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| 11 | Just a lot of confusing sentiments about LDR/maturity/commitment/gas-lighting. Is this all too much ? A red flag?Besides the fact that he’s treating you like a forever girlfriend and flies into a rage at the very idea of marriage, ew he’s that much of a mama’s boy that a suggestion from her made him change his whole trajectory and sacrifice you over? He is clearly extremely susceptible to manipulation from women—and while I promise you his mom would try to step between you two your entire life, it also shows how easily another woman can take him from you. Just so many red flags. So many. | /r/askFDS | 01/02/21 10:22 PM |
| 7 | How to let a man plan dates when I have OCDWhat are your must-haves? Communicate those and then let him plan accordingly. Plus, it could be beneficial to push yourself out of your comfort zone and resist compulsions (although I’m sure it’s easier said than done). | /r/askFDS | 15/01/21 08:32 PM |
| 29 | Almost burnt outYou’re amazing! We need more people like you in all professions❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 172 | Almost burnt outThis is so important. I remember one time a male hairdresser was tugging my hair so hard while straightening it that I was in tears. I was crying and he didn’t even notice. And afterwards, I didn’t even have the courage to say I hated the haircut and that he hadn’t listened to what I wanted. It is so important to teach girls to speak up when they are hurt or disrespected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:46 PM |
| 13 | Red flags??This is unacceptable and will continue to be a problem throughout your relationship. He sounds like a creep and a loser. Do you want to be looking through his activity for years to come, pleading with him to stop or biting your tongue? No? Then block and delete. | /r/askFDS | 09/01/21 12:17 AM |
| 2 | When should I begin to worry about a guy's lack of consistency?There is little point in talking to someone you haven’t met. You have no idea what he’s really like (and even on FaceTime, men can give a very curated version of themselves). So in essence, you are getting emotionally hooked on someone who could have the worst of intentions (and yes, his recent withdrawal suggests he is interested in others). The question seems to be not so much whether he’s pulling away, but why are you trying to build a foundation with someone you don’t truly know? You could b… | /r/askFDS | 02/01/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on friend’s girlfriend’s erratic behavior?He calls her his fiancée so I’m doubtful that they’ll break up anytime soon, but you’re right in that this friendship isn’t important enough for me to let them into my life after this. The reason my friend and I haven’t spoken in years was because he was arrogant and betrayed me, and I’m not sure I forgive him anyway. I don’t think the “keep your enemies closer” mindset would be right for his girlfriend since she clearly has no issue stealing her friend’s boyfriend and therefore screwing over th… | /r/askFDS | 27/12/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Need some empowerment. Had my heart broken today.Of course! Let yourself heal and take time❤️ we will be here to support you until you can do it on your own | /r/askFDS | 02/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Need some empowerment. Had my heart broken today.He would not have been so bothered by the comment if you hadn’t struck a chord with him. Trust your intuition, girl. You sensed that something was up, and you probably sensed right. You have the divine feminine instinct of knowing when something isn’t right, and don’t ever mistake that for “paranoia” or “trust issues” or “insecurities.” Oh and also—no one breaks up over such a small thing unless they were already considering leaving. It sounds like he didn’t want you to stay which is a major red… | /r/askFDS | 02/12/20 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Need help about my first ever relation - I love him, but he calls me entitled? Is he HVM or am I asking too much?It’s concerning to me that you listed that many red flags and are still wondering if he’s a HVM. No, he is not. If he were, you wouldn’t be wondering. And based on your description, he’s nowhere near HV either. Just your run-of-the-mill LVM. | /r/askFDS | 09/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | How to reconcile a man spoiling you with them being financially responsible?A man’s generosity should depend on what he is able to afford. If he has tons of money saved up and is trying to split a check with you, that’s more of a red flag than someone who is trying to make ends meet. Is he actively making an effort to be generous with you? Is he trying to spoil you to the best of his ability without going bankrupt? It sounds like you tend to be more on the money-saving type and that’s fine, but there is a difference between being generous with yourself and being generou… | /r/askFDS | 02/11/20 12:55 PM |
