ifnottrpthenwhat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	If not TRP/PUA then what?		ifnottrpthenwhat	/r/ExRedPill	27/11/16 04:10 PM
4	If not TRP/PUA then what	Discussion	ifnottrpthenwhat	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 06:08 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	If not TRP/PUA then what That's some really cool content you provided. I think you convinced me to at least try out yoga or you gave me the confidence for it. I just hope it's true what you are saying although inner me probably can't really believe any girl would find me attractive or lovable, but I will try it out and see what happens. I'm probably never going to throw away my materialistic values though unless I guess something really drastic happens because I definitely have ego issues. It might be insecurities, I do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/16 08:57 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what I don't know, I don't use the word spirituality, but I know that yoga can be beneficial in the same way meditation and this is why'd I try it. Discipline training, mental clarity, stress relief and all that type of thing, but I don't care for spirituality. And neither do I care for any of the holistic things. I think like 85% of the reason I would go there would still be the women and 15% that I actually would like to try it out due to it's potential benefits. And I'm not spiritual, I'm just int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/16 06:28 AM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what I didn't mean genetics as an excuse here. I have already an attractive body and I could get it more attractive, but it wouldn't be exactly same looking as zyzz or brad pitt and they aren't exactly the same as well so I didn't mean that as a negative thing, but rather tht everyone's a bit different so I can't really take someone else's body as a goal. I do lift because it's motivating in general in life as it shows that effort brings results, it gives that 30min of feeling like a boss after the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/16 11:01 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what I'd honestly would like to believe it as you make it sound very easy, but few questions that pop into my mind. Is this something that you and other women together have discussed and with several women from your yoga class for example and have agreed that you'd find that attractive and not creepy? Keeping that in mind what type of guy did you have in mind? Maybe you considered in your heads someone that's really handsome and charming. Because I could totally understand if someone handsome and cha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/16 10:47 PM
4	If not TRP/PUA then what? Out of curiosity how old are you since you mentioned young people? Because in order to believe in what you say I'm going to note few things. If you mention that something is laughable or nonsense, it still seems to me as if you could be discarding something truthful as simply trying to appear superior to it by trying to make it seem as if it's just 'laughable', but with no arguments against it. I do not say you necessarily need to prove anything to me, but I have hard trouble understanding other…	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/16 10:34 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what? It's so fucking odd. And now I'm feeling clueless again. One moment it's like I know it all and the very next I regret thinking this way and think I'm a gross human being for even considering that I know it all. I have high points of where I feel I'm smart, but then when it fades I feel like all this time I was just being validation hungry, try-hard monkey. And I become extremely cynical and I start to think that human nature is just simply disgusting. In my high points I feel like I have it all…	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/16 10:08 PM
2	If not TRP/PUA then what Ye tbh I would love to go try yoga out, but I'd definitely be wondering if girls will think I'm a creep or a gay guy for showing up there. I think it'd require some strong social calibration or good lookiness to pull off successfully.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/16 06:01 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what I do enjoy doing drugs and I have done shrooms. I'm not addicted to anything except nicotine patches and caffeine, but I'm not sure if any drug except MDMA helps me here. And MDMA will help me for the one night only that I actually do it. I have done some stuff similar to camping - I attended mil service so there was a lot of camping. I hated it throughout all the period I was there though. I also tried skydiving, which was 3 seconds of bliss from freefall, but I'm not sure whether it was worth …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 11:44 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what How is yoga comparably better than meditation + gym for example? What if I would play football (soccer) which I do enjoy actually, I just haven't done it really a lot lately and I'd be afraid it would be too much cardio and kill my gains. Jk, but would that make me unbasic do you think? And why be unbasic if it still doesn't get me laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 11:34 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what Arguably doing side projects - and I do those with entrepreneurship in mind in a sense that they have a chance of becoming start ups with potential to grow bigger. It's my idea of fun and honestly the border between work and fun in those terms seems to be quite foggy to me. So you are saying I'm basic because I'm interested in entrepreneurship instead of finding a hobby that I probably wouldn't be interested in and even I forced myself into a random hobby I would probably still think of work mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 11:23 PM
