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What's your point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:38 AM
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I've talked to many Women and they've all ghosted or ignored me for no apparent reason at some point, if the women you speak of do exist they seem to be rather rare, you can stop circle jerking now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:44 AM
-1

I think more women are like you than you're willing to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:58 PM
1

sure dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:01 AM
1

cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:16 AM
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Every human being is insecure about something so yes I'd believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:38 PM
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in that case you shouldn't struggle holding a single guy down, because that's really all it takes tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:57 PM
1

be a somewhat pleasant and decent person to be around, that isn't a hindrance, that's about as deep as it gets
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:27 PM
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I'm certain other men have taken them up on that before, fortunately my self esteem isn't low enough to put myself through that just to not be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:00 AM
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You can definitely have 0 options as a guy, also no, Women may not get a guy they necessarily like, I meant one way or another, they can get a guy pretty much guaranteed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:52 AM
0

And that's the fundamental difference in our beliefs, even if he didn't like them, he'd probably still not be able to get with them, a Woman will always be able to get with a man she likes or dislikes off the virtue of being a Woman, that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:46 AM
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The point being made by the guy you responded to is an unattractive Woman will always be able to get with a guy, the same is not true in reverse, I don't see how going after people you don't even like would somehow change that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:33 AM
-1

Do you think you're cooking? What do you think the end result of dating someone he doesn't even like would be? Just be upfront and tell him not to date anyone at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:47 AM
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Sure, some people are more low inhibition than me and don't struggle with approaching Women, they approach and it doesn't matter to them if she finds them disgusting or not, for me I don't want to make others uncomfortable so I just accept my fate because the alternative is to painful so yes others make different choices and do better they are literally wired differently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:14 PM
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damned if you do damned if you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:05 PM
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women who have never known anything but luxe and a modern lifestyle will blast men for the sins of their great grandfather. yeah as far as the west is concerned atleast this is pretty much the status quo at the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:18 AM
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yeah pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:01 AM
0

their egos are so insane
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:48 AM
15

in a world where every Man suddenly did what Women claimed to want them to do there'd still be a lot of lonely men because their standards would simply have risen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:30 AM
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Seems like too much risk tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:27 PM
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why get married
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:05 PM
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lots of name calling here, someone's upset 🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:38 PM
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because there's no real men's rights groups nothing I do would matter people only care about feminism not men's issues
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:35 PM
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once again ignoring the point to go at me personally I'm not the one that lies about wanting to be equal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:16 PM
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there's no real men's rights movement, and I'm not an activist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:11 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:01 PM
1

So? We aren't the ones rallying in the streets for "equality"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:50 PM
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Men aren't the ones that claim to want "equality" but only protest things that benefit themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:45 PM
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talking about how Feminists are allegedly against the draft but never actually protest for it or do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:37 PM
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why are we talking about me exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:04 PM
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all I gotta say is I have never witnessed any Woman protesting against the draft in my entire life, they may be against it, doesn't mean they'll do anything LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:45 PM
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I never said it wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:11 PM
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More like they know how to clean but refuse to purely out of laziness
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:07 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:03 PM
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yes you'd be a slob, the point I'm making is how the hell someone could live their entire life never knowing how to clean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:02 PM
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no one said that..but in schools there's this thing called janitors..at home is different because that means they're responsible for doing that by either their parents or they simply don't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:58 PM
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yeah some people can't be reasoned with and should be blocked 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:57 PM
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Bathroom is different because that's someone else's job, but never learning how to clean implies you just left your shit and garbage around without ever being corrected or scolded about it, which is high unlikely in a school setting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:49 PM
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learning how to clean is also something taught in most schools...you'd have to have a rather abnormally bad upbringing to say you never ever learned how to clean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:40 PM
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I feel like learning how to clean is a natural part of growing up as a human being regardless of gender, if you decide not to it's purely out of laziness not because you're worse at it than Women, or even because you don't know how to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:37 AM
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as he should
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:57 AM
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They whine because the men aren't good enough for them supposedly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:44 AM
1

it doesn't matter if you make my dick hard,if you're unbearable to be around or a bitch you won't get picked, you'd used for sex at most
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:03 AM
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but you don't see the fault in your own logic, that people can end up with "no pussy" because they were abused or some other horrible thing that mentally stunted them, now you're so mentally and emotionally damaged, no Woman would find you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:41 AM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:35 AM
2

the disparity mostly comes from them already being taken beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:17 PM
1

SWAG BABY ROO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:22 PM
6

bro really hopped on an alt to tell me to kms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:13 PM
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You're definitely a cornball, there's nothing rewarding about getting mistreated or abused by women in your youth, that just creates trauma and resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:45 PM
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nah suffering for the sake of it isn't good, the point is to preemptively avoid suffering, young men shouldn't have to be treated like shit or suffer in relationships while wondering why this is happening to them, if you let them know early, they won't be in pain as much later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:35 PM
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sure but I'm not paying child support
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:51 PM
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I'd let the government/cps handle it, if I'm not ready to be a father it shouldn't be my responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:08 PM
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Ok so you're basically using the puritan argument that you shouldn't have sex if you don't want to make a kid, why should someone who doesn't want a kid, and the mother decides to have one against his wishes, have to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:51 AM
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what does that have to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:09 AM
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ok but if you don't want to be a father and she knows this but has the baby anyway he shouldn't be forced to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:06 AM
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nah you can be mid there will be a rather large amount of guys that would like you anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:56 PM
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not name calling it's just the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:11 AM
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nah that's just being obtuse on purpose, no one really cares when a woman is aggressive towards a man but the opposite isn't ok that's the definition of privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:37 AM
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You simply never noticed it, if you think men are rude or mean to women on average you really haven't seen the shit we do to our fellow men, we're taught that girls are weaker, both physically and emotionally (again, I want to emphasize that I am speaking in stereotypes, and do not necessarily believe any of this is true, but it is what we are conditioned to believe.) They are to be protected and looked after. Even if they get aggressive, it doesn't matter because if we're a "real" man, a "weak"…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:51 PM
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incel women don't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:39 PM
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respect women, don't make fun of womens insecurities, dont hurt women, was hammered into men's heads the first day they stepped into school, Men were socially engineered to feel empathy for Women from childhood, however they are slowly realizing Women werent taught the same thing, and are reacting accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:24 PM
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truth nuke
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:14 PM
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get help
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:28 PM
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implied how
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:22 PM
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not what you said initially
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:15 PM
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nah only the truth, I have no reason to gaslight or threaten anyone, nor do I want women to be harmed or have their rights taken, I just personally don't see the point in doing blue collar work, I won't have a family to support so I don't need the extra money, and those jobs break your body physically and mentally, me and many others feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:14 PM
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notice how you're the only one throwing insults
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:05 PM
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if you didn't care you wouldn't comment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:56 PM
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Funny how this person won't be banned or have their comment removed for saying it'd be nice for half of the male population to be erased 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:55 PM
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notice how you instantly jump to enslavement and rape, a bit of an overreaction, what he means is a lot of men are just going to stop giving a fuck about working or contributing to society, they will never have the family they want, so they simply will stop caring and do the bare minimum to get by and have a somewhat comfortable life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:52 PM
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you're basically saying everything I think, but couldn't find the words for, but I'm not surprised people are gonna die on this hill, since the person you're describing could easily be themselves, and they don't want to feel judged or counted out for things they themselves have done
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:42 PM
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If a man doesn't ask a Woman out he risks being alone basically forever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:50 PM
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you seem like a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:40 AM
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ok so in your mind if you have any problem during a relationship suddenly it's bad and you should leave without trying to fix it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:54 AM
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that's not what you said though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:30 AM
1

they simply are less funny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:02 PM
2

enjoy it while it lasts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:45 PM
1

yeah sure 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:32 PM
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If you're in a relationship with someone you should be going on "dates" throughout the duration of that relationship, if you date one specific person for months without dropping them at that point most people would just assume they were already in some kind of relationship, not simply fuck buddies, in a situation like op is describing, where you're doing that and suddenly they're out with someone else the feeling of betrayal would be unavoidable for the other party no matter how you try to spin …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:11 PM
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yeah, it was pretty sad you deleted your replies so I unblocked out of pity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:19 PM
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entitlement and delusion it is then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:32 PM
7

not exactly, that's an extremely flawed way to think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:15 PM
3

why is that the man's job?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:14 PM
6

for you to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:39 PM
6

but you have no agency right? the same logic could be used against you as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:36 PM
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toxic as fuck tbh, "the man should take initiative for everything if he doesn't he doesn't want to"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:29 PM
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I feel bad for the people in our generation, not long ago you went on several dates with a Woman over months and it was implied you were already dating, now if you don't directly state it they'll just fuck dudes on tinder simultaneously
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:17 PM
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it's literally the opposite, as proven by this post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:07 PM
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the future is looking bright boys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:43 AM
13

I can't even get a date or a text back buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:08 PM
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anymore ad hominems for me bud
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:12 PM
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it seems you're the type that's only capable of thinking in extremes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:01 PM
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If what you got out of that is we can't clean that's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:52 PM
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he expects to no accountability running the house you did it again, when did he say he wanted a homemaker or a housewife? do you see the picture you're painting? people can't approach your argument seriously when you make baseless claims
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:38 AM
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well you started off by accusing him of wanting something he never said he wanted or demanded
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:26 AM
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it's like you're looking for an argument instead of actually paying attention to what he's saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:19 AM
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obviously we're from different areas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:51 AM
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you just said what most women would never admit but probably think
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:02 AM
2

mask off moment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:15 PM
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if they are settling they best keep that fact to themselves if they want people to stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:37 AM
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I think it's the opposite, no one cares about you, so the natural reaction is to not care about them either, they have no real reason to care, so why should they
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:04 PM
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don't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:47 PM
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A broken clock is right twice a day, a nice personality isn't gonna make a girl suddenly like you if she thinks you're ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:41 PM
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ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:10 AM
2

wanting a taller wealthier man is also an arbitrary standard
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:24 AM
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logic like this is why true love and reciprocity is dead in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:04 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:26 PM
2

disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:15 PM
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not really you're a consenting adult at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:13 PM
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show me your science
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:12 PM
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how does that change anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:00 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:53 PM
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No you explicitly said "men like dating highschoolers" not "men like dating younger" those things have entirely seperate connotations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:52 PM
0

Ok? And Women like to date richer and taller, how's this different?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:50 PM
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data does not support men wanting to date highschoolers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:45 PM
-4

you see what you want, because Women teachers raping their male students has been a problem for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:41 PM
-10