| 4 | Are men only as faithful as their options? How can we as FDS women avoid this?Weak men are only as faithful as their options. If Steph Curry can be faithful to his wife despite thousands of women throwing themselves at him, so can a regular joe. The issue is not that all men are cheaters, it’s that most men have no morals. | /r/askFDS | 27/10/20 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Boyfriend has achieved huge career success and now I feel like he's going to leave our relationship.If he were treating you well enough, you wouldn’t be feeling insecure and posting this question. You feel like you might lose him? Then you probably will. You feel the need to post an essay about him on reddit? It’s already over. Just beat him to the chase and get out with your head high. I felt my skin crawl when you described another woman touching him and talking to him like that... He should have shut it down instantly. | /r/askFDS | 22/10/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Did I date a narcissist?I recommend you watch Dr. Ramani’s video on why it doesn’t actually matter whether they’re a narcissist. At the end of the day, if they treat you like trash, that’s all that matters. | /r/askFDS | 12/10/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Exclusivity? How does a HVW ask about this?She didn’t specify if her friend is having sex with these men, though. A lot of men expect sex before commitment so I think it’s perfectly reasonable to clarify on date one or three that the relationship will not go further until a formal commitment happens. | /r/askFDS | 11/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Exclusivity? How does a HVW ask about this?Ideally, she wouldn’t have to ask because a HVM would want to pin down a woman he values. But if for some reason he doesn’t initiate, she can say something like, “I know we haven’t really discussed this before, but i want to make sure we’re on the same page before taking this any further. I need to know that we are sexually exclusive.” With that being said, FDS preaches that exclusivity is kind of a null label unless you also have the label of girlfriend. This might not entirely be in line with … | /r/askFDS | 11/10/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | How to cut a LVM friend from my life when we have many common friends?I know people are encouraging you to just phase him out and know that this is absolutely not your responsibility, but I think it might help if you flat-out explain to him how his choices don’t align with your values. I’m tired of men getting away with no consequences, they need to start learning that being sexist or irresponsible results in negative repercussions. If he values you as a friend, that blow would hurt. If not though...yeah, just cut him off. | /r/askFDS | 05/10/20 12:14 AM |
| 8 | She didn't even bother reading from fds cause apparently its sexist but i said literally the same stuff as fds ,she agreed.I first found this sub because Rachel Oates made a video called “you do not want to date these women” where she took a bunch of posts out of context and mocked the community and equated it with MGTOW/RedPill. I ended up checking it out myself and realized her video was bullshit. Now I’m in a community that has been so empowering to me, I’m thankful for it. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:05 PM |
| 3 | The Ultimate Pick-me: SzaOhhh so that’s why LVM drool over her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:43 AM |
| 18 | Obsession with asian women/Yellow fever and LVMMen who are Asian fetishists are usually attracted to the submissive and infantilized stereotype of Asian women; what they really want is a barely-legal slave. They do not see women as human beings, but as objects that exist for their sexual pleasure. Latina women are hypersexualized but seen as too passionate to control, Eastern European women are seen as gold-digging sluts, black women are also hypersexualized but seen as “mean,” and so on—each ethnicity is tied into a woman’s exotification in… | /r/askFDS | 17/09/20 10:58 PM |
| 6 | Apparently there is little to no effect on men. Thoughts?His post is trying to imply that whatever pea-brained asshole made it actually cares about the well-being of women, when I’m pretty sure it’s just a misogynist trying to control and shame women for their choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 10 | Can he find the clit? That is the question.My boyfriend is the only man that has ever found my clit and known how to touch it. Only a man who genuinely cares about pleasuring his woman and is clearly in tune with her signals of what works will be able to accomplish this. The reason is not that men are stupid or that the female anatomy is so complicated, it’s that 99% of men would never in a million years delay their pleasure for a woman’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 105 | It’s always the best ones, isn’t it? 🤣🤣🤣He’s so dumb. Grammatically it’s “I’m ethically nonmonogamous” and it’s pronounced “I can’t keep my dick in my pants because I think I deserve every goddess in the world.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:56 AM |
| 95 | Men are real quick to use the "sexual compatibility" card but get upset when women do the same lolThat has a name, and it’s called coercive sex. Lives right next to rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:01 AM |
| 16 | She bought her fiancé a house and he wouldn't move with her, nor would he look for a better-paying job... this is why a proposal doesn't necessarily mean a happy endingShe says she liked him for his “confidence” like COME ON... Too many men are overly confident with being below average, while gorgeous women everywhere are insecure and questioning themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 51 | She bought her fiancé a house and he wouldn't move with her, nor would he look for a better-paying job... this is why a proposal doesn't necessarily mean a happy endingIt’s crazy to me that she still refuses to acknowledge she’s out of his league🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:39 PM |
| 14 | Wow so coolI’m sorry to hear that. More privileged men also participate in street harassment, but they do it in more subtle ways like repeatedly trying to talk to you after you’ve given clear signs that you’re not interested, or rubbing up against you when passing by. Still, men who have less to lose are the ones that treat women like cattle. I once had a homeless man throw something at me because I continued listening to my headphones on the train and did not take them off to hear his harassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:11 PM |
