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How should one look at it if women are determining if they date you based upon on how much you make or not make?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:43 AM
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Yet they overlap with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:00 AM
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Where did I say I think China government is humane? Them shifting their view on women is change. Which refutes your "nothing is changing" claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:59 AM
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You mean a small fraction of men at best who are gone? No, why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:52 AM
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If nothing is changing then explain why China has no more one child policy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:51 AM
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So that be a no you don't understand such a thing. If you did you would know vast majority of women want a man. If men are short supply they are going to take what they can get when something is in short supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:50 AM
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If women still want men as breadwinners, ie as ATM's doesn't that make all women gold diggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:42 AM
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So who are all those people I saw out in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:41 AM
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Do you understand even the basics of supply and demand?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:50 AM
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Societies with low sex ratio (more women) are just far more relaxed and liberal. Then explain why San Francisco is more liberal and that left wing than that of NYC? SF has more men than women while NYC has more women than men. Gender roles are constructed by society. Uh sir excuse me but gender roles are clearly constructed by men not society, feminists told me so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:48 AM
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Glad you admit all women are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:46 AM
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TIY women never kill, despite women have fought in wars as long as men have and its women who get abortions not men. You really aren't good with facts or history are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:45 AM
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Because women have never started a war ever in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:43 AM
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https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/hillary-clinton-victims-of-war/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:42 AM
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Incel/TRP mentality. Women will notice when there's a lack of men and more so not like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:41 AM
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China has stop doing that and it has resulted in women being valued greatly in the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:40 AM
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That's changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:40 AM
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Misandary just oozes from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:12 AM
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We can already fertilize XX from stem cells from the mother. Which is in the early stages. And don't act like you still don't need men around. Who is going to build your house? Do the heavy lifting? Certainly not women. That's why males are so pressed about "we built this society!" Ok, fine, you built it, you're responsible for it. Any and all leverage you find us having right here and now, is because you, by sheer brute strength, disallowed us from reading, you males used to and still consider …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:11 AM
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Face it, the only reason we need protection these days is against other men. Remember kids women never do anything bad and are only the victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:07 AM
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and for men to stop thinking that their wives are only there for their money. Women still want them for their money and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:06 AM
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A woman who is only with you because she needs you, will be gone when she no longer needs you, or when you no longer provide her with what she needs. A woman who is only with you because she wants you, will be gone when she no longer wants you, or when you no longer provide her with what she wants. It really goes both ways with needs/wants. And I would argue having a woman want you is worse than one needing you. As a want isn't something you are far less likely to be invested in where as a need …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:59 AM
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The men who want to take your rights away aren't the men who want to change how dating is like as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:56 AM
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Love, respect, nurturing, tenderness, gentleness, kindness, loyalty, devotion, time, children, a loving home to come home to. That's all good and well, but that all comes with a price and not necessary a dollar amount. But this also assumes all women can offer those things. But the thing is there's a lot of crappy women out there. Red pillers and black pillers aren't exactly the most stellar of people. No, but neither are women like FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:54 AM
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If you think this then never leave your bedroom or that never socialize with women. Does that make more sense? To be honest the last sentence didn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:50 AM
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But but but OLD is reality!!!!!!! Also 80/20 ain't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:47 AM
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People in general value love, compassion, and someone they can emotionally depend on. This is very true. But when women aren't dependent on men and can pick and choose which man they want the reality is the amount of men who are actually wanted by women isn't all men. While I don't think 80/20 itself exist numerous studies and data all show men who are deemed to be marriage material are most wanted by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:46 AM
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Dating apps and social media has made an impact on dating, but that doesn't mean the door is shut on men who are not hot/attractive. If you think that then never leave or that socialize with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:31 AM
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This is where going out, making friends, having hobbies help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:05 AM
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Ya because I don't agree with the wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:05 AM
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No economic system can survive without a constant inflow of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:25 PM
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Many women despise emotional weakness in men. Vast majority of women do. But emotional labor doesn't have anything to do with emotional weakness.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/21 11:08 AM
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Funny how a claim is now an opinion. Really trying to get away from this aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:01 AM
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"Feminism is nothing more than equal rights for women" Notice how they don't say equal rights for men as well? I don't know if they realize what they're doing. I don't think they do realize it becuase they are in so deep or least they drank so much of the feminist language. You would think feminism being around for decades at this point would have a better message at this point let alone better grasp of the English language.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/21 11:00 AM
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That's a straight up stereotype.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/21 10:56 AM
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I am not surprised at all. The mods at menslib are far more concern about appealing to feminists they do anything to show how much male guilt they have and want to show how woke and pro feminist they are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/21 10:54 AM
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The establishment created this mentality though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/21 10:51 AM
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You made a claim but now you say you made a conclusion based upon what other uses said. lamo. Just admit you can't support your claim that you stated as a fact and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:35 AM
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I said that you might have to claim things to put the ideology into practice. No you didn't. Feminists can and do address men's issues No they don't. But clearly you already have your mind made up and never really cared about what I was saying. I can say the same about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:20 AM
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Why bother when facts don't matter to you only feelings. I do like you don't even deny downplaying men's issues as if they don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:18 AM
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How do I promote socialism? Already explained. Women own 1% or the world's property and 32% of the world's wealth. Move that goal post and post incorrect facts on top of it. Women hold 40% of the world's wealth and its really not known how much land women own due to various country laws. Oh by the way women only make up 50% of those in poverty worldwide. And no the average woman in the US does not make less than the average man does. They make nearly the same amount when you account for all fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:04 AM
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Remember kids women always have it worse than men no matter what. But now feminism claims something after you said feminism doesn't claim anything? Which is it? And please "real gender equalities" is code for women's issues only. Men's issues don't need to be address as men clearly have it better no matter what. Why do you keep on spewing the whole equality bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:49 AM
