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I'm not sure. He's a beautiful kid .... but I also didn't choose to have him
/r/TheRedPill01/08/21 07:43 AM
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Not sure where you get this "should" from. Is there not a range between scumbag and a perfect human? There is also a range of how much you are willing to sacrifice, I think. Will you buy no beer and put it all in your kids' college fund? Will you remove all joy from your life and live vicariously through your kids? Would you want to set that example for your kids? You have what you feel is good for you to do for your children, I have what I think is good for mine ... and I will not teach him to …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/21 07:56 PM
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I do love my son ... but I don't know what unconditionally means. I'm sure you don't mean "give into his every whim" or "stay with his mother even if she is verbally abusive" or "tell him I love him and it's fine if he hits me" ... maybe you can explain.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/21 01:52 PM
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Awesome reply. I can love my woman, hell two or three, I can love my son, I can love my dog. But this doesn't mean that I'm going to sacrifice my life for them. It means I enjoy spending time with them, and that I want the good for them. I may even *enjoy* making smallish "sacrifices" for them --- playing a game my son likes, instead of reading, for example. But I do these things to the point that we both enjoy them ... no more. You are in charge of living your life in a way that you feel good .…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 06:17 AM
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The first two can lead to a dead relationship even when the last isn't really present ... although it can begin to manifest in a dead relationship after a while.
/r/seduction07/05/21 08:36 AM
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Not bad. One of the main things is just being comfortable. I would add a few things. Exercise. You should be doing that anyway. Lift and HIIT. Your dick works with your cardiovascular system, so keep it healthy. Take your time. Learn to eat pussy really well...if you like it...if you don't, find a woman who tastes better. A big part of good sex is simply abundance mentality. Do what you like, if she doesn't like that, don't blame her, just find someone compatible. Take your time, why are you fra…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 08:25 AM
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No big surprise, most women are more risk averse than most men. That's just their nature ... no reason to hate on them for it. "Independent" or "branch-swinging" --- they come from basically the same root --- aversion to risk.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 08:09 PM
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I think you can find better explanations online. It's just missionary, but instead of thrusting, placing your body a bit further up, letting your weight rest more on your pubis and onto hers (on her clit, which you may be able to feel as a little bump), and then rocking forward and backward, or side to side or circles. Again, your weight on feet, pubis and arms, not knees. It can help to prop her butt up a bit to get the angle right. Like I said, not thrusting, maintain contact between your pubi…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 07:07 PM
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I'm not sure who you're referring to ...
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 01:58 PM
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Exactly, it's a need, but it can be an art
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 11:33 AM
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Seems to be in the anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 09:41 AM
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Not bad. For everything you want to do to a woman, there is a woman who wants that done to her ... or is very willing to do so to please you. We tend to say that "AWALT" here. And yes, AWALT, but that doesn't mean that all women are the same. Different women have different sexual desires or hang-ups ... it's your job to find one (or more) who do what you want for you. As stated, most women like to have a man in control during sex ... most of the time. Just fuck her however you want ... talk to h…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 09:40 AM
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Have opinions, don't be afraid to share them, be honest ... maybe even a slight caricature of yourself, but honest. This doesn't mean insult people, of course. But be willing to talk about your past, your religion (or lack thereof), your politics, sex. Sex, religion and politics are the forbidden topics of polite conversation ... you're not trying to be polite, you're trying to be interesting. Women prefer unashamed, honest, great men to polite, good men. One thing that can help is stories. You …
/r/seduction20/04/21 07:13 PM
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Top quality post I would clarify the sex drive a bit, they definitely have a drive ... and for all the things you want to do to a woman, there is a woman who wants those done to her. There may be some difference in the origin of the drive, but women want to be fucked ... especially if you're good at giving them orgasms. However, a woman's sex drive also changes through the month. When she's ovulating, she'll have the desire to fuck a random handsome stranger on the street behind the bar (not tha…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/21 06:55 AM
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Yes, women are attracted to power. The point is just that power and status are different things ... perhaps status is simply a manifestation of social power. Power can refer to someone alone on a desert island ... they may or may not have the power to do a certain thing. Status always refers to a social relation.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 12:01 PM
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"Power" is just the closest English word ... and allows one to make a physics metaphor. As I said, "power" can come in many forms. This can include simply a talent like playing guitar --- the power to entertain. Even "freedom" ... the will power to live as one wants or free from societal norms can be a kind of power in this sense. There are some other things that might make you interesting as a person too, and that's very important ... but not necessarily attractive ...