| 11 | She liked him so she sacrificed her comfort, and paid a price she regrettedWhy promote these YouTubers? From the content I’ve seen of them, they’re quite sexist and lack empathy for women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 32 | This should be the bare minimum!This reminds me of YouTuber Alana Arbucci. She made a whole ass video talking about how she knew her (now ex) fiancé was going to be her future husband, and the whole time she just spent listing ways in which he wasn’t abusive like her other ex.🙄 I knew she wasn’t ready to be married just hearing that her standards were “he isn’t abusive to me.” Not surprisingly at all, she just broke up with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 75 | Why are LVM so obsessed with paternity testing and paternity fraud? If you're THAT convinced your wife is gonna cheat on you, why bother getting married 😂If you need to get a paternity test to be sure your wife’s kids are yours, it’s pretty obvious you know your dick game is D- and you can’t satisfy a woman enough to not find pleasure elsewhere. Honestly embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:19 PM |
| 26 | Guys with female friendsThe fact that you’re concerned about this suggests there’s some unclean business going on. If she were just 100% a platonic friend, this would be a non-issue. But at least on some level, you know it’s not. And even if he doesn’t physically cheat on you, emotional cheating is a real thing. By spending lots of time with her, talking to her all day, supporting her, he is knowingly or unknowingly giving her the message that you are not his top priority. If you were, he would have dialed it back with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:39 PM |
| 3 | I think my boyfriend cheated on me months ago and is still lying about itHe didn’t want you to come to the events because he wanted to act single around a bunch of other women. That in itself is a dealbreaker; this guy does not value your relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:23 PM |
| 56 | What advice have *men* given you that aligns with FDS?Yess older men tend to be more HV gentlemen🙏🏻 my grandfather used to always say, “Women have it so hard. How can anyone not treat them with respect?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:42 AM |
| 82 | This pretty much sums up how scrotes feel about FDSWhen I was with my narc ex in high school, he went into a rage when he found out I opened up to a friend about our issues. He used it as an excuse to stonewall me on a field trip that I had been looking forward to spending with him. The entire time, he relished spending it with his friends and pretending that he literally didn’t know who I was. I cried the entire trip, all because I had confided in a friend about how emotionally abusive he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:40 AM |
| 10 | I’m in my 50’s, and so is this guy. Ladies, tell your moms/sisters/older friends about this subreddit. These scumbags are still doing it when their older. His next message was “I can add you on messenger” when I didn’t respond, he deleted the whole thread.It kind of sounds like he has an actual family he doesn’t want you to know about (like a wife and kids). Idk is it just me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:45 AM |
| 13 | Male haters: To quote Regina George: Why are you so obsessed with me?HAHAHA that the response was “why not”😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Although I’ve not been in an abusive relationship myself, I have just read ‘Why Does He Do That’ by Lundy Bancroft and I AM SO GLAD I DID. ***FYI, ‘therapy’ does not fix abusers, it can make this behaviour worse.***Dr. Kirk Honda loves to spend half an hour at a time rationalizing and defending abusers, and then throws his hands up and goes, “I’m just conceptualizing him, not defending his behavior! They’re different, you guys!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:49 PM |
| 18 | Mind you I am just his friend. Not sure why there would be friction? Idk kinda feels awkward.If he sees you as a threat to his relationship, it’s fairly obvious he only saw your friendship as a step toward his sexual gratification | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:15 PM |
| 61 | If you find yourself being a pick-me again the man is LV. If he was HV you would be feeling like a goddess. You are not slipping back to old ways, you are dating a LVM.I was a PickMe until I found a HVM to make me realize my worth. Ideally, you would want it to come from within, but a nudge in the right direction sure helps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:06 PM |
| 17 | Commitment Phobia: the basis for the emotionally stunted and toxic abusers?Commitment phobia for men literally just means “I want to make sure I keep my options open because I think I deserve the best goddess in the world and you (who’s probably already out of my league) aren’t enough for my grandiose ego.” Meanwhile for women, sometimes it means they’ve been hurt so many times by men that they just want to avoid pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:32 PM |
| 31 | Psychologist gaslights woman for asking her girlfriend to delete her dating app (:Yeah he goes on these tangents about “attachment traumas” like no dude it’s not unreasonable to expect a partner to not be talking to other people on dating apps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:15 PM |
| 16 | What's up with psychologists acting blind to the fact that some if not many relationship problems are in fact gendered?I was so disappointed by this video. Even the “good” guys don’t get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:37 PM |