Women are also visual creatures, if not more so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:37 PM
1

pretty easy for me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 11:27 PM
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so had her fun and looking to settle down with a good guy? still a red flag for me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:16 PM
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woman of good moral character and non promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 08:16 AM
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nah nothing is "natural" about whatever is happening now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:26 PM
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women were always able to find a boyfriend, that was never a problem for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:26 PM
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We are complacent, people will talk and say what they want but ultimately nothing has really changed, the average man basically exists to be a provider and worker ant regardless of how he feels about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:52 PM
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Currently we are complacent, I don't know if that will change
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:44 PM
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I think at this point things are kind of just set in stone, I don't think this is something people will simply age out of, not without some kind of societal change
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:09 PM
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it is but it will become more common unless something changes drastically in the next 10 years or so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:49 PM
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male disposability era, many will exist to work, no family or love involved
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:27 AM
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not playing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:29 AM
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except it changes everything, men outnumber women on the apps because most of the women on them uninstall them immediately as soon as they find someone (which usually doesn't take long), the men can't find anyone so they stay around longer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:31 PM
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let's take into account a Woman will be on a dating app for a much shorter time compared to a man of equal attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:13 PM
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the average guy you probably wouldn't notice or pay attention to walking down the street that isn't particularly attractive or wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:27 PM
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The difference is bad women don’t approach you and sometimes love bomb you to get into your life and then abuse you or reveal who they’re. they do that just as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:34 AM
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well that's how movements tend to start, a lot of guys are unhappy and their voting choices will reflect that whether you as an individual agree with it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:47 AM
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let's not play dumb and act like this is all contained within this one sub, it's not even purely contained to this site, this is becoming increasingly widespread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:37 AM
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What good does it do for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:29 PM
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nah it's really not sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:51 PM
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to you I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:12 PM
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you just answered your own question then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:53 PM
2

Because Women can't abuse other Women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:44 PM
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if you want men to believe they're somehow complicit in the abuse of Women I'd suggest coming up with some more compelling arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:31 PM
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Not really Men are protected in being violent towards women. how Men are protected in positions of power in enacting sexist policy. how All the statistics prove this to be the case. such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:01 PM
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men’s grievances towards women have strong social and political backing elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:26 PM
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if you're a mid guy yeah just peep the comments, men will say it sucks women think it's going fine, perhaps that's reflecting our experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:22 PM
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Women would never have been liberated without the help of men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:18 PM
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cry about it, people love to talk shit it doesn't matter if you're a woman or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:09 PM
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That's not unique to Women, gaming is toxic for basically everyone involved
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:48 AM
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Nah most Women have a hyperselective disqualification mindset, if you are short, have some balding, neurodivergent, they'll lose interest almost instantly, and they have so many more options, so if course they only go for the best available
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:01 PM
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most guys just want a normal healthy girl, Women want 6ft+, wealthy, no balding (most men start going bald before 35), so yes men are simply held to a higher standard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:25 AM
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*debate thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:49 PM
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I don't expect you to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:02 PM
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It's a problem because men are held to a higher standard over things they cannot change
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:59 PM
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Women would attract men whether they modified themselves or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:49 PM
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Not comparable in cost or pain to a hair transplant or limb lengthening surgery, and you're being utterly disingenuous, men who wear weaves and hair pieces get CLOWNED
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:04 PM
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I'm gonna complain about things that don't make sense to me, your reaction doesn't really matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:36 PM
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Yeah because waxing is comparable to getting an entire hairline transplant and breaking your bones to get a few inches taller, no it's not worth it at all and most guys getting those surgeries done are insecure dudes who's last problem is getting female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:32 PM
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just spend tens of thousands of dollars to appeal to shallow 6/10s bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:07 PM
1

my ship was never meant to leave the harbor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:18 PM
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95% according to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:51 PM
4

women get away with it that's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:15 AM
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Every hardship is a "them" problem, that doesn't change anything, if you only experienced losing at a game that you never knew you could win the natural reaction is to quit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:21 PM
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moronic take, some people never overcome their hardships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:21 PM
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what's wrong with what he said
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:01 AM
1

guess so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:40 AM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:24 AM
1

there are some pretty universal characteristics that would make someone attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:52 PM
3

the sub 5 doesn't get time to vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:35 PM
2

The "spark" is decided within the first second you are looked at
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:01 PM
1

Just because you never experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't happen, different people have different experiences sorry this is hard for you to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:00 PM
3

nothing magic about being tall and good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:47 AM
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gross
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:21 PM
1

No it's really not abnormal, virgin shaming is a common and real thing sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:19 PM
1

People do share their sex lives publicly, when you're friends with other guys they will keep bothering you about it until you tell them, as fully grown adults
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:41 AM
2

you're really more of a BP larper than an actual blackpiller
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:17 AM
1

you're a loser bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:07 PM
2

the problem is this shouldn't be something you have to hide, some people don't get laid for countless reasons, why do people think that's worth shaming them over?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:58 PM
1

if you can't tell if the guy you're with is going to abandon your children and yet you still get pregnant you're a moron who probably isn't ready to raise kids sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:48 AM
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"you aren't worth my time" spends time responding
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:30 AM
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don't get impregnated by the kind of person who abandons their kids, better yet don't get pregnant at all most of these kids weren't planned they were put on earth due to pure incompetence and lack of foresight on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:25 AM
1

ook
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:57 PM
1

do women not also enjoy sex? it's not supposed to be a "trade"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:28 PM
1

💀 so men only deserve sex under the context that they give something to the woman, did you not just describe prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:02 PM
1

Figure it out, not gonna go in circles with you all day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:50 PM
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Funny how you dismiss other things most people will not achieve/have access to since you don’t want to compare what it’s like to not having something. what you just did is the equivalent of telling a starving child that some kids didn't get the toy they wanted for Christmas so they aren't allowed to complain because not everyone gets what they want in life right? Most people get to have sex, most people get to have a relationship, most people had the chance to atleast start a family. Most people…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:22 PM
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Why are we comparing having sex to being a billionaire or going to the moon? You can get sex whenever you want, that's why it's so easy for you to dismiss those who can't, you don't understand what it's like to be in their position.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:04 PM
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Not about you indulging in it or not, the fact you have the option means you don't grasp the significance of NOT having it, or even worse, NEVER having it, ever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:46 PM
1

"well established fact" is blowing it out of proportion, it's an individual thing like everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:34 PM
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easy to say when you have easy access to it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:26 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:43 PM
2

Paying for it takes away the entire point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:31 PM
1

if you keep seeing each other past a first date then not being exclusive becomes a red flag in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 07:09 PM
1

You know people aren't courteous purely for your sake right? You can be courteous for selfish reasons, if you had a reputation for being rude that would effect your business
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:58 AM
4

You call it grace I call it apathy/indifference
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:29 AM
5

"just be graceful bro" yeah get rejected gracefully, I'm sure HR is being subtle and graceful when they don't call you back after an interview the problem is all the pressure is put on one side
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:41 PM
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divorced man flair is killing me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:53 AM
1

because they don't go out and stick to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 05:24 AM
7

mainly women, I've never witnessed a man turn down a woman because she was bi
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:18 AM
1

something many people never understood or will understand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:16 AM
7

implying women never owned slaves either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:08 AM
7

statistically most relationships start online
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:59 AM
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Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:15 PM
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are you implying they don't exist? they usually don't go out much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:09 PM
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there is no number higher than 0 that will make me feel comfortable (as a virgin)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:36 PM
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the mask is slipping off boys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:39 PM
2

Imagine getting mad because I don't imagine myself fucking women I just met
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:42 AM
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If you label someone as creepy before they've ever done anything deserving of that label why are you surprised they are resentful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:23 PM
2

Sometimes they are bitchy and bossy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:17 PM
2

Ok thanks for making things up 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:33 PM
2

the words that aren't there?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:30 PM
2

where does it say men are slaves because of women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:29 PM
0

we are slaves because of women holy strawman, I have never seen anyone say that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:20 PM
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I don't do that, and I'm single, doing that while in a commited relationship is a whole other level of shitty. Maybe you're speaking for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:10 PM
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You serve, ZERO PURPOSE
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:16 PM
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it's over for you if you're reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:59 PM
3

no one cares 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:22 PM
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100% this, looking for a non overweight non promiscuous Woman these days is now seen as asking for too much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:48 PM
1

implying their only option is to be abused, it's a lost cause, the reality is they'd rather be abused by prince charming and then settle for a relationship with someone who actually treats them well when they're older
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:55 PM
1

ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:16 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:47 PM
1

good luck finding that commitment when you're a 30 something that spent her youth being used as a toy for men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:42 PM
3

It can be both, and it also depends on the person. Women and Men can both be horrible but I think it's easier for a Woman to be horrible towards a man and have it be seen as "fine"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:19 PM
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it becomes problematic when they imply they earned or deserved their success when they never actually worked for it all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:08 PM
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I think most people's complaints are somewhat valid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:53 PM
5

doesn't really matter if she can handle it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:11 AM
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there is, it's called ending the relationship and removing her from your life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:46 PM
6

no one said either was fine, the angry one here seems to be you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:11 AM
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according to the Women on this sub it's acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:38 PM
1

viewing other human beings as mosquitos is rather telling about their mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:57 PM
1

I don't needy to drag you anywhere because you already exposed yourself as ableist, most autistic men aren't dangerous or violent so there goes your argument. Thank goodness your ideas will never be enforced anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:40 PM
1

The goalpost hasn't been moved, and you ignored my question, would you apply the same discrimination towards ethnicities or other groups that are statistically more violent? Or are you going to just claim that autistic=dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:27 PM
1