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:31 PM
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You're talking about bottoms attracted to tops for the most part. We can talk about free will if you like ... but it's kinda outside the scope of this sub. I do agree that one of the most attractive "powers" is simply the power of will. Agree about the insignificance of brute strength ... however, we're talking about attractiveness ... and our attractions haven't caught up with the modern world. I agree that social power (either via wealth or politics) is the highest. I also think power gained v…
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:25 PM
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No. Men aren't particularly attracted to power in women. And men aren't generally attracted to power in other men either. Weak men are often envious or afraid of powerful men ... this can manifest as simple fear or as disgust/hate. You're talking about social power -- that is one manifestation of power. Others include brute strength, engineering intelligence and the ability to get food. Free will doesn't enter into it. This is somewhat correct ... but women are attracted to different kinds of po…
/r/seduction26/03/21 07:39 PM
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"Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live." - Oscar Wilde Read How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World
/r/seduction26/03/21 03:02 PM
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Thanks. I've said this many times on reddit ... to the point that it's basically a copypasta for me. Learn now what it took me years to distill down to the essence. My father was a good man, but never taught me this ... perhaps he didn't know it. These things have to be modelled, but they need to be said directly too ... at least for some of us. Lift. It helps you to become more physically powerful. But it also teaches you how to pursue a long-term goal. It teaches you how to learn a skill ... t…
/r/seduction26/03/21 02:57 PM
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Yeah, no. Women are attracted to power. Power is the ability to get shit done now. Different women are attracted to different types/manifestations/signals of power under different circumstances, at different times, in different places. Hell, some women may even be disgusted by certain very extreme signals of power (like Ronnie Coleman), but they will generally overlook it. Power is not bad. Power is good. Power means the ability to get stuff done for yourself and for those around you (including …
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:28 AM
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Read How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World
/r/seduction24/03/21 05:47 PM
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Lift. It's not just about getting big and strong. It's about learning to set reasonable goals. It's about creating *habits* of self-improvement. It's about learning that you need time to adapt --- both your body and your mind. It's about failing, forgiving yourself, saying "okay, that's my limit", treating yourself well, keep working out, and trying again next week. It's about learning how to really progress in life. Second, read How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World Third, it's not bad to find…
/r/seduction21/03/21 07:52 AM
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Are You Chasing the Wrong Goals? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q9qtLY3SqqI
/r/TheRedPill20/03/21 03:54 PM
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The same goes for women too. They sell themselves as put together, fun, sexy, pretty, carefree... and much of that disappears after a man is locked down, either by marriage or a baby. Especially with a baby, it's understandable that priorities may change, but one needs to be very conscious of it. I don't think this change in behaviour can be stopped, because it stems from a change in attitude and emotion. Then, what you spoke of and this fall into a vicious spiral of disappointment...with no rea…
/r/seduction18/03/21 02:11 PM
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This is a great reply in its truth ... however, it hinges on people following a common fallacy: the sunk cost fallacy (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_cost). People have a tendency to keep investing in what they have already invested a lot into. I'm not certain, but I think this is particularly true of women ... perhaps this is related to how their biology is different.
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:12 AM
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The point is that other people may value you differently from how you value yourself. At least, if we're going to talk somewhat outside of seduction, some people may actually value that part of you, they may value the understanding of them that it allows you to give. That said, talking about seduction, what most women are attracted to is power. Power comes in many forms though, and different women are attracted to different kinds in different degrees at different times. Power includes: physical …
/r/seduction18/03/21 08:15 AM
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Absolutely. u/are_those_real talks about the "Love Languages" as well ... and there is some truth to that. Unfortunately, as you say, many people seem to have the instinct that others "speak the same language" ... and that can lead to misunderstanding. Honestly, one can learn to please people by learning their language, but this can be emotionally unfulfilling ... especially when it isn't reciprocated. It's much better to find someone whose language is, not the same, but complementary. I say com…
/r/seduction17/03/21 08:09 PM
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This goes from the most crude: you want to fuck, she wants *to be* fucked. Maybe you don't like to be slapped or choked ... but a lot of women like that. Maybe you want someone to cuddle up in your lap ... that doesn't mean you should cuddle up in hers. Maybe you want a woman to cook you breakfast ... that doesn't mean she wants the same thing (or not with the same intensity or frequency anyway). Maybe you don't give a shit if she buys you a drink ... but you enjoy buying stuff for her and she e…
/r/seduction17/03/21 08:02 PM
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This is not just seduction, this is life and economics. People have different things and want different things ... that's what makes cooperation and division of labor reasonable. Don't treat people as you would want to be treated, treat them as they want to be treated. Maybe you don't have the intelligence or empathy to know what other people want. Then just be honest about what you have in abundance, what you can easily give/trade. People who want those things, people who will be happy with you…
/r/seduction17/03/21 04:57 PM
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ASD?
/r/seduction10/03/21 07:51 AM
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You will never convince anyone of anything they are not emotionally prepared (or at least open) to believe by logical argument. Even a mathematician, which I am, will struggle with a logical proof whose conclusions radically alter their worldview ... just think of the reactions to Goedel. Even the most logical person must essentially go through all the "stages of grief" to come to terms with a radical change. That said, seduction isn't about radically changing someone's view ... that simply isn'…
/r/seduction09/03/21 03:50 PM
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TLDR: We are all entrepreneurs, capitalists and laborers. Some economics over analysis: People tend to conflate the functions of entrepreneur and capitalist in discussing business. Sure, one person usually takes on both roles (to some extent) in a new business, but no person is completely without a share of these functions. Separating the functions, a pure "capitalist" would be someone who had no interest in the business and took no risk, they only supplied the capital (a loan) and expect only i…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/21 11:06 AM
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And are those within modern Western cultures with norms and morals that reinforce those same structures? Or are they in cultures which have radically different norms?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 08:31 PM
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It depends on what you mean by "stable environment." A traditional nuclear family, assuming it's happy, is a "stable environment." A traditional family of a man with several wives, assuming it's happy, is a "stable environment." Hell, a single parent home, as long as it doesn't change much, is a "stable environment." You may have some kind of moral attachment to one of these, but "stability" isn't the word you're looking for to justify it. You may think that children need a male presence while g…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 06:21 PM
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Monogamy for life is silly. I mean, I prefer to have a little harem, but sometimes I'm okay with monogamy for a while. The point is, most people are "serial monogamists" ... but then we have this cultural hang-up on marriage and kids.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 10:01 AM
