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if you could travel anywhere in the world right now, where would you go?
/r/seduction28/10/25 04:50 PM
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Flirting is completely different from 'talking dirty'.. and the two are completely acceptable in the right context, with consent and of age, obviously. Don't confuse flirting with dirty talk... And don't confuse 'To Catch A Predator' with your interaction with women. It's completely different.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:10 PM
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"I don't know him/her/them well enough" that's a standard answer when asked those type of questions lol... friends expect you to get married immediately when they see you laughing with someone you just met.
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:02 PM
2

Save these conversations and questions for in-person meet ups & dates... don't try to get to know a person through texts... remember, you can lose attraction through texts. even if she is engaging through texts and asks YOU a lot of questions... reply sparingly and push to talk about it in person.. she can't see your smile and facial expressions through texts.
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:40 AM
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there's a chance she'll change her mind and want to hook up tonight, but don't push for it (or say anything stupid)… just be enjoyable and fun to be around... think in terms of hooking up next time. With that mindset, you'll have a better chance of her sticking around longer and it can lead to something else. If no luck tonight, then at least you were enjoyable for her to want to see you again. Win/win, good luck.
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:30 PM
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I do this because I feel like I like her a lot more than how she likes me You're right for doing this. Let her fall for you rather than you chasing her around. The closer she gets to you and lets her guard down, you can mirror her actions.. don't let her know your next moves... be busy one moment then do a sweet gesture when its unexpected.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:40 PM
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Moving on is the best thing you can do to possibly get her to reach out to you. Texting her will essentially push her away. if she's busy, she's busy... there's nothing you can do about it. Don't be impatient.. instead of waiting around for her or texting her... talk to other girls to keep yourself busy or better yet, work on yourself.
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:06 PM
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Yes. By treating them all the same.
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:47 AM
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Ok so overall, you have the right attitude. You shot and missed but most importantly, you reassess your moves. Yes it could have been better but you went for the shot... and you're still alive! Just keep shooting.. it gets better with practice... it gets even easier when you care less and have a good time no matter what. Tweak your approaches to be more organic (thus side approach is easiest) and pay attention to body language… also a general "Yall look nice" is boring lol.. be specific when it …
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:49 PM
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good, save your questions and conversations for Monday. They are more meaningful in person rather than text exchange. again, she has shown interest but it doesn't mean she likes you (yet)... she wants to get to know you, so its your job to get to know her. best of luck to you
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:11 PM
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first date on Monday? if she's not responsive to flirting over text, don't flirt over text... texting should be minimal in general. She clearly showed interest in you, but it doesn't mean she's ready to flirt or be romantic with you... rule of thumb, texting can ruin attraction.
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:57 PM
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Don't push for anything.. not even a 'how are you' text... she seems genuinely busy so wait it out.. when she's ready to have fun again, she'll come to you.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:17 PM
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pull back a bit to refocus on yourself and your goals... I'd try out mirroring his habits and be a bit busy yourself.
/r/seduction06/04/22 04:19 PM
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I’m assuming you’re young because your actions attract needy girls even more. Go for women or up your standards.
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:29 AM
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Bruh, even as a 35 yr old male.. I'm offended by "generic woman in her 30's" lol but yes I can relate.. funny enough, she was 22 when I was in my early 30's. It is normal to regret having sex almost immediately. I was turned off when I was out of condoms and she insisted we could still go another round. 22 yr olds can be gross too.
/r/seduction22/10/21 12:26 PM
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"You Miss 100% Of The Shots You Dont Take. - Wayne Gretzky" - Michael Scott
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:25 PM
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I see what you're getting at. This has been a learned a behavior I adopted and it does work out for the most part. Just don't want to warm up to someone who is cold to you... I can be a bit cold back or be warm somewhere else. But it's done subtly and not obvious. Good post.
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:47 PM
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A Lifetime original…
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:23 PM
7

