05/18 12:26 AM
1	wtf is this supposed to mean? Ah yeah that’s odd. I read it as “I have to go to my job” and I was like dude lol...people gotta work	/r/askTRP	04/02/18 11:02 PM
1	wtf is this supposed to mean? Does she actually have work she needs to do? If so, I wouldn't say getting her shit done first is saying you're not a priority.	/r/askTRP	04/02/18 09:33 PM
1	Why are women sexually aroused by other women and is lesbianism actually real? I've never been so sure someone has actually no experience with women. Or people for that matter.	/r/askTRP	22/01/16 06:32 AM
1	How do you answer when asked "what do you do?" I actually think she's just assessing how you spend your day. Do you spend your day creating things, working with people etc. It comes across as defensive if for an entire conversation you just avoid it with weird phrases like "im a astronaut" - just note what you do and move on....	/r/askTRP	22/01/16 06:29 AM
2	So am I fucked for being average? Bingo...	/r/askTRP	10/03/15 01:09 AM
-1	The Needy Line. "I do want to see her before she leaves" - there's your answer...	/r/askTRP	10/03/15 01:06 AM
0	What would a red pill male do in this situation involving a female who did him wrong? Ah I misread. Id then say call her on it. If you aren't in a relationship she has every right to be talking to others - but you can still call her on it, specifically why she told you she loved you but doesn't seek ready to commit.	/r/askTRP	10/03/15 12:56 AM
1	TRP, will you give me your advice? My life is out of control. Agree with others. It's about creating habits and building discipline. You're young. And honestly "keeping your room straight" or reading a lot doesn't mean shit. But if you think about it like "I've got discipline to keep my room straight - how do I transfer that to other things I don't like" (unless you truly enjoy cleaning...). And lastly - maybe traditional education system just isn't your thing. Maybe college isn't right for you - it's a flaw in the system to think everyone SHOULD go to col…	/r/askTRP	10/03/15 12:52 AM
3	What would a red pill male do in this situation involving a female who did him wrong? Is this an entirely online relationship at this point? Just forget about her...	/r/askTRP	10/03/15 12:47 AM
1	The EMSK "Red Pill will kill you" post is just Nirvana fallacy. "Life is a competition." I'll let you have that point. But sure does seem TRP has you playing the short game. You're playing to win the game in the first quarter - but when the clock runs out you will be sad when you look at the scoreboard.	/r/TheRedPill	01/07/14 12:38 PM