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Oh look a feminist downplaying men's issues, oh par the course. Next you say men's issues don't exist objectively! If you actually educate yourself and not listen to your feminist echo chamber you would see there's numerous issues men have that are just as large scale as women's issues. And they say feminism wants equality. How much bullshit can you spew?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:45 AM
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Exactly. They think this is some sort of slam dunk data when its not. Its sample data at best and as you said we don't know what the sample size is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:23 AM
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You never proved me wrong nor did I played dumb. Let me quote what /r/smallrockwoodvessel said to you since you clearly set on proving my point: It's based on other Tinder insight users, so the pool of people are those who willing upload their Tinder stats. There's less women on Tinder on average, we don't know what sample size they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:19 AM
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Choosing to ignore what? Your reply made no sense so how can I ignore it when I can't even make out what you are getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:07 AM
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Oh the irony. So were is the link?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:02 AM
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There's nothing saying I must show why. More so its not worth the effort anyway least in this sub. Facts don't matter in this sub only feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:53 AM
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Cool so you don't read. You spew false facts and I ask what I can say in reply and wonder where my argument is. lamo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:29 AM
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What are you even saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:23 AM
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SF as a city has more men than women. NYC has more women than men but women there appear to be jaded and expect the moon. Miami I argue you really don't need OLD just go to the beach or bar and you easily get a date. LA is the only one that is really all about looks and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:22 AM
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Do you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:19 AM
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You quoted everything I said why? You do realize dating apps are localized right? People in LA are much more shallow compared to other places. 80/20 isn't accurate even with dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:52 AM
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What can I say to false facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:51 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:30 AM
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Thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:11 AM
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Not putting any words in your mouth, just calling out the bs. As lets be honest you think its actually all men not "most" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:26 AM
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Did you not read all of what you linked or you ignored everything else and only focused on the data because it supports your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:25 AM
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You missing the point. Most of the men here least the manosphere men here think OLD is reality and what ever data they "find" they will twist to fit their agenda/narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:19 AM
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Just because some principle exist doesn't mean it's set in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:17 AM
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It came from people twisting an OkCupid "study" to fit their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:15 AM
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You do understand what real life is right? And how it doesn't involve living behind a screen all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:15 AM
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Tinder to them is real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:13 AM
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That proves what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:13 AM
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Not the one that is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:12 AM
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All men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:11 AM
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And women want an ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:10 AM
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You want to see a fantasy that you think is the reality you have painted to have existed. I really don't think any of you guys that believe so much in the 80/20 rule even go outside and even socialize with women even. I say this as the lot of you all live anti social lives and live your lives out on social media thinking its real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:36 AM
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A lot of men here want their confirmation bias to be confirmed. The whole 80/20 or what ever rule doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:35 AM
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That data doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:33 AM
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That's funny, as I'm a feminist and not a socialist. Yet you promote socialism as a feminist. That's funny, who actually owns most assets in America, who owns most businesses, and who gets paid more on average? Last I check women hold the majority of the wealth in the US. And women own 40% of the businesses in the US. And there's no wage gap. And I'm confused as to what you're trying to say about voting power, the American voting system allows both men and women to vote equally. If women out vot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:19 AM
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Yup feminism claims nothing at all. You feminists do nothing but make claims let alone think and claim women no matter what have it worse than men. You cry about female child brides but don't care at all about boys being forced to fight and kill as soldiers. And yet you claim the ideal of feminism is equality. Your own words here speak to not wanting equality but only address women's issues. That isn't equality, that's inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:14 AM
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You say women's issues aren't a feeling and yet you make it a feeling. And no fix only women's issues does not make women equal to men when men's issues are not fix. But again feminism isn't about actual gender equality only women's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:12 AM
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Women have far more suicidal thoughts in general. Prove it. Mind you I linked a source showing men are equally likely to be depressed as women if you look for non female symptoms which people often associate depression with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:14 AM
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well if we are more like women here then we probably also use internet more like women? You presented no actual evidence to show this. argue on the internet. Not a manish behavior. it wasn't that long ago that i read an article that the gender gap in new students in STEM is getting narrower. new students who major in maths was already like 50/50 split between men and women in some finnish uni. And women out number men in college/university even in your part of the world. And women still dominate…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:09 AM
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And you can look things up as well, but you seem set on twisting things. Why you think I am confusing stats is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:03 AM
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I am not even conservative and I would say this. But what does that have anything to do with internet usage?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:48 AM
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I find that very hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:13 AM
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I am not confusing stats at all. You brought up women attempting it more so I brought up men committing it more. If anything it's you who is twisting things for I can only wager you want to paint women having it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:41 AM
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I brought it up because women here constantly bring it up. And you want a cookie for being the exception as a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:40 AM
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Yes and?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:39 AM
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Feminism very does claim such things no matter the facts. And its about making women more equal than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:35 AM
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Socialism isn't a requirement for feminism have the same amount of money, resources and power? Ya I say it is a requirement. The point is that women have LESS money and power and there isn't some kind of unavoidable biological reason for that. Women have more economic power and money than men do least in the US. More so women out vote men again US wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:28 AM
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I highly doubt you want equality when you think women have it worse than men and think women's issues should be above men's issues. Everything you said is feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:26 AM
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I didn't assume the worse, I went to the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:25 AM
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Ya it is true, but you clearly stuck in your echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:58 AM
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And men actually carry out suicide more.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:15 AM
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Far more women are addicted to social media than porn though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:45 AM