So because some autistic people are violent it's fine to strip their rights away, surely this is sarcasm? would you apply the same logic to race and gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:16 PM
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no it's not the same thing at all, and being autistic doesn't mean you are only capable of thinking in black and white either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:06 PM
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high functioning autistic should be barred from having any power or responsibilities. we call that ableism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:50 PM
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let's not use Elon Musk as the representative for high functioning autistics as if he's the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:52 PM
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Not implying anything other than you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:30 PM
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The social conditioning for women is to be perpetually underweight, mostly silent, passive and agreeable people pleasers. That's a bit of a shit sandwich they get handed. And how often do you see Women actually conforming to these "standards" most Women in America are definitely not underweight, nor silent, that may have been the norm 40+ years ago absolutely not now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:07 AM
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Do you find your brother and sister attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:51 PM
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I'm yet to receive an explanation on how you can find someone attractive yet not be attracted to them, seems to me people like making things more complicated than they actually are as a form of denial, if you can say someone is attractive to you, you find them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:48 PM
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No, I can see how whatever female actress is hot and that doesn't make me a lesbian if you find someone attractive you're attracted to them by definition let's not change the meanings of words simply because it's convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:21 PM
0

oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:42 PM
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If you try this on your first date that's a good way to ensure the second one never happens
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:31 PM
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I didn't say it was or wasn't, but her logic of "it's normal so you can't have a problem with it" is flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:09 PM
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Normal =/= Correct and Good
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:46 PM
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wtv bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:03 AM
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General social survey of the USA. Very low sample size, but the trend is clear. Also, it follows from what we know about young people and people at the end of their 20s. If we know the average for the whole bracket, we know that end-20s has higher relationship rate and early-20s has lower relationship rate. Ages 18-20, hetero and bisexual. About 75% of women do not have a steady partner at that age. because it's only accounting for people living with their partners, obviously most aren't at that…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:04 AM
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No, most of the women below 21 are single. Just like their male counterparts. source? There are no statistics on who men date, just if they are in committed relationships, or what age they prefer. From their preferences, i would assume they are dating women at their age or 1-2 years younger, as the main age dynamic. Most young men are single No, first, "alone" is the wrong word. This is about not having a steady partner, not about being alone. Second, they can still have casual partners which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:10 AM
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so who do the men younger than 21 date, assuming they're college age, most of the Women there would be around the same age but still with older men right? So those Men (younger than 21) would be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:42 PM
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"no it must be because men are abusers and want to take advantage of Women incel" - this comment section in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:29 PM
1

this is some sad shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:57 AM
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good thing you aren't everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:06 AM
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men aren't a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:55 PM
5

so your logic is everyone would hoe around if they were capable of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:14 AM
1

ok so you don't know 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:15 PM
0

how do you know, because that's what they tell you? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:10 AM
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mindfuck is the perfect word, and if you aren't attracting them they just tell you you're a bad person, because Women clearly only date good guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:44 AM
1

not everyone gets scholarships, relax with the superiority complex, you aren't superior just because you went to college
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:38 PM
1

no degree =/= uneducated, sorry you correlate deciding not going into debt means you are less smart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:03 PM
1

yeah sure bud
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:47 PM
1

No it's not, you can be a complete moron and graduate with your bachelors, this does not make you any smarter than someone who specialized in a trade
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:23 AM
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sure dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:19 AM
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"more women for me" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:09 AM
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life at a minimum
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/25 09:58 AM
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Moral: over for sub 5 and below
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:53 PM
3

you're on the wrong website if you're expecting empathy, especially towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:46 PM
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tall women aren't "better" bro, you just developed an inferiority complex because you've been treated as lesser, that doesn't mean they are superior people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:41 PM
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thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:09 PM
1

great
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:03 PM
3

yeah the ignorance is amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:56 PM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:49 PM
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sure and if women want to produce HEALTHIER offsprings they need to steer away from autistic men or short guys AKA undesireable men. wow you really just went full mask off here huh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:44 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:41 PM
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sorry you don't understand nuance and can't see how people can have it hard in one aspect but not another 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:54 PM
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Well, his dating life wasn’t great given that he got drafted and shipped to Vietnam. why is this mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:51 PM
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70% of men of ALL ages, your boomer dad was able to navigate an entirely different dating landscape, one that was most likely easier
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:39 PM
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doesn't answer the question of course
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:29 AM
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Who is more likely to be beaten a Woman publicly insulting a man or a Man publicly insulting a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:54 PM
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No one claimed it was purely for being men? You are the one saying that people would mainly target those who are weaker when that is evidently false.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:20 PM
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for someone who doesn't care you seem to have a lot of words to say about them..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:56 PM
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Amazing how you avoid actually answering the question, the reality is men are still nearly 10x as likely to be murdered for any reason, in a world where people simply chose their targets based off who was the weakest the disparity would never be this big https://www.statista.com/statistics/1388777/murder-victims-in-the-us-by-gender/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:23 PM
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then explain why most victims of violence are men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:43 PM
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reality, most men are only messaging women for hookups. Hardly any will ever agree to a date (speaking in regards to average women) *most men I match with and entertain only want hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:25 AM
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i am responding to you, not op, and yes you did
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:30 AM
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you guys really love wide generalizing statements huh, like get over yourself, most men don't even care about you or know you exist, why would they dislike you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:35 PM
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if some men don't want casual sex it would be equally reasonable that some women would also not want casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:58 PM
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and men most men having an unsatiating hunger for casual sex with new partners ok so you are just projecting your own feelings onto every other man, some men don't desire that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:34 PM
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how does this mean that low n count women would cease to exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:58 PM
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there are no low-n women there are, you just never found them because that's not what you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:51 AM
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suifuel thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:14 PM
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Eve trusting Satan was the catalyst I cannot put equal blame on Adam for trusting his lover atleast he didn't trust a serpent/the literal devil
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:09 PM
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They both knew
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:33 PM
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how was Eve deceived but Adam wasn't, they both were told not to eat the fruit and they both disobeyed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:32 PM
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Hell Adam blamed Eve and the whole of Christendom blames woman for the “fall of man.” Even though in the story Adam knew as much as Eve! I'm not religious but that's not even how the story went, Eve was tempted by Satan to eat the apple and then she decided to share the apple with Adam, dooming them both, Adam chose to disobey God in favor of trusting Eve, but if Eve never trusted Satan nothing would've ever happened
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:41 PM
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I had to say something at some point bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:29 PM
1

this u/Mongobobalossus guy has the worst takes ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:12 PM
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If what you got out my comment was me implying people should stay virgin you can't read, I'm not going to waste my time with shallow Women purely for sex, that desperation is part of the problem these days
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:47 AM
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why? if someone has a problem with me being a virgin I probably shouldn't be dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:49 AM
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virginity obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:38 AM
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why should I have to hide a trait about myself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:28 AM
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bro is cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:24 AM
2

yeah if I wanted to commit suicide it would be a method guaranteeing my death, not leaving me disabled for life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:57 PM
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ok so women attempt suicide as a cry for help and Men attempt it to die seems like a pretty large difference in mentalities, if it's a cry for help that means there's still a part of you that wants to live, that explains the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:13 PM
1

you do realize most overdose and drug related deaths are still men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:09 PM
1

that is exactly what the argument is about, were you not talking about men seeking help for their problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:59 PM
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Bad logic, if Women actually wanted to kill themselves as much there wouldn't be an 80% difference in the deaths, you can't just say that huge difference is purely because "we are more effective" it isn't hard to kill yourself if you actually are serious about dying with no chance of survival
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:58 PM
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bro if ur killing urself FOR ANY REASON something is wrong in your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:16 PM
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the point is that he is arguing men aren't isolated and lonely then cites the suicide rate as if that helps his argument
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:08 PM
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men still account for 80% of suicide deaths, men don't seek treatment for their problems, they just kill themselves when they can't handle it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:56 PM
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who the hell brings up Andrew Tate on a date anyways, even if you agree just keep it to yourself, this guy is probably on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 11:14 AM
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speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:24 AM
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Based reply, promiscuous Women and Men that visit prostitutes are ultimately doing the same thing in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:56 AM
2

I didn't shame anyone though? what's your problem dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:01 AM
3

people suck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:47 AM
3

no one should shame anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:50 AM
-1

if that's their prerogative that's fine, just don't try to shame other people for disagreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:56 AM
1

grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:14 AM
1

it's not meant to be a threat, it's just a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:31 PM
1

If that entitled attitude doesn't change that will no longer be the case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:30 AM
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yap yap yap, no one will listen to you when you consider the people you're arguing against as sexless weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:45 PM
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that's a childish way to view others opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:33 PM
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Everyone who gets married says vows bro, including the ones that last 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 02:50 PM
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Why are you making this about me? Flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 02:48 PM
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"but the ones that are 🤓☝️" ok good for them, it'll increase soon when Gen Z reaches that stage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 02:47 PM
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Yes because people are getting married at decade lows
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 02:38 PM
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what's the point of even saying wedding vows anymore when we know that's just a fantasy "till death do us part" 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 02:25 PM
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what's the point of even saying wedding vows anymore when we know that's just a fantasy "till death do us part" 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 02:22 PM
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how can you be rejected when you never approach or ask anyone out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:37 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:20 PM
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ohhhh so this is about something I said on an entirely different post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:32 PM
1

I think you should stop using this sub if you feel that bothered by the male posters
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:05 PM
1

Maybe rude, not misogyny, no one brought up abuse so that's irrelevant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:53 PM
1

completely different subject
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:44 PM
1

"oh no people are mean online"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:38 PM
3

Except that doesn't show men like the be treated like babies and force all the housework onto the Women, it is rates of satisfaction which can be interpreted in 100s of different ways, they may feel less satisfied than the man, that doesn't mean the man doesn't want to do anything either. An average relationship in 2025 both parents are working and they both do chores, it would be equally beneficial to both
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:35 PM
0

ok what does this prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:11 PM
-1

Most guys don't want this dynamic, maybe often for boomers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:17 PM
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As a man I would not expect a Woman to "mother" me, that seems pretty unnatural and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:28 PM
0

why would it be beneficial to men but not Women or vise versa
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:40 AM
-2

that is definitely not misogyny at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:13 AM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:51 PM
1

It's still a selfless trait, that definitely counts as much as anything else should in this hypothetical system
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:33 PM
1

Yes it is toxic, recommending self improvement for the sake of getting Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:31 PM
1

Not the point, you acknowledge they can be good people who provide for their families but they would provide zero value in an interpersonal relationship, this seems like an oxymoron to me, being a good person who provides for your family but having ZERO romantic value. Would that also not be a good quality romantically? This whole smv thing seems pretty stupid to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:21 PM
1

