ifulieplzdontapply Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	My wife is divorcing me in a no-fault state. I would do anything not to get a divorce... If she’s open to it, the only option you have is to prove it. Do the work, get help, change. Find a hobby that doesn’t involve other women. A grand gesture and follow through. Do NOT even begin down this road if you cannot follow through- leave her alone if you can’t stick to something. Fixing this requires 100% long term commitment and some discomfort (facing your demons) in order to get to a new normal.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/19 02:34 AM
3	Conflicted Agreed. Use the shame against her.. it goes away over time and she will fight you hard later. It’s hard I know but bring it down.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/19 02:44 PM
1	1 year ago she left me with only the man in the mirror. Today, I thank her. You win	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/19 01:11 AM
2	Newly married man needs advice on divorce w/ children This is harsh but it’s reality: What you’re saying is you’re having an affair. There is no way you really know this new person, infatuation is fleeting and definitely not true love. You have young kids- giving up like this/cheating shows a true lack of effort/values. Do you even realize how horrible your actions are? If you put half the effort you are putting toward your new infatuation, toward your NEW FAMILY- you would very likely have a better marriage/family life and not be in this situation…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/19 07:25 PM