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Probably they but too lazy to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:42 AM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:32 AM
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Only the men and more so women in this sub think men are low value while think women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:24 AM
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https://www.latimes.com/science/la-sci-depression-men-20130829-story.html
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:20 AM
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Men are addicted to porn and women are addicted to social media yet porn addiction is seen as being a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:20 AM
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Feminism is about money and power It is, which is why it claims women have no money or power despite facts saying otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:57 AM
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Why must we have socialism as if socialism will make things equal? More so I guess equal outcome is better than equal opportunity. After all men have money and power and women don't according to you feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:56 AM
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And I'd love to live in the world that you live in where baby girls aren't killed for their gender, married off as kids to men several times their age, not allowed to vote or have basic autonomy in many countries, and basically treated like dirt at a way higher rate than men will ever experience on a global scale. And you feminists want equality. It's like you are making my point for me. But facts don't matter to you As if facts matter to you feminists. All you doing is posting with feels. you p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:54 AM
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This is like code for saying men are the problem. That said even if you fix the root problem that doesn't mean you free men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:46 AM
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No they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:29 AM
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I don't know why some men are so angry with women's entitlement. Why are you so upset over men wanting sex from you? You expect men to pay and all you offer is your looks and then get mad men want only sex from you. But you think you are entitled to more. You aren't even taking your own advice/argument that one must asses how feasible your expectations are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:06 AM
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Oh look a feminist denying women having privilege and then saying an ironic statement. Guess what women do in fact have privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:02 AM
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What do you recommend to me? This isn't debating but asking for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:59 AM
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Feminism is about equality. Its actions and words say otherwise. it's just not the main focus as men are generally better off. So feminism isn't about equality and no men are not better off, but facts never mattered to feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:45 AM
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There's nothing you can do as long as you have the attitude that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:42 AM
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A coffee date screams low effort to me. Why would I want to get to know better a man who can't bother to treat me at the very first stages of dating, the "honeymoon" period? I don't know why it's a so hard to understand the concept of treating to a nice experience and spoil people you like to spend time with. I don't expect to be taken out to a three star Michelin restaurant. You want to be treated let alone a nice experience but then don't expect a 3 star Michelin restaurant. I guess a 2 or 1 s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:41 AM
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If you bring nothing to the table at the very beginning of dating you bring nothing at all. And if your ideal man is Ben Shapiro dating for you will get harder when you support such views.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:35 AM
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How is it not about having your cake and eatting it as well when feminism isn't in the slightest about equality? I don't see feminists addressing men's issues. And with body hair its not so much about it making you warmer but how the sweat clings to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:07 AM
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I do wish that men would value other things about me Yet you only value the man who has a thick wallet and treats you like a little girl. So how do you expect men to value other things about you when you admit all you offer to him is your looks and you don't look to value other things in him other than his money? It makes no difference on whether or not I will be seen as a fuckdoll. You are in your early 20's most guys do not want a serious relationship in your age range/group. That said if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:05 AM
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You do realize you are contradicting yourself right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:00 AM
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I wanted to treat my friend and have fun with me. Wanting to treat your friends, someone you know, isn't the same as taking someone out on a date who you don't know. "it'S PAternalistiiic, do They think that I can't open the door myself!!". So you want to be treated like a little girl. And it's nothing than my pretty self lol At least you admit you bring nothing to the table except your looks. Which means if we go by TPR thinking you have no value by age 30. So no you are not S&P500 company. As …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:54 AM
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Even feminists are punishing men for being feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:41 AM
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and most men are less
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:43 AM
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If yes, then run, that's cheap prostitution. If you expect him to pay for your time don't be surprise if he expects something in return. But first dates, set the standard and you are supposed to show your best, aren't you? They are, but what do you do in return for him paying if not put out on the first date? FDS, the woman who made the blog and women yourself all say men should pay but never say what you do in return or what effort you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:51 AM
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If a woman wants a man to spend more then she needs to make herself worth more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:32 AM
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She's like in her 40's and single. She's losing on the long game waiting for that guy to meet all her requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:29 AM
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Her love is conditional based upon the man's wallet and him being the breadwinner. All while she offers no provide anything in return outside her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:28 AM
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Ideally, gender roles would be entirely eliminated and men would never be expected to do anything simply for being male. Women are never going to give up their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:26 AM
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Modern dating isn't traditionalism or more so in her case prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:16 AM
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As if all you women are queens. Have you even seen what women are like today? Most women are basic at best and are less. You and other women bitch about men but you don't even realize you aren't any better than the men, in fact you are on the same level as the men you complain about and you get mad because you can't get a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:01 AM
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Your not worng as most men do not want to date a woman that does porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:54 AM
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i have severe eczema, so yes- it’s painful. Research products and try them. I bet you if you look into men's shaving products you find stuff that works for you. a lot of women grow up believing it’s mandatory It was "mandatory" but its only been more recent that it hasn't been. Its not outright socially acceptable for women not to shave at all but you can get away with not shaving every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:38 AM
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it’s painful and irritating If shaving is painful and irritating you are doing it wrong. But again I can only guess you are buying shaving products aimed at women and not products aimed at men. I say this as it seems men's shaving products are overall better than women's. of course they are fucking STOKED when they realize it’s not mandatory. Really hasn't been mandatory for a while now. No one gives a crap or care about the woman going to the grocery store in sweat pants and a tshirt. In fact t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:06 AM
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men are free to be more feminine No they really aren't. In fact men are punished if they become too feminine. And really your everyday man can't really be feminine at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:01 AM
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It's about equality. 😂 Its more about having one's cake and eating it as well. there are generally more advantages to not shaving than to shaving Try being hairy during a hot day let alone a humid hot day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:59 AM
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That doesn't say they don't have an ideology. I am talking about what they are about. Again learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:36 PM
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Work on your reading skills. I never said they didn't have an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:12 PM
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Its not common at all. People are getting hung up over the vocal minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:22 AM