| 68 | What are your thoughts on Cardi B & Meg thee Stallion’s WAP?Throwback to that time she gave her man... CASH for his birthday 💀 after he publicly humiliated her by repeatedly cheating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 01:11 PM |
| 61 | He wants her to wear a bra because it makes HIM uncomfortable! 🤣🤣🤣What an insecure douche. You can tell he thinks he’s sooo kind for “trying” not to be controlling. I literally haven’t worn a bra in 3 years and my boyfriend doesn’t care. In fact, on the rare chance that I do wear one for an interview, he asks, “Oh, how come?” Sometimes I get leers on the street, but he gets mad at the male lurkers, not me! As for this guy worried about his girlfriend being around his friends, maybe he should find better friends who don’t turn into objectifying sex fiends that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Finding fds ladies in real life, being seen as extreme for people around meI hear you, I think the truth is that not that many radical feminists exist in the world. Too many shy away from the word feminist because they think it will make them look compassionate to men, while others champion the word without deep reflection about what it means to be an advocate for women every single day. Maybe try a feminist or female-only club! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Finding fds ladies in real life, being seen as extreme for people around meThank you😊 haven’t declared a major yet. I’m sure the culture over there is very different! Maybe start by weeding out the PickMe’s and seeing who’s left, then branching out into their circles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:47 PM |
| 13 | Finding fds ladies in real life, being seen as extreme for people around meI’ve been blessed with a couple of really badass childhood friends who I stayed in touch with. I find that I usually lose touch with PickMe’s, and I am attracted to female friends who take no shit from anyone. Mostly from class, hardly ever do I meet such strongheaded women while partying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 22 | Single women are on average happier than single men and married womenYeah, until they get married and have a woman to treat like their personal slave. I can almost hear it: “Honey, did you not make my bed today??!! JBP told me it’s necessary in order to be an alpha male like him” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 29 | Single women are on average happier than single men and married womenLmao sounds like Jordan Peterson 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:46 AM |
| 7 | Most of the pickmeisha I've been friends with make me feel the same way I do around LVMI once had a pickmeisha hang me out to try when I warned her about some of her fake friends talking shit. Those friends of hers then went on to make me miserable, and they eventually dropped her too. It’s the same type of attention-seeking behavior that pickmeishas do with men: they will screw anyone over if it means getting attention from someone they admire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Posted a video about narcissism on an emotional abuse subreddit, and this scrote’s instinct was to...emotionally abuse me?Thank you❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Posted a video about narcissism on an emotional abuse subreddit, and this scrote’s instinct was to...emotionally abuse me?Yup, it’s actually sad how many narcissists think theyre the victim of abuse. And thank you love! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Posted a video about narcissism on an emotional abuse subreddit, and this scrote’s instinct was to...emotionally abuse me?LOL so true, I just checked😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Posted a video about narcissism on an emotional abuse subreddit, and this scrote’s instinct was to...emotionally abuse me?Thank you❤️ I’ll try to find one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:15 AM |
| 30 | Widespread, traumatic gender-based violence is so much more common than we thinkDamn, this hits home. Just yesterday, I had a conversation with my boyfriend about how I don’t feel like he put in the work to process the issues he had in the beginning of our relationship when he was what FDS would call LVM (this was way in my Pick Me days). I told him that, if I could go back in time, I would not have chosen to date him. And now he’s a quality partner, but I hate the idea that I helped him get there. It wasn’t my job to do, and I need to see that he’s deeply self-reflected on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Don't Forget to Block Scrotes on LinkedInSame with venmo! I once had a guy deny my old venmo request to get my attention after I’d blocked him on everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 11:41 AM |
| 277 | If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couplesI’m sorry but I don’t feel bad for Kim because she has continued to stand by her 🗑 man even when he turned against black people and women. Now that it finally directly affects her, we’re meant to feel pity? Sorry but no. I don’t wish her ill, but I have little empathy for this greedy and selfish brat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 11:30 AM |
| 20 | As a professional woman, you can never win. No matter how far you get in your career, you will always be an object to some men. Seek out the HVM in your field (like the one who wrote this tweet) when you're dating, ladies.Even if she were posting provocative photos in her personal life, it has no bearing on her competency as a physician! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:13 PM |
| 34 | Pickmeisha mad 😂My boyfriend hears me talk shit about men all the time and doesn’t mind. Because he knows that I’m talking about LVM, not him. Why would anyone be offended unless they identify as a shitty man?🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:44 AM |