Next time you see a black woman crying. Pull your dick out. SeDuCtioN
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:21 PM
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have any girlfriends? like... girls you trade make up with? that could be a start. I agree with exercising tho... that may be a better start. i'm someone who lost over 50lbs and it was life changing for my dating life and i'd even say career. it's the best way to love and care for yourself. also, im jumping on this train about needing to see your photo lol
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:11 PM
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sorry- probably not the advice you're looking for... but it was a good line you typed out and should pay more attention to
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:53 PM
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There's always room to work on yourself... you can work out and buy nice clothes; those things may help with your outer appearance but at the end of the day, you'll only need and want this: I’m the type of girl guys are attracted to after they get to know me.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:52 PM
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I like this post... A LOT. When I went through a break up and lived on my own, I solely focused on #1. Once that worked out for me, I'd say my focus shifted 50% finance & career, 25% physical and mental health 25% number 3 on the list... I've always simplified this to my buddies as, "just work on yourself" but this post is a way better explanation of it.
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:09 PM
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RIP Patrice... Just imagine if he had a podcast this day in age... damn, what a loss.
/r/seduction23/03/21 03:59 PM
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There's finesse and art to communicating through texting and social media, etc... the issue is when it's the only means of communicating and then over communicating through that form. I don't like to tell guys, "only text to schedule". Obviously, texting and social media is important but use it as a tool. Perfect the art of silence, know the correct response times, learn restraint, choose the right caption for your posts... I can go on and on. So think of the average joe.. inarticulate and just …
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:17 PM
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Funny thing is, guys would get more sex... if they didn't prioritize sex. If that's not what you want at the moment, good for you.. there's nothing beta about it. Prioritize yourself and be happier.
/r/seduction22/02/21 04:47 PM
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It's happening because you're letting it happen. Not trying to come off negative... you should spend more time on self improvement and things that make you happy.. it sounds like you are literally waiting around for her.
/r/seduction16/02/21 01:37 PM
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Awesome!
/r/seduction12/02/21 06:44 PM
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if you're ever in a situation where you're date is prepping, then yea lend a helping hand. but again, know what you're doing... it would be a huge turn off if you asked to help but then didn't know how to cut cilantro or something lol
/r/seduction12/02/21 06:39 PM
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Absolutely not. It's only too much if you don't know what you're doing... let her see you do some (to little) of the cooking and handling; towel over your shoulder... make it look effortless. This is a good opportunity to show case talent and finesse without coming off 'braggy' in a sense. You got this.
/r/seduction12/02/21 06:09 PM
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if you really want to start small... go on a complimenting spree.. just go about your day complimenting everyone; men and women. you'll never know, one of those interactions could spark a conversation. don't be hard on yourself and best of luck
/r/seduction04/12/20 12:06 PM
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Maybe I'll love you one day, maybe we'll someday grow Til' then just sit your drunk ass on that fuckin' runway, Ho
/r/seduction02/12/20 12:27 PM
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dirty talk and tease. and korean bbq.
/r/seduction01/07/20 07:08 PM
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I know the best option is just move on you got this
/r/seduction01/07/20 06:54 PM
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as long as you keep the mindset of 'small talk' and being friendly, go for it... absolutely nothing wrong with complimenting or saying hi. (most) women hate being hit on in public so don't give off that energy... UNLESS they're very receptive and open with body language. I try to practice friendly banter or small talk all the time. and don't only do it with women you're attracted to... talk to less attractive women, older folks, talk to guys, workers... it doesn't hurt to become a friendlier per…
/r/seduction01/07/20 06:19 PM
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mam, this is a Wendy's.
/r/seduction01/07/20 06:01 PM
1

what if the hot black bitch is not rude or entitled
/r/seduction01/07/20 05:58 PM
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What is prompting them to say this on the first night? lol
/r/seduction29/06/20 05:56 PM
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start with making friends and make it less about 'getting pussy' at the moment.. that 'trying to get pussy' mindset will sabotage every approach you have.. but 'making friends' is a different display of attitude. Ultimately, be a nice guy upfront.. be charming if you're funny. Be someone they want to be around all the time.
/r/seduction29/06/20 05:16 PM
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Then don't turn on Porn.
/r/seduction29/06/20 04:58 PM
1

not a coworker. in the same building.
/r/seduction21/05/20 06:53 PM
1

Sometimes... but most importantly, I use it to my advantage. In my case, I'm in a work environment with a handful of other guys on the side line. They don't realize openly hating on me (to girls) or trying to sabotage me works to my benefit. I don't really get a thrill from it (unless my competition is real asshole) but I get more satisfaction from helping other guys out... You can't have this 10, but I'll help you get those 2 5's lol.
/r/seduction20/05/20 01:51 PM
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yes, dd5243... this is fucking creepy.
/r/seduction19/05/20 01:14 PM
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i'd like to know the compliment specifically.. if it's on some "oh you're pretty/beautiful"... how boring.. i'd leave you on read too. the best compliments are attention to detail; commenting on things they worked hard on. "i love your style".. "i like your winged eye liner".."your make up is dope"... "i like the way you ___ with ___ " so on. also sidebar.. be comfortable with being left on read... leave others on read. it's not a big deal and it worked on you.
/r/seduction14/05/20 06:39 PM
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there's a bit of mystery to it, so maybe you're not too far off. but it's harder to differentiate from the less attractive people...
/r/seduction14/05/20 06:22 PM
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Congrats on you and your bro's success. I hope you close 100 more... just be less of a shitty person.
/r/seduction14/05/20 06:16 PM
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if it's just a friendship and you have no interest... reply. heart emoji, smile emoji, whatever.. if you're attracted to her.. maybe she's attracted to you, i would recommend not replying at all. (through text) but keep engaging in person.
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:33 AM
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context? do you have a goal? is there a reason she keeps thanking you?
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:22 AM
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No. there's an art to negging but i wouldn't put this in the category or negging.
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:16 AM
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i've had this issue before... what i learned from my mistakes is that i would fire just out of the blue.. i didn't get a feel for the mood or chemistry. as for rebounding.. it's up to you whether you want to address it or now. in my experience, i did mention it but moved passed it fast. "heh sorry if it was akward for you, but i really enjoyed our time and would love to hang out again" (and then never mentioned it again). didn't kiss the second meet up.. hooked up around the 4th or 5th time meet…
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:12 AM
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this. plus confidence. " He just normally talks and hangs out with them. " from this line alone, i can already imagine what kind of guy he is.. he's not on the prowl or looking for that attention. I'm sure he can talk to anybody without an objective over his head
/r/seduction13/05/20 12:02 PM
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what is the context? there are numerous types 'calibrating' that are done.. for texting, it can refer to the change of pace of talking to someone or change of emotion. I have a lot of guy friends who just text girls back and forth non-stop without a goal in mind... that is a time where i may suggest to re-calibrate/ change something immediately
/r/seduction13/05/20 11:51 AM
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