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Advice like exercise and diet is as useful as being told be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:06 AM
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5% is common? Or that makes it common enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:01 AM
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Statistically speaking, this should be impressive. Sure, but most of his money is in a checking that isn't getting any interest on it. More so he is banking with a bank with really no interest rate to speak of (Wells Fargo savings rate is 0.01%). So the guy is even a bigger idiot. If he was with an internet bank like Ally or Discover at least he have his money work for him passively some. Most Americans live paycheck-to-paycheck with little or no savings, and little to no equity unless they inhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:27 AM
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Every place/where in society there's by and large a dress code of some kind, it being defined or not. Nearly all businesses for example have no shirt no shoes no service policy. You likely will be kicked out of a fancy restaurant if you show up in shorts and a tshirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:23 AM
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Yet you promote them and follow their ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:48 AM
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Ironic when the same applies to you feminists and BPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:40 AM
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i bet a lot of men who think they were doomed from the start could improve their looks considerably if they put all his advice into use and sticked to it. You really think his advice is universal? You can easily have 10 people say 10 different things on how someone with X look should have their hair or what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:32 AM
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Or its simply due to men rating him differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 07:58 AM
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You don't want the truth but your narrative. Why not just post in FDS and leave men alone with your hate and toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:35 AM
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FDS is nothing but about hating men which you clearly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:35 AM
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Must suck losing an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:34 AM
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If it only works for good looking guys then why do average guys also get matches? You and others don't at all get how much a good picture or two can matter with a decent profile. Instead you resort to incel mentality that only the attractive men do well and average guys never get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:04 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:09 AM
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Your right I won't and like with the other person I love your made up facts as well. Tinder at this point is likely flooded with in active profiles and that fake profiles let alone women at least wanting men to follow their insta only to pay for their Only Fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:45 AM
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I do think this represents a decline So because some site/company can't compete against Tinder it represents a decline? lol wut? If anything it shows companies don't know how to compete against Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:23 AM
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You really think only dumb women are on OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:21 AM
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only a very small amount of men are getting successful at it. I like made up facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:21 AM
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What does look threshold have anything to do with the number of men on dating apps compared to women? More so the profile is about selling yourself not about your personality. You can't show your personality in the profile part. You can somewhat show it in pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:14 AM
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Her English is just fine. Once again read what is said. As I am reading it just fine. It funny how you don't at all offer what you think she is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:12 AM
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Read the last sentence again, and this time take in the tone she is using and factor in FDS mentality. She's literally saying if her "boyfriend" doesn't act how she wants she is out. She's not even invested in the relationship and is having it out side of convince. Also I said nothing about need.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:09 AM
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You aren't even reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:02 AM
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Ya they do, at least need a good picture. A crappy one will work against them despite what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:47 AM
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Did you not read what she said more so the last sentence? /u/adhdathon is saying that if her "boyfriend" doesn't act to her liking at any moment she is out the door. She by no means is actually invested in the relationship but is having it because it is convent for now. This is assuming she is even in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:42 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:40 AM
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Of course you have zero sources and you more so pull a whataboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:40 AM
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The left bashing men is part of why men are going to the right politically. The left doesn't get this and continues to blame men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/21 09:05 AM
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At least The Left admits that they hate men. They don't and likely never will.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/21 09:05 AM
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You do realize you can use someone emotionally right? And I have no doubt you are abusing him, that is if you are actually with some guy. I doubt you are seeing how you FDS women are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:47 AM
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Factor in most men having bad profiles and well a lot of guys won't get matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:43 AM
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Even if your average its common. Men out number women hugely on dating apps. This alone will work against men. Factor in most men having bad profiles and well a lot of guys won't get matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:33 AM
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Why are you even with him when you are half way out of the relationship? This is assuming you even have a boyfriend seeing you are FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:30 AM
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She's a queen you know which means he must submit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:27 AM
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They are very much feminist sub and such take offense to a lot of questions which can be asked openly on /r/AskMen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:25 AM
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For me, I quit OLD nearly ten years ago for anything serious. OLD has changed a lot in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:23 AM
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Would say its common actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:13 AM
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What makes you think they are ugly more so its due to the number of guys on dating apps? Granted it can easily be due to crappy pictures and poor profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:12 AM
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Source needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:50 AM
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So porn and vibeo ganes (what ever that is) are good seeing least some women like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:18 AM
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I don’t see how social media are any different in this regard. You don't seem to get or understand what would be socially appropriate behavior. I am very aware this changes, but I doubt most women want random men jumping into their DM's least for the sole reason to date them. There are just more women in the first two places, so to me it seems natural for more men to want to migrate there. May seem logical to you, but if men did it in droves I can see a lot of backlash to it. Women are ever so r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:52 AM
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Entertainment doesn't tech does. If tech didn't care they won't make such an effort or fuss over it. Though with tech at any moment a sexual abuse/harassment story can hit the news and hit them hard. For entertainment it's another Monday for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:07 AM
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Metoo very much turned into a witch hunt though. I get you want to bash the manopshere but you can't deny what some of what they say is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:52 AM
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What progress? You like the feminists don't care if innocent men get hurt in the process. More so its not like you women are being outed as abusers as everyone knows men are the abusers never women. Notice how Cosby lost all his reputation and throw in jail but Cardi B got praised for her actions? Yup progress alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:51 AM
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You were close to actually getting the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:48 AM
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And they are paying for it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:18 AM
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Like yeah — we didn’t trust you when were abusing us and getting away with it. By that logic men shouldn't at all trust you women seeing how often you women get away with sexual abuse which is far more than men do. Yet men are more than willing to trust women despite women sexually abuse men openly and often. But you women don't trust any man and men are less likely to get away with sexual abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:30 AM