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Like I said, I agree. Tend your garden, butterflies will come, take your pick.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 03:42 PM
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Totally agree, but getting more powerful means being able to do more stuff, it means being able to make life better for yourself and your friends (and your women) ... if more men will get strong, fit, get a decent job and a fun hobby and enjoy life, I don't care what starts their quest.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 03:12 PM
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Hell, women like bald/balding men ... it's a sign of testosterone ... as long as you have some other indicators of power.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 09:54 AM
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Women are drawn to power --- get as powerful as you can in every way. Now, different women are attracted to different types or indicators of power at different times, in different contexts. And, sometimes, too much power will make a woman feel insecure ... hell, really excessive muscles or even displays of wealth might be disgusting for some women. The fact remains, women are attracted to power, and you're unlikely to reach a point where most women are less attracted to you because of your power…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 08:21 AM
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Lift. Travel --- especially alone sometimes. Live alone, learn to cook, clean, take care of yourself, etc. Have some passion/hobby and make some friends. Learn that learning a fact can be instantaneous, but learning a skill or developing your body takes time and practice ... skills/development like: muscles, a language, music, speaking, mathematics, programming, meditation, sex. The body, including the mind/emotions, takes time to really learn --- practice, repeat ... spaced repetition... "If yo…
/r/seduction09/11/20 08:50 AM
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Eh ... certainly, you have to advertise the garden a bit. Flowers exist for a reason. If you have a great body, but wear clothes that are too big ... that's bad advertisement. And, yes, you need to learn to approach and chat to potential buyers ... but first you have to believe you have something to sell.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/20 10:54 AM
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Meh, I'm basically going to agree with u/Keith_Valentine. What's attractive is power ... and self-confidence (which is really just a signal of power). That's not to say the post is wrong, we do need somewhat detailed information on how to lift, for example. But the best way to develop self-confidence is to simply get better, get stronger, get smarter, get richer, get more powerful. And by doing these things on your own: lifting, learning jujitsu or guitar or a language. You should come to realiz…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/20 08:04 AM
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I'm not interested in devoting time to reading all the formatting guidelines. Communicate them in a few bullet points and I'll happily actually read them next time. Feel free to nuke the post if you want, but I see this place turning into an echo chamber if you strictly enforce those lengthy formatting rules ... frankly, many of the posts I see are from major contributors, so maybe that's already happening ... and maybe it's intentional, that's fine with me. Have you ever read "How I Found Freed…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 05:26 PM
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Maybe a bit forced, again, probably the model could be improved. "Logistics" is quite different from "production," "communication," or "protection" though. Notice I put "drive" in logistics ... this isn't a given in Europe, for example. One could also put map reading. Many people don't get around very well without their GPS anymore. On the other side, "production," "communication," and "protection" are things we all do too. In production: most people can cook something. In communication: basical…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 05:51 AM
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It's a book by Harry Browne ... if you want a pdf, you can find it on libgen.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 05:36 AM
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Power over people is convincing them that they want to do what you want them to do...but one might simply be Superman and not need power over people.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 10:34 PM
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Have you ever read How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 10:32 PM
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You're a bit confused. It's the neutral girl that you want to polarize quickly into either hot or cold. You can do this by being a slight caricature of yourself, this more distinct and bold version of yourself helps her make up her mind ... and in the "correct" direction.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 10:17 AM
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Not that it's related, but I had one woman self-aware enough to tell me "my pussy never lies" ... and she's right, a wet pussy (or a dry one) doesn't often lie, those are honeyed lips you can trust to tell you the truth.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 09:37 PM
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Women are attracted to power, different women to different types in different contexts. Get powerful and confident in every way you can ... but don't overextend into too many areas, git gud. Lift, money, passion, talk confidently. One thing about talking confidently, nobody likes a fucking list of facts about you or anything else, tell a fucking story ... a joke is not just the punchline.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 06:31 PM
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Women are attracted to power of basically every kind. Different kinds to different degrees for different women at different times under different circumstances. Maybe it's more correct to say that women are repelled by weakness. Anyway, become as powerful as you can, it means being able to do more for yourself and those around you.
/r/seduction15/11/19 06:48 PM
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I can count the number of women I've slept with on my hands...then again, I can count to over a thousand on my hands
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 12:20 PM
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You haven't really said anything worth commenting on. If you think "domination" means "missionary" ...
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 03:47 PM
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Is it sabotage or just testing? Who can tell. I do know this: women are attracted to power. And though they like to "have freedom" in civilized society (besides, are you so weak that you have to control her every move) --- most like to be utterly dominated in the bed ... and know well that being bratty is sometimes a way to get a forceful reaction.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 11:15 AM
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Women are attracted to power. Power comes in various forms. But sometimes it means being able to do whatever the fuck you want (but that's just freedom) and being powerful enough to not pay serious social consequences ... being untamed, but not a beggar. There are many ways to appear untamed. A motorcycle, an extreme sport, but one of the best ways is to let her know that you have other women. However, for the fantasy to continue, she has to think there is some chance of taming you, that she is,…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 09:36 AM
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Women are attracted to power. Different women are attracted to different manifestations, types, displays, etc. of power (at different times, under different circumstances, etc.). Economics says that women should be attracted to the more rare types of power or power that they don't have (though they probably have a baseline for the other types). What are some types of power? Wealth, intelligence, good looks, experience (and stories), confidence, physical size and strength, useful friends, a unifo…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 07:58 PM
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I have to believe in free will. But anyway, to have this driven home, take up playing chess or go/baduk/weichi --- always reacting to the opponent, not examining the situation more broadly and taking the best action, is a good way to be led around and lose.
/r/becomeaman19/08/19 07:21 PM
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It's not bullshit, but yes, the flowers need to be attractive and perfuming ... and you still have to have the net. No one is saying that women should chase you, I'm saying that the basis is to be powerful/attractive (part of powerful being assertiveness, confidence, etc) and then it doesn't really matter what you say.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 05:21 PM
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She should always see your value as higher than hers ... and higher than the other men around. I never said "don't approach" or "don't use a net."
