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'Every woman is at least a 4 crazy' eyeroll Does that mean every red piller is at least a 4 stupid?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/19 12:12 AM
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I just want to say that nobody is confident, witty, and charming all of the time. And this is not a realistic goal for any real relationship. My husband will still loudly rip one and proclaim, "Ahh I feel so much better!" Let me assure you there is nothing witty or charming about this...yet we've been together for 8 years now. Acknowledging and accepting someone's flaws is as important if not more important than acknowledging the good things about them.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/19 05:44 PM
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I think it is admirable how much thought you've put into this. And the very fact that you feel guilty over how you treated them shows that you have empathy and are not the monster you make yourself out to be. Bottom line is they were probably doing it because they were in a bad place, same as you. For what it is worth I do not think this qualifies as violating someone. I hope you do not carry this with you the rest of your life, because while some guilt makes you human, wallowing in it forever w…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/19 05:22 PM
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TRP is cult like in its ability to isolate vulnerable men. My brother used to send me articles and YouTube links, telling me about how he was educating himself, when all he had really managed to do was alienate all the normal people and especially the women in his life. Now he's stuck in this feedback loop of bad ideas being echoed back at him and amplified constantly on the internet. I used to have a good relationship with my brother. We are twins. We shared the same womb. He's known me for eve…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/19 02:06 PM
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I'm probably the happiest I've ever been in life. Obviously I can't speak for my husband, though he seems pretty happy these days too. In all honesty, I love my husband more now, than when we got married. We've been through a lot together. We suffered through a miscarriage together. We went through a high risk pregnancy to have our son. Those kinds of experiences can either make or break your relationship. Lucky for us it made us closer. At the end of every day the first thing I do is call him o…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/18 05:58 PM
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So one post from a 23 year old girl on Reddit who says she feels like cheating means nobody in the whole world is capable of staying in a LTR, and everyone will eventually cheat? I guess I better inform my husband he needs to start cheating on me. We've been together about 8 years so we are probably past due. Do you realise how moronic this sounds? I'm not sure how you made such a large leap, but it's pretty hard to take this seriously. You have your own brain. You are in control of your own bod…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/18 04:11 PM
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There is no evidence that they can't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:01 PM
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They are people who believe they can't get anywhere with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 01:26 PM
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Yeah, but being able to demonstrate it comes from the belief that it could be possible. Everyone has to start somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 01:23 PM
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Incels are victims of themselves. They've gotten stuck in a negative feedback loop (perpetuated by the internet) that keeps echoing their own insecurities back at them until they can't see anything else. There is a strange and measurable power in believe. Just look at studies examining the placebo effect. Incels believe they are unlovable, subhuman, etc. And in a way, they become that, simply because they believe it. Likewise, if they believed they were worthwhile and had confidence, they would …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 05:42 PM
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It's not saying it changes into a mother son relationship. Just that, like a parent child relationship, love and caring are more forefront. Her sexual motivation decreases, not her desire for you. If anything, she is less likely to cheat, because she is experiencing a decrease in sexual motivation. But she's experiencing an increase in love and commitment to you through pair bonding. Relationships tend to experience ebbs and flows of sex. For example many animals have mating seasons, they don't …
/r/ExRedPill12/05/18 01:56 AM
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I'm going to go ahead and second this. I'm also a woman, and I've never cheated on someone to be with someone else. Like ElectronicReport says, some people are liars and cheats (both men and women), not all.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/18 11:43 PM
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Just a little background, I am a scientist, and I just wanted to try and clarify what you are worried about in the second article? The results show that male sexual motivation stays high in the relationship as it goes on, while female sexual motivation drops slightly as the relationship goes on. Nowhere in the paper does it say the female sexual motivation drops because she wants to cheat, or leave the relationship, or that she is dissatisfied in some way. He gives the following explanation for …
/r/ExRedPill11/05/18 11:39 PM
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Your paper was from the 1980's, and not even on the topic I was talking about, so you really didn't fulfill my request at all. I've proved my point, as far as I'm concerned, and I'm happy with my statements. But you know, feel free to keep trying to prove your point to me, because it seems really important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 10:02 PM