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then returned to their usual levels with no change. How is there no change? Shit I work in entertainment and Media You mean an industry that doesn't care? Metoo has made other industries take more action like tech and even the video game industry (see Activision/Blizzard)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:26 AM
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And it forced some much needed changes like companies starting to really enforcing their sexual harassment policies. It also change dating and how men interact with women and women seemingly across the board didn't like it at all as well it didn't favor them. meanwhile when we practice caution we’re called feminazis who think all men are rapists Don't generalize men as rapists and this won't happen. But continue to think or view [all] men as rapists and this will continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:21 AM
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Why would they be less willing to date a guy on Instagram with a good profile than a guy on a dating app with a good profile? Because its not a place for dating. Its like going to the ballet and trying to ask one of the female ballerinas out on a dance while she is performing. Not the best example but hopefully you get the point. probably not the ones with 10K+ followers Honestly at this point 10k+ is likely not that many followers. That said women with smaller followers aren't sitting around ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:54 AM
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Yet they desperately want good quality men to approach them in bars so that they can turn them down in front of their friends to feed their egos Ya sure they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:11 AM
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Most men even here aren't asking for pornstars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:20 AM
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Theres a lot of talk about men having unrealistic expectations Uh where?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:32 AM
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Already have and I am using it properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:27 AM
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Women haven't been showing up to the table for a while. Its just that the better quality men are raising their standards or that expectations of women and women aren't able to meet those standards/expectations even when they are so simple. The men who will accept anything are the ones willing to accept women not really showing up and its these women who complain about the low quality men. Its like as if women did more they would get the higher quality man. But women haven't learned that while mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:46 AM
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Your own source shows POF being at 42%. More so POF is by and large trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:24 AM
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Even sites like Instagram and TikTok probably have more women than men. They do. And most women would ignore their DM's especially the more popular ones with guys trying to get their attention. But I doubt most women on those platforms would be that willing to date someone messaging them on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:22 AM
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They say your a pick me guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:19 AM
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It would work by paying them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:19 AM
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Women are going to say they have it worse no matter what. That said what they are really crying about is the lack of marriage material men for them to go after. There's an ever so decline in marriage material men out there and women aren't liking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:16 AM
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most of what they get is low quality Which speaks about who they attract let alone their own quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:15 AM
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pro - women message first Most women on Bumble say hi so the guy is the one starting and carrying the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:12 AM
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Women should approach men and stop having men do all the effort. Women are ever so making approaching them deemed creepy so the non creepy men are doing is less and less and resorting to OLD. As least there some women actually want to date. I say some as a portion want you to follow their social and/or join their OnlyFans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:11 AM
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Who's they? But nice strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:03 AM
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I think this is another strawman. How is it a strawman? Everyone knows men out number women on OLD. Which means men do have a harder time becuase they are fighting a numbers game or that a supply and demand game if you will. Meaning they’re too shy to approach women and would rather pretend it doesn’t really happen or is completely ineffective. This is a strawman. People or that men are using OLD because approaching is ever so being discouraged by women. It has nothing to do with being shy but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:02 AM
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Most people including your overestimate the importance of physical features.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:54 AM
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If you think everything will be automated keep dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:00 AM
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I haven't made anything up. You literally said there is risk in giving men compliments. Besides the fact there's zero risk to this, you are treating all guys as being bad. I don’t think all men are bad. Then don't generalize men. I wish it were safe to give random guys I don’t know compliments but it just isn’t. Hun its safe to do this if you stop fearmongering about made up risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:00 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:55 AM
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That’s where most of the future jobs are going to be 😂😂😂😂😂 Good luck running a high tech society without the non STEM jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:28 PM
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All you talked about is how you are taking some imaginary risk because of how some men act but you make it as if how all men act.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:16 PM
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I believe to ultimately behind the government’s lack of will to address not just gender-based educational disparities, but class and racial ones as well. They have no incentive to address it. Until they do they won't. STEM jobs in the private sector can always be given to minorities from other countries here on visas. You really hung up over STEM aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:14 PM
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Thanks for proving it doesn't literally say doctor at all. Majority of doctors don't sit at a desk all day working. More so a large portion of doctors work with their hands doing things like surgery. Which means doctors literally do manual labor. You think doctors remove cancer from people from their desks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:12 PM
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You really need to learn what generalizations are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:09 PM
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Just because you work in an office setting doesn't make you white collar. More so doctors are blue collar not white collar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:16 AM
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Doctors are blue collar workers.... It bothers me in that it makes dating harder, on the flip side it does screen out women for me. But I wouldn't trade my current blue collar job for a white collar one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:33 AM
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that may be happening. It is happening, there's no may about it. The trend is reversing primarily due to women earning more college degrees than men. And ya the expectation of women making more than men hasn't happened and won't for a while but it will happen and when its the norm dating be far less common. This will take time, expectations don't suddenly change because something just happened yesterday. No, but you are fully expecting women as a group will freely date down income and education …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:15 AM
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I see why we agree to disagree. I am blue collar and such have a very different dating experience. There's even articles talking about this and how society values jobs as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:11 AM
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Just curious but are you white or blue collar?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:25 AM
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Because it hasn't happened yet. It's literally happening right now. I feel like people tend to adjust to their situations People will adjust, but it be women simply not dating in mass. You aren't going to see women date down income and education wise ever. You will simply see less women actually dating with the supply of marriage material men in ever so short supply. At the moment, the norm is still men should make more than women. A norm that will never go away. Women aren't going to let go som…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:20 AM
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What your job is plays more into things than you think. Women care about looks but women do not put in as nearly as much weight into it as you are. What your job is as a guy and your education level has more importance to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:31 AM
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So basically if you don't even care to speculate how many women earned less than their husbands before they got married and you aren't saying that the number of women who are married to men who earn less than them went down You have like have reading issues or something? Or you simply want to make a strawman? I said nothing about it going down but changing. I do like you are now on my case that I am not speculating right after you got on my case for making so called assumptions. Do you not under…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:11 AM