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 04:06 PM
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So, you're short, weak, ugly, bad teeth, smell bad, stupid, poor, no friends, etc. That's not my fault, and I don't owe you anything. Improve yourself as much as you can and find some value you can offer to others, and thereby become more powerful.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 12:42 PM
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You will catch more butterflies (farfalle, you get the point from the shape) with a garden than a net. Tend your garden. Go to the gym. Become important at work and in your social circle. Cultivate power --- power being the ability to get shit done.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 09:22 AM
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Related to this: if you have a son, get him a dog, hell, get a dog yourself. Owning and training a dog, preferably from a puppy, will help you learn how to keep frame. It will help you learn to be patient, it will help you learn to teach, instruct and correct with patience and without violence --- or it should, if it doesn't, you're a piece of shit and need a lot of work. The gym teaches you to fail and get back up, to have a goal and pursue it even with small failures, to not be too hard on you…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 05:46 PM
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Just to add to this a tiny bit, people like stories, not facts. The best games usually have a storyline or allow you to make your own in a big world. When you tell people about yourself, don't list facts, tell stories. If you need to, sit down and write the stories of your life. It doesn't have to be a complete and continuous narrative, just different episodes. Start with a list of facts if you need to. Then write, and polish. The point is not to memorize, but to have these stories come to mind …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 06:44 AM
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Others have already added partial corrections, but I'll add mine. You're not really wrong, but you need to go another layer deeper (besides it being important that *you* enjoy yourself). You will fail. That's a fact of life. Lifting (and school and million other things) should have taught you that already. Another quality (besides intelligence) that I didn't mention is resilience. You fail, you don't break. You get up and make the best of it. The wine isn't good? It's not the end of the world, i…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 06:24 PM
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Women are attracted to power. Different types of power attract different women more or less. What is "power?" Borrowing from physics (which borrowed from standard usage), power is the ability to get work done quickly. Being indecisive will really affect a man's ability to get shit done quickly. Not that women always want a man to do things fast, but decisiveness, strength, wealth, friends, political power, high ranking job, confidence (from having succeeding in doing the thing before) ... all of…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 05:44 PM
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Goods are valued "on the margin," see: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marginalism When we consider this, it's not surprising that a liter of water costs less than a gram of gold --- even though we might value "all the water" much more than "all the gold." "All the water" and "all the gold" is never for sale on the market. Similarly, a "thirsty" man is willing to pay a lot more for "water," whereas a man who gets all he wants will pay very little or have higher standards for the water he consumes.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 06:23 PM
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Russell was a brilliant mathematician and logician. One can generally not argue with his reasoning, but his assumptions, in matters of politics, economics and relationships, are best examined very carefully...they are often wrong, unjustified or just not stated.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 06:48 AM
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Do you read books that are just lists of facts? People like stories, novels, character development, conflict, resolution, etc. People read novels, not so much the list of Guinness records. Again, don't just list your hobbies. Tell the story of that one time you travelled to Spain. Don't ask directly what her hobbies are --- that's asking for a boring list. Ask her if she has stories. It's fine to "I like girls who are into x" or "You seem like a girl who x and y" ... but you might want to have a…
/r/seduction06/03/19 01:52 PM
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Honestly, I'm a pretty bad conversationalist. The main thing is to *have something to say* --- as in, have likes, dislikes, opinions, hobbies, interests, travels, experiences, stories and, yes, jokes. Don't shy away from the "forbidden" topics of sex, politics and religion. Sit down and learn (write out) a few jokes. "I like my coffee like I like my women...endless punchlines." Sit down and write *your* stories. You might have to start with that "list of facts" about yourself. Lists of facts jus…
/r/seduction05/03/19 05:40 PM
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If you build it they will come. The point is to build yourself into something you're more proud of, to begin to see what you're really capable of --- absent of any approval from women. It's basically "monk mode" except that I wouldn't suggest that you totally ignore women. You'll attract more butterflies with a flower garden than with a net. Girls are part of the process, but no amount of chatting ability is going to turn a sow's ear into a silk purse. You have to put in the hard work to improve…
/r/seduction05/03/19 09:04 AM
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Read Models. Get as powerful as you can. Women are attracted to power, different kinds for different women, but they're all attracted to power and the confidence that comes with it. Lift. Heavy. Not only will lifting heavy make you stronger, more physically powerful, and more aesthetic (if you don't over bulk) but it will teach you about dedication, perseverance, and consistency in all types of self-improvement. Speaking of which, getting more powerful just means, improving yourself. Power is go…
/r/seduction04/03/19 08:09 PM
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Very true, if you have time. Starting Strength is good for establishing a basis though, and perhaps more importantly here, better at reinforcing the habit of going to the gym with very frequent PRs. After establishing base strength and habit, it's definitely a good idea to switch to a program better designed for muscle growth.
/r/seduction15/02/19 08:28 AM
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Models is not "be yourself" shit, it's "improve yourself and be the best, even slightly caricatured, version of yourself." There's nothing wrong with outer game, but if you're not actively improving yourself it will always be a mask.
/r/seduction15/02/19 08:23 AM
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I haven't read The Rational Male yet, maybe I should. Women "say" they aren't attracted to strength/muscles, but they are ... though there is a limit. And, again, different women are attracted to different types of power to different degrees. 5x5 is a good start, but really I've found that Starting Strength (3 sets of 5) works a bit better ... 5x5 is just a bit too much volume for a novice to recover from. Still, the main thing is lift, lift heavy and do compound movements to save time. Also, ge…
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:26 PM
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Read Models. Lift. Women are attracted to power...different types of power for different women. Power is good. Power is simply the ability to get shit done. Become as powerful as you can.
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:02 PM
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Ignore the haters. This is exactly what most women are attracted to, though, as I said, in various degrees and to various manifestations. If you find a lack of confidence so creepy that you can't even form a friendship, so be it. It's not like we can actually judge from a few words what degree of lack of confidence and lack of friendship you mean. Unfortunately, most of the guys here will hear this as "treat women like shit and they'll like it" ... but a few will eventually learn.
/r/seduction13/12/18 11:20 AM
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Women are attracted to power. Different women are attracted more or less to different manifestations of power, depending on current, cultural and personal circumstances. Manifestations of power include: physical strength/power, money, social/governmental power, intelligence, "freedom", etc. Power is simply the ability to get shit done quickly, or, amount of work done per unit of time to steal from physics ... which stole the term from natural language. As such, power is not evil. Power is simply…
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:04 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson, it has a lot more detail. I actually came up with this after reading other stuff and my own life experiences, but he says basically the same thing --- with examples, exercises, etc.
