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igotlimbs/r/seduction03/02/16 05:29 PM
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You know what, this summer I dedicated a lot of my free time to improve my "PUA skills" as well as other self-improvement things. Now I'm back at school and pick up has helped out a lot with being able to socialize with people. I used to have no friends and now meeting new people in college has become easier. I'm really glad I dedicated time to improving my pickup skills.
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:31 AM
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I'm having the same issue. I've had several flakes but the most recent one from last Friday got me emotionally for a bit. But honestly, it just means that my "game" is not good enough so I just have to work harder. I don't want to get a hot girl, I want to deserve her
/r/seduction16/08/16 11:14 PM
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So weird, I just discovered this last week also by doing the stylelife challenge haha. Did you finish the 30 days?
/r/seduction10/08/16 12:04 AM
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Hey, how do you find Improv classes and how is the environment, if I may ask?
/r/seduction27/07/16 05:00 AM
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Find out what you want to do in life, what makes you happy. From there, make sure you're using your time to achieve those goals, whether it means to get those awesome grades for your career or working on pushing your comfort zone every day. And remember, having sex with a bunch of girls won't make you happy if you're not happy now. Books to read: Models, The Power of Now, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Re-read these books every couple of months. A great way to work on your social skill…
/r/seduction26/07/16 08:38 PM
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A really important thing in pickup is being congruent with your emotions. What I do to "warmup" is that I simply state my emotions in the opener. "Hi, I'm a little nervous/exhausted right now but I thought you looked cute and wanted to meet you. I'm Derp." Saying your nervous or exhausted isn't going to make them drop their panties, it's just for you to be aware of your emotions and expressing them. Once you're not nervous, just drop it off. "Hi, I thought you looked cute and I wanted to meet yo…
/r/seduction15/07/16 08:35 AM
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It is a good book. Read it if you want to improve yourself
/r/seduction05/07/16 08:56 PM
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Yo you should check out toastmasters (google it I can't link rn sorry). I'm going to my first meeting tomorrow and I'm pretty thrilled because I have similar ambitions as you and I feel like cold approach and toastmasters will definitely make you much more social than you ever believed 0:
/r/seduction13/06/16 10:29 PM
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I'll take on your challenge and shall report back to you sir!
/r/seduction01/06/16 06:51 PM
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Where you located at? 0:
/r/seduction31/05/16 04:06 AM
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Wow this just hit me like a school bus. I noticed that the days when I have the funnest interactions are when I'm in a fearless state. Nothing matters at that point, and the people I talk to enjoy it. When I'm in a nervous state, afraid of getting judged, it just becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Now if I can just engage this fearless state all the time... Thanks OP! Needed this.
/r/seduction27/05/16 01:48 AM
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"Would you ever wear a full body jar-jar binks constume?"
/r/seduction15/04/16 07:51 PM
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"No I'm waiting for marriage" :(
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:48 PM
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Thats cus the uncool people get filtered out in the sign up process
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:42 PM
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Hey man, I really needed this advice right now so thanks! I recorded myself yesterday interacting with friends and I've realized how much of a slow thinker i am. I have a really hard time converting intelligent thoughts into words which obviously girls pick up on. I've also realized that the reasons i have no friends is that I'm a very boring person and as i dug deeper, it might be because i have no opinion about anything. If you asked me why I love blink 182 or traveling, i would stutter over m…
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:40 PM
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Engineering student experiencing the same thing holy shit haha except I'm located in south central LA. High five bro
/r/seduction10/04/16 03:20 AM
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I walk around and I am also very fortunate to meeting wings that want to help me out so they would push me. I hadn't gone to downtown in a while and I'm sure I would whoop ass there now, but when I first started it was just really mentally painful and which made me close to giving up in the first week. I preferred walking around way much more but sometimes I would stay at one spot as I waited for my wing with his approach. Waiting around made me feel so creepy. What I would suggest you to do is …
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:00 AM
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Just go out for 30 days straight. I have a very inconsistent schedule so I put in the time I could, some days I only went out for about an hour while others I went out for 3-4 hours. I focused on things I struggled on, such as vocal tonality, not giving a fuck about nearby people think, stopping girls, statements instead of questions. Now I'm working on trying to establish a memorable connection First thing I would recommend is to find a wingman and watch a bunch of motivational videos on youtub…
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:47 AM
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Malls, universities, and downtown. Downtown was really nerve wrecking as I worried I would come off as a creep. Now I can comfortably approach and meet girls anywhere I go such as super markets and in classes.
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:35 AM
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Great tips. I am aware how valuable my time is and I'm not willing to spend it on someone who won't put out. I'm more interested in improving myself as much as I can and I know a girlfriend would slow my progress.
/r/seduction04/02/16 02:18 AM
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I don't really understand your question. Are you asking for the root causes?
/r/seduction04/02/16 02:12 AM
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My apologies, I just saw your message. I found my 1st wing in puaforums.com and the other in simplepickup.com/forum. There's another forum called pick-up-artist-forum.com. Just look in the sections named find a wing and look for your area. The 30 day challenge I'm doing is nothing special or organized. I'm just going out for 30 days in a row and each day I try to find out what I need to work on. So for the 1st week, I noticed my vocal projection was weak, I cared too much what people thought of …
/r/seduction26/01/16 04:31 AM
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Hey bro, I don't know if you can relate, but I had some very serious social anxiety my whole life. I decided in October to get that part of my life fixed and to be able to talk to a girl. I went out that month and I found myself in the same in the same scenario as you are in. So for 2 months, I practiced making eye contact with strangers, then saying hello, then asking for directions. This month I started doing day game and just this Sunday I did about 25+ approaches in 2.5 hours (that's a recor…
/r/seduction26/01/16 03:59 AM
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I went through the same thing for a good 2 months, except I only hit on one girl that whole time. I would go out and just work on my social anxiety by making eye contact, greeting strangers, asking for directions. Now the past 3 weeks I've spent my time with wingmen I found on forums and now I push myself when I'm with a wing because I don't want to waste their time or my time. When I'm with a wing, I can probably spend around 40-70% of my time getting practice depending on my motivation, which …
/r/seduction19/01/16 12:51 AM
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Hey bud, I've been following your progress and thought I'd share a habit I've been doing recently. A little about myself is that I have suffered from social anxiety for as long as I can remember, but this past month I've been dedicating my free time to correcting it. My social anxiety was so bad that I would get shakes just from crossing a street, making it more intense the more traffic there is. I also noticed that I would mentally try to hide and remain unnoticed to the point where my posture …
/r/seduction09/12/15 03:27 AM
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What page is this challenge on?
/r/seduction27/11/15 04:44 AM
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