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Which is a humanities field. That said so? There's fewer and fewer majors dominated by men these days. It probably won't be that long before women dominate all majors .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:02 AM
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Even among the women who choose white-collar jobs, they're often doing work like "administrative assistant" or "accounting clerk", jobs that would probably also date blue-collar men. No they really won't. They would more date other white collar workers. If that ever changes so that women are earning more than men, then I would agree that we should start worrying about how financial hypergamy affects relationships. Women are starting to make more than men. I wager it be a good two or three genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:59 AM
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You didn't misstated, you simply don't get out much. All you did was state the opposite of what you said before. And no women not mingling with blue collar isn't the only reason they won't choose a blue collar man. They won't pick him because blue collar work across the board has a lower social status than that of white collar work does. A lot of it is due to income. And admin assistant makes more for example than a janitor does by a good $10k/year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:46 AM
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You ignored the part where I said I buy him shit too. Lie much? I do like how you once again refer to my candy bar comment in regards to this. I never ignored you saying this. I said you buy him something cheap. So no I didn't at all ignored this when I very much addressed this. when I am acting as one. You literally said you want your boyfriend to buy you a laptop while saying you make your own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:34 AM
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It is assumption to try and devalue the fact that 38% of women out-earn their husbands: Do you even know what an assumption is? As I haven't made one nor devalued anything. And thanks for restating my point about not knowing if women make more or after getting married. I want numbers. Show me proof that the 40% number went down. Where did I say it went down? I said it likely changed due to the recession in 2018 and in 2020. Try to read what is said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:59 AM
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You won't because white collar women won't be mingling with blue collar men anyways. And if you think all men need is to be tall and good looking you really need to get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:55 AM
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What field are we talking about here? As liberal arts in general is female dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:45 AM
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So? Also women barely dominate law.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:42 AM
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You are straight up manipulating him so he buys you something. I highly doubt you buy him anything least something more than a candy bar. You clearly okay with using him for his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:33 AM
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Not upset at anything, you don't get I am just pointing out all you are doing is fearmongering and going all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:32 AM
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Women do care about education as it's an indication of possible income potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:04 AM
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She will date him as long as she is blue collar herself. She won't date him if she is white collar. She may sleep with him though. And yes I know blue collar men can make a lot of money, but blue collar work across the board is looked down upon that white collar work. And women do care what a man does job wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:02 AM
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There's no assumptions or suppositions here. Your own article doesn't say the wife made more than the husband before marriage. It only says 40% of wives in 2015 made more than their husband. It further says when the woman makes more the relationship suffers. But I am saying that 40% number that was found in 2015 is likely different now with two economic recessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:01 AM
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You very much get the point and you certainly not denying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:52 AM
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Okay? That doesn't say or show those women made more before they married their husband. It just shows right now 40% make more than their husband. That said that stat has likely changed due to the recession in 2018 and the one in 2020. 2018 hit men where as 2020 hit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:40 AM
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You are straight up manipulating him so he buys you something. I highly doubt you buy him anything least something more than a candy bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:32 AM
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It won't be normalized as women aren't going to date/marry down. More so your article shows the men are making up for the lack of education with income. In the end really women aren't dating down nor will they ever date down, even when they as a group make more than men. Women rather opt out of dating if they can't get a man who is deemed to be marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:23 AM
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FDS are more prostitutes than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:16 AM
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So you are using him for his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:15 AM
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So the woman is entitled/gold digger. That said if you women want men to provide let alone pay for everything then make yourself worth investing in. FDS women especially but even normal women don't seem to get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:12 AM
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No one says women don’t care about height. You mean besides women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:09 AM
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The women who are marrying down educationally are marrying men who make more than them. Women are not marrying men who are less educated and make as much as them or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:07 AM
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A lot of these women are in colleges studying teaching and nursing and are probably open to dating guys in trades or the military. Women going into teaching/nursing are probably open to blue collar men, but most are going for white collar careers and far less likely and willing to date blue collar men. Men who aren't willing to do STEM are going to have to be willing to start entering fields that are traditionally "women's work" Ya because no other white collar career is male dominated at all. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:05 AM
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Actually you said it with your generalization of men, not me. You are the one who thinks there's risk in giving a man compliment. You are the one treating all men the same. You are the one fearmongering and generalizing men. I am just pointing it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:42 PM
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So? You don't seem to get the impact or understand the meaning of men getting another option of birth control let alone a more long term one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:26 AM
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How practical would it be though? Very. Women still won't have the ability to verify. So? Not like men can verify women are on the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:23 AM
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I understand, my point is that paying 430~500$/mo on average is obviously not as much of a deterrent not to use birth control compared to being locked into parenthood as single mothers often are. It is when debtors prison is still a thing and the average personal income is little over 30k/year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:20 AM
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The specifics of the ruling leave the door open to challenge the Texas law in the future and it very likely will get challenged again How? Yes one can challenge the law but the ruling or more so vote from SCOTUS doesn't leave the door wide open. most people don’t want a ban on abortion. https://news.gallup.com/poll/1576/abortion.aspx https://www.npr.org/2019/06/07/730183531/poll-majority-want-to-keep-abortion-legal-but-they-also-want-restrictions They may not want to ban it outright but certain …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:18 AM
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Do you even know how sex works or does everything you know come from watching TV? There has never, in the history of humanity, been a spontaneous pregnancy. That's not how reproduction works. People have to have sex in order to reproduce, so it's obvious that if anyone becomes pregnant, they weren't abstaining from sex. Jeezus. Thanks for saying you have zero evidence to show abstinence works. The fact you can't even produce anything showing it works while you keep on claiming it does just shows…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:13 AM
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Abstinence has never worked? Interesting. Tell me about these cases where people have gotten pregnant while being abstaining from sex. I'd love to hear them. Love to hear all the times, better yet love to see all the evidence showing it works. As all the data shows it doesn't work at all. You can think it works but its proven not to work time and time again. Actually teaching what sex is and what have you and allowing abortions works. There was nothing to be refuted. No you simply don't have an …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:29 AM
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Correction: abstinence works. Nope. It's never proven to work. In fact there are numerous studies including one done by the US government showing it does not at all work. Blah blah blah. Thanks for admitting you have nothing to refute what I said. More so how do women don't even have control over their own bodies? All you doing is proving you want to control women's bodies and what they do and how they act. Women almost dying during pregnancy isn't a very common thing. And yet the US has the hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:44 AM