/r/seduction26/11/18 11:54 AM
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"All models are wrong, but some are useful." Simple models of the world allow fast calculation, decision and action, closing the OODA loop faster. Women are attracted to power. Power is manifested in many ways: wealth, physical strength, intelligence, authority, etc. People want what they don't have, or what is scarce. Therefore, different women may be more attracted to different manifestations of power. "Improve yourself" means get more power. Power is not evil. Power is simply the ability to d…
/r/seduction08/11/18 01:49 PM
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Power is, partly, the ability to do violence. Really, that's what political power is, the power to (legally) use force to make others do what you want. However, power can also be constructive. Power is simply, as I said, the ability to get work done quickly --- that could easily be building a house, getting a table at a restaurant or traveling/moving or any number of other useful things. Of course, power should also include the ability for violence, the ability to protect what one has.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 07:33 PM
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Power, not strength. People respect power. Women are attracted to power. What is power? Taking an analogy from physics, which stole it from language, power is the ability to do work in a short amount of time. Power is the ability to get shit done now. Money gives power ... as long as what you want is for sale. Political/social influence gives power ... as long as other people can provide what you want. Physical power is power ... as long as you just need to move a physical object. Intellect give…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 06:02 PM
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Now read Rothbard's 'The Ethics of Liberty'.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 03:34 PM
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Fit, fabric, style, (brand). I used to hate people showing off their brands, but it's a type of "peacocking" which is generally an honest signal ... then again, it just shows you've got the bucks, fit is more important.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 03:21 PM
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Cool, so it's an idea you had yourself, will you also develop the front-end? Will it be a mobile game? What kind of supply and demand? Fixed supplies of some things and growing supplies of others? Will labor/collection also be considered of limited supply?
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:29 PM
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So you're interested in economics? Are you familiar with Milton Friedman and Thomas Sowell?
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:06 PM
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Cool, what kind of programming --- I'm doing some programming in python now ... a racecar controller for TORCS. What kind of systems --- I prefer Linux.
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:54 PM
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Ok, try the FORD method for small talk: Friends, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams. What do you do for a living, by the way?
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:34 PM
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Well, you already said you're hitting the weights. Reduce the sugar and increase protein and fat. Try fasting for a couple of days and then maybe go for eating once a day. For your mental health, first the exercise and diet, but also: go outside in the sunlight to walk/exercise, sleep with the blinds open if you can --- get up when the light wakes you up, go to sleep when it gets dark (plan for 8 hours and no screen-time for an hour before bed), try meditating (just sit and count your breaths to…
/r/seduction07/07/17 02:51 PM
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The oriental styles are mostly bullshit. Maybe they can teach children respect and work-ethic and they can also help teach body-awareness, self-control and meditative techniques --- but those can all be more effectively taught (without the risk of injury) by other methods.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:31 PM
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Usefulness of self-defense is minimal. Likelihood of injury is high. Take up a sport like hiking and a 'martial' game like chess or baduk. Or don't if you like martial arts ... but do learn how to deal with conflict and frequent loss.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:30 PM
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80 percent of the benefit comes from 20 percent of the work. Cut all refined sugar. Try fasting for an off day (if you medically can) --- you'll find that after the initial hunger when your glycogen reserves deplete, you'll actually have plenty of energy from a different metabolic pathway ... one that burns fat. Do a little something to improve yourself mentally every day ... you don't have to do a lot, just make a habit of it -- same with health basically. Use duolingo to start learning another…
/r/becomeaman14/12/16 06:25 AM
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Pride is true happiness. For a woman, pride in her man.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 06:09 PM
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Fail early and often, one learns through failure (or should) and it's better to make several smaller "failures" early than to have a catastrophic failure later. Learn how to fail gracefully, learn the failure modes of the things you do (learn how to properly "fail"/end a relationship, learn how to fail a lift, etc.), understand that often you don't get a choice about whether something will fail, but you often can plan to have it fail in a way that isn't catastrophic. Take up chess or go/weiqi/ba…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 01:06 AM
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Here's a little something. Don't try to make people happy, make them proud. Pride is the path to true happiness.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 10:28 AM
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No, they don't necessarily. For one, often priests used religion for personal gain. But let's suppose you mean true believers. I agree that religion in itself isn't logical (but makes sense evolutionarily) --- but, if we have established that a much greater force exists, then it's just stupid to directly oppose it. Would you willingly fight a lion with your bare hands ... or are you too BP for it?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 06:19 PM
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You're wrong. I'm not religious, but you can't really support a statement that all religion is BP --- you can certainly give many examples which are, but this doesn't necessarily apply to all. You may say that many religions are about control --- this may be true, but then, those who have power within the religion can use it for their purposes --- something very not BP. Also, not all religions need be about control. It's kinda stupid to bring up "fake" religions (but aren't they all, and some fa…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 06:15 PM
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I think you mean Christianity --- or the modern Western interpretation of it anyway. I don't think we can call the religions of the ancient Greeks, Romans or the Norse BP.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 05:32 PM
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A few books not on your list: Don Quixote --- the death of chivalry happened long ago. The Iliad --- forget fighting over a woman, these men fought for glory and honor. Some Ayn Rand. Maybe some Byron.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 06:25 PM
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Wrong. Some women (some wives or long-term girlfriends) prefer to give bjs as "duty sex."
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 07:40 PM
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But funnily enough, this is a large part of the advice here. And men need a 'manspace' to complain and learn about relationship problems -- women sure as fuck do it.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 01:57 PM
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What /u/seattleron said. I don't think it's so bad though. Realize that the world is changing faster than when you were a kid. Look at the difference between you and your dad's lives -- the difference between you and your kid's would be more than twice that. Don't expect your kid to be anything like you -- that's a thing of the past. You have a 50% chance of having a girl -- is that what you want? Even if you have a boy and try to do everything right, there's a better than 50% chance that he'll …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 07:22 PM
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There are two types of Italian women ...