2	If not TRP/PUA then what I particularly don't care whether the sex happens fast or not, but as far as I've learned it's beneficial for the guy to have it happen early rather than late and you might well be exception to the general rule here. Because usually waiting too long before making a move implies to the girl that you have no balls. This is not just what I've read from PUA and TRP, it's what I've seen happening IRL and also what my friends who are successful with women have said and done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 11:10 PM
2	If not TRP/PUA then what Sounds like your boy didn't have to do much first, but this kind of shit doesn't happen to me where girls fall into my lap and start with the initiation process so I either take action or nothing at all happens. And I can be the one the watch out for different social cues or non-verbal invitations, but even then I might misinterpret or not recognize an invitation so I'm still doomed pretty much. This is why PUAs suggest to assume attraction. As it's extremely difficult to tell and if you assume …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 10:15 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what Depends on who you ask	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 09:41 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what Are side projects, reading, watching films, going to gym, learning about stuff and commenting on reddit hobbies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 09:40 PM
3	If not TRP/PUA then what I was still in the mentality of my previous comment that was intended to the previous commentator.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 09:38 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what Ok quick googling didn't give me anything meaningful here, and I do not think I'm that autistic honestly that I cannot read social cues though so the advice might not be fitting to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 09:33 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what Honestly I don't care particularly, I would just go for the body that would attract the highest % of women. But... I mean there are genetics as well so I can't be exactly Pitt or Zyzz, so I'd just choose a body state on me specifically that would attract highest % of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 09:24 PM
3	If not TRP/PUA then what Ye but if I use trial and error then I might suddenly touch a girl without her permission!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 09:17 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what I usually do not search for guy pics in the google, but I'm just going to say Brad Pitt in the fight club is something generally considered attractive and what I'd choose to be although he's not really that big, but I guess Zyzz works as an example as well. I could PM you my body picture, but only if you are a girl and only if you send your own picture back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 09:11 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what Main gotos are Tinder and social events/parties I managed to land through coworkers or friends from my schooltimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 08:59 PM
2	If not TRP/PUA then what According to google the ratio of autistic boys vs girls is ranging from 2:1 to 16:1. I'd have to fight and beat the other 8 or so autistic guys to get that one autistic princess. Do I need to be more autistic than them or it's just your usual standard pub brawl.. I mean this is how it works, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 08:57 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what No, should I google them or you know something good to point to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 08:50 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what It's an excuse so that I do not have to care about politics or environment which I truly do not care about and it's a good excuse to be selfish about my desires. I mean why not just go for banging chicks and general ego validation when the world as we know is going to change in unfathomable ways anyway. I do not care if Trump or Clinton won although I admit that I enjoyed Trump winning because I enjoyed seeing pissed off Clinton fans and Trump seems to be a lot more interesting presidential cand…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 08:45 PM
2	If not TRP/PUA then what Okay, I have absolutely no idea how you came to these conclusions and I'm actually baffled that based on something I said you can conclude this. I do start conversations and practice holding conversations. I'm wondering if you think I'm a retard or something that I'm unable to figure out that I should talk to people. I'm not presuming anything that girl is a okay with touching or bothering. If anything I do not do it enough. According to PUA standards and advice anyway. Classic PUA advice is kin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 08:38 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what My life mission is constant learning and improving overall, but in general I'm interested in the start up business. So I do general programming work and on the side I work with my own start up with whatever resources I have left. In general I'm into productivity/tracking/ measuring life progress type of applications. I don't care at all about politics, environment or anything similar though. I do care about science and the way political people influence people, marketing and that kind of stuff, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 08:23 PM
2	If not TRP/PUA then what What do you mean by talking directly? What is indirect talking? What do you mean by unjustified advances? Which advances are justified? What kind of input directly from her? I'm just really curious, but I'd really like answers to those questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 08:10 PM
4	If not TRP/PUA then what When I check it out what I see mostly upvoted and as top comments though seem to be healthy and productive attitudes. In a sense 'Yeah this is how women work, we just have to change ourselves to adapt to women' - not really blaming women. I mean of course there are occasional frustration stemmed topics, but the general consensus seems productive to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 08:05 PM