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John Adams has nothing to do here and every study has shown they have help save lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:25 AM
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No and all men are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:24 AM
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One not a woman hun, and two you just don't want any responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:24 AM
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No it doesn't work. Numerous studies have shown it doesn't work. And if you think channeling teens energy will work you be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:23 AM
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How do you know Rode v Wade won't be overturned? SCOTUS just said the Texas abortion law is legal as it stands. That law effectively bans abortion as women by and large won't know they are pregnant within 6 weeks. And SCOTUS has more conservative judges than liberal ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:59 AM
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Conservatives do need to replace the voters they lost from covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:08 AM
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Seat belt laws have not killed more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:07 AM
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Religious people are often the biggest hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:06 AM
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Funny how the men here don't think men should hold any accountablity here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:04 AM
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It's funny how they are all about saving the baby/fetus over everything else but as soon as its born its fuck the baby/child its on its own now. Its like as if they aren't pro life but about controlling women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:01 AM
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Women want to control men, too. Women aren't stoping you from wearing a condom or that choosing better women to sleep with. Then why'd ya have sex with him? Doesn't sound like it's his fault or men's fault to me. Why did you have sex with her? Why are you so adamant about removing your own responsibility here and placing it all on the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:59 AM
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Texas will only support sex ed if it meant teaching abstinence which has proven not to work. More so the other stuff is socialism in the eyes of conservatives. Pro lifers don't care once the baby is born, they are all about controlling the woman nothing more along with dictating their views on to others. Notice how pro lifers choose the fetus over the woman even when the fetus is threatening the life of the woman? Or that think the woman shouldn't be able to have an abortion when she is raped an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:56 AM
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Texas effectively did this though. And there's an abortion case set to be heard by SCOTUS. Given the ruling from SCOTUS on the Texas law Roe v Wade has a high chance of being over turned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:49 AM
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So really your not pro choice but pro life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:48 AM
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Women very much care what men like, as if they didn't they won't cater to it so much. That said women feed off men's attention and lose it if they didn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:46 AM
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lamo. What scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:14 AM
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Ya he is if you actually understand how to socialize and how use socializing to your advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:13 AM
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Don't ever go outside you invite risk. Or that ever post on the internet either, you just be inviting risk. Afterall life or more so all men are bad. For what it’s worth, when there isn’t a big risk I go out of my way to give men compliments. Ya calling bull on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:09 AM
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No, but women sure won't like it one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:07 AM
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Imagine telling a woman the same thing when a guy approaches her and not to think he wants more than her number.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:18 AM
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That somebody's just walking by and you're like hey nice hair lol is that the kind of compliment you're talking about ?!?? Yes. The walking up giving someone a compliment with no further intention of talking to them is weird odd. But men though should stop giving any short of attention or compliments to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:51 AM
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So men should stop giving women any sort of attention then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:47 AM
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Its a common thing to happen in the US. People like being nice. I know shocking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:05 AM
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Men are so unwilling to understand basic stuff like why women don’t compliment men or why women have sex with very attractive men regardless of their personality. What makes you think all men don't understand this? We all hear about how "hard" life is for you women and how "scary" society is for you. It's kinda hard to avoid really at this point when its part of mainstream media. Women don’t waste time trying to shame men into not doing things like that than they spend time trying to develop str…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:24 AM
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The difference is women don’t act entitled to commitment, Neither do men. Men demanding women give them compliments despite women giving actual reasons why they avoid doing something isn’t UNDERSTANDING and ACCEPTING why women do the things they do . Of course all men demand women to give them compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:20 AM
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There is always a risk with every action no matter how small it is. It must be hard leaving your front door. Now tell me, why does the average women directly benefit from giving random men compliments? So you be all for men stop giving women attention then? As if you think women gain nothing from complimenting random men, then what do men gain from doing the same? Mind you loads of women thrive on getting attention from men. Women have made careers out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:18 AM
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Fearmongering is strong among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:15 AM
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Back in the day they would have a smaller pool to choose from and the hottest dude may have been a 6 among a bunch of 5s. Today she can get attention from a 8 as a 6 herself. Other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:09 AM
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Would would throw a fit if all men stop giving them attention tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:27 AM
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Its funny how women bitch about men taking them giving men compliments as a sign of interest when they aren't interest. Its like gee what do you think happens when men so rarely get compliments from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:25 AM
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So? Socializing leads you to get to know other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:58 AM
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Its one thing to buy you drinks its another to pay for everything. I am really not talking about paying for a drink. You need to keep in mind of culture here. Finland is more progressive socially/culturally than that of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:16 AM
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Simply liking you ain't going to cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:39 AM
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Only if they are head over heels for you and don't know any better. But women aren't falling for it as nearly as much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:34 AM
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eh it depends a bit. Nope least not in the US. Fuckboy in the US has never stop meaning using women for sex or only wanting women for sex. Using women for money in the US is often not seen as either being a loser or a sugar baby (if the guy is with an older woman who is paying for stuff).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:25 AM
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It does but getting financial favors has never been part of the definition of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:01 AM
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It may not be rare in Finland but it is in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:58 AM
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More like men who never get out at all and think what the outside life is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:47 AM
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80/20 doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:43 AM
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Being able to socialize with others especially of the opposite sex increases you getting a relationship or that sex (seeing how many men here think the only thing to life is sex).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:42 AM
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Because these things are totally the same, not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:40 AM
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If you don’t win the casual sex game, you won’t win in the long term relationship game either. The two are very different from one another. Yes attraction plays a part in both, but with relationships you need more than simply be attractive. In fact you can make up for not being that attractive with LTR's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:39 AM
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I mean we all like to make believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:37 AM
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Exactly. These sort of men are going after by and large specific women. Even then they are paying these women or having a fling with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:35 AM