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 08:07 PM
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This is truly hilarious now. I said I liked your post but didn't agree with your use of "Golden Rule," but you're incapable of taking advice without flying into a rage. Learn to control your emotions -- play some chess or go/baduk against people better than you. Also, don't waste your time with (people you think are) trolls. PS: That's the joke.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 01:50 PM
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It's funny, I have been published. Now you're resorting to ad hominem attacks to defend what was a mistake. The rest of the post is good, just don't call it the "Golden Rule," call it the "Red Rule" or something.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:57 AM
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Words have meanings, learn to use them or you'll be misunderestimated.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:30 AM
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Don't call it the Golden Rule then.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:15 AM
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The Golden Rule is wrong. I treated my wife like I wanted to be treated -- it didn't work -- I respected her, but she didn't respect me. Treat others how they would like or how they deserve to be treated -- not everyone wants or deserves the same thing. edit: my example is apparently not clear enough. The Golden rule, as it is usually known, is an application of egoism to morality ... it's a way for people who can't imagine other people's needs and wants to act morally. Read some Nietzsche or Ay…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 08:31 AM
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All is information ultimately -- arrangements of matter. Not that so much generality helps obtain more in the "real" world. Want to internalize some of the relationship between resources and power? Practice Go some -- sharpen yourself against other hard minds. In Go, space is wealth and stones are power. In life there are many types of resources, with different liquidity, etc., but power ...
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 10:55 AM
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Yes, they've already had children from the first father. It's still evolutionarily advantageous for them to have as many different genes in their children as possible -- it's more likely that one of them will survive that way. They still want to breed with as many partners as possible, to increase the genetic diversity of their offspring -- though this number is clearly more limited than what is possible for a man.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 02:01 PM
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Most of the women I've known prefer dogs ... they like fidelity and don't like competition from cats. Women are cats.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:43 PM
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It's probably true to some degree. What happens then when you've been married to a girl on BC for some years, you're used to being a BB nurturer and then you decide to have children? Suddenly she's ovulating and you've been trained to be a nurturer for so long ... However, before we really began connecting sex to reproduction, women didn't really spend much time ovulating -- perhaps once a year if she weaned soon. So ancient women probably sought out BB (or her own family) most of her life and A…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 07:12 PM
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The worst is when she's not regular. Or on BC (to help with regularity) and she's on "pregnant" hormones all the time -- meaning she really does want a BB, but no sex.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 04:50 PM
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It means Chad fucked her and left her, but she "sees" how she didn't like various qualities of his. Or it means she dumped/shit tested him and he just said "Ok, I just want you to be happy."
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 09:29 PM
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Sucks to like tiny, slim women and not like Asians ...
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 05:40 PM
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Don't demean Hephaestus. He was one of the few gods to actually do anything. He even made robotic servants for the gods.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:16 AM
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I like the Greek gods as personas. I think Aphrodite is the one we're most concerned with here -- notice how she is married to Hephaestus and fucks Ares?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:54 PM
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Travel.
/r/becomeaman16/07/15 07:52 AM
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Do you have a job ... or a career? Do you have long term plans, concrete goals that you're working toward ... even for lifting. Get a dog, learn how to train it with 50 percent reward.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:36 AM
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I feel like the best response to this post is no response.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 01:24 PM
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There is a time to think and a time to act. Look up the OODA Loop and practice it by playing timed chess or go. One of the most important lessons there is "Think on opponent's time (act on yours)."
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:17 PM
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Start doing 'guy stuff' ... go lift in the gym anf talk to the guys.
/r/seduction26/03/15 07:41 AM
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Bull. I live in Milano ... they're not the most open Italians, but I get plenty of looks, plenty of tinder matches and talk to plenty of girls. So many beautiful models here too.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 09:15 AM
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It might be because we're domesticating ourselves -- tends to produce juvenile qualities in adults. It's not all bad -- it also allows us to learn for a longer period.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:36 PM
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I don't agree with your statement as written -- it's too general. But in this case I agree.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 09:07 AM
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The Greeks had a word for it: arete.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 11:17 PM
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Huh, I've been overseas for a couple of years and didn't hear I guess. Now if they'll just accept atheists. I love the Scouts, it's the only real boy only environment, except sports. Sports are also great, but there's only so much they can teach you.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:46 PM
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Become a Boy Scout Master ... skip as much of the religious and homophobic stuff as you can.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 10:14 AM
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This is sort of the opposite of the 'No true Scotsman' fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:17 PM
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Homosexuality may be caused by epigenetic factors as well. Essentially, the mother may not allow enough testosterone in the womb. This is particularly common in women who have several sons ... the younger ones have a greater chance of being gay. Basically, the mother's womb is getting better at fighting the 'foreign' fetus. Some studies indicate that vegetarians have a higher rate of girl births ... this may be an adaptation for a conservative reproductive strategy in the face of famine. I wonde…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:51 PM
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I doubt it. There is a reason suburbia exists, this is the density humans are most comfortable at --- with villages of about 100 people. I don't think Australia is that big --- certainly not with the classic environment we desire: mix of grass, large trees with low branches and water.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:38 PM
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We have abundant resources, except space --- we haven't evolved to live in the overcrowded and overstimulating environment of the modern city.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:31 PM
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Check out the 'gay uncle' theory. Remember that evolution occurs on a population scale, not individual --- at least for social animals.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:28 PM
