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| 1 | How do you talk to ‘basic’ girls?Topics to talk about: FORD. Family/family (imo food goes here). Occupation. Recreation. Dreams. Granted this is the general rule of thumb for dating but if you want to avoid that small talk or snowball it into substance aim for one of these letters. Or if the conversation grows organically in a different direction, go with it! The art of conversation can be a tricky beast but once it clicks, it's nice. It takes reading the room, certain confidence, and circumstances. Also compliments. For exampl… | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say?Tldr; not everyone will say hi to you or others and it's nothing personal. A longer response - more of socialskills Intent vs impact. You may have good intentions, but how it comes across or how it impacts others can be a different story. Though you can't please everyone, but if you're doing the same things and getting the same results, taking the time to be understanding helps. It's hard to not be defensive and not take it personally as well as feel dejected when you mean well and you get a neg… | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 05:42 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Thanks! I feel like people are reading into too much of your situation. Like a lot of these responses are really specific with a lot of assumptions and slippery slope - a lot of follow up hypothetical situations. Again understandable and it's great to cover all scenarios and mindset, but not necessarily answer what you're asking. Anyways, good on you for asking and not feeling too jaded or bitter! Holding resentments and entitlement or too much expectations can consume you so keep up on staying … | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 06:59 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Maybe reframe it to not everyone you have long conversations with have to be a potential gf/hook up. Maybe that's how she is - some people are "super friendly" or they want attention/followers, some people wear their wedding bands and others don't. Sure you can judge, make assumptions, "I've known/seen/are friends with people like this", and it may or may not be true but probably healthier/better mindset to not think too much into it, but good to be aware. Though it's understandable to feel or t… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 06:23 PM |
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