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One of my favorite sayings is that people become more or less attractive as you get to know them. I think it's completely true.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/18 06:44 PM
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My original statement says, "Virginity does not necessarily equate to lack of interest in or being bad at sex." I 100% stand by this statement. Plenty of virgins are very interested in sex, just look at the average tween/teen. Also, just because someone is a virgin doesn't mean they are automatically bad at sex. It also doesn't mean they are good or experienced at it, but that wasn't my statement. I fail to see how someone being a virgin means they are automatically bad at sex. I'm talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 05:32 PM
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I'm a scientist and I deal in facts, not assumptions. There is likely a correlation between interest in sex and how good you are at it or # of years of virginity and interest in sex, but that is a hypothesis until someone does a properly controlled, peer-reviewed study, and proves it. I find it wrong to state assumptions as facts. Do you have scientific evidence from a reliable source? I'd love to see it if you do. But only studies from reliable, peer-reviewed journals please. There is so much g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 03:38 PM
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Is there a correlation between getting people to sleep with you and being good at sex? Getting people to agree to have sex with you means you are good at getting people to have sex with you, not that you are necessarily good or bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:43 PM
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Once a week isn't horrible. I talk to my folks twice a month so that is what I consider average. But twice a day is, like, woah. And she'd text him until he called her back if he didn't answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:40 PM
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Good thing its up to them and not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 12:09 PM
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That's what I get for reading reddit at 3am...lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:54 AM
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Ahh, ok, it does make more sense now!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:53 AM
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No, I mean exactly what I said. He shouldn't still be holding onto his mother's apron strings, looking to her before every decision to see what she thinks. It's good for both genders to grow up and be able to make their own decisions. Likewise, I've met several men who rage-hate their mothers on a level that makes me question their sanity. Certainly you can blame your parents for causing problems in your life, but at some point you have to take ownership of who you are. What is reasonable, and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:52 AM
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I'm really not trying to be coy or cute here, but yes, and I think most women would agree with me on that. It is never attractive when a guy is still holding on to his mother's apron strings. I dated a guy once who revealed to me that he still talked to his mother on the phone twice a day at the age of 28. Furthermore he had been discussing our relationship problems with her. Nope. Additionally, I also dated a guy once who revealed to me that his mom was still paying his car insurance and rent e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:44 AM
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I'm not quite sure what you are getting at. All of those flags I listed would be a hard no for me and equate to no sex. Definitely a deterrent to sex. For me personally. I don't know about everyone else. Of course boring rude alcoholics can have families. I just personally wouldn't be starting a family with one of them. There's no accounting for some people's taste. Not sure what you mean by tipping point. Like when is virginity a tipping point, or when is alcoholism a tipping point??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 09:30 AM
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Virginity does not necessarily equate to lack of interest in or being bad at sex. Traditionally, women are saddled with the expectation of maintaining their virginity, and men are saddled with the expectation of losing it and being all macho. Neither thing is really fair as having lots of sex doesn't necessarily mean you are good at it, likewise, not having had a lot of sex doesn't necessarily mean you are bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:58 AM
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I think of it as when they mark your yard for digging: red flags mean - don't dig here. Additionally, by color, yellow generally means caution and red means stop. I guess it depends on OPs definition of 'red flag'. I would consider virginity at 30 a reason to be cautious, but not a hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:47 AM
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Well, me too, any red flag is a hard no. That's why they call them warnings, you don't go there!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:34 AM
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Red flags: -treats wait staff poorly/is a bad tipper -does drugs or drinks in excess -mistreats animals -is a mama's boy i.e. his mother can do no wrong -disrespects his mother i.e. blames his mother for his own shortcomings. -has no hobbies Sorry, virginity and/or having lots of short relationships don't make the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 05:45 AM
