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My therapist says that actions and words must be aligned. If they are doing without saying, they are not being integral or congruent with what they are saying and this is a red flag. As is saying and not doing. Actions and words must align!!!! Words must be followed and demonstrated with action, otherwise they are just words, as is acting without communicating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:23 PM
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MWGTOW have this phrasing of projection they use in their forums while women bashing where they say “its not you it’s just your turn” or some bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:57 AM
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Read Mark Mason’s article called fuck yes or no. Game changer and a great article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:15 PM
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I’ve heard stories of them using the ladies room before any of them showing up as it’s “nicer and cleaner”…… or it was until a stray man ruined another safe space for us once again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:52 AM
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Harder to run away barefoot and pregnant…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:28 AM
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Hey, don’t hate on my island!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:24 AM
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Is this Layfaette from Hamilton?! 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:16 AM
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Do you know what the difference between 3rd world country illiteracy due to lack of ability to read and people refusing to read? Nothing. It is the same. 🤷‍♀️ Just saying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:06 PM
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My SO told me that it meant it was harder to run away that way. I don’t think my face has ever looked more horrified...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:52 AM
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This is super on point advice thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:57 PM
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I also recommend the app universe of emotions. It was the best thing I ever downloaded. I didn’t know there were so many emotions and it offers insight into orbiting other emotions. It was a real eye opener for me. I had no clue besides vey basic level of identification of feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:56 PM
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Or wants you to be okay with the emotional affair she was havin with him while engaged to Roy who was a shit head but still...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:50 PM
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Wait I don’t use linked in. Are the profiles dating esque? My fiancé has one... I do not. Idk why he has one either actually now that I think of it.... we don’t use social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:47 PM
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Yikes back in the day that was exactly what I put on my profile as a lady. I was none of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:45 PM
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Wonder if this ties in to narcissism and lack of object permanence which ties in which objectification full circle. Things that make you go hmmmmmmmm 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:39 AM
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Bear mace is also legal depending on where you live, or wasp spray bc pests and self defense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:47 PM
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Be sure to set reminder to change over battery too! Be over diligent, you are precious cargo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:46 PM
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Adt is pretty dope too. Expensive but worth peace of mind after witnessing my poor single friend living alone dealin with weird NVM that were territorial.... and it was her own house. I don’t foresee them being blessed with empathy anytime soon. ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:44 PM
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That was li my I believe. In hamptons by me. I worked alongside the lawyer who got his charges dropped or lowered. 🤮 yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:35 PM
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Wait but I genuinely have a guy friend who I genuinely never had feelings towards. His sister is my close friend as well but we are closer friends. We benefit purely by swapping medical research info for technology info. So I guess that’s where we differ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:11 PM
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🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:21 AM
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“I can’t smell or taste, I think it’s from vaping.” :: continues to vape:: 🤦‍♀️🙄😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:51 PM
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How does one break this cycle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:40 PM
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Scrotanese 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:51 PM
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Karma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:37 PM
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How do you change as a martyr type? Is that in HB and I missed it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:47 PM
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Oh god I’m living this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:13 PM
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“You can’t fire me, I quit.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:44 PM
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Seems like it could step right out of a porn 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:42 PM
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No they want a mom. Unless your slave has Stockholm syndrome they will never love as a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:18 PM
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!!!!!!! THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:17 PM
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Obnoxious colored hair reminds me of bastrian mimicry. ,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:22 AM
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Profoundly and brilliantly said. More of this thinking and comments in this sub should be aligned. Be best until you know and can do better, then realign mentally while moving forward. ❤️ love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:32 PM
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owww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:55 PM
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Can you reiterate that? I don't understand what you mean The with last sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:43 PM
