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ifhybb/r/seduction02/08/16 08:21 AM
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Well she did in fact reply to the meme thing, so that's cool. I haven't replied back yet, waiting a day basically before I do. I had some shit going on and so I was naturally busy, thankfully. Hoping to get it all back on track, wish me luck lol
/r/seduction03/08/16 07:34 AM
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I guess I forget how rare a strong connection and rapport is with the opposite sex. Maybe just for me, idk but I def feel we have some amazing chemistry and I hope she remembers and feels that too. I'm def going to give it my best. If you wouldn't mind, maybe I could Pm you the entire conversation to get a better gauge? I obviously wanted to limit it in the OP.
/r/seduction02/08/16 03:12 PM
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Really appreciating you sharing that info man. Hope it all works out for you and your ladyfriend, sounds like you must have a pretty solid connection to keep re-connecting and whatnot. Yeah, I have def learned some lessons from being needy before but then I went totally numb and indifferent. She brought out the neediness again, cause I really enjoy talking with her. We click in such a natural way, she actually makes me laugh, I have never had a woman make me laugh before. I believe strongly that…
/r/seduction02/08/16 02:41 PM
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Alright well, regardless of the time-span, the fact remains she is in one, no? I'm not saying you have to be mad but if it helps you to move on faster, embrace the anger. I didn't imply you did not have non-sexual moments of intimacy. Problem is I don't think she values that intimacy in the same way as you. Women that can be any form of intimate with a guy, outside of a relationship or without the prospect of forming one, aren't going to be able to easily attach and bond through intimacy. I hope…
/r/seduction02/08/16 01:37 PM
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Yeah, I have to just stop myself and prepare what I actually want to say rather than just succumb to my emotions and panicked state. Tough stuff sometimes. I know you mean no offense, I felt stupid for typing that out as I was lol I mean I shouldn't disqualify myself, I dont need anymore reasons for her not to accept than she comes up with on her own lol. That sounds like a good angle to go with it. I think I'll wait til the height of the next conversation (if it occurs, crossing fingers) and pe…
/r/seduction02/08/16 01:32 PM
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alright man, will do. Wish you luck in your endeavors as well friend.
/r/seduction02/08/16 01:29 PM
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I feel you bro but I'm sure you've had the experience at least once when you met someone you wanted to spend more than a night with cause you guys clicked fantastically. Tbf I have moved on mentally in my mind, this whole post has really helped to sort out my thoughts, honestly. Looking forward, not backward. Thanks for the reply.
/r/seduction02/08/16 01:29 PM
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Thanks a lot for the reply man. Yeah I know all about rotten luck, since it's the only luck I have. I don't get insecure with anyone in my life but her lol I'll go months between talking to friends and think it was a day ago. So yeah, just sucks from that standpoint cause I could easily be classically "attractive and aloof" cause i really dgaf outside of interacting with her, best friends and family, so therein lies the rub. I guess I'm just insecure that she'll find someone that's easier for he…
/r/seduction02/08/16 12:52 PM
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At the height of our next conversation (if it occurs) I will ask her out and rip the band-aid off, fuck it. I don't want to keep dancing around the fact and become more insecure. Thanks again for the reply./ Did send the meme though lol, oh well fuck it. I'm pretty exhausted at this point from thinking it all over anyway.
/r/seduction02/08/16 12:44 PM
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Not sure how to PM but thank you for the detailed response. Don't really think a triangle situation is a possibility for me right now so...unless it happens inadvertently at some point, I guess it's a wash. I didn't take the Mike thing very seriously, pretty sure it's a reference to her gay black friend, since it's followed up with "snow bunny blah blah" (she was qualifying herself to me some in the conversation and didn't mention the biggest elephant in the room, dude in her pictures whose name…
/r/seduction02/08/16 12:42 PM
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Sorry to hear that happened to you. I have to be honest man, she doesn't seem like a very nice person, in comparison to you from your story. Some girls can have sex and moments you would consider "intimate" with guys they never intend to talk to again. I'd bet she is VERY experienced when it comes to sexual contact and at this point, it doesn't really affect her the way it does you (I assume you possibly don't get as laid as much as a chick who is into shrooms) The fact that she is in a relation…
/r/seduction02/08/16 12:10 PM
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Yeah, I'm not sweating the criticisms lol. We have a shared sense of twisted humor so it's all gravy. I agree, I should have popped the question...I was just nervous cause I hadn't talked to her in a year if you read the OP. So I was trying to build some comfort, I didn't know what to expect, having not talked to her for so long but we ended up having a really fun conversation but then she just ghosted me. Idk if it's because I didn't ask or what. Was bizarre, we have some deep history so it cou…
/r/seduction02/08/16 11:50 AM
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So in essence, don't reply and don't ask her out until she initiates contact with me? I hate leaving it up to the women though, since they're a hurricane of random emotions (though she is a bit more level-headed and mature about things tbh, quite logical, harder to game lol...) Do you think it's worth sending that meme msg just to cut the tension? Regardless of she replies, I mean. I just would feel kind of shitty, leaving it at that last awkward point. If only for my sanity lol.
/r/seduction02/08/16 11:46 AM
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Yeah...I really suck at asking without something to condition it, just worried she doesn't want to re-visit the past and would talk herself out of it...I def care about this girl way too much and it's affecting my approach, which sucks. It would def blow to be rejected since we had some great times before and she even said the big ILY. I'm just an insecure douche and often put my foot in my mouth with her. It just feels so unnatural to go from awkward lack of response to "hey let's go out" you k…
/r/seduction02/08/16 11:33 AM
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yeah I fucked up by pressuring her to decide and not giving her the time to make her own informed decision (fucking neediness she brings out of me) but she wanted to keep things on her terms and I didn't want to accept those terms...stupid move, if prideful, but I knew they'd break up and lo and behold, they did. Hence me trying to reconnect, I guess I'll just have to sack up and ask her out. How would you go about things with how they are currently? Ghosts you after you appear insecure essentia…
/r/seduction02/08/16 11:21 AM
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But at that 6 month point she ended up in bed with me after a few dates. She would initiate contact with me about the same amount. Spent some nights at my place and we never wanted for conversation or anything. So I wouldn't say it was a friendzone situation. We had a strong physical chemistry as well as good rapport, hence me being more interested in trying to rekindle that. You don't come across it so often, at least I don't. I usually have the problem of giving too little of a shit, tbh. She'…
/r/seduction02/08/16 11:06 AM
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I've said much, much more awkward jokes to her before and they always got a laugh. Ironically earlier in the convo we were talking about how my friends gf had a terrible sense of humor and i knew she'd laugh at a joke about a disabled guy, and she agreed and said it was important for whoever she was with to have a sense of humor. Anyway, when do you suggest I contact her to bring that up and should I just shoot straight and say "look, I understand you've got a lot going on right now, fresh out o…
/r/seduction02/08/16 10:30 AM
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I hadn't talked to her in a year basically. I just was trying to build some comfort before suggesting a meet-up. I know I should have pulled the trigger and def shouldn't have put my foot in my mouth the next morning. Do you have any suggestions for recovering?
/r/seduction02/08/16 10:17 AM
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Fair enough. I didn't assume she was telling the truth lol. I know, the I fucked up with the needy bs...terrible. Also def wasn't the joke, I think she just got spooked or something since we were talking after such a long time and maybe she didn't want to revisit any strong feelings. Also she messaged me back at like 11:30, 12. she works til 11 so the time frame isn't just random. Conversation was on for like 2 hours or so and had many points, not just meaningless banter, she went on about how h…
/r/seduction02/08/16 10:15 AM
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