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I've been harping on the game of go quite a bit in this sub, but it's particularly appropriate here. Go allows a wonderful handicap system and one of the lessons is that even a huge advantage can be squandered by shortsightedness and unwillingness to sacrifice. I was that guy ... 9/10 looks, 10/10 brain and 8/10 wealth ... most of my twenties were spent in a marriage that has failed (usual reasons). Don't be that guy ... lose your first 50 games as quickly as possible.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 03:54 PM
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But did they teach you ... hmm, I'm guessing they didn't really teach you how to apply yourself. On the other hand, my parents didn't teach me how other people would view me. I have a PhD in math, but no one expects to here that in Milano. Also, I was so sheltered that 'being handsome' isn't really a part of my personality ... coming to Milano was an eye opening experience in emphathy for me.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:25 PM
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I have a question. Did your parents do a good job raising you? My parents aren't exactly wealthy, and my dad isn't extremely RP, but I think they did as well as they could under the circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 10:27 AM
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Man ... this hits hard. I'm going to have to read it again. Have you ever lived in Milan, btw?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 10:09 AM
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It's weird, I'm straight, but I often like art (particularly statutes) depicting men more than women. Women can be beautiful, but rarely sublime.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 12:34 AM
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Why do you care? Gay men can also be manly. NSFW
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 07:50 PM
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The problem with this is no matter how "alpha" you are, once a woman knows you make, or have the potential to make, good money she may put you in the LTR ladder. Shall I squander my abilities and my desires for a nice income and life just so I'll be in some bitches "fucks ladder"? I say no.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 07:42 PM
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Anger is not wrong, but initiating (physical) violence is.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:59 PM
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No. I'm suggesting that it can teach you many things about life, strategy, mental toughness and humility ... probably better than chess.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:15 AM
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It's an Asian strategy game. Easy to learn, difficult to master.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 11:35 PM
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Perhaps not. Read up on go/baduk/weichi and protection from invasion or reduction.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:31 PM
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True. It is a common tactic in the game of go/baduk/weichi to forcefully invade what should be the other's territory when behind. There is no good way to defend except to hurt them equally badly in another area.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:29 PM
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And suddenly everyone loves a strong man who can tell a woman off when she's being a bitch...
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 01:30 PM
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Not talking about joking so much as just keeping frame in sometimes awkward moments, e.g. a position she hasn't tried before.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 10:40 AM
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The point is that laughing is a great way to maintain frame when you inevitably do something a bit awkward.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 10:39 AM
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My father sacrificed too much for my mother and now that he's retired due to injury I'm seeing my mother lose respect for him (and she's not stupid). Still, I hope I can be half the man my father was.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 11:47 AM
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To each his own, but you've forgotten the thrill of the chase, my friend. ... if it's not thrilling, you need to find bigger game.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 11:32 AM
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Obviously, I was joking a bit about the intelligence. Yes, you are correct. All domestic animals display some of this ... even humans.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 11:52 PM
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This is true in many species ... within the species, the larger individuals have shorter lives. Perhaps they're more intelligent too ... I can convince myself that a German Shepherd is smarter than a chihuahua.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 11:45 PM
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I know a few girls who would go for that, and some guys who would rather have wine or music ...
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:17 AM
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The main thing is just getting out where there are people. Learning to program: do it in the library or coffee shop (it's a bit more distracting though). Like music: use Google to find out what concerts are in your area, or bars/clubs that have regular live music ... go alone if you have to and remember that you have at least one thing in common with everyone there. Go to the library and ask for help finding a book (even move a book if you need to). Go to a music store and browse the music, if y…
/r/seduction29/12/14 10:34 AM
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This should be in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 10:13 AM
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No, I understand what you mean. I don't care if you break the law, I just want you to abide by the 'social norms' when you're driving near me. I don't want anyone to have a surprise while in control of two tons of steel.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 03:12 PM
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I don't think I've assumed anything about you in particular. You may very well be a much (technically) better driver than I -- probably so, since it's not a skill I've tried to improve, always staying well within my limits, I don't even know where they are. ... Remember that when you're on the road you should stay well within not only your limits, but everyone else's too (if that's possible) -- there is no need to frighten or surprise other motorists. ... Get a motorcycle if you want to wet pant…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 11:59 PM
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Yes, I'm aware (though you reminded me of their existence -- I've been in Europe for too long, maybe). I'm not concerned about people going fast when there is good visibility and no one else around -- the life you take in your hands is your own (and her's). ... Speaking of the yellow signs though, they're usually on curves (poor visibility usually) or where a smaller road intersects a highway -- neither of these is a safe place to speed. Note, you may be perfectly able to control the car around …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 02:32 PM
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Boy Scouts is supposed to be a program to educate boys on how to be men. There is a lot of civic education (important, but overly focused on civic duty rather than rights), moralization (partly-important) and some religiosity (bad) within the program and to some extent it is almost a prep course for military service (not entirely bad). The main motto/slogan (I can't remember the exact terminology) is "Be Prepared" -- and this is a good thing for a man to be. Boy Scouts tries to teach young men h…
/r/seduction23/12/14 12:02 PM
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Don't drive like an ass. You may make a stupid woman's 'gina tingly, but you've lost the respect of every responsible man.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:09 AM
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The most attractive guy I know is me. I've asked the numbers of models in the elevator and got them -- and gone out with them. I sit by myself at parties and girls come to talk to me. I go to a concert and somehow I'm surrounded by women. ... I didn't realize this ten years ago -- I'm also a geek -- and so my "count" is rather low. Edit: Wow, lots of down votes. Not sure if it's because I have the balls tosay II'm the most attractive guy I know or the short format because of mobile. ... Not only…
/r/seduction21/12/14 11:16 PM
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Boils down to this: management and self-reliance. Management of time, money, life, self, people. Self-reliance: cooking, cleaning, transportation ... Don't fall into the trap of thinking you need to do everything for yourself though ... that's where time and people management come in. Pick up an old Boy Scout Handbook.