3	If not TRP/PUA then what If this was directed at me I'd rather hear what you had to say and I do not really care if someone tells me anything negative over the internet no matter the wording so out of curiosity you could pm or reply with a wording that doesn't get removed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 08:00 PM
2	If not TRP/PUA then what I mean if someone told me IRL what factor I'm forgetting and is an obstacle in me getting laid then I'd try to understand it and fix that. But I'd like an example here because I'd rather understand than not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 07:48 PM
2	If not TRP/PUA then what Everytime this happens I remember the rule of 25/2 + 7, but I'd honestly feel like a creeper if the girl was under 21 and how can I relate to anyone who's still in school? I hated school and I don't want to hear anything about it. I feel creepy even messaging 18y olds. But maybe I should get over the social pressure and judgment of not hanging out with 18y olds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 07:46 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what I'm deliberately trying to turn my body into something what women drool over. I'm fit, but I'm not really big as most other guys in the gym, but I'm bigger than my friends or or coworkers or most people I'm around in everyday social situations.. I follow this with deadlifts included: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=149807833 I guess my goal in life in general is to be as successful as possible, get money and bitches while following my passion. But this sounds just a generic thing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 07:40 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what Sure.. But I've been down that rabbit hole for 8+ years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 07:13 PM
0	If not TRP/PUA then what I'd still need more indepth clarification on what you said to make sense of it? What should I be doing better in terms of therapy. I mean I'm doing everything the therapist says.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 07:09 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what This is actually one of the first times I've seen someone striking gold about my issues, but people in real life would never tell me that kind of feedback. Can you imagine? Actually rarely on the internet as well, but I don't usually go out of my way to reveal on the internet even that I feel as if I'm borderline autistic. I haven't been diagnosed with autism, but in my medical records there is a line that says 'autistic tendencies', so that's grand I guess. I've been actually trying to learn PU…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 07:07 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what I'm close to 25, but yeah what you are saying does seem quite real and on Tinder I mostly match with 18 years old, but I'd feel like a creeper going out with them. Also I'd assume they haven't got very mature yet so I'm not sure if the interests in general life would align at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 06:55 PM
3	If not TRP/PUA then what I feel like my brain is wired in a sense that doesn't understand or internalize shit unless I can systemise things and understand what's going on. Not sure if you were joking before with the 'just beeee yourself' thing, but if you weren't then if I let the real me out IRL people think I'm weird as fuck and start using that against me. For example I use excel to make life decisions such as which apartment I'm going to choose or which job I will take. Essentially I write ratings from 1-10 on a lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 06:46 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what I mean I do not judge anyone and I appreciate everyone who can do cocky and funny and love seeing that IRL. I am practising or at least I'm trying to be good at this. Of course it's not that straightforward and easy to become good at this as there are no clear steps and no clear results and I can't be entirely sure I'm doing that correctly. But yeah I'm trying to tease definitely, but I guess I'd need feedback on that IRL and therefore maybe I'd need a PUA bootcamp or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 06:39 PM
0	If not TRP/PUA then what Could you go on about the shitty attitude part. And assuming that's true couldn't a therapist recognize the shitty attitude and thinking too good part and focus on that first? Not trying to pin this on them or blame then, but I'd just be curious to know. Or should I tell the therapist that just that I have a shitty attitude that needs fixing, but I have no idea how.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 06:37 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what I don't think I'm ugly looking or that I have particular features that could be fixed to get significant gains, but I probably look too young or boyish, can't grow a beard and I feel that girls would rather want someone more manly. If anything cosmetic I should probably start wearing a fake beard I think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 06:33 PM
1	If not TRP/PUA then what The frequency of going to the gym is debatable. I also go to the gym because I enjoy it and feel good afterwards so I'd rather do it more often as an anti stress and wind down process. Probably should try your other advice. I'd rather move to USA and try out how things are there. I live in a small European country and I'm not entirely sure that there are high end psychologists or life coaches here. There might be life coaches, but they all seem a lot of marketing and mostly scammy. Also it's a b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/16 06:31 PM
2	If not TRP/PUA then what? Most of the time I feel the barrier to be that women do not seem to be attracted to me or as if they do not consider me as a potential romantic partner. When I try to make advances rejection and flakiness seems to prevail and I do not ever get proper feedback on what I'm doing wrong. It's like I'm trying out different stuff and approaches, but it feels a bit like combing in the dark. To compare it with programming I'm really good at that, but that's because it's mostly great constant trial and e…	/r/ExRedPill	27/11/16 04:45 PM