I never said I thought self improvement was bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:16 PM
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Yeah have fun improving instead of addressing the actual issue is your lack of self esteem and that you bend over backwards for others, self improve purely for your own sake not for any hope of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:11 PM
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I do not think like this at all, is a person that provides no value in your eyes worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:06 PM
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People calculating other humans traits and scaling their worthyness like assets instead of human beings is definitely toxic, talk about smv irl people will rightly look at you like a lunatic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:52 PM
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Let me put it this way, a guy is having trouble dating because he is too poor, he miraculously gains a large sum of money within a short period, the only thing that changed about him is that he is more wealthy, showing that the Women only value him for his money, this should not be seen as a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:20 PM
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There are people that will never like you no matter how much you change, there are people that will you if you don't change at all, point being changing yourself in hopes others will like you is bogus and cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:12 PM
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Dunno seems like you're giving far more grace to the attractive person than the unattractive one in this scenario, the attractive guy doesn't want to blow up his relationship for sex but the unattractive guy will because...he's a desperate loser...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:05 AM
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That's not all it takes to be feminine. Would you really be okay with a woman who doesn't shave her legs/pits/privates? Or who doesn't dye/style her hair? Or wears the exact same thing you do daily, never wears cute feminine outfits? doesn't matter to me at all, Women tend to be the ones to impose these standards on themselves. Men can't/don't see a lot of what goes into being a "basic" feminine woman. If you understand dating as a sort of market, you have to understand you going to the gym is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:36 AM
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How does it take a lot of effort to put makeup on and remain at a healthy weight? My only requirement for a girl is don't look disfigured and don't be fat, yet people here tell me even that is asking for too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:38 AM
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Why would you cheat when it was probably hard enough for you to even get a single girl interested, attractive guys would have way more opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:36 AM
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Yeah but desiring your looksmatch is asking for too much apparently, I'm not trying to compete with several dudes and hit the gym daily for a 6/10 that doesn't even put in the same effort I do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:40 AM
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It's toxic because it's telling people that they are not good enough as they are, they need to change for others. Do you not see how this can bother people? And the advice is almost exclusively reserved for men, the double standard is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:22 AM
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I am pretty sure we could both name rather fucked up individuals who could get relationships easily all day. Working on yourself isn't bad, telling people they are single because they haven't worked on themselves enough is where the toxicity comes in, unless they are overweight, don't groom themselves, and other basic things, there comes a point where the actual difference is minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:06 AM
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I feel like the rhetoric revolving around men in dating is constantly telling them that they are not good enough and they must prove themselves to Women, "how dare you desire relationship do you not see how many issues you have" is the sentiment, am I the only one who considers this kind of thinking toxic as fuck? That the implication is that if you can't get a girl you HAVE to be fundamentally flawed and this is the reason why you are single. In the end it really just boils down to luck and rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:53 AM
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I don't think anyone has ever said that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:40 AM
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I don't see the correlation with self love and other people loving you at all, you can love yourself or hate yourself that doesn't mean you can't be a good partner or be likeable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:20 PM
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why's that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:10 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:07 PM
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Me personally I got rejected so much my self esteem went in the garbage and I decided I didn't want to bother anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:02 PM
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I'm not sure being on reddit is a good metric for knowing someone's wealth, there are definitely some rich people that use this site
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:01 PM
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The average man is definitely getting rejected often if that's what you're asking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:00 PM
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rejection sensitivity sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:57 PM
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You don't personally know them so how would you know they are average?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:51 PM
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pretty sure weed counts as a drug bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:36 PM
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I feel like it'd be obvious an unattractive person would be much less likely to cheat than an attractive one, but yes that does not mean it is impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:59 PM
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tough luck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:55 PM
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ok why are we justifying individuals suffering because others before them ended up making choices that they had no say in
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:29 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:26 AM
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I've been so much happier lately
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:16 PM
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Yeah but what's the likelihood of that happening 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:03 PM
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what does that have to do with what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:54 PM
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didn't know having a girlfriend or a wife was free, yeah maybe if I don't take her on dates and buy her shit, but at that point I'd just get dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:30 PM
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if we only wanted to fuck Women we would just go to escorts over and over and never date or marry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:20 PM
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Fair enough, but traumatic experiences and mental issues add difficulty to getting over this hurdle, I don't think anyone is "100%" doomed, but part of acceptance and getting over it is accepting that you MAY be doomed, you MAY not be, but if you are sad by yourself it only digs a deeper hole
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:10 PM
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Your emotions can be influenced by things outside of your control. Do you think people choose to be unhappy purposefully? You are overestimating the amount of control someone actually has over their thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:58 PM
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some people also "don't see it" because they benefit from it, there is no reason to change a system when you personally benefit from it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:14 PM
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both sides want you to just shut the fuck up and feel like the bad guy because surely everything bad in your life is the purely the result of your actions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:16 PM
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exactly, I have never heard of a Man rejecting a Woman because she didn't have enough friends 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:51 PM
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The analogous situation would be like helping your partner walk when they twisted an ankle, vs physically carrying them everywhere. I don't see the correlation, being emotionally supportive shouldn't be as difficult as carrying someone around Would you say you live a mentally healthy enjoyable life at the moment? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:31 PM
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I don't think listening to someone's issues is a very huge expectation if you actually care about them, it's not like you're asking them to solve your problems for you. Now if you are doing this with multiple different people frequently that's different, but at that point why are you spreading yourself thin for so many different people? I can't understand it as an introverted person. I have my close few friends and my family and it's a rare occurrence for them to confide in me about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:23 PM
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Why is emotionally supporting your partner problematic? Is that not what you should be doing? I think friends are more of a casual thing, if you dump your issues on a friend they'll be more likely to really not care all that much, they may not even take it seriously. Personally I avoid telling anyone about my problems because people are so self absorbed and most likely don't want to hear about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:02 PM
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not everyone cares for large social circles, making friends shouldn't be the job of anyone but the individual and if that individual isn't interested in that it shouldn't be a problematic thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:47 PM
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awfully relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:45 PM
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before social media existed and Women were gifted endless choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:34 PM
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if people find more enjoyment playing video games and watching YouTube than dealing with this shit I can't really blame them, why deal with rejections and ghostings when I can live peacefully by myself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:54 AM
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100% telling him to fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:50 PM
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you should've taken off your glasses but yeah I can see it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:47 PM
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I think it mostly comes down to luck, those who are successful see those who aren't as worse people when the reality is nothing like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:05 PM
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I am starting to see the word incel as an easy cop out to dismiss any male who complains about dating. Instead of explaining why you are wrong people just call you an incel, avoiding addressing the issue, but the result of this is people growing more and more resentful because nothing is actually being addressed, they are seen as subhuman individuals due to their lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:38 PM
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Not obsessing, but if I have a reason/proof to believe you're a cheater then it's over
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:07 AM
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Who said it wasn't normal? It's impossible to know if it's normal when people usually lie about it ever happening
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:57 AM
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no one is telling them that, they just don't need to approach so why would they put themselves through the trouble when men do it for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:13 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:05 PM
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yeah sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:56 PM
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well they know you're married it would be rather fucked up if they expected anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:25 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:07 AM
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you're way more likely to be rejected if you ask someone out without them getting the chance to know you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:38 PM
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Yeah sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:13 PM
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you literally said "the amount of decent men is little" you're the confused one 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:31 PM
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no, claiming most men aren't decent is misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:18 PM
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internalized misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:08 PM
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Almost as if different people experience different things and not everyone is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:13 PM
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??? I am a man that has been alone around Women, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:31 PM
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Because I am a man who has been surrounded by other men my entire life, you are using bad experiences with certain people to generalize an entire gender which is just being ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:27 PM
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most men still don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:12 PM
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you're claiming most men do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:13 PM
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such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:26 PM
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no it doesn't, if you find someone weird but they haven't actually done anything wrong thats not on them, that's a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:49 PM
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well your feelings don't really determine if someone is decent or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:54 PM
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You shouldn't feel safe around most people in general, I sure as hell don't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:13 PM
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do you know most men? if not you're just being sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:29 PM
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I ain't reading that sorry bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:35 PM
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because Women inheritly have higher value simply because they were born Women, they see their equals as beneath them and have more options simply due to being Women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:46 PM
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wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:58 PM
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Because they are more desirable than you are. because? what makes them more desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:56 AM
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"mate value mate value" bro you keep spewing this garbage without explaining anything, you also didn't answer the question, why in the world would a healthy young persons "equivalent" be an obese single mother, it doesn't matter how ugly he is, ugly young people also exist, your logic is extremely flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:37 AM
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alright I'll humor you, explain to me why someone who works out, doesn't have kids, young, and mentally stable, must date "unattractive post wall mothers"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:09 AM
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Aren't you a guy who would say that all women have lots of options? Do they also have lots of reasonable options? They say no. So they must be right, because they can define what a reasonable option is, not you or any other guy. What Women consider reasonable is higher than what a Man would consider reasonable Because i suggest that a single mother is your equivalent value on the mating market. If not, you would be able to get a girlfriend, right? If that's what you think my "value" is you are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:41 AM
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They are not allowed to filter for "reasonable options" as they see fit. uh yes they do, go on any app and you can filter your options No, you decide what a reasonable option is for a woman. How do you define what is a reasonable option to you? How can you suggest a young, healthy adult male, to date a single mother with a straight face. If that is my only option that just shows how fucked dating is rn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:31 AM
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do I need to add reasonable option
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:56 AM
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never
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:36 PM
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they don't understand bro, it's like you're speaking a different language lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:46 AM
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And Women aren't mentally ill or mean? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:39 AM
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Who cares about what society views, what actually matter is if it's true or not, what's the point of upholding something that isn't true?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:45 PM
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if you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:33 PM
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I did, doesn't change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:32 PM
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hook ups aren't relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:27 PM
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monogamy implies a relationship with that person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:22 PM
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most people aren't in a relationship with people they hook up with, they just do it with different people without being in relationships with them, polygamy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:16 PM
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Who said at once?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:07 PM
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Polygamy has more than one definition, an animal mating with several other animals is also polygamy, that's literally hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:48 PM
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polygamy is not natural
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:35 PM
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oh yes I have options I have never met and have never expressed interest in me, let me guess your advice is just get rejected xx amount of times until it works
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:54 AM
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Ok so you are agreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:10 AM
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Yes, really. I don't see people screaming "I am entitled to a 10/10 girlfriend" in real life, that just removes all nuance from it. It would be nice having options is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:22 PM
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it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:57 PM
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Most of us aren't violent nor do we hate Women though? It's just being objective, a guy will struggle more in dating on average than a Woman, the way people handle this truth vary, most don't get violent or hateful though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:43 PM
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how old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:46 PM
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Twice the amount of young Women consider themselves in a relationship compared to young men, clearly Women also have the desire to be coupled up, and are acting on it. So why is it problematic when men want the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:40 PM
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When people say codependent they mean romantically, obviously everyone is codependent in the sense we rely on others to live. Also I have a family, just no children of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:39 AM
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nah atleast for me I'd rather have not dated at all than have been broken up with, and if I ended up marrying someone and got divorced the emotional or financial damage would probably turn me off from marriage entirely, my dad is on his 3rd marriage and he tells me over and over "son its not worth it"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:27 AM
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Well my family and many of my friends have divorced parents, we are all asking ourselves why get married if they can just leave and completely uproot our lives, this is a common sentiment amongst men specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:17 AM
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until you get divorced 40+% rate btw
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:05 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:57 AM
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if you're unattractive your attention doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:20 PM
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Women can just monkey branch to the next guy, making you easy to discard
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:36 PM
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it's called being terminally single
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:24 PM
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all women deserve princess treatment. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:14 PM
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Most people believe in an ideal world, when they are confronted with a truth that challenges their ideal world they will immediately deny it. Especially when it makes them question themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:45 PM
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??? Who said I didn't have friends, not hanging around Women doesn't mean you don't have friends, people naturally hang around their own gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:45 PM
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Not everyone has these circles and even those that do aren't guaranteed to have Women in them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:14 PM
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mostly non existent, also most of us also do not attend clubs, I doubt this represents the average Gen Z person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:30 PM
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ironically I'm sure a lot of people here find you insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:28 AM
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alright if that's what you think 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:50 AM
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Literally everytime lonely men are mentioned here the bluepillers and Women rush in to say they deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:48 AM
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Who said women were resources we are entitled to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:44 AM
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What empathy am I supposed to give to people who see me as garbage that deserves to die and rot alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:33 AM
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best explanation yet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:27 AM
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Chad isn't derogatory, Chad is literally used as a compliment 99% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:47 AM
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if you consider talking to several different people and being in situationships commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:38 PM
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commited? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:50 PM
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"if one person can win the lottery everyone can" I'm sure many other statistically unlikely things have happened, doesn't make it realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:39 PM
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I work out, make above the average person, am living on my own and am completely self sufficient at a young age (below 25), still single due to my social anxiety. And not because I haven't tried, I've been rejected plenty of times, it seems like girls are looking for some kind of fantasy dude that has way more going for them in their lives than they themselves do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:27 PM
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no one is asking for someone to fix their dating life, which is why the saying is rightfully ignored, modern dating culture is toxic and deserves to be criticized, telling everyone to shut up and deal with it isn't going to change that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:25 PM
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Weird to dismiss valid criticisms as simply whining, your response boils down to "shut up and deal with it because no one cares", this is how men are taught to deal with their problems, and then we are suprised when they become bitter manipulative assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:12 PM
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that is exactly what my mother did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:05 PM
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yes because they live in countries where the culture is extremely patriarchal 😂 no shit the birth rate is high when they have no choice but to get married, in the first world counties where women have actual freedom the relation is clear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:18 AM
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yes because we are experiencing an extreme cultural and social shift that has caused people to become increasingly individualistic (which isn't necessarily bad) but results are showing clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:59 PM
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Are you implying it doesn't play a role at all? have you seen what is happening in Korea?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:44 PM
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And this changes what I said how? Substinence farmers? Are you are arguing that that having kids would've offset the cost of working by yourself in the 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:44 PM
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being poor did not stop people from reproducing at any other point in history, the current birthrate is lower than the great the depressions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:24 PM
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The birthrates are the lowest they have been in 70+ years and we have people here fighting tooth and nail saying gender relations are perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:52 PM
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more like finding Women that put in the same effort you do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:54 AM
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Women put that pressure on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:47 PM
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such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:50 PM
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most people meet on dating apps, this has already been researched, get with the times already
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:07 PM
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dating apps are where most people meet their partners 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:38 AM
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you have no idea what you're babbling about, speaking as a military guy, that stuff may have been true at some point, not much of a thing now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:57 AM
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the average Woman has 5+ men interested in her usually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:55 AM
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the same reason you do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:41 PM
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we explain it a lot actually
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:01 PM
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You are a Woman, it is pretty hard to lose either way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:54 AM
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just another patronizing platitude meant to minimize your problems, I went outside, the world is still the exact same one I complain about online
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:58 PM
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pretty sure people exist online and offline dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:01 PM
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the phrase "apps aren't real life" is becoming increasingly untrue everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:45 PM
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So you're just basing everything in the future off this one interaction? like I said, overreaction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:24 AM
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Being difficult to please because you decide to throw your marriage away over not getting your dream proposal and getting a different variation of the same thing instead, being extra for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:20 AM
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so basically Women being difficult to please and not getting their princess fantasies, makes since to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:15 AM
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seems like an overreaction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:57 AM
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it is THEIR proposal, if you give up marriage over getting a ring by a lamp instead of a beach that just shows you probably never even liked the person that much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:32 AM
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maybe he wanted to do it somewhere else? but who cares about what the guy wants right? he's literally the one getting on one knee and buying you a ring but if he doesn't do it in the perfect location he's trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:31 AM
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Who hurt you, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:44 AM
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wild how you expect us to do everything for a second date that isn't even guaranteed, delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:14 AM
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Are you making any effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:02 AM
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Least entitled Woman on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:53 AM
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Fellow Rehab room enjoyers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:52 PM
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it will never get better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:53 AM
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those are two different words with entirely seperate meanings I can "value" something without "requiring" it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:49 PM
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nice way to move the goalpost from saying men don't value it to men don't require it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:45 PM
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If the choice is between being alone or having a non sentient partner I don't see why choosing the non sentient partner means you don't value you it at all? You seem to be trying to push this misogynistic narrative when there isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:37 PM
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What do you not understand? People who can't attention from real Women resort to AI, what does that have to do with valuing sentience? You just choose a being that's not sentient because the ones that are you can't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:31 PM
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I don't agree with the conclusion that they don't value Women or want Women to act like prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:25 PM
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1+1=2 No one who doesn't struggle with getting real Women is resorting to AIs, thats literally the reason they exist and why this is even a discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:23 PM
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out of pocket af
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:16 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:08 PM
1