/r/seduction21/12/14 08:21 PM
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Summary: management and self-reliance.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 03:19 PM
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Navigation How to drive (stick and motorcycle too) Add every form of transportation to that: swimming, running, hiking, boating (both motor and sail) Basic knots How to tie your shoes and tie and scarf How to ski ... basically everything a Boy Scout might know ... but skip the religious stuff. Get a copy of the handbook, especially an older one, and take a look.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 02:40 PM
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While I agree that once a week is okay, with a girl is much better.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 12:45 PM
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To have things to talk about ... do stuff. Travel, go to concerts, eat interesting food, ..., talk about the things that everyone does eating and drinking, music and dancing, clothes, and about what people wish they could do, travel, etc. ... oh, and sex, talk about sex in a light hearted way.
/r/seduction12/12/14 09:39 PM
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That's a laugh. TRP has some wisdom, but to assume I'm not smarter than the sidebar is a stretch.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 10:02 PM
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Yep, I'm glad people didn't say 'Oh yeah, that's so right' for this post, but the fact is that there are many epigenetic factors that we don't understand yet.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:46 PM
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This is good, but the integral gives an s-curve which would be similar to my formulation in the interval we're considering. Frankly, I don't think we use it very consistently anyway.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:28 PM
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I don't see any reason to shit my pants in any case ;-)
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:26 PM
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Yes, we certainly don't use the scale as I stated -- but it's unclear how it's actually used. That's a very specific distribution you have there. Another possibility, as someone else pointed out, is to use the numbers as a measure of standard deviation (assuming a normal distribution). But that doesn't really match actual use either.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:22 PM
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Bullshit. The numbers are a gross and silly oversimplification and there shouldn't be any pedestal, but your oversimplification is even worse.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 03:02 PM
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It's a simple fact that intelligence "peaks" slower than physical ability or looks. Be glad that you won the intelligence lottery rather than the physical one, because intelligence is an asset that can continue to appreciate for a lifetime. The jujitsu is great, along with the conditioning it will give you, it will help you find some confidence. But I suggest you take up a more social hobby as well -- there is a reason so many guys learn how to play the guitar a bit. Basically, learn a "party sk…
/r/seduction08/12/14 10:56 PM
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...I don't think so ... "Science" and "Rationality" is the best I can come up with. ... What follows is rambling. I don't know. There is a fundamental paradox in human life -- that we are capable of reason, "should" have free will, and have rights ... yet, we have evolved from much less rational and mentally free ancestors and have difficulty escaping some of the various mental shortcuts and fallacies that helped them survive and reproduce. I think a similar paradox exists in law: assume a man h…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 11:00 PM
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I've met one model (a university student, mathematics) who was really interesting -- and magnificently beautiful. I really fucked up with her. I won't go into details, but my personal life was fucked at the time. ... Also, she was 20 and me 31 ... still, ... ... She was what made me realize that I'm actually a damn good catch though. But, yeah, a lot of them just want to be seen ... or may be actually paid by the club they often dance at (even if not on stage). Yeah, ... I never talk about TRP n…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:00 PM
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There are many good things TRP can do. But a great deal of what I see here is a vastly oversimplified stereotype of male-female relationships -- correct, but oversimplified. Many of the people here only seem interested the the pussy a woman has (and other holes) -- but I can't really feel attracted to a woman who isn't mentally interesting in some way -- an artist, a linguist, a lawyer, well-travelled, etc. I say this because I've been out with (low-level) models before -- and all they wanted to…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:07 PM
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It's very important to find some hobby to both improve yourself and keep you humble. Sports can work, music, or even a game like chess (go/baduk is even better). I grew up in a very small town, but with the Internet now, anyone can be shown that they're just the biggest fish in a small pond -- and that hard work really is necessary (even if you enjoy the work).
/r/seduction02/12/14 11:31 PM
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That's quite a reply. The corollary is that one should be careful of long-term relationships with girls coming from very conservative cultures -- often the girls from these cultures that one actually meets are the wildest ones.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:04 PM
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Certainly, but over in seduction PUA is, unsurprisingly, seen as the purpose of life ... many of them are still clinging to the validation they get from it. It's a tool, and often a rather blunt one. ... Okay, maybe I'm shitting on it a bit. ... I'm glad you're moving away from the need for external validation, be careful that you remain able to take advice. My advice-- take up a hobby that teaches some humility like chess or go/baduk.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 06:04 PM
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Sometimes this sub swings a little too far over to seduction. Most of them onlyhave short-term goals and wabt hookup tricks ... improve yourself for yourself -- then you are the judge. Have long term career and life goals that don't depend on women. As they say in baduk ... play lightly (with relationships).
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:46 PM
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Related to LTR, look the Optimal Stopping Theory video on bbc ... and check out the Secretary Problem. If one applies this theory -- assuming a man could be 'looking' from 15 to 75 -- the optimal age to really get serious is around 35. Surprised?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:28 PM
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Yes, of course. There are ways to account for that as well -- though I don't think it's developed in the links I gave, and it makes it quite a bit more complicated.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 08:59 PM
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Hadn't thought of that, but yes.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 08:22 PM
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Also, do what you like to do, get good at it, be successful and be a bit social -- a girl will come to you and if you keep your eyes open, you'll notice.
/r/seduction23/11/14 10:47 PM
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How to say this ... if you're very concerned about their rejection, it's not a good thing -- again, you come across as needy. People like to be invited to stuff -- ask them for their numbers so you can invite them to a party/bar with friends, even better if you ask two or three -- you're not "hitting on" a particular one. Some people like to be helpful too, sometimes it's okay to ask their number in case you want help from them. Here's a thought -- practice on guys first. Some guys are interesti…
/r/seduction23/11/14 09:24 PM
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Do you go to them or do they come to you? Speak less, but honestly and with surety. Don't wait until you're friends to ask for a number -- ask for a number the second time you meet them.
/r/seduction23/11/14 04:39 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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