| 6 | Beware of LVM/Scrotes in therapy!I was recently watching a therapist reaction to “90 Day Fiancé.” It’s a male therapist. When one of the women on the show said she prefers to date women because “women want connection and men have pressured me for sex,” he was SO quick to get offended and essentially called reverse sexism. Completely ignoring the fact that most women ARE pressured into sex by men in some shape or form. And it’s funny cause he conveniently forgets to call emotional abuse what it is when many of the men on this sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:01 PM |
| 168 | They love to make it about themselves 🤦♀️When a woman speaks her mind, misogynists are pretty quick to label it a “woman card” or “feminist perspective” to make women feel like they’re not objective or their arguments aren’t valid because of their gender. Disgusting. These scrotes think they’re peak objectivity when their attitudes are riddled with cognitive biases and projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 12:02 PM |
| 15 | What's it called when you feel like you have to defend everything you to say to a man?Gaslighting is making someone feel unsure of their reality (ex: “you’re crazy,” “that never happened,” “you’re misremembering things”). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:59 AM |
| 8 | Bf smokes jul pods and nicotine sticksPretty sure nicotine doesn’t cause erectile dysfunction to most people, I’m willing to bet he’s just a chronic porn user as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:56 AM |
| 3 | LVM PUA Tactics on OLD.Maybe we need to stop asking why women are picky with mate selection and start asking why men will stick their dick in anything that moves. I mean seriously, my dude, it’s not a hate crime for women to swipe left on you. You’re pretty subpar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:52 AM |
| 63 | A Big Sister Guide.Wait, he was too depressed to be in a relationship but not to continue sleeping with you? So typical🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:43 AM |
| 34 | 🧐If she’s so much of a slut, what does that say about him that even she won’t fuck him?🙄 these scrotes don’t even realize how stupid they make themselves look | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionOmg they banned me too for saying I don’t think Beyoncé is a feminist icon😂 who tf is moderating that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:46 PM |
| 27 | Pickme female musical artists?Tove Lo’s music is incredible but she literally has a song named “Cool Girl” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:32 PM |
| 22 | The Pickmeisha Olympics: I can't tell what's more embarrassing, this man's wife who's in an open marriage with him, or his ex who's laughing about his infidelities and blaming it on her "insecurities"He also seems so....dumb compared to his wife. Like I’m sorry but Shan is super smart and he sounds dumb af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:45 PM |
| 19 | “It’s normal to feel attracted to others in a relationship.”Very true. I once had an ex-fling drunkenly text me saying super inappropriate stuff. When I asked him if he just broke up with his girlfriend or something, he said no. I was like, “wow, what a lucky girlfriend.” He got all pissy that I thought it was weird of a man in a committed relationship to...not tell an ex-fling he’s still attracted to her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:17 PM |
| 22 | Boyfriend got message from exI’m sorry, I can tell you’re trying really hard to trust him and that you have a history together, and I really feel for you. You’re right, it’s shady and weird that he said out of respect for her relationship and not yours. Honestly? This is becoming a pattern and I think it probably won’t end until your relationship does. Even if he’s trying to be a good guy, he’s not fully succeeding. You shouldn’t have to watch him every step of the way and to train him on the basics of a relationship. Moreo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 08:21 PM |
| 4 | When can I relax?In both of my relationships, I found out some terrible things a year and a half in. Never fully trust someone, especially if they get lazy with the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 01:08 PM |
| 16 | Dating Guru Who Says British Women Are 'Overweight' and 'Entitled' | Good Morning Britain (Oh lord, the delusion is real, also women are not objects ffs!)“Dating coach” is synonymous with “I can’t get a real job so I use common sense and Pickmeisha women’s fear of abandonment to further the supremacy of my gender” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 12:55 PM |
| 12 | How do you ladies feel about men using OnlyFans?LOL amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:12 PM |
| 14 | Don't 👏🏻give👏🏻 husband 👏🏻benifits 👏🏻to👏🏻your👏🏻 boyfriend 👏🏻What about women who genuinely don’t want to get married (assuming they’re not Pickmeishas who just think they’ll please a man by denying a desire for commitment)? After all, it’s an institution that was designed to oppress women and treat them like cattle, and a lot of women don’t like how hard the government makes it to leave a toxic marriage. I agree with the general “don’t let men take you for granted” argument, but we shouldn’t assume marriage is for everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:39 PM |
| 27 | My ex made me feel sooo crazy for not wanting his female “bestie” to constantly touch him and say ily to him. It’s good to know I wasn’t crazy and my boundaries are valid.Signs you’re a girl’s girl^ We women have to go through so much shit just cause of men, it helps when we at least have each other’s backs and know when to give space | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:42 PM |
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