wasn't arguing whether it was negative or positive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:07 PM
2

Were never in the game or have decided to give up on the game? I would still classify it as a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:01 PM
2

Not the point, those same people who couldn't get a date now have even less of a reason to try, because they can just resort to AI instead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:58 PM
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you seem to be confusing not being able to get a Woman with not valuing them, people resort to these things because they CANT get a Woman, not because they hate them like a bunch of people here seem to be spewing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:53 PM
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you said it wouldn't change dating, but for the lonely people without options it would change, they have a different option
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:48 PM
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are you only capable of speaking in extremes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:42 PM
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yeah the number of chatbot users would still vastly outnumber the amount of OF users, Ai is free and way more accessible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:20 PM
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the sites made exclusively for that purpose also have millions of users, the numbers don't lie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:12 PM
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not that large? the user base for the biggest Ai sites are in the hundreds of millions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:06 PM
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for the lonely single men it will absolutely change dating, a fairly large community has already developed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:54 PM
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there is nothing you can do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:38 AM
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rip to that dude 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:16 AM
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If I wasn't attracted to you I would still reject you, guilt doesn't really factor into it. But actually making the first move does a lot for attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:31 PM
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You're blaming the wrong thing, most guys will never even have the opportunity to reject a Woman in the first place, the fact that it's such a rare thing increases the odds of us saying yes significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:23 PM
0

because you only pay attention to the morons
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:34 AM
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Neat, anecdotal evidence, 40+% of marriages still end in divorce, so if they're really that unhappy then they would've most likely left or will leave at some point. I have witnessed people end a marriage of 25+ years with kids and start living with their parents because they were unhappy. With that being said, Women will probably still end up doing the chores/cooking/child care anyways because that's the societal expectation, but if the husband doesn't contribute at all it becomes problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:28 PM
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Realistically if the Woman had to do all of those things she would end up leaving/divorcing him. Most of the time both are doing that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:10 PM
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lol, the online world and the real world aren't even remotely comparable, someone can present themselves one way through text and be completely different irl, I have experienced this several times
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:29 PM
4

is the point of dating not getting to know someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:04 PM
10

even then? why would that make you a real man or not? every person who is male is a "real man"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:51 AM
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more the fact that you said they weren't "real men", being born short does not disqualify you from being a "real man" that's extremely dehumanizing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:36 AM
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that is a pretty awful way to speak about someone just because of how they were born
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:29 AM
5

what point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:43 PM
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"wrong way" "wrong place" that seems to be all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:21 PM
13

the thing is most of us aren't having a good time though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:59 AM
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meanwhile Women here complaining about being approached too much and it making them uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:57 AM
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it's already happening, Trump Won lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:02 AM
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nah he's right, otherwise they wouldn't willingly participate in it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:00 AM
2

this post is indeed pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:13 PM
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it can be both, making you unhappy but pushing you to improve at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:40 PM
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I don't think it's exclusive to men either, people compare themselves to others all the time but just hate admitting it because it makes them look insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:34 PM
2

literally all of us do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:29 PM
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it's called using your words, very hard I know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:01 PM
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statistically she is going to leave you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:27 PM
2

yeah yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:37 PM
1

😉
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:32 PM
2

take off the tinfoil hat already, you all said the same thing in 2020 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:30 PM
1

Jumped on your nuts because I questioned your argument? Maybe the one who needs help with judgements is you, just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:26 PM
2

bad troll
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:20 PM
3

according to you? that means nothing I'm afraid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:17 PM
2

Cope lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:14 PM
2

Do you know everyone? Because I see people who meet those requirements single and people who don't meet them in relationships all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:11 PM
1

USA USA!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:17 PM
3

"brainwashed" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:08 PM
2

bars
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:50 AM
1

That's Choso from JJK I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:28 AM
6

work on your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:59 AM
1

probably
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:58 AM
3

cuckold
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:29 AM
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??? being taller = stronger? shit logic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:14 AM
1

not really
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:08 PM
1

your statement was "Misogyny is far far more accepted" I am saying that's untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:03 PM
1

far more? you're exaggerating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:50 PM
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the difference is that feminism is accepted and encouraged by society while misogyny is publicly shamed (as far as developed countries go)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:30 PM
2

How is that possible if our behavior is the same? Men date short Women so Women should date short men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:16 PM
8

you watch too much porn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:13 PM
3

not in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:16 PM
1

I've been thinking about that king of the hill episode where Hank makes his son smoke an entire pack of cigarettes as a punishment, pretty based
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:40 PM
3

deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:31 PM
3

we are in the depression and acceptance stages of grief
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:51 PM
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Why would that be relevant at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:08 PM
3

So every guy that didn't go to prom is a failure now? You're a weirdo bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:08 PM
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all I said is I didn't go to prom, everything else you're pulling out of your ass because you have no argument to stand on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:04 PM
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Learn to argue without throwing brainless insults and someone may take you seriously one day. You do not know my entire life story, nor comprehend what I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:58 PM
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No one here is making it about misogyny but you, all I did was point out how young men are struggling (using the boy as an example), and that seems to bother you for some reason things will not get better by burying tragedies like this under the rug
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:47 PM
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not the point, read better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:34 PM
4

I don't see the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:32 PM
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Yes, I don't understand why that is such an impossible thing to believe, none of my friends even went to prom. How old are you? You talk like an older person which may explain the disconnect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:03 PM
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is presented with data "I don't want to figure out how they got that answer, it must be wrong!" lmao..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:00 PM
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that reminds me of the recent AI situation where the kid decided to end his life, the future is looking bleak for a lot of men ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:54 PM
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https://www.mystateline.com/news/national/almost-half-of-young-men-have-never-approached-a-woman-romantically-study c*pe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:50 PM
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he's not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:40 PM
7