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I am friends with REALLY rich dudes who do this. Find that doubtable. Even if it's true your not talking about that many women even percentage wise. You are grossly overestimating how many women flock to these men who really want them for a fling nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:34 AM
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you aren’t directly competing with them for women where your status is going to matter. You aren't, but that doesn't mean women are shooting as high as possible and that outside of their own social circle and social economic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:27 AM
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In my country women and men in their middle ages have a hard time dating because most people who are marriage material are already married. This is semi true in the US. In citys women are absolutely dating down economially and educationally. This ain't happening in the US. If anything if a woman can't find a marriage material guy she opts out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:04 AM
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So a welder is white collar when they work indoors, got it. Dude you have no clue what white or blue collar means at all. Doctors are if anything blue collar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:34 AM
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This is like saying TRP is gonna teach men to hate women Because they will. I clearly wrote what i said and what the alternatives are, learn to read. Read just fine hun, learn what generalizations are. More so you never told me you never been on FDS, which is odd given you are promoting them. I disagree, a lot of men will do this, not all. Again you might as well say ll men. As you are implying or saying the majority of men do this which is false. Most men do not do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:28 AM
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They're done indoors, sitting at a desk. Just using your flawed logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:25 AM
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Have you ever seen what fashion designers jobs are like? More so by your logic a security guard or a doctor is white collar. As those people sit at a desk indoors. But really learn the difference between white collar and blue collar work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:03 AM
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Yes it is true. Fashion design and writing romance novels aren't exactly white collar and I never said all white collar jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 08:17 AM
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I do explain why and also FDS fits her dating strat really well from what i know of FDS. Her dating strategy isn't to hate men but to date them. FDS will only teach her to hate men. How does that help her any? My wording is accurate Nope. You clearly want to say all men with your blanket generalization. More so I am guessing you are FDS? End result is the same, woman gets strung along until she gets pumped and dumped As all men will do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:26 AM
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Your logic would only hold up if toxic masculinity was used with your logic here. But it's not used in that way. it's applied to all masculinity. More so positive masculinity does not exist within feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:20 AM
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So? You do realize its a white collar job right? Really no white collar job is seen as being masculine or feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:18 AM
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in America at least, doing woodworking and yardwork are considered masculine. Ya because nearly all of those that cut down trees and do gardening/landscaping job wise are men. Making those things being considered masculine. Masculine traits/behaviors are picked for something men do more often than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:05 AM
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How is it and idea when its really talking about behaviors commonly seen/found in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:41 AM
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masculinity - the quality or nature of the male sex : the quality, state, or degree of being masculine or manly I am very aware of what is considered manly has changed over the years and that cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:17 AM
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What makes you think they say that due to emotions and not based upon how the term is used? More so if not all masculinity is toxic then why doesn't positive masculinity exist within feminism? And why does feminists either want to remove masculinity or that change it to their liking?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:55 AM
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i'd also possibly look into /r/femaledatingstrategy as much as people here hate that sub. Why direct a young woman to a man hating sub? What good will come of that? More so what good there from listening to women who are clearly damaged? a lot of men do take advantage of women by luring them in with a relationship carrot and never mean it so a female point of view will be very valuable to you. Why not just say all men instead if you going to say a lot of men? Though a lot of men don't do this on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:46 AM
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Masculinity in general isn't toxic. Yet you say there is toxic masculinity which means today masculinity is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:19 AM
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I think you can use the term Toxic Societal Expectations, or Rigid/ Oppressive Gender Roles. This are far better terms/words than toxic masculinity. As toxic masculinity today is used so broadly by feminist no part of masculinity is positive. This is besides positive masculinity doesn't exist within feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:16 AM
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If that was the case then more men would be expressing their emotions with women but instead do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:42 AM
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I think where most men struggle is that they tie their identity as a man to adhering to traditional masculinity, rather than trying to mold the masculine ideal to fit the type of person they are, which admittedly is more difficult. You aren't wrong. As men as a whole today are questioning where do they fit in today's society. As on one hand society still wants men to be breadwinners and uphold traditional masculine ways/behaviors but at the same time it wants men to express emotions etc but soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:57 AM
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That we need to replace the old traditions of outdated masculinity with new ones? Masculinity itself or what has been considered masculinity has constantly been changing over the years. Do you think we need to go back to men reclaiming the old ones? Old ones being what? Wearing makeup? Being the silent type?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:24 AM
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If you’re a male high school senior in the US, and you haven’t had any sexual success yet, consider not wasting 4 years of your life at a 4-year university if you don’t have what you’re going for mapped out. What do you think the take away will be from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:03 AM
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And you know that how?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:58 AM
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online focus group type stuff/surverys /r/beermoney
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:56 AM
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Stop focusing so much on dating and sex. If you want/need sex so badly go to Nevada. That said join groups and even do volunteering not so you can find a girlfriend but to make friends. Those groups you where in that had mostly couples probably know a woman that is single. But you won't know because you never made friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:50 AM
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I think it’s proven men tend to try and reach more as a gender Prove it then. That meme about the guy with a gut criticizing a model’s elbows still is a thing. People being critical of models is always a thing. But you are only focused on physical looks not other things like money and education which women no men focus on more. Yes women in general do not place much value on a man's physical looks as they place much higher value on his social economic status along with his education and job even…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:46 AM
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We know the stats on alcoholism for women is and how it compares to men. We even know what sort of drinks men and women generally drink. We have the data and have even a few possible answers to why.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:34 PM
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Masculinity is a concept. How is it a concept when it means how men behave?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:30 PM
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Society is just more open to men who don't follow traditionally masculine gender roles Society isn't more open to such a thing though. Society today simply expects more from men than before all while reinforcing men's gender roles. They're not less likely to find a woman, either. Feminine men are less likely to find a woman though. Yes there are some women who like such men, but the vast majority of women want a man who is masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:27 PM
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Some women do want a relationship. But I even think the women who say they don't want or need a relationship least with men in some ways still want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:18 PM
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But women are competing with each other least for the men who are deemed to be marriage material. As those men are becoming in shorter supply these days. And less and less men are pursing life to make them deemed to be marriage material. https://cafemom.com/lifestyle/177711-marriage_husband_material_men_shortage https://www.cnbc.com/2017/05/17/economists-men-now-need-more-than-just-money-to-be-marriageable.html Also if the majority of women simply want a good normal guy I think dating for men be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:10 PM
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