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It's laughable that you think fat women get a pass. Just look at these comments, at least 2/3s of them are about how fat women are gross and the only people who can love a fat woman are other fat women. Good thing I don't need anyone else's permission to exist or be happy in life. I love it when people who are not doctors proclaim that all you need to do to lose weight is count your calories and excercise. I did that for five years with no success. It was only when I sought out medical help from…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:38 AM
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No kidding, my aunt paid hundreds of dollars to some idiot for access to a bunch of YouTube videos saying she could cure her cancer by taking more vitamins. That's not how it works people.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 10:52 PM
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You say you found no evidence that the 20/80 theory doesn't exist. Did you find scientific proof, published in a peer reviewed scientific journal that proves it does exist? Because, as a scientist, I have yet to see any real solid evidence that this 'theory' is even remotely true. You are doing nothing but hurting yourself by believing this. I'm not with my husband because of how he looks, though I do find him attractive. I'm not with him because of how much money he makes, at the end of the day…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 10:38 PM
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hugs oh hun, you are worth so much MORE than this. He continues to make you feel like crap and you aren't even in a relationship with him. Get out of his orbit. Get away from him. Change your number, change your address, move across the country. Live in a cardboard box. Anything is better than staying near that toxic dump you are calling a man. I know it seems like he has a lot of power over you, but you are giving him that power by staying within arms reach. You are so young, and there is so mu…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 08:05 PM
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Have you ever just sat in a park or a public place and just looked at couples? Couples come in every shape and size imaginable. They range from awkward, to ugly to cute. RPers and incels promote the idea that you can only be happy if you are doing it 'the right way'. I.e. you can only be happy if you are the alpha male with a stable full of women. News flash, people who don't meet this criteria can be happy too, and they don't need the approval of anyone else to do it. You can't tell me you've n…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 07:21 PM
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That wedding certificate is just a piece of paper. It is not a failsafe that will prevent your relationship from failing. Neither will it be what keeps your relationship going after the honeymoon. That's on you and her.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 06:42 PM
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Scientist here. Quite a lot of so called scientific research is neither scientific nor valid. You have to look at a lot of factors to figure out what the grains of truth are, and even then, biology is a complicated science that almost never gives clear-cut, black and white results. When looking at studies online, ask yourself the following: 1) Are these studies coming from a reputable, peer-reviewed, scientific journal? I can tell you by looking at the titles, that these studies are not. Why is …
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 06:35 PM
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Really great reply!
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 05:44 PM
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What really bothers me is that 50 Shades of Gray is nothing like an actual BDSM relationship. People actually into BDSM are all about consent and safe-words. They even have a catch phrase for it: safe, sane, consensual. The subs in those relationships are consenting to being dominated. The fantasy is often that you are being dominated without your permission. The reality is that both sides consent to playing their role for mutual pleasure. Not my cup of tea, personally. I never could get through…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 05:37 PM
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News flash, your mom loves your dad BECAUSE he is kind. And also probably because he is a good dad (I mean, just look at the thoughtful young man he has raised). You are young, and you have a lot of time to get better at all of this, so don't sweat it if you're not sure what to do right this second. Truth bomb: I'm overweight, and I've been overweight my whole life. After having my son I decided that number needs to go down because I want to be there for my son. I want to be able to teach him he…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 04:55 PM
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These are dating books for women, but they may help you. Take the advice with a grain of salt, there is at least some stupid advice in every dating book I have ever read. There is also good advice. The first book is 'Why men love bitches' (I hate this title, I think it is meant to be shocking just to get you to pick it up). She gives good advice on self improvement and how to focus on yourself while also being in/looking for a relationship. She also has some really unfortunate chapters that go i…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 03:08 PM
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I've always been painfully shy and extremely introverted. In my mid twenties I decided I needed to do something about this. I'm a scientist, people skills have never come naturally to me, but doing research, that is something I can do! This lead me to reading dozens of self help and dating books. A lot of advice from these books is very similar. Some of it is more helpful than others, a lot of it you need to take with a grain of salt. There is no 'one size fits all' magic piece of advice that wi…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/18 02:53 PM
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