When you don't have the freedom of choice when an option presents itself you're more inclined to take it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:38 PM
1

I'm unattractive and would never cheat because a girl was needy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:49 PM
2

are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:45 PM
3

had a girl in my class go on like a 10 minute rant about how Women proposing to men is weird and awkward, and I responded like "well how do you think we feel when we do it?" and she was just like "well it's the man's job to do it.." interesting how gender roles are suddenly fine when it's convenient for Women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:26 PM
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from what I've noticed neediness can be an attractive trait for Women, for men..well we already know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:17 PM
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Women will sleep with misogynistic men as long as they’re attractive the fact you're admitting that means we are making progress
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:58 PM
2

hate to tell you but you're cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:57 PM
3

more than 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:51 PM
1

no, but the Women here interpret any criticism as hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:21 AM
1

you're paying for all of them? brutal bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:09 AM
2

I'm a chud....im a incel...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:03 PM
5

my final post for a while, can't believe I'm actually going to military basic training 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:57 AM
3

even seeing a pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:07 PM
4

I think people really over estimate the amount of pussy the average guy in college gets
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:56 PM
2

it's getting less rare
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:42 PM
1

ridin with my choppa
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:56 PM
2

I mean it happens everywhere, people hate a man that complains
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:29 PM
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every complaint I make here is labeled as whiney so it's pretty frequent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:08 PM
2

happens to men too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:01 PM
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Oops, I confused him with Newton
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:11 AM
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he literally did tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:09 AM
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I want to disagree with high intelligence being a negative trait but then I remember Newton dying a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:51 AM
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great, the trash took itself out then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:35 AM
3

reaching
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:25 AM
3

like what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:22 AM
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if you avoid them simply because of the question you can't handle it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:15 AM
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that says nothing about the man, it says more about you if you can't handle a simple question 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:11 AM
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🧏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:47 AM
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should there be more in my savings?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:46 AM
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Mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:16 AM
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if you want to be miserable sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:54 AM
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dating for men is a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:48 AM
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and you know this because?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:04 AM
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survivorship bias, if they were able to do it, surely that means everyone else can do it if they put in enough "effort"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:51 AM
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I feel bad for her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:03 PM
4

Her wording is fucked up then, because she literally said she wouldn't hook up with him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:59 PM
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"I will not hook up with you but I will marry you" So you will marry me but not hook up with me? Wouldn't the ideal answer be both? It's demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:40 PM
3

it bothers me occasionally, but I usually don't think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:32 PM
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You don't have to say it but the implication it gives is you'll hook up with other dudes but you will marry me specifically because I'm the safe option you can settle with, she shouldn't have said anything in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:31 PM
3

only I can say that, not fair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:23 PM
10

recruit difficulty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:48 PM
5

Low...Tier...GOOOOD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:32 PM
6

the loneliness is hitting EXTRA hard today
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:25 PM
1

ohhh, I see what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:16 PM
1

???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:09 PM
1

enough to cover the cereal I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:44 PM
1

cereal first so it doesn't splash in the milk obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:23 PM
2

what does that mean
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:07 PM
3

womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:04 PM
3

I mean it's weird...but it's also legal..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:55 AM
1

They most likely will leave you before they die so...not much of a concern
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:45 AM
5

is that not the same thing? Implying there's a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:26 AM
2

Women call themselves the empathetic sex but are responsible for most of our mental health issues (I made that up)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:46 PM
1

kind of based, I respect Women who actually save themselves for marriage (assuming they are virgins)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:48 AM
2

happens more often than you think, there an entire sub about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:47 AM
5

rejecting others after a lifetime of being rejected would be satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:30 AM
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Chad only
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:53 AM
3

creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:40 AM
5

tell your counselor they'll probably change it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:22 AM
5

more often than not the people who refer to themselves as "weird" are just very normal people with maybe one niche interest or two, I'm an actual weirdo thanks to my mental illness, imagine getting called weird by self proclaimed weird people, it happens pretty often
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:58 AM
2

When it is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:25 AM
4

I only hate it when it's wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:01 AM
5

you're in highschool, your personality changes every few months
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:54 PM
2

can you see yourself leaving him for someone else at some point? do you think you're settling for him? these are important questions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:47 PM
5

That's a lot of confidence coming from people who have never had a Woman president
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:44 PM
4

if you don't see a future leave him alone, don't lead people on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:41 PM
2

concrete floor?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:35 PM
3

We need male counterparts to feminist terms, instead of glass ceiling we shall call it the glass floor
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:25 PM
3

tf is " 😂🐮"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:24 PM
3

slightly less concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:19 PM
3

I forget some people here are parents, lowkey concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:15 PM
1

Do not fly for pussy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:22 PM
2

is that going to Make Women like men more?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:54 PM
1

I accept your concession
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:26 PM
1

they couldnt evacuate?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:24 PM
1

Why do they have to die? Is there no other option?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:10 PM
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You are comparing hundreds of thousands of men to to maybe a few thousand Women, its just a moronic argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:03 PM
1

is the government forcefully keeping them there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:52 PM
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women don't HAVE to die in war it's ok, I know reading is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:51 PM
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do you actually think the comparison you're trying to make is even close at all? the men are actively being forced to fight in a DRAFT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:42 PM
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me trying to hold any conversation irl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:34 PM
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Who's pretending? Just because one guy says it doesn't mean we all think it goofball
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:25 PM
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do you expect us to have no standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:17 PM
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Just look at celebrity drama, the celeb guy always catches the most shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:01 PM
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And what privileges do men have? We are stronger physically, that's all Women don’t have to die in war? Since when? take a look at Ukraine v Russia
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:32 PM
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always being seen as the victim in the eyes of society, men will treat you nicer simply because you're a Woman, you don't have to die in war, dating is easy, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:28 PM
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More privileges, in group bias, men like women, Women like Women, Women don't really care for men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:23 PM
10

it's not impossible for dating to get better for men, it's just unlikely to ever happen realistically
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:40 PM
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having people actually acknowledge it's existence instead of being in denial about it is a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:32 AM
3

what did you do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:56 AM
3

because they don't even need the apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:38 AM
2

has anyone here had a "villain" arc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:33 AM
4

it does make it better, the more I "whine" the more people will actually comprehend the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:19 AM
1

nothing for starters
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:16 AM
2

and?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:13 AM
4

nuh uh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:12 AM
5

even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:11 AM
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immediate ad hominem clockwork
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:10 AM
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🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:06 AM
7

don't care, you can't comprehend the struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:54 AM
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you play the game on recruit difficulty and have the audacity to tell people not to whine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:51 AM
2

What makes you think Women are unhappy with how dating is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:44 AM
0

are you implying people use their words? blasphemy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:40 AM
7

randomly bringing incel's up for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:36 AM
0

😧
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:36 AM
3

but you dumped him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:21 AM
2

are you agreeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:03 AM
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A guy is less likely to get mad because the feedback loop we have is that we should never show insecurity anyways, meanwhile the guy has to be the girls shoulder to cry and if he isn't he's a POS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:52 PM
21

Tell a Woman you don't want to deal with her insecurities and see how fast she gets mad. Being a man is lose lose, we can't show insecurity but are expected to handle Women's, validate her constantly, remind her she is pretty for the thousandth time, blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:47 PM
10

we are the disposable gender apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:39 PM
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It's pretty believable yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:42 PM
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aren't there people here who have said they only got like 10 matches in 3+ years
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:28 PM
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Is the timid nice guy good looking and not ND? If he is they'll be all for it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:12 PM
1

half the bluepill men are bi/gay so...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:09 PM
4

Sex is the most important thing in the world to men WRONG
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:16 AM
1

Observing Women's behavior is enough for me, the Women involved in my life (non romantically) have also had this mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:53 AM
1

does that mean you're a chad who doesn't try In comparison to fat Women yes or you would be settled for if you tried? If I tried and landed my looksmatch she'd probably think she was settling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:46 AM
1

I'm not looking for solutions, I already know how to solve the "issue". Like I said before, I don't try, I don't desire it that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:22 AM
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I agree, I think it's rigged against men specifically tho, ND Women can get their looksmatch ez
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:09 AM
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My own personal issues don't change how I perceive reality. Focus on Women? Fakecel? No idea what you're getting at here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:05 AM
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that's why I don't choose, checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:03 AM
1

😡😡😡😡😡
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:45 AM
1

meanie 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:31 AM
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I don't really try? I don't use OLD and I don't get out much, Its very rare I go out of my way for anyone and my friend group is entirely composed of men. But even if I did have success it wouldn't change my view that looks are most important for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:30 AM
1

are you usually this rude?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:23 AM
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Why wouldn't it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:15 AM
1

oh hey it's you again
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:13 AM
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I've been told I'm an 8 facially by girls I've chatted with (obviously they're inflating the numbers but still), I blame my mental illness above everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:05 AM
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For some reason people think I'm a virgin because I can't get girls, the reason I'm a virgin is because every girl I attract is obese and I turn them down (yes I am healthy weight and go to the gym daily so I can do this)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:59 AM
2

If I cared I would've roped by now, maybe I'm just coping
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:03 PM
6

the road ahead won't be easy, that's all I'll add, I also wouldn't place much of my self worth on Women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:40 PM
1

50s is elderly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:11 PM
1

how old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:52 PM
5

I got canceled 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:50 PM
3

yes, you alone know the thought process of every man who dates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:46 PM
1

yeah basically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:25 PM
3

You seem to be projecting your experiences onto every other man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:24 PM
8

here's the data analyzing the same statistic genius https://ifstudies.org/blog/theres-no-huge-gender-gap-in-being-single-among-young-adults
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:18 PM
5

How can you be single when you are dating and (presumably) fucking someone? Like I was saying before seems like you're just implying casual sex, don't get butt hurt over it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:04 PM
5

if you are dating someone you literally by definition are not single, so now you're arguing that men just lie about their relationship status, it's even less believable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:37 PM
7

so you are arguing most young men are just engaging in casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:30 PM
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https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:26 PM
-6

I am saying that it's bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:24 PM
18

*the majority of older people are having sex technically correct considering most people are older, but most young men are not having any
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:15 PM
7