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They just get better at hiding it if you point it out, so I stopped, but I really love that feeling from that brief moment when you do call them out and they realize “oh she knows? Quit gaslight!” Perhaps it’s the sheer panic. Probably not a positive behavior for me to display so I no longer do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:02 PM
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Honestly thinking this. “Sorry, just warming up for you.” ... except the other guy has a nicer body and looks nothing like you, so do I just close my eyes and pretend I’m being fucked by someone else? No? But no double standards at our household???? Hmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:58 PM
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My favorite is calling them out only to be told “ThAtS HoW I TaLK to EvErYoNE!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:04 AM
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Omg. Brilliant. Never thought to apply it backwards meanwhile double standards are not okay for me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:50 AM
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Great word. Thank you! TIL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:44 AM
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Not true. Look into Garett Forest and what he took on for his fiancee, he jumped in front of her to shield her at a BLM protest and wound up dead. He started dating her when they were younger, and she developed a strange disease and became a quadriplegic. He was an Air Force Chief if I recall correctly, requested to be discharged came home and became her caretaker instead. When they were at the protest he was pushing her across the street, because she was a sitting duck when someone pulled up wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:07 PM
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And life!!! We are #3 in birth deaths still I believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:03 PM
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Like a review board/carfax for men. MenFaax(?) lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:05 AM
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Jfc Are you me? Y I K E S, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:10 PM
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That’s because they refused to engage with women and instead vested/dedicated their lives to science. Respectable but entirely different in a manner of speaking imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 10:14 PM
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Great verb! Equivocate was absolutely a word I didn’t know I needed in my vocabulary. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:33 PM
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Hm is that why I have a history of getting relationtrapped with emotionally unavailable men? Lie about ability to meet my standards and then hide all LVm behavior so we don’t know how NVM they may actually be? Makes sense. If you don’t share anything you always seem deep when you finally open your mouth i suppose. How stoic of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:31 PM
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I am keen to believe this occurs quite often as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:28 PM
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Yes. How do you get them to show their hand first?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:24 PM
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How can I be involved with helping work on that???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:08 PM
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😩 Touché.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:15 PM
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Any advice on leveling up from one to the other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:12 PM
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👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:09 PM
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... you’re right. If you aren’t paying attention to the small details you are just merely being listened to be replied, not understood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:02 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:59 PM
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I can’t process why anyone would fight and say they want to be with someone, but has no issues trampling all set boundaries (preFDS!) despite sharing the same traumas of cheating. Like you know what it looks like and feels like. And that’s not what love looks like when it’s authentic at the root. Just be who you genuinely are and be honest and upfront. Wtf is that so fucking hard to see. Arrgggh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:50 PM
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Indecision is a decision!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:44 PM
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Interesting phrasing re: baggage. The imagery in my head is of a woman being stuck at the luggage conveyor belt trying to manage and attend to endless bags meanwhile the man who’s bagged it is to begin with is throwing a mere temper tantrum 15 feet away refusing to pick any of the damn bags up while the lady is being squished by his bags, drowning, both hands full with no space for her hands to reach out for help. Baggage. Good term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:42 PM
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OMG. DEAD. This is 👌😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:38 PM
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😒😑 yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:47 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:44 AM
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Trust me, being attracted to men is definitely innate, only speaking because I’d prefer a relationship with a woman. More emotionally in touch, mutual respect and true equality more likely to happen and less double standards. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:30 AM
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Great verb. Never heard of revulsion until now. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:10 PM
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Excuse me, I just realized that my 4ever boyfriend and I got tested by the wrong doctor for covid19. Perhaps I shall make us both an appointment? Lmao.🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:59 PM
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Bro. sincere thanks for the epiphany. Yikes. I am in recovery for being stupid. Please grant me your support and help me forgive myself for my stupider younger pickme ways. Hallelujah. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:18 AM
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This is a great response/rhetoric to men claiming marriage is of no importance, but still want kids. Sure thing, but they get my last name, as “to have and to hold” pertains to vows that we do not share because of lack of importance. 🤷‍♀️☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:10 PM
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Legit my favorite response to date! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:04 PM