I agree, imagine having a literal life partner that supports you everyday and still bitching, seems like they just take it for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:25 AM
1

dont be a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:07 AM
4

distanced themselves on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:28 AM
1

you don't have or need game
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:14 PM
2

overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:03 PM
1

I refuse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:37 PM
1

🍖🐎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:02 PM
1

baby rage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:39 PM
1

Your own words, you can't even stay consistant, can you? It's so pathetic. you can't though More "I'm a victim waaahhhh" crying. I'm just accurately describing you. It's not an ad hominem to call a liar a liar, or a bitter jealous hater a bitter jealous hater. Those are things you are, based on your own words in this conversation. cool you're doing it again The things I say are true. I know that from experience. delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:34 PM
1

my failure? you're just making up false things and acting like they're true to have some kind of argument, you don't know me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:27 PM
1

I tell the truth, if you don't like it that's a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:11 PM
1

back at it again with the baseless assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:59 PM
1

"saying things I don't like is whining" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:41 PM
1

"saying things I don't like is whining" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:38 PM
1

Oh trust me, I'm not jealous of you, you are arrogant and full of yourself but think you're the shit because you landed yourself a wife. I get it, you got lucky and now think you are some kind of guru who can lecture others on why they are unsuccessful. Just ignore the fact we live in reality and that sometimes you can do the rights things and still fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:18 PM
1

Once again coming with the moronic assumptions I want something for nothing because you can't possibly fathom someone putting in work and being unsuccessful, I don't care, you're a moron lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:06 PM
2

What's pathetic is being married and kicking people while they are down because you got lucky, I probably work on myself more than you do bud
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:49 PM
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A relationship they won't have
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:36 PM
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dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:46 PM
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I desire it, but to a certain extent, and in a certain way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:30 PM
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I don't crave validation that much to be cut open or have my jaw dislocated or whatever, if that's the case it's just not meant to be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:20 PM
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they can be improved to a point, but ultimately everyone has a genetic ceiling that only certain individuals will end up reaching, also if I need literal surgery due to my uglyness I'd just accept dying alone tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:01 PM
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Yeah maybe in their 30s, most young men are single
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:30 PM
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survivorship bias
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:21 PM
6

they probably think they are the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:10 PM
2

thinking about the fact I'll be dead one day makes me sleep like a baby, I hate being alive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:52 AM
1

yeah but you're not being upfront about the problem, they'd just be confused
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:33 AM
1

and? at least be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:26 AM
1

why not just say they looked different from their pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:16 AM
3

"I'm annoying"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:06 AM
2

how convenient the single mother isn't looking to date on a dating app, some stupid guy will try anyways tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:12 AM
6

pretty blackpill take
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:53 AM
2

pretty bold assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:22 AM
4

*certain male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:47 PM
3

I can tell pretty easily
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:11 PM
3

seemed is doing a lot of work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:24 PM
6

how so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:07 PM
10

Why not? What is your definition of not having it easy? All your options are low quality I'm assuming? My immigration experience was nice, Women actually seemed interested in me and they didn't treat me like I was replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:15 PM
1

What argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:40 PM
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Doesn't everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:16 PM
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Boomers could buy a house for 2 paperclips and bubblegum so no I don't think I should compare myself to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:36 PM
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Sure, but society loves implying the opposite, the guy who gets no pussy is the incel loser virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:31 PM
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Shame and embarrassment from being indirectly told you aren't enough numerous times
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:13 PM
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embarrassment and shame have joined the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:02 PM
7

Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:46 PM
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my bf isn't a Chad, he just happens to have a body count of 30+ I dunno that doesn't really add up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:31 PM
7

the grass is indeed greener, but you are a Woman so you can't comprehend that because you already have it easy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:24 PM
3

I don't think you know what pussy means, having morals doesn't make you pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:44 PM
1

ignore this troll
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:41 AM
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more of an observation, some Women I know personally admitted to it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:07 AM
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They are afraid of not having Chad. No Chad = Settling I'm sure subconsciously nearly all of them think that the guy they are with they settled for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:48 AM
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lol, I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees it, she's just gatekeeping subtly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:32 AM
7

sounds annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:23 AM
1

ignore him he's a male feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:59 AM
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I never made any actual friends on purpose, whenever I was just existing casually not expecting anything that's when I met those guys, can't say the same for gfs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:53 AM
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It's probably your appearance tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:44 AM
1

🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:35 PM
1

none of you actually know me, stay salty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:33 PM
6

friendly fire!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:18 PM
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yeah you're probably right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:12 PM
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4 years for marriage seems awfully short for such a big commitment imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:10 PM
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I can name numerous times that this has applied to men...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:09 PM
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why do you think that's female exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:04 PM
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I don't get why they want marriage so badly, seems like a pointless concept nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:03 PM
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I guess all it takes for them to stop liking you is being short then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:43 PM
0

if that's what you think lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:25 PM
2

not what I said, but I'm not taking up for them either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:17 PM
2

People actually use threads?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:12 PM
3

I think they misuse the word often
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:10 PM
2

Is the guy actually agreeing to be in a relationship or does she just expect one and gets upset when it doesn't happen? I bet more on the ladder
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:00 PM
3

ok if you're attracted to the guy stop complaining about getting pumped and dumped then, it's a win either way right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:44 PM
2

cry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:42 PM
2

This other dude is asking a specific woman a question she clearly can’t answer. I answered the question for her. It was a rhetorical question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:29 PM
2

not in an echo chamber, just pointing out reality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:28 PM
2

because people lack accountability and find it easier to blame the other side for their mistakes? I don't know man, I'm being pretty blunt, can't be that hard to understand if you actually try, you just don't seem to want to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:14 PM
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Nothing circular about it, you're just misunderstanding it. If a Woman gets pumped and dumped she still spread her legs, still consented, but you only see the guy as bad and her and being "strung along" even though that may not have been the case. It's only ok when the Woman is promiscuous when the man is he's a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:54 PM
2

Well if you are a man who pumps and dumps Women you are the asshole, but if you are the Woman who gets pumped and dumped you're the victim. Doesn't seem exactly equal right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:46 PM
2

It's becoming normal to be promiscuous so...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:40 PM
2

I mean Women that have sex before they are in a relationship because they think it will lock the guy down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:38 PM
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Why do some Women try to convince an attractive guy to be in a relationship just because they had sex? These are referred to as desperate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:33 PM
6

Lilith moment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:23 PM
2

😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:08 PM
7

abort mission!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:02 PM
4

I am male, I have male sex drive, so yes you are indirectly mentioning me and everyone other male 🧍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:56 PM
3

Ehhh so how women participate in serial killers, maniacs, rape, pedophilia and sexual trafficking? Are you implying that those Women don't exist? Im not denying the monsters are real, I'm saying you are wrong for shaming all of us for the acts of the few.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:50 PM
7

it takes two to tango bud
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:40 PM
1

Do you hate southerners or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:38 PM
4

Are you just going to pretend Women don't also participate in most of the things you mentioned? You have a chip on your shoulder it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:34 PM
1

So if you fall, hit your head, and complain about the pain, that means you feel entitled to not getting hurt? That doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:23 PM
6

Why is the female sex drive always seen positively? Horny Women are praised, Horny men are pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:14 PM
1

So you are trying to argue everytime someone complains it comes from a place of entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:08 PM
9

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:59 PM
10

Lilith moment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:55 PM
2

not a prude, just don't care for it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:25 PM
3

halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:13 PM
2

A kpop star would literally pay her no mind at all in most cases, not even worthy of being pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:02 PM
5

Ok but your first comment was saying unattractive Women would only be used for sex, I don't doubt most Women are fuckable, but I wouldn't fuck an unattractive Woman, and I'm sure when asked most men would say they wouldn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:41 PM
10

Men are individuals, those men would also be part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:36 PM
20

you're just proving his point, If I'm not attracted to you I wouldn't have sex with you either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:26 PM
7

not a blackpill thing, you will more commonly hear Women say this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:05 PM
12

No, I am saying you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:51 PM
6

What people don't get is that there doesn't need to be a problem for you to not get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:56 AM
12

men with attitude are referred to as assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:51 AM
10

if you can't get laid or loved it's just because you weren't being actually kind 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:44 AM
6

but men will try to fuck either way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:42 AM
1

what do you mean? are you implying I don't engage in manly activities?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:19 PM
2

So if unattractive people are virgins then that would mean being a virgin is an unattractive trait, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:56 PM
3

You're still saying the same thing. "the reason he's a virgin is because he's unattractive" so...you're just correlating virginity with being unattractive, you aren't directly saying it, but that's the implication you're making
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:42 PM
3

he's a virgin because he's unattractive Would this not imply virgins are unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:36 PM
7

Well you are basically saying it yourself then, virgins are seen as unattractive by Women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:28 PM
10

they literally say it here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:12 PM
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bluepillers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:56 PM
2

so you can't be normal because you can't get a date is what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:52 PM
1

so?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:27 PM
2

cool I have a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:25 PM
2

how so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:33 AM
2

so your logic is if you can't get a date suddenly you can't be a normal person?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:25 AM
4

cool gaslighting, I'm as normal as everyone else, judge what I say online all you want, you don't know me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:23 AM
2

sloppy seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:27 AM
1

don't you have a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:25 AM
1

No? But if I had to choose between those I'd pick that since I can't have both
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:18 AM
16

Do you think as a girl I don't get rejected? not much
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:41 AM
21

Are you comparing getting sex to getting a million dollars? If that's the bar here then yes I'll complain because it's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:24 AM
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Dating as a normal guy is basically jumping through a bunch of hoops and failing repeatedly only to be told you're the bad guy for getting annoyed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:19 AM
22

If you wanted it but could never have it you'd complain too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:05 AM
48

You're not using the word entitlement correctly, someone complaining about something that bothers them doesn't mean they feel they're entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:58 AM
1

😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:54 AM
3

The ugly rich celebrity got a gf! Surely it can't be that hard right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:57 PM
3

I mean, observe reality. There's no shortage of married couples that don't have sex for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:33 PM
2

Who said it wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:48 PM
2

👀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:34 PM
6

Yes but you are trying to make a false comparison, if I were a Woman having sex easily would just mean I'm capable of spreading my legs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:53 PM
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Having sex easily as a man would be far more impressive so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:49 PM
3

Are you trying to get girls or do you just get pressured by others?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:01 PM
1

I'm still pretty young so I'm probably more twinkish
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:55 PM
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do not give money to dating coaches, unironically the people around you are just trash
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:50 PM
7

are you one of those people that think the only difference between friends and couples are sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:45 PM
1

gay guys don't give me free stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:41 PM
14

if I don't like you in a romantic way I wouldn't desire sleeping with you so probably the romantic relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:28 PM
14

just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:20 PM
16

what
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:18 PM
8

you ignored his question
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:42 PM
1