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I actually considered this previously and took it upon myself to merge the spelling of my and SO’s last names as a simple letter change could easily signify our own lineage to start a solid foundation with, as my “family” does not have a lineage as out of wedlock child with no biological SO’s I am aware of. I thought it was cute and symbolic and kind of dope, he did not like that he would have to change his last name. Bummer. Thought I had something for a minute over these last 10 years. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:03 PM
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Trying so hard to unlearn this. Really hard to do...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:43 AM
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That soldier was also cheating on his wife I believe as well. Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:16 PM
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!remindme! in 12 hours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 09:06 PM
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Wtf are you me? Literally same and same time frame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:49 PM
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👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:41 PM
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I’ve found this to be true in long term dating too. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:13 PM
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“You’re taking advantage of me financially” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:16 PM
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First I’ve heard this. It’s absolutely great! Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:25 PM
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You’re thinking of white flags babe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:45 PM
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Omg. I’m so happy to see dnd mentioned in FDS. Holler if you roll20. Would love to dm for a full badass ladies group!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:41 AM
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Makes absolute logical sense. Great connection between the two! Good eyes, girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:37 PM
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Not to mention character flaws are the key to identifying manipulative people and psychopaths scientifically speaking. I did not spend my whole life growing up to get murdered by some ahole. ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:27 PM
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... while their asses are in sweats, socks and sandals. 😒 Love that you put it this way, never even considered that! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 02:20 PM
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Mirror link pls??? Does not work ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:59 PM
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Oof. Never connected this. Makes sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:22 AM
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THIS! I’ve had this discussion and it’s treated as a “trap.” Like cmon bro, just be honest and if we aren’t on the same page let’s just cut ties and be happy. Or try. Just pick one. Agshehdjdn! I learned awhile ago indecision is a decision. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:50 PM
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My last boss was a French narcissistic asshole. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:25 AM
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Currently me atm 🙃😟😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:01 AM
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... 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:44 PM
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What’s a hobosexual? Someone without a residence???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:37 AM
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I’m okay with joint for house payments etc but do NOT ever be so stupid to pool your only source of income and assume that your SO is as equally invested as you are. They usually pretend to get one up and have something over you.... because men. Better to have something in your pocket as a depraved mean to control in his head, but also it’s a good way to see it as having some control over your future... at least fiscally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:51 PM
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Had this happen with a previous live in fiancé, he took it upon himself to cash both of our paycheck (as he was working for my father..) on our lunch break. Coincidentally, this same day he had decided he would leave without telling me. He overdrew our bank account, and I basically had to pay for him to leave me. At the time I was a true pick-me, I took my car off the road for us to carpool, and we shared a cell phone to save costs. Not only did I pay him to leave me with an empty fridge, he lef…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:55 PM
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Can you explain the tie to LinkedIn? Never used it, SO had it on his phone and made me send him a passport photo to use as his photo for it. Is this something I should be aware of as a potential issue? 😑 you can pm if easier! Genuinely in the dark and some insight would be appreciated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:03 PM
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Sis, I’m going on year 10. I sat down and did the “I will not be a permanent long term relationship.” Our lease is up in October. He knew what he was in for from the get go, step in or step out, you are impeding incoming traffic and blocking the door for my husband. Set a timeframe, but set it in your head. Stick to it. I’m only 31. My whole 20’s are gone. Time waits for no man, nor no woman. He had recently mentioned finally marrying me after being engaged 5 years merely because my baby sister …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:08 PM
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Anyone have a banhammer handy? Shame you can’t read... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 05:41 PM
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“Trash can couch creatures.” 🤣🤣🤣 dead. Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 07:36 PM
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Yeah, I concur. I don’t like someone feeling as though I owe them, or provide them with anything they may feel they can use to hold over my head. Seems reasonable and logical to me. 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 07:32 PM
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“Belong” 🤮 I belong to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 01:46 PM
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Had me dying in public. Thank you for this beautiful phrase! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 07:02 PM
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“You love me too much” “You love me more than I love you” Wtf do women tolerate this? I can’t believe I felt some type of way after being told this. So excited to get health insurance next month. Can’t wait to go to therapy and fix whatever dysfunction I acquired /associated with love. Can’t wait to be a better version of me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:38 PM
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