I wouldn't be surprised if I wasn't NT
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:26 PM
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Even so, acting like people who don't care don't exist wouldn't be true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:18 PM
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most people want more than just sex yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:15 PM
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I don't, I have no reason to be any nicer to you just because you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:14 PM
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id argue 90+%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:07 PM
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I don't treat anyone differently simply based off their appearance, that's called being shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:37 PM
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I treat everyone the same unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:27 PM
3

😡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:37 PM
8

suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:47 AM
10

People who can't shut up about sex are so damn annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:45 AM
3

I mean he can expect anything...if you're not open to doing it it doesn't really make a difference, that's how I see it at least
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:17 AM
3

Woman only
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:13 AM
6

seems free to me, not like you're obligated to do anything for him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:07 AM
7

I wish people bought things for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:58 AM
4

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:49 AM
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well we do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:39 AM
2

It's more efficient yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:34 PM
1

you're the one calling reality a revenge fantasy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:30 PM
6

So I need to hang out with other people and just miracously hope that they conveniently have a friend who is a single Woman that happens attracted to me! If that persons happens to not exist (which they most likely won't) am I supposed to just bounce between different groups hoping something may happen? This social circle bullshit needs to die, sure some people get lucky and it happens but it's 2024 and people mostly meet online now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:16 PM
6

their own terms? do you even understand what that entails? at least elaborate on what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:05 PM
8

do you know how many single mothers exist? this is the reality for many lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:59 PM
48

"it's a feature not a bug"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:39 PM
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not that deep (lol), someone telling me about their lives and us going back and forth could be a "deep conversation" to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:22 PM
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Depends what you find "deep" I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:51 PM
1

Yes? Or at least what they perceive as being romantic? Romance is a pretty vague term
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:44 PM
2

I wouldn't get hung up on the semantics of it Pretty hard to determine when every single person probably has a different interpretation of what being romantic means
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:41 PM
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Sure, but you could still engage with it right? That doesn't happen often.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:39 PM
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I mean if you want to assume the worst of the man sure, I wouldnt get hung up on the semantics of it, some guys do it from the heart and some don't, reality is still that the man is expected to do the romantic gestures or it's a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:36 PM
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I could have the deepest conversation with some random homeless man outside a gas station and then when I try the same thing with a girl they just sort of retreat lol. I don't think they are incapable of it, but they just don't like doing it with men for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:21 PM
16

yep, whenever you don't do it Women think you're taking them for granted (even when they do nothing in return lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:02 PM
2

men hardly sing the praises about anything, especially relationships, talking to your friends about your gf doesn't make what you have any more or less romantic, to outsiders it may be irritating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:25 AM
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The point they are making when they say that is basically men need to try harder to get a girl than a girl has to try to get a man, so if a man has to put in more effort chasing and dating, courting, etc, the natural correlation would be that yes the man is more romantic because he sort of has to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:07 AM
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it's more common than you think, Women probably can't tolerate being around most guys so circles entirely composed of men aren't rare at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:24 AM
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I personally could never date someone who would start fights with me intentionally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:14 AM
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you basically have it figured out already, try keeping this mindset when ur older tho it becomes hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:28 AM
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I've always been the type to at least admit I'm wrong when I'm actually wrong and try to correct it, but it seems most just avoid any accountability at all for some reason, fragile egos
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:22 AM
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stop advocating for people not using their words
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:04 AM
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I mean, at that point her life is basically done anyways, no real point arguing with her on her death bed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:39 AM
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I would be more curious on if the ex would actually agree or not? Rationally I should probably be mad but she's literally going to die so...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:37 AM
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I'm tired of giving others the benefit of the doubt, when someone's being an asshole they probably are aware of it themselves but decide to be an ass anyways, humans are so fucking weird
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:22 AM
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Lilith moment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:11 AM
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I think I'm so humerous it becomes offputting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:10 AM
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why are they acting like this doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:37 PM
3

I love rehab room
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:57 AM
3

we are not accountable for the actions of individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:01 AM
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my point is men are expected to uphold some masculine standard whereas thanks to feminism modern Women can be masculine or feminine and they'll be accepted either way, the gender dynamic is unequal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:09 AM
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interesting because when you ask a Woman to be a Woman you all say it's misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:42 PM
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reality is often dissapointing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:42 PM
2

The majority of Women are also happiest in a relationship, but they have it so easy with dating they can take that fact for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:52 AM
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Socializing with Women who have no interest in me whatsoever isn't very enjoyable either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:42 AM
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some people on this sub lack self awareness and empathy so much it's insane frankly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:29 AM
6

in my experience dating has never been fun, it's supposed to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:07 AM
1

that quote is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:28 AM
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Even if men on a larger scale have an easier time dating huh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:44 PM
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Blame yourself for things you can't control? You're just breeding misery and bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:16 PM
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it's not a you problem when you need other people to fix it, you just lack empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:01 PM
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no argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:45 PM
7

their definition of struggling is not having Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:00 PM
2

I don't think of anyone as a loser dude, that's a pretty messed up way to see other human beings, especially ones with good intentions that haven't harmed you in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:47 AM
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The children calling other children losers are referred to as bullies. It's a dehumanizing word that people use to ridicule others that don't live up to their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:38 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:33 AM
2

You use the word too loosely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:18 AM
4

describe what makes someone a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:14 AM
2

The way Women use the word "Loser" here basically just means a man who is unsuccessful with Women and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:09 AM
4

Well it's nice having a different perspective, but my Mom and Dad got physically and verbally violent and half my days were spent listening/watching them scream across the house so it was a relief that I would no longer have to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:09 AM
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Would you say there was no improvement when they stopped living with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:59 AM
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Well my parents are divorced, I am directly pulling from how it was for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:49 AM
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My parents did in fact divorce, hence my claim
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:47 AM
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my life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:30 AM
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Maybe use some common sense? Do you think parents that are constantly fighting/arguing in the same household everyday would have no effect on the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:01 AM
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Divorce will be better for the kids in comparison to parents who loathe each other staying together, makes sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:33 AM
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interesting how girls hit puberty and start leaking blood from their genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:42 AM
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indifference mainly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:53 AM
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I think by definition I'm an incel but i don't really hate Women at all either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:26 AM
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I wouldnt date someone who allowed those things in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:27 AM
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a couple most men are struggling right now, most young men are single, the ones who are in relationships are likely older generations who didn't have to deal with OLD and social media ruining peoples standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:54 PM
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Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:25 PM
2

you seem to be coping
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:12 AM
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"just keep smashing your head into a brick wall for no reason, stop coming up with theories on why you're smashing your skull against a wall and just keep mindlessly bashing your skull"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:21 PM
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are you trying to say the person who gets rejected once or twice had it just as hard as the person who's been rejected their entire lives? Many Women don't even ask anyone out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:12 PM
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You do realize people can try and fail right? But you have no empathy for men that struggle, I understand, society has conditioned you to be this way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:01 PM
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Interesting how the assumption is they're just losers always putting in minimal effort
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:56 PM
1

no one is entitled to anything, literally nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:29 PM
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The man is rejected over and over and the world's reaction is to simply tell him "figure it out, you're the problem" is it such a surprise when he turns to the internet and begins consuming redpill/blackpill content?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:22 PM
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cool gaslighting, maybe don't ghost people like garbage if you don't want them to think you're narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:51 PM
4

once again, it's not doesn't need to be a performance, it's just a fact that being nice won't get you anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:55 PM
3

says the truth "the mask drops! you just wanted to get somewhere with us!" am I supposed to lie or???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:51 PM
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Well if it's true that being nice is the bare minimum then surely those people would be alone right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:46 PM
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they always ghost me so I'm probably right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:40 PM
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It is that deep, that's the point of the thread, you call the person nice, but them being nice won't get them anywhere, you're just trying to save face ultimately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:37 PM
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it's the bare minimum to be nice dates a drug addict criminal and gets abused ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:28 PM
7

??? but how does that change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:22 PM
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You're ignoring the point, a Woman will choose an attractive asshole over an unattractive nice guy, if that's the case why even mention them being nice at all? it's irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:10 PM
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why does it have to be a performance? you do realize people can be geinuenly kind right? but Women will choose a dick who looks good and then tell the kind person "you're nice but I'm not attracted to you" Of course you're not attracted, but why mention me being nice like it matters,you'll choose an asshole as long as you're attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:56 PM
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so are we supposed to not be nice? the impression I get from Women is that it doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:42 PM
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You're just a diamond in the rough, that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:14 PM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:34 AM
1

are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:00 AM
1

that's pretty interesting, I should think about that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:17 AM
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I mean my experience is my experience buuut, kinda just the vibes I always get
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:10 AM
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nah it's always like this, maybe it's projection? dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:57 AM
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Dunno, when I'm talking with a girl I kind of just get the feeling she sees me as beneath her notice? that kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:51 AM
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A lot of people don't go to clubs though? The point is,you're competing against the entire world, you aren't constricted to an app. Make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:38 AM
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It's an automatic thing, not something I can control? I dunno, being acknowledged atleast would be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:21 AM
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They hide it well but I can tell Women believe most men aren't even worthy of their acknowledgement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:46 AM
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the real world doesn't have profiles and pre selected photos meant to make yourself look good, you have to actually learn about the person authentically, it is very different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:11 PM
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dating apps always seemed really inauthentic and superficial, it's like shopping on Amazon, but with people, and the gender ratio is fucked in comparison to irl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:44 PM
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I've observed Women will always take the side of other Women no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:21 AM
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brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:47 PM
4

This entire comment is moronic, I'm sure there isn't a shortage of men who love babies, especially their own
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:22 PM
4

they make it pretty hard to be likeable tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:18 PM
5

what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:11 PM
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I'm sure she's wiping her tears with the money she makes off of them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:04 PM
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it was a yes or no question bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:59 PM
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Do you think you sound sane rn?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:48 PM
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at this point just hire a prostitute, you're mentally cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:27 PM
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you don't tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:31 AM
4

literally nothing is stopping a fat Woman from losing weight, the short man is short for life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:06 AM
1

good job completely missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:30 AM
3

Most really don't mind it that much, if it actually bothers you so much you start becoming problematic towards Women your problem goes much deeper than simply being virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:45 AM
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emotional damage has nothing to do with being virgin, that's an entirely separate problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:39 AM
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lack of experience is literally the opposite of baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:34 AM
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? everyone cries dude, I'm sure you've cried, over something that wasn't even that serious, relax with the tough guy act bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:24 PM
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ok? why are we acting like that's ok? it should be ok to cry. Why are we giving them a pass for messing with us like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:52 PM
2

a gym, people are disgusting, they never clean after themselves, and they complain about every single little thing, is so sick of it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:47 AM
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I think the implication is abuse is taken less seriously when Women do it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:45 AM
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I will never understand why people shit on virgins for preferring virgins, isn't that only fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:50 AM
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